New gf: "I think she's crazy...it's ridiculous that we had to come to court and do all this..." Ummm...no one took YOU to court, little girl. You're the crazy one who felt the need to make an appearance! (Y'all know she didn't trust the defendant alone in Chicago with the ex. 😂😂😂)
She's a special kind of stupid. There's no way I would be that tall, young, and beautiful wasting my time on a bum with 4 kids and 10 years older. She has no idea what she's in for. He is absolutely going to ruin her life on purpose. I feel sorry for her parents I know they are disappointed.
The sad part about this is that these women see dude broke at the beginning & they still get pregnant by him. If I see u broke & lazy but if the sex good I will have fun with u, protect my self. Temporary fun only😂😂
@@misterbee66 YES really. The thought of bringing a child into this world when you’re not capable of taking care of yourself shouldn’t even be a thought! & I’m definitely not having sex, UNPROTECTED sex at that with a man that doesn’t have money.
Sometimes I wonder where are these girls mother's. No way my 18 year old is dating with a 28 year old. At all. No way!! We're not playing those games. She should have not even been in court,he probably did that to annoy the mother of his son. Sheesh.
@@dbabies82I dated a woman that was many years older than me when I was 18/19…was she a predator and only with me for the same reason? Or does that only apply to men that date younger women?
@@nextgenkreations5327 Duh! If you're 18-19yrs old, dating a woman older than 25, then she was a predator, too! 18yrs old are just becoming adults. They are still innocent. Fck with someone your own age, don't go after babies (because I considered teenagers as babies), just because they finally became legal.
Shut up. A MAN should provide for the kids HE creates. Whats wrong with yall sorry muthafukkas? Do men have any responsibility at all??? The woman usually has and takes care of kid...whats the mans job??? To do nothing but whine about women??? Smh. Yall new dudes sorry as hell and might as well turn gay.
@@Md-sz8ys are you reading what was said correctly? She was aware of him having more than one child and she still added herself to the equation by adding another child in addition to the ones he had.
The plaintiff needs to grow up - especially since she's older than he is - and let him see his son w/o expecting to continue to have a sexual relationship with him. 🙄. Get your own relationship, lady, and leave him alone. Let him have his own parenting time with his son while you have your own time to be independent and do your own thing; and if you want to develop a relationship with another man, then make sure he's a healthy, mature, working man who isn't going to take advantage of you. And remember people: Birth control pills and rubbers, especially if you aren't going to have the benefit of marriage, because otherwise you're just being foolish and asking for trouble and possibly bringing children into the world who never asked to be born in the first place. Think before you sleep around without the pill or rubbers. 🤷🏽♀️
Thank you Judge for not letting this woman play victim to sexual "coerced" for lack of a better term. She absolutely wanted sex she wanted to be with him still 100%. Respect is not a word that should be in her vocabulary. Also HE didn't just want the loan. YOU wanted to help him. YOU want this man and are mad he has another girlfriend. Cuter, slimmer. No double chin
Uumm being a desperate woman going through heartbreak so if that was what it took then yes, they both bitter she just got power to break his pockets... but I believe they not over each other
He kept contradicting himself. This biggest one to me: He said she would only allow him to see his child if he slept with her (I'm betting the opposite is true). But then minutes later he said she gave him the loan basically as an incentive to see his child. That means she wanted him to be there for the child, and he wasn't. He is a huge manipulative and liar. He knew how to do his research, trying to lie about her going to his job, bc he knew JM don't play with ghetto behaviors at worksites. And she's an fool because I know once they left that courtroom that the same thing kept happening. She wanted him, too, which is why she kept laying him play games. Now she's mad he wants to claim the other woman and not her.
I’d rather break both legs than EVER loan a man money. There is only one man, I’d loan or give money to and he has given me money and always looks out.
So what you're saying is basically only women have problems and need help from time to time and when a woman needs help it's ok for everyone to help her but if a man needs help he needs to suck it up and just deal with it and don't need to be helped at least from you 🤦🏿♂️ You talking like that, I hope every date you went on you paid for your own meals lol
@@classmassgrass My point is going over your head. She has HIS child he should be giving HER money. She is providing something for him as the mother of HIS child. Again if a man shows you to be in your corner then it’s fine to give him money but I would NEVER give a man who has never done anything for me except add a bill(children are bills) money.
I always find it interesting for the baby fathers to take money from the moms and don’t pay it back regardless of loan or not. You have a child. I also think it is FOOLISH for woman to take money from there child/household to give to a baby father who doesn’t support the child 💯. According to this case $49.00 dollars for support, she is just as wrong for giving him any money. He claims he didn’t ask, probably dry begging…
The plaintiff had a lot of nerve to say the defendants gf had no respect for herself when she is having sex with this dude, knowing (allegedly), that he would only see his son if he has sex with her. So he sees his son and then ya'll have sex... but the defendant has no respect for herself? Lol make that make sense. Judge Mathis is right lol she had a lot of nerve, the audacity to point the finger.
Girlfriend needs to open her eyes and RUN! You should be in college and absolutely not in this mess. Please!!! Bad choices has bad consequences that can bring permanent problems. Do you want to have children with this man???? Look at YOUR future. Please, find a good counselor that can guide you to a better path. Jesus is the answer.
Baby girl in tha pink shirt run , run as fast as you can. Just because he is fine ( to her) doesn't mean he is worth your time & peace. She is 19 yrs old what can you do with/for a man that has 4 kids? I get that the sex & lies are appealing to you. But im begging you as im begging my younger self ,RUN ! RUN! RUN ! PLZ RUN RUN , you deserve so much better than future child support payments that you had nothing to do with. Im so blessed to have gotten out when i did. Plz and thank you !!!!😊😊😊😊❤❤❤😂😂😂
My son know tf better…I wish he might …on everything about this situation…smh..but my baby likes EARNING money and he has a good work ethic like his mama 💅🏾
Why are you 18 dating this man with 4 kids already. She is literally putting herself in a horrible situation.. Also, he contradicted himself about her keeping their child away. He literally stated she asked that he just see his son and she didn’t care about the loan. He can’t keep up with his lies.
The plaintiff is giving bitter baby mama vibes when she said she stopped talking to him when he met the new chick. She was ok with the past cheating and everything until then. He's a sorry father and the young girl gonna learn that after she becomes the next bm.
Chile if the plaintiff wasn't embarrassed enough coming into court to sue a man with 3 kids with whom she had his 4th making loans but can't get but 49 a month child support and community peen from him. Judge took her to the finish line talking about somebody has no respect for themselves. Girl just gone run out of court you deserve to tuck your tail and hide 😫
After The Case, Defendant Witness "I think she's crazy" What? How dare you get involved when you're not. Defendant talked about the harassment again when it was already dismissed, you're not allowed to talk about the dismissed counterclaim & aside from that, you had no evidence of harassment & also the defendant said false comments about the plaintiff. You're not allowed to do that. The plaintiff did nothing wrong, your counterclaim was dismissed without showing evidence.
Why does he only have one job if he has 4 children and steuggling financially. He needs to get another job. His new gf is just stupid adding herself to that equation.
The sad thing is that this kinda nonsense lasts well into adulthood. What’s worse is that most people don’t look like the train wrecks that they are. It starts at home!
28 year old, 5 kids? And no job to take care of the kids. Just wow and a shame this happening in the black community. And this I truly believe is a curse. And I'm a black man btw.
One thing these baby daddies should be forced to do is take their child with them. Why would they need to stay and visit in the mother's house? Such dysfunction there. Go on somewhere 😅Shes silly for even entertaining having sex with her. Just stupid
New gf: "I think she's crazy...it's ridiculous that we had to come to court and do all this..." Ummm...no one took YOU to court, little girl. You're the crazy one who felt the need to make an appearance! (Y'all know she didn't trust the defendant alone in Chicago with the ex. 😂😂😂)
She needs to stay out of it, has nothing to do with her,she'll be next😅
I can't stand when the new gfs feel like their input is necessary,she looks like a dummy trying to defend him,he's for the streets 😂
Facts! 🤦🏾♀️🐸☕️
@@dawniipoo322Judge Judy would have told the new gf her place. She probably would have found a way to kick her out.
Checkmate
He looks like a child she looks like she’s his stepmom or something
Look & sound like it 😂😂😂
Was about to comment something close to the same !!!!😂😮
Hahaha
Black don’t crack and never ages. She looks extremely old.
😂
Dude consistently called it a loan during the case. 😂
Contradiction.
IT was a fk loan if she borrowed the money from somebody! DUH!!!
@@Ayana08SuperStar Of course.
Judge Judy would’ve caught that real quick
The 18 year old girlfriend better run as fast as she can or she will end up one of his baby mothers. 😕
Indeed.
... yes ... that's what she wants anyway .... watch and see ....
@@jacobestevez7570And she's taller. Very important detail
She's a special kind of stupid. There's no way I would be that tall, young, and beautiful wasting my time on a bum with 4 kids and 10 years older. She has no idea what she's in for. He is absolutely going to ruin her life on purpose. I feel sorry for her parents I know they are disappointed.
thats bound to happen, just look who she chose for a bf. she clearly has zero self esteem.
He needs more than 1 job. I don't know when this case took place but now a days, 1 job is not enough. Especially if you have multiple kids.
He a bum
Look at the guy they fighting over though...smh the desperation..
I know...he looks like a child 😂
49 bucks is what a lot of these men pay and complain that you trying to take everything from them 😂😂😂😂
“She’s gonna be in my position” is the most sense she ever made
Couldn’t imagine having a kid with a brokie 😩. “ I was giving her $100 every now & then when I got paid” 🤢
Wow. Really?
The sad part about this is that these women see dude broke at the beginning & they still get pregnant by him. If I see u broke & lazy but if the sex good I will have fun with u, protect my self. Temporary fun only😂😂
You’re miserable girl
@@dawnlee866nah they don’t even deserve that
@@misterbee66 YES really. The thought of bringing a child into this world when you’re not capable of taking care of yourself shouldn’t even be a thought! & I’m definitely not having sex, UNPROTECTED sex at that with a man that doesn’t have money.
Judge Mathis clowning her and she was so lost
The Defendant looks like what you would get after you order Soulja Boi off of Wish 😂😂😂
Lmaooo
😂😂😂😂
Both of these girls were complete idiots to get involved with him, the teenager will find out soon enough😆
She’s still young so atleast has a chance but the plaintiff is a straight idiot 😂
Sometimes I wonder where are these girls mother's. No way my 18 year old is dating with a 28 year old. At all. No way!! We're not playing those games. She should have not even been in court,he probably did that to annoy the mother of his son. Sheesh.
These predators get them young, because they are easier to manipulate and control.
@@dbabies82I dated a woman that was many years older than me when I was 18/19…was she a predator and only with me for the same reason? Or does that only apply to men that date younger women?
@@nextgenkreations5327 Duh! If you're 18-19yrs old, dating a woman older than 25, then she was a predator, too! 18yrs old are just becoming adults. They are still innocent. Fck with someone your own age, don't go after babies (because I considered teenagers as babies), just because they finally became legal.
Thought that was a stud 🥴
Hahaha
Me too! 😂😂😂
Same here! That’s why he’s with these “ Young and clueless” women.
Omg I literally thought, he looks like a lesbian & then I see your comment 😂
He definitely has a little sugar in his tank though, with all of the lip popping. CTFUU
We appreciate there service an commitment in keeping him out of the community. Keep doing what yall doing.😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Exactly 🤣
This young man needs some guidance. 4 children and a girlfriend😑. How does he have time to spend with all of them?
You better ask Nick Cannon for those answers 😂😂
He only taking care of the GF 🤷🏾♀️
He doesn’t 🙄
Guidance? He needs a vasectomy!
Does anyone else cringe when certain people say "sex"😅😅😂
No matter of the drama, she shouldn’t have to pay his tickets period
....if she didn't the sex would stop....and she still wants him....plus there is still the child to visit....
So his defense is that 2 women came together and decided to pay off his tickets as a gift 🤦
No woman can talk about what he doesn’t pay in child support if she sat up there and added another child on her behalf.
What? They only have one kid together
Shut up. A MAN should provide for the kids HE creates. Whats wrong with yall sorry muthafukkas? Do men have any responsibility at all??? The woman usually has and takes care of kid...whats the mans job??? To do nothing but whine about women??? Smh. Yall new dudes sorry as hell and might as well turn gay.
I'm pretty sure she's talking about his other 3 kids
@@Md-sz8ys are you reading what was said correctly? She was aware of him having more than one child and she still added herself to the equation by adding another child in addition to the ones he had.
@@Md-sz8ys knowing child support is a playing field 9/10 times
The plaintiff needs to grow up - especially since she's older than he is - and let him see his son w/o expecting to continue to have a sexual relationship with him. 🙄. Get your own relationship, lady, and leave him alone. Let him have his own parenting time with his son while you have your own time to be independent and do your own thing; and if you want to develop a relationship with another man, then make sure he's a healthy, mature, working man who isn't going to take advantage of you.
And remember people: Birth control pills and rubbers, especially if you aren't going to have the benefit of marriage, because otherwise you're just being foolish and asking for trouble and possibly bringing children into the world who never asked to be born in the first place. Think before you sleep around without the pill or rubbers. 🤷🏽♀️
or masturbate
How’d you decide that she was the one that wanted sex? She’s clearly begging him to see his kid
TRUTH
Thank you Judge for not letting this woman play victim to sexual "coerced" for lack of a better term. She absolutely wanted sex she wanted to be with him still 100%. Respect is not a word that should be in her vocabulary. Also HE didn't just want the loan. YOU wanted to help him. YOU want this man and are mad he has another girlfriend. Cuter, slimmer. No double chin
I totally agree except for the body shaming.
Right because it had nothing to do with looks but the lack of a mind and self respect. That’s what he seems to go for
Uumm being a desperate woman going through heartbreak so if that was what it took then yes, they both bitter she just got power to break his pockets... but I believe they not over each other
Glad I was raised by my mama. She taught me better not to bully others.
The lack of accountability from these two is crazy
He kept contradicting himself. This biggest one to me: He said she would only allow him to see his child if he slept with her (I'm betting the opposite is true). But then minutes later he said she gave him the loan basically as an incentive to see his child. That means she wanted him to be there for the child, and he wasn't.
He is a huge manipulative and liar. He knew how to do his research, trying to lie about her going to his job, bc he knew JM don't play with ghetto behaviors at worksites.
And she's an fool because I know once they left that courtroom that the same thing kept happening. She wanted him, too, which is why she kept laying him play games. Now she's mad he wants to claim the other woman and not her.
$6,300 worth of unpaid tickets & she obtains a loan for him beyond ridiculous!!!!
He 28 and she 18 🥴
@@reeseb8407he clearly found an older woman with his kids’ mother! Dating someone a decade younger is a flag for immaturity / arrested development.
She better RUN from black men! She'll be destroyed real quick and left a single mother preference or no preference!
Wayment. She 18!!!! What! She looks like his mom. 🤦🏾♀️
@@reeseb8407he's not a match with any woman with brains. Women his age ain't giving him the time of day
But yet her old looking self STILL want him 😢
....and getting him...that's why she loaned him the money....and remember they are still having sex....and filming it....
These women swear they be having a prize with these men, until the tables turn 🤦🏾♀️
Why you being a side chick to your baby daddy girl wake up that’s not cute move on just move on and if you got to beg him to see his son don’t bother
....she still wants him....and the sex....
She stopped seeing him when she found out about the girl...were you listening???
When dating during tax season goes wrong
I’d rather break both legs than EVER loan a man money. There is only one man, I’d loan or give money to and he has given me money and always looks out.
🙄
So what you're saying is basically only women have problems and need help from time to time and when a woman needs help it's ok for everyone to help her but if a man needs help he needs to suck it up and just deal with it and don't need to be helped at least from you 🤦🏿♂️
You talking like that, I hope every date you went on you paid for your own meals lol
@@classmassgrass Men are to be providers. Also if a man is any good his friends should help him,
@@LeolaGlamour Ok, got it. Men are providers. Now what are women roles regarding men? And is it applied this day and time?
@@classmassgrass
My point is going over your head. She has HIS child he should be giving HER money. She is providing something for him as the mother of HIS child. Again if a man shows you to be in your corner then it’s fine to give him money but I would NEVER give a man who has never done anything for me except add a bill(children are bills) money.
Judge Mathis called her right out trying to throw dude under the bus😂 not today 🤣🤣🤣
She wouldn’t let you see your son but she paid your debt so you could PICK UP your son. Ok
Not the lil gf clapping 😂😂😂😂
I always find it interesting for the baby fathers to take money from the moms and don’t pay it back regardless of loan or not. You have a child. I also think it is FOOLISH for woman to take money from there child/household to give to a baby father who doesn’t support the child 💯. According to this case $49.00 dollars for support, she is just as wrong for giving him any money. He claims he didn’t ask, probably dry begging…
Why would you want to be a with someone with this kind of drama
A lot of nerve! She like the dusty too!!
They need to get the courts involved.. they’re both immature and crazy
If ppl have to pay their own debt anyway what’s the difference in paying someone back who does it for you?
That's what they're fighting over? Chile
Lol.
😂😂😂
The plaintiff had a lot of nerve to say the defendants gf had no respect for herself when she is having sex with this dude, knowing (allegedly), that he would only see his son if he has sex with her. So he sees his son and then ya'll have sex... but the defendant has no respect for herself? Lol make that make sense.
Judge Mathis is right lol she had a lot of nerve, the audacity to point the finger.
Girlfriend needs to open her eyes and RUN! You should be in college and absolutely not in this mess. Please!!! Bad choices has bad consequences that can bring permanent problems. Do you want to have children with this man???? Look at YOUR future. Please, find a good counselor that can guide you to a better path. Jesus is the answer.
I absolutely believe the defendant because Desire seems super desperate to keep him in her life.
The way she warned the new girl...it doesnt seem like she wants him.
4 kids at 28 wow!!!
BEYOND RIDICULOUS!!!
Baby girl in tha pink shirt run , run as fast as you can. Just because he is fine ( to her) doesn't mean he is worth your time & peace. She is 19 yrs old what can you do with/for a man that has 4 kids? I get that the sex & lies are appealing to you. But im begging you as im begging my younger self ,RUN ! RUN! RUN ! PLZ RUN RUN , you deserve so much better than future child support payments that you had nothing to do with. Im so blessed to have gotten out when i did. Plz and thank you !!!!😊😊😊😊❤❤❤😂😂😂
I thought Tarent Trent D’Arby was a she…y’all are lost 😂
“She has no respect for herself.” 😂 Well if it isn’t the pot..
Yuck! Other kids? Nasty
"Donald insists that rather than be a man, he never promised to repay the mother of his child who solely is caring for him" 😅
I hope the new girlfriend has family in her life who would tell her to RUN
Three Clowns...
The fact that she has to provide transportation in order for him to see his kids, says a lot. About him. And it’s NOT good
My son know tf better…I wish he might …on everything about this situation…smh..but my baby likes EARNING money and he has a good work ethic like his mama 💅🏾
Why are you 18 dating this man with 4 kids already. She is literally putting herself in a horrible situation..
Also, he contradicted himself about her keeping their child away. He literally stated she asked that he just see his son and she didn’t care about the loan. He can’t keep up with his lies.
Crazy people might be crazy a lot but sometimes they're right. Lol
He definitely has a type Latina beckys❤😂🎉😅😊😮😢
He has a type. They’re all crazy
I'm here My Beloved Favorite Judge***ASHAY***
He's gay. And the baby moms last words was the sad truth.
That's right Judge Mathis 👏 call the baby mama out. She's has no respect for herself. The pot calling the kettle Black. 😅
You didn't want to get STDs yet you continue to sleep with him. Not knowing who he was out and about with. Like lets make this make sense here.
Yes we ladies do the dumbest ish. Because that big girl is crazy as hell
This the judge Mathis I like 👏👏 call their asses out!!! up here trying to embarrass but don't realize they allowing this foolishness...
They all a mess
When she said the new gf was 18 he looked at her and started doing that quick math
saying he can have as many kids as he can afford is goofy. he had to be taken to court and ordered to pay the little that he does it appears
This particular case needs an update.
Lol. At the very end. Sister break it down very well to the 18 year lol
Him: "I have four kids and one job."
Sir, get another job or a marketable skill so that you can get a better job and get paid more.
They all deserve each other.
The plaintiff is giving bitter baby mama vibes when she said she stopped talking to him when he met the new chick. She was ok with the past cheating and everything until then. He's a sorry father and the young girl gonna learn that after she becomes the next bm.
Chile if the plaintiff wasn't embarrassed enough coming into court to sue a man with 3 kids with whom she had his 4th making loans but can't get but 49 a month child support and community peen from him. Judge took her to the finish line talking about somebody has no respect for themselves. Girl just gone run out of court you deserve to tuck your tail and hide 😫
Donald better get a DNA test done on that son! Didn't mean to make that rhyme! Lol 🤭🤭🤣🤣🤣
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Tiffany Haddish on the back left behind the plaintiff, does not approve: according to her faces. 😹😹😹
After The Case, Defendant Witness "I think she's crazy" What? How dare you get involved when you're not. Defendant talked about the harassment again when it was already dismissed, you're not allowed to talk about the dismissed counterclaim & aside from that, you had no evidence of harassment & also the defendant said false comments about the plaintiff. You're not allowed to do that. The plaintiff did nothing wrong, your counterclaim was dismissed without showing evidence.
This man is barely giving you support for yall kid, treating you like crap but you giving him kitty kat AND loaning him money??? smh
Jesus I don’t know who was worse. She was annoying and he can still make babies
Um, Judge Mathis only having $49 a month to give to each child is not “having as many kids as you can afford”.
This whole case is a mess
He clearly owes...he made payments he stopped when she told on him lol
Isn’t he a sassy one 😂🎉farts glitter
this is a boy not man and he to short… and why he keep having kidsss she needs run 🏃🏾♀️ the new girlfriend…. 5th bm
Get they ass together judge
28 w/4 kids and 1 job 😂😂 I guess
The baby moms stuck on dude . she still wants him
messy!! 😬😬
I thought defendant was a stud 😂 thats what made me watch it
You couldn’t see your kid cause you didn’t have a license? That’s BS! 18 year old, get your ass up outta there!
Not smart ladies.
I hope the plaintiff learned her lesson.
Why does he only have one job if he has 4 children and steuggling financially. He needs to get another job. His new gf is just stupid adding herself to that equation.
Congrats on the upgrade bruh
😂
They both look the same...just a before he wrecks you version and an after he wrecks you version
Chile! Y is they even messing around he look like he was using her like they look so mismatched. Like ughhhh it’s always one of them
Was the new girlfriend under the influence???🤔
Possibly or special needs.
Very sad😢
18 year better listen to what she says. Years from now if she stays she's going to look back and think about this case
Smh 😂
The sad thing is that this kinda nonsense lasts well into adulthood. What’s worse is that most people don’t look like the train wrecks that they are. It starts at home!
He's definitely using them
28 year old, 5 kids? And no job to take care of the kids. Just wow and a shame this happening in the black community. And this I truly believe is a curse. And I'm a black man btw.
18 year olds are usually a lot more gullible than 10 or 20 years older.
One thing these baby daddies should be forced to do is take their child with them. Why would they need to stay and visit in the mother's house? Such dysfunction there. Go on somewhere 😅Shes silly for even entertaining having sex with her. Just stupid