I messed up bad I was drinking and pushing her away but I happened to see her today and I maybe haven’t gotten everything right but the motivation I had I think made a major impact
My dismissive avoidant ex dumped me suddenly in January and I’ve been no contact since then. I just found out last week that she was monkey branching whilst still with me and cheated on me. I’ve lost 27 kilos, bought my first house and getting a puppy. At this point I don’t care but if she ever did reach out I actually wouldn’t want her back. Why would I want someone who didn’t choose me? I’ve stayed single, done the work, she didn’t. I don’t care if her relationship works or doesn’t work out, I wish her well.
I messed up bad I was drinking and pushing her away but I happened to see her today and I maybe haven’t gotten everything right but the motivation I had I think made a major impact
My dismissive avoidant ex dumped me suddenly in January and I’ve been no contact since then. I just found out last week that she was monkey branching whilst still with me and cheated on me. I’ve lost 27 kilos, bought my first house and getting a puppy. At this point I don’t care but if she ever did reach out I actually wouldn’t want her back. Why would I want someone who didn’t choose me? I’ve stayed single, done the work, she didn’t. I don’t care if her relationship works or doesn’t work out, I wish her well.
She showed you who she was, plus you lost 55 pounds. Blessings come in unexpected packages sometimes.