Why a Black Man Should Stop Dating In The U.S.🇺🇸

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  • Опубликовано: 27 окт 2024

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  • @Bravefit
    @Bravefit 2 года назад +1604

    Damn. This confirms everything I’ve thought and experienced myself. No homo but this dude physically is everything that women say they want - and yet even he is having problems. Guys get your money up, get your passports, and let’s leave this shit hole.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +220

      Facts man

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 2 года назад +398

      On God, I’m 6’5 with muscles and a somewhat defined 6 pack, I made 80k last year, in America I was getting 8s and 7s but I moved overseas and bagged a chick that most my friends say is a super model 10 out of 10, in a week + she more feminine than the 8’s I was dealing with back in America
      It’s better for every American guy,
      Short, tall, chubby, ripped, black, white
      GET YOUR PASSPORTS✈️

    • @karenc7616
      @karenc7616 2 года назад +79

      Yes, I can’t believe he has went through this for the same reason. Things are really bad for y’all. I’m so sorry. 😩

    • @Sharpswordherald
      @Sharpswordherald 2 года назад +18

      @@clairvoyantcrypto4577 what country did you move to

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 2 года назад +51

      @@Sharpswordherald I’m pretty mobile but I met my morrocan girlfriend In Italy,

  • @zecharyahnoahisrael5017
    @zecharyahnoahisrael5017 2 года назад +1128

    This is sad when every man noticing this about females in the U.S.😒🤨🤔. And to think I have three sons and they have to go through this smh. Hell I might gotta take them over there so they can bring me back a good daughter-in-law. 🤦🏾‍♂️.

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 2 года назад +105

      I have a son as well and worry about this with him. When he turns 16 I plan to get him a passport.

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 2 года назад +1

      You forgot about other westernized countries like Canada 🇨🇦 and the United Kingdom 🇬🇧. There are horror stories with women too.

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 2 года назад +29

      @@jaws2003 great idea

    • @Treating-World-Love
      @Treating-World-Love 2 года назад +1

      @@jaws2003 Feminism has destroyed western society. Woman here are confused and crazy......

    • @kumarcollins585
      @kumarcollins585 2 года назад +87

      Never bring them back bro. Better to spend time in her element and make moves there.

  • @ucheeke5110
    @ucheeke5110 2 года назад +221

    I'm Nigerian, I was in shock when my Nigerian Friend in the US claimed he hadn't been with a woman in 3 years. None of us said much about it, but it got to me, in fact it was one of the reasons I decided not to do my masters there. Another thing is the horrible culture of women who are men, and men who are women. A complete and utter institution of madness and insanity.

    • @Odogwubeats
      @Odogwubeats Год назад +32

      Brother when I talk to Nigeria overseas and they ask me why I’m not married yet, I simply tell them that women here in the US are insane they can’t believe it.

    • @MrPrettyBoyChina
      @MrPrettyBoyChina Год назад

      You made the right decision. The women are are horrible.

    • @DoubleStudentLoans
      @DoubleStudentLoans Год назад +4

      @@Odogwubeats both of you are correct

    • @Pluto-kk6pd
      @Pluto-kk6pd Год назад +7

      I'm in the United States and been friend with a Nigerian woman for years she beautiful and I like her personality she has a crush on me I was thinking about opening up for a relationship but how are the women out there

    • @antoniomari2730
      @antoniomari2730 Год назад +4

      @@Pluto-kk6pd well look, I know few Nigerians,, there are, of course, the good people and bad people everywhere, in general, they are more humble..

  • @Bankrollprimo
    @Bankrollprimo 2 года назад +289

    Everything said in the video is 100% facts. I would also add that dating here in the US makes you feel so expendable/disposable. Even if you meet a girl, date, smash, have a relationship, it’s just a matter of time before she drops you for the next dude.
    I read somewhere a dude wrote “Dating in the US is like interviewing for a job you’re probably not going to get.”

    • @charaznable9209
      @charaznable9209 2 года назад +19

      It's like an interview for a temporary job you know is only going to last a few weeks at best, only if you get hired you're not allowed to go look for other jobs until you get laid off or fired without justification.

    • @qjtvaddict
      @qjtvaddict 2 года назад +1

      The culture is like that and it’s beyond dating

    • @sirtype-alot3391
      @sirtype-alot3391 2 года назад +3

      And if you DO get the job,it's really only a "Temp" Job (2 to 4 Months)

    • @howlingtitan8397
      @howlingtitan8397 Год назад

      It's 💯 True! It happened with me talking to a 25 year old and 33 year old..... not worth it whatsoever

    • @jdjoja
      @jdjoja Год назад +1

      ​@thedarkphotographer2743 Shiiiit! That's the most plausible and scientific explanation I have heard ever! Man I can't tell you how much hearing that means to me! Because I look for the scientific explanation for everything and had not come across anything that would stick until I read what you said jus now! FrFr!

  • @YellowSubCaptain
    @YellowSubCaptain 2 года назад +96

    Dating american women is literally a game not worth playing. As a 27 year old man I’ve learn this very quickly. Don’t plan on marrying an American woman at all.

    • @Grei51
      @Grei51 9 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@jasonjr376 welcome to Africa

    • @Type-VoidNil
      @Type-VoidNil 4 месяца назад

      ​@@Grei51.welcome to across the fucking Atlantic. U.S. is finished

    • @Grei51
      @Grei51 4 месяца назад +1

      @@Type-VoidNil I see

  • @christendenise220
    @christendenise220 2 года назад +799

    I'm a 47 year old married woman, I work with single ladies 27ish, 32ish. I watch them play these dating games, one said, "If he seems to have interest in me then I'm gonna treat him like shit, he better be on my time..but yet I don't want a beta male" the other said, "yeah I'll make plans to go out with him but if he doesn't text me before we go out, I'll flake and just vanish" yet both of them desire to be in a relationship and they can't understand why it's not happening for them. The games are off the chart...

    • @allenlevelle
      @allenlevelle 2 года назад +41

      No...my time is precious.... I don't relate to someone else's time!!!! It's either yes or no. I only relate if is business that we both could prosper. Point. Blank. Period.

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 2 года назад +40

      The mindset of the great majority of American girls is appalling and I don't waste my time. Like one of best friends said, a few years ago when I was ranting about the pick of females I have to choose from, "the way they think is just stupid!" Yes, their way of thinking is very irritating and contradictory. Perfect examples you shared! They say they want a relationship but look at the silly and immature games they are playing.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 2 года назад +1

      i treat american women like a man.. call them hey man whats up.. hows it going bro! lol

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo 2 года назад +61

      Now y’all know what we go through. Y’all don’t date women, a lot of this 304s be mentally ill. Just straight headache and bills. Sisters be the worst too. Annoying asf. A lot of women want to be with men, but they severely hate them. Weird asf.

    • @jaha777jaha6
      @jaha777jaha6 2 года назад +1

      Doesn't sound like female games anymore...mn could tolerate that.... this is just stupidity and gynocratic B's ... totally unattractive and wmn shouldn't get anywhere with that kind of behavior...

  • @hankhession7519
    @hankhession7519 2 года назад +352

    I had a woman ask me “what do you mean by feminine” when I told her I want a feminine woman…. Here is the problem

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +56

      😂😂

    • @raymelleonardo7149
      @raymelleonardo7149 2 года назад +48

      Facts same happned to me i lost my mind and said u know what it best we part ways im good

    • @kitejohnson515
      @kitejohnson515 2 года назад +14

      @@raymelleonardo7149 you should tell her what you mean

    • @marsmasterpiece1691
      @marsmasterpiece1691 2 года назад +6

      Facts bro

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 2 года назад

      @@raymelleonardo7149 good for you just getting on that “insta get rid of feminazi booger” mode. The real ones are out of these westernized pit holes such as Amerikkka 🇺🇸 Kkkanada 🇨🇦 and United Kkkingdom UK 🇬🇧

  • @StrategikMedia
    @StrategikMedia 2 года назад +606

    I feel this dude. I been stopped dating in the U.S. I never understood this idea of "pretend you aren't interested" to get these girls out here. And it works! But here's the thing, When I pretend I'm not interested, I end up not being interested!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +83

      Facts bro

    • @martelprayer416
      @martelprayer416 2 года назад +33

      @@AustonHolleman Hey bruh you bout to blow. I started sharing your videos with five of my homes and they all subscribed to your channel immediately.

    • @terfdale
      @terfdale 2 года назад

      bruh how thw fuck do i pretend im not interested when i am interested, this shit is so stupid bruh it actually makes no sense but thats what you need to do

    • @raheemcamal998
      @raheemcamal998 2 года назад +1

      Facts

    • @raheemcamal998
      @raheemcamal998 2 года назад +2

      @@AustonHolleman fr man an tired of the bullshxt , i just want to be true and honest

  • @jaydaburton1087
    @jaydaburton1087 2 года назад +125

    It really sucks I even had to stop being friends with other women like this at 21 years old. I dress and act feminine naturally because that’s what I like and gravitate to and I’m called soft or weak by other women my age. I normally just make friends with older women at church and such but I hope they learn and change soon because this generation of women is going to realize what they’re doing when it’s too late to have a family or too old for the men they set they want. 😕

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +30

      God has blessed you

    • @aboy3064
      @aboy3064 2 года назад +7

      Won’t be my problem, as a man I am currently moving heaven and Earth in hopes to be able to have a family.

    • @abdirahman292
      @abdirahman292 2 года назад +9

      Get married young so the man knows he got you at your best and not when you played the field.

    • @HarryJohnson69
      @HarryJohnson69 Год назад +2

      Stay exactly with the values you have. I wish you a wonderful life because you’ve escaped the matrix. Well done

    • @kevindiaz3035
      @kevindiaz3035 Год назад +1

      You will likely have to find a man out of the country . American men talk down on modern women , but modern men are no prize either.

  • @Rocky-life518
    @Rocky-life518 Год назад +49

    Dating in America 🇺🇸 is horrible for average men who work 5 to 9.

    • @andrewevans7992
      @andrewevans7992 Год назад +13

      Even if you have millions they expect expensive shit 24/7 and it still not good enough

    • @prettykenny109
      @prettykenny109 Год назад

      @@andrewevans7992 Hello 👋

    • @Type-VoidNil
      @Type-VoidNil 4 месяца назад +2

      Facts no kids. 130k yearly 4 languages trying grasp 6 almost don't with biochem degree and a small business....I get cooked just as bad as the pizza guy. Probably more

    • @tristan583
      @tristan583 3 месяца назад

      It’s worst if you’re rich , you will find much trouble

    • @johnccc27
      @johnccc27 3 месяца назад +2

      Its 9 to 5 haha

  • @Jwebb-zh9gj
    @Jwebb-zh9gj 2 года назад +607

    I’m from DC (black male) and happened to stumble across a random Japanese girl on the subway in Brooklyn NY (talking about Japanese/Japanese not Asian American). Somehow I convinced her to give me her number. I never smashed but she was the most feminine/friendly human being I have ever known. Unfortunately NYC ruined her, plus I found out she had a thing for thugs. That lifestyle did end up getting the best of her unfortunately. But before all that she used to tell me, “Jamal-san, you have to visit Japan 🇯🇵”. Which I did first chance I got, thanks to her. I ended up staying in Japan for 6 years and now have a Japanese wife who’s just as friendly if not friendlier than my old friend (been married 15 years come this November). We have 2 children who both have dual citizenship. Wife has expressed to both of them that she wants both of them with Japanese wives, not western. Not even Asian-American. I have to say I completely agree. We all talk about the degenerate feminist culture in America. It’s a shame what things have come to.🤦🏾‍♂️ But I can’t help but feel I dodged a bullet

    • @harvest2630
      @harvest2630 2 года назад

      The only problem with Japanese woman is that if she decides to take your children from you & stay in Japan, you'll have no rights to your children so stay in Japan till they're out of their teens. The Family Courts in Japan are psychotic but that's all due to American control even in Japan.

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj 2 года назад +32

      @@harvest2630 Our kids are both in high school, here in the states, thinking about what college they want to go to. They’re almost that age when they can make their own decisions about life in general and women. I’m just hoping that they listened to their mother (and I) and observed how she carried herself in the household. That’s all I ask. To be honest I guess I should be thankful, I never had to deal with the things I’m hearing from other men. My marriage has been smooth sailing for 15 years, although anything is possible. There’s always risks when dealing with foreign women. Japanese Court system is different from ours for sure. Another interesting thing to note is that child support is not enforced in Japan.

    • @harvest2630
      @harvest2630 2 года назад +20

      @@Jwebb-zh9gj Glad things have worked out. Got a brother who lives over there who fled US with Japanese wife after issues with child protective services here. Unfortunately, child protective service representative had no idea how nearly IMPOSSIBLE it is to get a child back from Japan which is why some American Japanese mothers flee to Japan.

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj 2 года назад +1

      @@technoloverish Sir/Mam, what the hell are you talking about?

    • @Kyubii01
      @Kyubii01 2 года назад

      Bro it’s not just immigrant women. America will ruin immigrant men . Because when we come from another country we still get disciplined like we were still back home but eventually a kid will see how their “friends” don’t get disciplined and start rebelling . They will be corrupted in the places/times a parent can’t be there due to work. And they will go from polite and courteous to wannabe American but more exaggerated because they have never acted like that

  • @waj4ever16
    @waj4ever16 2 года назад +402

    Bruh. IT's not until you leave the United States do you realize how effed up our dating situation is. Like what? How did we manage to mess up what should be natural for us? Men are supposed to be with women. Period. And we gotta concoct all these strategies, games all while trying to avoid getting ruined in the end by divorce court. I agree brother. I lived in Colombia for 3 1/2 years and it's totally different. The stock factory girl in Colombia is soft, feminine, wants to take care of you, cooks and cleans, understands her role in the relationship, is family-oriented and has wanted to be a mother all her life. Fellas, get your passport and be gone out the USA as this place is not conducive towards fostering long-term, healthy family relationships.

    • @JohnDoe-pd4jo
      @JohnDoe-pd4jo 2 года назад

      We gave women toomuch power and freedom. It’s all our fault, to the point where a woman could tell a simple lie and destroy a man’s life, that is absolutely insane. Men of the past were on to something, it is us who’s catching up to female nature. Women do not handle power justly.

    • @technoloverish
      @technoloverish 2 года назад +3

      Not necessarily. Some men are gay and some women are lesbian. Not every man and woman is into the opposite gender. Sounds like what you want is essentially a country that's a Christian theocracy or something similar

    • @economiccrisis9267
      @economiccrisis9267 2 года назад +68

      @@technoloverish he's not addressing the 🌈🌈🌈 crowd so your argument is irrelevant.

    • @brownpapi2634
      @brownpapi2634 2 года назад

      @@technoloverish TF are you talking about with ya out of left field ass comment. Obviously his message was addressed to STRAIGHT men. Did the rainbow mafia pay you to crowbar that comment on this channel? Wtf

    • @jujubeanzzz5413
      @jujubeanzzz5413 2 года назад +6

      That Columbian woman was hungry and needed a green card.

  • @kemetazubuike8958
    @kemetazubuike8958 2 года назад +396

    I’m at this point as well. I’m tired of dating here in the states. We build ourselves up to be in the top 10% and we get women who are not fit, feminine, nor friendly. Also, they don’t bring nothing but ran thru cat. No skills to keep a man, no anything. Not worth it.

    • @camden336
      @camden336 2 года назад +36

      Exactly.

    • @enigma-yu4jo
      @enigma-yu4jo 2 года назад +37

      Exactly!! Women don’t bring anything to the table. It’s the almost Jedi mind trick

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 года назад +12

      It isn’t a woman’s job to ‘keep a man’. Women leave men more it’s men that cannot ‘keep’ women. Perhaps ask yourself why. It’s isn’t women running out of the country to get laid. It’s y’all 😂😴

    • @kemetazubuike8958
      @kemetazubuike8958 2 года назад +78

      @@gailainsley6939 you’re in a mens space arguing with us. You are part of the problem.

    • @camden336
      @camden336 2 года назад

      @@gailainsley6939 why are you in our space? And you think it's about getting laid lol..dummy

  • @Sagefrakrobatik
    @Sagefrakrobatik 2 года назад +75

    My biggest pet peeve is having my time wasted. I'd rather have a woman tell me she isnt interested or attracted to me then have her ghost me 4 months later because she is afraid of "confrontation"

  • @gerardlead9321
    @gerardlead9321 2 года назад +62

    I’m 6’2, I have a v-taper (almost 6 pack abs), 6 figure income, drive a car with a v6 engine (Lexus), own my own home. Have a master’s degree; and my lack of responses from text messages and flakes have also increased. Any guy that says his lack of responses from texts and flakes have not increased is lying his ass off or not in the game anymore like these 90s PUAs. I don’t care what he says.

    • @chiragpatel849
      @chiragpatel849 2 года назад +18

      Same man I’m a 6 foot male, decent looking guy, dress good and make decent money. Attracting females isn’t the problem, these women just love to play games. It’s like they just want validation? why would you give me your number if you weren’t interested lol.

    • @highstakes1235
      @highstakes1235 2 года назад +15

      Same, 6’4 former paratrooper in British Army good shape and dark looks, six figures and got flaked on massively. Gave up dating western women and met my Singaporean gf, four years in and going strong

    • @1tarikross161
      @1tarikross161 2 года назад +10

      you’re too over-qualified for these women. You make them feel insecure w/o trying. They dont know how to compliment you.

    • @BrandynMilam
      @BrandynMilam 2 года назад +9

      @@1tarikross161 you talking that real shit right here

    • @MarcFun
      @MarcFun 2 года назад

      Same here, i couldn't;t find an average woman who weighs less than me despite being much shorter in 10 years...

  • @SoWestMeetsEast
    @SoWestMeetsEast 2 года назад +284

    I resigned from dating in the U.S. last year. Even ran it by my therapist just to make sure it wasn't mental health related. I'm planning a trip to Okinawa for a tournament and plan on meeting old school ladies 😊

    • @goiufro
      @goiufro 2 года назад +11

      Bro, enjoy that!!

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 2 года назад +8

      Enjoy that and cherish it too. Look at the living there as well to get out of the American 🇺🇸 cesspool.
      God bless.

    • @Alejo__
      @Alejo__ 2 года назад +3

      Therapist ?????

    • @SoWestMeetsEast
      @SoWestMeetsEast 2 года назад

      @@Alejo__ Mental health professional. Like a counselor.

    • @ddg0907
      @ddg0907 2 года назад

      I heard Japanese girls are hard to get to know and mold mainly with Japanese men, they’re very homogenous. Just go anywhere else besides USA, CAN, & UK.

  • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
    @mrdacusthenavigator4989 2 года назад +186

    Don't feel bad, young Brother. I'm in my mid 40's and stopped going out on dates in the USA years ago. I just work, save and live it up when I'm overseas

    • @franklinbrandon5283
      @franklinbrandon5283 2 года назад +25

      Exactly.... I don't even waste my time lol ...

    • @Kenny-Ross
      @Kenny-Ross 2 года назад +27

      That's me. I decided to not give dating any energy in the US like 17 years ago. I only meet girls when I travel. I turned 40 back in December and I have an upcoming trip to Colombia and making plans to stay there.The pick of girls in this country is horrendous. Especially in California!

    • @DONJULIJUVY718
      @DONJULIJUVY718 2 года назад

      @@jxsilicon9 i gotta say between miami houston or nyc ( my hometown) women are out of line

    • @asianstud7
      @asianstud7 2 года назад

      Bout to do the same thing bro.

    • @raymondojo4130
      @raymondojo4130 2 года назад

      @Taqeem Hilton FACTS,

  • @jaws2003
    @jaws2003 2 года назад +448

    I'm 37 and that insecurity follows them when they get older they want to "confess" that they knew who the good men were they just wanted something else. As a man that's traveled overseas I will say the feminine hygiene is 100x better. I'm glad more younger men are waking up. The dating scene is horrible from the bottom to the top.

    • @NumbaOne
      @NumbaOne 2 года назад +48

      Yup every older women ik remembers that one guy

    • @jaws2003
      @jaws2003 2 года назад +32

      @@NumbaOne or several of them. Lol.

    • @clairvoyantcrypto4577
      @clairvoyantcrypto4577 2 года назад +54

      “Horrible from the bottom to the top”
      That’s so true, the 2’s think their 6’s and the 9’s think their goddesses who break all scales
      But in all fairness simps have a big role to play in this

    • @shorts26
      @shorts26 2 года назад +18

      They know the truth they just have to lie about it so more will try to save them...this should be common knowledge no full fledged adult doesn't know what they're doing even teens and young adults make the decisions they want to regardless if it's to their detriment or not

    • @Treating-World-Love
      @Treating-World-Love 2 года назад +5

      @@NumbaOne I just find it with Wokism and Feminism it’s out of control.

  • @TheRealest127
    @TheRealest127 2 года назад +57

    These comments is Crazy! 😂 I never thought I’d see the day when BM and BW would be this divided. But I guess we can thank Feminism, Social media and Dating Apps for that. Those 3 things made BW feel like Average, Hardworking BM were “Beneath” them and now here we are. The Brothers are leaving the US. And honestly? I don’t Blame them. Ain’t no love for us Here anymore. The Enemy got what they always wanted. Us to Hate each other. Maybe in the next life we’ll get it right. But until then? ✈️🤴🏾💶✌🏾

    • @prettykenny109
      @prettykenny109 Год назад

      Hello 🤩👋

    • @BRlGADE_KINGPIN
      @BRlGADE_KINGPIN 6 месяцев назад

      Nothing wrong with Black women.
      It’s American Black women that are toxic.

  • @sauce2371
    @sauce2371 2 года назад +244

    I’m glad I discovered you man. I literally stopped dating and having sex here in U.S. because of all of the damn bullshit. My experiences of having foreigner friends and relationships were the healthiest and also the easiest relationships I have ever had compared to American women. The past year I’ve been working on my money so I can renounce my citizenship and stretch my dollar elsewhere. It makes me feel less lonely knowing individuals have this perspective of reality and to learn this topic is growing.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +41

      That’s exactly why I make this content, to validate that people like you and I aren’t crazy

    • @robertcamble3543
      @robertcamble3543 2 года назад +12

      @@AustonHolleman Nuff respect to see a young man who see women for what they really are.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +5

      @@robertcamble3543 thanks man!

    • @jamesbond-xl3xs
      @jamesbond-xl3xs 2 года назад +22

      You don't have to renounce your citizenship. I would go for dual citizenship. You can be a citizen of multiple countries. That US passport has financial value to you that you may want to tap into on some level in the future. I would advise you to keep it. No sense in getting rid of it. Also, if you have family in the US that you wanna see, it will be easier to travel to and from the US that way.

    • @arlandoamb6754
      @arlandoamb6754 2 года назад +1

      I agree with you bro 👏🏿👏🏿💯

  • @officialbrothernu
    @officialbrothernu 2 года назад +207

    @austonholleman Brother it’s crazy that you have this all figured out at age 23. You saved yourself years of headache and bullshit . Keep helping younger men get the better options that exists 👊🏾💪🏾

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +31

      Thanks man💪🏾 I observe and notice habits all the time

    • @MockeryManor
      @MockeryManor 2 года назад +4

      @@Humble_Legend Yup…me too. At least I’m single and free now though. Nothing beats serenity.

    • @Humble_Legend
      @Humble_Legend 2 года назад +3

      @@MockeryManor Amen brother!

    • @djg4781
      @djg4781 11 месяцев назад

      100% this. I didn’t start to figure this out until I was 30. Very smart man.

  • @jaymal82
    @jaymal82 2 года назад +101

    Bruh dating in the US is a waist of time brothers should be trying to build different sources of income so they can stay in their country of choice for long periods of time and PS "DON'T BRING THEM BACK!!!!"

    • @immaculatemal1379
      @immaculatemal1379 2 года назад +6

      Yall make that sound easy lol. How do you just pick up and leave to another country where you don't even speak the language 🤔. I'm an owner op driver that makes over 100k. I make money in the U.S. taking trips is expensive and you're losing money on vacation each day... not saying you're wrong but it just doesn't seem realistic.

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 2 года назад

      @@immaculatemal1379 if you lazy about your future than stay where the hell you at and keep complaining than

    • @ShandaP018
      @ShandaP018 2 года назад +4

      Waste*

    • @brianb6415
      @brianb6415 2 года назад

      @@immaculatemal1379 It's a knee jerk reaction but it's not as simple as they are trying to make it seem.

    • @Username_647
      @Username_647 2 года назад +1

      @@immaculatemal1379 You also forget that things are cheaper in some countries abroad.

  • @blackronin5578
    @blackronin5578 2 года назад +83

    Facts I’m with u 1000% I don’t want nothing in the USA, I’m stacking up n getting out of here once I’m established 💯💯💯

  • @dollarchange2917
    @dollarchange2917 2 года назад +54

    So much truth. I’m at number 5 right now and everything women get “turned off” by is them simply projecting their insecurities. It’s utterly disgusting

  • @angeloaag
    @angeloaag 2 года назад +45

    You literally just summed my life up, I’ve been planning on leaving since I was 12 years old. I’ve had enough of these evil women. It shouldn’t be a numbers game or some kind of dumb game. I can’t even look or talk to women like people anymore, from all the bs I’ve had to deal with. I literally almost lost my mind, until I did something crazy, then I reset and I’m moving forward working on myself.

    • @angeloaag
      @angeloaag 2 года назад +3

      I’m 26 now I just started understanding this year

    • @Lonelyahk30
      @Lonelyahk30 2 года назад +4

      Bro u are so on point

  • @Schoolboy-Q
    @Schoolboy-Q 2 года назад +122

    Sir, you just gained me as a follower. I was married to a woman that wanted to be the man and woman of our marriage. I had to leave her alone. The sad part is that I tried to make it work.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +40

      Never “make it work” it’s always a waste of time! Been there. Thanks for following💪🏾

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 2 года назад

      Hopefully you don’t have kids with that person

    • @ram76921
      @ram76921 2 года назад +4

      I don't understand why people think like this? A relationship and especially a family has both patriarchal and matriarch positions and roles, women that demean men especially in a relationship in public, not good, drop em

    • @bodysnatcher9109
      @bodysnatcher9109 2 года назад

      I can't stand women like that

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and a romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @herculesh1907
    @herculesh1907 2 года назад +84

    This dude show will grow rapidly...he talks about the hardcore truth that dating coaches refuse to tell you.

    • @jqight740
      @jqight740 2 года назад +1

      We need to protect him so he can shut these MLM method Dating Coaches oops I mean Hoaxes down.
      Cold Approach in toxic biased mass shooting chaos doesn’t work and you waste time along with the bars and clubs in Amerikkka USA 🇺🇸

  • @lifeofenergy1282
    @lifeofenergy1282 2 года назад +190

    I am a woman with island roots, thankfully it still shows to this day a lot of traditional values! I don't even have close female "friends" because of reasons that are similar to what you are saying in terms of hygiene, fitness etc. I decided it is important to be VERY selective on friendships especially the direction things are going with lack of respect for taking up my time to hangout when they are on their phones. I encourage guys to date outside the US and my guy is from another country as well!

    • @DanielJesusObsessedFit
      @DanielJesusObsessedFit 2 года назад +21

      It's sad because I'm jamaican and American mentality has got into the black women of Jamaica. I'm looking to go to Africa for a black wife. These women love good black man and really want to please and serve you well. Also they are more godly than most Jamaican girls

    • @lifeofenergy1282
      @lifeofenergy1282 2 года назад +9

      @@DanielJesusObsessedFit yes I hear its not just Americans being crazy with the feminism, its going overseas and the men are not happy. It's fine I am sure with time people will realize they need to fix the next generation.

    • @DanielJesusObsessedFit
      @DanielJesusObsessedFit 2 года назад +4

      @@lifeofenergy1282 that's true, i see it a little change.

    • @Ali.A234
      @Ali.A234 2 года назад +12

      You guys put period blood in food to keep a man, please.

    • @Nyyduhh
      @Nyyduhh 2 года назад +3

      Girl stand up

  • @leonblack7637
    @leonblack7637 2 года назад +44

    This man is 23 and already years ahead of most of us. Great perspective.

    • @magnetcrusher1193
      @magnetcrusher1193 9 месяцев назад

      I found my wife in Colombia when I was 25, that was 15 years ago when it was rather unique. Now it is very common, seems like 1/5 men have a foreign wife now.

    • @blacklyfe5543
      @blacklyfe5543 4 месяца назад

      So what? Who cares life is not a race its a journey.

  • @bellgreenrose
    @bellgreenrose 2 года назад +53

    When I joined the military I had the opportunity to travel and then more on my own. There is truth to what you say. Westernized women are raised so differently. Honestly, especially as a black man in America, you get treated so much better when you leave the country. I love my people but when it comes to dating and marriage, way too many women moving like men. I'm happy I'm now married to my wife who's from overseas and I highly suggest men travel and see how much love you receive from women not with the westernized mindset.

    • @fireinjunred
      @fireinjunred 2 года назад

      Did you bring her from overseas or move over there?

    • @bellgreenrose
      @bellgreenrose 2 года назад

      @@fireinjunred I met her during my time in her country but she was already coming to the U.S for travel. Once she came I didn’t let her leave and 3 years later here we are.

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and not very romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @Ben-Ken
    @Ben-Ken 2 года назад +169

    And this is coming from a guy that is fit, not ugly, and fairly well spoken. Imagine the hell average guys go through. I'm glad I didn't have to go through the online dating nonsense when I was younger.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +26

      Thanks man! Yea exactly the shits crazy

    • @shawnmiller2182
      @shawnmiller2182 2 года назад +40

      Same, I’m fit, make good money, fairly good looking and charismatic. I thought that if Improved myself even more my options would be Insane. More of what happens is the sabotaging and being used for validation. They know they won’t fair well with good looking men that have standards so they say “well I can at least get something out of this by turning him down and bragging to my friends about it”. That’s why they often ask for your Instagram and Snapchat instead of exchanging numbers, it’s social proof that can be screenshot and shared for more validation instead of actual plans.

    • @Garyallen55
      @Garyallen55 2 года назад +6

      @@AustonHolleman Auston we gotta learn Portuguese and get us an online job!!!🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷

    • @ahlui
      @ahlui 2 года назад +12

      @@shawnmiller2182 that's why I don't have none of those apps anymore if she can't exchange numbers then I know what type of time she's on and she's not interested 🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @ridge7524
      @ridge7524 2 года назад

      Same can be said about women which is why all races of women ,including black women are doing the very same thing.They have been for awhile.Way more to a suitable partner than looks and money and games but go off. Find what you want.Women and men dont have time for foolishness💎

  • @immaculatemal1379
    @immaculatemal1379 2 года назад +80

    Your age stuck out with me because that's probably where 40% of your issues with American women stems from. When I was your age I still looked like a 18yr old boy lol. I could only imagine what it would be like now in the social media age. I hear you why waste your life waiting until you get 35/40 to get respect. Yall youngsters have all the information use it to your advantage because you're already 10 steps ahead of the game than we were.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +12

      Thanks for understanding bro

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 2 года назад +12

      Yeah they are going to be good to go just don't focus on dating or relationships in this country just focus on your paper fellas , these younger guys are going to pioneer the future

  • @rayonhughes6696
    @rayonhughes6696 2 года назад +128

    Damn, I cannot be mad at you, my man! Everything you said about the American woman in this segment is 100 percent true. I'm 51 years old and I am a 30-year retired Army Veteran. I just retired in April 2020, and I was stationed overseas on several occasions, and I loved it! My favorite place was Cairo, Egypt. My goodness, they love us man. You don't have to deal with all this stupid shit these women in America put you through. I regret not staying overseas, Europe (Germany) was another great place to be. Fellas, listen to this guy 'THEY LOVE US OVERSEAS" trust me!

    • @Fitricson
      @Fitricson 2 года назад +5

      Europe is not much better. I lived in Germany all my live

    • @jayc9904
      @jayc9904 2 года назад +4

      they love your army benefits!!!!...smh

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 2 года назад

      Congrats on the retirement

    • @RemoteAdminJayJay2
      @RemoteAdminJayJay2 2 года назад +6

      Germany is the ultimate white woman lover's paradise ask black soldiers stationed there & hear the legendary stories.

    • @VeteranNomad
      @VeteranNomad 2 года назад +1

      I was 19 stationed in Germany!

  • @thunderwolf2576
    @thunderwolf2576 2 года назад +18

    Not gonna lie, at young age I was practically destroyed by girls and bullied. I'm 23 now and I never was in a relationship or anything. I practically just avoid em and try to live my best life so far. However I is a struggle to even try to strike up a conversation ot bat an eye.

  • @michaelbaker2686
    @michaelbaker2686 2 года назад +18

    That PH balance statement is ALL FACTS. I noticed the women overseas had no odor and the experience with them was way more pleasant. Dude hit all the main points and confirmed that men are not crazy.

  • @dafloridaman
    @dafloridaman 2 года назад +67

    I’m glad you have accepted this at an early age without marriage. Immediately after my divorce was finalized last year, one of my closest friends from Thai 🇹🇭 advised me to leave American women alone because they literally act like toddlers. I already made that decision after going though the family court system that favors women 85-90% of the time. I stopped interaction with them all together as I retire next year. Once I retire, I’m getting the hell out of the States and not coming back. I have accepted the reality that there’s nothing here in the US for me.

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      why do they benefit women? you must pass him some payment every month

  • @CoolGent87
    @CoolGent87 2 года назад +93

    You spoke nothing but facts bro!! It's sad that in the U.S modern women still act like Teenagers in high school. Smh. Keep it up bro

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +19

      Facts man I’m going to keep it up! Thanks

    • @CoolGent87
      @CoolGent87 2 года назад +3

      @@AustonHolleman That's a must

    • @SVGIN
      @SVGIN 2 года назад +8

      Bro they only want rappers unfortunately...

    • @thydunk8182
      @thydunk8182 2 года назад +2

      @@SVGIN or hollywood lmao. All women want some 6” white guy named tyler.

    • @jlcarter04
      @jlcarter04 2 года назад +6

      Dude!! I'm 40 and this is the most disappointing part of the dating scene for me. At one time, I thought that at a certain point that women would grow up and want a real relationship. Nope!! Like straight High School. It's like when they got popped as a teen, their maturity just stopped.

  • @TreasureA11Gold
    @TreasureA11Gold 2 года назад +112

    Bruh this was so spot on I thought I was the only one or the few with this perception. Keep making these type of videos for young men to not be conditioned to accept women that are raised or conditioned to treat men and dating disrespectful.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +4

      Thanks man. Im glad you enjoyed it

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and a romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans

  • @RBG-ez7pd
    @RBG-ez7pd 2 года назад +20

    What’s amazing is that men over time have realized these truths about modern American women INDEPENDENTLY. Videos like this and RUclips dating shows have just provided evidence to support the conclusions from our experiences.

  • @soldierofgod5359
    @soldierofgod5359 2 года назад +40

    Yeah I agree. I would give myself about a 9 in looks. And I noticed that in the United States I would get rejected by women that are 6s at best😂😂. The women here barely look good without makeup, and most of them throw makeup on and think they are Barbie dolls 😂😂. But it’s crazy that many Ethiopian women that are 10s give me no hard time. They are feminine, cooperative and all. Hell, this one Ethiopian women fed me food with her fork and put the food in my mouth like I’m a king and this is on my life . American women have egos when half of them are no where near as attractive or feminine/submissive as Overseas women. I approve your message . And even in America I thought I found a rare women that was not ran through just because she is very quiet and somewhat submissive. Come to find out that this same American women admitted to me that she has a high body count. In America it’s hard to win and you will be lucky to find a women that has a low body count here . That’s why I barely even talk to women in the United States now, many of them are disgusting 🤢

    • @BisonNews1
      @BisonNews1 Год назад +2

      im here getting rejected by women who don't even have a car, a drivers license and no career, no skills. so yeah lol its crazy

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      women are no longer here to serve men and even less so an American man who is not a retailer, a good provider and not very romantic American men are nothing compared to Europeans
      And why do you want a submissive woman? do you pay everything? or what benefits do you give

  • @osmankalif3500
    @osmankalif3500 2 года назад +83

    Tats, clean skin, perfect hairline and looks fit. If this guy is dealing with bs Its done out here. No one is above a passport and plane tickets I think this is the solution.

    • @oceejay5148
      @oceejay5148 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 fr

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 2 года назад

      Tats are good?

    • @osmankalif3500
      @osmankalif3500 2 года назад

      @@GUITARTIME2024 these hoes love em lol

    • @JoseRamirez-ew7vq
      @JoseRamirez-ew7vq 2 года назад +3

      @@GUITARTIME2024 On some men yes, depending on where they’re placed and what they are

  • @muziqislyfe5421
    @muziqislyfe5421 2 года назад +77

    YOU SPEAK 100% FACTS MY GUY. I AGREE WITH YOU AS A BLACK MAN MYSELF. I AM 41 AND I CAN DEFINITELY RELATE TO YOU ON EVERY LEVEL AND TOPIC YOU SPOKE ABOUT. I'M READY TO DITCH THE USA!!!!

  • @wrcinc
    @wrcinc 2 года назад +85

    I feel sorry for young guys in the age of social media. I think that social media is driving up women’s insecurities. Before social media women only saw and had to compete with other women in their neighborhood and they may have been the best looking woman in the area. Now, with social media they have to see and compete with women from all over the country and world-so they’re longer the hottest around. Every time they log into social media they’re reminded of this and now they’re obsessed with their own looks and crave constant validation.

    • @justinmclaughlin1953
      @justinmclaughlin1953 2 года назад +5

      And it goes another way too - they can compare guys in their area to guys they see on social media

    • @charaznable9209
      @charaznable9209 2 года назад +3

      Yep, I used to crush majorly on this one girl, hottest girl in town. Even at her prime though if you compared her to every girl from Russia, Ukraine, Thailand, and the Philippines, her place on that list would drop down significantly. Now in her 30's with neck tattoos and kids from an ex-convict, she wouldn't be able to keep my attention for longer than two minutes, before I would be looking for an excuse to leave!

    • @janehopper8840
      @janehopper8840 Год назад

      @@charaznable9209 Those women also exist in the US but they are not in your league

    • @Cyrus992
      @Cyrus992 Год назад +1

      Yet social media hasn’t harmed foreign ones as much

  • @candideggplant1575
    @candideggplant1575 2 года назад +20

    whats confusing to me is that this dude is what you would imagine when you imagine a dude that has no trouble with women. i'm average, or maybe a little below average, and of course women aren't flocking to that because they need the validation on instagram that they were living the high life. im over it man, I need money. i need to figure out how I can set myself up for life, cause from what I hear, american women will drain you dry through divorce, alimony and child support. no thank you

  • @mexicanbeautyqueen7988
    @mexicanbeautyqueen7988 2 года назад +18

    Exactly it! I’m over it as well! Trying to move to my motherland Spain. I went to Spain and Italy in 2019 I got to know people out there and I realize that overseas is a whole New World.
    Off pH balance is a sign of promiscuity or their men cheat on them with allot of woman.

  • @hammertyme8392
    @hammertyme8392 2 года назад +102

    This brother is on point. Wish I had learned these lessons at his age.
    I am now living overseas and the quality of women you can get will far exceed anything you'll find in the states.
    Facts!!

    • @Sharpswordherald
      @Sharpswordherald 2 года назад +1

      What country are you in

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 2 года назад +4

      @@Sharpswordherald
      Medellin Colombia

    • @Mrs.Adrian
      @Mrs.Adrian 2 года назад +1

      @@hammertyme8392 scamming headquarters lol you be safe out there

    • @hammertyme8392
      @hammertyme8392 2 года назад

      @@Mrs.Adrian
      No scamming going on here honey.
      The Biggest scammers are in the states and ask me how I know.

    • @kevinnewman3037
      @kevinnewman3037 2 года назад +8

      @@Mrs.Adrian Hater🤣🤣🤣

  • @ahlui
    @ahlui 2 года назад +95

    I really feel like as social media grew things changed for men because from like 2012-2018 it wasn't difficult to have females that was willing and not on games but as females started getting access to different caliber of men without doing nothing but showing a thirst trap that changed the game

    • @JacobStayViben
      @JacobStayViben 2 года назад +19

      Yeah the change started in 2017, Eras change every 5-7 years. Social media was still developing then, but we’re def in the belly of the beast in the social media era now.

    • @onthearth1
      @onthearth1 2 года назад +8

      I agree; 2017-2018 untill 2019 ( before covid) was the best moment for game for me. I basically had what I thought I deserved and expected things to continue.. BUt covid came; instagram became huge... after covid I get hotties but they give way more shit than before!

    • @edgarbruner1619
      @edgarbruner1619 2 года назад +4

      Notice how you have to pay for apps now. This year's man it was poppin

    • @joeyricefried9621
      @joeyricefried9621 2 года назад +9

      Women in America have the easiest job in the world.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 года назад +7

      No. What changed the game was content like alpha male strategies. Women realised men only want to get laid so they played accordingly. Many did not realise how sought after it was. It has nothing to do with getting access to top calibre of men because the truth is, those men do not make up the majority of the population so the average woman wouldn’t even have access to them. Women are just more hip to game now and no longer believe that all men have their best interest at heart. They now know that the game is intimacy so they are going to ration it out accordingly.

  • @levar9911
    @levar9911 2 года назад +198

    I am a 29 years old woman who is living in the USA and I can say Thank God I was born and raised in a country where you are taught how to Cook, clean, work, and shower 2 times a day at an early age... My husband had never complained about the food or bad hygiene...That is sad and makes me feel bad hearing this thing about women in the n USA...

    • @kumarcollins585
      @kumarcollins585 2 года назад +1

      @SMB Girly Girl That's the problem. Many women here think they are high quality, especially when they have education and a decent job. But no matter the social class, still fall under the Entitlement bubble of the United States, and can't maintain a decent relationship. Mainly because of their attitudes and unreasonable delusions.

    • @jeremiahasa8652
      @jeremiahasa8652 2 года назад +51

      @SMB Girly Girl no it ain’t otherwise you wouldn’t have all these dating coaches and redpIll podcast booming with millions of men complaining that there’s something wrong with how relationships are in the US

    • @DeaconChriss
      @DeaconChriss 2 года назад +18

      @SMB Girly Girl of course not all women are bad, but it's enough like what he describes to discourage brothers from wanting date American women

    • @DeaconChriss
      @DeaconChriss 2 года назад

      @SMB Girly Girl sure, their are exotic women who are evil. But culture actually makes a women better. American women aren't cultured to be wives. They're cultured to be men.

    • @ishyameru6232
      @ishyameru6232 2 года назад

      @SMB Girly Girl Culture doesn't make a woman better??? -_- how does culture not affect every part of a person? Does the culture of excellence in Asian communities not propel them to be the most successful in school by every metric? Does the hustle culture of Middle eastern and Jewish people not lead to them being on top of the economic food chain in America despite black people being here first? Do you even believe the nonsense you're spitting 😂😂 You have to be very stupid to believe the things you're saying unironically

  • @dylaneasley6281
    @dylaneasley6281 2 года назад +6

    Holy shit bro, you’re reading my mind. I feel like no one really speaks up about the reality. Everyone just accepts it and acts like it’s normal. Thank you

  • @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon1
    @Mr.Chris.P.Bacon1 2 года назад +7

    Chicks that call dudes Bro are a hard pass for me too. Also chicks with tatts in masculine places such as BICEPS, NECK, FACE.

  • @domirican81
    @domirican81 2 года назад +26

    Haven’t gone out with an American girl since 2012. Only foreign women whether I’m in their country, or in the U.S. (on tourist visas)
    Life is much more chill.

  • @EricThePioneer
    @EricThePioneer 2 года назад +40

    Everything you said is gospel man. Especially that "Bro" sh!t. A woman that talks like a man is an instant deal breaker. Keep going man we need the voices!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +5

      Thanks man! I’m going to keep it up!

  • @itsmelanieking
    @itsmelanieking 2 года назад +65

    Would love to interview you live. A lot of women need to hear this.

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +31

      Yes, where can I contact you at?

    • @brianbey3575
      @brianbey3575 2 года назад +10

      Make this interview happen ASAP!

    • @OshayDukeJackson
      @OshayDukeJackson 2 года назад +23

      Melanie!

    • @ManofPrestige
      @ManofPrestige 2 года назад +1

      Melanie! 🤣

    • @WittyPenSmith
      @WittyPenSmith 2 года назад +1

      She see where my man trending. Want part of that wave 🤣. They will come out of nowhere I tell ya 😂

  • @CHAOSZEROE
    @CHAOSZEROE 2 года назад +15

    "Why the fuck do I want to do that?!" Exactly my point as well. If a girl desires you, she won't play games. I hate western texting games. I have the same plan as you. Become successful enough and look for a Thai wife.
    A couple of days ago. A woman showed interest with me in a comedy show. She stuck around after the show and grabbed me. I wasn't excited since I gave up here mostly for women. Her friends were leaving and she just stood there. I asked for her number and she even gave me her last name. I text her the next day. She texts 10 hours later.... She says that she hopes to see me in the next comedy show. Whenever that is. You can't make this stuff up...

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад

      Man I’ve had that happen many times where they give you first and last name and you never hear from them again. Sounds like she wanted to fuck tho

    • @CHAOSZEROE
      @CHAOSZEROE 2 года назад +11

      @@AustonHolleman Yes. She wanted to fuck my time up. Hahaha!

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +1

      @@CHAOSZEROE lmao

    • @BisonNews1
      @BisonNews1 Год назад +2

      she texts 10 hours later...that right there says it all

  • @soyafuera
    @soyafuera 2 года назад +26

    I've just recently found out that where I stay (San Diego) is literally the WORST place for bm to date bw in America. There are 167 bm with full time jobs for every 100 bw with the same. I lived in Tijuana for six months and I loved it. The wm are family oriented, very traditional and feminine. They're not twerking, wearing wigs or having kids out of wedlock. Even the working girls on the street have more manners. I had success in the early days of swipe apps, but it's all validation now. I have warned family that there's a good chance their grandchild/cousin etc will be 1/2 Mexican

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 года назад

      Tijuana? Only need spanish? Are they built well?

    • @TJ-100
      @TJ-100 2 года назад

      Yeah those early dating app days getting a chick to smash off there was effortless.

    • @soyafuera
      @soyafuera 2 года назад

      ​@@dennisrobinson8008 I'd say it's strongly recommended for any stay over a few days to a week.... but even regular girls that have regular jobs are typically petite, in univ and are pretty social on the weekends

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 года назад

      @@WillieFungo Mexico. Only need spanish. It depends...

    • @soyafuera
      @soyafuera 2 года назад

      @@sbc4434 I mean the border does bc the tent city is there, but downtown doesn't. All that food cooking on the street makes sure of that. As for the women, they are way nicer than SD women on the street again, IF you speak Spanish.
      To answer your question on Luke's channel it's pretty safe. When I was downtown, cops private security and the damn national guard circled the streets. Never felt like something was about to pop off. I lived on the beach 15-20 away from downtown. So I would go to dangerous parts but not stay. And I became a familiar face so they started getting used to me

  • @reginaldrichmond9485
    @reginaldrichmond9485 2 года назад +23

    This needs to go viral.

  • @dc3470
    @dc3470 2 года назад +33

    Spot on. I'm an old g & I figured this out over 15 yrs ago that dating in the u.s. was not beneficial 2 men. When one compares dating in Latin America 2 the u.s., its like night & day. I've been 2 DR, Colombia, Honduras, Venezuela, cuba, Trinidad, & el savador.. the respect 4 men & femininity is so refreshing

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 2 года назад +1

      @@sbc4434 it's a tough call. Maybe Barranquilla colombia, Santiago DR, sosua DR, cartagena colombia. Depends on what one is looking 4, sex? A girlfriend? A wife? Beauty?

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 2 года назад +3

      @@sbc4434 but I really think cuba is a perfect place 2 have a girlfriend & family. It's cheaper than all the places I named. If u get away from habana, the chicas r better looking

    • @dc3470
      @dc3470 2 года назад +1

      @@sbc4434 sosua, rep dom

  • @officialkoby
    @officialkoby 2 года назад +35

    This is all facts. I just came back from Medellin Colombia, and the treatment was completely different from the women, they would get upset at me for not having time for them, and they were very attractive. I had a lot of plans out there, so I couldn’t make time for all of them. Get your passports guys, in America you have to be a celebrity to get basic cooperation from a 7 woman, I know this because I have a couple famous friends and even they complain. Get your money out here in the US and go overseas to South America, Eastern Europe, the Philippines, Eastern Africa and South Korea. Do not settle for this nonsense in America.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 2 года назад +7

      lmao.. bro.. I went to a concert and was just talking to my buddy of mine.. I'm 5 foot 7 so not tall but very fit and have good facial features, was just chillin drinking a brewski. There's two women in front of us, one of us turns and nudges the other girl and says.. look there are cute guys behind us. The other girl turns and says to her friend. TOO SHORT! I'm over here laughing my ass off.. why? these women were obese! shorter than me and over 200 lbs! can you believe that!? LOL. crazy right?

    • @officialkoby
      @officialkoby 2 года назад +10

      @@dirkdiggler2379 lol!! That’s what you call a 49er, a girl who’s a 4 but thinks she’s a 9. Those girls were probably 2’s though.

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 2 года назад +4

      @@officialkoby I plan on getting my passport and just wandering around these other countries lol. lets gooo

    • @ayandamafuyeka1952
      @ayandamafuyeka1952 2 года назад +1

      When you mentioned Africa. I'm glad you said Eastern Africa, because I'm South African and I can personally tell you Southern Africa is shithole copy and paste of the West.

  • @anthonywilliams4100
    @anthonywilliams4100 2 года назад +5

    Loving how this young bro is keeping it 100%, AND IS AN EARLY LEARNER! Keep your standards high and let them conform to you. And keep it moving when times wasting.

  • @zack1610
    @zack1610 2 года назад +13

    This is of the most holistic videos I’ve ever seen. Finally someone brought these stupid games these women play to light. Thank you sir!! Gentlemen I hope this confirms that there isn’t anything wrong with you. These American women need psychiatric help. Go get your passports

  • @shawnmiller2182
    @shawnmiller2182 2 года назад +28

    Finally a channel of another relatable Chad that understands my plight lol. Great videos brother

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +2

      Hahaaaa yessir! Thanks man

    • @airlebron7467
      @airlebron7467 2 года назад +1

      I'm Chad too. It's bad online not in person though.

  • @thelightseeker94
    @thelightseeker94 2 года назад +15

    Oshay Duke Jackson just made a video on you. I had to check out the channel. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @joebidet2050
    @joebidet2050 2 года назад +19

    I've been shouting this for over 35 years
    Glad the rest of you are finally waking up

  • @smthmn
    @smthmn 2 года назад +7

    Not familiar with his page but I hear him mention Brazil a couple times. I've deal with Brazilians a lot and man when I tell you if I could do it all over again, I'd be with a Brazilian woman. The Brazilian people in general are just so nice but the WOMEN!!! Those beautiful women will have you feel like a king

  • @alansapilipinas
    @alansapilipinas Год назад +7

    They’re all bad (USA women). We all fled overseas + struck gold.

  • @HLJlovejoy
    @HLJlovejoy 2 года назад +22

    Well said and I knew you were on to something when you got to “Bro”. Bless you young man and your parents or whoever raised you! I want to adopt you into my family so you can encourage your siblings from another mother. 🙌🏾😜. “Keep hope alive”.

  • @luchasroberts5850
    @luchasroberts5850 2 года назад +46

    its all about dominance in the dating game much like buisness,if they feel like they can get an edge on you theyll run with it all the way.theres no genuine connection just going through bullet points of there problems and "standards".and the masculine thing,oh my gooooood they hate masculine men.the minute you show masculinity they get pissed and go on a renegade to try and take that from you.like you said its all a game.each guy they encounter its how much more fucked up can they be with this guy as opposed to the last guy they messed with.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 года назад

      @Mister Negative These stories repeat over and over millions of times.

    • @dennisrobinson8008
      @dennisrobinson8008 2 года назад +1

      @Mister Negative You sound like a combative woman with "boy"... The biblical stories and even the "eve" story repeat over and over again. The stories are simply wisdom. The female tries to get over the man or tries to go behind his back to his detriment.

  • @joebidet2050
    @joebidet2050 2 года назад +17

    Agree
    20 years old
    They come on to you
    And then reject you
    Haha I can get any man I want
    Then at 30
    Where all the good men at
    Why don't they don't approach me
    He who laughs last laughs loudest

  • @rollingtinfist
    @rollingtinfist 2 года назад +8

    Wow! That PH being off must be a generation thing. 50+ and I’ve only come across that once, ever. Glad to see younger guys finding stuff like this out in their 20s. I’ve been traveling internationally since the mid ‘90s, and after my first trip to Brazil at the beginning of this millennium, I never looked back or dated US women again. They simply could not measure up. Today it’s even worse.

  • @IEdjumacate
    @IEdjumacate 2 года назад +6

    Damn bro. Been out the game for 1.5 years because I had a rough relationship & wanted to clear my head. Came back to it 2 months ago and holy shit is it a struggle. I live in Chicago & most of the women out here are hardly worth talking to. The ones that are will play games & eventually you realize they’re not worth it either. Really messed up the way this stuff is playing out.

  • @Warzones2Classrooms
    @Warzones2Classrooms 2 года назад +17

    Broo me and man's just had this talk. We travel and we are sooooo done with these women in America. Shit has gotten so bad in the past 5 years.

  • @leetate1963
    @leetate1963 2 года назад +17

    This is exactly why I do not approach women. I refuse to play the game

  • @carlosgreen3551
    @carlosgreen3551 2 года назад +24

    I think what this young brutha had to say was very insightful to say the least as, it should cause some women to rethink their strategies for getting older and when there are no men around to hold their hands also, what he has outlined are indeed the associated problems with young Black women, I think because, of "Simp" culture and the progression of "Beta" male popularity in our society, most Black women assumed that all men will adjust to their antics. It's a shameful thing to understand that this is what dating Black women has evolved to as Black men are now looking elsewhere and in other countries for their love interests and/or future wives because, Black women have become even more toxic and delusional because, as the saying goes they are independent women as they don't require male companionship so, lesbian culture is about too "Blow Up" if it hasn't exploded already. What's alarming about Black women as they are the only race of women whom do not respect their men which in the end, most will die alone but more importantly they will regret what they have done to themselves in the long run as this most important fact will return to claim their rear ends and make them remember what they did to a generation of women once, they hit the proverbial "Wall" however, most don't understand that their beauty won't last forever and as they age most will become liabilities to their children and/or other relatives just like some of the women from my generation have become and now they understand that physical beauty is "Fleeting" and so, were their "Options"! But now, while young women are in their youth they cannot see the forest for the trees as, "This Too, Shall Pass"!

  • @formeitwastuesday.1515
    @formeitwastuesday.1515 2 года назад +6

    If a girl from another country lives in the U.S. long enough they get desensitized. I was talking to a girl when it got slow at work and she couldn't talk back. Im like well shes not interested. Then later she tries to talk to me when its busy. Im tired of those games. I don't even bother trying to communicate anymore. I should just tell them if they're dtf now.

  • @coralreefhutton490
    @coralreefhutton490 2 года назад +12

    Man this video made me feel a whole lot better. I was never into the whole social media thing still not, but the girls my age (early 20s) have changed because of that. When I was younger it was easy to talk and have conversations with girls because there was pureness and personality back then. Now it seems the guys I talk to agree it's all the same when u try to talk to women, theres that uninterested rude barley any eye contact attitude that u get that makes it not worth it no more. I'm not the best looking guy In the world but I can say I'm good looking dark hair thin athletic body always playing sports and am in the trades. Especially if this guy who's a well spoken solid dude Is having trouble too?? I'm convinced it's the women...at least in the U.S.

    • @Josh2DaBeckett
      @Josh2DaBeckett Год назад +1

      100% agree with you. Copying and pasting my experience here:
      When I was in my early 20s, I was overweight, had weak game, and was beta, but I still managed to hook up with several girls and have a girlfriend. I’m 31 now, in better shape, and my game is 100x better, yet dating is extremely difficult. The game has changed. Women are no longer chasing the top 20%, but the top 1%.

  • @1_chilled_guy595
    @1_chilled_guy595 2 года назад +25

    Hi Austin, Im not from the US and I agree with your statements. I think women in general have this entitled attitude and to add the cherry on top , social media it made it so easy for women to pick , choose or refuse guys as they please. You may have just got lucky in Brazil or maybe that country has traditional values

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 2 года назад

      If you never been there shut up

  • @RjayjayC
    @RjayjayC 2 года назад +15

    I completely agree with you. However at your age 23 women are literally dealing with the top 10% of men. I’ve seen it first hand. Anything type of guy you can think of, they have access to. Money 200k plus guys easy, Status - guys with 10k plus followers or doctors, lawyers and athletes easily, Looks - guys that are literally models. I have been told by women that I possessed these things but still the games persist and I have not the time.

  • @entpsshadow4455
    @entpsshadow4455 2 года назад +10

    Currently residing in the Dominican Republic. It's sooo smooth here, it's over with! No games being played out this way

  • @yahoshualevi2932
    @yahoshualevi2932 2 года назад +5

    😂 My friend you are so on point! I taught that I was the only one in the world that was experiencing these unearthly experiences with women in the U.S. The first time that I went to a country in Asia I found a super model and now I am happily married for 19 years! Our only hope is to escape !

  • @TV-ob1if
    @TV-ob1if 2 года назад +8

    Got my passport. Best decision of my life.

  • @TripleMMM74
    @TripleMMM74 2 года назад +41

    I agree with everything he said social media has ruined everything when it comes to dating and I don't have a problem getting women these chick are out of control the only way to get women in America attention is to ignore them which is weird I travel to Mexico it was a whole different Ball game

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +6

      Facts

    • @TripleMMM74
      @TripleMMM74 2 года назад +7

      @@AustonHolleman I understand exactly where you coming from when I stayed in Mexico for 2 years and came back home I don't even want to deal with a American woman at all

    • @ahlui
      @ahlui 2 года назад +8

      I keep saying this bro the only way it will change if we ignore them if we continue to give attention it will never change

    • @TripleMMM74
      @TripleMMM74 2 года назад +4

      @@ahlui big Facts Ive been telling dudes this but they don't get it if a lot of men learned to control themselves we would have everything our way I've gotten most sex from women when I ignored them

    • @ahlui
      @ahlui 2 года назад +3

      @@TripleMMM74 most definitely bro 💯💯

  • @Ayixlia
    @Ayixlia 2 года назад +58

    I've always had dated "nice" guys never were into the "bad boy" type of guys as I want peace in my life and not trouble. Those women who date the bad boy types are the ones who lives are boring and want excitement and thrill of getting in fights or trouble.

    • @ksilent
      @ksilent 2 года назад +19

      🧢

    • @Bornagainvillain
      @Bornagainvillain 2 года назад +13

      @@ksilent no cap

    • @greatestever80sbaby
      @greatestever80sbaby 2 года назад +4

      Right... all of us men believe you. (Sarcasm)

    • @Ayixlia
      @Ayixlia 2 года назад

      @@greatestever80sbaby I am not trying to get you believe me and not all women like bad boys just like not all men like fat girls.

    • @YD-0223
      @YD-0223 2 года назад +2

      Then why are you watching this video

  • @cocreator93
    @cocreator93 2 года назад +21

    I really appreciate this video man glad to see I'm not the only black man who sees the BS and I'm in shape and handsome. Life too short for anyone to not see your value.#passportgang

  • @SpyroPS1iscool
    @SpyroPS1iscool 6 месяцев назад +3

    I’m a half Asian guy who lives in Canada and this hits super hard. Same exact problems here. When I dated in the Philippines and Vietnam it was night and day.

    • @SavageSanto
      @SavageSanto 5 месяцев назад +2

      I live in America, and I tried dating a Canadian. I thought y’all were different but I was wrong… 😏

  • @Tallz5
    @Tallz5 2 года назад +6

    💯 percent of everything I said to my people came out your mouth brother. Thanks for being smart and not a person to just give in to the US standards of foolery. ✊🏾

  • @sano1062
    @sano1062 2 года назад +86

    I made the mistake of taking my Brasilian (Portuguese, Italian, Japanese and Angolan) wife to an affair hosted by a melenated American woman. The party was to celebrate her book and I was happy to support her but the reception we got from the melenated husbands was a little cool but the wives all 5s and 6s was frigid. We only stayed about 30 minutes before leaving. I guess I was supposed to feel bad or something 😕 but I was validated for making a wise choice. My wife was a clear 8 coming out of the shower without makeup. I don't think you can do better than Brasil in Latin America. You'll find vast variety of beautiful ladies.

    • @wordplay8733
      @wordplay8733 2 года назад +50

      Y'all gotta stop taking your wives around these bitter women seriously why the hell do y'all keep doing that it's like you want them to become americanized

    • @beno6198
      @beno6198 2 года назад +7

      @@wordplay8733 😂😂😂

    • @levelintent
      @levelintent 2 года назад

      Why did you marry someone that you only thought was an 8? Did you always think she was an 8 from the beginning or just now over time? That's kind of sad...

    • @jamesbond-xl3xs
      @jamesbond-xl3xs 2 года назад +1

      Parabens! Legal! Respect.

    • @KurosakiLuvar01
      @KurosakiLuvar01 2 года назад +2

      The fact that you rate your own wife an eight…….wow…….

  • @bYz4rEel
    @bYz4rEel 2 года назад +18

    This is true, too many insecure actions of how these women move in this country
    I might as well date outside of the US

  • @bighomie_drocc
    @bighomie_drocc 2 года назад +8

    Facts!!! Bro, you are on point on everything. You had me weak when you said no woman should be walking around smelling like a can of tuna🤣🤣🤣 and I agree, bro💯💯💯

    • @AustonHolleman
      @AustonHolleman  2 года назад +1

      💀

    • @Jwebb-zh9gj
      @Jwebb-zh9gj 2 года назад +2

      That’s one of my biggest fears. Getting a girl home and being traumatized for life because I pulled her pants down and she smells like a fishery 🎣

  • @TheBlueberryboy
    @TheBlueberryboy Год назад +8

    Agreed. I've experienced almost all of theses issues. One of the issues that stands out for me is not only the gender reversal roles sponsored by feminism, but also the PH issue. As an African living in America, i've come across terrible PH from both sista's & snow bunnies, the latinas were slightly better. I think alot of women in America are not taught how to clean that part by their mothers. My theory is that those mothers are busy working a 9-5 and don't have time to really sit down, teach & show these things to their daughters. I've never experienced the PH issue in Africa.

    • @kangel20
      @kangel20 10 месяцев назад

      The PH issue is usually caused by the men that they sleep with, not the women herself

  • @iamlimitless7543
    @iamlimitless7543 2 года назад +3

    I'm working on passport right now. I don't play stupid games because I don't like stupid prizes.

  • @docrobinson3372
    @docrobinson3372 2 года назад +18

    Man... I am 46 and the Hygiene thing has been BAD since I was in my teens. So man against using feminine hygiene products... Had folks go clean up and still come back smelling after wipes, wash cloth, soap and stuff. Yuck.

    • @camden336
      @camden336 2 года назад +12

      Soul is dirty so the rest is dirty..can't clean that up with soap. What ur smelling is her past

    • @africaine4889
      @africaine4889 2 года назад +1

      Hm. This is bad

    • @Username_647
      @Username_647 2 года назад

      @@camden336 lol

    • @samuelhawk1936
      @samuelhawk1936 2 года назад +1

      I think it’s think it’s the American diet.

  • @JelaniB28
    @JelaniB28 2 года назад +15

    No lies detected. Not only are the games tiring and lame but at the end of the day they aren’t even worth the time you take to play the game.

  • @parkshermoso1012
    @parkshermoso1012 2 года назад +10

    This is so facts dating in America is goofy as hell. And now that I’m working I have to time for this shit lol

  • @MannysVisionStudio
    @MannysVisionStudio 2 месяца назад +2

    It’s not just black men here, it’s all of us men. White, Asian, Hispanic, Black, etc etc.. we all are feeling the pain of dating. All of us need to be supportive of eachother, unite and be done with women of the west collectively and make changes. Get our passports or remain single and do thing WE want to do, the way we want to do it.

  • @josephgedwards-realestatea5710
    @josephgedwards-realestatea5710 2 года назад +3

    I Live in Miami. In 2004 I was 40year old and doing excellent. I wanted to get married and settle down. So, I went to Russia. I met my wife in St Petersburg Russia in October 2005. I did the 90days fiancee visa. We got Married in December 2006 in Miami. We have been married for 15 years. I THINK YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK.

  • @curtish9499
    @curtish9499 2 года назад +13

    Nick Cannon said the same thing about feminine hygiene in America 🇺🇸 😳

    • @jericadavis102
      @jericadavis102 2 года назад +1

      That’s because of American diet . Women don’t eat a lot of fruits and veggies

  • @jermo1213
    @jermo1213 2 года назад +5

    Bro you're ahead of your time. Plus, you speak well. Much respect, young brother.

  • @Nancys_minion221
    @Nancys_minion221 2 года назад +15

    Yo I had to save this video because it was so relatable. I make 6 figures I am 6 feet tall. Lift weights with a 4 pack and I box. I am struggling like a mf with getting women at the age of 31.

    • @jononioo2857
      @jononioo2857 2 года назад +5

      Lol.... And you're the top 10% of earners. I'm in the exact same boat except I'm 37. I left the states during the pandemic and haven't thought about seriously dating a western girl since then. If you want brown, go to Columbia. If you want white, go to eastern Europe. Feminine and cooperative. Good luck!

    • @Nancys_minion221
      @Nancys_minion221 2 года назад +1

      @@jononioo2857 Thanks bro. I was thinking either Thailand or Brazil

    • @jononioo2857
      @jononioo2857 2 года назад

      @@Nancys_minion221 I've never done Thailand but I hear nothing but good things. I lived in Brazil for 6 months. If I were you going to brz, I'd stick to the north parts of brz.
      Stay away from Rio tbh bc it's literally where everybody goes. Also, start taking Portuguese classes as most of the women you're gonna wanna talk to will not speak English. It's not hard to learn and the basics will get you far.
      I'll be in brz for the summer starting in November. HMU if you're in the area and I'll show you around.

    • @thydunk8182
      @thydunk8182 2 года назад +4

      bro if i was over 25 with 6 figs id have left this shit faster than turning off a tv

    • @jononioo2857
      @jononioo2857 2 года назад +3

      @@Nancys_minion221 I forgot to say that Thailand is notorious for lady boys. Which is a little weird but all it means it's that there are more single females for you to choose from.

  • @gary4451
    @gary4451 2 года назад +6

    Wow! I thought it was just me... I don't have any appetite left for dating women here in the U.S.A. It is extremely difficult to find a woman who I can respect, let alone want to marry. It is really quite sad what most women have become.

  • @mpalmer7
    @mpalmer7 Год назад +6

    I just have to say, after reading the comments I was really hoping that at some point someone would say he was wrong…hes
    Not. I’m 6’2” have 3 college
    Degrees and 0% body fat along with a stable lifestyle and enough money to sustain myself as well as a future wife and children. I’ve been single for almost 7 years. I got my passport and found a job overseas. I’m done can’t do this anymore.

    • @officejamz3160
      @officejamz3160 9 месяцев назад

      You cant have 0% body fat but i think I know where you're coming from.