Lex Fridman talks about being the same person in private and in public
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- Опубликовано: 29 мар 2021
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This is why you are such a likeable person Lex.
Authenticity seems like an undervalued trait.
I have seen a video where it said that the authenticity is the best defense against narcissist manipulations so good for Lex in being that.
@@AboutThingsPodcast true
When you lie to someone else you are lying to yourself. It's a betrayal of your character and who you one day could become.
That is a fantastic and insightful way to put it! Thank you.
This!!!
You should tell that to Tim Dillon lol.
That end: "...being more polished turns you into a politician and politician turns eventually into being dishonest". Very VERY well put. This is why Andrew Yang and (to an extent) Tulsi Gabbard were so fresh in the Democratic debates. This is also why Yang is leading NYC mayoral polls right now. People crave for honesty in a dishonest world.
I'm so happy to read that about Yang !
I have a lot of respect for your moderation. Realizing that some temptation isn’t worth the long term consequences is something more young men need to be reminded. Eventually your good judgment will bring a good partner and flourishing family.
@@co0o0ozy88 in this case they were speaking of DMs. In his case he needs good judgment because he is getting slammed with extremely attractive low moral girls. These are the type of women that can completely ruin the life of a successful man. All he needs is a racy DM interaction to go viral and his reputation is damaged.
Yo what up girl
(kidding)
@@khall187 😂😂😂
Damn! Lex is getting overwhelmed with DMs. I'm jelly, but props to Lex for keeping it real. 🤙🏻
Yeah, now that I know that I would probably dm him.
Lex is the real deal, love to see him say these things, he's a real person and it shines thru the screen.
Sexy Lexy avoids all the ladies DM's because first principles
Dead 🤣🤣
Podcast first, pimpin second. Maybe a sprinkle of nuclear physics from his pops
I think that's why Lex is one of few appealing podcasts to me...
Definitely coming from a place of being genuine, coming from a place of good intentions. It's just hard to find out in world like that.
That's it Lex. It's good to hear you speak about honesty. Good values never go out of style.
💯💯💯
Lex this is why we love you!
good call lex .....keep up the good vids and vibs bro.
Good for you, Lex. You seem like an authentic dude.
I’m lucky to not feel the need to front. I couldn’t care less to impress. And in the end I get respect for my honesty from those who know me. And to those who do or don’t, I again, couldn’t care less.
love you lex
2:40 It's the best, isn't it? Comes from having a good mother as a child. Something you really don't appreciate until much later in life. I marvel at this pretty often, actually.
Google: Integrity implies a consistent behavior, whether honest or not. Honesty implies being truthful (even if it is incorrect) about a subject at hand. Honesty, by definition, is to tell the truth and being true. Integrity is having strong moral principles based on honesty and to follow those principles religiously. Cheers
Damn, Lex, that was super insightful.
For me the main problems that follow from lying, in their order of importance, are, inability to trust others, the rage that is fueled by maintaining a lie and denying truth, and worst of all distorting your being
I’ve doing that as well, being the same in public and private. I think your right about being honest. It’s Like Jordan Peterson says, when let’s say, trying to calculate what you want to do. Now you start to think to get an answer, when you go to reference a lie told to your self about your self the incorrect information will generate an answer that otherwise would have been “correct”. Like if I asked myself “ Is SN12 going to explode during its test?” But the lie I told myself was that all Starship tests totally didn’t end in an explosion. See where I’m going here? It’s not being your authentic self all the time that’s problematic, what’s going to test your grit is incorporating your shadow. It’s easy being who you want are, who you want to be, but what about being something that you don’t agree with, being what you call wrong. There places you don’t want to go. To find the treasure that you seek, requires something you can’t keep, A Shield depending on how you speak, shall acquire treasure, or fire knows how to inspire. Stairs filled with the attire of those who aspired to reep what they’ve admired.Thanks true believer
You'll be in the history books as one of our generations more honest, philosophical thknkera some day Lex. Your conversations are important and logical, something the world needs more of, keep it up man!
This is what I have always believed, tho it sometimes excludes you from friends or work colleagues! It is being true to yourself and very much worth it in the long run.
What he said about a monogamous marriage is also true. Stability and peace come from it, leading to prosperity. Sow your wild oats young then settle down somewhere quiet.
I guess it's harder to be honest when you have traits others don't accept. I try to follow the same absolute honestly principle, but there are dark traits in my personality that most people don't like, so if I'm truly myself people will reject me so I have to balance the amount of "realness" I let others see. It's like the contrast between a protagonist and a villain in a movie. Lex seems to have all the cool/accepted traits while others are painted as villains instantly even tho there aren't truly dark motives behind their actions.
I come here to check that the robot plushie still has a heart
being present
Wish I could double like / underscore striving to be the same person. A life long struggle with life. Lots of love ....
What are you polishing? A stone? A piece of wood? You do know knives are polished in the process of being made? Whether or not one is shiny is not important, what one makes themselves into (ie the substance over the aesthetics) is the real issue and far more important to identify.
I have a theory that authenticity is one of the qualities that is most often sacrificed as people grow to positions of power, either senior political positions, or corporate roles. In the rare occasions where people manage to maintain their authenticity in positions of power they are the ones who will make serious changes in a field, rather than being concession-making bureaucrats. In the good cases these are the Elon Musks and Bernie Sanders, in the bad cases the Pol Pots and similar.
Awesome
Dear Lex...Ignore haters..unlike you ...they do not admire intellect ,talent ,beauty or success...they are self loathing which gives rise to envy...they view anything good ..as contrasting their lack...you sin in their eyes is your intellect, talent, beauty and success...even if they tear you down ...they will still have contempt for all that is good...so know ..we who are similar to you ....think you are wonderful...with love ,Shay
Purity & Honesty?
Love, compassion, lightness & joy of being alive...and as free as you can be...
Allows certainty to be revealed.
A butterfly, While searching for the nectar, has no doubt about his role, meaning & purpose!
A quick dance into an irreversible transformation,
And the cycles repeat...
Are we going to ignore the fact this guy looks like a fuse between Michael Cera and Andy Samberg?
Lex, be honest and tell us if you have had DMT experience !
So Whitney did a great job. She said that she wanted to help you with that.
That's why we like you Lex. 🙂❤
Lex, does that mindset translate to the black suit? Love you brother..
I have no contact my friends that's why my team search my friends how she pay my loan
I'm pretty sure a lot of minorities can say they have to separate the two rather it's consciously or subconsciously to navigate this world.
INTJs are very very honest people typically.
If you are a public representative of a group then you probably don't really want to publicly express your private opinions that are not in the line with the group's opinion. You are still the same person though.
People feel like they have to do or say what looks right to be accepted. I realized long ago that people would love you for literally being true to yourself.
Ha there's something about the title being in third person. Maybe Lex always refers to himself by his full name in third person. I'm happy that Lex is saying he doesn't use his position to exploit people. That's a massive problem on youtube.
I know he used to edit all his own videos but I think I remember him saying he’s looking to hire someone to edit/produce his videos for him 1-2 months back. So this might be his employee uploading this hence the third person perspective.
@@calbonar211 Yeah that would make sense. Or maybe it's just this : ruclips.net/video/tPGc9lYFyZ0/видео.html&ab_channel=TazOlson
@@adeline7980 that’s entirely possible as well
This guest is pretty tight
Like this episode
Mandela effect. I could of sworn your last name was "friedman" not fridman hahaha
Same here, I guess that's because you have seen more often the other spelling.
'Live life honestly'. Well said Lex. In this day and age, because of social media, everybody is full of shit. What I don't like about Musk is his Doge comments which is a demonstration of social control, because he can.
" To thine own self be true." --------- Sir William Shakespeare His advice was wise five hundred years ago, and is still wise today. "
Try the bible its about 4000 years old and is full of wise advice
War and piercing the veil of Babylon
THIS
Just be yourself bro
Man.
3:00 Lex "intelectual stallion" Fridman.
For the algorithm
Nope, you got some skeletons you just forgot about them.
Women trying to get a man to go against what he truly believes in....never lol
It is because we are born who we are! We can not do different than we are! Example; My ugly blister...i mean my Sister!
Lex is part of the protected class.
it's because he doesn't have a wife and kids.
this is a shallow reminder of youth...
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wahmen luv me nauh ellegiggle
Nail on head, Lex. Nail on head.