Women Speaking On How Bumble Fumbled/ Bumble Dating App New Update
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Boycott dating apps too
That’s idiotic. If you don’t like them don’t use them why does it bother you so much
Yes, hopefully every woman deletes bumble.
Boycott dating
4B it out✌️✌️✌️✌️✌️
4B movement wins
Crazy how they went from "close your legs" to "why arent your legs open?"
This comment wins
Literally
They are literally selling sex!
So true. Another is: crazy how it went from “Should have chose better” to “Why won’t you settle?”
Right😂😂
Bumble: Celibacy is not the answer ladies!
translation: Save us! If you close your legs, all the men will leave the app too!
Or, maybe the men in those apps can start dating each other. 🤷
Lol nope get rekt Bumble 😂
@@beckywiththesharpknife8331 Only a small percentage. Not enough to keep the app running, for sure.
@@beckywiththesharpknife8331Exactly. A lot of them are on the down low anyway!
Also: no matter what choice you make with your body as a woman, there will be a backlash. They don’t want you to have a choice with your body. Think about that.
Terrifying thought.
The powers that be are concerned with YT WOMEN not having babies, which is why we have to suffer thede draconian laws. They need to do something and let these yt men know its unacceptable.
THIS
Welcome to life, buttercup. Man women boy girl. You get judged.
Exactly. They want to be able to choose for you and also be able to discard you as well.
I wonder what fuckboy was given this assignment and he convinced the entire marketing team to go with this nonsense....
It was whichever F-boy was promoted, who then hired his F-boy friends 🤷🏻♀️
(Or, they're likely wannabe F-boys).
😂 exactly
They skipped the fboys and immediately asked the incels 😂
Notice how the women in the ads are black, hmmmm
I am loving how this comment thread just keeps escalating in savagery! Hahaha!
Once I saw a guy I knew (barely) sit on the couch, watch a movie and swipe right on tinder without looking at his phone till he reached the swipe limit for the day… lol I used to be on the apps and the guys would never even read my profile and would ask me about things that were clearly listed in my bio. Apps are trash. Dating sucks. Sex is disappointing with most men- I have a 100% success rate on my own and my physical and emotional safety is not endangered.
Ew! Just ew! 🤢 It's the fact that it's calling our bodily autonomy into question. So much audacity! 🥴
A vow of celibacy IS the answer for some women. Let's allow individuals to make that highly personal decision for themselves and respect whatever they choose.
Im glad women are catching up. I've been off the dating apps for more than 10 years. I been knew it was some bs, its boring and the men were the worst. I met my love at work and aside from liking him, i knew he had a clearance and a background check to be there. Half the battle was done lol
Stay safe ladies especially in these times where reproductive rights are being rolled back and the increase of female violence.
I’ve been dreaming of this time since 1999 and friends with benefits was coined. I knew it was a disaster waiting to happen to women.
You are so smart! "half the battle was done." 🤔
You have me rethinking former advice I've been living by, "don't get your honey where you get your money," or, "don't get your meat where you get your bread!"
😂😂😂
@jessitabonita lol it can work. Truly half the battle is trying to vet these men to make sure they're not insane and I already know these apps don't run any background checks to ensure the safety of the women that use them.
Where I work, you have to undergo a full background investigation to be employed there. I do encourage women, if they can, to investigate these men.
I don't encourage all women to date men they work with because people can still be immature as we know lol but it can work out and you'd feel better about it not being someone super random who was convicted of crimes or something crazy.
The “just f him” billboard 😂😂😂 she nailed it.
THIS!!! this comment here sums it up superbly
Can we and the wall be celibate in peace please!!!
… and the 🐻
If bumble wants to act like an offended pimp, they can damn well start giving women a share of the profits whenever they put out.
That's a great point, I never saw dating apps like prostitution but cheaper!
I was asked for a hook up by a guy and when i said no he said no one is going to take me seriously as a single mother. And i knew i wouldn't be on apps anymore.
I’m not a single mother, but a male friend of mine said this about single mothers, so I ended the friendship.
My mom was a single mother and I’m not listening to or supporting men with this attitude, they aren’t allowed in my life
@@jenbodhi1133
Some ppl are single because their spouse died, but they want to overlook that.
I tell ppl all the time, if you don't want to date a single parent, then don't. It's the right thing that you stay away from them. Just don't turn around and talk s#-t about them either.
But, yeah, I know a lot of the guys that do that are pulling that negging BS.
@@jenbodhi1133really poor character.
@@jenbodhi1133 🥰
Please allow me to give you the encouragement you probably don't need. 😊
Single moms are the most resourceful and resilient people around. That simpleton showed his ass and got his face cracked.
I look forward to reading your comments about you finding someone who treats you sublime. ✌🏾
Why does she think that there's no way that women had nothing to do with the ad? As if there's no male minded, male centered women.
Agree there's more than enough women who have skewed anti woman views, the founder as well as the current ceo are women. I don't think we can put this one on the men as far as coming up with the idea, they wouldn't dare in the corporate world
That’s a good point and also ppl just going along because they need a paycheck
those women are just diet men to me
@@ddcreates4947 😂 in their minds they are
Exactly. Women are currently supporting a policy to track pregnancies, prevent abortion care, block paid family leave, and remove access to birth control.
Whoever came up with this should be fired, immediately.
Why fire the marketing team when the whole company will be fired by the public! Its gonna go bankrupt! 😂
It’s like the idiot who came up with the cringe bud light commercial “no doesn’t have to mean no” or something like that. Same vibe.
Bumble is officially a male on male dating app‼️‼️
🤷🏼♀️Tehe 🤣🤣
LETS GO LADIES ‼️🫶🏻
STAND FOR SOMETHING OR FALL FOR ANYTHING ‼️
Yup...I think Grindr should just buy ALL OF THEM. 😂🤭
… you do realize that Men cannot message on Bumble? Are you aware of this? This isn’t a dating app. Huge disconnect with reality here.
Also what’s with that wording? “You know FULL WELL …”. Actually what we know FULL WELL is that having sex with strangers is wrong, bad for us and unethical.
First it was close your legs now they want us to open it. I am so confused...smh
They’re confused too. They just won’t admit it. They don’t want women with a high body count but at the same time they don’t want us to be celibate. Make it make sense.
@@dream_on_sammi They're not confused, they know exactly what they want. BOTH. They just won't admit it because it's so obviously selfish. So they blame us🙄
Men can’t love so why are we even talking about online dating-it’s a grotesque charade. 🤢
Dead ass these are just hookups sites, like an escort service
Men can't love period. Apps, irl, the church, doesn't matter where they are. The best they can do is provide... They literally have one job.
And they are just entertainment for men as well
I knew men can’t love when they said having s** with their wives is how they express their love.
Men can and do absolutely love. They have emotions too. Toxic people come in both genders. This is a sad comment.
The audacity it's like they're begging for their business to go under.
Never used bumble or any other sleezy dating apps, however, I am confused.
If bumble was supposed to be this "woman empowerment" thing where women get to "make the first move", now all of a sudden they're "burdened" by that? What exactly was the point of making an app that women were going to feel "burdened" by/with?
Secondly, how the hell is celibacy, abstinence/virginity, asexual, etc. - a "punishment" to men? I saw a video of some dude parked in his car saying celibacy was a "punishment to men!" So...if men don't want women with a "high body count", when they themselves have high body counts:
1. wouldn't f***in' a woman CONTRIBUTE to her body count? 🤔
2. wouldn't being a virgin/celibate = no/low body count? 🤔 Thus, also equalling women "keeping their legs shut"? 🤔
3. when women and girls keep their legs shut, why exactly are they mad? 🤔
Lastly, why does being "sex positive" have to equal talking about sex and announcing sexual things you like, to people who didn't consent to that? Its almost similar like a guy sending a "D" picture without permission!
I guess it’s that saying about how equality sounds like oppression to the privileged.
Merissa, such good points! One, two, three strikes and their whole worldview just crumbled.
I think the reason is: Different guys say different things, hence society’s contradictory messages. Also, for those guys who want open legs, I think it’s
1. Influenced by porn, where they choose what they want based on their own lusts, and the woman can’t say no.
2. Entitlement. These below bare-minimal effort men feel entitled to the best while putting in the least. It’s a mindset of selfishness…
3. Being flat out unworthy and knowing it. And that’s why I’m not on the market for selfish men, and am very much celibate. The right guys will be okay with that. The wrong guys know they don’t deserve that and while they may be looking to “conquer” I will probe their shallowness and reject them. The only guys I’ll look at are the ones committed to cherishing their woman and being responsible for their own actions. Bur of course, even with that, being wary of lovebombing.
I'm asexual and a virgin, and I plan to remain a virgin until I pass on from this world, not only because I have no interest in having se,x but because I see that it's not worth it. What men think about that is worth less than what I flush down the toilet every day because at least that served a purpose at some point. They hate us whether we give or don't.
I explain: Men want some women to be promiscuous to make them easier to f*ck them and release their balls BUT them don't want the women they desire as having a big body count.
Men see women as objects so lets use the cars example. A man who just needs a low cost or free ride from point A to point B won't mind pay for a uber who has taken thousands of passangers, he doesn't even mind if its a good new car or not, he just wants to pay (little) fot that specific ride that he needs to satisfy his ponctual need of going from point A to point B.
Now, men who want to buy a car, want an expensive car, a car with status and a car with 0 miles, brand new. Ofc not them all can afford it, and some might buy a bugatti in 2nd or 3rd hand (others dont have to know) and if they cant buy a porsche or Bugatti they might still bebok with an average car with 0 miles. And ofc the guys who cant afford uber or expensive cars will ride a 3rd hand old fiat punto and not treat it very well, just while it's serving him the man will keep it (placeholder women).
Hope my explanation was helpful. Always remember that men don't see women as humans like them but objects to serve them, like cars, and not all cars are the same even if they all do the same function.
Fucking “Blurred Lines” is the Robin Thicke song. I remember when it came out it played on loop fucking everywhere. 🤮
I didn’t know that was what it was about until now.
Knowing what we know about those Hollyweird parties (like Combs) it is likely this song also referenced spiking alcohol... 'blurred' vision to have a chance assault the victim.
This used to play in every nightclub when I turned 18. Had no idea how messed up that actually was.
It's weird that the woman said it was a good song, considering the refrain "You know you want it." On some "she wanted it" ish.
I feel like it's demeaning to women and the current political climate
It’s insensitive for sure.
It’s over. Bumble completely, COMPLETELY messed up!
Bumble's ad will only heighten and fuel the 4B movement, which in turn will not just cause their company to go down, but other dating apps too. I'd like to see Tinder and POF go down as well! Dominoes effect
Let's go, ladies!! Celibate and haven't dated in 5 years.
Comment below how long you've been celibate.
🎉#CelebrateCelibate
over 6 years.
Over 3 years. Have not properly dated for almost 5 years.
(NOT PROPERLY = Online dating but nothing beyond 1st date.)
MY WHOLE DAMN LIFE 🥰🥰🥰
7 or 8. I stopped counting after it became so regular that I don't think about it at all.
12 years!!
Theyve posted a half ass apology on instagram and women ain't having it
I'm going to go watch their stocks go down the shitter. 😂
Sex and the City ?! Girl, what? Honestly, that show really missed the mark on a lot of things regarding sexuality, race (especially), lifestyle choices and class. So no a Samantha Jones campaign would not be a good look. lol. No no no no no no no no no.
She’s onto something. “You know full well” is giving major “well what did you think was going to happen?” after someone is date graped.
I know! It gives dark grapey scary vibes
The thing that disturbs me most about this is that its target was BW, as though it was acceptable to be more aggressive towards them. F that! (...and I'm a WW.) 😡
@@smlorrinThat bothered me too.
@@smlorrinHow was the target of the ad black women? I see it targets all women, especially teens and children. It's way more sinister than you think.
@@NovaPrincess The ad that had the "You know full well" part in it was only in black neighborhoods according to someone here on RUclips. (I can't remember which creator said that.) That part was missing on billboards in other areas. Those billboards just said "A vow of celibacy is not the answer."
EDIT: I said "here on Facebook" rather than "here on RUclips. I changed only that part.
Dating apps are 🚮
the red pill podcasts and pearl gonna eat this one up, but honestly dating apps really aint it. Its just for people looking to have sex and the small percentage looking for a relationship. no thank you
I hate to disappoint you, but meeting men the "old fashioned" way is the same.
Not sure how they're going to "eat this up" when they've been screeching about women being "ran through" and having a "high body count".
This campaign is against what they're saying.
@@jessikajane4967 im sure they will find a way to flip it on women lmao but hey 🤷🏾♀️
@@Childfree334Because it's the exact same sociopathic male whether he is on Hinge, Bumble, Tinder, or at the gym.
@@jessikajane4967 They’re going to flip this so that men are the victims. Pearl would say something like, “if women catered to men, men wouldn’t feel sexually frustrated, and this billboard wouldn’t be up”. Fresh n’Fit would say something like, “Ladies, you want a man, you’re going to have to show him how much he’s desired”. Tate would probably defend women not having sex cuz he has this weird obsession with women being virgins, but then he’d say something about “used up” women being mad or something like that.
The song she’s trying to remember is blurred lines and it’s effing awful!!!! It’s dehumanizing.
is that the one that Weird Al Yankovic was parodying when he wrote Word Crimes?
@@goverlord yeah, that's the one
Messaging gives me the ick. The company is very clear it wants to pimp women out for profit.
How are they pimping out women…. Men cannot message women on the app!!!!!!!!!!! Only women can message 😂😂😂 if you’re a pimp, how are you going to sell your hoes if your customers cannot even contact you ?
What you said is bullshit and whoever said that they followed is an idiot
Bumble is disrespecting women AND men.
That’s the goal of all of these dating apps. Tinder and Grindr even market themselves as hook-up apps, so they know what they’re doing.
The first ad that came up on this video was for “Bumble” …. 😂.
I saw that too! 😑😑
Any publicity is good publicity.
Lmfaoo i keep getting the bumble ad so annoying 😂
Me too WTF! 😂😂😂
They are all over the place 😂😂
Bumble is like a male author writing women 😭💀
The campaign was so out of touch. Based on male entitlement. They "blamed: Women instead of doing a deep dive on the toxic environment dating apps cause. Male toxicity, is ignored. And they want Women to get back into the game again, risk their lives and open your legs. There entire vibe is sad
Bumble will tumble then fumble and many men will be humble 💅
Nice one 🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Why??? What does Men have to do with this? We can’t even message on this app? Men don’t even like this app 😂😂😂 we are only in these comments to laugh at all this. Bumble is horribly sexist towards Men, and you’ll think that’s actually a good foundation to form relationships with people 😂😂😂 why would
Men be humbled by this !?? This was a women’s decision to make the app this way 😂😂
Celibate for 6 months and I love it 😍
No s@x before marriage
No living together before 💍
That’s a traditional way 😅
Good luck 🤞
_ADD_ to that list no ❌: vacations ✈️, joint business(es), kids before marriage, no joint bank accounts, no shared properties/housing, no shared vehicles, etc!
Lastly, date/court intentionally by: asking the hard questions now *not* later, get therapy, practice self care, switch up your diet, get healthy, invest yourself, and don't date X amount of years and stop keeping folks as placeholders. Get married - either get off the 🚽 or 💩 already!
These dating apps depend on women desperate to find a man . And these men depend on these apps for a hookup after a dinner date . Delete all these apps . Paying to have a guy play you is crazyyy . I don’t blame the women cus society pressured yall to think yall need a husband n 3 kids by 25 but definitely don’t pay for any dating service .
Bumble and other dating apps dont realize ... its gonna be some "Slow singing and flower bringing" if you incentivize men to think i owe them something 😊
Bumble is showing you all the their site is just for sexual encounters....duh
This is true for all the dating sites even Plenty of Fish which was supposed to be a Christian website 💀.
So what's that advertisement promoting exactly?
If you're a celibate woman.... don't go on that dating app?
Because the men, don't respect and won't except that you're celibate?
Ok then...
Not using THAT app
They fumble and stumble and will soon crumble.
App will have weeds of tumble. 😂
And the men will grumble
@@Gumbier_Than 🤣🤣🤣
@@julesb2415 🤣🤣🤣
I’M DONE WITH Y’ALL 🤣🤣🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
LOL That app has been trash for years. Every man I “met” on that app showed how trash they were within 5 minutes of messaging them. I was so traumatized by my last encounter that I still remember the guys name and we NEVER met in person 😬
Billboard: A bear standing in an aggressive pose in front of a jacuzzi: Ladies, we'll help you spot the difference. Boom. Done. Stay with the times billionaires.
The sad thing is, i have even had some girlfriend say that guys "need" sex. While here I am, having been in multiple months to years long relationships, where I've been celibate & they... find a way (rt or left hand) or do without. Good guys with some self-discipline don't need sex for intimacy, but most of the dusties have ONLY that on their mind bc their life is the opposite of rich or emotionally mature.
Fr that’s one of the reasons why I’m waiting for marriage. I’ll be able to weed out the men who lack self control and want to know me as a body instead of a person. Good guys are out here and I don’t think a lot of them are on dating apps or social media in general. Bad men are simply the loudest but i have bodily autonomy. I can choose to only give myself to a man deserving and that’s what i’m going to do. Self control is attractive.
The second girl was talking about Blurred Lines
Yeah disgusting song. Thank God it would never be a hit today
Ew
@@elishh8173it would
You mean woman 👩 not girl 👧🏼. Stop infantilizing women.
Glad more women are speaking up about this ❤
Why would anyone use Bumble anyway? 😂
People think being lonely isn't "that bad" but for some it is. Otherwise people wouldn't put up with the crap they do in relationships.
@@Gumbier_Thannever met anyone who thought being lonely isn't that bad, but I've met plenty of people who prefer to be alone. There's a big difference between being lonely and being alone.
@@eg4417it is more lonely being in a bad relationship than it is to be alone type lonely
And the ads are relentless
Wonderful video as usual, though I’m flabbergasted I got a BUMBLE ad right at the start 😂
lol, me too!
I deleted the app YEARS ago and glad I never returned. It’s a joke
Bumble have just successfully turned even more people off online dating. Great job bumble 😂
This campaign is literally GARBAGE CAN JUICE!!! 😂.. but seriously it is giving :"give me access to you even if you THOUGHT you didn't want to do so, you silly woman"
CEO LINDIANE JONES will be replaced in 3...2..1 since she was *bragging about this relaunch in Bumble on NBC*
That was definitely disappointing, but not surprising
Even SAMANTHA JONES opted for CELIBACY when it fits her best interest! (yeah, that's in the show)
Yes I've had to come off a dating apps long time ago. The men are gross, you don't even have to have a provocative picture anywhere on your profile, and they'll still come at you regarding sex. They're not looking for anything real or substantial.
The irony is that i got an advertisement from Bumble on this video 😂
Sad to say, it could have been a man AND/OR a pick-me that gave the final go-ahead. The tone is judgmental and entitled AF!
The algorithm cracks me up sometimes. I got TWO bumble ads while watching 😂
I'm genx, and when we were coming up, approaching a man was considered 'desperate'. So when Bumble came out, I always thought it was weird and backward. Men should be confident and go for what they want. Women respond. It allows her to be a lady.
Disgusting messaging!
In this era, they would have done better to advertise their friend finding feature. It's obvious folks are over online dating.
#boycottbumble
I agree with that one woman who says Bumble has always been her least favorite. I’ve been on most of the apps and honestly I have always hated that one the most. Women do the most work in relationships as it is why do I have to do all the work there too? Awful.
song is Blurred Lines. Once again these companies, or men rather, put the onus on women to make the world right again and try to push us to give into the entitlement of others.
Dating apps will never be pro women as men tend to pay more, as they have to to get matches due to them being most of the users, and men literally see those apps as "order a free sex worker" apps. They will never cater to us
There was a bumble ad before your video started!! 🤣🤣 They are funny
I got the ad during the video 😂
Wouldn't it be funny if all women around the world, deleted their profiles and men actually had to be charming to score a date with you
Crazy how the app gave incentives for women to make the first move but then realized its impossible, they are scraming around for solutions and this is how they do it 😂😂😂
also, does anyone else think their entire basis of "women should make the first move" sounds like some thing a pick me or misogynistic man would say? The same kind of people that say "equal rights, equal fights." I've never trusted bumble because of that, it put a bad taste in my mouth from day one.
Right, lower usage of a dating app must mean celibacy. Why did any of us ever give any legitimacy to these things?
“The belle of the ball” 😂😂😂
Bumble fumbled!!
Well I wouldn't see a problem with the ad on my own since I know they were just trying to be silly and funny to advertise but I also can't delegitimize these women's problems with the ad either since I understand their frustration with men
What's scary about this ad is that it implies any and every woman on the app is- or should be- open to sex which is insane, especially given that this trash app is publicly traded. It's prostitution, and women have to pay in time and sometimes hyper-inflated membership for the 'experience' of allowing males access unpaid!! They are selling gamified access to women's bodies. Their goal is to shame women who aren't giving bodily access whether they're on the app or not, too. It's horrifying. Moreover, it does subtily target the youth who haven't lived long enough to truly understand the benefits of celibacy in a world intent on stealing women's bodily autonomy. The ad is pressuring women who remain on the app; it's the ol' 'grape' culture pressure of 'Well why are you on the app if you're not willing to have ... with strange males? Why did she wear those clothes? Why did she go to his house? Why did she leave the house? Why wasn't her door locked?' For any woman celibate, they're saying you're a fool for trying to be, that includes teens mind you. Sick, sick ad! It's pure propaganda.
🤮That lady is crazy, nobody is watching Sex in the City 🤮🤮 it doesn't reflect my real lifw oe any woman i know. That show is horrible!
YT’s algorithm be wiiiilllldd 😂 showing bumble ad breaks 💀
So much capitalism is anti-feminist. Glad we have enough players in the game to start making a difference against this kind of negative and manipulative messaging. Really interesting and smart takes in the video.
P.S. You are so cute. What are you snacking on? 🤗
God help women, let us get over this muddy road to become better people and get what we deserve
Like 90% of the ads I see on RUclips these days are for Bumble and Hinge. Is that happening for you guys too? I block them every single time I see one and they still won’t stop. It’s driving me crazy. They’re really scrambling 😂
The panic is real 😂
just a comment: I think you have good interview skills because you let the other person talk, and over time that person gets to the crux of their point. I found it really good, that you were not interrupting or talking over. Alot of youtubers do this
❤❤❤
I love your accent ❤
Lmao not a Bumble ad interrupting the video 😂
I wish you would put the creators names so that we can support them
I met my husband on Bumble. I appreciated that I could make the first contact. But this campaign is very tacky, immoral, and insensitive. However, a bad man will be a bad man without permission or influence.
How was this marketing approved?
Money. They want to keep the cash flow. Marketing is about manipulating folks into buying things. This was just a dumb campaign.
They tried to do the "no publicity is bad publicity" thing... big fail!
Because these males with swear women are 304s sleeping with only top 10% top tier males 🙄
That Robin Thicke/Pharell song was Blurred Lines
We live in a time where all sexual behaviors and tendencies are demanded to be normalized, as long as you are engaging in it. I can't believe in today's society celibacy is shamed.
Dating apps running scared now a lot of us women and men have wised up to the scam of online dating 😂 Pure power play. We won’t be manipulated or desperate sorry not sorry ❤
Crazy I’ve never been on a dating app date
Me neither 😀 Just heard horror stories from friends
I havent been on a dating app since 2016. Always knew what it was. Just creeps
Sidebar, your skin is so glowy. I hope your peace and prosperity keeps going🙏❤️.
Lost me at the Sex and the City campaign, highlighting Samantha Jones and not recognizing that millennials hate Sex in the City lmao! Hell no! Dumb idea!
The way i got not one, not two, but THREE bumble add on this video
Also too dating app content like social media in general is so heavily curated to begin with, like you said that person's trying to pitch the idea of themselves to you and like someone once said, a crush is just a lack of information. So I've always doubted dating apps' potential for good as well.
Boycott Bumble for this.
Another fun fact: m4st of the m4n in dating apps are marr4ed m4n or m4n already in relationships.
Thanks 😊
Yt men thought up & approved this campaign. It's totally tone deaf and ignorant.