1-Communication 2-forgiveness or tolerance 3-acceptance with good or bad qualities or heart relation 4- goals mutual / support to achieve goals 5- patience 6- Able to understand each other without involving 3rd person between wife and husband.
Mera to ghar hi tot gya is wja say...mera husbnd rahta hi maa kay sath hai mjy us nay ghar say b nikal dya...na kbhi rabta kia na kharcha dya...na kbhi mere msg ka jawab dya....us ka maa bap mjy martay thy or woh khamosh rahta tha....pta nhi aisi maa ki bakshish b hai kay nhi....
@@fatimamaryam9178 ap q beqdre insan k liy preshan hoti hain Allah pak pr yqin rakho ap k liy bihtrin socha Hoga thora mushqil hota dobara ghr psana lekin agr sath acha mil jay to asan ho jata Allah pak ap pr apni rehmat kre
G Allah pay hito bharosa hai usi pay bharosa kar kay sabar kya hua hai dukh bht hai...takleef bht hai...kisi ki khatr itna kro or woh apka aisa sila day ......srf is liey kay uski maa nhi chati...maa kay hakok mai yah nhi ata kay woh mian biwi ko alag kar day....laikin woh admi rhta hi us kay sath hai....
Behan Tum kb sy msg krhy ho koi nhi SUNY ga koi support nhi kry ga or agr bola b to koi nhi smjhy ga tumhy ku k Dil ka Hal ya maa janti Hy ya Khuda B's
1) Listen to each other. 2) Be open and honest. 3) Do compromise. Compromise must be from both sides. 4) Talk on your good days with each other. 5) Spend time with each other.
jazak ALLAH ul khairah ❤ shah g ap itna achy sy samjhty ha ma follow karrny ke koshesh karti hun Tak kari married life humesha achi rahe MOLA apko slamat rakhain ameen
Spirituality ( روحانیت ) muhabat ki waja say hay,.. insaano say muhabat kro,.. insaano say muhabat allah say muhabat hay,.. makhlooq say muhabat allah say muhabat hay.
مرد کھبی صبر نہیں کرتا صبر ہر بار عورت کو ہی کرنا پڑتا مرد خود کو عورت کا خدا سمجھتا ہے اس معاشرے میں تکلیف و صبر صرف عورت کو ہی برداش کرنا پڑتا ہے اور عورت کو ماں باپ بھی برداش کرنے کا سبق ہی پڑھاتےہیں
@@abdurehmanasvi4213 janab ulta un logo ne kia h jo deen se door hen,wo dosro k lie azmaish bn jaty hen jo srf Allah k ho k rehny waly hen,ba prda rehti hen,lekn ye mobil ka fitna hr bandy k pass h bhaly acha ho ya bura ho,neek ho ya ni
Lots of love for you sir Aapko mene jb se follow kiya ha mjh mai bht changes ai han..ik bar mere husband se buri larai hui or wo naraz hogae kafi or mai b,ego agai mjh main k mai nhi manogi phr mene apka lecture suna tu demgh thanda hua or meine unhein manaya..
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
You are best motivator in my life ...I wish I met with you in my life ...I have a lot of teaches but no one can motivate ..but I listen your video daily and my life changed day by day .... May Allah give you long life .. a lots of happiness .... I wish I met with you in my life time .. Thankuu .thankuu so much sir
mn MA ki student hu mere husband b mere sth MA kar rhy hn we both are same age 1 year baray hn mujhse we are cousin phly mujhe dar lgta tha k khandan mn shadi hog to kahen husband naqadry na hon but after marriage I realized k mere shohar mujhse kitni mohabbat krty hn meri shadi k bad unch neech hue the susral ki trf se jo k phupho ha saas but Allhamdolillah mere shohar ne sb smbhl lia he's a good listener 😍 we pray together help eachother in everything he's very supportive for me agr mn kamiyab hue to meri kamiyabi k pechy mere shohar hon gy but not only in the world in akhrat also ❤️
@javeria malik Ji akhrat k hisab Kitab Ka yaqeen hota hai tabhi pori Zindagi guzr deti Hain larkiyan, par iinsan Hain frishta Nahi ban sakte jazbat to fitri bat hai. Aur jab kuch nahi krsakte Tu apni zat se Tu dosro Ka shikwa Karna fitri Amal hai ye Janet hue BHI k jalny kurny Ka nuksan hamare siwa Kisi ko Nahi hoga
@Haleema Allah asaniya farmaye sab larkiu k liye. Ek mashora hai bachchoun ko zanjeer Nahi talwar banaye. Unki tarbiyat ESI Karain k wo futue main mazbot shakhsiyat banain aur apki talwar ban k logo knsamny ajayen. Aur bachpan main un ko apna aadi bana dain, Yani ziyada time bachchoun ko dain un k Kam khud kare aur bachchoun ki tarbiyat k mamly Main Kisi ki parwah na kare.
Please differentiate between being patient Vs bearing unnecessary burden in a relationship. It is better to depart on time if a relation is not working than keep on giving it chances. I got my kids ruined by uselessly bearing the pressure of society to not get divorced and my kids used to witness the fights and arguments between me and my husband. Now I'm separated but it's too late because my son is a badly spoiled with destructive mentality. I am left with nothing but to save my younger kids and depart from husband . I regret that i should've taken this step many years ago!
1.Take care of each other 2. Make good deeds 3. Never ever criticise in front of other family members 4. Express your love with loved ones 5. Try to maintain a healthy routine 6. Enjoy happy moments 7. Discuss issues with each other 8. Plan things together 9. Please note that your decisions will affect you, your better half and your children. 10. Never listen the bad things about your better half from any third party.
Ap ne sb sehi kha lkin sabar ki b ek limit hoti jb khtm ho jata sabr tu andr hi andr kerwae ghunt peena prte jo damagh ko khtm kr dete is surte haal main kya kya jaye ?
اگر میاں بیوی کے درمیان کوئی تیسرا آ تا ہے تو اگر کوئی شخص دونوں کے درمیان برابر ھمدر ہے تو رشتہ قائم رکھنے کی کوشش کریگا ۔ اور اگر ایک کا حمایتی ہے تو رشتہ بگاڑ نے کی کوشش کریگا ۔
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Love After Breakup | Qasim Ali Shah (In Urdu)
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زیادہ رشتے مس میتھ ہوتے ہیں۔۔ آج بھی عورتیں صبر کر کے گھر کو چلا رہی ہے۔۔ اس میں والدین کا بھی بہت اہم کردار ہے
1-Communication 2-forgiveness or tolerance 3-acceptance with good or bad qualities or heart relation 4- goals mutual / support to achieve goals 5- patience 6- Able to understand each other without involving 3rd person between wife and husband.
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Also abuse cannot be forgiven...
Aaqaa
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Thanks sir g ...
Apki wja sy hmara relation Acha ho gia hy.
Mry husband ny apki live classes li js sy wo boht motivat or good natur ho gy hn
Kitni fee he inki
@@aemnhanif5389 12000
12 day ka lectures sath wo apni 1 book b daty hn
Ma sha Allah
Ma shah Allah. . Lucky you are.
Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko sehat izat Dolat or beshmar barkatain or rehmataian ata farna Ameen.
بہت خوب سر! آپکی جدوجہد بہت اعلیٰ اور سخت محنت کے ساتھ ساتھ اتنے پیارے لہجے سے بھرپور ہے کہ ہر سننے والا آپکودعائیں دیتا ہے
ا صل میں ھمارے ھاں ٹرینگ نہیں ھوتی اور مرد خود کو خدا سمجھتے ھیں
درگزر کرنا،معاف کرنا، مہربانی کرنا وغیرہ بھی خدا کی صفات ہیں.
مرد اور عورت دونوں کو تربیت کی ضرورت ہے۔۔
@@rashidshafeeq3853 بھائی صاحب آپ کی بات درست ھے اگر یہ صفات واقعی کسی مرد میں ھیں تو وہ واقعی مومن اور جنتی ھے لیکن یہ صفات صرف میرے اللہ میں ھیں
@@mehardin902 آپ نے بجا فرمایا جو بھی غلط ھو اسے سدھار کی ضرورت ھے
Bilqul theek
Jazak Allah shukriya shukriya shukriya .
لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللّٰهُ مُحَمَّدٌ رَسُولُ اللّٰهِ
بہترین ہر بات اپ کی مگدر جہاں معاملہ یہ ھو کے شوہر ہر معاملے میں ماں کو اہمیت دے بلکہ ماں ہر بات میں اپنی چلاتی ھو وھان کتنا صبر کرے
Mera b yahi case hai.....
Wahan bahu nfsyati mreza ho jati or bachon ki zindgi tbha ho jati
Mera to ghar hi tot gya is wja say...mera husbnd rahta hi maa kay sath hai mjy us nay ghar say b nikal dya...na kbhi rabta kia na kharcha dya...na kbhi mere msg ka jawab dya....us ka maa bap mjy martay thy or woh khamosh rahta tha....pta nhi aisi maa ki bakshish b hai kay nhi....
@@fatimamaryam9178 ap q beqdre insan k liy preshan hoti hain Allah pak pr yqin rakho ap k liy bihtrin socha Hoga thora mushqil hota dobara ghr psana lekin agr sath acha mil jay to asan ho jata Allah pak ap pr apni rehmat kre
G Allah pay hito bharosa hai usi pay bharosa kar kay sabar kya hua hai dukh bht hai...takleef bht hai...kisi ki khatr itna kro or woh apka aisa sila day ......srf is liey kay uski maa nhi chati...maa kay hakok mai yah nhi ata kay woh mian biwi ko alag kar day....laikin woh admi rhta hi us kay sath hai....
Sir ap great ho ap ki bato mai jadu hai real life story
AllahuAkbar 🙏
SubhanAllah
Alhumdulilah
MashaAllah
JazakAllah khair bhai g 💐
Amazing motivational speech thank you sir stay blessed ❤️❤️
Bohat achi zindgi sumgha denay wallai batiyan krtay hain👍👍
دل سے دونوں بولیں تو گزارا ھوتا ھے ایک طرف کا دل بولتا رھے اور دوسری طرف کا دماغ
Zabardast point right
Behan Tum kb sy msg krhy ho koi nhi SUNY ga koi support nhi kry ga or agr bola b to koi nhi smjhy ga tumhy ku k Dil ka Hal ya maa janti Hy ya Khuda B's
1) Listen to each other.
2) Be open and honest.
3) Do compromise. Compromise must be from both sides.
4) Talk on your good days with each other.
5) Spend time with each other.
Yes. Right, that is the only way if you want to live in paradise.
Thank You 💐
Prectical life is very different. I think u guys are not married.
Or newly married
@@mrsmehmood5512 yes I am bachelor what is your suggestion to me . serious question
Jesy ap dill se bolty hain aor dill tk jati h❤❤❤ Sir you are such a great motivator ❤❤Pakistan need people like you
jazak ALLAH ul khairah ❤
shah g ap itna achy sy samjhty ha ma follow karrny ke koshesh karti hun Tak kari married life humesha achi rahe MOLA apko slamat rakhain ameen
اللہ تعالیٰ سب کو ہدایت فرمائے
MAA SHAA ALLAH CONGRATULATIONS Ur Great
Alhamdulillah i have a strong bond with my husband. ❤ Sameer Malik
Great sir g..I have listened this lecture before but listening today again...bcs u deserve it...
اپنے دل کو مضبوط کرلو
اور اللّٰہ پر یقین رکھو
وہ تمہاری ہر مشکل آسان کردیگا................
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Ma sha Allah Allah pak ap ko is ki jzza da
Spirituality ( روحانیت ) muhabat ki waja say hay,.. insaano say muhabat kro,.. insaano say muhabat allah say muhabat hay,.. makhlooq say muhabat allah say muhabat hay.
اسلام وعلیکم بہت ہی اچھی باتیں بتائیں آپ نے جزاک اللہ خیر ا
مرد کھبی صبر نہیں کرتا صبر ہر بار عورت کو ہی کرنا پڑتا
مرد خود کو عورت کا خدا سمجھتا ہے
اس معاشرے میں تکلیف و صبر صرف عورت کو ہی برداش کرنا پڑتا ہے
اور عورت کو ماں باپ بھی برداش کرنے کا سبق ہی پڑھاتےہیں
اجکل با لکل الٹ ہے
@@abdurehmanasvi4213 janab ulta un logo ne kia h jo deen se door hen,wo dosro k lie azmaish bn jaty hen jo srf Allah k ho k rehny waly hen,ba prda rehti hen,lekn ye mobil ka fitna hr bandy k pass h bhaly acha ho ya bura ho,neek ho ya ni
bilkul sahi
True
سب سے زیادہ بیوقوف حرکتیں بھی عورت ھی کرتی ہے
👍bahot achi baat batai aapne jazakallah khaia
Always very good helpful conversation . May AllAh bless you always Amin.
Wah kamaal video
Bohat he achi observation all words r true
ALLHA PAK ap ko sahat or Lambie zendake ata kray.
Lots of love for you sir
Aapko mene jb se follow kiya ha mjh mai bht changes ai han..ik bar mere husband se buri larai hui or wo naraz hogae kafi or mai b,ego agai mjh main k mai nhi manogi phr mene apka lecture suna tu demgh thanda hua or meine unhein manaya..
بہت اچھی موضوع ہے ۔ love❤️ u sir
Alhamdulillah sir I hv a good partner with these Qualities. inspite of issues we can't live,with each other
Short and powerful reminders. Respect from India👍
Good explanation sir Love form india 🇮🇳 Big fan
Bohat achi baat samjhai sar apne Allah apko khush rakhe
Elahi ameen
Thanks for beautiful narration
dear sis mein ap ko follow kar ke allah pak ke karam se happy life guzar raha hn thanks sir
Sir aap mere baap or bhai dono hai aaj se, jazak allah
Allah Pak ap ko zindge br happy rakhy Ameeen
My teacher is my hero 😊
Assalam o alekum, you are right❤️
“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”
Insan ko hr hal m sabar krna chayi ajr zaroor mily ga
Ma Sha Allah
Mashallah! your explanation is awesome
Aslamo alkum
Alhumdullah mujy ap k Andaz sy both bettar feeling mliy h
Allha ap ko kamyabi dy ameen
Behtreen sir you are a super hero
We as male must follow prophet PBUH sayings how to deal with women being husband, brother and son
Assalamu alaikum masha Allah bht behtareen Allah bless you sir
Communication is most important ...
Bhut khub
great man
Qasim Ali Shah
You are best motivator in my life ...I wish I met with you in my life ...I have a lot of teaches but no one can motivate ..but I listen your video daily and my life changed day by day ....
May Allah give you long life .. a lots of happiness ....
I wish I met with you in my life time ..
Thankuu .thankuu so much sir
Beautiful thoughts, precise,crisp.JazakAllahKhair.
ALHAMDOLILLAH, I HAVE strong communication skill ,so happy in my life,
Islam ye sabaq deta hi hame
Wow sir dil ki bat nikal li.
Mara dil kar raha tha k ap aik video as jaga banao
Bohat achi naseehaat hy app ki
Mashallah very impressive
Ma sha Allah
😭😭😭😭😭کب تک درگزر کرے انسان میں کہتا ہوں جب آپ کی ہر کوشش ناکام ہوجاۓ تو علیدگی اختیار کرلینا سب سے اچھی بات ہے دین اور دنیا دونوں کے لیے
Assalamalaikum allah mere shohar ki maghfirat kare ameen summa ameen Allah hum sabko toba karneki tofikh ata farmaye ameen summa ameen
Good brother. God bless you.
mn MA ki student hu mere husband b mere sth MA kar rhy hn we both are same age 1 year baray hn mujhse we are cousin phly mujhe dar lgta tha k khandan mn shadi hog to kahen husband naqadry na hon but after marriage I realized k mere shohar mujhse kitni mohabbat krty hn meri shadi k bad unch neech hue the susral ki trf se jo k phupho ha saas but Allhamdolillah mere shohar ne sb smbhl lia he's a good listener 😍 we pray together help eachother in everything he's very supportive for me agr mn kamiyab hue to meri kamiyabi k pechy mere shohar hon gy but not only in the world in akhrat also ❤️
ھر وقت صبر کرنا اور درگزر کرنا ھوتا ھے دوسرے طرف سے ھر وقت (-) نیگیٹو رسپانس ھو تو پھر اور سفر بھی زیادہ ھو تو کیا کرنا چاھئے
In sawalo k jawab koi nhi deta sab kitabi batain hain jis pr gure wo Janta hai haqeqat.
Waqt par koe faisla Kar laina chahye
Yeah sirf wo hi samaj sakta hai jis kay sath yeah sab hota hai
@javeria malik Ji akhrat k hisab Kitab Ka yaqeen hota hai tabhi pori Zindagi guzr deti Hain larkiyan, par iinsan Hain frishta Nahi ban sakte jazbat to fitri bat hai. Aur jab kuch nahi krsakte Tu apni zat se Tu dosro Ka shikwa Karna fitri Amal hai ye Janet hue BHI k jalny kurny Ka nuksan hamare siwa Kisi ko Nahi hoga
@Haleema Allah asaniya farmaye sab larkiu k liye.
Ek mashora hai bachchoun ko zanjeer Nahi talwar banaye. Unki tarbiyat ESI Karain k wo futue main mazbot shakhsiyat banain aur apki talwar ban k logo knsamny ajayen.
Aur bachpan main un ko apna aadi bana dain, Yani ziyada time bachchoun ko dain un k Kam khud kare aur bachchoun ki tarbiyat k mamly Main Kisi ki parwah na kare.
Boht achi lgi aap ki batin sir I m your fan
Mashalla u r a great person
Amazing
Thankyou sir nice information
"Hum sada loag thay ham sai sanbalay na gai munafqat k rishtay"
Very informative
Please differentiate between being patient Vs bearing unnecessary burden in a relationship. It is better to depart on time if a relation is not working than keep on giving it chances. I got my kids ruined by uselessly bearing the pressure of society to not get divorced and my kids used to witness the fights and arguments between me and my husband. Now I'm separated but it's too late because my son is a badly spoiled with destructive mentality. I am left with nothing but to save my younger kids and depart from husband . I regret that i should've taken this step many years ago!
Jzk khair
مس میچ والے رشتے نبھانے بہت مشکل ھوتے ھیں
Exactly
Best point 2 and 3 amazing point sir
1.Take care of each other
2. Make good deeds
3. Never ever criticise in front of other family members
4. Express your love with loved ones
5. Try to maintain a healthy routine
6. Enjoy happy moments
7. Discuss issues with each other
8. Plan things together
9. Please note that your decisions will affect you, your better half and your children.
10. Never listen the bad things about your better half from any third party.
Thnx
True
Main ap ki bohot bari fane hun ap mujhy bohat achy lagty h qk main ap ko follow krti hun
Mashallah bahot khub
Absolutely 💯 right ✅️ 👏
Main apki iss baat se agree nahe karte kyun ke sabar ka bhe ek pemaana hota hai
It's job of parents to teach their children the importance of partnership, taking equal responsibility of each other
exactly
Very Well Said and explained 💐
Ap ne sb sehi kha lkin sabar ki b ek limit hoti jb khtm ho jata sabr tu andr hi andr kerwae ghunt peena prte jo damagh ko khtm kr dete is surte haal main kya kya jaye ?
Jzakallah
Wat a mausam...
Reaction approach! Made me put a comment!
:)😀
Great leader
Ap Kamyaab Motivation speaking han
Zabrdst 👍👍👍👍
Nice sharing 👍👍👍
Assalamalikum ماشاءاللہ beautiful sharing stay blessed and healthy brother 💐👍
Mashsh Allah
Goof
Yesss suffering from such type of relation
Understanding z most important in relation
Love you qasim Saab
Khwaboo ki duniya
اگر میاں بیوی کے درمیان کوئی تیسرا آ تا ہے تو اگر کوئی شخص دونوں کے درمیان برابر ھمدر ہے تو رشتہ قائم رکھنے کی کوشش کریگا ۔ اور اگر ایک کا حمایتی ہے تو رشتہ بگاڑ نے کی کوشش کریگا ۔
Assalam Alaikum wa rahmatullah .Jazaak Allah khair
Bht umdaaa ...