Signs of a toxic person 1: Blamers, play the blame game 2: Take revenge on the wrong person. 3: Small Paradigm. 4: Never admit mistake. 5: Sometimes dishonest. 6: they invalidate your feeling 7: bad listener, pretend to listen 8: they question your sanity 9: not puntual 10: extreame criminal tendency 11: they are psychopaths. Desi nishaniya 1: They are energy suckers Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain. 2: aura and energy negative. 3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein. 4: symmetry ni hogi. 5: aggrestion 6: ragra lgany mein expert. Solutions 1: Delete a person if possible. 2: Learn to avoid. 3: limited talk with them 4: Ignore them Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen. Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se. Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...
Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others. May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.
Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life
Well said,especially in a married life and top of that when you have 2 children who suppose to need you in their lives.this situation happens to anyone despite of gender,
Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️
Alhamdulillah me b bach gae mje lga tha k PYAR tha wo or me brdsht krte ja rhe. the itne salo se or mne shadi se bcha lia khd ko q k me mently bht dstrb the us insan ki wja se .. beshak ALLAH is the best planner …jo hta ha ache k lie hta ha
Alhumdolilah MashaAllah شکر الحمدللہ آپ کی باتوں سے جو سکون ملا وہ الفاظ میں بیان کرنا مشکل ہے اللہ پاک آپ کو اور آپ کی فیملی کو خوش و خرم رکھے آمین یاربالعالمین🤲👍😊
اورادو وظائف کی صحيح کتاب لے کر پڑھو ۔سورہ لھب روزانہ 7 بار پڑھو باقی یہ اللهم اكفينيهم بما شئت يہ دعا پڑھو یا رؤف 1000 روزانہ اول اخر درود کوئی سا بھی یا فتاح یا الفتاح روزنہ جتنا ہو پرھ سکتے ہین
Assalam u alaikum sir g ap mry roohani ustad hyn ap ki baton n mujhy himmat harny sy bchany m bohat madad ki hy Allah pak n ap ko logon ko mayoosi sy nikalny ka 1 zariya bna diya hy i want to become like you InshAllah
Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.
Sometimes toxic people come in our life so that we could learn from them and be ready to face thede type of people in future . I have faced a toxic person in my life tooo but it made me stronger than ever . These type of people do their best to find your mistakes,flaws etc and try their best to use them against you if you are not enough clever or a simple person then you are dead. The only rule i think like Qasim Ali Sir also mentioned plan for their exit or simply ignore them Trust me just believe in God These type of people will get in trouble too.
Very good positive video , I had no idea that why I’m so restless in life then after watching this video , I totally tried to change my relationship and now I’m at peace . At least I now know what was the problem of my life
My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction . From: Your college class fellow ..
Sir I’m really impressed with your lecture because it happens in our lives Iv seen people who get faint to get attention from their people around They think they are always right and they always suppress who are weaker than themselves They are selfish and they are negative people and make the whole environment toxic and unbearable for others. Allah aisay logon kay shar aur fitnon say hamain mehfooz rakhay ameen
Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.
"Wakhta paya hoya aye saraya nooo tay sensitive aey" This is the core line of Yours Sir G. In my opinion . Thanks Sir. ALLAH paak Aap par khaas fazal farmaein, Aameenn.
Very very true sir Alhumdulillah mager main aisay toxic logon ki family sy Allah ny mjhy bacha lya hai sir g ye sari batain unky har single person main paye jati thin nikal lya hai main bss mently sick ho gaye thi sukar hai Allah pak ka k main mentle hospitle nai gyae ...
Well done 👍 sir I need this counseling in both way’s I can say only JazakaAllah Sir aksar life me hum toxic ho jaty hen doosron ki negativity absorb kr kr k
Thank you sooo muchhhhhh for all your videos it helps me soo muchh ❤️❤️❤️ ... while listening to it i was thinking it could be someone around me but then i realized it could be myself being toxic as you mentioned all those signs.. Also thank you soo much for the AYAT E KARIMA treatment
sir this lecture is so true. I am facing this from a long time Caz of my partner. with passage of time I learn to avoid .lot of Duas for u .May Allah tallah bless u more knowledge.
Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta. Are Highly or overly judgemental. They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right. They always blame you for even their mistakes. They will retaliate from the wrong person.
100% durust Sir Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.
Mashalah Allah ne ap ki bato me itni taseer rakhi hy k jab b suny aysy hi lg3rda hy k muj sr bat ker rhy hy mery problems ko solve ker rhy hy ap Allah or pyary nbi ka ziker kerty hy isi liy ap ki bato me aser hy
یا قوی یا عزیز کا ورد کرین ۔ایسے لوگون کے سامنے ۔ اور پھر یہ پڑھو اللهم انا نجعلك فى نحورهم ونعوذبك من شرورهم اور پھر یہ پرھتے جاو یا رافع یا رافع 100 بار پھر یہ بھی یا سلام 133 بار موقع کے حساب سے ان سب کا علاج حفاظت کی دعائین ہین اوراد وظائف کی صحيح عقيده والا عالم کا لکھا ہوا لے کر پڑھو مناجات مقبول مین سب ۔کچھ ہے ڈاون لوڈ کرین یا خرید لے ۔ بہت اسانی ہے اج کل
8 year I leaving with just this kind person, then finally I hands up . Now he feel me like I am so wrong and loss Dimond. But alhamdulilha I find this video today . Thanks
Qasim shah sahib main ne app ki latad videos dekhen Hain lakin iss video me mughe apple bian aur knowledge ka gerveeda ker dia thank u sir it was such an amazing video
Aslaamo alaikum ww Qasim bhai Jazakallah for such a detailed explanation My Mother in law is toxic but she’s not bad person I love her but I was getting drained loosing my energy Alhumdulillah now Allah ka bada fazl or kerm he now I let my hubby to deal with her I’m ok to do any kind of work for her but not ok with her Tongue 👅 her waqt rona taane complaints but Alhumdulillah I’m in peace now Allah bada Meherban he mujh pe.
Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen
Sir u r right.n this happens in the cases of husband and wife. Husbands most of the time consider them as they r all the time right.n criticise their wives n in laws
¶Short lec notes.....Remedy (Self realzation ho jay kay ya kia hai....Ayat kareema with full conviction......sacha sajdha.....)12-they never admit their mistake.....13-create darama......14-sometime dishonest hoty hain....they invaidate ur feeling......15- listening ability less....16-agr jurat ho to argue....17-mazlom ko dabaty hain.....18-dream crusher.....19-ya feel karwain gy ap achy nahi.....20-istaqamat nahi hai....21-they are selfish magr admit nahi karty.....
Awsome !!! MashaAllah Allah aap ko jaza day you are spreading so much wisdom to the masses. Allah aap ko salamat rakhay. Aameen !! Qasim bhai main aap ka bohat bara fan huun.
What an amazing insight provided about negative and toxic people. These people need help. They are not bad people at all. Your suggestions are worth considering. Tried and tested. Definitely works amazingly with lot of patience DOA with full confidence in Allah almighty.
@@vardahsami It's such a good sign that they admit that they need help. Doua and wisdom should be used to the best to help them and guide them through the process of overcoming challenges and obstacles. What a great sadiqa Jaria and an opportunity to please Allah Almighty.
Well explained sir thank you so much. Sir plz try to discuss if our own siblings are becoming toxic what to do plz do discuss. Thank you jazakallah khair
میں صدق دل سے اقرار کرتا ہوں اور یقینی حلف اٹھاتا ھوں کہ حضرت محمد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم خاتم النبین ہیں اور اللہ تعالی کے آخری نبی اور رسول ھیں اب قیامت تک کوئی نیا نبی نہیں آئے گا۔ اور جو کوئی بھی نبوت کا دعوی کرے گا وہ کافر، زندیق، مرتد ہوگا۔ اس حلف نامہ کو کاپی کرکے مختلف گروپس میں بھیجیں تاکہ تحفظ عقیدہ ختم نبوت میں ہمارا بھی حصہ ہو۔
Haroon listen ..remember when prophet Muhammad S.A.W came then it was toxic ppl everywhere..what happened..how those same jaahil change..prophet Muhammad S.A.W didn't do anything..He only convey the massage i.e QURAN .CHANGE came when those Arab did some inner work..No youth club can change you..YOU WILL HAVE TO DO LOTS AND LOTS OF WORK WITHIN..it's the crap that stems from yours childhood..you are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder aka toxicity..it's hard to change..no narcissist ever changed..if they decided to change then change happens..but narcissists never want to change.. It's urs JOURNEY ..and you have to cover it on yours own..look u will decide in this life about yours next life if HELL OR HEAVEN..
@@Haroonjayy if you afford it then go for consultation..find some counsellor who specialises in NARCISSISM..the normal psychiatrist or therapist can't help you..it's only who has specialises in this branch..
@@mumin1115 thankyou for your kind suggestion I don't have time for getting proper consultation but I started Qur'an with tafseer Alhamdulilah. Trying to become a better human and a better Muslim
i am handling toxicity from my mother and siblings after my father's death since 5 years. just hopeless about my life. whatever i do i just feel now that it is useless. so many dreams, plans of business, studiz i had in my mind 5 years ago my enrgy was difrnt and now i just feel myself useless
Sir you said right Sir mery husband is like this all symptoms match with him Extra judgment , blaming others, apny ap ko bilkul thek samjhty hen , over thinking, negative thinking, har waqat doubts mayoosi
In k sath behas na ki jae kisi bi male me or in ko in k Hal pe hi chor Dena acha hota he. Aik kaan se sun kr dusre se Nikal deni chahie in ki negative batain ...baqi Allah hi in ko hidaet de.. Allah ka shukar he k meri jaan choot gai us me to in tmam baton se barh kr 😭
Us se ziada dosti na ki jae us se APNA taluk madham kr dn ...UN k sath behas se perhaiz kren or Sirf zroorat k that thori bht bat ki jae to phir set rehte hn..in ko ziada importance na dn.
Signs of a toxic person
1: Blamers, play the blame game
2: Take revenge on the wrong person.
3: Small Paradigm.
4: Never admit mistake.
5: Sometimes dishonest.
6: they invalidate your feeling
7: bad listener, pretend to listen
8: they question your sanity
9: not puntual
10: extreame criminal tendency
11: they are psychopaths.
Desi nishaniya
1: They are energy suckers
Bina baat kiye bhi apki energy suck kr lete hain.
2: aura and energy negative.
3: doubts paida kr dein ge ap mein.
4: symmetry ni hogi.
5: aggrestion
6: ragra lgany mein expert.
Solutions
1: Delete a person if possible.
2: Learn to avoid.
3: limited talk with them
4: Ignore them
Eagle hain agr to crow k level pe akr ap b crow ni ban jaen.
Psychologist ki energy damage ho jati hai cases se.
Energy change/neutral krne k liye namaz, tahajud, physical activity, travel krna...
Jazakallah
Well said
Maire baray Bhai ki tamam nishaniyan yahi hain is leye usko choray huye aj 7 sal hogay hain mazeed 50 sal tak us k nazdeek nai jaunga
husband ho to kia krain
Jazak Allahu khairan Qaseerah for the above comment
جو بھائی نماز نہیں پڑھتا اس سے گزارش ہے کہ نماز پڑھا کریں اللہ کا عذاب بہت سخت ہے تمام بھائی نماز کی پابندی کریں۔کہو ان شاءاللہ🤲
قاسم صاحب كم ہی لیکچر ڈیلیور کرین ۔ عزت برقرار رہتی ہے ۔
Inshallah ❤ thank you for asking
InshaAllah
In Sha Allah 💫
Inshallah
ہمارا المیہ یہ ہے کہ خود بھی کچھ کرنا نہیں چاہتے اور نہ کرسکتے ہیں اور دوسروں کو بھی آرام سے جینے نہیں دیتے۔
Thanx a lot Shah sb, may Allah bless u
dua hay allah Hidayat dy...ameen
Seriously
سر : اللہ آپکو لمبی عمر عطا فرمائے۔ آپ نے تو میری زندگی ہی بدل دی۔ آپکی باتوں میں بہت جادوئی اثر ہے۔
Each of us become toxic at some stage of life , we need to introspect ourself continuously rather than to do it for others.
May ALLAH guide us to become as HE loves.
Ye sach he king kisi na kisi stage pr har koi toxic hpta he life mn
ameen sum ameen ya Rabbul Alameen
Exactly
یا اللہ ھم سب کے والدین کو عمر دراز عطا فرمائے۔ آمین ثمہ آمین۔.
لَّآ إِلَٰهَ إِلَّآ أَنتَ سُبْحَٰنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ ٱلظَّٰلِمِينَ
Sometimes it's so difficult to remove such people from you life as they won't leave you they'll disturb the peace of your mind constantly all you can do is to pray and ask ALLAH to remove them from your life
Well said,especially in a married life and top of that when you have 2 children who suppose to need you in their lives.this situation happens to anyone despite of gender,
@@nidawahid1642aur tab b jab wo apki mother ho
اگر زندگی میں آگے بڑھنا ہے تو بہرے ہو جاؤ کیونکہ بعض لوگوں کی باتیں مایوسی میں اضافہ کر دیتی ہے۔
Very good
Dil jeet liya ap k ilfazo ny
@@muhammadarib2296 I like your comint
Nice comment
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Wow sir....u really highlighted the points of toxic. I met such person who sucked my energy...gave me constant anxiety...wanted to marry me...but Allah saved me... alhamdulillah 😊❤️
Per mai bach na sakii:(
@@Motivate.yourselfff me b
Alhamdulillah me b bach gae mje lga tha k PYAR tha wo or me brdsht krte ja rhe. the itne salo se or mne shadi se bcha lia khd ko q k me mently bht dstrb the us insan ki wja se .. beshak ALLAH is the best planner …jo hta ha ache k lie hta ha
@@Motivate.yourselfff Same here ☹️
@@Motivate.yourselfff same to me wo ulty mujhe ilzam lgaty hain k tum sb kharab karti ho
Boht acha lecture hy. Jis ki jitni b tareef ki jai.
Boht kam hy.
Jazak Allah Sir
Alhumdolilah MashaAllah
شکر الحمدللہ آپ کی باتوں سے جو سکون ملا
وہ الفاظ میں بیان کرنا مشکل ہے
اللہ پاک آپ کو اور آپ کی فیملی کو خوش و خرم رکھے آمین یاربالعالمین🤲👍😊
اورادو وظائف کی صحيح کتاب لے کر پڑھو ۔سورہ لھب روزانہ 7 بار پڑھو باقی یہ اللهم اكفينيهم بما شئت يہ دعا پڑھو یا رؤف 1000 روزانہ اول اخر درود کوئی سا بھی یا فتاح یا الفتاح روزنہ جتنا ہو پرھ سکتے ہین
Bohat Khub !! Kahtay hain *Sanp 🐍 ya Bichoo* kay Zaher ka ilaj hai lakin Negative Insan ka koi ilajj *Nahi* .
*In ko Apni Life say Delet karein* .
👍
I honestly have no words to express my gratitude for your kind information. I would simply say that, "alhamdulillah!"
Alhamdulillah.
Please Allah ka zikr capital letters say kia karain. Allah har momin ko maaf karay.
Assalam u alaikum sir g ap mry roohani ustad hyn ap ki baton n mujhy himmat harny sy bchany m bohat madad ki hy Allah pak n ap ko logon ko mayoosi sy nikalny ka 1 zariya bna diya hy i want to become like you InshAllah
“People inspire you, or they drain you. Pick them wisely.”
Very informative session but I'm emotional after seeing this.we cannot easly throw the life some persons and even cant ignore if u r dependent on them.
V much right,
same here 1 KHAARAB
PERCENT
Qasim Sir, this is one of the best lectures.Amazingly well explained.
One of the best lectures Qasim Ali Shah ever gave!
Sometimes toxic people come in our life so that we could learn from them and be ready to face thede type of people in future . I have faced a toxic person in my life tooo but it made me stronger than ever . These type of people do their best to find your mistakes,flaws etc and try their best to use them against you if you are not enough clever or a simple person then you are dead.
The only rule i think like Qasim Ali Sir also mentioned plan for their exit or simply ignore them Trust me just believe in God These type of people will get in trouble too.
Exit, avoid or have boundaries ( no discussion or personal) keep contact professional and short ( so ignore).
Shukriya. ❤️. ALLAH aise logon par Fazl Farmayein.
Very good positive video , I had no idea that why I’m so restless in life then after watching this video , I totally tried to change my relationship and now I’m at peace . At least I now know what was the problem of my life
Sir bilkul thek kha apne ..mere Zindagi mein aisa he insan hi .. jis ne Meri energy chos li hi
Me also100%
My proud full class fellow Mr. Honorable Qasim Ali Shah you are absolutely right but unfortunately many people are toxic in a large number... Keep up guiding the people...You are in right direction .
From: Your college class fellow ..
Ma Sha Allah, Subhan Allah
Sir I’m really impressed with your lecture because it happens in our lives Iv seen people who get faint to get attention from their people around
They think they are always right and they always suppress who are weaker than themselves
They are selfish and they are negative people and make the whole environment toxic and unbearable for others. Allah aisay logon kay shar aur fitnon say hamain mehfooz rakhay ameen
Ameen
@kashf kaifi Allah apki mushkilon ko asan karay
لاَّ إِلَـهَ إِلاَّ أَنتَ سُبْحَـنَكَ إِنِّى كُنتُ مِنَ الظَّـلِمِينَ♥️💫
Much needed❤ ustaad jee Allah pak salamat rkhy apko ❤ Ameen
Respected Sir you are great or Allaha ki khas rehmat hay aap par,,may Allaha bless you always.
Unfortunately my husband is like that , when ever I complain anything ,he said there is no problem and rapidly heat up n yelled shouted and blame me makes dramas every time.
Mera father b aesa he hy dua kryn asy logo k shar sy Allah bachaey.😢
Same
Same here
My husband is same...
Leave him!
"Wakhta paya hoya aye saraya nooo tay sensitive aey"
This is the core line of Yours Sir G.
In my opinion .
Thanks Sir.
ALLAH paak Aap par khaas fazal farmaein, Aameenn.
One of the best lectures ever!
Thanks a Mill!
Allah ap ko boht jaza e khair day ameen
Ap ny dil halka kr dia l have suffered with that people but Alhamdulillah ab mey ny inko life sy nikal dia
Deep penetration to subject
Dil se salaam sir......
Very very true sir Alhumdulillah mager main aisay toxic logon ki family sy Allah ny mjhy bacha lya hai sir g ye sari batain unky har single person main paye jati thin nikal lya hai main bss mently sick ho gaye thi sukar hai Allah pak ka k main mentle hospitle nai gyae ...
Well done 👍 sir I need this counseling in both way’s I can say only JazakaAllah
Sir aksar life me hum toxic ho jaty hen doosron ki negativity absorb kr kr k
Sir g koi ilfaaz nahi hen mere pass how correct u r...1000% true sir g...
یا اللہ ہم سب کی مشکلات آسان فرمائیں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین
Aameen
Allah bless him and his family 👪 ❤️ jazak Allah khear.
Thank you sooo muchhhhhh for all your videos it helps me soo muchh ❤️❤️❤️ ... while listening to it i was thinking it could be someone around me but then i realized it could be myself being toxic as you mentioned all those signs.. Also thank you soo much for the AYAT E KARIMA treatment
The best person ♥️
This video is very helpful to remove the toxic people from the life🫀thank you for explaining like this🌸
sir this lecture is so true. I am facing this from a long time Caz of my partner. with passage of time I learn to avoid .lot of Duas for u .May Allah tallah bless u more knowledge.
Allah ap k liay ap k maamlaat mai asanian paida karain..ameen sum ameen ya rabul alameen
Write write write aap bilkul thik keh rahay hain jazakALLAH for the explain
Narsist personality disorder traits well narrated by Qasim sir.👏👏👍
Yes exactly
Qasim Ali Shah Sb, You are the Best who described this topic so beautifully, based on reality....
I am your big Big Fan
Toxic people defend themselves and have controling attributes, take credit for their actions, very good at lying. Plays Victim are two faced people, they are good at seeking sympathy, k mera to koi nahi hai, kuch acha nahi lagta.
Are Highly or overly judgemental.
They are not givers but are takers as if it is their right.
They always blame you for even their mistakes.
They will retaliate from the wrong person.
Thats very true
Absolutely perfect description ,
100% durust Sir
Aisa lga jesey ap ne Meri aap beti suna di ho. Men ne ye sb baten khud bardasht ki hen us waqt samajh b nahi thi.. Boht suffer Kiya, now I simply avoid n ignore. There's no other way out.
Thank you for highlighting this important topic 👍
Avoidance is the best option 😊
Aslamoalekum
Ese logon ka elaj bta dein pleez ???
Elaj btaein ese logon ka ??
Mashalah Allah ne ap ki bato me itni taseer rakhi hy k jab b suny aysy hi lg3rda hy k muj sr bat ker rhy hy mery problems ko solve ker rhy hy ap Allah or pyary nbi ka ziker kerty hy isi liy ap ki bato me aser hy
جزاک اللہ خیر قاسم سر۔ گھر میں اسکا بہت پروبلم ہے۔ اللہ مجھے بھی اس سے حفاظت فرمائے۔
یا قوی یا عزیز کا ورد کرین ۔ایسے لوگون کے سامنے ۔ اور پھر یہ پڑھو اللهم انا نجعلك فى نحورهم ونعوذبك من شرورهم اور پھر یہ پرھتے جاو یا رافع یا رافع 100 بار پھر یہ بھی یا سلام 133 بار موقع کے حساب سے ان سب کا علاج حفاظت کی دعائین ہین اوراد وظائف کی صحيح عقيده والا عالم کا لکھا ہوا لے کر پڑھو مناجات مقبول مین سب ۔کچھ ہے ڈاون لوڈ کرین یا خرید لے ۔ بہت اسانی ہے اج کل
Bht he fruitful video khuda apka hr naik tamana pori hu
Sir you are too good and absolutely right.
I'm experiencing this kind of person in my life from last 27 years. 😥😥😥😥😥😥😥
Sorry :( I know it's so difficult when you have one closely tied to you
And i am experiencing from 9 years .or abb bass ho gayi hai
@@Motivate.yourselfff definitely insaan ki himmat jawab da jaati ha
I m experiencing from 17 years...koi حل ni😢
@@hassaanahmed1069 😣😣😣
If possible EXIT
بہت اعلیٰ بہت خوب جناب !
اللّٰہ تعالیٰ آ پ سے خوش ہو ! آ مین ۔
8 year I leaving with just this kind person, then finally I hands up . Now he feel me like I am so wrong and loss Dimond. But alhamdulilha I find this video today . Thanks
Same my prblm 10 years ho gye
How to leave ?
I have 1 boy
Qasim shah sahib main ne app ki latad videos dekhen Hain lakin iss video me mughe apple bian aur knowledge ka gerveeda ker dia thank u sir it was such an amazing video
Aslaamo alaikum ww
Qasim bhai Jazakallah for such a detailed explanation My Mother in law is toxic but she’s not bad person I love her but I was getting drained loosing my energy Alhumdulillah now Allah ka bada fazl or kerm he now I let my hubby to deal with her I’m ok to do any kind of work for her but not ok with her Tongue 👅 her waqt rona taane complaints but Alhumdulillah I’m in peace now Allah bada Meherban he mujh pe.
Allah reham krey ap main NY 12 years guzaray hain aisi saaas a ساتھ
May Allah protect us from these types of negative toxic people aamin aamin aamin
Very well explained
We need this to understand
Very well said... Toxic person don't listen... Be careful
زیادہ ججمنتل آدمی بھی اکثر خوش نہیں رہ سکتا۔ 💯💯
Sare signs ap ne bilkul thik btaey hn100%
It's Very Common thing nowadays in our society.Even I see these things in Educated people...Very Important topic.
Masha Allah very good 👍
Aoa،mashallah Allah pak apko trki dy Apka lecture son kr boring nhi hoti blky mza ata h keyon k apki mesaly hsany wali hoti hy Jo AP msal dety Hy osy bat bohat jldi smaj mean ajati Hy mery kheyal mean AP ek molvi Sy ziyada gahri bat krty Hy Jo sidi Dil mean or jati h Allah oak sehat wali zendagi dy ameeeeeen
Sir u r right.n this happens in the cases of husband and wife. Husbands most of the time consider them as they r all the time right.n criticise their wives n in laws
You are absolutely right mere sath bi aik jahil ne Jeena Haram kie rakha Allah ese logon se bachae Ameen
Ya me too statyng with toxic bt very tired
Same here my husband is quite toxic 🥲
My husband is same , after 30 years of married life I became a very ill and depressed person all his negatively has penetrat in me.
Yes same prblm
Very good Sir,
Buhut Ala .. Briefinhg di hai toxic person per .. Exactly aise hi hotey hain....
¶Short lec notes.....Remedy (Self realzation ho jay kay ya kia hai....Ayat kareema with full conviction......sacha sajdha.....)12-they never admit their mistake.....13-create darama......14-sometime dishonest hoty hain....they invaidate ur feeling......15- listening ability less....16-agr jurat ho to argue....17-mazlom ko dabaty hain.....18-dream crusher.....19-ya feel karwain gy ap achy nahi.....20-istaqamat nahi hai....21-they are selfish magr admit nahi karty.....
Awsome !!! MashaAllah Allah aap ko jaza day you are spreading so much wisdom to the masses. Allah aap ko salamat rakhay. Aameen !! Qasim bhai main aap ka bohat bara fan huun.
What an amazing insight provided about negative and toxic people. These people need help. They are not bad people at all. Your suggestions are worth considering. Tried and tested. Definitely works amazingly with lot of patience DOA with full confidence in Allah almighty.
We log hty han
The point is they admit that they need help
@@vardahsami It's such a good sign that they admit that they need help. Doua and wisdom should be used to the best to help them and guide them through the process of overcoming challenges and obstacles. What a great sadiqa Jaria and an opportunity to please Allah Almighty.
Such people are not agree to get help
Kia banda h yr zbrdst MashAllah bht hi zbrdst baten kri hn yr 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Well explained sir thank you so much. Sir plz try to discuss if our own siblings are becoming toxic what to do plz do discuss. Thank you jazakallah khair
ap buhat help krty hain hr situation mai thank u so much sir Allah ap ko aisy e motivate krny ki tofeeq dy.buhat acha kam kr rhy hain ap ❤
I cherished your work
God bless you all great topic you people discussed sir IAM one of the big toxic man all over the world❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
میں صدق دل سے اقرار کرتا ہوں اور یقینی حلف اٹھاتا ھوں کہ حضرت محمد مصطفی صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم خاتم النبین ہیں اور اللہ تعالی کے آخری نبی اور رسول ھیں اب قیامت تک کوئی نیا نبی نہیں آئے گا۔
اور جو کوئی بھی نبوت کا دعوی کرے گا وہ کافر، زندیق، مرتد ہوگا۔
اس حلف نامہ کو کاپی کرکے مختلف گروپس میں بھیجیں تاکہ تحفظ عقیدہ ختم نبوت میں ہمارا بھی حصہ ہو۔
Sir you are absolutely right!!!!
I'm toxic and I wanna improve my lifestyle. 🙂 May Allah SWT help me with my weaknesses.
Get therapy..
@@mumin1115 Following youth club n it helped alot.
Haroon listen ..remember when prophet Muhammad S.A.W came then it was toxic ppl everywhere..what happened..how those same jaahil change..prophet Muhammad S.A.W didn't do anything..He only convey the massage i.e QURAN .CHANGE came when those Arab did some inner work..No youth club can change you..YOU WILL HAVE TO DO LOTS AND LOTS OF WORK WITHIN..it's the crap that stems from yours childhood..you are suffering from narcissistic personality disorder aka toxicity..it's hard to change..no narcissist ever changed..if they decided to change then change happens..but narcissists never want to change..
It's urs JOURNEY ..and you have to cover it on yours own..look u will decide in this life about yours next life if HELL OR HEAVEN..
@@Haroonjayy if you afford it then go for consultation..find some counsellor who specialises in NARCISSISM..the normal psychiatrist or therapist can't help you..it's only who has specialises in this branch..
@@mumin1115 thankyou for your kind suggestion
I don't have time for getting proper consultation but I started Qur'an with tafseer Alhamdulilah. Trying to become a better human and a better Muslim
Qasim sahib I have learn lot of things from you alhumdulillah. At your stage being a mentor more laughing is not expressing
I watched this video , believe me Sir my husband is really toxic person. He never understand what I want. I have 3 children, I can't end my marriage.
Same haalat mery ...
Same here
Same
Same here
Same here but m taking divorce now
Yes true ...... i face toxic person very tough personality.bilkul sach kaha ap ny
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Aoa sir .
Allah pak apko bohhht taraqqi dy . dil happy hogya ap ka ye lecture sun kr .
I salute u sir, u r amazing honestly.. ma'sha'Allah stay blessed
i agree with all your points. perfectly examined by you
اور ایسا بھی ہوتا ہے کہ کوئی اچھا بھلا بندا ایسے انسان کی ہمدردی کرتے کرتے خود بھی toxicہو جاتا ہے؟اس کی بیچارگی کو سچ جان کر اس کی باتوں میں آجاتا ہے
Thank you very much g, ghar main free lecture mil raha hai. ♡ Alhamdulillah.
i am handling toxicity from my mother and siblings after my father's death since 5 years. just hopeless about my life. whatever i do i just feel now that it is useless. so many dreams, plans of business, studiz i had in my mind 5 years ago my enrgy was difrnt and now i just feel myself useless
Same my inlaws and husbnd same
Very toxic
Kch bhtri ai
Thank you for great help...this is video helps me alot ...
Sir you said right
Sir mery husband is like this all symptoms match with him
Extra judgment , blaming others, apny ap ko bilkul thek samjhty hen , over thinking, negative thinking, har waqat doubts mayoosi
In the same boat
In k sath behas na ki jae kisi bi male me or in ko in k Hal pe hi chor Dena acha hota he. Aik kaan se sun kr dusre se Nikal deni chahie in ki negative batain ...baqi Allah hi in ko hidaet de.. Allah ka shukar he k meri jaan choot gai us me to in tmam baton se barh kr 😭
Hmm
@@asma545 rohaani illaj sy teek ho jaty hen ...in k mind sy nagitivty khatm ho jati hy ..
Mery husband asey hyean
Please ju behose ho wu drama nhi hota
Thank u so much for solving a huge problem of my life. JazakAllah
Nice
پیارے محترم قاسم علی شاہ
پاک أستاذ کریم
أللہ کریم 🌷 آپ کو شاندار دائمی جزاء سے نوازے
إلہی آمین
بےحد کارآمد پروگرام
بےحد شکریہ 🙂 سر جی ♥️
On of my colleagues is very toxic she always said that she's my best friend. But in fact she always used me and very mean.
Mazzy ki BAAT ye hai sir Jo batain ap bta ray hain,wesay wesay banday ka face sahmne ana Shuru ho jata hai
Qasim bhai, ap ne bohat acha topic select kia hy. Is topic ke bary mein karna bohat zaror tha.
Sir strikly action. about my brother ND harassment of sister...
BEST speaker in Pakistan.MashaAllah sha G
Sir, what should one do if your relatives are toxic ?
Us se ziada dosti na ki jae us se APNA taluk madham kr dn ...UN k sath behas se perhaiz kren or Sirf zroorat k that thori bht bat ki jae to phir set rehte hn..in ko ziada importance na dn.
Beutiful and very powerful motivational . . . Sir mjhe apse millne ka bht crase ha