@@purplebear445 Ask him. You have the right to know. You're not getting any younger (no one is. I'm almost in my 40's and he's two years older!). You don't wanna waste your time, memories, emotions, and energy for nothing! Seriously. But also, I heard in another video, would you not mind sacrificing your ultimate goal for the relationship? If so, that's on you. Good luck.
I’ve told my bf i don’t want a big wedding and idc about an expensive ring all i care about is being married to him and he still hasn’t done it. He says he really loves me and wants to marry me. we live together and eat together, etc etc and nothing will literally change after we’re married other than the fact that we are married on paper. i’m breaking up with him bc i’m not gonna wait around until he’s ready to marry me. if he’s not ready or if he doesn’t love me enough to marry me then i gtg. i’m not settling for a man who doesn’t know what he wants.
I am going through the same thing. I am in my 30's and met a man that I loved deeply. We were in a long distance with me going to see him every month. He was divorced and hesitant about marriage but after year together I decided to leave bc he has jealous issues and insecure. He won't give me a reason for why he won't marry me besides its not me its him. I left and he go so angry checking my IG and social media. Sending me angry emails bc he thinks I'm seeing someone new. It's crazy how someone doesn't want to give me what I need but won't let me go meet someone else in peace.
I've talked with my man extensively about marriage and why it is so important to me. I feel in the process, I've created a distance between us. I'm hoping he is just taking some time to think about what he really wants with me. If I don't see any change soon, I may have to move on....it will break my heart
I think men have to understand that marriage is a big step and it is a commitment to someone, if you value this woman that you like to be with, the best way to show your love is by marrying that woman he cares about. also with the woman she wants to share her life with you. I mean big weddings are wonderful and expensive, but the truth is at the heart of it you both are telling each other I love you, I want to share my life with you, I want to commit to you.. expensive or not.
Bull shit. Men that found the one will get married to the one. Not waiting around. Most men not ready because they wanna find out if she's easy to cheat on while being married to her
*Marriage is a significant commitment that should be based on mutual love, trust, and shared values. Instead of trying to make someone want to marry you, focus on building a strong foundation of trust, open communication, and shared goals.*
A man who loves his woman gets courage from his love. I would not lower my standards to be with a man. However, I am pro communication. The biggest problems rise from the fact that both need to ask and get to know the other person.
This situation is “ Unfair “ He must think himself how I marry him ? He ‘s the one who must ask me to marry him 😘 He must tell me why marriage is important 🙄
Yes but I think you didn't get what he was saying if I may announce... he's just saying to look within yourself and see *WHY* marriage and commitment is so important to you and go from there 🙂. It's actually pretty important to me because it shows me that I am important in his life and that he shows me off to the world! He is *PROUD* of me and he also wishes to spend a long time with me! We are partners in crime just like my parents who have been married for about 4 1/2 decades now.. 🙂 If the love is true and both people are matured and committed, it has a good chance of lasting!
This modern dating is so confusing and men waste my time texting and talking for hours. Also they want to be boyfriend and girlfriend very fast but no marriage plans after 6 month or 1 year. Is it a good idea to date many men until the best of them proposes or better to accept being a girlfriend (no sex) and if he doesn't propose within 6 months, then move on to a different man?
This is great! I just want Cesar to be a happy man. He is a foreign person, not born in the USA, and I did not grow up with any one other than Midwest boys growing up. I married one, then got divorced. Then annulled. Now I have another chance at love. I don't want to lose it by making any mistakes, and my Dad is very racist. Good thing my siblings and the rest of my family is not, so where it matters most, he will fit right in. I love him so much. Thank you God for this man, and this video information.
He said " will never marry you and apart from this I'm cool with staying with you " I love him ...this was never expected...he was so in love with me....now he want to marry as per his family choice ... I don't knw what to do... I can't survive a single hour without calling him...his so painful right now .... wasn't that rude to me earlier but now he just want to get rid off me ...wants to get sure that I'll not create any trouble to him for marriage in future ..as its not possible.
My relationship is long distance... He said he dont want to get married and just wanna get engaged.... And he havent fly to me yet.... And when i ask him to fly to me he is saying im pushing him.... His priority is his job...
“Let me show you a magic trick! See this prenup right here? Watch me split the assets!” Men will commit when he knows if a woman truly love him for who he is rather then what he own.
Some please help ,😭me I don't won't to leave my partner he said I can't marry bt I will try I ll definitely try becz of family issue he want to be with me and he said he will try for marriage bt if it's not possible so I can't do anything ,😭he said if u want to be in frndsip so we can start others wise I want to please prepare urself first for this. I am wondering I think I need to give hime time we need to spend time together we are in long distance relationship so u can't spent lots of time with eachother so I thought I think I need to give hime time I. Need to attract him fall in love with me so maybe my love will change his decision?
I think you should ONLY say you don’t care about a big marriage if you really mean it. Otherwise you’re just lowering your standards and your own value as if you are not worthy of a lovely dream wedding. You can’t make a man propose, if he wants to marry you he wants to marry you, if not, move on. Trying to manipulate a marriage proposal out of a man is not a good idea.
The pbm is, im 29 and he is 20...im a little devoted to our religion...e is not... What he learnd about getting married is very different from what i learnd... Dont know how to convince him...even if it is NOT to move in together yet... ====> Sorry...needed to edit... * . *
I think the best way is to talk about the importance of your values AND to make sure that every moment you spend together are good! Then He will be open to move forward!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert if that.s so...i hope the best...need to be patience...and give him his time...also give me time... Thank you...hope we can talk more!!! *.*
He doesn't want to marry as long he has not a stable job. What can I do to persuade him I don't care about this but about our common religious belief...? Thanks
Hello Alex ...I got him back after taking your advice and it feels good to have him holding on to me like he is but I don't know what to do with him when we no contact for soo long. leagal reasons helped me with that...but I've changed seriously what do I do with him ??? Cause I'm still vexed by the way he treated me and I don't want to hurt him like he hurt me 😊💗💯
Hi alex do you have any advice about a guy who is keeping secret like hiding another account in social media.. And he feel sorry about it and asking another chance.. To not to end our relationship. Because for that i feel like he is cheating on me.. What should i do..
Hi Alex my SP is taking his time to ask me to marry him because he was married before but it didn't work out so I think he's scared of it happening again
Is it true, that being too available will less the possibility of him proposing. With our busy schedule, we only have weekend to meet up, and most of the time he has work during weekend, so i visit his place every weekend. Was this being too available. It is me who go to his place, he is software developer and he constantly need stable internet.
I would be happy to give you some advice, but I need to know more about you and the relationship. If interested in a private coaching session tailored to your needs here is my link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Me and my man were in the relationships since 2 months but he not ready to get marry with me and he always says that I don’t want to marry nor to you neither other girl .How could I change his mind and getting ready to marry me. I ‘m so worried about my future . I want to marry him in future not yet bcoz I want to settle down my career first afterwards I want to get married to him . Please help me from this situation.. I will be very thank to u ❤
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link: www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/ -FRE Team
This is what I know about life- you could be the most perfect and right woman and if the man is not ready, HE IS NOT READY
Exact situation im in now. I have no clue why hes not ready
@@purplebear445 Ask him. You have the right to know. You're not getting any younger (no one is. I'm almost in my 40's and he's two years older!). You don't wanna waste your time, memories, emotions, and energy for nothing! Seriously. But also, I heard in another video, would you not mind sacrificing your ultimate goal for the relationship? If so, that's on you. Good luck.
I’ve told my bf i don’t want a big wedding and idc about an expensive ring all i care about is being married to him and he still hasn’t done it. He says he really loves me and wants to marry me. we live together and eat together, etc etc and nothing will literally change after we’re married other than the fact that we are married on paper. i’m breaking up with him bc i’m not gonna wait around until he’s ready to marry me. if he’s not ready or if he doesn’t love me enough to marry me then i gtg. i’m not settling for a man who doesn’t know what he wants.
I hope you left…. If yes then what happened? Also please check out Tony gaskin for more coaching. You’ll thank me later.
I am going through the same thing. I am in my 30's and met a man that I loved deeply. We were in a long distance with me going to see him every month. He was divorced and hesitant about marriage but after year together I decided to leave bc he has jealous issues and insecure. He won't give me a reason for why he won't marry me besides its not me its him. I left and he go so angry checking my IG and social media. Sending me angry emails bc he thinks I'm seeing someone new. It's crazy how someone doesn't want to give me what I need but won't let me go meet someone else in peace.
I've talked with my man extensively about marriage and why it is so important to me. I feel in the process, I've created a distance between us. I'm hoping he is just taking some time to think about what he really wants with me. If I don't see any change soon, I may have to move on....it will break my heart
I think men have to understand that marriage is a big step and it is a commitment to someone, if you value this woman that you like to be with, the best way to show your love is by marrying that woman he cares about. also with the woman she wants to share her life with you. I mean big weddings are wonderful and expensive, but the truth is at the heart of it you both are telling each other I love you, I want to share my life with you, I want to commit to you.. expensive or not.
Yes, and I also want the world to know PUBLICLY that this my woman, my forever life partner! My one and only! My honey bunches! Partner in crime!
Bull shit. Men that found the one will get married to the one. Not waiting around. Most men not ready because they wanna find out if she's easy to cheat on while being married to her
*Marriage is a significant commitment that should be based on mutual love, trust, and shared values. Instead of trying to make someone want to marry you, focus on building a strong foundation of trust, open communication, and shared goals.*
A man who loves his woman gets courage from his love. I would not lower my standards to be with a man. However, I am pro communication. The biggest problems rise from the fact that both need to ask and get to know the other person.
Thank you for your comment.
This situation is “ Unfair “ He must think himself how I marry him ? He ‘s the one who must ask me to marry him 😘 He must tell me why marriage is important 🙄
Yes, it should be the Man to ask for marriage.
Yes but I think you didn't get what he was saying if I may announce... he's just saying to look within yourself and see *WHY* marriage and commitment is so important to you and go from there 🙂. It's actually pretty important to me because it shows me that I am important in his life and that he shows me off to the world! He is *PROUD* of me and he also wishes to spend a long time with me! We are partners in crime just like my parents who have been married for about 4 1/2 decades now.. 🙂 If the love is true and both people are matured and committed, it has a good chance of lasting!
That's right, like the baby bug, when the marriage bug bites-it gets pretty INTENSE
This modern dating is so confusing and men waste my time texting and talking for hours. Also they want to be boyfriend and girlfriend very fast but no marriage plans after 6 month or 1 year.
Is it a good idea to date many men until the best of them proposes or better to accept being a girlfriend (no sex) and if he doesn't propose within 6 months, then move on to a different man?
I know i will marry him sooner or later ❤️
Silvana, I wish you the best of luck!
This is great! I just want Cesar to be a happy man. He is a foreign person, not born in the USA, and I did not grow up with any one other than Midwest boys growing up. I married one, then got divorced. Then annulled. Now I have another chance at love. I don't want to lose it by making any mistakes, and my Dad is very racist. Good thing my siblings and the rest of my family is not, so where it matters most, he will fit right in. I love him so much. Thank you God for this man, and this video information.
Hello
I do presure just on the man i want be free from 😂 they alvays wanish them self and no effort to get rid of 😄
😂😂😂😂
He said " will never marry you and apart from this I'm cool with staying with you "
I love him ...this was never expected...he was so in love with me....now he want to marry as per his family choice ... I don't knw what to do... I can't survive a single hour without calling him...his so painful right now .... wasn't that rude to me earlier but now he just want to get rid off me ...wants to get sure that I'll not create any trouble to him for marriage in future ..as its not possible.
His a narcissist...keep your distance...it will be hard at first but stay away from him!
Pull yourself together he’s not a good man, be happy that he’s gone🌸
My relationship is long distance... He said he dont want to get married and just wanna get engaged.... And he havent fly to me yet.... And when i ask him to fly to me he is saying im pushing him.... His priority is his job...
Hey, what is your situation now? Currently I am also going through the same
Ur such an amazing counsellor...👍
Love your comments and your French accent !!! Awesome. Maybe someday I will find the one!!!
“Let me show you a magic trick! See this prenup right here? Watch me split the assets!”
Men will commit when he knows if a woman truly love him for who he is rather then what he own.
Ha! Poor men get married all the time
And a woman will marry you if she knows you love her not just her looks .
If nobody wants to marry me I prepare single because I’m happy what I am now 🥰🌺💝 I’m enjoying my life ! Partner in crime 🤭hahaha I like this words 😂
:)
Alex
How do I ask the probing questions without seeming pushing or needy? Seems there is a fine balance.
Thank you 😊
Woah good topic!!!
Thank you!
Some please help ,😭me I don't won't to leave my partner he said I can't marry bt I will try I ll definitely try becz of family issue he want to be with me and he said he will try for marriage bt if it's not possible so I can't do anything ,😭he said if u want to be in frndsip so we can start others wise I want to please prepare urself first for this. I am wondering I think I need to give hime time we need to spend time together we are in long distance relationship so u can't spent lots of time with eachother so I thought I think I need to give hime time I. Need to attract him fall in love with me so maybe my love will change his decision?
This is helpful. Thank you so much.
My pleasure to help!
I think you should ONLY say you don’t care about a big marriage if you really mean it. Otherwise you’re just lowering your standards and your own value as if you are not worthy of a lovely dream wedding.
You can’t make a man propose, if he wants to marry you he wants to marry you, if not, move on. Trying to manipulate a marriage proposal out of a man is not a good idea.
Soo helpful thnx youngman👍
I have a question ? U said to give space but after giving space also he rejects for marriage..he says not feel connected but he loves me .Wat to do
What if He said that He wants to marry me and He doesn't put in to action
He’s trying to waste your life
Hi Alex,my boyfriend loves me alot ,but dont want to marry me because of astrology
Sadly, but that sounds like he’s wasting your time
The pbm is, im 29 and he is 20...im a little devoted to our religion...e is not...
What he learnd about getting married is very different from what i learnd...
Dont know how to convince him...even if it is NOT to move in together yet...
====> Sorry...needed to edit...
* . *
I think the best way is to talk about the importance of your values AND to make sure that every moment you spend together are good! Then He will be open to move forward!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank u for your reply...
Even with this age???
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Yes!
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert if that.s so...i hope the best...need to be patience...and give him his time...also give me time...
Thank you...hope we can talk more!!!
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Leave him.
He doesn't want to marry as long he has not a stable job. What can I do to persuade him I don't care about this but about our common religious belief...? Thanks
I just love these videos lol
Hope i will fine good for me..now its very hard to trust anyone..i alwys watching your video coach.
All the best
Hello Alex ...I got him back after taking your advice and it feels good to have him holding on to me like he is but I don't know what to do with him when we no contact for soo long. leagal reasons helped me with that...but I've changed seriously what do I do with him ??? Cause I'm still vexed by the way he treated me and I don't want to hurt him like he hurt me 😊💗💯
Take your time and stay focused on your needs.
Oh wow Hello Alex I can't believe I use to obsess like that I got it Alex I LOVE ME AND DON'T NEED NO ONES LOVE BUT THE MOST HIGH THANK YOU ALEX 😘❤️💯
Hi Alex ! Please, where can we find the link to download your book in English ? Thank you 😁
Hey Karine, here is the link : www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/free-ebook/
I hope you will love it !
@@FrenchRelationshipExpert i download many time.but i don't get the reaply
Hi alex do you have any advice about a guy who is keeping secret like hiding another account in social media.. And he feel sorry about it and asking another chance.. To not to end our relationship. Because for that i feel like he is cheating on me.. What should i do..
Don't let him cheat on you. If he doesn't want you, he doesn't deserve you.
Thank u so much Alex
Great advice
My pleasure!
Hi Alex my SP is taking his time to ask me to marry him because he was married before but it didn't work out so I think he's scared of it happening again
Is it true, that being too available will less the possibility of him proposing. With our busy schedule, we only have weekend to meet up, and most of the time he has work during weekend, so i visit his place every weekend. Was this being too available. It is me who go to his place, he is software developer and he constantly need stable internet.
his excuse is that his house is not big enough.......and that he doesn't know what he wants.....
Sir I want to marry my boyfriend can u help gave me a solution plz
I would be happy to give you some advice, but I need to know more about you and the relationship. If interested in a private coaching session tailored to your needs here is my link; www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
Me and my man were in the relationships since 2 months but he not ready to get marry with me and he always says that I don’t want to marry nor to you neither other girl .How could I change his mind and getting ready to marry me. I ‘m so worried about my future . I want to marry him in future not yet bcoz I want to settle down my career first afterwards I want to get married to him . Please help me from this situation.. I will be very thank to u ❤
Hi there! I know Coach Alex would love to help you but he would need to know a little more about what you're going through in order to help you through this. I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with him using this link:
www.frenchrelationshipexpert.com/coaching/
-FRE Team
Hi good morning🏆 coach
U r the best ✌️
Thank you and so are you!
you so amazing
Thank you so much Ann :-)
He don't love me
Lovable accent;)) a linguist says:it's your sexepil,Alex;)
No 1. 💪🏻
I asked question but he no respond and no give me an answer. By next day he said I’m thinking too much. What do you think what can I do?
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Are you “really juice” ? 😅🤭😄
Shanel hhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..
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If you've found the one
You'll get married to the one
So many men marry cause it's easy to cheat on them and the woman will forgive him
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Thanks. This is really helpful
Glad to hear that!