Note to Karen: Even if the op was selling the business, the daughter doesn't have any experience on how business works. She would run it to the ground. You see, running a business (even a very small one) is alot of work and effort to be successful.
Karens don't *UNDERSTAND* the words "would", "could", "should", "no" and "have to". Selective hearing on a physical level. Their brain hums in a frequency that counters "bad words" ...
@@IvanRodriguez-kl2hz Teaching dogs to play poker is easier Karens believe that their children are perfect angels who can do no wrong and can do anything. Never mind the evidence to the contrary
@youtubestuff683 terroristic threats are classed as any threat meant to cause fear. The main point of terrorism is to cause terror or fear. Hence this is terroristic threats legally. It doesn't have to be political
Haha, good pun! Yah, it's frustrating when someone calls or comes into your small bakery a little before closing on Thursday asking for a birthday cake for the next day (or Saturday) because they forgot about ordering. "Sorry, we have tons of orders for Friday and/or Saturday and can only offer you what's in the case (maybe two by that time). We ask for at least 4 days notice."😕
@kathybeckford3592 Thanks for catching the pun! And understanding the issues. I had a gal once who wanted me to go "whip one up in the back real quick" in reference to a custom birthday cake. She needed it in like an hour..... sorry lady, I'm not a genie.
Story 5: “I really didn’t think he was crazy enough to do what he did next.” The guy that poisoned your wife’s guide dog didn’t seem crazy enough to do something unhinged when he started complaining about your car?! OP is far too trusting if he believed that.
Turn them in it's literally illegal for anyone to leverage rank for favors or privileges not provided by the government, court martials are the very least that come down on you.
Dependopotimus at worse, and totally illegal. Unless mandate benefits or privileges hanging on spouse's rank actually hurts him/she they maybe libel to court martial if bad enough, so seriously considering the divorce!
Wow! When I had my own business for more than 21 years I doubt that I had more than just a few unhappy customers and no Karens. It helped that most of our customers were professionals and other small businesses. I miss them all, the customers, suppliers, employees.
Here's something like that 2nd one that happened to me. I was making a delivery to a Naval base with a load of 1.1 Class A explosive devices and was going to be picking up some of the same style that were at the end of their effective date for their explosives time and had to go back to the factory to get redone. Well as I am sitting in the road waiting to get unloaded some Officer's Karen of a wife comes up demanding I move my truck so she could get to someplace on the base. Now I am in a restricted access area that required me to have an escort she was not authorized to be here at all. She then went up to the Command Master Chief Petty Officer that was in charge of getting me unloaded and reloaded trying to order him around to get me to Quote MOVE THAT FING TRUCK OR I'LL HAVE YOU BUSTED OUT OF THE NAVY FASTER THAN YOU CAN BREATHE. This Chief basically screamed into his radio for the Shore Patrol and the Armed Marine detachment to come get her out of the Restricted area RIGHT NOW OR THEIR BUTTS WERE COURTMARTIALED. Next thing I know here comes a LAV of the Marines 2 Hummers full of SP's this Karen is bodily tackled handcuffed hogtied and thrown into the back of the LAV and hauled off to the BRIG on base. Her husband was ordered to report to where I was by the Base Commander in his WHITES as it was summer and had his 4 stripes ripped off his shoulders by a 2 star. Why the serious response to what happened. I was at Kings Bay Georgia the base for the US Navy Atlantic Trident Missile subs.
The husband should have stopped his wife doing that kind of thing, but I kind of feel sorry for him that he lost his rank because of his wife's entitlement. I worked in the supply chain of a USAF base in Europe (no firearms or ammunition, or explosives) and thankfully we didn't really get any of this BS. About the only one who ever tried it was the wife of a guy who was respected on base. When she tried to get one of my storemen to cut his lunch break for something that wasn't at all urgent I didn't say no directly, I said that I'd be happy to personally happy to drop it off at her husband's office when we were back on the clock. And that'd just happen to let him know that she was trying to use his rank again. 😁
Multiple lessons here: 1. Never mess with a Master Chief 2. Never, ever mess with a weapons handler (or a Special Weapons handler) (was at Bremerton & Bangor while Delta Pier was under construction) 3. Spouse has absolutely no connection with service member's position, rank or authority Note: most senior officers spouses (M or F) support their spouse and know the effect they may have on a successful career.
Haha on the vacuum one, we had a upstairs neighbor who always vacuumed @ 1 in the morning. Both me and my mom tried to ignore it but I had school and she had work so after a few weeks we went to the land lord and he talked to her. Her excuse was that was the only time she could vacuum......yeah no
One of the things that caused my divorce was my then wife expected a huge to do on mother's day and I did make mother's day a big deal for her but when it came to father's day I got absolutely nothing 5 years in a row not even told happy father's day. She was a stay at home mom for the majority of our time together and I never once stopped her from doing whatever she liked but anytime I wanted to do anything it always had to be something she wanted to do cause I wasn't aloud to do a damn thing by myself or with my friends which I didn't have any left by the time I had enough of her controlling every aspect of my life and served her divorce papers.
So yeah, you sound like a bunch of guys whining poor me! It sounds like she had complications from major surgery. He could have called for a sitter, too. Or asked if she could watch a movie with the kids. What's she supposed to do, read his mind? She GREW A BABY for 9 months! That takes a HUGE toll on a women's body, even without the surgery! And it sounds like she did most of the newborn's care which is usual. If she was nursing she was trying to hold a baby while trying to keep the baby off the incision. She DID TOO MUCH so she irritated/opened her incision. Women have to do all he did AND MORE every day. They usually don't get a break either. He could have OPENED HIS MOUTH and had a conversation with her about how he was feeling.
@@cherylwolf7458stop projecting , your the only comment I’ve seen disagreeing with, the wife was TA , is what it is, if it sounds like your life then maybe you were TA too 🤷🏼♂️ and if you actually listen it sounds like he does just as much of the care if not that plus more so don’t be so stupid
@bensyson3438 No you stop. Mom cannot read his mind. Dad could have done something if he wanted to. Instead he spent Father's day surrounded by his kids doing fatherly duties. How is that not how fathers day is spent. Kids made cards and did what they could. You made a f****** kid multiple kids. Step up and take a title like a man. Your father eighteen years old, to 60 years. that's your baby. You should never want to choose something else over your kids. What is wrong with you people?
Story about the father hit home for me. No one cares about dads mental health and Father's day. We're always not cared for when we break. With my second child I was told that my sleep didn't matter and I worked 12 hours and still did night duty with the baby. Only to repeat the process even on the weekends. It was hell on my body
Dude, same. Only, in my case, it was 16 hour shifts, barely any days off, and driving 20 miles each way. My ex-MIL even once came into my house while I was catching a much-needed nap and poured water over my face, despite my daughter also being asleep.
Dude, same. Only, in my case, it was 16 hour shifts, barely any days off, and driving 20 miles each way. My ex-MIL even once came into my house while I was catching a much-needed nap and poured water over my face, despite my daughter also being asleep.
Ha, ha: that is equal rights for you - mothers have to function ALL the time, even if not well or even sick: who made the babys? If the spouse is not able to "do things" for their partners comfort, see to it yourself - father's day is celebrated in my country by meeting up with other men and have a lot of drinks together😅 Invite friends and their children over and organize a sitter for every-one, so that all the fathers are secure in having a barbecue together😅 Make it a new tradition to do things together with other fathers! If wives want to tag along, it is only for sitter-function, to keep the children safe🎉
Story 5 how come OP didn't try to go the route of suing with a medical dog? The dog was gotten as a medical device for the blind wife so that sounds like tampering.
Living in small towns most of my life it's common not seeing any bakery with fancy coffee machines where most of them just have your standard coffee machine and nothing else. But what do you expect from a local small town bakery which from my experience if you want something special then go to a Starbucks because a local small town bakery only has a normal coffee machine, donuts, cupcakes, and a few other baked goods.
In i believe the third story. The one where the OP basically had a break down from having any time to himself. The wife *IS* the arsehole. As she very clearly made absolutely *NO* attempt to give him some time to himself for Father's Day.
@@Dungeonenjoyermcyou're just a clown who can't listen. The husband gave the wife something she could have done, without moving. Guess that logical thinking is too much for you.
I just want to know what was so damn important about having to see that guy in the office that that Karen had to put her husband's rank on the line for?
If the man was a business owner and he had owed about 300,000 the court should have been ordered to provide his income statements as well as a background check on his finances if he was going to be possibly of losing.
Wearing of rank is a huge no no. When the word gets back to the base commander this is the least of things that would happen. Her husband would have been dragged in and told until he can control his wife he has no business controlling men. Many spouses have been divorced over this. Seems that wives are a lot more likely to do this than men.
I also vacuum my hard floors. Why? Because they are textured and I have pets. When I simply sweep dust gets into the grooves of the texture and no amount of sweeping gets into the grooves to get it out. Before I started vacuuming them I even tracked the dirt, especially kitty litter dust, out into the hallway whenever I left the apartment, which meant more work vacuuming the hall carpets for building maintenance. So now I vacuum to get all of the dirt up.
Funny, I know a couple of vegans and they have never objected to my lifestyle, or the lifestyle of other family and friends. If we go out for dinner, or have dinner at my place, I always ensure that there is delicious vegan food available. If we eat at her place, the food will obviously be vegan. It's true that they may discuss their diet with friends, but they never demanded that anyone else adopt their lifestyle, or avoid situations where others are eating meat. I'm always amazed at stories about "raging vegans" since I never saw one.
I worked with a young woman who didn't eat meat. However her husband and young child did. So she prepared them meals and she prepared herself meals. She didn't like seeing or touching the raw meat, but she understood that she didn't have the 'power' to force her spouse or child to eat what SHE only wanted.
Most of these entitled vegans are hypocrites, they’re against violence but use violence to get their point across and then wonder why no one will take their side and wonder why they are getting stuffed into the back of a police car in the end.
It honestly wouldn't surprise me if it wasn't more than that. Thankfully I have only really encountered minor Karens but sometimes their "logic" can only be written in one line, although still bat sh*t crazy.
Story 1: Karen uttered a threat of arson...in a room full of witnesses...on video. Get a personal Restraining Order as well...that will keep Karen away after release. Story 2: Karen's actions could definitely get her husbands rank busted down a couple pay grades for Conduct Unbecoming...what your spouse does reflects on you. Story 4: OP is TA. OP has nothing to whine about...neighbor is cleaning her home during daytime hours when there is no 'quiet time' or 'noise ordinances' in effect. It is up to OP to deal with the noise as this is OP's apartment not an office building. It is not up to the other people in their homes to coddle OP for WFH.
Story 2: Commissioned officers, those holding ranks of Lieutenant, Captain, Major, Lieutenant Colonel, Colonel, Brigadier General, Major General, Lieutenant General, General, and General of the Army or Air Force, as well as those holding ranks of Ensign, Lieutenant, Lieutenant Commander, Commander, Captain, and the various Admiral ranks, cannot be demoted by even a General Court Martial. Commissioned officers don't get Dishonorable Discharges either. They can get dismissed from the service, which is tantamount to a Dishonorable Discharge from the enlisted ranks. There is one exception. At the discretion of the Service Secretary, and during a time of war or other national emergency, a dismissal from service may be converted to an enlistment at any enlisted rank. Source: 2019 Manual for Courts-Martial. It is available in a few places on-line.
Story 5: Within the hour of first contact, I'd have been in contact with ADA locally, and the nearest newspaper source. My next contact would be an attorney specializing in disability laws and rights. The HOA Pres gave you the dog treats -- a complaint (and file recorded) with local police and SPCA would begin the paper trail / investigation. Wrecking your car is a felony; also having it removed is grand theft. The law caught him before you got your settlement, and, if he "gave" it to his wife at the "divorce" he might still have property of value that he owes you.
1st story: What the hell made karen think that she could get away with OP just GIVE her daughter her business? Or that she could actually built or run it better that the woman who built the business from the ground up? Typical that when a karen doesn't instantly get her way, she starts destroying it 2nd story: I've heard this story before, it's sad when a military wife thinks she has the same rank as her husband and tries to throw her weight around 3rd story: OP has to realize that, as much as you need rest, he does too 4th story: Neighbors have to be courteous to each other or trouble starts 5th story: Why do HOA officers think that they can get away with anything? Poisoning the seeing eye dog, "problems" with his classic car is against the rules since it's not a "cookie cutter" car while he has an ugly ass RV that he never uses, just showing it off, destroying it when he doesn't get his way and thinking he can get away with it. What is it that turns HOA officers inro Aholes and criminals
@@fredk.2001 I think that only aholes can deal with the bureaucracy of an HOA. That, and the power it gives them in their own minds as well as the "free money" the get out of it
Work from home YTA. It is a home. Normal home noises happen at home. If you cannot work through it move where you do your job. The initial ask isnt horrible and she was willimg to make accomodations, but that wasnt good enough for you so now she has no reason to."help" you at all.
In the 3rd story OP is 100% the AH. It's been over a month & she can't do anything from a PLANNED C-section, that's just ridiculous. My mom has 5 kids & with her last pregnancy she had to have an emergency C-section, it was traumatic, but she was sent home after only 2 days of being in the hospital. And she went right back to taking care of all her children mainly alone, bc my dad didn't do anything to help once he got home, that's a whole other story tho. Also she didn't have much help from relatives & since my sister couldn't drink formula at all she was also doing all the feeding alone, she was the 1 getting up all night & she still took care of the rest of us, kept a clean house & had my dads dinner on the table every night, sometimes even having to cook more than once bc he decided he didn't want what she cooked even tho when she asked what he wanted his response was food. My siblings & I did what we could, but I was only 8 & was the oldest so there was only so much we could do. Sorry getting off point, getting a little triggered. Anyway I'm not saying any woman should have to just hop to after having a C-section, it takes time to heal & recoup & u shouldn't rush it or strain ur body, but after over a month & u can't even get out of bed. I call BS on that. I don't believe for even 1 second that she couldn't have helped out on Father's Day & even if her situation was as dire as she claimed, bc she was so incapacitated after picking up a sheet of paper off the floor, she could've made arrangements to have the kids babysat by relatives for a cpl of days & made arrangements for something that he likes to do even if she couldn't attend or even having the ability to just lie around all day if so chose just having a break. And if she could get the kids out of the house, she could've hired a sitter to come to the house while he got out & did what he wanted. If she cared enough at all she would've had something prepared & arranged ahead of time anyway, not even needing to be a last minute solution due to her straining herself into being bedbound with a piece of paper. She should be thanking her lucky stars to have such a caring & attentive husband who did all of these things not even complaining until she neglected him enough for him to understandably reach a breaking point. OP really is selfish & if she keeps up her behavior it's only a matter of time before he leaves her for someone who'll treat him as more than a man servant/butler. Sorry I know this was long, she just triggered a rant in me
That was a long rant but I agree with u.This woman didn’t want to do anything. It doesn’t take a month to recover. My daughter had a couple of c sections & it didn’t take her long to recover. The first one was rough & was in the hospital 5 days, baby in the icu unit but she recovered rapidly after she came home.
@@barbaraunderwood1762 I'm glad to hear everything ended up ok for ur daughter & grand baby. Also, ur right that was a long rant, sorry for that. That story really just struck a nerve for me
The fathers day story unfortunately a lot of mothers do not think that the farther has any problems or even needs to have any time off as they are very selfish in that they only see the work done in the home and everything that they do outside cannot possibly be stressful
Don’t press charges against the daughter because she didn’t do anything, but still hold Karen the mother accountable for her destructive actions. If Karen did want to be sued well then she shouldn’t have acted like a spoilt brat in a bakery. Clearly, Karen was on some sort drug to behave that way.
Get your upstairs neighbor a robotic vacuum. They are quieter and do the job especially on wooden floors. Make sure to see it demonstrated to check for noise levels. Some of them are programmable to start at a certain time.
Story 4: YTA. Your neighbor offered to do her vacuuming while you’re not working. For you to insist she can’t use the vacuum at all is a completely entitled karen move.
🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐🌟⭐😊🌺🌿🌺🌿🌺🐈👑🐈🥰 Vacuum story: How rediculous! Vacuums are amazing machines for so much more than just vacuuming rugs. Canister vacuums are great for dusting cleaning cobwebs, drapery, upholstery and hard floors.
The bakery one, not the AH, also it was good she didn't charge the daughter, she really didn't do anything bad and OP did get the money for repairs/damages out of it.
@@lovelysakurapetalsyt If she could post her story on reddit, she had access to the outside world. Would it have been so difficult to organize family, friends or babysitters to give her husband and her a quite evening after he came home from work? Normal recovery time for a C-section is 2-3 days in the hospital, 2 weeks for light household activities and 6 weeks for regular work. Longer time in bed increases the risk for blood clots.
@@lovelysakurapetalsytmost of my family had csections. She’s a drama queen. My wife was walking around in 3 days. My sil had twins with a traumatic and near death birth with an emergency C-section. Stop defending this pathetic self centered drama queen.
@@jimdob6528 Then you must not be actual humans, because humans can't recover from a traumatic surgery in only a few days. Or you're a psychopath who wants her to hurt herself
Story 3: i've seen both my dad and stepmom like this... not even on a special day, just any day. i feel for OP's family, but i also feel like the reaction is a bit extreme. justified, but extreme
There is a entire list of things that HOAs can't outlaw. The dude should have had a order of protection placed against him starting with a cease & desist letter!!
Service Animal Story: OP shouldn't have waited for more than a month for the Ex-HOA President to pay the Court Judgement...After the end of the first month of excuses and delays, OP should have gone back to the Court and Applied for a Writ of Execution which, when granted, means that Sheriff's Deputies armed with Warrants do the Collections by going to HOA Twit's Bank to clean out his accounts and if that isn't enough to pay the Judgement, then they'll go to his Home and/or Place of Business (if he owns one) to start grabbing everything of value (furniture, computers, art, collectables, tools, machines, vehicles etc.) for sale at Auction...once the Judgement has been paid in full, any money left after the Auction will be returned to HOA Twit... And he can't say NO to them because the Warrants give them the Right to just walk in and start hauling everything out and if he tries to stop them, he gets cuffed and stuffed in the nearest Cruiser for Obstruction of Justice...
I can completely understand Dad breaking downing tears. Parenthood is overwhelming. But mom was not TA just because she also broke down in tears. Those relatives, that dad wanted to ask for help with the older kids, were the jerks for not stepping up to help a week or two before the baby arrived. Dad was overwhelmed by dealing with older kids, mom is recovering from major surgery while her body is producing a lot of hormones to feed the baby. Trust me, she was also overwhelmed. Neither mom nor dad is the jerk here. But their friends and relatives are.
I think nobody’s the AH. Sometimes you don’t know how close you are to the wall until you’ve splatted against it. They need to come up with a respite plan, though. Dad’s been a trooper and Mom’s having a really tough recover, and it sounds like they’ve both gone through hell. Time to call in reinforcements.
Looks to me that in the first story the OP got a double score. The daughter wasn't at fault for anything. She wouldn't lose IF you sued her. Thinking about it, the dad simply sped up when OP got the glass counter replaced.
In due time hopefully thew daughter will return and thank the baker for not bringing charges against her. Especially since she wasn't actually involved in the matter.
7:44 ahh yes, a major. Basically the equivilant to a sergeant but for officers. Just staying in for long enough will make you a specialist, not hard to get sgt after that. Stay as an officer for long enough and you'll become a captain, not much more work to become a major. He sure as hell cant tell a general what to do, let alone his dependapottomus 14:37 vacuuming the hardfloor isnt uncommon..
If you work from home, it's not your neighbor's responsibility to be quite. Acoustic treating is no longer as expensive as it used to be. You can easily reduce noise your entire room for under $200. If you want to be cheaper than that, gather a bunch of egg cartons and tape them to the ceiling. The more layers you use, the better it works
The wife in that situation should have called family to see if someone could take over taking care of the children for at least a few hours I know what it's like not having a moment to yourself she should have called family Aura babysitter
Ummm Poisoning a dog is just Animal Cruelty... HOWEVER, when the dog in question is a Service Animal, then it gets a LOT more serious because now it's a FEDERAL Felony (attempting to damage/destroy a Medical Device) and that can carry Prison Time upon Conviction...
Story 5: the hoa guy doesn’t know cars if he thinks a Buick is an eyesore. Sure their not the fanciest car but they are among the most reliable especially in the winter
On the vacuum one. I work from home also and have a neighbor that works on his house every day just outside my window. Instead of complaing I bought a real good set of headphones with a mic the stuck to the side of my face. Problem solved! No one on the meeting never heard a thing and neither did I.
Story 3: Wouldnt say an AH but you have 0 respect for your husband and his working his butt off to earn a income, look after the kids constantly and just wanted 1 hour on fathers day...your lack of respect for him will make him walk away from you and ruin your relationship but i guess at the end of the day you can fall back on the "what am i supposed to do about it"
I would be calling the police the minute I started my barbecue cuz I know he'd be coming and give the police officers some food to just piss him even more.
For the first story, I have a feeling that the daughter knew how stupid what her mother was doing and likely knew she was not going to talk her mother out of the stupidity, so it was likely for the best to let her be.
S3 Why have so many kids so close to one another. This is why OP's body is recovering slowly. Why not 2 kids with a 3 year gap and one a bit later if they feel the need to go for a 3rd one? (My wife and I have 2 grown up daughters, 4 years apart)
Story 5 is crazy poisoned the guys dog and destroyed and towed a classic car. Dude is insane and should have delt with him before they destroyed his property.
Story 4. Things would have gone so smoothly if you wouldn't have felt a need to get in your neighbor's business about whether or not she vacuums. She was being accomodating. She offered to do it at a different time.
I understand the c-section lady, but remember how you treat him at this stressful time is how he’ll treat you!? Is that the care you want when you’re exhausted and losing it?
Vacuum guy is an ass people can clean their house however they want. Buy a house if you want quite. I assume that people who live in apartments or condos should expect some noise.
On the one you asked. Yes, YTA. Not only did she explain why she vacuumed, but also offered to use an hour that was appropriate for you and instead of giving an hour, you kept complaining
A C section is not a life threatening disease. OP was playing it to the full. I ran a home with 5 children ranging from 7 to 15 years old. Had a C section at age 42 and carried on running the house and chores as per normal. In addition baby was born Down Syndrome and needed extra care. Not once did I ask hubby to step in and help.
story 3: they must discus this for better future. he helped her all the time for not getting help when he needed it. Yes she isn't fit also but there are small tasks wich are still doable at least asking grandparents helping.
It would have been funnier for the 2nd story if the commander had said to the wife that he was going to make her husband a seaman apprentice. Cause this would mean that the husband will be put in the navy.
About the c section story, woman are more able to so things right after a c section than you think. My now ex wife had an emergency c section and once the meds wore off she got up and walked out of the hospital and home, she walked to town the next day to go shopping and was even carrying some of the shopping home.
Thinking the same thing, my ex wife had an emergency C section with our first, and a planned one with our twins. In both cases within a couple weeks she was moving around and doing light things in the house. Even before then she was still doing things to help with the new born(s).
It is entirely possible that the surgery didn't go right, or her body is just deciding not to heal. No surgery is 100% without the risk of the person not coming out great. So I can easily believe that she could be laid up for a long time. However, she is being extremely callous for the situation.
story 4....oh no..there are residential noises...in resitential buildings....if only there were places where you could work...without that...like an office outside of home... imagine bringing kids into the office and then complain to the workers about the business noises XD
No one but local and wildlife laws (and common sense) can tell me what kind/size of pet I can have. And no way in HELL am I going to be forced to have some boring car color. I'm painting mine pink once I have the cash
I doubt that Karen's legal status would influence daughter's college / uni admissions. I'd have made certain, though, the entire town knew of her behavior, even posting newspaper reports in the shop.
Bakery incident: I would have a long talk with the daughter of how would she like her life to end up and how she might possibly do it. I'm going to tell her to take a good look at her mother... and herself and if she really wanted to go the same path as her mother's. I'll tell her that what has happened to her mother would be a warning to her and she might suffer the same if she doesn't want to go through the right path in life. Of course I'd let her go and settle out of court the damage done to the bakery... and some a-hole tax as well to cover the potential loss of income while the damage is being repaired. Her, being young, I would give her the chance to be accepted in her chosen academia and hope not to have another Karen in town.
C-Section story. OP, you're darn lucky your husband is willing to do all this. The least, the VERY LEAST, you could have done for Father's Day, was call up a sitter (family/friend/neighbor) to take the 2 older kids so he could have had some HIM time. Order in dinner or have someone deliver for you. You wanted HIM to cook dinner for himself on Father's Day?? Yeah OK you had a C-sec. So have countless others. You can't run around doing things, but you should be able to use a phone. OP, YTA.
Have had two c-sections because I cannot give birth naturally by 4weeks (1 month) she should be able to walk around the house and help with the other kids more. The only restrictions until your 6week checkup is no driving (so you ask a family member or get a taxi) and cannot lift anything heavier than your baby. I was a single mum especially for both kids so had to do 90% of things unless my mum or his came to visit for the day. Had groceries delivered or did click and collect so mum just had to drive there. She helped me put it away but if she wasn’t there I could do it. There are so many things OP could have done for her husband including cooking the man Stake. She is either the playing up how bad the pain is, didn’t follow the pain management plan they tell you that includes strong pain killers for the first week or so followed by nurofen and Panadol for another week or so then as needed. Or there could be something else serious in which case she should have called the hospital/ doctor and let them know. Although regardless you can do a lot from bed with a phone or laptop. To see his reaction and not immediately organise him something for the next day like a massage and have the older kids stay with family/their own friends for a sleepover, weekend or an afternoon here or there till she is “able to do more” just goes to show she isn’t thinking about the others in her family. I knew it was a lot for my eldest so asked my mum to take him to the park or play at MacDonald’s for as long as he wanted. She would go through the drive through and bring me food too.
Story 5:
"Eating meat is MURDER!"
*Proceeds to poison a dog.🙄
Vegans kill more life per acre for there food if you believe the farmers.
The HOA president is a Hippocrate
I caught that and was going to comment the same. In the eyes of that demented HOA president, anything that didn’t suit his agenda was fair game.
You should see how many pets PETA murders in their "shelters"
God told Peter in a Dream that Peter should not call something dirty that God has called it clean. So the HOA president is an Athiest.
Note to Karen: Even if the op was selling the business, the daughter doesn't have any experience on how business works. She would run it to the ground. You see, running a business (even a very small one) is alot of work and effort to be successful.
Can't tell that to a Karen.
Trying to convince a karen that they're wrong is like trying to teach a dog how to play the drums, it makes no goddamn sense.
Karens don't *UNDERSTAND* the words "would", "could", "should", "no" and "have to".
Selective hearing on a physical level.
Their brain hums in a frequency that counters "bad words" ...
@@IvanRodriguez-kl2hz Teaching dogs to play poker is easier
Karens believe that their children are perfect angels who can do no wrong and can do anything. Never mind the evidence to the contrary
Might as well say Earth to Karen. And never mind what her daughter wanted.
Story 1,: op you were correct in not pressing charges against daughter. She did not participated in the damages.
I think that it was the mother that the OP was convinced not to press charges against.
@@DigitalCowboy000 No, Story specifically says "daughter".
She threatened to burn the bakery down..thats terrorist threat right there
Not actually a terrorist threat (it would be if it was for political reasons) but definitely a threat about arson, and destruction of property.
And LOTS of witnesses.
@youtubestuff683 terroristic threats are classed as any threat meant to cause fear. The main point of terrorism is to cause terror or fear. Hence this is terroristic threats legally. It doesn't have to be political
My goodness. I ran a coffee shop for years and years, and thought I had the best stories. But this story really takes the cake!
Haha, good pun!
Yah, it's frustrating when someone calls or comes into your small bakery a little before closing on Thursday asking for a birthday cake for the next day (or Saturday) because they forgot about ordering. "Sorry, we have tons of orders for Friday and/or Saturday and can only offer you what's in the case (maybe two by that time). We ask for at least 4 days notice."😕
@kathybeckford3592 Thanks for catching the pun! And understanding the issues. I had a gal once who wanted me to go "whip one up in the back real quick" in reference to a custom birthday cake. She needed it in like an hour..... sorry lady, I'm not a genie.
@@kathybeckford3592 two weeks at the one i use,
Story 5: “I really didn’t think he was crazy enough to do what he did next.” The guy that poisoned your wife’s guide dog didn’t seem crazy enough to do something unhinged when he started complaining about your car?! OP is far too trusting if he believed that.
It is probably not real. BBB doesn’t issue permits or visit businesses. They are old fashioned Yelp.
Story 2: I hate it when these military wives use that my husband’s an officer to get what they want.
Since I was the one that was in the AF, I hated," My husband works with your husband" No, he works with me.
AFAIK, using your spouse's rank to try to get privileges is a sure way to get said spouse reprimanded.
Or the Spouses of the Military all together are the worst cuz they could risk their spouse's career.
Turn them in it's literally illegal for anyone to leverage rank for favors or privileges not provided by the government, court martials are the very least that come down on you.
Dependopotimus at worse, and totally illegal. Unless mandate benefits or privileges hanging on spouse's rank actually hurts him/she they maybe libel to court martial if bad enough, so seriously considering the divorce!
"busted down to Private faster than he can sneeze" Priceless! 🙂
Funny how the Karen in the first story thinks OP1 is stupid.
Never move into an HOA. Great stories, Ripe.
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Wow! When I had my own business for more than 21 years I doubt that I had more than just a few unhappy customers and no Karens. It helped that most of our customers were professionals and other small businesses. I miss them all, the customers, suppliers, employees.
Here's something like that 2nd one that happened to me. I was making a delivery to a Naval base with a load of 1.1 Class A explosive devices and was going to be picking up some of the same style that were at the end of their effective date for their explosives time and had to go back to the factory to get redone. Well as I am sitting in the road waiting to get unloaded some Officer's Karen of a wife comes up demanding I move my truck so she could get to someplace on the base. Now I am in a restricted access area that required me to have an escort she was not authorized to be here at all. She then went up to the Command Master Chief Petty Officer that was in charge of getting me unloaded and reloaded trying to order him around to get me to Quote MOVE THAT FING TRUCK OR I'LL HAVE YOU BUSTED OUT OF THE NAVY FASTER THAN YOU CAN BREATHE. This Chief basically screamed into his radio for the Shore Patrol and the Armed Marine detachment to come get her out of the Restricted area RIGHT NOW OR THEIR BUTTS WERE COURTMARTIALED. Next thing I know here comes a LAV of the Marines 2 Hummers full of SP's this Karen is bodily tackled handcuffed hogtied and thrown into the back of the LAV and hauled off to the BRIG on base. Her husband was ordered to report to where I was by the Base Commander in his WHITES as it was summer and had his 4 stripes ripped off his shoulders by a 2 star. Why the serious response to what happened. I was at Kings Bay Georgia the base for the US Navy Atlantic Trident Missile subs.
The husband should have stopped his wife doing that kind of thing, but I kind of feel sorry for him that he lost his rank because of his wife's entitlement.
I worked in the supply chain of a USAF base in Europe (no firearms or ammunition, or explosives) and thankfully we didn't really get any of this BS. About the only one who ever tried it was the wife of a guy who was respected on base. When she tried to get one of my storemen to cut his lunch break for something that wasn't at all urgent I didn't say no directly, I said that I'd be happy to personally happy to drop it off at her husband's office when we were back on the clock. And that'd just happen to let him know that she was trying to use his rank again. 😁
Multiple lessons here:
1. Never mess with a Master Chief
2. Never, ever mess with a weapons handler (or a Special Weapons handler) (was at Bremerton & Bangor while Delta Pier was under construction)
3. Spouse has absolutely no connection with service member's position, rank or authority
Note: most senior officers spouses (M or F) support their spouse and know the effect they may have on a successful career.
Haha on the vacuum one, we had a upstairs neighbor who always vacuumed @ 1 in the morning. Both me and my mom tried to ignore it but I had school and she had work so after a few weeks we went to the land lord and he talked to her. Her excuse was that was the only time she could vacuum......yeah no
The absolute least OP could’ve done is order dinner for her husband on Father’s Day and maybe get a sitter for the kids
Yep I bet an update will be "My husband walked out on our family after a breakdown claiming he got no support"
One of the things that caused my divorce was my then wife expected a huge to do on mother's day and I did make mother's day a big deal for her but when it came to father's day I got absolutely nothing 5 years in a row not even told happy father's day. She was a stay at home mom for the majority of our time together and I never once stopped her from doing whatever she liked but anytime I wanted to do anything it always had to be something she wanted to do cause I wasn't aloud to do a damn thing by myself or with my friends which I didn't have any left by the time I had enough of her controlling every aspect of my life and served her divorce papers.
So yeah, you sound like a bunch of guys whining poor me! It sounds like she had complications from major surgery. He could have called for a sitter, too. Or asked if she could watch a movie with the kids. What's she supposed to do, read his mind? She GREW A BABY for 9 months! That takes a HUGE toll on a women's body, even without the surgery! And it sounds like she did most of the newborn's care which is usual. If she was nursing she was trying to hold a baby while trying to keep the baby off the incision. She DID TOO MUCH so she irritated/opened her incision. Women have to do all he did AND MORE every day. They usually don't get a break either. He could have OPENED HIS MOUTH and had a conversation with her about how he was feeling.
@@cherylwolf7458stop projecting , your the only comment I’ve seen disagreeing with, the wife was TA , is what it is, if it sounds like your life then maybe you were TA too 🤷🏼♂️ and if you actually listen it sounds like he does just as much of the care if not that plus more so don’t be so stupid
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No you stop. Mom cannot read his mind. Dad could have done something if he wanted to. Instead he spent Father's day surrounded by his kids doing fatherly duties. How is that not how fathers day is spent. Kids made cards and did what they could. You made a f****** kid multiple kids. Step up and take a title like a man. Your father eighteen years old, to 60 years. that's your baby. You should never want to choose something else over your kids. What is wrong with you people?
Story about the father hit home for me. No one cares about dads mental health and Father's day. We're always not cared for when we break.
With my second child I was told that my sleep didn't matter and I worked 12 hours and still did night duty with the baby. Only to repeat the process even on the weekends. It was hell on my body
Dude, same. Only, in my case, it was 16 hour shifts, barely any days off, and driving 20 miles each way. My ex-MIL even once came into my house while I was catching a much-needed nap and poured water over my face, despite my daughter also being asleep.
Dude, same. Only, in my case, it was 16 hour shifts, barely any days off, and driving 20 miles each way. My ex-MIL even once came into my house while I was catching a much-needed nap and poured water over my face, despite my daughter also being asleep.
@@ShakaarGaleedthat’s messed up on the MIL.. glad she is your ex-MIL.
Ha, ha: that is equal rights for you - mothers have to function ALL the time, even if not well or even sick: who made the babys?
If the spouse is not able to "do things" for their partners comfort, see to it yourself - father's day is celebrated in my country by meeting up with other men and have a lot of drinks together😅 Invite friends and their children over and organize a sitter for every-one, so that all the fathers are secure in having a barbecue together😅 Make it a new tradition to do things together with other fathers! If wives want to tag along, it is only for sitter-function, to keep the children safe🎉
@@LisaBeta-42your country, is it Germany by chance? They do the samething.
Story 5 how come OP didn't try to go the route of suing with a medical dog? The dog was gotten as a medical device for the blind wife so that sounds like tampering.
That was the father of the year right there
Living in small towns most of my life it's common not seeing any bakery with fancy coffee machines where most of them just have your standard coffee machine and nothing else.
But what do you expect from a local small town bakery which from my experience if you want something special then go to a Starbucks because a local small town bakery only has a normal coffee machine, donuts, cupcakes, and a few other baked goods.
Eating meat is murder, but poisoning the dog isn't? This guy is nuts.
In i believe the third story. The one where the OP basically had a break down from having any time to himself. The wife *IS* the arsehole. As she very clearly made absolutely *NO* attempt to give him some time to himself for Father's Day.
Your wrong. Neither of them sleep much, and the wife is basically immobile. YTA for saying that crap.
@@Dungeonenjoyermcyou're just a clown who can't listen. The husband gave the wife something she could have done, without moving. Guess that logical thinking is too much for you.
I just want to know what was so damn important about having to see that guy in the office that that Karen had to put her husband's rank on the line for?
If the man was a business owner and he had owed about 300,000 the court should have been ordered to provide his income statements as well as a background check on his finances if he was going to be possibly of losing.
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Wearing of rank is a huge no no. When the word gets back to the base commander this is the least of things that would happen. Her husband would have been dragged in and told until he can control his wife he has no business controlling men. Many spouses have been divorced over this. Seems that wives are a lot more likely to do this than men.
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Military spouses repeat after me:
I AM NOT MY SPOUSE'S RANK. I AM NOT MY SPOUSE'S RANK. I AM NOT MY SPOUSE'S RANK. I AM NOT MY SPOUSE'S RANK!
I also vacuum my hard floors. Why? Because they are textured and I have pets. When I simply sweep dust gets into the grooves of the texture and no amount of sweeping gets into the grooves to get it out. Before I started vacuuming them I even tracked the dirt, especially kitty litter dust, out into the hallway whenever I left the apartment, which meant more work vacuuming the hall carpets for building maintenance. So now I vacuum to get all of the dirt up.
what type of bread do you sell?
Karen Loff or hole entitled bread
Funny, I know a couple of vegans and they have never objected to my lifestyle, or the lifestyle of other family and friends. If we go out for dinner, or have dinner at my place, I always ensure that there is delicious vegan food available. If we eat at her place, the food will obviously be vegan. It's true that they may discuss their diet with friends, but they never demanded that anyone else adopt their lifestyle, or avoid situations where others are eating meat. I'm always amazed at stories about "raging vegans" since I never saw one.
It's a new thing. Arrogant people using any reason to look down and annoy people.
I worked with a young woman who didn't eat meat. However her husband and young child did. So she prepared them meals and she prepared herself meals. She didn't like seeing or touching the raw meat, but she understood that she didn't have the 'power' to force her spouse or child to eat what SHE only wanted.
Most of these entitled vegans are hypocrites, they’re against violence but use violence to get their point across and then wonder why no one will take their side and wonder why they are getting stuffed into the back of a police car in the end.
The one thing that vegans don't know or choose to ignore is the fact that every plant you eat is still alive when it goes past the lips.
@@JamesDavy2009 plus you need to kill animals to keep the plant from being infested with bugs or rodents.
I can certainly relate to that seargents countdown.
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It honestly wouldn't surprise me if it wasn't more than that.
Thankfully I have only really encountered minor Karens but sometimes their "logic" can only be written in one line, although still bat sh*t crazy.
Listen to more Karen stories. This is reasonably mild in comparison to some.
Story 1: Karen uttered a threat of arson...in a room full of witnesses...on video. Get a personal Restraining Order as well...that will keep Karen away after release.
Story 2: Karen's actions could definitely get her husbands rank busted down a couple pay grades for Conduct Unbecoming...what your spouse does reflects on you.
Story 4: OP is TA. OP has nothing to whine about...neighbor is cleaning her home during daytime hours when there is no 'quiet time' or 'noise ordinances' in effect.
It is up to OP to deal with the noise as this is OP's apartment not an office building. It is not up to the other people in their homes to coddle OP for WFH.
Story 2: Commissioned officers, those holding ranks of Lieutenant, Captain, Major, Lieutenant Colonel, Colonel, Brigadier General, Major General, Lieutenant General, General, and General of the Army or Air Force, as well as those holding ranks of Ensign, Lieutenant, Lieutenant Commander, Commander, Captain, and the various Admiral ranks, cannot be demoted by even a General Court Martial. Commissioned officers don't get Dishonorable Discharges either. They can get dismissed from the service, which is tantamount to a Dishonorable Discharge from the enlisted ranks.
There is one exception. At the discretion of the Service Secretary, and during a time of war or other national emergency, a dismissal from service may be converted to an enlistment at any enlisted rank.
Source: 2019 Manual for Courts-Martial. It is available in a few places on-line.
Story 5: Within the hour of first contact, I'd have been in contact with ADA locally, and the nearest newspaper source. My next contact would be an attorney specializing in disability laws and rights. The HOA Pres gave you the dog treats -- a complaint (and file recorded) with local police and SPCA would begin the paper trail / investigation. Wrecking your car is a felony; also having it removed is grand theft.
The law caught him before you got your settlement, and, if he "gave" it to his wife at the "divorce" he might still have property of value that he owes you.
1st story: What the hell made karen think that she could get away with OP just GIVE her daughter her business? Or that she could actually built or run it better that the woman who built the business from the ground up?
Typical that when a karen doesn't instantly get her way, she starts destroying it
2nd story: I've heard this story before, it's sad when a military wife thinks she has the same rank as her husband and tries to throw her weight around
3rd story: OP has to realize that, as much as you need rest, he does too
4th story: Neighbors have to be courteous to each other or trouble starts
5th story: Why do HOA officers think that they can get away with anything? Poisoning the seeing eye dog, "problems" with his classic car is against the rules since it's not a "cookie cutter" car while he has an ugly ass RV that he never uses, just showing it off, destroying it when he doesn't get his way and thinking he can get away with it.
What is it that turns HOA officers inro Aholes and criminals
Not sure if positions of power attract assholes, or having power turns people to assholes...
@@fredk.2001 I think that only aholes can deal with the bureaucracy of an HOA. That, and the power it gives them in their own minds as well as the "free money" the get out of it
That's the best HOA story I've ever heard!!!
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YTA. It is a home. Normal home noises happen at home. If you cannot work through it move where you do your job. The initial ask isnt horrible and she was willimg to make accomodations, but that wasnt good enough for you so now she has no reason to."help" you at all.
Wait he's vegan and poisoned a dog???? 😮
Crazy entitled vegans aren't known for their intelligence
In the 3rd story OP is 100% the AH. It's been over a month & she can't do anything from a PLANNED C-section, that's just ridiculous. My mom has 5 kids & with her last pregnancy she had to have an emergency C-section, it was traumatic, but she was sent home after only 2 days of being in the hospital. And she went right back to taking care of all her children mainly alone, bc my dad didn't do anything to help once he got home, that's a whole other story tho. Also she didn't have much help from relatives & since my sister couldn't drink formula at all she was also doing all the feeding alone, she was the 1 getting up all night & she still took care of the rest of us, kept a clean house & had my dads dinner on the table every night, sometimes even having to cook more than once bc he decided he didn't want what she cooked even tho when she asked what he wanted his response was food. My siblings & I did what we could, but I was only 8 & was the oldest so there was only so much we could do. Sorry getting off point, getting a little triggered. Anyway I'm not saying any woman should have to just hop to after having a C-section, it takes time to heal & recoup & u shouldn't rush it or strain ur body, but after over a month & u can't even get out of bed. I call BS on that. I don't believe for even 1 second that she couldn't have helped out on Father's Day & even if her situation was as dire as she claimed, bc she was so incapacitated after picking up a sheet of paper off the floor, she could've made arrangements to have the kids babysat by relatives for a cpl of days & made arrangements for something that he likes to do even if she couldn't attend or even having the ability to just lie around all day if so chose just having a break. And if she could get the kids out of the house, she could've hired a sitter to come to the house while he got out & did what he wanted. If she cared enough at all she would've had something prepared & arranged ahead of time anyway, not even needing to be a last minute solution due to her straining herself into being bedbound with a piece of paper. She should be thanking her lucky stars to have such a caring & attentive husband who did all of these things not even complaining until she neglected him enough for him to understandably reach a breaking point. OP really is selfish & if she keeps up her behavior it's only a matter of time before he leaves her for someone who'll treat him as more than a man servant/butler. Sorry I know this was long, she just triggered a rant in me
That was a long rant but I agree with u.This woman didn’t want to do anything. It doesn’t take a month to recover. My daughter had a couple of c sections & it didn’t take her long to recover. The first one was rough & was in the hospital 5 days, baby in the icu unit but she recovered rapidly after she came home.
@@barbaraunderwood1762 I'm glad to hear everything ended up ok for ur daughter & grand baby. Also, ur right that was a long rant, sorry for that. That story really just struck a nerve for me
The fathers day story unfortunately a lot of mothers do not think that the farther has any problems or even needs to have any time off as they are very selfish in that they only see the work done in the home and everything that they do outside cannot possibly be stressful
Don’t press charges against the daughter because she didn’t do anything, but still hold Karen the mother accountable for her destructive actions. If Karen did want to be sued well then she shouldn’t have acted like a spoilt brat in a bakery. Clearly, Karen was on some sort drug to behave that way.
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Get your upstairs neighbor a robotic vacuum. They are quieter and do the job especially on wooden floors. Make sure to see it demonstrated to check for noise levels. Some of them are programmable to start at a certain time.
Last story: One would hope that OP was smart enough to collect his $300k judgement before bankrupting the guy.
Story 4: YTA. Your neighbor offered to do her vacuuming while you’re not working. For you to insist she can’t use the vacuum at all is a completely entitled karen move.
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Vacuum story: How rediculous! Vacuums are amazing machines for so much more than just vacuuming rugs. Canister vacuums are great for dusting cleaning cobwebs, drapery, upholstery and hard floors.
wow that is a new one give me your company or eles i hear aboute demanding cars or houses or anything eles not a company.
Make the HOA pres. the guest of honor at a blanket party.
That's a new level to stealing a store.
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I hope he learned how much a classic car in good condition is in.
The bakery one, not the AH, also it was good she didn't charge the daughter, she really didn't do anything bad and OP did get the money for repairs/damages out of it.
I am concerned for the C-section mom. No way should that be that way.
The woman who just had the baby over a month ago sounds like a drama queen
She had a C-section. It takes multiple months to heal, she's not dramatic for still healing
@@lovelysakurapetalsyt If she could post her story on reddit, she had access to the outside world. Would it have been so difficult to organize family, friends or babysitters to give her husband and her a quite evening after he came home from work?
Normal recovery time for a C-section is 2-3 days in the hospital, 2 weeks for light household activities and 6 weeks for regular work. Longer time in bed increases the risk for blood clots.
@@lovelysakurapetalsytmost of my family had csections. She’s a drama queen. My wife was walking around in 3 days. My sil had twins with a traumatic and near death birth with an emergency C-section. Stop defending this pathetic self centered drama queen.
@@lovelysakurapetalsyt it doesn't take "multiple months" to heal.
@@jimdob6528 Then you must not be actual humans, because humans can't recover from a traumatic surgery in only a few days. Or you're a psychopath who wants her to hurt herself
The more I listen the more I count my lucky stars that this 'HOA' concept is not a thing where I reside.
Story 3: i've seen both my dad and stepmom like this... not even on a special day, just any day. i feel for OP's family, but i also feel like the reaction is a bit extreme. justified, but extreme
There is a entire list of things that HOAs can't outlaw. The dude should have had a order of protection placed against him starting with a cease & desist letter!!
Service Animal Story: OP shouldn't have waited for more than a month for the Ex-HOA President to pay the Court Judgement...After the end of the first month of excuses and delays, OP should have gone back to the Court and Applied for a Writ of Execution which, when granted, means that Sheriff's Deputies armed with Warrants do the Collections by going to HOA Twit's Bank to clean out his accounts and if that isn't enough to pay the Judgement, then they'll go to his Home and/or Place of Business (if he owns one) to start grabbing everything of value (furniture, computers, art, collectables, tools, machines, vehicles etc.) for sale at Auction...once the Judgement has been paid in full, any money left after the Auction will be returned to HOA Twit...
And he can't say NO to them because the Warrants give them the Right to just walk in and start hauling everything out and if he tries to stop them, he gets cuffed and stuffed in the nearest Cruiser for Obstruction of Justice...
I can completely understand Dad breaking downing tears. Parenthood is overwhelming. But mom was not TA just because she also broke down in tears. Those relatives, that dad wanted to ask for help with the older kids, were the jerks for not stepping up to help a week or two before the baby arrived.
Dad was overwhelmed by dealing with older kids, mom is recovering from major surgery while her body is producing a lot of hormones to feed the baby. Trust me, she was also overwhelmed. Neither mom nor dad is the jerk here. But their friends and relatives are.
I think nobody’s the AH. Sometimes you don’t know how close you are to the wall until you’ve splatted against it.
They need to come up with a respite plan, though. Dad’s been a trooper and Mom’s having a really tough recover, and it sounds like they’ve both gone through hell. Time to call in reinforcements.
TLDR;
She TA
Nah, she was the AH 100%!
Looks to me that in the first story the OP got a double score. The daughter wasn't at fault for anything. She wouldn't lose IF you sued her. Thinking about it, the dad simply sped up when OP got the glass counter replaced.
On the daughter of the Karen, college turns out more Karens than anywhere else.
In due time hopefully thew daughter will return and thank the baker for not bringing charges against her. Especially since she wasn't actually involved in the matter.
Why the daughter didn't participate in Karen's nonsense so there's no charges to even charge her with
Story 5: so not only he is entitled he is vegan too.... no wonder he is crazy 🤣🤣🤣 the vitamin b12 deficiency make him gone mad 🤣🤣🤣
It’s almost always a better idea to settle outside of court if you can
7:44 ahh yes, a major. Basically the equivilant to a sergeant but for officers. Just staying in for long enough will make you a specialist, not hard to get sgt after that. Stay as an officer for long enough and you'll become a captain, not much more work to become a major. He sure as hell cant tell a general what to do, let alone his dependapottomus
14:37 vacuuming the hardfloor isnt uncommon..
If you work from home, it's not your neighbor's responsibility to be quite. Acoustic treating is no longer as expensive as it used to be. You can easily reduce noise your entire room for under $200. If you want to be cheaper than that, gather a bunch of egg cartons and tape them to the ceiling. The more layers you use, the better it works
The wife in that situation should have called family to see if someone could take over taking care of the children for at least a few hours I know what it's like not having a moment to yourself she should have called family Aura babysitter
Ummm Poisoning a dog is just Animal Cruelty...
HOWEVER, when the dog in question is a Service Animal, then it gets a LOT more serious because now it's a FEDERAL Felony (attempting to damage/destroy a Medical Device) and that can carry Prison Time upon Conviction...
Story 5: the hoa guy doesn’t know cars if he thinks a Buick is an eyesore. Sure their not the fanciest car but they are among the most reliable especially in the winter
On the vacuum one. I work from home also and have a neighbor that works on his house every day just outside my window. Instead of complaing I bought a real good set of headphones with a mic the stuck to the side of my face. Problem solved! No one on the meeting never heard a thing and neither did I.
Story 3: Wouldnt say an AH but you have 0 respect for your husband and his working his butt off to earn a income, look after the kids constantly and just wanted 1 hour on fathers day...your lack of respect for him will make him walk away from you and ruin your relationship but i guess at the end of the day you can fall back on the "what am i supposed to do about it"
My daughter had a c section & it didn’t affect her that way & I don’t believe that she couldn’t do anything to help. She just didn’t want to.
Not everyone is the same. There could be underlying problems with the OP's health which could be what is happening here
I would be calling the police the minute I started my barbecue cuz I know he'd be coming and give the police officers some food to just piss him even more.
First story:that karen was off her rocket big time.
damn. you have the poisoned treats? press charges!
I mean... grilled vegetable is delicious too, but ain't no way I'm not doing some meat too. XD
You should have gotten a lawyer to send him a cease and desist letter
For the first story, I have a feeling that the daughter knew how stupid what her mother was doing and likely knew she was not going to talk her mother out of the stupidity, so it was likely for the best to let her be.
S3 Why have so many kids so close to one another. This is why OP's body is recovering slowly. Why not 2 kids with a 3 year gap and one a bit later if they feel the need to go for a 3rd one?
(My wife and I have 2 grown up daughters, 4 years apart)
Story 5 is crazy poisoned the guys dog and destroyed and towed a classic car. Dude is insane and should have delt with him before they destroyed his property.
I’ve had two C-sections, I was back to normal within a couple of weeks.
As a father the dad needs to grow up it's not about him anymore it's your job your responsibility
Story 4. Things would have gone so smoothly if you wouldn't have felt a need to get in your neighbor's business about whether or not she vacuums. She was being accomodating. She offered to do it at a different time.
I understand the c-section lady, but remember how you treat him at this stressful time is how he’ll treat you!? Is that the care you want when you’re exhausted and losing it?
Vacuum guy is an ass people can clean their house however they want. Buy a house if you want quite. I assume that people who live in apartments or condos should expect some noise.
On the one you asked. Yes, YTA. Not only did she explain why she vacuumed, but also offered to use an hour that was appropriate for you and instead of giving an hour, you kept complaining
A C section is not a life threatening disease. OP was playing it to the full. I ran a home with 5 children ranging from 7 to 15 years old. Had a C section at age 42 and carried on running the house and chores as per normal. In addition baby was born Down Syndrome and needed extra care. Not once did I ask hubby to step in and help.
Children were his, hers and last one was theirs.
You'd think a guy who was running a shady business and evading taxes would avoid attracting attention.
story 3: they must discus this for better future. he helped her all the time for not getting help when he needed it. Yes she isn't fit also but there are small tasks wich are still doable at least asking grandparents helping.
Get walls insulated to block noise. There are treatments.
A parent going to jail for doing wrong hasn’t any reason on a child getting into college.
Anyone else hoping First Sergeant Sanders makes Colonel one day?
It would have been funnier for the 2nd story if the commander had said to the wife that he was going to make her husband a seaman apprentice. Cause this would mean that the husband will be put in the navy.
Lost an opportunity to leverage the store with debt, and hand the net liabilities over to Karen and start over.
About the c section story, woman are more able to so things right after a c section than you think. My now ex wife had an emergency c section and once the meds wore off she got up and walked out of the hospital and home, she walked to town the next day to go shopping and was even carrying some of the shopping home.
Thinking the same thing, my ex wife had an emergency C section with our first, and a planned one with our twins. In both cases within a couple weeks she was moving around and doing light things in the house. Even before then she was still doing things to help with the new born(s).
It is entirely possible that the surgery didn't go right, or her body is just deciding not to heal. No surgery is 100% without the risk of the person not coming out great. So I can easily believe that she could be laid up for a long time. However, she is being extremely callous for the situation.
story 4....oh no..there are residential noises...in resitential buildings....if only there were places where you could work...without that...like an office outside of home... imagine bringing kids into the office and then complain to the workers about the business noises XD
No one but local and wildlife laws (and common sense) can tell me what kind/size of pet I can have. And no way in HELL am I going to be forced to have some boring car color. I'm painting mine pink once I have the cash
vacums have a setting for hard wood and tile floors , be thankful she doesn't vacuum at night like eleven o clock
I doubt that Karen's legal status would influence daughter's college / uni admissions. I'd have made certain, though, the entire town knew of her behavior, even posting newspaper reports in the shop.
It sounded like they were going with charges against both mother and daughter there for it.
Bakery incident:
I would have a long talk with the daughter of how would she like her life to end up and how she might possibly do it.
I'm going to tell her to take a good look at her mother... and herself and if she really wanted to go the same path as her mother's.
I'll tell her that what has happened to her mother would be a warning to her and she might suffer the same if she doesn't want to go through the right path in life.
Of course I'd let her go and settle out of court the damage done to the bakery... and some a-hole tax as well to cover the potential loss of income while the damage is being repaired.
Her, being young, I would give her the chance to be accepted in her chosen academia and hope not to have another Karen in town.
C-Section story. OP, you're darn lucky your husband is willing to do all this. The least, the VERY LEAST, you could have done for Father's Day, was call up a sitter (family/friend/neighbor) to take the 2 older kids so he could have had some HIM time. Order in dinner or have someone deliver for you. You wanted HIM to cook dinner for himself on Father's Day??
Yeah OK you had a C-sec. So have countless others. You can't run around doing things, but you should be able to use a phone. OP, YTA.
Have had two c-sections because I cannot give birth naturally by 4weeks (1 month) she should be able to walk around the house and help with the other kids more. The only restrictions until your 6week checkup is no driving (so you ask a family member or get a taxi) and cannot lift anything heavier than your baby. I was a single mum especially for both kids so had to do 90% of things unless my mum or his came to visit for the day. Had groceries delivered or did click and collect so mum just had to drive there. She helped me put it away but if she wasn’t there I could do it.
There are so many things OP could have done for her husband including cooking the man Stake. She is either the playing up how bad the pain is, didn’t follow the pain management plan they tell you that includes strong pain killers for the first week or so followed by nurofen and Panadol for another week or so then as needed. Or there could be something else serious in which case she should have called the hospital/ doctor and let them know.
Although regardless you can do a lot from bed with a phone or laptop. To see his reaction and not immediately organise him something for the next day like a massage and have the older kids stay with family/their own friends for a sleepover, weekend or an afternoon here or there till she is “able to do more” just goes to show she isn’t thinking about the others in her family. I knew it was a lot for my eldest so asked my mum to take him to the park or play at MacDonald’s for as long as he wanted. She would go through the drive through and bring me food too.
Sounds like yall had help. Or learning from past mistakes
S 1:) offer to sell the place to them, for huge price
S 3) babysitters are a must
S 5) HOA entitled jerk