WATCH PART 1 HERE: ruclips.net/video/RBK1rgkb4YI/видео.html Susan's journey paints a portrait of resilience and strength amid the darkest of circumstances. Growing up as a loner, she found herself yearning for the warmth of connection, only to be met with neglect from her own parents. When she finally reconnected with her estranged mother, their relationship remained a complex tangle of unspoken words and unresolved conflicts. Tragedy struck anew as her mother's boyfriend, the harbinger of a different kind of pain, introduced her to a world of ábuse. Summoning the courage to confide in her mother was a heartbreaking turning point; one that shattered her hope when her mother's allegiance sided with the ábuser. The weight of this betrayal dragged Susan into the depths of depressíon, her heart heavy with unanswerable questions. When her mother's passing came, it was a bittersweet coda to a life marked by turbulence. The answers Susan longed for were sealed forever, a chapter left unfinished. And yet, in the midst of this tempest, Susan's spirit remain unbroken. Crafting a life of fulfilment and breaking the generational barriers is her new found pursuit. Check out more on her socials youtube.com/@susangrace_ke To share your story with us, kindly send an email to sharedmoments.tv@gmail.com or WhatsApp number +254703372553 To advertise here, call +254703372553 Donate and support our work, through Mpesa Till number 9207675 or PayPal: www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=V3R5CSRWHLPSS or Mpesa send money to +254703372553 You can also join @Shared Moments with Justus MEMBERSHIP now! to get access to perks: ruclips.net/channel/UCAvd919a1ibeG5cp5QtwXOwjoin Subscribe & Follow us on: instagram.com/sharedmomentswithjustus facebook.com/sharedmomentswithjustus twitter.com/_sharedmoments Makeup by: Ejay Beauty Producer: Justus Nandwa Production Manager: Esther Josephine CREW Gideon Nandwa Joash Anaminyi Marvin Omukuba Jerusha Selah
She told her story so eloquently and, from her heart. A very sad story. But, we thank God with her, seeing that she has a relationship with God who loves her with an everlasting love. Life has its own twists and turns, but when it is given to the Lord, it becomes manageable . He will use your pain for your good and make something wonderful out of the brokenness of your soul. Better days are ahead of you Susan Grace . Just hung in there. God will see you through. You are on safe hands. Amen.
Wow such a lovely narration. This gal has been through hell and back and still has lots of faith in her. You are such a gem. She has reminded most parents that what many children needs is just love not all the material things that we shower them with. Such valuable lessons from her story
A few things I've grassped from this lady! First off her eloquence and fluency Second I thought I was strong! This lady has redefined the meaning of strong. Thirdly she is so smart! Fourth there's a God in heaven. You have inspired me to do better in life and to be a better person. Our stories are not far much apart but clearly there's no reason for failing to make life a better space for me and the people around me. God bless and elevate you even more Justus thankyou for this story! #loveandlight
"Trauma creates change you don’t choose. Healing is about creating change you choose.” Susan, you exudes an aura of Grace and humility despite the challenges you have faced. You're not your trauma, keep finding healing.
Thank you so much for your story. I'm also an only child, I lost my job, I also don't have a father and my mom suffers from schizophrenia and I've been taking care of her. Since 2020, I've been through hell and I've been suicidal at times. Thank you so much for your story, you've encouraged me. Very timely message.
I love that you didn't suppress your tears , you allowed me to grieve with you .What a gentle soul you are.May God protect you.I honestly believe your mom has apologized to you except she did it in your absentia. You have the right to be loved and just stating the obvious you're beautiful and whip smart ❤️🙏🏾
This is TED TALK❤️❤️🙏. Thank you Susan for baring your soul. Thank you Justus for offering this playform. God meet this girl at her point of every need 🙏🙏
That was a million dollar Story from this fine woman. I am blessed through the story cos my sister passed on and left her kids with unanswered questions , now they are grownups and am assisting them to unfold the folded which is abit challenging.
I like how you have summarized your mum’s attitude towards you, and that she may have gone through a lot when she got pregnant with you. Unfortunately many people would choose to continue to be angry with her. It’s good that you have chosen to try and understand the reason behind her behavior towards you. It’s good that you two tried to bond towards the end of her life. That, like you rightly mentioned, provided you with some closure. The anger you had towards your father is very justifiable. And to make it worse, he didn’t make any effort to show empathy towards the loss of your mother. You have gone through a lot from your childhood. But the beautiful thing is that you are on your way to recovery. Give yourself time to go through all the feelings, including the anger. It’s all part of the process and you will be alright. God has your back and will never forsake you. He is the best dad one can ever ask for. Thanks for sharing this with us.
Dad's not being present is one of the heartbreaking things a gal will ever go through. If you've not been here, don't say much. Trauma , pain, 😢 tears. But God for those whose Dad's returned. God bless you all
You is a strong girl, indeed the grace of God has covered you and His favour upon you. Thanks God you are here to teach, inspire and encourage many. You are a warrior.
I like like how you let them talk without hearing your voice. Grace...you were there! YOU WERE THERE TO THE LAST SECOND! So many just hear their parents passed on. But you were THERE ! THAT WAS MEANT TO BE.
Gal, thank you for sharing this. Being a lone child from a single parent isn't easy. Am one such and been through alot but God has been God. Don't allow any closeness with that man calling himself dad. He may defile you again emotionally, physically etc. A few of them come back genuinely. He's your dad though keep your distance. May God continue filling your day.
Almost 40 years old now , never seen my biological dad, not even a photo, nothing about him ! My biological mum is still living and we've tried to mend our relationship! She has never lived with me and our relationship is very strange! I lived with my grandparents (her parents) my fistst 16 years of life. She was missing all my early life and gibt married to an Austrian! Year 2000, funny enough, she invited us to visit her in Vienna and that's how we ended starting a new life with her here! Long story short, I have never lived with her before.. I can even count roughly how many times I saw her all the 16 years I lived in Kenya . She hardly visited us and I didn't miss her because my grandparents played the role of parents very well! Life in Vienna started.. I've tried all my bear to get to know my mum well, but circumstances even made me move out a year later, I was 17 years old, in a foreign country, my mum is here but she still can't see me as her child or I don't know what it is. Till today, this moment, things are worse, she went mute when it's about who my dad is, or whatever it is why she treats me as she do... she's a strangers to me ever since and it gets worse as time goes by. My mum is a stranger to me!!!! I don't know how to start making things work, I need to know who my dad is, I wish she could open up , talk to me... my aunts and all family is just silently watching!!! No one wants to talk about anything concerning my biological dad or our strange mom/daughter relation. It's eating me silently and I don't know what next....
Apparently you're just not the only one who needs to find their dad... Me too, and it's just not our fault to want to get answers to understand why did they just fail/ end up in such messes... They take it as an offence...... When we ask I'm on a journey to carrying out a DNA, I'm in the process and I'm just confused because in the end, the question will be was it worth the effort?
Pls get help for yourself first, Refuse to allow your Great Destiny to be destroyed by past things you can't control. It is very painful to go through All that but remember you are still living, you are unique, you have beautiful dreams to live & fight for & a greater purpose than your past. Fight to come off the trauma of your past so you can Embrace the golds of your Beautiful Now & Future🙏 Believe that in All this there is a very Beautiful Ending❤. Trust in Jesus🫂
"when the sun goes down don't cry, for if you do the tears won't let you see the stars."-Goro Wa Kamau. You chose to fight for your place in this world. Thank you for that courage of sharing your story and inspiring the world. Keep it shared moments with Justus.
Men are interesting...last time I saw my father was my mum's burial at 5year...now am 38 and I hope he never shows up....seeing him beat up my mum and locking her out while he was drunk made me disconnect....she died at only 27 out of meningitis.......death you really did us wrong coz life has never ever been the same...the void waaaa
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.💪💪💪 You are indeed strong.maybe there was a reason why she prefered you to be with your relatives than her.🙏🙏🙏🙏. Be at peace with yourself.healling is a process,and I believe time heals.
Hugs grace,i wonder how you mananged to be a disciplined achiever amidst all these?.Your eloquence is on point gal. Thank you for sharing this,it has challenged me to be a teacher and a friend to my students.
One: There will never be enough words to console grief, for that, I see you and feel you. Two: My dad showed up after a whole damn 20 years, when I was almost done with Campus,,that's brilliant, right? It's never easy,,it has taken more than 5 years to fully accept or even forgive him . Sad enough, they don't even apologize for their absence.
Got to know mine when I was 30years and he died 6years before I could talk to him although I forgave in his hospital bed and later that evening, its never easy
She is a strong woman and a forgiving cz if its my case she could died without me talking to her or attending the burial,,,she is a gem cz forgiveness is an expensive and rare gift
Gad Saad recently told Joe Rogan...I will protect my children. Joe didnt get it. Let's say 50% . Joe had a good argument about raising a child. Grace, you just delivered and supported the 50% of what Saad was talking about. Bless your heart. And....YES! YOU WERE THERE!
On the list of things she can do something about is the relationship with the living dad! Just going by what she said! No pressure but the closure may help her!
Wow. First of all i love your resilience. Afrigan kids have been conditioned mzazi ni kama mungu and they have some tired bible verses which they quote selectively where it suits them. I like the way hukuwaacha wakupake mauji 😁. Wjhen you confront them is when wanajifanya kugutuka ala and pretend to change but still ile madharau ni kama lifestyle kwao.Too bad when i was just a child i could defend myself and first forward at the age of 32 i confronted my fatha for abuse that involved indecent touching and the d0 g made sure he was drunk inorder to do this while the meek mother would just watch. I wonder if that woman is a nyerian coz me im a proper certified nyerian na hugwes niuzia uoga wala uguse mtoi wangu nikuache! And that is how the man developed diabetes coz normally they assume you were too young to remember. even the woman was very scared and embarassed by this confrontation. Afrigan parents think they are entitled to mistreat kids but then God strikes them with sicknesses in older age while deadbeats tend to die earlier because bible curses them. sifurahii magojwa zao wala vif0 but its what it is. If i were you i would totally block all those useless relatives. Blessed or cursed be the day when i realized none of us will be here in the next 150 years because then i became careless.i cant tolerate you while you mistreat me no matter who you are!
This happened to my boss 4years ago. He cough out fresh clean blood from 5am to 1am after every 30min. 1am is when he fainted and that's when doctors came running to attend to him, after nimechota damu the whole day wakiniangalia. But he made it till today.
The way daughter begs her dad to be in life 😢alafu afike 30 ndio anamtafuta aki Alphonse Okumu wherever you are you have put your daughter into so much trauma
Sad.. Sad.. You need deliverance girl fro the right man of God , so that what you went through doest continue or repeat itself to your children in the future. But God was watching over you. Its like many mums who have neglected/reject their children dont live for long, the tears of those children reduces their lives under the sun. Its a lesson to learn. Pole!!
You speak wisely about breaking generational curses. consequently, you need to know your father well and their side of the family because of the generational traits from your father's side that might be following you. you cannot break what you do not know. Perhaps that is why he never settled with your mum. Those same traits may befall your children. The same applies to your mother's side. Kindly do not ignore this.
Her mom had 💰 but giving her daughter peace and love was where she drew lines why ?? Wueeh they way im struggling with my my two sons in one bedroom house .. have mercy on me ooh lord have never neglected my kids
That is so strange but happens. Read the story of Ayide a Nigerian music producer who lived in USA. He raped his 6 daughters got them pregnant and the wife was just there doing nothing
@@christinendwiga2930 lakini women the things we allow men to do. Especially when we are in love with them. Is crazy crazy crazy. Dear women carry your heads and brains in your intimate relationships even if married for 20 years please have your brain
You did the best to ignore your dad. Don't feel guilty. If he was given a chance to take over your education at dayster, he would not do it.... You would have given him a chance, disappointed your family and after that he would walk away when you need him most. Most fathers who appear when you are already grown up, are spoiler😂.... They can never stand by you when you need them most.
I am very sorry what happened to you but you should force her to go to hospital, persistent coughing and later blood that morning of her passing, that was red flag
Seems like the mom and dad had a sexual relationship and not a strong relationship. Hope she will not live with anger towards the dad since she has not even tried to understand her roots.
My dear you are strong girl may Our God continually heal you BUT please make peace with your DAD. The word of God says that you be at peace with all men, it's for your own good
Where was this bible when she was a child? Its always religious placing burdens on victims .and justifying the abuser. Look for her father and take your bible there.
What for another abuser .. cammon make peace with yours who took care of you while young leave us to make peace with God who created us .. despite neglected
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Susan's journey paints a portrait of resilience and strength amid the darkest of circumstances. Growing up as a loner, she found herself yearning for the warmth of connection, only to be met with neglect from her own parents. When she finally reconnected with her estranged mother, their relationship remained a complex tangle of unspoken words and unresolved conflicts.
Tragedy struck anew as her mother's boyfriend, the harbinger of a different kind of pain, introduced her to a world of ábuse. Summoning the courage to confide in her mother was a heartbreaking turning point; one that shattered her hope when her mother's allegiance sided with the ábuser. The weight of this betrayal dragged Susan into the depths of depressíon, her heart heavy with unanswerable questions.
When her mother's passing came, it was a bittersweet coda to a life marked by turbulence. The answers Susan longed for were sealed forever, a chapter left unfinished. And yet, in the midst of this tempest, Susan's spirit remain unbroken. Crafting a life of fulfilment and breaking the generational barriers is her new found pursuit. Check out more on her socials youtube.com/@susangrace_ke
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Girl you are destined for great things,your story is a wakeup call to parents much love.
She told her story so eloquently and, from her heart. A very sad story. But, we thank God with her, seeing that she has a relationship with God who loves her with an everlasting love. Life has its own twists and turns, but when it is given to the Lord, it becomes manageable . He will use your pain for your good and make something wonderful out of the brokenness of your soul. Better days are ahead of you Susan Grace . Just hung in there. God will see you through. You are on safe hands. Amen.
Wow such a lovely narration. This gal has been through hell and back and still has lots of faith in her. You are such a gem. She has reminded most parents that what many children needs is just love not all the material things that we shower them with. Such valuable lessons from her story
Thanks to the moderator.. you are a good listener no interruptions during the session ..big up .
Thanks
@@SharedMomentswithJustusbig up Justus
A few things I've grassped from this lady!
First off her eloquence and fluency
Second I thought I was strong! This lady has redefined the meaning of strong.
Thirdly she is so smart!
Fourth there's a God in heaven.
You have inspired me to do better in life and to be a better person.
Our stories are not far much apart but clearly there's no reason for failing to make life a better space for me and the people around me.
God bless and elevate you even more
Justus thankyou for this story! #loveandlight
Most welcome @acyjohns9485 Glad it was helpful
She sounds just like Carolyn Mutuko.
♥️♥️
You just walked with me in my past but praise God iv heard God say through you " Move on" and we must break this generational curses
"Trauma creates change you don’t choose. Healing is about creating change you choose.” Susan, you exudes an aura of Grace and humility despite the challenges you have faced. You're not your trauma, keep finding healing.
Thank you so much for your story. I'm also an only child, I lost my job, I also don't have a father and my mom suffers from schizophrenia and I've been taking care of her. Since 2020, I've been through hell and I've been suicidal at times. Thank you so much for your story, you've encouraged me. Very timely message.
This authentic, legit, confidence, wrapped up in one person
I love that you didn't suppress your tears , you allowed me to grieve with you .What a gentle soul you are.May God protect you.I honestly believe your mom has apologized to you except she did it in your absentia. You have the right to be loved and just stating the obvious you're beautiful and whip smart ❤️🙏🏾
This is TED TALK❤️❤️🙏. Thank you Susan for baring your soul. Thank you Justus for offering this playform. God meet this girl at her point of every need 🙏🙏
💞 Grace you are so beautiful and Blessed, I pray for healing and restoration.
What an inspirational life story. You have overcome so many obstacles. May you continue to inspire so many people going through the same.
That was a million dollar Story from this fine woman. I am blessed through the story cos my sister passed on and left her kids with unanswered questions , now they are grownups and am assisting them to unfold the folded which is abit challenging.
You are beautiful and very strong and I’m glad you have allowed God to be part of your journey now…. Love and light, warm hugs 🫂
❤❤❤ What a strong and beautiful lady. Prayers up for a bright future!
I like how you have summarized your mum’s attitude towards you, and that she may have gone through a lot when she got pregnant with you. Unfortunately many people would choose to continue to be angry with her. It’s good that you have chosen to try and understand the reason behind her behavior towards you.
It’s good that you two tried to bond towards the end of her life. That, like you rightly mentioned, provided you with some closure.
The anger you had towards your father is very justifiable. And to make it worse, he didn’t make any effort to show empathy towards the loss of your mother.
You have gone through a lot from your childhood. But the beautiful thing is that you are on your way to recovery. Give yourself time to go through all the feelings, including the anger. It’s all part of the process and you will be alright. God has your back and will never forsake you. He is the best dad one can ever ask for. Thanks for sharing this with us.
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Iknew the ever self righteous birthing humans will side with the mother. This lady has done everything well so keep your tired preachings to yourself
@@MyJOSE2013 You completely missed my point, but that’s ok
thankyou for giving this story its so encouraging, it comes just at the right time as a single mum I will do better
Brillant and well rounded conversation
You are so positive, eloquent. I love you, girl. ❤
You are destined for greatness. You have not even scratched the surface. More is to come. Keep going. I look up to you a lot.
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Dad's not being present is one of the heartbreaking things a gal will ever go through. If you've not been here, don't say much. Trauma , pain, 😢 tears. But God for those whose Dad's returned.
God bless you all
Thank you for sharing and I am praying that you make up with your father please 🙏
You are so strong girl.
You is a strong girl, indeed the grace of God has covered you and His favour upon you. Thanks God you are here to teach, inspire and encourage many. You are a warrior.
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When she described the funeral i felt it. Recently lost someone and the memories were so fresh
Love and light ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing and sorry for your loss girl.
I like like how you let them talk without hearing your voice.
Grace...you were there! YOU WERE THERE TO THE LAST SECOND! So many just hear their parents passed on. But you were THERE ! THAT WAS MEANT TO BE.
Gal, thank you for sharing this. Being a lone child from a single parent isn't easy. Am one such and been through alot but God has been God. Don't allow any closeness with that man calling himself dad. He may defile you again emotionally, physically etc. A few of them come back genuinely. He's your dad though keep your distance. May God continue filling your day.
Your so eloquent and you sound like caroline Mutoko
You are a brave girrrrl.keep inspiring
Yes, she even resembles Carol Mutoko kiasi
I thought so too very eloquent and a wonderful voice
Almost 40 years old now , never seen my biological dad, not even a photo, nothing about him ! My biological mum is still living and we've tried to mend our relationship! She has never lived with me and our relationship is very strange! I lived with my grandparents (her parents) my fistst 16 years of life. She was missing all my early life and gibt married to an Austrian! Year 2000, funny enough, she invited us to visit her in Vienna and that's how we ended starting a new life with her here! Long story short, I have never lived with her before.. I can even count roughly how many times I saw her all the 16 years I lived in Kenya . She hardly visited us and I didn't miss her because my grandparents played the role of parents very well! Life in Vienna started.. I've tried all my bear to get to know my mum well, but circumstances even made me move out a year later, I was 17 years old, in a foreign country, my mum is here but she still can't see me as her child or I don't know what it is. Till today, this moment, things are worse, she went mute when it's about who my dad is, or whatever it is why she treats me as she do... she's a strangers to me ever since and it gets worse as time goes by. My mum is a stranger to me!!!! I don't know how to start making things work, I need to know who my dad is, I wish she could open up , talk to me... my aunts and all family is just silently watching!!! No one wants to talk about anything concerning my biological dad or our strange mom/daughter relation. It's eating me silently and I don't know what next....
😢 sad
Apparently you're just not the only one who needs to find their dad... Me too, and it's just not our fault to want to get answers to understand why did they just fail/ end up in such messes... They take it as an offence...... When we ask
I'm on a journey to carrying out a DNA, I'm in the process and I'm just confused because in the end, the question will be was it worth the effort?
Get close to one of your aunts or uncles. They will tell you.
Pls get help for yourself first, Refuse to allow your Great Destiny to be destroyed by past things you can't control. It is very painful to go through All that but remember you are still living, you are unique, you have beautiful dreams to live & fight for & a greater purpose than your past. Fight to come off the trauma of your past so you can Embrace the golds of your Beautiful Now & Future🙏
Believe that in All this there is a very Beautiful Ending❤.
Trust in Jesus🫂
Don't worry girl just leave everything to God one day your dad will appear.
"when the sun goes down don't cry, for if you do the tears won't let you see the stars."-Goro Wa Kamau. You chose to fight for your place in this world. Thank you for that courage of sharing your story and inspiring the world. Keep it shared moments with Justus.
Is that a proverb from the land of plenty 😁 You're right. Life if for the living
23years down the line I have never seen my dad and he has never made effort to look for me. .. but I have God as my father
Mine came after 20 years , I see you and feel you. I relate.
Am 38 n no idea how to get him
I'm 41, no idea too
Men are interesting...last time I saw my father was my mum's burial at 5year...now am 38 and I hope he never shows up....seeing him beat up my mum and locking her out while he was drunk made me disconnect....she died at only 27 out of meningitis.......death you really did us wrong coz life has never ever been the same...the void waaaa
Woow this gal is strong. Keep going 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾. Thanks Justus for that story
Most welcome
Thank you for your testimony . May the Lord God continue to bless you to the end!
I love your platform because you bring stories that are authentic big up for that Justus
Thanks @Zoey
There is something about her ❤ wonderful and blessed she is! All things truly work together for good🎉
Absolutely!!
Thanks dear sis i will change my approach towards my children and also listen to them
Ending was just beautiful how I love you God he so sweet 😭
I share so much with Susan. My childhood was crazy
Nisiwe uku inje nakaa nikama sina mungu... That has touched me to the soul.
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Be persistent with God❤
What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.💪💪💪
You are indeed strong.maybe there was a reason why she prefered you to be with your relatives than her.🙏🙏🙏🙏.
Be at peace with yourself.healling is a process,and I believe time heals.
Hugs grace,i wonder how you mananged to be a disciplined achiever amidst all these?.Your eloquence is on point gal.
Thank you for sharing this,it has challenged me to be a teacher and a friend to my students.
Hugs girl💕💕, you are a strong woman 💪❤️
Spiritually woke❤❤
Atleast Grace you found love and you are loved by your pple to date.i have shed tears
The guest is eloquent.
In deed
I pray for total healing. Hiyo part ya culture shock 😂 i always try and accomodate my niece because sharing is not easy.
Just finished with Part 1, and now on Part 2. Saaaaaad saaaaaaad😢😢
Enlightening
Glad it was
That scoop ..is so traumatic..you never forget that ..
One: There will never be enough words to console grief, for that, I see you and feel you.
Two: My dad showed up after a whole damn 20 years, when I was almost done with Campus,,that's brilliant, right? It's never easy,,it has taken more than 5 years to fully accept or even forgive him . Sad enough, they don't even apologize for their absence.
Got to know mine when I was 30years and he died 6years before I could talk to him although I forgave in his hospital bed and later that evening, its never easy
She is a strong woman and a forgiving cz if its my case she could died without me talking to her or attending the burial,,,she is a gem cz forgiveness is an expensive and rare gift
Waa I lost my mom and before burial I could forget and dial her number,ati nimuulize ako aje,I feel u gal healing takes forever..hugs.
This is so sad and painful to listen,
But look at you now girl,
I don't even know how you managed to get back to normal!
Bado she is on a journey. More grace to her
healing is a process 🫂🫂🫂❤️❤️
In deed
Forgive him...how many times do our father in heaven has forgiven us
From tiktok ❤❤
Most welcome Grace
Gad Saad recently told Joe Rogan...I will protect my children. Joe didnt get it. Let's say 50% . Joe had a good argument about raising a child.
Grace, you just delivered and supported the 50% of what Saad was talking about. Bless your heart.
And....YES! YOU WERE THERE!
Chira should listen to this and learn
How I love this gal🎉🎉
That encounter with her dad reminds me of the song by Kenny Rodgers: 'Stranger'
Tiktok brought me here
Most welcome Lily ❤️
Your earlier tribute was the right one.Someone who is dead you can't address her tribute is you tell the mourners who she was.
Finally part two is here
On the list of things she can do something about is the relationship with the living dad! Just going by what she said!
No pressure but the closure may help her!
Wow. First of all i love your resilience. Afrigan kids have been conditioned mzazi ni kama mungu and they have some tired bible verses which they quote selectively where it suits them. I like the way hukuwaacha wakupake mauji 😁. Wjhen you confront them is when wanajifanya kugutuka ala and pretend to change but still ile madharau ni kama lifestyle kwao.Too bad when i was just a child i could defend myself and first forward at the age of 32 i confronted my fatha for abuse that involved indecent touching and the d0 g made sure he was drunk inorder to do this while the meek mother would just watch. I wonder if that woman is a nyerian coz me im a proper certified nyerian na hugwes niuzia uoga wala uguse mtoi wangu nikuache! And that is how the man developed diabetes coz normally they assume you were too young to remember. even the woman was very scared and embarassed by this confrontation. Afrigan parents think they are entitled to mistreat kids but then God strikes them with sicknesses in older age while deadbeats tend to die earlier because bible curses them. sifurahii magojwa zao wala vif0 but its what it is. If i were you i would totally block all those useless relatives. Blessed or cursed be the day when i realized none of us will be here in the next 150 years because then i became careless.i cant tolerate you while you mistreat me no matter who you are!
Inspirational ❤
EXODUS 14.14 and Philipians ...🙌💯on point❤
May you continue healing and reaching others through your testimony
Wow this was amazing..thanks for the story learned something
Glad you enjoyed it
This happened to my boss 4years ago. He cough out fresh clean blood from 5am to 1am after every 30min. 1am is when he fainted and that's when doctors came running to attend to him, after nimechota damu the whole day wakiniangalia. But he made it till today.
I'm first today 💃💃
I've really been waiting for Part 2
🕺 keep it here! We're 30 minutes away
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The way daughter begs her dad to be in life 😢alafu afike 30 ndio anamtafuta aki Alphonse Okumu wherever you are you have put your daughter into so much trauma
2023 your still here alive..God is good
He is
Sad.. Sad.. You need deliverance girl fro the right man of God , so that what you went through doest continue or repeat itself to your children in the future. But God was watching over you. Its like many mums who have neglected/reject their children dont live for long, the tears of those children reduces their lives under the sun. Its a lesson to learn. Pole!!
You speak wisely about breaking generational curses. consequently, you need to know your father well and their side of the family because of the generational traits from your father's side that might be following you. you cannot break what you do not know. Perhaps that is why he never settled with your mum. Those same traits may befall your children. The same applies to your mother's side. Kindly do not ignore this.
😢😢😢 I know the pain of losing a mum😢😢😢
A good mum or a not present mum?
Susan has gone through a lot in life indeed but the link to her social media is not opening
Rectified. Thanks for the feedback 🙏
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Weuh Sue😢
As an only child I get it😅😅 .
Now I understand your life in campus.
I love your voice girl! Have you ever considered to be on radio or TV? Please try.
She's both
For once i got someone who understands only child struggles to live with people 😂😂 am afraid when i get a baby we will fight over Weetabix 😂😂😂😂
hehehehehehe and Akili Kids
then dont breed
Thumbs up gal
Her mom had 💰 but giving her daughter peace and love was where she drew lines why ?? Wueeh they way im struggling with my my two sons in one bedroom house .. have mercy on me ooh lord have never neglected my kids
usually wemen like those are bitter from the childs father. they simply dont move on hehe!
@@MyJOSE2013 very unfair child is innocent
Camped here
Sorry susan
Which woman ignores the fact that your boyfriend is sleeping with your only girl!!! This is strange. She was indeed buried with all the answers.
That is so strange but happens. Read the story of Ayide a Nigerian music producer who lived in USA. He raped his 6 daughters got them pregnant and the wife was just there doing nothing
@@Kakwasi sounds like it got to do with parents signing up for something from the dark world and the sexual ritual was the sacrifice.
@@olive_046 yeah coz it's very abnormal which mother allows her daughter to go and sleep at your boyfriend's house, how?
@@christinendwiga2930 lakini women the things we allow men to do. Especially when we are in love with them. Is crazy crazy crazy. Dear women carry your heads and brains in your intimate relationships even if married for 20 years please have your brain
many. in all races not just africa. and many wemen seem to haite their own dotas ni kama mashetani
You did the best to ignore your dad. Don't feel guilty. If he was given a chance to take over your education at dayster, he would not do it.... You would have given him a chance, disappointed your family and after that he would walk away when you need him most. Most fathers who appear when you are already grown up, are spoiler😂.... They can never stand by you when you need them most.
Hehe fantasic encounter. Sorry for pain
Why am I hearing carolyn mutoko's voice in this gal..
I am very sorry what happened to you but you should force her to go to hospital, persistent coughing and later blood that morning of her passing, that was red flag
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Part 3 please..... tag me
Seems like the mom and dad had a sexual relationship and not a strong relationship. Hope she will not live with anger towards the dad since she has not even tried to understand her roots.
My dear you are strong girl may Our God continually heal you BUT please make peace with your DAD. The word of God says that you be at peace with all men, it's for your own good
Where was this bible when she was a child? Its always religious placing burdens on victims .and justifying the abuser. Look for her father and take your bible there.
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Walking away also means making peace
What for another abuser .. cammon make peace with yours who took care of you while young leave us to make peace with God who created us .. despite neglected
Baby girl...finishing line...bado...give him a chance