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Being a single mum to one daughter, who is turning 4 soon, this story has changed my plans to take her home to stay with my parents. Though I am not rich , I can afford to have her around me . Today I have learnt that this would deny her the motherly love and at some point, she might suffer in my absentia and carry it to adulthood. It has also enlightened me on how to always protect her all times , protect her and show her the parental love she deserves. To all single mum's, you only have one chance to bring up your child, give it your best, protect them,love them, stay close to them and never allow anyone traumatize them.
I dream of never being called resilient again in my life. I’m exhausted by strength. I want support. I want softness. I want ease. I want to be amongst kin. Not patted on the back for how well I take a hit. Or for how many. -Zandashé L’orelia Brown Such an impactful episode, reminded me of this quote.
This is where I am now. I'm tired of being strong, being hard worker, the 'endurer'. I want all things soft now, life, love, career.....soft all the way🙏🏽
Through such an episode, i know a mum somewhere will reflect and choose to be a good mum. That is how LNN is changing lives! You're an amazing woman Susan
Sometimes parents fail their children and what follows is traumatic adults dealing this unending issues plus unanswered questions with nobody to ask or answer you😢😢😢
very toxic mentality. But we ain't ready for these conversations especially in Africa. And the pretence of parents not to know why kids don't visit is exhausting
Am already loved,am already chosen. I Know who i am. I know what you've spoken... And that is enough 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶.. If He watches over, every sparrow,how much more will he love me... Jireh you're enough 🎶❤️
There’s something about her mother that triggered her grandmother violence towards her. It’s not normal for a grandparent to have that much rage towards a grandchild. Her mom in turn, perhaps didn’t know how to love or care or protect because it was never modeled to her. This is the ugly hidden truth about the maternal wound we have in Africa. It’s generational. Her grandmother likely inherited it from her mother and her mother before her. In summary, Susan will never get her answers from anyone but God, as He orchestrated this in accordance with His will in her life. However, she can find love, healthy love. Our God is no respecter of persons. How many women come from affluent families with healthy fathers, yet they end up with abusive men or single mothers? Believe God can teach you how to find a good husband as Christ was to the church. It’s possible. He did it for me ( I have major maternal wounds stemming back generations), He can do it for anyone if we allow Him ❤
It’s not just Africa, the maternal wound from the womb has am effect on black American communities too. If we were to ask the women in Caribbeans I’m sure they also have their stores to share to. I think Black Women across the globe have endured some sort of trauma/hardship. Then we enter into a society who sees us as fair game to exploit and further abuse.
I remember Susan from campus, I knew her as 'Vee'; she was such a beautiful ball of energy, humor, positivity & confidence!!! Her story is one of resilience and growth, & I pray that she comes to the fullness of what God has in store for her.
Am a single mother working abroad.. i left my kid with my parents when she was 1.5yrs now she is 4yrs back then i used to call home and slowly by slowly she stopped talking to me and wont pick the calls anymore.. Thanks to my mum she explained dt the reason she wont talk to me is because I try to discipline her from a distance and allow my siz to cane her using my name, it hit me and i hated myself for allowing her to suffer in my absence in the name of making her perfect. Now i surport her and wont let her be punished and we are best of friends and she call me 'mum' b4 she used to call me by my name. Being a parent requires sacrifice.😔😔
MADAM LYNN Please when you are interviewing your people please ask them about their SALVATION JOURNEY and how they got saved. Some of US wanna learn about how they got saved and their salvation journey
Self compassion is a gift Mum's give their children. Lack of it makes us feel lost and unworthy in the world. Thank you for sharing your journey, may you experience total healing.
These childhood memories are a pain. But when one finds a way to walk out of them the better. Many of us are nursing childhood memories quietly. Susan you are a big example of what "GRACE" is. May God keep giving you strength for each day.
Kweli kabisa thy are pain but like yu said when one finds a way to walk out of them the better ….. and first it comes with the Grace and strength to forgive coz bila ku forgive mtu anaeza ishi na hicho ki bitterness …..also something else its for Moms to try their level best not to repeat those mistakes altho it takes also prayers ku break hiyo kitu
Susan you are elegant, a woman full of dignity and respect, making yourself vulnerable on this platform shows what strengths you carry. You are an inspiration to many lives. Your next chapter will be that of endless testimonies. Wishing you a future of endless joy and blessings. To Lynn, you are an epitome of blessings I just simply love you. God bless you always 🙏 ❤️
This episode has made me shed so many tears because of her pain! It's also reminded me of the difficulties I have been through however nothing close to what Susan has been through. I'm filled with joy knowing that God has healed you! Be blessed Susan you is no longer what defines you.
I met Susan in 2016, she used to go by Vicentio or Miss Vee. It's so emotional getting to know her story, and witnessing the amazing woman she has blossomed into. Won't God do it!
she is an amazing lady, beautiful voice. Can you model her Lynn to starting her own channel where she has a platform? In the process she will become completely healed. She can look for a therapist to help her healing. Her future is great and her story is a mirror to many people going through rejection, rape, beatings etc. God bless her indeed.
As long as you are alive..Never,Ever.take your child to your relatives..better to suffer together rather than creating a permanent scar in your child's heart...Good work Lynn
"It's a father's responsibility to look for their child,not the other way round." If daddy wanted to be in her life,he could have done everything possible to be closer to her. Let no one give an excuse of ooo the mother didn't allow,ooh he didn't know....the thing is,he chose not to look for her.Period. I have met father's who will look for their children in any way possible, not just giving up. Like after the funeral,why the silence thereafter? He could have reached out. Hugs girl. Hope life hands you a fair deal moving forward. A great lesson to single mums who may wish to date with girl child in the picture, kindly,be careful,very careful.
So many women have been through this. I had a mother that would forever change boyfriends (non abused me) but it brought alot of issues growing up. I was also in boarding school most of my childhood so we barley had any connection. She was also narssisitc and extremly verbally abusive. Had to cutt her off.
This episode broke me!! I feel people’s pain but this hit differently!!! The pain of letting your kids suffer in the hands of relatives so you can make money is too much. MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING!!! Thank you Susan for sharing your story, may God give you your wish ❤❤
Hmmm I can relate. Here is from another fifty year old still dealing with rejection by parents : an absentee dad who I met when he was called to receive bride price for his 22 year old daughter (me!) and a mom who had moved on and had another family where if i visited her I was very much aware that i was an inconvinience in her life.... The feeling of not being loved stays with you and messes up your perspective on what is love. Praying for your full healing my lil sister
Am so proud of this girl and am more lucky to even know her personally. Just seeing her thriving and shining after everything she has been through is truly a blessing. Super proud of you Vera❤
First lemme start by appreciating her for being strong n for choosing to talk about what everyone would rather keep it a secret. Personally am a mom,a single mom and in currently working abroad and I feel like av let my son down big time. His father denied him b4 he was born n God knows I choose to never project my anger n frustration on him even though am constantly way I got av to hustle n make ends meet. However I feel sad coz am not there to tell him who can't touch u how n so on n to think that he is not fluent in speech makes my stomach churn when I think if someone did something to him n his not able to talk about it gosh! Am always on edge n uncomfortable n literally can't wait for 2 years to end so I can come home and be a mom that he deserves. Note even though he's dad rejected him I never felt any animosity towards him or what's so ever I love him n I feel like he's the most perfect gift av I been given.
Childhood trauma is dangerous , me and her have one thing in common” I don’t know how to ask for help” it’s hard even to show people how vulnerable you are, some take advantage to shame you
Some mothers why though 😢 me being a single mum and getting chills ghosh! Mungu atusaidie. Glad she grew up and came out strong,more love to her and may her rebuilding journey come out as a big testimony 🙏and ooh, she's beautiful 😍
It hurts when people you believe are supposed to support you and take care of you when your parents are gone turn against... Am on my healing journey but it has never been easy.
Good morning team Lynn, been looking forward Tuesday ifike for another amazing conversation. Thank you for always bringing amazing guests with amazing talks to learn, inspire and educate us. We love you Lynn. Keep being you and being blessed with your team.
The fact that I've been through this too😂,I remember in class three when I'd cry and wish I don't go home cz I was scared of meeting my mum at home cz I knew the kind of beating I'd get,I'd get beatings sometimes just cz I am a bed wetter 😢, I can't imagine how my first suicidal thoughts was when I was 11🥺,growing up with a mum who's there physically but not in any other way is the worst thing that could happen to anyone, my mum was literary the first person to tell me nikona sura mbaya😂 but anyways Susan is right, some of us came to bring change👏and yes each day we get closer to healing and you're right we're not gonna woyie woyie .we will snap out of it🎉
@LynnNgugi for the longest time Ave been avoiding to watch your shows because I come also from a place of trauma. But am glad I have healed and enjoying every show about rebuilding. You are doing the most blessed to have you. One day I would like to sit on that yellow couch and give my testimony😊 Bless up!!
Your were born to give this testimony, because all those time you cut yourself and you never died, with all the pain someone will listen and be able to pick their pieces and have a fresh start.. people out here have alot of traumas.
The first step to recovery is getting closer to God,,, how? by prayer, hating the secular worldy things eg boyfriend,(the flesh),,where the devil has stronghold,and walking in righteousness and purity. LIFE IS SPIRITUAL GUYS
She has done some good job for herself. Kudos!!now on to therapy to meet the emotions head on and embrace them more with love. Wish her all the very best!
As much as I want to agree with that I choose to disagree respectfully, what I'm i saying this is like noticing a crack on your wall , you decide you not going to worry instead you will polish and plaster the top , cover it with nice eye appealing paint and move on with life ....Many years down the Line it may take a decade or more that Crack will haunt you, What I'm o saying instead of shrugging shoulders and saying let's move on be courageous enough to face those demon's to heal you ...to go back inside of you to find that child who was born into this life so as to bring her or him home to your grown up self .... Healing is going through pain , realizing and aknowledging the pain...pain that cuts through deep as you feel it without suppressing it with the antidepressants....and as you get to the Root to the Core , a sigh of relief kicks in as that Aha! Moment comes and that is liberation, that is how you get born again to yourself...
@johealingtouch6683 so profound. I feel that the hardest & most scary thing on earth is facing those "demons" it's a topic that majority of humans wouldn't dare addressing. People would rather sleep walk through life than face themselves
Susan speaks for so many of us dealing with childhood traumas, I celebrate her, and Susan 😚 girl you got a beautiful voice, and Lynn you're so amazing, thanks for bringing a voice for all of us who are traumatized
I have really enjoyed this show. What a strong lady. May God continue leading her and blessing her. She has a great destiny. Lynn, thank you for always bringing us the most authentic, venerable people with stories that encourage, inspire and remind us that despite of what we’ve gone through, our past cannot hinder our tomorrow. There is always a brighter day 👏🏾👏🏾
Lynn, you are a gem. These are the best episodes you are doing so far. They are evolved. They are talking about the oiyeee emotions , and especially the traumas parents do not know how to deal with. We need live interviewees that victims can identify with. Not everyone can afford a therapist. I am sincerely sorry for because even parents can be very egoistic although they regret later
What Susan has gone through is disturbing. It's beyond sad. There is a God in heaven and He takes care of His people. Other than therapy, I feel something needs to happen in the spiritual. I didn't hear from the interview if deliverance was done and if it was, I thank God.
Yes, I agree! I recently had a Deliverance Prayer performed on me to finally close any openings that the devil had through my past childhood traumas. No, I'm much better. I've claimed and still claiming God's authority over my life, over everything that was meant for evil.
I just love her again.. I watched her story on Justo's platform and I still watched it to the end...I get what you guys are trying to do there but yes her voice could be mistaken to Caroline's. Love them both.. See you kesho BrookLyn♥
Omg it's sure painful to please a parent who doesn't share their ❤ with their choice children I have been there it's so sad but I have a bigger parent I don't worry who doesn't appreciate me being a parent I got most ❤ from God, Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit just trust in God you will never have to please anyone on earth who should nuture you as a parent😂😍😍💝💝💖💖💋💋💋💞⭐⭐⭐🌟🌟🎁🎁🎁💕💕🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sometimes pain is meant to be witnessed, this episode is one of those times we witness pain in its raw form and how mothers sometimes can mess up their kids despite having resources. I pray Susan finds love and immense love in the lord, within her and she gets to a place where she accepts it for herself from others. This was emotional. Her parents failed her and it's sad and her
Susan! You are a strong wman! The far you've come, i must say God is your Ebenezer. I was kicked out with my biological father and step mother at 18. God came through for me at the ninth hr through a strange mom who has remained my mom to date at 43. My daughter drunk omo at school and it shocked me bcz im doing what i can to make her feel/know that im there for her. Im going through another time i didn't imagine again.
Your story has made realize that even though we struggle with toxic parents, others go through even so much more. May God bless you Grace for sharing your story
Haki the traumas people go through. Sych an amazing girl in beauty, elegance and content she runs on mainstream media. Without our awesome Lynn Ngugi's show, how could the world have known her story. Anyone intentional and genuinely looking for a wife material, this is one such amazing girl. Guys get such a woman and the rest shall unfold all the way to your destiny. Big up Grace. I fully affirm you and without knowing Good has all the goodies waiting for you in Jesus name.
The grave happens to be that place where the most needed answers can come from but sadly most people have to deal with 'what could have been ". I've been a huge fan of cross over and never did it cross my mind, she'd been through all this considering how vibrant she is.
This is an uplifting story. That's why we need to trust the process and believe in God. Everyone is destined for greatness. But if we knew what we have to go through to reach there, we would say to hell with greatness. God Almighty, Yahweh is always faithful.
Isaiah 43:19 forget the past for God is doing a new thing. Your past was your teacher, today is your opportunity and tomorrow is your testimony. More grace Susan and keep Lynn for the good work you are doing. Shalom
Having a traumatic childhood makes me a better parent to my kids ... because I understand every impact of my actions to them. I reflect on how I felt, and it makes me very attentive to their emotional needs as much as their physical and financial needs. I pray I have a close relationship with them and teach them to be responsible to their children as well.
Forgiving is for you dear Grace, not for the other person who hurt you,unforgiveness is a burden you don't want to carry,may God give you the Courage to forgive them,and allow God to heal you.Hugs sweetheart
I wish one day I will be able to speak about everything I went through and heal before it's very late😢,lynn Ngugi thanks for this show 🙏 it means a lot to me 😢❤❤❤❤
In my teaching and guidance I say , every child who is born , who has had parents has Trauma , every living human has Trauma ... Meaning we all have overwhelming experience's that we went through... parents who haven't healed vibrate and pass through what was passed to them in their childhood....The only time we heal is when we summon the that inner courage....to summon That healing for our past generation to heal the present so as to heal the future.
I have seen a lot of people who been through a rough time they seemed to be strong just because they know they have to protect themselves, but they also want to be vulnerable, and the worry kicks in that they would be taken advantage of, or looked at as weak. They do not like to ask for help. And like Suzan Grace said at the end you end up being mean wanting others to experience what you went through or you are so kindest and compassionate that who will cry if you even see a dead bird! I never thought I could cry for nothing! I cry if someone gives a birth, I cry if I see a homeless, I cry if I see a kitten 🐈⬛ or pappy I cry if I see a baby I cry if I see anyone that have some problems. Like shows like these I cry 😭 so hard and I never used to be like this! I used to be hard like a rock 🪨! When I kneel in front of God I just crying to the point I bite pillow so no one could hear me! All I can say Suzan Grace May God protect and bless you eternal 💗❤️♥️💡💡
This is exactly my story, my mother's story same, my dad rejection not choosing me, same.. working on my childhood trauma, and building my life to a new one
The irony of life... We always think we have time... but we actually don't.... Hurt people hurt... Wish time allowed her mum to give her answers... I imagine she also had unprocessed traumas... I pray God gives her the answers she needs in His own timing.. I hope the traumas stop with her and that her generation remains blessed.
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Suzzie has a great future.
She shall get happily married and she shall have a wonderful family.
God's time is the best 🎉
Inshallah 🎉
Lynn your doing such a great job, i keep hoping one day I'll sit with n share my story
Your guest is so pretty and so articulate. Love the confidence vibes she exudes 😍
Iyo ndiyo maana siendagi kwetu Mimi. Niko na miaka kumi sijaenda home
@@quinterokumu973kwanini ujaanda home
Being a single mum to one daughter, who is turning 4 soon, this story has changed my plans to take her home to stay with my parents. Though I am not rich , I can afford to have her around me . Today I have learnt that this would deny her the motherly love and at some point, she might suffer in my absentia and carry it to adulthood. It has also enlightened me on how to always protect her all times , protect her and show her the parental love she deserves.
To all single mum's, you only have one chance to bring up your child, give it your best, protect them,love them, stay close to them and never allow anyone traumatize them.
I congratulate my mum coz he is one of the best
A very smart choice
I dream of never being called resilient again in my life. I’m exhausted by strength. I want support. I want softness. I want ease. I want to be amongst kin. Not patted on the back for how well I take a hit. Or for how many. -Zandashé L’orelia Brown
Such an impactful episode, reminded me of this quote.
Never seen the quote before but I love it!!
You echoed my thoughts. God take control
This is where I am now. I'm tired of being strong, being hard worker, the 'endurer'. I want all things soft now, life, love, career.....soft all the way🙏🏽
@@hildaamushembe may it be so
I love this! I'm exhausted from being strong
We go through hell during childhood especially when family members disown us but God always has good plans for us
God is forever by our side....
💯
I looooove Susan Grace. Her voice giving Caroline Mutoko's.
Go go girl 👏👏👏👏👏
Thanks Lynn for bringing us Susan. You're so full of GRACE!
Exactly, Caro mutuko vibes and Janet mbugua .
Through such an episode, i know a mum somewhere will reflect and choose to be a good mum. That is how LNN is changing lives! You're an amazing woman Susan
This is for me my dear
Sometimes parents fail their children and what follows is traumatic adults dealing this unending issues plus unanswered questions with nobody to ask or answer you😢😢😢
I miss you😢😢
@@LynnNgugi I miss here n you daily dear ....but trust me very soon I'll be here as always 😻 Sia ni once once tu
I love you lyn❤
Susan is beautiful inside and outside. Perfect voice. You are destined for greatness
Thank you so much 🙏
Being a single mother of a baby girl, this breaks my heart 😢 I hope she finds peace ❤
True 👍
Child trauma is real,how society normalizes this ati she's /he's your parent..this is a topic we need to address soberly
I second you mara mbili🎉
It really hurts..I mean but they knew they were your parents they would have done better
True😢😢
No wonder Europeans have child protection laws.
very toxic mentality. But we ain't ready for these conversations especially in Africa. And the pretence of parents not to know why kids don't visit is exhausting
Am already loved,am already chosen. I Know who i am. I know what you've spoken... And that is enough 🎶🎶🎶🎶🎶.. If He watches over, every sparrow,how much more will he love me... Jireh you're enough 🎶❤️
Sisi ni wale kama siyo Mungu tusingikuwa kwa hii dunia. Hugs girl😢
Some parents will have a lot to answer mbele za Mungu.😢😢
There’s something about her mother that triggered her grandmother violence towards her. It’s not normal for a grandparent to have that much rage towards a grandchild. Her mom in turn, perhaps didn’t know how to love or care or protect because it was never modeled to her.
This is the ugly hidden truth about the maternal wound we have in Africa. It’s generational. Her grandmother likely inherited it from her mother and her mother before her.
In summary, Susan will never get her answers from anyone but God, as He orchestrated this in accordance with His will in her life. However, she can find love, healthy love. Our God is no respecter of persons. How many women come from affluent families with healthy fathers, yet they end up with abusive men or single mothers? Believe God can teach you how to find a good husband as Christ was to the church. It’s possible. He did it for me ( I have major maternal wounds stemming back generations), He can do it for anyone if we allow Him ❤
Amen
🙏🙏
Well explained
It’s not just Africa, the maternal wound from the womb has am effect on black American communities too. If we were to ask the women in Caribbeans I’m sure they also have their stores to share to. I think Black Women across the globe have endured some sort of trauma/hardship. Then we enter into a society who sees us as fair game to exploit and further abuse.
I remember Susan from campus, I knew her as 'Vee'; she was such a beautiful ball of energy, humor, positivity & confidence!!! Her story is one of resilience and growth, & I pray that she comes to the fullness of what God has in store for her.
Everyone who has a painful past can have a joyous present...be strong do your part and God will do His best ❤❤
Am a single mother working abroad.. i left my kid with my parents when she was 1.5yrs now she is 4yrs back then i used to call home and slowly by slowly she stopped talking to me and wont pick the calls anymore.. Thanks to my mum she explained dt the reason she wont talk to me is because I try to discipline her from a distance and allow my siz to cane her using my name, it hit me and i hated myself for allowing her to suffer in my absence in the name of making her perfect. Now i surport her and wont let her be punished and we are best of friends and she call me 'mum' b4 she used to call me by my name. Being a parent requires sacrifice.😔😔
Thats gud
Thank God we don't look like what we have gone through, she is such a blessing and has a beautiful voice ❤
You will be fine trust me
I don't watch Kenyan TV so I am seeing you for the first time and I just have to say your voice has PRESENCE. You sound really good. X
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Self compassion is a gift Mum's give their children. Lack of it makes us feel lost and unworthy in the world. Thank you for sharing your journey, may you experience total healing.
This lady is a such a darling 😊❤.. I have worked with her before at Nation Media and i admired her so much.. Susan Grace, receive your flowers 🎉.
These childhood memories are a pain. But when one finds a way to walk out of them the better. Many of us are nursing childhood memories quietly. Susan you are a big example of what "GRACE" is. May God keep giving you strength for each day.
Kweli kabisa thy are pain but like yu said when one finds a way to walk out of them the better ….. and first it comes with the Grace and strength to forgive coz bila ku forgive mtu anaeza ishi na hicho ki bitterness …..also something else its for Moms to try their level best not to repeat those mistakes altho it takes also prayers ku break hiyo kitu
Susan you are elegant, a woman full of dignity and respect, making yourself vulnerable on this platform shows what strengths you carry. You are an inspiration to many lives. Your next chapter will be that of endless testimonies. Wishing you a future of endless joy and blessings. To Lynn, you are an epitome of blessings I just simply love you. God bless you always 🙏 ❤️
This episode has made me shed so many tears because of her pain! It's also reminded me of the difficulties I have been through however nothing close to what Susan has been through. I'm filled with joy knowing that God has healed you! Be blessed Susan you is no longer what defines you.
Her mum was broken and messed up herself, so how could she be a good mum to her? She also needed healing.
I met Susan in 2016, she used to go by Vicentio or Miss Vee.
It's so emotional getting to know her story, and witnessing the amazing woman she has blossomed into.
Won't God do it!
"Stop allowing your past to hold you hostage" My take home. Thank you Lynn for bringing this amazing lady.
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When you listen to her story you'll understand the phrase " THE RICH ALSO CRY" you're a strong person Susan Grace
So true
Definitely, it's a shame
When someone starts self harming or suicidal thats play a toxic role in their mental health.
sometimes it's ok to admit our mothers have failed us
she is an amazing lady, beautiful voice. Can you model her Lynn to starting her own channel where she has a platform? In the process she will become completely healed. She can look for a therapist to help her healing. Her future is great and her story is a mirror to many people going through rejection, rape, beatings etc. God bless her indeed.
As long as you are alive..Never,Ever.take your child to your relatives..better to suffer together rather than creating a permanent scar in your child's heart...Good work Lynn
What an episode❤❤❤
She is powerful,I've always admired her, nothing changes now ❤❤
"It's a father's responsibility to look for their child,not the other way round."
If daddy wanted to be in her life,he could have done everything possible to be closer to her.
Let no one give an excuse of ooo the mother didn't allow,ooh he didn't know....the thing is,he chose not to look for her.Period.
I have met father's who will look for their children in any way possible, not just giving up.
Like after the funeral,why the silence thereafter?
He could have reached out.
Hugs girl.
Hope life hands you a fair deal moving forward.
A great lesson to single mums who may wish to date with girl child in the picture, kindly,be careful,very careful.
So many women have been through this. I had a mother that would forever change boyfriends (non abused me) but it brought alot of issues growing up. I was also in boarding school most of my childhood so we barley had any connection. She was also narssisitc and extremly verbally abusive. Had to cutt her off.
You had??
Hugs
@@martharinebiseko1457 i cut her off if you can read properly
It's allowed. My family have never understood why I don't visit mine.
@@jacklinewairimu7455 and you don't have to. My relatives know they cant even enter my home. Its over over.
This episode broke me!! I feel people’s pain but this hit differently!!! The pain of letting your kids suffer in the hands of relatives so you can make money is too much. MONEY IS NOT EVERYTHING!!!
Thank you Susan for sharing your story, may God give you your wish ❤❤
Hmmm I can relate. Here is from another fifty year old still dealing with rejection by parents : an absentee dad who I met when he was called to receive bride price for his 22 year old daughter (me!) and a mom who had moved on and had another family where if i visited her I was very much aware that i was an inconvinience in her life.... The feeling of not being loved stays with you and messes up your perspective on what is love. Praying for your full healing my lil sister
hugs aswito
So sorry love.
"not having closure is closure itself" powerful message...in other words closure is what you make it!
Am so proud of this girl and am more lucky to even know her personally. Just seeing her thriving and shining after everything she has been through is truly a blessing. Super proud of you Vera❤
Aaww thank youuu Michelle ♥️
@@AwomansjournalpodcastThank you so ao much for coming out. Am 30 and I can relate.
@@berylmoigepoolmistress I’m so sorry 🥹🥹
First lemme start by appreciating her for being strong n for choosing to talk about what everyone would rather keep it a secret.
Personally am a mom,a single mom and in currently working abroad and I feel like av let my son down big time.
His father denied him b4 he was born n God knows I choose to never project my anger n frustration on him even though am constantly way I got av to hustle n make ends meet.
However I feel sad coz am not there to tell him who can't touch u how n so on n to think that he is not fluent in speech makes my stomach churn when I think if someone did something to him n his not able to talk about it gosh! Am always on edge n uncomfortable n literally can't wait for 2 years to end so I can come home and be a mom that he deserves.
Note even though he's dad rejected him I never felt any animosity towards him or what's so ever I love him n I feel like he's the most perfect gift av I been given.
Be strong. Keep it up, Susane. I understand you 💯 % childhood trauma is very hard to overcome 🎉❤🎉
Childhood trauma is dangerous , me and her have one thing in common” I don’t know how to ask for help” it’s hard even to show people how vulnerable you are, some take advantage to shame you
I’m in the same boat. I struggle with fighting for my rights as well . Childhood traumas
@@akinyionyango3989 God forgive our parents they did not know how to raise us
I'm in this boat as well
Am in this same boat, so painful so traumatizing indeed
Aki let's normalize listening to our kids 😢
Some mothers why though 😢 me being a single mum and getting chills ghosh! Mungu atusaidie. Glad she grew up and came out strong,more love to her and may her rebuilding journey come out as a big testimony 🙏and ooh, she's beautiful 😍
She was bitter of her childhood and her boyfriend
This is child trauma . She needs a good therapist soonest. Very emotional 😢
It hurts when people you believe are supposed to support you and take care of you when your parents are gone turn against... Am on my healing journey but it has never been easy.
Sometimes pain makes you numb....you feel it but you can't even cry at the moment
I can listen to Susan Grace all day, I love her eloquence. She is full of Grace just like her name. ❤
This one has reminded me of my rough....rough....childhood 😢
But the good side is we survived, yet emotionally it feels like yesterday
I love your music @Kareh B. !
She has great potential and looks amazing..I hope she finds peace and heals from this completely. I can relate with her story
Good morning team Lynn, been looking forward Tuesday ifike for another amazing conversation.
Thank you for always bringing amazing guests with amazing talks to learn, inspire and educate us.
We love you Lynn. Keep being you and being blessed with your team.
'Where do people go when they are kicked out?' This hit me hard. Hugs dear.
The fact that I've been through this too😂,I remember in class three when I'd cry and wish I don't go home cz I was scared of meeting my mum at home cz I knew the kind of beating I'd get,I'd get beatings sometimes just cz I am a bed wetter 😢, I can't imagine how my first suicidal thoughts was when I was 11🥺,growing up with a mum who's there physically but not in any other way is the worst thing that could happen to anyone, my mum was literary the first person to tell me nikona sura mbaya😂 but anyways Susan is right, some of us came to bring change👏and yes each day we get closer to healing and you're right we're not gonna woyie woyie .we will snap out of it🎉
Sending you more love and light darling ❤❤
Oooh hugs sweetie
Much love dear. ❤❤
Sending 🫂
Yesss reciprocating what people are to you is the best way to deal with people we think they're friends to us
We need a support group for being an only child,with a mum who passed away, with deadbeat fathers,and unsupportive relatives because weuh😢
100%.For the longest time I thought I'm the only one on this boat.
@LynnNgugi for the longest time Ave been avoiding to watch your shows because I come also from a place of trauma. But am glad I have healed and enjoying every show about rebuilding. You are doing the most blessed to have you. One day I would like to sit on that yellow couch and give my testimony😊 Bless up!!
Your were born to give this testimony, because all those time you cut yourself and you never died, with all the pain someone will listen and be able to pick their pieces and have a fresh start.. people out here have alot of traumas.
The first step to recovery is getting closer to God,,, how? by prayer, hating the secular worldy things eg boyfriend,(the flesh),,where the devil has stronghold,and walking in righteousness and purity. LIFE IS SPIRITUAL GUYS
The Comment been looking for! Life is spiritual
@@pauline2604 indeed
I watched her story and i cried all the way😢😢...i hope she finally heals all the wounds ...she's gone thru alot.
She has done some good job for herself. Kudos!!now on to therapy to meet the emotions head on and embrace them more with love. Wish her all the very best!
So many questions! Her family failed her fullstop. This episode is painful. I pray that you will always remember Lynn's words "but God chose you".
Such a strong 💪 lady “stop allowing your past to hold your hostage whatever happened,happened “ thanks beautiful ladies for this wonderful episode
As much as I want to agree with that I choose to disagree respectfully, what I'm i saying this is like noticing a crack on your wall , you decide you not going to worry instead you will polish and plaster the top , cover it with nice eye appealing paint and move on with life ....Many years down the Line it may take a decade or more that Crack will haunt you, What I'm o saying instead of shrugging shoulders and saying let's move on be courageous enough to face those demon's to heal you ...to go back inside of you to find that child who was born into this life so as to bring her or him home to your grown up self .... Healing is going through pain , realizing and aknowledging the pain...pain that cuts through deep as you feel it without suppressing it with the antidepressants....and as you get to the Root to the Core , a sigh of relief kicks in as that Aha! Moment comes and that is liberation, that is how you get born again to yourself...
Nicely and politely explained❤
@@Herhealingtouch6683 Humbly appreciated 🤝
@johealingtouch6683 so profound. I feel that the hardest & most scary thing on earth is facing those "demons" it's a topic that majority of humans wouldn't dare addressing. People would rather sleep walk through life than face themselves
@@Herhealingtouch6683 Isn't that what she is doing? When you are through with all the things you said, you move on and experience life!
Susan speaks for so many of us dealing with childhood traumas, I celebrate her, and Susan 😚 girl you got a beautiful voice, and Lynn you're so amazing, thanks for bringing a voice for all of us who are traumatized
I am glad to hear that she has overcome many of her inner demons. May God grant her peace and may God Bless her ❤
I have really enjoyed this show. What a strong lady. May God continue leading her and blessing her. She has a great destiny. Lynn, thank you for always bringing us the most authentic, venerable people with stories that encourage, inspire and remind us that despite of what we’ve gone through, our past cannot hinder our tomorrow. There is always a brighter day 👏🏾👏🏾
Lynn, you are a gem. These are the best episodes you are doing so far. They are evolved. They are talking about the oiyeee emotions , and especially the traumas parents do not know how to deal with. We need live interviewees that victims can identify with. Not everyone can afford a therapist. I am sincerely sorry for because even parents can be very egoistic although they regret later
What Susan has gone through is disturbing. It's beyond sad. There is a God in heaven and He takes care of His people. Other than therapy, I feel something needs to happen in the spiritual. I didn't hear from the interview if deliverance was done and if it was, I thank God.
Yes, I agree! I recently had a Deliverance Prayer performed on me to finally close any openings that the devil had through my past childhood traumas. No, I'm much better. I've claimed and still claiming God's authority over my life, over everything that was meant for evil.
Challenged to become a better(less strict)parent...thank you for this #aspiringtobeaBETTERmum ❤🙏
You're right Lynn some stories you cover are really traumatizing and you going for therapy is good for your mental health 💯💯❤
I just love her again.. I watched her story on Justo's platform and I still watched it to the end...I get what you guys are trying to do there but yes her voice could be mistaken to Caroline's. Love them both.. See you kesho BrookLyn♥
I too never wants to be called strong, I also agree with you on the not looking for deadbeats and I learnt early.
There's nothing painful like forcing your own mother to love you 😢
So painful.
Ask me, have been there
Sure,I am there but I promised myself not to force love. I do my part and go
Hugs, may God intervene in your situation.
Omg it's sure painful to please a parent who doesn't share their ❤ with their choice children I have been there it's so sad but I have a bigger parent I don't worry who doesn't appreciate me being a parent I got most ❤ from God, Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit just trust in God you will never have to please anyone on earth who should nuture you as a parent😂😍😍💝💝💖💖💋💋💋💞⭐⭐⭐🌟🌟🎁🎁🎁💕💕🤗🤗🤗🤗
true am going through that
Have learnt thousand lessons from this episode.. thanks lnn for this amazing work you are doing
Sometimes pain is meant to be witnessed, this episode is one of those times we witness pain in its raw form and how mothers sometimes can mess up their kids despite having resources. I pray Susan finds love and immense love in the lord, within her and she gets to a place where she accepts it for herself from others. This was emotional. Her parents failed her and it's sad and her
Susan! You are a strong wman! The far you've come, i must say God is your Ebenezer. I was kicked out with my biological father and step mother at 18. God came through for me at the ninth hr through a strange mom who has remained my mom to date at 43. My daughter drunk omo at school and it shocked me bcz im doing what i can to make her feel/know that im there for her. Im going through another time i didn't imagine again.
I am sorry girl on behalf of your mummy "i am so sorry".
Parents mess too and mess a great deal we repent.
Your story has made realize that even though we struggle with toxic parents, others go through even so much more. May God bless you Grace for sharing your story
God is real. You are beautiful,God loves you.go girl.
Haki the traumas people go through. Sych an amazing girl in beauty, elegance and content she runs on mainstream media. Without our awesome Lynn Ngugi's show, how could the world have known her story. Anyone intentional and genuinely looking for a wife material, this is one such amazing girl. Guys get such a woman and the rest shall unfold all the way to your destiny.
Big up Grace. I fully affirm you and without knowing Good has all the goodies waiting for you in Jesus name.
The grave happens to be that place where the most needed answers can come from but sadly most people have to deal with 'what could have been ". I've been a huge fan of cross over and never did it cross my mind, she'd been through all this considering how vibrant she is.
This is an uplifting story.
That's why we need to trust the process and believe in God. Everyone is destined for greatness. But if we knew what we have to go through to reach there, we would say to hell with greatness.
God Almighty, Yahweh is always faithful.
Childhood traumas 💔 Amazing work LYNN
Strong lady , the fact that she powered through that kinda childhood trauma. God continue to bless you @ Susan Grace!
Isaiah 43:19 forget the past for God is doing a new thing. Your past was your teacher, today is your opportunity and tomorrow is your testimony. More grace Susan and keep Lynn for the good work you are doing. Shalom
Having a traumatic childhood makes me a better parent to my kids ... because I understand every impact of my actions to them. I reflect on how I felt, and it makes me very attentive to their emotional needs as much as their physical and financial needs. I pray I have a close relationship with them and teach them to be responsible to their children as well.
As a parent I have learnt alot stay blessed dia
Susan, you are beautiful, sorry for all you went through, you are a strong woman.
Her voice projects like Katherine Kasavili’s. Very beautiful girl. She is winning. ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉
Forgiving is for you dear Grace, not for the other person who hurt you,unforgiveness is a burden you don't want to carry,may God give you the Courage to forgive them,and allow God to heal you.Hugs sweetheart
Childhood traumas are real,
Its during that stage that the brain is growing. Susan Grace may GOD bless you more.
I wish one day I will be able to speak about everything I went through and heal before it's very late😢,lynn Ngugi thanks for this show 🙏 it means a lot to me 😢❤❤❤❤
I see myself in her...... This just changed me and when the time is right I will tell the world to change another life... God bless you Lynn
Susan, you deserve all the love in the world and to be happy.
In my teaching and guidance I say , every child who is born , who has had parents has Trauma , every living human has Trauma ... Meaning we all have overwhelming experience's that we went through... parents who haven't healed vibrate and pass through what was passed to them in their childhood....The only time we heal is when we summon the that inner courage....to summon That healing for our past generation to heal the present so as to heal the future.
The beautiful lady is authentic. We are so much more than the bad things that happened to us. Thank you so much lynn for covering this ❤️
So strong strong of you Susan such stories are so hard to narrate so haardd! Seeing you pursue after all that by Gods grace proud of you ❤❤❤
This is an amazing show, you are really helping me get healed, i think lynn you will come through for me
The spirit of Rejection is horrible,I experienced it myself and its the worst..But God Can my sister..you shall overcome.
I have seen a lot of people who been through a rough time they seemed to be strong just because they know they have to protect themselves, but they also want to be vulnerable, and the worry kicks in that they would be taken advantage of, or looked at as weak. They do not like to ask for help. And like Suzan Grace said at the end you end up being mean wanting others to experience what you went through or you are so kindest and compassionate that who will cry if you even see a dead bird! I never thought I could cry for nothing! I cry if someone gives a birth, I cry if I see a homeless, I cry if I see a kitten 🐈⬛ or pappy I cry if I see a baby I cry if I see anyone that have some problems. Like shows like these I cry 😭 so hard and I never used to be like this! I used to be hard like a rock 🪨! When I kneel in front of God I just crying to the point I bite pillow so no one could hear me! All I can say Suzan Grace May God protect and bless you eternal 💗❤️♥️💡💡
This is exactly my story, my mother's story same, my dad rejection not choosing me, same.. working on my childhood trauma, and building my life to a new one
Hugs dear❤ everything happens for a reason
@@monicahkaranja2018 shukran
Hugs mami...I pray that you find the healing you deserve
@@helenwaithera thanks so much.
The good i thank God for her is that....at no particular time did she mention " school fees for her education" being an issue.
The irony of life... We always think we have time... but we actually don't.... Hurt people hurt... Wish time allowed her mum to give her answers... I imagine she also had unprocessed traumas... I pray God gives her the answers she needs in His own timing.. I hope the traumas stop with her and that her generation remains blessed.
Ooh Susan my heart is breaking for you. May God's grace be sufficient
She's a strong woman.. cute, articulate, informed and full of life.. wish her well