RESCUE AT SEA: Fishermen Reunite With the Girl They Saved 35 Years Ago, the Sole Survivor of Six

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @rayhomie7723
    @rayhomie7723 3 года назад +2039

    When she says “I’m Desiree”.... everyone in the world starts crying 😢 10:09

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +82

      You are so right Ray. It’s still hard to fight back the tears at that exact moment. Thanks for watching and thanks for taking the time to comment.

    • @KrisThePhenom
      @KrisThePhenom 3 года назад +21

      Big facts

    • @rajnair7342
      @rajnair7342 3 года назад +21

      Same here. I watched two more times. Same reaction

    • @chriszanf
      @chriszanf 3 года назад +25

      @ 9:51 The moment just before when Phillip says "You guys are heroes" and the guy to his left shrugs

    • @omarendin6497
      @omarendin6497 3 года назад +8

      Sure did

  • @patriciamejia3
    @patriciamejia3 3 года назад +3475

    Desiree is my niece. I was 15 years old at the time when this tragedy struck. Losing my sister, my brother-in-law, and my 5 year old niece all at the same time was devastating to say the least. Desiree shared the initial podcast with me and I was excited to hear about the reunion. Watching this video brought me to tears. Brought back a lot of memories and emotions. I didn't realize Desiree remembered so many details. I never asked to spare her any pain of reliving that horrific time in her life. Hearing how my sister and the others passed played so differently in my head all these years due to the limited information we had. I have no doubt God steered these wonderful captains in her direction so she would survive. He had and has a purpose for her life. She is a special woman, wonderful mommy, and a great wife. I'm so proud of her and proud to call her my niece. Love you to pieces Des.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +287

      Hi PATRICIA. We all cried to in fact all of us have had our moments since that podcast. Thank you so much for sharing so many of your private thoughts with us. I could see that this podcast brought some closure to the captains and Desirae. And it sounds like it help to answer some questions for you also. I agree with you that God stood those captains toward her vessel. It had to be divine intervention.Once again, thank you so very much for leaving such wonderful comments. I hope that we can all get together sometime in the very near future.

    • @patriciamejia3
      @patriciamejia3 3 года назад +150

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast Hi Phil. I don't know how many times I've watched this video today and cried every time. Thank you for making this happen for Des. May God bless you.

    • @pumaspancholakers
      @pumaspancholakers 3 года назад +15

      🙏🏼

    • @davidpeterzell789
      @davidpeterzell789 3 года назад +24

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast Remarkable

    • @roula66
      @roula66 3 года назад +18

      I am curious, what happened to her and her cousins after? I mean who raised them? They lived next to their grandparents I believe.

  • @rogerpratcorona1079
    @rogerpratcorona1079 Год назад +142

    There's nothing better in the world than watching two grown ass tough men crying with joy.

  • @Miamiflow885
    @Miamiflow885 2 года назад +593

    You can tell those two men have loved that little girl all of those years, wanting to know that she is ok.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +15

      You nailed it Mike

    • @siwa7160
      @siwa7160 Год назад +6

      👍👍👍

    • @curtisw502
      @curtisw502 7 месяцев назад +11

      Them saving all the newspaper clippings let's you know how much it meant to them. I lost it at that point 😢

    • @OverHand
      @OverHand 3 месяца назад +3

      100%

  • @zubetp
    @zubetp Год назад +32

    god, the way she said "i remember my mom foaming at the mouth." the fact that she tried to save her uncle and couldn't hold on to him. that poor little girl had to watch them all pass away. i can't imagine.

  • @LM-gm9yo
    @LM-gm9yo Год назад +88

    that hug must’ve felt like the world for them 😭

  • @willyhwang1059
    @willyhwang1059 3 года назад +720

    Why do i punish myself by rewatching the "I'm Desiree" scene over and over and bawling my eyes out.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +29

      That is such a good question. Maybe it is her Strank’s, the fact that she is such an inspiration to us all, how real it truly is. There is something that draws people back to it over and over again. Thank you for taking the time to comment as we really appreciate it.

    • @LingLiu2014
      @LingLiu2014 3 года назад +6

      Same here Willy!

    • @ofcourse6
      @ofcourse6 3 года назад +4

      damn, saying the same thing

    • @metadeth578
      @metadeth578 2 года назад +3

      It was a bittersweet moment!

    • @sms6023
      @sms6023 2 года назад +3

      Same as you haha

  • @jerometaperman7102
    @jerometaperman7102 3 года назад +259

    As soon as he says "This is not a translator" the guys understand already. What a moment.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +24

      Absolutely right Jerome. When I said that, and saw the reaction I knew they knew. Thanks for visiting us here my friend.

    • @jerometaperman7102
      @jerometaperman7102 3 года назад +4

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast - I wondered if they might have suspected before that but, when you said that, there was no doubt. They shouldn't hide their emotions, though. I was blubbering and I wasn't even involved. They did a good thing and saw the good result decades later. Great, great story.

    • @TheKnittingAstronaut
      @TheKnittingAstronaut 9 месяцев назад

      Especially the one in the blue hat, the expression he got when it was said this wasnt Rachel

    • @WesW3187
      @WesW3187 7 месяцев назад

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcastThere was about a two second delay, then bam!! This was a great happy/sad story. I’ve shared it around and everyone loves it. Thanks 🙂.

  • @riap5148
    @riap5148 3 года назад +700

    Tiktok brought me here... and it was worth it! Beautiful story and reunion. Thank you for sharing your story 🥰

  • @joeywheeler3064
    @joeywheeler3064 3 года назад +1263

    My uncle was on this boat..Allen Wheeler, which was Desiree uncle as well. My middle name is named after him...Joseph Allen Wheeler... Thank you for saving her!!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +98

      Good morning Joey. That is so nice to hear from you my friend. This is Philip, the podcast her. I was so honored to have Desiree on our show. And as you said, the two heroes, Mark and Paul. You have no idea how deeply I appreciate you checking in here. Hope to meet you sometime soon and sending you all my very very best.

    • @chloekit4861
      @chloekit4861 3 года назад +7

      That’s amazing

    • @user-qk7lh4wl6e
      @user-qk7lh4wl6e 3 года назад +2

      🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ so glad they found her. Crazy how things happen for a reason.

    • @faisalbajwa1568
      @faisalbajwa1568 2 года назад +3

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast You are an angel like those two who saved her. Love from the UK.💖💗

  • @Retiredin09
    @Retiredin09 9 месяцев назад +50

    These two men are so close. They are family. And their family just got a lot larger. A lot of love to share for the rest of all their lives.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  9 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you so much for sharing your lovely comments my friend. Really appreciate it.

  • @ChaosChanneler
    @ChaosChanneler Год назад +60

    The fact that these guys tried so hard to find Desiree to see how she was after all these years and just know that she was ok speaks VOLUMES of the level of integrity and character that these two men have. Hero's certainly comes to mind when it describes these two and everyone else involved in the rescue.

  • @teflonjon3341
    @teflonjon3341 Год назад +12

    One of the greatest surprises I’ve seen, these dudes had no clue until the reveal lol

  • @Estframa
    @Estframa 3 года назад +623

    The faces of recognition at 9:59 it’s like if the world’s weight was lifted off their shoulders. One of the most beautiful full circle moments I’ve ever seen. What a privilege to hear her story FROM her, and an honor to meet these humble heroes. I hope they’ll get to live a fulfilling happy life

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +23

      I know exactly what you are talking about Maria. And Marc slamming his hand down on the table. Thank you so much for your lovely and kind comment as we really do appreciate it.

    • @chrisbodum3621
      @chrisbodum3621 2 года назад +3

      *maria franco* Beautifully put.

    • @MrZoupsoup
      @MrZoupsoup 2 года назад +4

      I was looking for this exact comment, this is such a genuine moment. His mouth physically drops in disbelief

    • @Gabrielnobre
      @Gabrielnobre Год назад +1

      So true.

    • @beefsticklover6968
      @beefsticklover6968 Год назад +5

      Him putting his head down before she even finished almost made me cry. He knew right away who she was

  • @rshrsh5420
    @rshrsh5420 9 месяцев назад +19

    She lost family but gained two more family members. I am just really glad they were able to meet each other while they still had the chance

  • @pheenix42
    @pheenix42 Год назад +36

    "Who saves one life, saves a world entire."

  • @mariearmstrong9185
    @mariearmstrong9185 2 года назад +29

    I am 66 years old and THIS is the BEST VIDEO.
    Just Amazing.

  • @weathp
    @weathp 3 года назад +234

    Man how she kept it together the whole interview I’ll never know.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +25

      I know exactly what you mean. She was so stoic. It led up to an incredible moment that I will never ever forget. Thank you so much for leaving a comment here.

    • @seanl2930
      @seanl2930 2 года назад +2

      She watched her family die around her this ain’t shit to her

    • @Higher1981
      @Higher1981 Год назад

      True

  • @stevenhouston6124
    @stevenhouston6124 10 месяцев назад +25

    To see the child you save as little girl
    Now a grown woman
    You gave her ,her life back
    Her Future ,teenage, marriage kids

  • @mikeflo6459
    @mikeflo6459 Год назад +16

    She lost her whole family and was 9. Desiree you are a miracle and these men was sent to you from a very high power. I’m glad they met and I hope they continue to keep a relationship. Making a grown man cry.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +1

      Hey Mike. Thank you so much for visiting and leaving your thoughtful comment here. I deeply appreciate it my friend.

    • @mikeflo6459
      @mikeflo6459 Год назад

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcastbrothers it’s my honor to know your story. I’m just in shock. Y’all are so awesome and me and others will never understand the pure sacrifice. I love y’all and especially Desiree. It’s amazing y’all met and I hope y’all have developed a family friendship

  • @Roronoa_Zoro_Official
    @Roronoa_Zoro_Official 3 года назад +432

    She grew up to be a beautiful women with a beautiful family, I’m feeling so thankful for the 2 fisherman’s , I’m glad they got to see her again.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +24

      You are 100% right. Desiree is a blessing in all of our lives. She is an outstanding example of how to overcome adversity in one’s life. Thank you so much for leaving a comment here. Take care and all our best to you.

  • @gregjohn5548
    @gregjohn5548 Год назад +20

    These are real men, who have not shame in crying!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +1

      You got that right? Greg. What an incredible moment it was. Thanks for sharing my friend.

    • @Wrexxxx
      @Wrexxxx Месяц назад

      I don’t think they had a choice this time. What a beautiful moment that even got the host going.

  • @TheExplosiveGuy
    @TheExplosiveGuy 3 года назад +311

    This one of those golden nuggets of youtube, what a beautiful thing that was.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +1

      Really appreciate you taking time to comment Mark. We all feel so fortunate to have been a part of it. Take care my friend.+1 (949) 610-2328

    • @ThePerpetualStudent
      @ThePerpetualStudent 2 года назад

      Yes sir!!

    • @MRBCA500
      @MRBCA500 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast thanks so much for this. I found you through Steve Hatmans CBS piece. God bless you.

  • @kyley9768
    @kyley9768 3 года назад +293

    I feel like her Aunt keeping her busy and moving and laughing kept her literally warm in temperature and soul. Glad you all got some foreclosure.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +6

      Thank you so much for leaving your comment here. We really appreciate it.

    • @monbreau7306
      @monbreau7306 2 года назад +8

      "Closure", lol.
      But yes.

    • @existenceisrelative
      @existenceisrelative 2 года назад +10

      @@monbreau7306 No, the bank took their lack of closure when they started missing payments.

    • @elmadixon8293
      @elmadixon8293 2 месяца назад

      Yes, so sure the Aunt was talking to her and keeping the young girl's mind on surviving.

  • @AverageMoe
    @AverageMoe Год назад +19

    This should be a movie

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +2

      Couldn’t agree with you more. What a story! Thank you so much for sharing my friend. Happy holidays.

  • @mom2mmpt
    @mom2mmpt 2 года назад +91

    Mark and Paul were telling a story they've told hundreds and hundreds of times. They were telling what happened but still trying to be modest. Their reactions were just pure joy.

  • @Papabogs1020
    @Papabogs1020 3 года назад +140

    it's amazing how Desiree controlled her emotion until she introduced herself to them..damn , such a heartfelt story . 😁

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +6

      I couldn’t agree more with you. I kept trying to monitor everyone’s emotions to get the timing down right for the reveal. She was amazing on the podcast and continues to do amazing work today. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment here.

  • @generalkayoss7347
    @generalkayoss7347 2 года назад +27

    They cried.
    She cried.
    I cried.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад

      You absolutely nailed it

    • @generalkayoss7347
      @generalkayoss7347 2 года назад

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast As a former small boat fishing captain, I've pulled my own friends out of the water, dead. So to see and hear about this little girl get pulled out alive, after 24 hours in water of that temp (I'm a 37 year old healthy man and I doubt I would have even made it) makes you feel good after seeing the opposite.

  • @relaxjaxx4167
    @relaxjaxx4167 2 года назад +20

    Wife and I was in tears, when “Raquel”said “I’m Desiree,” 😭 God Bless Desiree and the captains. Mahalo for sharing. 🤙🏽

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +1

      We all can relate to what your wife and you experienced. Thank you so much for visiting and taking the time to leave your comment.

  • @pavan1384
    @pavan1384 Год назад +23

    I don’t know if I’ll ever stop watching this video. Over 2 years I’ve come back so many times!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      I know exactly what you mean, my friend. Thank you so very much for sharing. You are not alone.

  • @Wrexxxx
    @Wrexxxx 3 месяца назад +6

    One boating trip changed this lady’s life forever. What she was forced to see, how she was forced into things that are tough for adults. How she must have felt watching her family die off one at a time and knowing it was only a matter of time before it was her.
    Then a bittersweet miracle for her. I’m so happy she seems to have her life together.

  • @scpowered
    @scpowered 2 года назад +182

    Absolutely crushing when she recalled each event. 😢 Unimaginable for an adult let alone a 9 year old.

  • @corinna007
    @corinna007 2 года назад +34

    You can see Paul's heart drop when Desiree said the accident happened in the evening and he realized she'd been in the water all night. :'( And the way he smiles when she talks about her kids is like a proud father. ❤️ So glad they were all able to meet again.

  • @rjprivate
    @rjprivate 11 месяцев назад +26

    Podcast guy must feel so good about himself making this happen. Awesome. Be proud my friend 👍 this is gold

  • @victormaitlin9636
    @victormaitlin9636 Год назад +9

    It’s often overlooked but first responders or rescuers also suffer versions of trauma, often seeing the aftermath of tragedy firsthand. Mark and Paul had likely put all that aside for years, this was a great release and therapy for them too.

  • @Badadaha
    @Badadaha 2 года назад +31

    8:30
    When Mark is trying to explain how it felt and Desiree finishes his sentences. They both remember exactly how it felt to be in the water that night and will probably never forget it. What a sad yet captivating story but I'm so glad there could be such a wholesome reunion from it. Thank you for sharing the moment with all of us as well.

  • @devildogduarte
    @devildogduarte 3 года назад +218

    Loved the podcast!. Desiree used to be my work partner a few years back. I never knew her story. Recently my wife has become super close friends to Desriee and I heard about the strory. But to hear it on this podcast had me in awe and in tears. God works in mysterious ways. 🙏 .

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +20

      Hi Ricardo. Thank you so much for your kind words and for taking the time to leave a comment here. Desiree is really a special person who now acts as an inspiration to me for several reasons. I was so fortunate to have just been in the room with those three playing a small role. Sometimes when I am on a walk, I still tear up when I think about it. Thanks again for checking in my friend.

    • @aarongrisham9880
      @aarongrisham9880 2 года назад +4

      how lucky you are to be able to work with a wonderful person..Cheers

  • @sashasabbeth6836
    @sashasabbeth6836 Год назад +14

    These men have such radiant hearts. They are such beautiful men. And the way that Desiree kept the secret for such a long time in that meeting, wow!!!! God bless all of them and may their beautiful, resilient selves have deeply rewarding lives!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      Thank you so very much for a visit in and sharing your thoughtful comment Sasha. We really appreciate it. Have a lovely day my friend.

  • @jessicadriscoll4948
    @jessicadriscoll4948 3 года назад +225

    What she went through is unfathomable. May she have nothing but happiness and love the rest of her life. And what incredible heroes. It was awesome to be able to see the reunion. Bless all of them!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +5

      You are so kind Jessica. I can tell you are a really great person. Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment here my friend.

    • @jessicadriscoll4948
      @jessicadriscoll4948 3 года назад +3

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast Sorry I'm only seeing this now. You're welcome, and thank you again so much for sharing his with us.

  • @jojoz
    @jojoz 3 года назад +204

    I have not seen Mark or Paul in many years... since my ex husband worked for them on the Independence. Their heroism does not surprise me, nor does their humility about it. They look pretty much the same as well lol! Very awesome, and typical of the type of gentlemen they are this brought tears to my eyes.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +28

      You have no idea what your lovely comment means to all of us. Thank you for sharing it. You are so right about Mark and Paul. I feel so fortunate to call them my friends. And now Desiree and her family are part of our friendship also. This just couldn’t of worked out any better. Thanks again as we deeply appreciate it.

    • @jojoz
      @jojoz 3 года назад +10

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast thank you for all you do as well Phil..truly, this is just wonderful, especially after all these years

  • @vols4448
    @vols4448 3 месяца назад +3

    They care as much today as they did 35 years ago. The moment it hit them was priceless.

  • @Exe3D
    @Exe3D 3 года назад +47

    If I saw this woman on the street I would never imagine something so traumatic happened to her. I’m happy she is still here today.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +9

      I know exactly what you mean. It’s remarkable how she pulled through this. I’m not so sure I could be as strong. In fact, as a recovering alcoholic I have let for less lead me down the wrong path. She is really someone to be admired. And we are happy that you took the time to comment here. Thank you so much.

  • @maryallore478
    @maryallore478 5 месяцев назад +8

    Desiree is my hero. What a strong what girl. What a strong woman. An amazing story.

  • @matthewmurray4159
    @matthewmurray4159 3 года назад +179

    My son will be 10 in Jan. I couldn't imagine that being him alone in the water like that. I'm a 30 year old hillbilly who likes to think I'm pretty tough and cried like a baby watching this. I just can't even imagine being in any of yalls shoes. Crazy how life works out. Great podcast. Thanks for posting this.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +5

      Thank you so much Matthew. Really appreciate you taking time to leave your comment here. One can’t help but think about their own family members I’m watching this podcast. Truly a remarkable story with a roller coaster of emotions. Thanks for your support

  • @katiegarrett8847
    @katiegarrett8847 Год назад +3

    I thought I was totally past feeling but this made me cry!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      Thank you so much for sharing that Katie. I really really appreciate it. Have a wonderful day my friend.

  • @kmac8055
    @kmac8055 3 года назад +77

    I saw the clip on tiktok and I knew instantly I needed to see the whole story. A devastating and beautiful story all in one. This is humanity at its rawest and realest.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +1

      You are so right. It is a roller coaster of emotions. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment as we all deeply appreciate it.

  • @CB-el3sv
    @CB-el3sv 3 года назад +44

    I don't know how she held her emotions back sitting across these men. Must of taken every ounce of strength. Until she couldn't.. when she said I'm Desiree.. man, even I wanted to give her a big hug

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +2

      I know exactly what you mean. Thank you for taking the time to leave your comment here

  • @Wrexxxx
    @Wrexxxx Месяц назад +3


    Hi Desiree, I’ve seen you posting on some comments here so if you happen to see this message I’m so sorry this happened to you. Your bravery has touched me so much! What you had to endure, what you had to see happen around you. So young and you were put into such a situation that would be terrifying and heart wrenching for even an adult. Trying to save your uncle at 9 years old? Makes me sick to even think about it. To have to tie your relatives to the boat, and describing your mother’s passing tied me and my wife up into knots. The despair you must have felt when you swam away from the last remnant of safety from that boat into open water and nothingness. Breaks mine and everyone else’s heart to imagine that feeling. NO ONE deserves this to happen to them, much less an innocent child that wanted nothing but a normal childhood with parents and to feel safe. That was robbed from you and I’m so saddened by that. The times you must spent alone afterward wondering why this happened to you. Forced to grow up and be brave when you had every right in the world to be scared out of your wits if need be! You deserved to have your mother there to comfort you during that time, not to have to bury her. My heart hurts for you.
    What a bittersweet rescue this must have been for your little self. How your life must have changed so drastically from that moment on. I can tell it’s still so painful for you too. You must have to tuck something like that away and not get it out unless you have to. I hope this reunion did help heal your heart a little.
    I’m so happy you seem to have your life pieced back together as much as you can. Stay strong angel, with your bright smile! if there’s anyone that’s supposed to be alive and with a purpose it’s you!!! Thoughts and prayers from Tennessee.
    P.S.
    Your story touched me so much I played this for my sister and her husband on the way to vacation. There we were, a truckload of adults in tears driving down the road listening to you reveal who you were to these guys! Such a sweet moment. There is no replacement for what you’ve lost, but I hope there’s a part of your heart that’s mending knowing you’ve touched so many people’s lives with your story. It’s your story girl! You lived this and made it out on the other side. No one else can say that:

    • @desireecampuzano4779
      @desireecampuzano4779 25 дней назад +1

      Thank you for this sentiment....even though it happened so long ago, the hurt still feels fresh despite time passing.

    • @Wrexxxx
      @Wrexxxx 25 дней назад

      @@desireecampuzano4779 I’m so honored you responded to me, thank you. You are kinda my hero!
      Please believe I would give anything to have the right words to say to you that would actually help. That’s like hoping a drop of water puts out a fire.
      Keep moving forward, look to the family you’ve made when times get tough. Look at the joy you bring to the people around you. The life you created! That’s a direct slap in the face of the situation that tried to rob you from this world!
      Things happen to people that don’t deserve it, and you got one of the most unfair doses of that I’ve ever seen. You’ve paid a whole lifetime of sadness dues in one day.
      You deserve nothing now but true peace and happiness. Your family knows you loved them and they loved you. It’s ok to not be sad about them if you ever catch yourself in the act of doing so.
      It’s ok to let some of that pain go if you ever get the chance to. Can that ever be done? I’ll never know but I hope you can find a way. If there’s someone who can it’s you. A survivor in every sense of the word. Never ever feel guilty about enjoying your life!
      P.S. if talking about it helps then i hope you do so.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  25 дней назад +1

      God bless you for leaving such an inspirational message. I can’t thank you enough. Desiree has enriched my life with her courageous story. She is an outstanding human being.

    • @Wrexxxx
      @Wrexxxx 25 дней назад

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast indeed she is. Thank you for helping get all that together. You deserve some cred for this as well. Nice timing on the reveal btw.
      I don’t think she realizes how many lives she’s touched.
      Now when I think about the bad times I’ve lived through, though tough, I think I could be 9, out in a foggy, freezing ocean alone overnight swimming out into nothingness and away from such a happy past life into sadness and uncertainty in every sense of the word.
      What I’ve lived through is nothing compared to this tough lady. I’m truly honored for her to have responded to me.

  • @jaredpierson6515
    @jaredpierson6515 2 года назад +17

    They genuinely care you can tell when they burst out in tears when they find out it’s her

  • @nottrib
    @nottrib 3 года назад +113

    I go on the Independence boat regularly and have for many years . I have known these two for a long time and they are just the best . I never knew this story but I am not surprised. Mark and Paul are indeed heroes . I am so proud to know them .

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +8

      Thank you so much for taking the time to leave your comment here as we deeply appreciate it. Mark and Paul are indeed heroes. I too am proud to know them both. That was such an emotional day. And I have had my moments since , including one just a few minutes ago. Desiree is such an inspirational person. I was out trying to walk 10 miles the other Day and my ankle was really hurting. Just about the time I was thinking about quitting I thought about her and what she overcame. Finishing that 10 mile walk was never so easy. Take care my friend and thanks for your support.

    • @herbiesnerd
      @herbiesnerd 2 года назад

      Holy cow. I had zero knowledge of Mark and Paul. I’ve done an annual 3 day trip on the Indy 2 years in a row, and am already booked for next June with captain Matt.
      Keeping it real I just have to say, Desiree is a complete badass of a person and woman. What kind of obstacle could anyone ever challenge her with that she wouldn’t just shrug off and annihilate? Her son is destined to be a strong man.

  • @user23724
    @user23724 2 года назад +31

    This is one of the most incredible, devastating and uplifting stories I've ever heard. How she was able to survive for over 20 hours in the water is unbelievable, and then to finally be rescued by these heroes, wow!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +3

      You are so right about this being an emotional roller coaster. Desiree attended an event here in San Pedro California yesterday. It was so good to have her here for the Friedman Adventurers 1 million views party. Thanks for taking the time to visit and take great care of my friend.

  • @mandre8305
    @mandre8305 2 года назад +7

    This is my number one favorite RUclips story of all time

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад

      Can’t thank you enough Maurice. Really appreciate it

    • @mandre8305
      @mandre8305 Год назад

      Well it wasn't all about Desiree (if I spelled fer right) I love when y'all broke down..priceless

  • @Verticalpushup
    @Verticalpushup 2 года назад +21

    “I’m Desiree”
    Wow. I wasn’t ready for this emotional rollercoaster. What an amazing story of survival. All four folks on this podcast make this world a better place.
    And shoutout to Tissue Box Man!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +1

      That is so kind of you David. Thank you so much for visiting and sharing.

    • @OP-1000
      @OP-1000 2 года назад

      “I’m Desiree” sounds like it should the name of a book.

  • @mandre8305
    @mandre8305 26 дней назад +3

    Why do I keep watching this,,,,,,,help me

  • @jeremytweedie1452
    @jeremytweedie1452 Месяц назад +2

    Probably watched this 20 times..... pure bliss

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  25 дней назад

      Really appreciate you my friend. That podcast changed yours truly forever. Take care.

  • @monikamartin6002
    @monikamartin6002 10 месяцев назад +4

    I think my favorite part of this is that they were able to fill in parts of the story which were a mystery to one another for three-and-a-half decades. I can only imagine how many questions each of them had for one another.
    I know it's been over two years since this was released and I wonder if Desiree and the Captains still keep in touch and meet up. I can tell there is a bond there and I would love to hear that.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  10 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you so much for sharing my friend. Yes the captains and yours truly. Stay in touch with Desiree. Whenever I take clothing and food to Mexico which we do quite often Desiree volunteers to donate. She is a remarkable person. Thank you so much again for visiting.

  • @traviswhite8579
    @traviswhite8579 3 года назад +84

    WOW!!! I know Desiree and Nick and her story.. and this is amazing how it all came together. I've been in tears watching this and can't believe you guys all found each other again. This needs to be a movie. What a blessing for all. Higher Power for Sure!!!!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +3

      I am with you on all of this Travis. Thanks for taking time to leave your comments. Higher power for sure. And yes, this would be a great movie. I have mentioned that to so many people and I firmly believe this would be great on the big screen. Thanks again Travis. We really appreciate you leaving your comments here.

  • @raymondfornesjr1969
    @raymondfornesjr1969 10 месяцев назад +4

    This is my favorite RUclips video!!!

  • @funcool79
    @funcool79 3 месяца назад +2

    I had to watch this over a 4 day period cause I just couldn't get through. As I write this, I still have 8 minutes to go. So I thought I'd take a break and read the comments instead. Bad move, even more tears thanks to all the touching words. Thank you for sharing.

  • @toddbaumann3980
    @toddbaumann3980 Год назад +5

    There is alot of crap on the internet but ever once in a while something like this pops up this is amazing sad and heart warming when she told them who she was it was a tear jerker

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      I really appreciate you visiting and sharing your thoughtful comments with us. Take care my friend.

  • @Enshambullz
    @Enshambullz Год назад +16

    Very late to the party on this one but still had to comment. This was truly beautiful. What an emotional story. Made this old boy shed some tears on that reveal. Thank God and best wishes to all evolved!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +1

      Really appreciate your taking the time to leave a comment here my friend. Happy new year.

  • @dodgertrojan
    @dodgertrojan 3 года назад +122

    Probably the best thing I have seen in a very long time. Watched it over and over. Powerful.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +2

      Hey Pablo. I feel so fortunate. To have played a small role in this and to have been a part of it is a blessing for me. I’m so happy to hear that it is having a similar effect on you. Thanks so much for taking time to leave a comment and thanks for your kindness. Hope to see you soon my friend.

  • @Fab4Sunrises
    @Fab4Sunrises Год назад +7

    Oh these sweet guys just burst into tears, that’s so beautiful ❤

  • @rubenmartinez9699
    @rubenmartinez9699 3 года назад +51

    My friend, mi amigo Phil, I was in tears the entire podcast. I believe God brought you back to the United States for a reason. To get back to our fishing industry and to reunite Desiree with her rescuers. God bless you, and God bless all fishing captains and their crew willing to risk their lives to save one. Thank you for sharing this story!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +5

      My dear friend Ruben. It is so good to hear from you. I couldn’t hold back the tears either. In fact, I was going for a walk the other day and just thinking about the moment she told the captains who she was and I had to choke back the tears again. If this is the reason God brought me back from China, then it was all worth it. What a moment! I’ve never ever had such an experience before. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave your lovely comments. I send you and all your loved ones my very best.

  • @raeelbakry5757
    @raeelbakry5757 2 года назад +36

    This video is a treasure of a find. This was a random video on my feed. I’m so glad I watched this. It’s nice to know real heroes exist. And she’s delightful. Thank you for sharing that incredible story.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for visiting and for your lovely comment. I’m so happy you found us.

  • @torque122
    @torque122 Год назад +7

    I cannot believe how powerful this is. I can't stop replaying this. I'm just blown away seeing this side of humanity, especially after the last 3 years we have all lived through. Absolutely amazing clip. These two are angels walking the earth and no one can ever tell me otherwise. Talk about restoring your faith in humanity!!! Unreal. I will book a trip to fish with their company just to support these two American heroes! And Desiree looks amazing. What a story!!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +2

      Thank you so very much for visiting and thank you for your thoughtful and caring share. We really appreciate you.

  • @headhnter80
    @headhnter80 3 года назад +22

    The internet is a fascinating thing. I saw a tiktok and i immediately searched for this podcast episode and now I’m sobbing like they were my family members. This story touched me so much and I loved the lead up. Amazing

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад

      Good morning Tony. You have no idea how impactful your comment is to all of us. Thank you so very much for your kind words and we are also happy that you got to experience this extraordinary moment

  • @dianamacias3428
    @dianamacias3428 3 года назад +114

    So amazing! I read the LA Times article that came out today. What an incredible story. And then to watch them reunite...so many tears!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for leaving a comment here Diana. We are really really appreciate it. And we all feel so fortunate to have played a small role in this incredible reunion. Take care my friend.

  • @hs-qk9qf
    @hs-qk9qf 2 месяца назад +2

    9/2024, and this is still a tear jerker for me. Such a beautiful moment! ❤

  • @Christian-gf2ef
    @Christian-gf2ef 3 года назад +7

    I used to watch news all the time. Now I just watch things like this. Makes me much happier.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +2

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment. It is much nicer to surround yourself with positive vibes. Thanks for taking the time to what is it us my friend.

  • @sergeantmasson3669
    @sergeantmasson3669 2 года назад +6

    I had a similar situation. I did two tours in Vietnam doing medevac duty. My last mission, we rescued three guys from live combat. The MASH doctors didn't think they'd make it. A few years ago, I took my 4 adult daughters to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial wall. All three of those guys were there alive and well. Needless to say, that it was a tearful reunion.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад

      Oh my God. What is story. Thank you for your service. Would love to do a podcast with you my friend. Text 657 227 6459

  • @Sleepytechnician
    @Sleepytechnician 2 года назад +10

    I love the fact that when they're told "She's not a translator", they knew exactly who she was. It's like they recognized her in some part of their mind the whole time and I love that.

  • @chrisd078
    @chrisd078 Год назад +3

    The call to go to the west end vs the east end going home was a god send for sure. It’s not the normal way to head home.

  • @ncnmstuff
    @ncnmstuff 2 месяца назад +2

    Never has a name been more aptly given than to Captain Pisano! A true pisano indeed!

  • @izzydlc21
    @izzydlc21 3 года назад +114

    Wow I had to pause it at 11:00 into this video it just turned me upside down and brought tears. Wow can't wait to hear the rest of the story. There should be a documentary about this story. I just want to thank the captain's for there instinct action they took God bless them 🙏🙏🙏

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +16

      It’s a real tearjerker. And you are so right, it’s a great story they could even be made into a movie. As you said, thank God the captains saw her. Take care my friend. Thanks for leaving your comments here. We really appreciate it.

    • @ThePmfan
      @ThePmfan 3 года назад +5

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast It would be a GREAT movie idea.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +3

      @@ThePmfan I am with you Joe. It would make such a fantastic and inspirational movie.

  • @nessag8472
    @nessag8472 3 года назад +25

    Also here from Tiktok and I’m so glad I am. This story is incredible had me in tears, god truly does exist. May he bless them all 💙

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад

      Thank you so very much for your kind and thoughtful comment. I still tear up every time I watch.

  • @seagrave7336
    @seagrave7336 2 года назад +3

    I am retired firefighter/paramedic with 30 years in the fire department and 69 years old. This story touched me so deeply I was bawling the entire time. There was definitely divine intervention involved in Desiree's rescue. God bless each and every one of you.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  2 года назад +1

      Your thoughtful comment means so much to all of us. Thank you so very much my friend.

  • @fluffy1helb
    @fluffy1helb 3 года назад +46

    For such an emotional story between these three you did an amazing job hosting this dude. You let them run the conversation and added good points when needed. Phil you handled this extremely well.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +6

      Hey Jesse. I deeply appreciate your kind comment here. I really felt like that was my job. To get out of the way. Of course, I was watching all three of my guest for a clue and a window into their emotions so we didn’t go too far. Thanks for your great support my friend.

    • @incomitatus
      @incomitatus 2 года назад +3

      What a great job the host did, he let them tell their story without interrupting even though he was the guy that made it all happen. I wish other podcast hosts would take lessons from him. He was just as affected by the story as the two captains & Desiree.

  • @TheMccanntm
    @TheMccanntm 3 года назад +63

    This is one of the most powerful videos I've ever seen. Felt every emotion and more. These two men are heroes. What an absolutely amazing but heart wrenching story. I could tell how much those details you learned have drove you crazy. AMAZING.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +1

      I know exactly what you mean Tom. It was an emotional roller coaster. Thank you so much for taking the time to leave a comment here my friend.

  • @dm5374
    @dm5374 3 года назад +37

    Although I now live in Italy, I've been to Catalina many times, and am also a licenced skipper. You guys made me cry too. Jesus. All of you show the world that there is hope for humanity. What a video, what a story. Grazie

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +5

      My dear friend. Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful comment here. I know exactly what you mean. I was talking to another captain yesterday who started to tear up just talking about it. It seems to have had the same effect on everyone. Hope for humanity. I love that take. Thanks again for your comment as we send you all our very best.

  • @mccall7122
    @mccall7122 Год назад +3

    I keep coming back to this video when I'm feeling low. It's amazing how it always picks me up.
    It dawned on me that what Mark and Paul did was more than saving Desiree. They also saved the lives that came after her - her kids, her grandkids, and beyond. The good things they and their descendants will do in the world all stem from that one act. It's crazy to think about how many lives are better off because Mark and Paul were there that day.
    Again, big thanks to Phil (?) who put this video together. It's easily my favorite video on RUclips.

  • @veronicasanacion
    @veronicasanacion Год назад +3

    This video is better that many hollywood movies! Thank you!

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад +1

      That is so kind of you to say that. Have a blessed day Veronica. Thanks for sharing.

    • @veronicasanacion
      @veronicasanacion Год назад

      @@FriedmanAdventuresPodcast Many Hollywood movies aim at people´s hearts and teary eyes, on a fake basis (lol) Your video reminds us of real humanity, our fears, our giving up, our joy, and our need to connect with others in love. ¡Muchas gracias!

  • @jmbrinck
    @jmbrinck Год назад +5

    Just drifted by ~ saw your post and got anchored. I'm humbled by what you did. And the beautiful life you saved for this world. Words fail, guys.

  • @wildlyunrulyadventures3942
    @wildlyunrulyadventures3942 9 месяцев назад +2

    So beautiful. A moment building for 35 years for all three of them, and it could not have been more perfect.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  9 месяцев назад

      Really appreciate your kind and thoughtful comment. Have a wonderful day my friend.

  • @domingoogacion7612
    @domingoogacion7612 Год назад +2

    Holly Molly!!!my eyes welled up with tears being myself a merchant sailor for 12 years

  • @able880
    @able880 4 месяца назад +4

    I like how mark starts off by saying this was like a supernatural thing

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  4 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely. Thanks for visiting.

    • @able880
      @able880 4 месяца назад

      ​@@FriedmanAdventuresPodcastthat's when you know there is a god watching over us - sort of like when trump turned his head right at the right second -

  • @barrymacfarlane8977
    @barrymacfarlane8977 Год назад +5

    i remember this story being on the news when i was a teenager, was a huge story as i live in northern ontario, canada and still heard of it as it was reported. Im stunned to have found this update all these years later, amazing and awesome to see them meet again and fill in some of the questions they had for each other....unbelievable and very touching

  • @casualobserver77
    @casualobserver77 Год назад +9

    I've watched this in its entirety like 3 times in the last year.
    What an amazing story and a beautiful reunion!

  • @Vapegician
    @Vapegician Год назад +2

    What surprises me the most is that there's only half a million views on this video so far. And some of them are probably people rewatching this video. It is the greatest, one of the saddest, and the most wholesome I've ever seen on the internet. This is amazing.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment Jason. I really appreciate it my friend. Happy new year.

  • @jp5407
    @jp5407 3 месяца назад +2

    This is the THE most beautiful moment on the internet 😍…and you cannot change my mind

  • @oleahuertahugoarmando3555
    @oleahuertahugoarmando3555 Год назад +12

    Estoy aquí llorando por los Cotorros.

  • @haveaday1812
    @haveaday1812 2 года назад +4

    I just came across this podcast and this beautiful moment. I’m an avid Surfer who lives in SD. I have made several small time water rescues out here, but I once found myself in a situation where I had to save a man’s life who drove his car off of sunset cliffs, St. Patrick’s day 2014. My buddy and I got him out of the submerged car and resuscitated him, stopped his bleeding and got him stable until the authorities arrived. I know how dangerous the ocean is, and You never when you will be thrust into a situation like this. I never found out what happen to the man after, but I know he lived. My friend who helped save his life sent me this. We never asked for any attention for what we did, and we turned down and interview with the local news about it. We are just thankful we were in the right place at the right time and did what we could. This story really hit home with me. Thanks for making this wonderful reunion happen.

  • @phamburger
    @phamburger 3 года назад +43

    A heartbreaking story, an unbelievable rescue, and a heartwarming reunion. Just amazing.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +1

      Hi Kim. We so deeply appreciate your kind words and comments. You are so right. It was such an emotional reunion. I just feel fortunate to have been a part of it. Those three people, are definitely making the world a better place. Thanks again for your support as we all deeply appreciate it.

  • @butgod2480
    @butgod2480 Год назад +2

    Without a doubt one of the top reunions. I've seen this a number of times and STILL tear up when the guys realize she's not the translator.

  • @arisjatmika
    @arisjatmika 3 года назад +5

    Here after "all things internet" video channel ... ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    God bless good people in this world ❤️❤️❤️💐💐💐

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +1

      Thank you for your kind and thoughtful comment. Thanks for visiting us and take care.

  • @2ndhandSue
    @2ndhandSue 3 года назад +7

    I've been sitting here bawling my eyes out through this whole story - crying with sadness for those poor souls who tried to hang in there waiting for help but not making it, and for Desiree who, by some miracle, survived much longer than science would say is possible. I live in Canada and I never heard this story before - I'm sure it was all over the news but I didn't see or hear anything. Hearing it tonight for the first time, right from the mouths of the rescuers, was astonishing. I truly believed "Raquel" was a translator so I was just as stunned as the two men when she revealed who she was. What an amazing reunion!! When the two guys put their heads down on the table and cried, I sensed a huge weight lifting off of them. Although 35 years had passed, long enough to get over the trauma of finding this little girl floating alone in a huge ocean, I think they had been harboring some stress all those years. You could see it just lifting off of them - oh thank God she's alive still! I think there's a friendship there that will continue now that they've "found" each other. That must be a pretty incredible feeling - to sit at a table with the people who saved your life when they didn't know who you were or where you came from or where you went to afterwards. The story's come full circle now.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  3 года назад +2

      I can’t thank you enough for taking the time to leave such an extensive and heartfelt comment. You really summarize this reunion to the tee. As the host, I felt it was my job to just get out of the way and let it happen. I am so happy it came out the way it did and feel fortunate to know all three of these wonderful people who continue to make the world a better place. Once again, thank you so much for visiting us as we send you all of our very best.

  • @steve8199
    @steve8199 2 года назад +3

    This was a Divine Miracle no question about it. God Bless you Desiree. The Lord was watching over you. May the Lord Bless these two Men.

  • @MikeHenry3280
    @MikeHenry3280 2 года назад +3

    Could u imagine... for 35 years, wondering from time to time, and thinking about allllll the time that went by between then and this day, and to all the sudden but hit with this surprise that the girl u saved 35 yrs ago is sitting right in front of u.... wow

  • @sergeantmasson3669
    @sergeantmasson3669 Год назад +2

    Amazing that she kept it together that long in that podcast.

  • @devildoc4257
    @devildoc4257 Год назад +2

    Its hard to make me cry. I did 23 years in the navy. But this had me bawling. Thank god they found her.

    • @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast
      @FriedmanAdventuresPodcast  Год назад

      This is such a lovely share. Really appreciate you dropping by and taking the time to leave your lovely comment here. Have a wonderful weekend my friend.