Another reason is that no one ESPECIALLY parents understand issues that come with suppressin desires,we are expected to just fast and "COnTrOl oUrSeLvEs" as if it were to be easy as breathing air.
Fact. I'm in my mid-20s and my dad has no interest in getting me married. I guess he thinks I'm his innocent little princess who would never ever do anything wrong, well, jokes on him because I've already had a boyfriend. Am I proud of it? No. But I'm a human who's struggling with temptation every single day and my parents have zero interest in facilitating the halal for me and instead expect me to be single for god knows how long. It's absolute insanity
@@Fifi6799 Same ukhti,I have never been in haram relatonships (may Allah forgive you)But have felt deep temptations,the guilt i get from it lingers for weaks,even a month,I hope you have a lower libido then me because the pain i go through i cant wish it upon anyone else. the pain combined with my other weakneses i get makes me feel hopeless,"ya i wont ever be married and just suffer",and i m only 18 feelin like this,God knows what i will be through in my 20s.
@@Azothoth827 if your male you can get married anytime without your parents permission. The reason why I'm struggling is because I'm a woman and that option isn't open to me because I unfortunately can't do anything without my wali. Men have no such restriction in this regard so they have it easier.
@@Fifi6799 that is not true,culture has made it so that men also now have wali, I m bound by my mom just like how you are bound by your father,I m told to never speak about marriage not until i "become something" and "am presentable(YK $$$)" no matter how much pain i m in because of it ,when in reality i DONT HAVE A SKILL TO BASE A FUTURE CAREER OFF OF!(i do but it requirs a damn degree which is out of my level
the biggest reason people not getting married specially men, is the involve of state and government in the marriage institute and how they became in favors of women against men thanks to feminism, not to mention the high unrealistic expectations of women in lifestyle after get married ... That's why you see movement like MGTOW and redpills got popular in the last few years
Then why not move to a country where that’s not applicable ? Like Pakistan or Egypt or Malaysia ? Why not get skills that can help you get hired anywhere and live comfortable from anywhere, why not emotive so you can be hirable ? Why stay in a place like that ?
@ then why not simply move to a country (and there are plenty of Muslim majority countries) who’s constitutions are derived from the sharia and where the marriage laws are favoring Islam in 90-95% proportions ? Why not simply move ? If you have a western passport you have this privilege of being able to move anywhere and get residency way easier, getting better payed jobs and so on even getting married is easier. Why stay in a country where the laws are not benefiting you ? Why insist on remaining there ? Paying taxes there ? When you can go somewhere better for you?
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I don't have western passport so I don't know who do you mean specifically by that statement. Second, you do realize most of the world being westernized endorse liberalism and feminism so it's not just the west. Most countries apply secular laws including Muslims countries there is no such as Sharyah law anymore...even If you marry a traditional "Muslim" woman then bring her with you to the west she will be brainwashed by the western women cutler which is the case for many families who moved to live in the west, women get hocked up easily with the western woman propaganda. The only solution is if you marry a girl from rural village small town place in pore countries that has strong father figure endorse traditional value and STAY there with her don't bring her to the west AND THAT WHAT I DID AND IT WORKS FOR ME ...married for 21 years alhamd lillah
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I dont live or have western id so I dont know who you talking to, second you do realize most of the world endorse secular laws including Muslims country and feminism is everywhere, even if you marry a woman out off the west but when you bring her to the west she get programed by western / feminism agenda . Unless you marry her and stay with her in traditional rural area or small village etc
I delayed marriage just financial matter, i have knowledges and strong mentally but not with financially.. Alhamdulillah the feminism in my country in village area is not a thing like western country and city area.. If i marry i'm sure im gonna find woman in village area.. When it comes to City women.. Bruhh they're hijabi but they're wild in their lifestyle and friendship environment, i don't want to mention what they did but you can imagine what i meant with wild,,i don't want to Associate with them cause so many repulsive stuffs they did... They're not wife even mother material..
I travelled to Morocco and the racism i went through simpely because of my skin colour was hard for me to enjoy my vacation! And i am from Somaliland living in Norway.
Getting married has been delayed or even not been taken into consideration at all anymore in some Western countries where muslims are living. This is a huge problem. The ummah will weaken and weaken. Unfortunately it is made easy to do haram. While marriage in islam is actually so simple. May Allah preserve the ummah.
You should go against your parents and get married if you need to get married. Marriage is like food. If you need it, you do it even if your parents are stupid and selfish and say no. Many parents are stupid when it comes to marriage. Mine were too. I married without their agreement saved myself from zina and enjoyed my kids and a lovely woman. If I listen to them I wouldn't still be married or have kids.
We surround by things that activate sex and our parents don't care at all. So find someone good and permanent and do nikah and enjoy your life with them. Your parents will get use it. Lesser of the 2 evils. I don't have time with irrational parent worship. Be a rational Muslim. Don't let parents interfere in your shahawaat
Two other reasons you left out are...marriage being expensive and spiritual sicknesses. Nowadays, it's cheaper to date and have zina. Additionally, there are people with spiritual sicknesses and they are dealing with marriage block and need to be treated with rukayah, etc.
Only one reason, more fear, care and love for others or one own self and the worldly life than Allah and the next life. And most of them believe their reasons are justifiable but they are not and they don't even realize it. (Just like Allah says about munafiqs that and they don't even realize it)
@@alanab5735 prenup in America it's. not helping in England... even in America most of the time it's not a guarantee solution there are a lot if cases where men put prenup and they still lost everything
@@constantmotivation8489I think because they can go and complain to the gov courts that will trump the Islamic contract and go in favour of the kafir law
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Alternative Title: 5 Reasons why Muslims delay marriage
So right. Current title is totally misleading and absurd.
Looking at it from another angle - imaging someone came for the title - and then got educated!
It's deliberate. Clickbait
Another reason is that no one ESPECIALLY parents understand issues that come with suppressin desires,we are expected to just fast and "COnTrOl oUrSeLvEs" as if it were to be easy as breathing air.
Fact. I'm in my mid-20s and my dad has no interest in getting me married. I guess he thinks I'm his innocent little princess who would never ever do anything wrong, well, jokes on him because I've already had a boyfriend. Am I proud of it? No. But I'm a human who's struggling with temptation every single day and my parents have zero interest in facilitating the halal for me and instead expect me to be single for god knows how long. It's absolute insanity
@@Fifi6799 Same ukhti,I have never been in haram relatonships (may Allah forgive you)But have felt deep temptations,the guilt i get from it lingers for weaks,even a month,I hope you have a lower libido then me because the pain i go through i cant wish it upon anyone else. the pain combined with my other weakneses i get makes me feel hopeless,"ya i wont ever be married and just suffer",and i m only 18 feelin like this,God knows what i will be through in my 20s.
@@Fifi6799 what is worse and serious insult to injury is that i would be wierd to think about and desire marriage!that is why i keep quiet mostly
@@Azothoth827 if your male you can get married anytime without your parents permission. The reason why I'm struggling is because I'm a woman and that option isn't open to me because I unfortunately can't do anything without my wali. Men have no such restriction in this regard so they have it easier.
@@Fifi6799 that is not true,culture has made it so that men also now have wali, I m bound by my mom just like how you are bound by your father,I m told to never speak about marriage not until i "become something" and "am presentable(YK $$$)" no matter how much pain i m in because of it ,when in reality i DONT HAVE A SKILL TO BASE A FUTURE CAREER OFF OF!(i do but it requirs a damn degree which is out of my level
Jazak Allah Khair ❤
the biggest reason people not getting married specially men, is the involve of state and government in the marriage institute and how they became in favors of women against men thanks to feminism, not to mention the high unrealistic expectations of women in lifestyle after get married ... That's why you see movement like MGTOW and redpills got popular in the last few years
Then why not move to a country where that’s not applicable ? Like Pakistan or Egypt or Malaysia ? Why not get skills that can help you get hired anywhere and live comfortable from anywhere, why not emotive so you can be hirable ? Why stay in a place like that ?
Even without involving the state living together will make them be seen as a couple
@ then why not simply move to a country (and there are plenty of Muslim majority countries) who’s constitutions are derived from the sharia and where the marriage laws are favoring Islam in 90-95% proportions ? Why not simply move ? If you have a western passport you have this privilege of being able to move anywhere and get residency way easier, getting better payed jobs and so on even getting married is easier. Why stay in a country where the laws are not benefiting you ? Why insist on remaining there ? Paying taxes there ? When you can go somewhere better for you?
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I don't have western passport so I don't know who do you mean specifically by that statement. Second, you do realize most of the world being westernized endorse liberalism and feminism so it's not just the west. Most countries apply secular laws including Muslims countries there is no such as Sharyah law anymore...even If you marry a traditional "Muslim" woman then bring her with you to the west she will be brainwashed by the western women cutler which is the case for many families who moved to live in the west, women get hocked up easily with the western woman propaganda. The only solution is if you marry a girl from rural village small town place in pore countries that has strong father figure endorse traditional value and STAY there with her don't bring her to the west AND THAT WHAT I DID AND IT WORKS FOR ME ...married for 21 years alhamd lillah
@@CA-qw7qk First of all I dont live or have western id so I dont know who you talking to, second you do realize most of the world endorse secular laws including Muslims country and feminism is everywhere, even if you marry a woman out off the west but when you bring her to the west she get programed by western / feminism agenda . Unless you marry her and stay with her in traditional rural area or small village etc
جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ خَيْرًا
I delayed marriage just financial matter, i have knowledges and strong mentally but not with financially.. Alhamdulillah the feminism in my country in village area is not a thing like western country and city area.. If i marry i'm sure im gonna find woman in village area.. When it comes to City women.. Bruhh they're hijabi but they're wild in their lifestyle and friendship environment, i don't want to mention what they did but you can imagine what i meant with wild,,i don't want to Associate with them cause so many repulsive stuffs they did... They're not wife even mother material..
I travelled to Morocco and the racism i went through simpely because of my skin colour was hard for me to enjoy my vacation! And i am from Somaliland living in Norway.
Lol😂😂😂. Seems u have self hate as a somali dude .. just marry from ur country. Somalia is cheap compared to norway
Somaliland is not a country akhi, why divide the muslim ummah even further
I am a dark skinned black man and was treated just fine in Morocco. I also courted several Moroccan women
Getting married has been delayed or even not been taken into consideration at all anymore in some Western countries where muslims are living. This is a huge problem. The ummah will weaken and weaken. Unfortunately it is made easy to do haram. While marriage in islam is actually so simple. May Allah preserve the ummah.
Yeah but thats what allah wanted
@@1010BARCA1010Which verse of the Quran supports your false statement?
Where can I get those sunglasses
You should go against your parents and get married if you need to get married. Marriage is like food. If you need it, you do it even if your parents are stupid and selfish and say no.
Many parents are stupid when it comes to marriage. Mine were too. I married without their agreement saved myself from zina and enjoyed my kids and a lovely woman. If I listen to them I wouldn't still be married or have kids.
I agree. Parents have failed BIG TIME in the last 2 generations
We surround by things that activate sex and our parents don't care at all. So find someone good and permanent and do nikah and enjoy your life with them. Your parents will get use it. Lesser of the 2 evils. I don't have time with irrational parent worship. Be a rational Muslim. Don't let parents interfere in your shahawaat
Two other reasons you left out are...marriage being expensive and spiritual sicknesses. Nowadays, it's cheaper to date and have zina. Additionally, there are people with spiritual sicknesses and they are dealing with marriage block and need to be treated with rukayah, etc.
Only one reason, more fear, care and love for others or one own self and the worldly life than Allah and the next life. And most of them believe their reasons are justifiable but they are not and they don't even realize it. (Just like Allah says about munafiqs that and they don't even realize it)
Decency is too hard to find and the right values in a woman. Compromises have to often be made on looks and a lot more. Feminism hasn't helped either.
Change the title
Do you eat Harvey’s? Following sheikh hakims opinion?
I'm not getting married because I don't want all my wealth and hard work to be taken away in a blink of an eye.
What country
@embraceislamandeventuallyy1006 England.
@@alanab5735 prenup in America it's. not helping in England... even in America most of the time it's not a guarantee solution there are a lot if cases where men put prenup and they still lost everything
Why not marry islamically without involving the gov ?
@@constantmotivation8489I think because they can go and complain to the gov courts that will trump the Islamic contract and go in favour of the kafir law
Jazakallah khair, great message