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For the people who are hating: This is specific advice to brothers who married/ want to marry muslim women who grew up in hyper-sexualized society, Gabriel and the other brothers are trying to seek a solution because of divorces due to this issue and it is better for muslims to understand these topics from muslims rather than learning it from the filthy liberal world who will give them the worst of alternatives.
Sahih Bukhari 7:62:132 says, "None of you should flog his wife as he flogs a slave and then have sexual intercourse with her in the last part of the day.
And there it is yet again. Paint all Muslim women in the West as sex-driven. Seriously, what is it with you red pill "alpha" men and thinking this way?
Please don’t equate having a high sex drive to simply negative influences. It is absolutely normal and one may even discover they have such intense feelings after intimacy in marriage for the first time. Just to correct that.
My dear brothers... Just a simple and sincere advice as a Muslim brother to you Muslim brothers. I hope you'll accept it and that this will not result in any form of ill feelings... Please do not create these clickbait titles with these filthy texts such as the ones above as they're not from the way Muslims should construct their titles. Rather they should be as honourable as possible and not in any way immitating the kufar, who create such titles to attract viewers and in fact do not really have any beneficial knowledge to add to their viewers' lives. May Allah Guide All The Muslims. Ameen
Assalaam. I disagree as the topic is being discussed in the video and it summizes the situation of one who may be going through that. Nothing wrong with it, and Allah knows best.
I feel sorry for Gen Z Muslims who've been overly sexualised by social media, porn, etc. The fact that we need to have these kind of conversations shows how low we've sunk as an ummah and why we're in a humiliated state. We've become so focused on fulfilling our animalistic lusts and forgotten our higher purpose. Hence why Allah has removed our izzah and dominion on this earth.
Tbh these conversations happened even at the time of the prophet. Having these conversations is crucial and important so that people have a respectful and health relationship. Of course it has to be delivered in a suitable manner
@@bobtheagent9087 true these conversations happened during the life of the prophet saw and the sahaba but they viewed sex through a completely different paradigm. Umar ra once said he would force himself to make love to his wife even if he wasn't in the mood simply because through that union Allah may create a soul that would glorify him. Take note that even in sex they had a higher purpose. They weren't like animals imitating the kuf*ar in their pornography. Engaging in filthy practises which i don't need to spell out .
Not sure if you are a sister or a brother but your Statement is very True! As many Muslims as there are on the earth right now we should've had All Dominance of Established Righteousness in every Land. Lukewarm hearts, Sectism(which Allah forbids), Cultural issues that haven't been addressed, and total Hinderence of the Faith committed by the Hypocrites of Islam play a HUGE ROLE in this weak Ummah!
@@samfaris313 Well sex is not only for creating children. It has a lot more meaning than that, and it's halal since as long as it is within the marriage. It was non-muslims at that time who thought of sex as a mere tool to create children. And that's how they treated women, just a tool. But it was Islam and the prophet, who taught that women have desires too and fulfilling her need is also important.
This conversation is needed. Women have desired and fantasy just like men but it tabo to talk to about in muslim. I don't I would have problem asking guy im interested personal questions but I can't do it infront my dad i need think of way doing that. The struggle is real and praying the biggest secret too
As a man I'd find it vulgar and off-putting if a sister approached me with those kind of questions before marriage. It would actually be a red flag; causing a lot of men to question that sister's past or what she's been exposed to, which could be a detriment to their relationship.
well it depends on where u grow and mentally. Let's not shamso into preferences. The more information u have the person the better. Also women can be put off by guys past, if u were for street then u change good for u but u ain't for me I know that much. There's gonna women who don't mind see preferences
Honestly I'm gonna say it as it is idc what people think we're only gonna live like 9 decades max and mine 2 decades are nearly done and rest of 7 are gonna go too so I'm not gonna give a duck about what's taboo or not I'll ask simple 🤷🏽 idgad
High sex drive is a hormonal thing. Something that I wouldn't dare look at it as a negative thing. That's how she's been created by Allah. As her husband, you do your possible best to ensure her needs are taken care of. This is why I think people should discuss this issue before marriage. A high sex drive person needs someone who's like them.
Exactly, during the period of questioning after all of the essential questions have been asked, you should ask someone if they are sexually conservative or open. YOU CAN'T MARRY SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE WITH!
ngl if u need sex 3 times a day for a couple weeks thatbad then I dont know how stayed chaste before u were married I suspect that something would have been going on before the marriage that charged up the sex drive, I dont believe once a person gets married they have a immeditaly high sex drive and cannot control themselves
Marriage is there in the first place to make the intercourse halal. So if someone has deficiencies in that area it is required for them to make the other person aware somehow before getting married. It will avoid a lot of embarrassment later on. If someone has an issue of lowering the gaze then they should tackle that before embarking on marriage as this will not necessarily stop just from getting married. Furthermore when a man knows how to fulfil a woman by taking care of her first in the bedroom she will be satisfied to relax even if she still wants it every day. A man should be happy if the woman finds him that desireable. We shouldn’t assume converts have more experience in this area than born Muslims either. This is a fallacy which leads to false stereotypes. Similar to cultures that shame Muslim women because they have desire, teaching them that they are cheap for doing so and that it is a mans right only. This is why there are unfortunately so many twisted ideas in the community towards sexuality and the unfortunate consumption of haram materials by practicing Muslims. May Allah recitfy our affairs ameen.
Mashallah sister may Allah swt bless you. May Allah swt bless me with a wife so i can fullfill her desires and make her happy every singel day, Allahumma amin
yeah I agree, to be honest I didn't like how the brothers talk about the sister, saying words like "nympho, freak" etc. if one has a high libido no matter if man or woman, it's not a bad thing or something that one should feel ashamed of. Allah has created us in different ways. If she has an exceptionally high libido it may be her trial. We all have struggles that Allah has put on us, nothing funny or wrong with it.
Personally I think its cruel being married and not having a physical relationship. It could be whatever. But depriving a partner of something natural leads to more miscommunication hurt and long term challenges
I think we have to focus more on compatibility. And when it comes to three-letters drive, I guess we have to learn to do useful things throughout the day to kill a bit of this drive. I know it’s not easy. But most people have too much time and energy they could spend on sports, especially men, learning, reading, writing or drawing, or doing some calligraphy. Anything useful that would fill your schedule beneficially.
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all). Quran 4:34
DAILY REMEMBERANCE OF ALLAH (SWT) Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; 7:168] whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme) Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne’ (ayat al-kursi) after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entry into Paradise but death.”
She may want it once in a while that much but her tissues will be sore. I call BS. A man who does his job makes his woman tired for at least a few days. Maybe twice but tenderness comes to us all and she should have responsibilities and control herself and not be animalistic. Tell her to take a cold shower and bake a cake.
Some women are different! Trust me for some women the pleasure of sex outweighs the uncomfort of vaginal soreness. Bake a Cake ? They are women from the Latin, Brazilian culture who will tell you OPENLY what and how many times they want it. As I said, people are different.
Hmm remember that this is not the purpose of our life yeah? That’s why Muslims shun from making a great deal of it. It is no big deal, everyone has a se* drive and if your partner does not match yours, then yes conversate and spice it up in different ways to reach a middle ground, but at the end of the day it’s on you to decide what you want to prioritize in life, your se* drive or a greater purpose? As well, some people use se* as a method to deal with a troubled heart because they don’t want to deal with what’s going on inside their hearts, they find se* to be a great way to mask it. It would be a blessing to have a ‘strong’ husband in an animalistic sense, but that’s not all marriage is.
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, addressing childhood traumas might be of great benefit. Overly active sexual drive indicates hormonal imbalance which might be a complex issue related not only to quality of foods one consumes, but unresolved emotional wounds, messed up hearts which creates silent chronic stress 💔 Seek deeper connection with the Creator, plead Him to heal the heart, make it alive once again.
OR hear me out, they just enjoy and crave sex. SubhanAllah. Too many Muslims equating a women’s intimate needs with negativity. It’s quite sad and confirms the high divorce rates due to lack of intimacy towards women. Women don’t ask before marriage out of shyness and hope husbands will step up to the plate and please her. For whatever reasons these women don’t feel they’re given a voice in their marriage to speak on their bedroom needs. That’s quite sad and may Allah protect me from such a situation. That would be quite a test for me personally. May Allah guide us, truly.
"If I didn't fear Allah, the bed would be shaking" I had to do a double take and rewind coz that statement is a bit shocking, although it's the complete truth in some cases.
They made a mistake though , he didn't knock on the door . He RA asked around where her husband was and was told he was a soldier and away , He sent for him :"get back here ASAP 😄". And he then sent a question to Hafsa RA, his daughter mind you, and asked her , how much can a woman endure without her husband, and he then instructed the rule that no man should stay away more than 4 or 6 months ( 2 versions of the hadith ) . It's a fascinating story really . Umar was in deed a remarkable man RA.
if we are specifically talking about a nympho (which is a psychiatric condition) than yes i agree that compatibility is important. if the sister already knows this about herself (cuz she's been sexually active before) then in some way it should be known to the person marrying her. i don't know if Islamically it's allowed to share such information but i feel like the other person should know that so that it can be decided whether he'll be a good match for her. Also she can seek counselling and make dua to Allah if she has this condition but her husband isn't her match in that area. We should always turn to Allah with our difficulties and we should have patience. If the sister fasts and remembers Allah often than maybe her condition might be cured. Also she should make herself as busy as possible. engage in exercise and other physical activity and keep her mind out of it.
I emailed you brothers a week ago without any response so I'll try here. In summary, please delete the video as it could harm the sisters reputation. You gave too many details for her to be recognizable amongst her community, especially amongst the sisters (tattoos, piercings, convert, married a sheikh, divorced in a couple of weeks). It is important that believing men speak about sisters as they would like spoken about their own wives/mothers/sisters. This sister was called a freak and very intimate details about her marriage were revealed. It is not permissible for a man to tell another man details about his wife's appearance, or other intimate details to my knowledge. And getting a divorce certainly does not make it permissible. If this brother faltered we should prevent it from going further, instead of worsening his transgression by publicizing it on social media. Let's not underestimate the great harm this casual conversation could have on the sister's reputation if someone from her community recognizes her from the description. Especially when she did nothing wrong. She became Muslim, her previous sins are forgiven and should not be mentioned or speculated about, and she's trying to do things in a halal manner. So please kindly remove this video. I really hope you see my email or this message and consider it. Allah knows I tried to reach out, and I don't want to be accountable on the Day of Judgement for turning a blind eye to this. May Allah swt forgive us all.
6:10 There is no need to mention it nor should it be mentioned. People who do have those thoughts should wake up to the reality of the absurdity that these filthy industries put out. Disclosing such information is going to be seen as vulgar no matter what. Imagine a man is meeting with the girl’s family and even implies something like that, he would be crossing the borders of modesty. The solution? I think you and the brothers here have already talked about it plenty in previous videos relating to this topic. Like brother Anghel said in this video, the brother or sister should understand the other and give what they can. At the end of the day, patience is required and one who is at least married has a way easier time navigating this then one who is not married.
One way to know how high the sex drive of your prospective spouse is to ask the man if he would consider taking on more wives in the future. The number of wives he's willing to marry could be indicative of how high his drive is.
Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. Quran 2:223
@@AM-bm9rs everybody wants 4 wives untill they sleep with 1 and then they are humbled.. untill unless that 1 wife has some issues. Post nut clarity is a thing
How does a virgin girl/guy know their sex drive? It could just be urges. Once you been married then you know defo but... Also i believe that these things cant be really discussed and once marriage has happened, its another test from Allah on communications between couple, providing rights for partner and staying patient untill the next 👀 time
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah: When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?' Sahih Bukhari 7:62:17
Brothers! Please improve your thumbnail 🙏 I am enjoying the channel so far as a new subscriber, but like the other sister mentioned the thumbnails y'all choose to draw the audience in does the context of the subject no good. This man is speaking on a serious matter, and during the episode you Brothers listened with attention and patience while he Expounded. These thumbnails paint a different image of the channel. I say this as a constructive criticism. Please keep your channel REAL & PURE. Don't be like others Seeking more (Views) than (Adherents). Inshallah! Asalam'alaykum wa Rahmatullah!
you're 100% right. If they truly doing it for Allah, Allah would reach this video reach out to many people such that they don't need to put this types of title. But Alas. Hope they understand the real meaning of dwah
Bro, you clearly haven't grasped the English lexicon. No mention of beauty, the conversation is about drive. As for " a few months and you're done with her ", again we are talking about a wife not some hoe.
Im a man and it is ramadan rn. Iv fasted for almost a month and I just finished masturbation due to me not being able to get my mind off of it. After iftar ofc. I can even fall asleep without ejaculating a lot of the time. I try not to, but it takes over all of my thoughts throughout the whole day. Even when I'm praying at the masjid. So to avoid these thoughts while praying behind the imam, I masturbate every few days@user-gi2kt2vj9s
Increasing the amount of ibadah you do is the answer and if you continue to persist with the sin keep repenting and be patient. The sunnah has delineated a answer for us 1400 years ago which is to last for the end of time. In order to overcome any trial, refer to the kitab wa sunnah with the understanding of the salaf as-salih. Stop looking for a new solution else where when it has already been given to you, that is the first mistake and the one that must be rectified. And truly ask yourselves when afflicted with any trial and calamity how much of you look towards the sunnah first.
Persisting with what sin? SubhanAllah this is on the topic of unfulfilled pleasure in the bedroom between married Muslims. Married people are made halal for one another. What are you talking about sins here for? May Allah guide you.
6:22 astaghfirullah that's for the wife to know ygm not just any POTENTIAL wifey ygm, I wouldn't be comfortable with other women other than my wife (I don't have a wife haha) knowing my size down there. 👽
What do we do when our husband is a good man and you are staying with him but he doesn’t want intimacy due to his own insecurities. The wife just has to live with it or divorce a good man? So most will stay and be suffering in silence.
The issue is that those who are trying to fix these problems have a fundamentally flawed understanding in Islam and are not even consistent with their prayers. How can you expect a person to follow the sunnah that is the solution when they do not fulfill the prerequisites such as knowing their lord and not comitting shirk and kufr. Firstly, get a better understanding of your religion by learning some tawheed, the better you know your lord the better you will be able to overcome this test that is meant to bring you closer to Islam so do not look elsewhere but look towards islam to resolve this solution.
marriage means patient en doing dua, if the other see something difficult by his wife or husband then the other should ask Allah to make it easy. We are living in a strange world and a lot of things are happen because follow desires like others putting ads on the channel for money, also for desires. May Allah guide us.
Yes, it is increasing the ummah. But this doesn't apply to certain countries like Bangladesh, Pakistan, Indonesia etc which are already over populated and more people is a societal harm so fewer children is better
May Allah curse every Oppressor man out there who are flexing religion in ways that have got us sick to our stomach and for which we started hating men and marriage and everything to do with this
Women also can be oppressors. Dont single out half the population, because if you do the backlash will be furious and oppression of women will become normalized
I know what you mean but let's make dua for them first. May Allah guide them and give them Hikmah so that instead of belittling women they would try to rectify their own faith instead. The same goes for such women. May Allah guide them so that they wouldn't belittle men and focus on improving their own Deen first.Ameen. Arrogance is that disease which will not let one enter Jannah no matter how much pious you think you are. Sahih Muslim 91 b It is narrated on the authority of 'Abdullah b. Mas'ud that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) observed: "None shall enter the Fire (of Hell) who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of Iman and none shall enter Paradise who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride." One cannot blame someone for having a high *** drive. That's something natural as it's a hormonal issue. Some men bring down women just to satisfy their ego. Most of these men and women who bring others down for no reason other than to make themselves feel better are narcissists. And they are quite good at manipulation and making themselves look righteous and the victim. May Allah guide them and us. We all really need it. Ameen. The only solution to such issues is to humble yourself down and ask Allah for guidance so that He may soften our hearts, give us more understanding of His religion and give us hikmah and strength to help others and make others happy without sacrificing the principles of Islam. May Allah take ego and arrogance out of our hearts. Or this will destroy us, our relationships and the path to Jannah . Ameen .
Time to unfollow this channel, you don't have to put that thumbnail to get views, my brothers, if you just put a black screen I will enter and watch, if Islam become a business so I'm not supporting that. May Allah guide us.
you must hate the salaf too because the prophet was approached and asked these questions as well. Some of you guys really need to study islam more and stop being so close minded. Its so sad to see such low level of Islamic knowledge.
@@dom3073 لا حياء في تعلم الدين. I'm not saying don't ask, I'm against using these questions to get views, I'm talking specifically about the thumbnail. Our kids and families are watching the videos, these type of thumbnails are not accept it by me.
@@EzzYassine If you have young children or if you dont want to share this in front of certain adults then its ok, you dont have to click it. But this is a very important topic because a lot of people are suffering in marriages because of this. Some women end up in bad marriages, others commit zina because no one is addressing this topic. One person said that he should keep this as a private video on payment platform such as Patreon. But someone else said that it is haram to make that private and hidden because that would be hiding ilm. So who to please?
@@dom3073 I don't think you get my point, I'm not against the topic, I'm not saying don't talk about it, I'm talking about the thumbnail and using these kind of words + emojis to get views, this is not a sexual content this an educational topic. So don't make it as a sexual content by using these words.
For a man who needs more, the islamic religion solved this in several ways one of them is to have additional wife, up to four. For a woman, I do know but maybe she can have a husband who has no other wives. 😑
Are you deff or blind or both, they said why are they talking about it, but I'll say it again for you " divorce " many divorce (s) happening because of this issue...
The best way is to have kids as early as possible and live a self satisfactory life. These things are found in those minds who have nothing else to think. When they will get involved with their kids, these things will reduce to normal levels.
no way bro, having kids and then finding out your not compatible will be so hard on the kids. find someone you match with on the important things, then have kids.
@@yazidk1 that is exactly what I m saying. Not having kids will shift your focus to these extra pleasures. Keeping yourself engaged with kids and family will remove these things from mind. We have to understand that our mind wants what we regularly think of. Stop thinking this way and all will be good. I m in India and here 95% of marriages succeed. The only reason being kids. Even parents who do not like each other stay in the same house for the sake of kids.
@@yazidk1 also I would add that you mentioned these things as important and kids after that. To be firm on roots we should completely understand that the desires we have are not for the sake of it. Allah has put these in us so that we can have kids. So the first and the foremost reason of a marriage is actually kids and if will consider other things as important then we will always fail because desires have no end.
@@AhmdAhmd-ek1dj nahhh bro, I understand what you mean but whats the point of even getting married if youre going to be miserable as you mentioned parents dont like each other but stay for the sake of kids. Thats gonna be terrible for the kids they wont know what a functioning and normal family is like and even worse for the parents. Theyre gonna be unhappy their whole lives.
@@AhmdAhmd-ek1dj no bro, the purpose if marriage is to complete half your deen. Not to make kids. Obviously making kids is part of marriage and a benefit but its not the main reason. Plus some people cant even have kids because of certain problems healthwise so kids are definitely not the main reason Allah made marriage for.
Woman or man before getting married or having intercourse maybe not know what type of sex drive they have. Because they have never experienced what sex is. How can someone who have never been married or experienced sex even talk about it? It may seem that he/she has high sex drive because he/she is eager to try sex and deprived of it. But the actual amount of sex person needs is usually becomes knows after first few years of marriage. Because first year or two of marriage or before having kids mostly people have high sex drive towards each other. They are still new to each other. Later their sex drive may change
These are some interesting comments a few are shocking now ofcorse the man is head of house feminist idea is very modern even as Christians we are taught in bible men are the head it’s not about Quality it’s about place the way God intended and the Bible teaches us how to be wives and mothers and husbands and fathers as far as private time for husband and wife I think it is important both are getting what they need and if there’s no communication how can you know what other needs
shouldn't you talk to your partner about your needs (i mean once married ofc) and shouldn't he/she understand and then both of you reach a middle ground after both of you have compromised for eachother? can't you understand that someone may be different from you and have different needs and can't you be patient with them? And can't you understand that your partner may not have the same drive as you and so you talk to eachother and try to reach a compromise where you might not be getting exactly what you want but some level of it? The only people who will divorce someone just because they have a high driver or just because they can't fulfill someone else's needs are those who lack empathy, patience and understanding.
@@tahirballikaya213 haha shouldn’t eat that much ofcourse. And I think the tablet form is wayyyy too strong. Just soaking some seeds (from a pinch to a tsp) overnight and consuming them along with the water in the morning should be enough.
I don’t think so… Imagine for some reason, they don’t get married…Will it be all right that he knows about this? I really don’t think this kind of conversation should take place between two persons who are not married.
After talking with him/her if you see there is a chance that this might work, you can talk about it in a respectful manner. "I kind of have a high desire" or something along those lines.
If a woman has a low sex drive and a man has a high sex drive it is normal and the woman must match her husband. if the man however has a low sex drive, then those men shouldn't get married and the woman should go after a man with a high sex drive
Maybe this woman can do mut’ah marriages then according to some Sunni scholars it’s halal. If u guys apparently and supposedly can have more than one wife for a reason like that why can’t a woman in another way. She can do a temporary marriage with men
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Unfortunately no. Intimacy issues are not taught in our culture 🤦♀️
You guys speak this openly about muslim women?
You have no daughters, sisters or mothers?
For the people who are hating: This is specific advice to brothers who married/ want to marry muslim women who grew up in hyper-sexualized society, Gabriel and the other brothers are trying to seek a solution because of divorces due to this issue and it is better for muslims to understand these topics from muslims rather than learning it from the filthy liberal world who will give them the worst of alternatives.
Sahih Bukhari 7:62:132 says, "None of you should flog his wife as he flogs a slave and then have sexual intercourse with her in the last part of the day.
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And there it is yet again. Paint all Muslim women in the West as sex-driven. Seriously, what is it with you red pill "alpha" men and thinking this way?
Please don’t equate having a high sex drive to simply negative influences. It is absolutely normal and one may even discover they have such intense feelings after intimacy in marriage for the first time. Just to correct that.
My dear brothers...
Just a simple and sincere advice as a Muslim brother to you Muslim brothers. I hope you'll accept it and that this will not result in any form of ill feelings...
Please do not create these clickbait titles with these filthy texts such as the ones above as they're not from the way Muslims should construct their titles. Rather they should be as honourable as possible and not in any way immitating the kufar, who create such titles to attract viewers and in fact do not really have any beneficial knowledge to add to their viewers' lives.
May Allah Guide All The Muslims.
Ameen
Barak allah feek
JazakAllah u khair for tht advice, i agree
Assalaam. I disagree as the topic is being discussed in the video and it summizes the situation of one who may be going through that. Nothing wrong with it, and Allah knows best.
I feel sorry for Gen Z Muslims who've been overly sexualised by social media, porn, etc. The fact that we need to have these kind of conversations shows how low we've sunk as an ummah and why we're in a humiliated state. We've become so focused on fulfilling our animalistic lusts and forgotten our higher purpose. Hence why Allah has removed our izzah and dominion on this earth.
Tbh these conversations happened even at the time of the prophet. Having these conversations is crucial and important so that people have a respectful and health relationship. Of course it has to be delivered in a suitable manner
@@bobtheagent9087 true these conversations happened during the life of the prophet saw and the sahaba but they viewed sex through a completely different paradigm. Umar ra once said he would force himself to make love to his wife even if he wasn't in the mood simply because through that union Allah may create a soul that would glorify him. Take note that even in sex they had a higher purpose. They weren't like animals imitating the kuf*ar in their pornography. Engaging in filthy practises which i don't need to spell out .
@@samfaris313 exactly
Not sure if you are a sister or a brother but your Statement is very True! As many Muslims as there are on the earth right now we should've had All Dominance of Established Righteousness in every Land.
Lukewarm hearts, Sectism(which Allah forbids), Cultural issues that haven't been addressed, and total Hinderence of the Faith committed by the Hypocrites of Islam play a HUGE ROLE in this weak Ummah!
@@samfaris313 Well sex is not only for creating children. It has a lot more meaning than that, and it's halal since as long as it is within the marriage. It was non-muslims at that time who thought of sex as a mere tool to create children. And that's how they treated women, just a tool. But it was Islam and the prophet, who taught that women have desires too and fulfilling her need is also important.
This conversation is needed. Women have desired and fantasy just like men but it tabo to talk to about in muslim. I don't I would have problem asking guy im interested personal questions but I can't do it infront my dad i need think of way doing that. The struggle is real and praying the biggest secret too
As a man I'd find it vulgar and off-putting if a sister approached me with those kind of questions before marriage. It would actually be a red flag; causing a lot of men to question that sister's past or what she's been exposed to, which could be a detriment to their relationship.
well it depends on where u grow and mentally. Let's not shamso into preferences. The more information u have the person the better. Also women can be put off by guys past, if u were for street then u change good for u but u ain't for me I know that much. There's gonna women who don't mind see preferences
No its not "just like men"
Yes before marriage its OK to have discussion about sexual matters, it's hard but it should be gradual
Honestly I'm gonna say it as it is idc what people think we're only gonna live like 9 decades max and mine 2 decades are nearly done and rest of 7 are gonna go too so I'm not gonna give a duck about what's taboo or not I'll ask simple 🤷🏽 idgad
High sex drive is a hormonal thing. Something that I wouldn't dare look at it as a negative thing. That's how she's been created by Allah. As her husband, you do your possible best to ensure her needs are taken care of. This is why I think people should discuss this issue before marriage. A high sex drive person needs someone who's like them.
Exactly, during the period of questioning after all of the essential questions have been asked, you should ask someone if they are sexually conservative or open. YOU CAN'T MARRY SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT SEXUALLY COMPATIBLE WITH!
ngl if u need sex 3 times a day for a couple weeks thatbad then I dont know how stayed chaste before u were married I suspect that something would have been going on before the marriage that charged up the sex drive, I dont believe once a person gets married they have a immeditaly high sex drive and cannot control themselves
@@AM-bm9rs you made a valid point
Women on their periods are 10x more horny for no reason. Well technically there is a reason because of hormones. It sucks.
@@AM-bm9rs You would be surprised. It is very natural and there are people like that.
Marriage is there in the first place to make the intercourse halal. So if someone has deficiencies in that area it is required for them to make the other person aware somehow before getting married. It will avoid a lot of embarrassment later on. If someone has an issue of lowering the gaze then they should tackle that before embarking on marriage as this will not necessarily stop just from getting married. Furthermore when a man knows how to fulfil a woman by taking care of her first in the bedroom she will be satisfied to relax even if she still wants it every day. A man should be happy if the woman finds him that desireable.
We shouldn’t assume converts have more experience in this area than born Muslims either. This is a fallacy which leads to false stereotypes. Similar to cultures that shame Muslim women because they have desire, teaching them that they are cheap for doing so and that it is a mans right only. This is why there are unfortunately so many twisted ideas in the community towards sexuality and the unfortunate consumption of haram materials by practicing Muslims. May Allah recitfy our affairs ameen.
Mashallah sister may Allah swt bless you. May Allah swt bless me with a wife so i can fullfill her desires and make her happy every singel day, Allahumma amin
yeah I agree, to be honest I didn't like how the brothers talk about the sister, saying words like "nympho, freak" etc. if one has a high libido no matter if man or woman, it's not a bad thing or something that one should feel ashamed of. Allah has created us in different ways. If she has an exceptionally high libido it may be her trial. We all have struggles that Allah has put on us, nothing funny or wrong with it.
😅 u funny
@@jingojingo1 nothing funny here
VERY well said sis.
Personally I think its cruel being married and not having a physical relationship. It could be whatever. But depriving a partner of something natural leads to more miscommunication hurt and long term challenges
I think we have to focus more on compatibility. And when it comes to three-letters drive, I guess we have to learn to do useful things throughout the day to kill a bit of this drive. I know it’s not easy. But most people have too much time and energy they could spend on sports, especially men, learning, reading, writing or drawing, or doing some calligraphy. Anything useful that would fill your schedule beneficially.
Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more (strength) than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore the righteous women are devoutly obedient, and guard in (the husband's) absence what Allah would have them guard. As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (Next), refuse to share their beds, (And last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them Means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all). Quran 4:34
DAILY REMEMBERANCE OF ALLAH (SWT)
Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea [Sahih al-Bukhari; 7:168]
whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme)
Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One
Abu Umamah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Whoever recites the ‘verse of the Throne’ (ayat al-kursi) after every prescribed prayer, there will be nothing standing between him and his entry into Paradise but death.”
She may want it once in a while that much but her tissues will be sore. I call BS. A man who does his job makes his woman tired for at least a few days. Maybe twice but tenderness comes to us all and she should have responsibilities and control herself and not be animalistic. Tell her to take a cold shower and bake a cake.
Facts sis
Take a cold shower and bake a cake 💀
😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
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Some women are different! Trust me for some women the pleasure of sex outweighs the uncomfort of vaginal soreness. Bake a Cake ? They are women from the Latin, Brazilian culture who will tell you OPENLY what and how many times they want it.
As I said, people are different.
Shaykh wasn’t ready 😂
I feel there had to have been an Age Gap!
Hmm remember that this is not the purpose of our life yeah? That’s why Muslims shun from making a great deal of it. It is no big deal, everyone has a se* drive and if your partner does not match yours, then yes conversate and spice it up in different ways to reach a middle ground, but at the end of the day it’s on you to decide what you want to prioritize in life, your se* drive or a greater purpose? As well, some people use se* as a method to deal with a troubled heart because they don’t want to deal with what’s going on inside their hearts, they find se* to be a great way to mask it. It would be a blessing to have a ‘strong’ husband in an animalistic sense, but that’s not all marriage is.
Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, addressing childhood traumas might be of great benefit. Overly active sexual drive indicates hormonal imbalance which might be a complex issue related not only to quality of foods one consumes, but unresolved emotional wounds, messed up hearts which creates silent chronic stress 💔 Seek deeper connection with the Creator, plead Him to heal the heart, make it alive once again.
OR hear me out, they just enjoy and crave sex. SubhanAllah. Too many Muslims equating a women’s intimate needs with negativity. It’s quite sad and confirms the high divorce rates due to lack of intimacy towards women. Women don’t ask before marriage out of shyness and hope husbands will step up to the plate and please her. For whatever reasons these women don’t feel they’re given a voice in their marriage to speak on their bedroom needs. That’s quite sad and may Allah protect me from such a situation. That would be quite a test for me personally. May Allah guide us, truly.
"If I didn't fear Allah, the bed would be shaking" I had to do a double take and rewind coz that statement is a bit shocking, although it's the complete truth in some cases.
They made a mistake though , he didn't knock on the door . He RA asked around where her husband was and was told he was a soldier and away , He sent for him :"get back here ASAP 😄". And he then sent a question to Hafsa RA, his daughter mind you, and asked her , how much can a woman endure without her husband, and he then instructed the rule that no man should stay away more than 4 or 6 months ( 2 versions of the hadith ) . It's a fascinating story really . Umar was in deed a remarkable man RA.
@@hamoudsk8972 but what does it mean the bed would be shaking? I don’t understand that
I support y’all but these thumbnails are in bad taste.
if we are specifically talking about a nympho (which is a psychiatric condition) than yes i agree that compatibility is important. if the sister already knows this about herself (cuz she's been sexually active before) then in some way it should be known to the person marrying her. i don't know if Islamically it's allowed to share such information but i feel like the other person should know that so that it can be decided whether he'll be a good match for her. Also she can seek counselling and make dua to Allah if she has this condition but her husband isn't her match in that area. We should always turn to Allah with our difficulties and we should have patience. If the sister fasts and remembers Allah often than maybe her condition might be cured. Also she should make herself as busy as possible. engage in exercise and other physical activity and keep her mind out of it.
I emailed you brothers a week ago without any response so I'll try here. In summary, please delete the video as it could harm the sisters reputation. You gave too many details for her to be recognizable amongst her community, especially amongst the sisters (tattoos, piercings, convert, married a sheikh, divorced in a couple of weeks). It is important that believing men speak about sisters as they would like spoken about their own wives/mothers/sisters. This sister was called a freak and very intimate details about her marriage were revealed. It is not permissible for a man to tell another man details about his wife's appearance, or other intimate details to my knowledge. And getting a divorce certainly does not make it permissible. If this brother faltered we should prevent it from going further, instead of worsening his transgression by publicizing it on social media.
Let's not underestimate the great harm this casual conversation could have on the sister's reputation if someone from her community recognizes her from the description. Especially when she did nothing wrong. She became Muslim, her previous sins are forgiven and should not be mentioned or speculated about, and she's trying to do things in a halal manner.
So please kindly remove this video. I really hope you see my email or this message and consider it. Allah knows I tried to reach out, and I don't want to be accountable on the Day of Judgement for turning a blind eye to this.
May Allah swt forgive us all.
Very true
One of the most sensible comment i found
May Allah bless you
6:10 There is no need to mention it nor should it be mentioned. People who do have those thoughts should wake up to the reality of the absurdity that these filthy industries put out. Disclosing such information is going to be seen as vulgar no matter what. Imagine a man is meeting with the girl’s family and even implies something like that, he would be crossing the borders of modesty. The solution? I think you and the brothers here have already talked about it plenty in previous videos relating to this topic. Like brother Anghel said in this video, the brother or sister should understand the other and give what they can. At the end of the day, patience is required and one who is at least married has a way easier time navigating this then one who is not married.
One way to know how high the sex drive of your prospective spouse is to ask the man if he would consider taking on more wives in the future. The number of wives he's willing to marry could be indicative of how high his drive is.
Not really. Men would love to have multiple partners regardless if their sex drive is high or low.
Yeah untill he goes through first round of s3x then he is thinking why did he even marry he was just fine by himself 🤣🤣
Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand; and fear Allah. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe. Quran 2:223
@@187a3 wat???
@@AM-bm9rs everybody wants 4 wives untill they sleep with 1 and then they are humbled.. untill unless that 1 wife has some issues.
Post nut clarity is a thing
How does a virgin girl/guy know their sex drive? It could just be urges. Once you been married then you know defo but...
Also i believe that these things cant be really discussed and once marriage has happened, its another test from Allah on communications between couple, providing rights for partner and staying patient untill the next 👀 time
Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:
When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?' Sahih Bukhari 7:62:17
@@moholah3745 and give the rest of the Hadith,
He had lots of sisters that were young so he married a older woman
He had lots of sisters that were young so he married a older woman
He had lots of sisters that were young so he married a older woman
tawakkul on Allaah includes taking the means
Brothers! Please improve your thumbnail 🙏
I am enjoying the channel so far as a new subscriber, but like the other sister mentioned the thumbnails y'all choose to draw the audience in does the context of the subject no good. This man is speaking on a serious matter, and during the episode you Brothers listened with attention and patience while he Expounded. These thumbnails paint a different image of the channel.
I say this as a constructive criticism. Please keep your channel REAL & PURE. Don't be like others Seeking more (Views) than (Adherents). Inshallah!
Asalam'alaykum wa Rahmatullah!
you're 100% right. If they truly doing it for Allah, Allah would reach this video reach out to many people such that they don't need to put this types of title. But Alas. Hope they understand the real meaning of dwah
You hit the jackpot if the Mrs has a high drive, once or twice a day can't go wrong
Youre clearly a kid.
Bro, regardless how beautyful a chick is, after some months youre litterly done with her.
Bro, you clearly haven't grasped the English lexicon.
No mention of beauty, the conversation is about drive.
As for " a few months and you're done with her ", again we are talking about a wife not some hoe.
@@SayfumaniMyG Exactly 😄
Im a man and it is ramadan rn. Iv fasted for almost a month and I just finished masturbation due to me not being able to get my mind off of it. After iftar ofc. I can even fall asleep without ejaculating a lot of the time. I try not to, but it takes over all of my thoughts throughout the whole day. Even when I'm praying at the masjid. So to avoid these thoughts while praying behind the imam, I masturbate every few days@user-gi2kt2vj9s
😂😂😂
4:04 FLUFFY 👽😩
Increasing the amount of ibadah you do is the answer and if you continue to persist with the sin keep repenting and be patient. The sunnah has delineated a answer for us 1400 years ago which is to last for the end of time. In order to overcome any trial, refer to the kitab wa sunnah with the understanding of the salaf as-salih. Stop looking for a new solution else where when it has already been given to you, that is the first mistake and the one that must be rectified. And truly ask yourselves when afflicted with any trial and calamity how much of you look towards the sunnah first.
Persisting with what sin? SubhanAllah this is on the topic of unfulfilled pleasure in the bedroom between married Muslims. Married people are made halal for one another. What are you talking about sins here for? May Allah guide you.
Like Mahdi and others have said, this is why women with high body count is a problem
6:22 astaghfirullah that's for the wife to know ygm not just any POTENTIAL wifey ygm, I wouldn't be comfortable with other women other than my wife (I don't have a wife haha) knowing my size down there. 👽
The title and the thumbnail is very embarrassing!
Embarrassing, but 💯 percent REAL !
Well “embarrassing” or not it’s a real issue that needs to be talked about.
@@erzascarlet5078 True, yes indeed!
What do we do when our husband is a good man and you are staying with him but he doesn’t want intimacy due to his own insecurities. The wife just has to live with it or divorce a good man? So most will stay and be suffering in silence.
TRY to attract him by wearing good clothes ( you probably did that most likely). Advise him to be more physical or go to the doctor.
@@Dont-worry1618 good advice..
have done that and more. Lol
Just living with it Alhumdulilah
Make sure he lower his gaze when he’s not with you, no fapping and staying active!
The issue is that those who are trying to fix these problems have a fundamentally flawed understanding in Islam and are not even consistent with their prayers. How can you expect a person to follow the sunnah that is the solution when they do not fulfill the prerequisites such as knowing their lord and not comitting shirk and kufr. Firstly, get a better understanding of your religion by learning some tawheed, the better you know your lord the better you will be able to overcome this test that is meant to bring you closer to Islam so do not look elsewhere but look towards islam to resolve this solution.
marriage means patient en doing dua, if the other see something difficult by his wife or husband then the other should ask Allah to make it easy.
We are living in a strange world and a lot of things are happen because follow desires like others putting ads on the channel for money, also for desires.
May Allah guide us.
Sometimes ads are forcefully put by RUclips on videos even if the person chooses to have no ad.
@@محمد-ر6غ4ذ HaayakAllah then the person should say that. I also have seen brothers with channel and videos without ads.q May Allah make it easy
Hamza said that the motivation of a man should be chasing p#ss1 Please respond to that. We muslims have higher purpose than that, right
who cares about hamza
Maybe pu**y inside wedlock for Muslims. Hamza may come from a Muslim family but he is not a practising Muslim.
ignore that looser, don't listen to him, may Allah guide him
Yes, it is increasing the ummah. But this doesn't apply to certain countries like Bangladesh, Pakistan, Indonesia etc which are already over populated and more people is a societal harm so fewer children is better
Bro's dying from nyash 👽💀
May Allah curse every Oppressor man out there who are flexing religion in ways that have got us sick to our stomach and for which we started hating men and marriage and everything to do with this
Women also can be oppressors. Dont single out half the population, because if you do the backlash will be furious and oppression of women will become normalized
I know what you mean but let's make dua for them first. May Allah guide them and give them Hikmah so that instead of belittling women they would try to rectify their own faith instead. The same goes for such women. May Allah guide them so that they wouldn't belittle men and focus on improving their own Deen first.Ameen. Arrogance is that disease which will not let one enter Jannah no matter how much pious you think you are.
Sahih Muslim 91 b
It is narrated on the authority of 'Abdullah b. Mas'ud that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) observed:
"None shall enter the Fire (of Hell) who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of Iman and none shall enter Paradise who has in his heart the weight of a mustard seed of pride."
One cannot blame someone for having a high *** drive. That's something natural as it's a hormonal issue. Some men bring down women just to satisfy their ego. Most of these men and women who bring others down for no reason other than to make themselves feel better are narcissists. And they are quite good at manipulation and making themselves look righteous and the victim. May Allah guide them and us. We all really need it. Ameen. The only solution to such issues is to humble yourself down and ask Allah for guidance so that He may soften our hearts, give us more understanding of His religion and give us hikmah and strength to help others and make others happy without sacrificing the principles of Islam. May Allah take ego and arrogance out of our hearts. Or this will destroy us, our relationships and the path to Jannah . Ameen .
Ameen
Time to unfollow this channel, you don't have to put that thumbnail to get views, my brothers, if you just put a black screen I will enter and watch, if Islam become a business so I'm not supporting that. May Allah guide us.
Time to block them cuz their video appeared on my screen even though I’m not following them!
you must hate the salaf too because the prophet was approached and asked these questions as well. Some of you guys really need to study islam more and stop being so close minded. Its so sad to see such low level of Islamic knowledge.
@@dom3073 لا حياء في تعلم الدين.
I'm not saying don't ask, I'm against using these questions to get views, I'm talking specifically about the thumbnail.
Our kids and families are watching the videos, these type of thumbnails are not accept it by me.
@@EzzYassine
If you have young children or if you dont want to share this in front of certain adults then its ok, you dont have to click it. But this is a very important topic because a lot of people are suffering in marriages because of this. Some women end up in bad marriages, others commit zina because no one is addressing this topic. One person said that he should keep this as a private video on payment platform such as Patreon. But someone else said that it is haram to make that private and hidden because that would be hiding ilm. So who to please?
@@dom3073 I don't think you get my point, I'm not against the topic, I'm not saying don't talk about it, I'm talking about the thumbnail and using these kind of words + emojis to get views, this is not a sexual content this an educational topic. So don't make it as a sexual content by using these words.
Lmao. _how dare you!_
For a man who needs more, the islamic religion solved this in several ways one of them is to have additional wife, up to four.
For a woman, I do know but maybe she can have a husband who has no other wives.
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Shame is part of Eman I really don't get why you guys are so obsessed with sex lately?
Where is the chivalry videos?
I find it weird also lol
Are you deff or blind or both, they said why are they talking about it, but I'll say it again for you " divorce " many divorce (s) happening because of this issue...
@@mentalniparkour thanks for clearing it up my boy
I can not marry a convert with a dirty past . It will affect the marriage no matter what and can not forget the dirt of the past
The best way is to have kids as early as possible and live a self satisfactory life. These things are found in those minds who have nothing else to think. When they will get involved with their kids, these things will reduce to normal levels.
no way bro, having kids and then finding out your not compatible will be so hard on the kids. find someone you match with on the important things, then have kids.
@@yazidk1 that is exactly what I m saying. Not having kids will shift your focus to these extra pleasures. Keeping yourself engaged with kids and family will remove these things from mind. We have to understand that our mind wants what we regularly think of. Stop thinking this way and all will be good. I m in India and here 95% of marriages succeed. The only reason being kids. Even parents who do not like each other stay in the same house for the sake of kids.
@@yazidk1 also I would add that you mentioned these things as important and kids after that. To be firm on roots we should completely understand that the desires we have are not for the sake of it. Allah has put these in us so that we can have kids. So the first and the foremost reason of a marriage is actually kids and if will consider other things as important then we will always fail because desires have no end.
@@AhmdAhmd-ek1dj nahhh bro, I understand what you mean but whats the point of even getting married if youre going to be miserable as you mentioned parents dont like each other but stay for the sake of kids. Thats gonna be terrible for the kids they wont know what a functioning and normal family is like and even worse for the parents. Theyre gonna be unhappy their whole lives.
@@AhmdAhmd-ek1dj no bro, the purpose if marriage is to complete half your deen. Not to make kids. Obviously making kids is part of marriage and a benefit but its not the main reason. Plus some people cant even have kids because of certain problems healthwise so kids are definitely not the main reason Allah made marriage for.
Br. Rami I thought u r a musclely man but I see u r totally opposite.
May Allah SWT bless u nd ur family wyt gud health.
Ameen
I dont know what type of women brothers are wifing up nowadays.. find good women not some chic you found on street or dating site.
WOW.
where do I find these good women? I thought interacting with non mahrams was forbidden
Woman or man before getting married or having intercourse maybe not know what type of sex drive they have. Because they have never experienced what sex is. How can someone who have never been married or experienced sex even talk about it? It may seem that he/she has high sex drive because he/she is eager to try sex and deprived of it. But the actual amount of sex person needs is usually becomes knows after first few years of marriage. Because first year or two of marriage or before having kids mostly people have high sex drive towards each other. They are still new to each other. Later their sex drive may change
seriously disgusting, you guys should be ashamed.
GUYS we are Pointing to this problem just because we want to talk about something controversial but we don’t have any solutions !! Allah almosta2an 😂😂
Anghel at the end. Uh, noo we don't use that language. It's islamically impermissible.
These are some interesting comments a few are shocking now ofcorse the man is head of house feminist idea is very modern even as Christians we are taught in bible men are the head it’s not about Quality it’s about place the way God intended and the Bible teaches us how to be wives and mothers and husbands and fathers as far as private time for husband and wife I think it is important both are getting what they need and if there’s no communication how can you know what other needs
shouldn't you talk to your partner about your needs (i mean once married ofc) and shouldn't he/she understand and then both of you reach a middle ground after both of you have compromised for eachother? can't you understand that someone may be different from you and have different needs and can't you be patient with them? And can't you understand that your partner may not have the same drive as you and so you talk to eachother and try to reach a compromise where you might not be getting exactly what you want but some level of it?
The only people who will divorce someone just because they have a high driver or just because they can't fulfill someone else's needs are those who lack empathy, patience and understanding.
Should’ve asked him to take fenugreek seeds 😅
I used that spice once, I smelled like an indian kitchen after😅
@@tahirballikaya213 haha shouldn’t eat that much ofcourse. And I think the tablet form is wayyyy too strong. Just soaking some seeds (from a pinch to a tsp) overnight and consuming them along with the water in the morning should be enough.
😂 I do that every morning 🤦🏽♀️
People need to control themselves
Don't be weak.
easier said than done bro 😂
@@saintsour124 yeah that’s true, which is why we have to work on ourselves. Try to get busy doing other things as well. Gotta be a balance.
@@saintsour124
Hit the gym ans stay militant.
I believe in you all
@@jasonbored8319 LOL you know exercising only increases libido LOL
Bruh shut up we die to get married and now u want us to control ourselves
Ya'll gonna ask that baller question at the end and not release the answer
Is it permissible to discuss things like frequency of intimacy, sex drive etc before marriage?
I don’t think so… Imagine for some reason, they don’t get married…Will it be all right that he knows about this? I really don’t think this kind of conversation should take place between two persons who are not married.
How can you talk about these things while her wali is listening?
After talking with him/her if you see there is a chance that this might work, you can talk about it in a respectful manner. "I kind of have a high desire" or something along those lines.
@@nightrider6830who said this akhi which scholar or student of knowledge well known?
If a woman has a low sex drive and a man has a high sex drive it is normal and the woman must match her husband. if the man however has a low sex drive, then those men shouldn't get married and the woman should go after a man with a high sex drive
The video is good but change the thumbnail
Bro you guys didn’t give any solutions. Like, what? How can you say you’re talking about real issues with real solutions?
chill down with the thumbnail emoji...
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Men suffers from low testosterone everything designed to lower it from water to the food we drink
heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeee, good food an alot of sleep or u won't handle that like a Geee
Bunch of ignoramus
I hope to have a freaky halal wife xd
3 times a day minimum or not marrying her
bro aint you got a job or smthing?
ramy, why are you so skinny? eat some chicken
Ik he needs to gain some weight
Maybe this woman can do mut’ah marriages then according to some Sunni scholars it’s halal. If u guys apparently and supposedly can have more than one wife for a reason like that why can’t a woman in another way. She can do a temporary marriage with men
its never halal its just a loophole around zina
No it was never halal don't lie.
It's Haram
Can you contact with وليد راشد السعيدان
He is a great faqih , I think you sould contact him
This video was totally a waste of time