I am glad you relaxed and let go once you realized you were utterly helpless. That is the point of various types of bonds. Still, a Dominant or Master should generally talk you through things PRIOR to an encounter and also give after care. It sounds like your experience was very good anyhow. That is a good thing. I generally do not recommend doing such things outside of a committed relationship though because many of the goals in BDSM techniques involve building trust and deepening a relationship. The relaxation from subspace can be a great release of tension and stress, especially for a woman who leads in her daily life (office manager, teacher, mommy to many, etc ...) These benefits enhance your overall spiritual fitness, even without any sort of faith background. Yet, with a faith background, the spiritual growth that can occur from such encounters is exceptional, generally better than intense meditation &/or fasting for the same amount of time.
Great video, Maya. You and Gladys were great and loved the open discussion. I remember taking my son to sex education when he was in 5th grade. I was dreading it! But the instructor (a fairly young male doctor), was not embarrassed or shy at all and his comfort with the subject made everyone else in the room comfortable as well. Gladys has this same quality. She is so comfortable discussing sex and intimacy, that she projects confidence and caring, and I am sure that some of the younger women who are embarrassed or ashamed will lose their fear and discomfort after listening to her. One final amusing story: after the first night of the program with my son, we had learned all the mechanical parts and process of sex. As we were getting into the car, I asked my son: "So, what did you think of the program?'" His response: "It was weird." Me: " Well, let me ask you, you pretty much knew most of everything right?" "Dad, I had NO IDEA!" "But son, you knew that men had penises and women vaginas, and they were different - didn't you ever wonder what that was for? Him: "Yes, I guess so, but I never thought it was for that!" 😂
This made me laugh. Thanks for sharing this. I wish people in PH would be able to have this experience. Even growing up in the US (in the South), I never had such open conversations or information. It's great that you went with your son. very cool.
Education is key to reducing unwanted pregnancies. So many it seems don't have full facts, so congratulations to help get messages out there to your community.
That ‘floaty’ feeling is called sub-space. BUT, having your first experience of Shibari be with somebody who you’ve never met before is very dangerous! Questions of consent, boundaries, trust, haven’t occurred yet and are so critical to your safety and even just to the experience itself. I’m very glad to hear that you were able to experience subspace nevertheless.
Yes, sexual attraction needs to be there. But I have found that that attraction can be created and/or grow through other connections between people beyond physical attraction. I have found that while I am very visual, I have also found that I am sapiosexual, I can build sexual attraction through deep, meaningful, honest conversations.
This is about the most mature and informative interview that I have seen so far! Take aside that the focus is on Filipina's, self-pleasuring and understanding your body and what excites you is important. Its a tough ask for a guy to do the right thing and get a lady 'across the line' if she does not know herself. Great interview. Sex is not shameful, without it, you would not be here!
Gladys has really brought to her viewers attention to her honest opinions for questions and answers about her past life searching for love, and then finally finding her current career and life partner Eli. ❤🙏🙌I wish her all the best for her future career and personal life to experience.
Gladys is one of the most interesting Filipina's I've seen on RUclips. She breaks the mold for what many people think Filipinas' are like. Being able to be honest and open with your partner about intimacy is very freeing.
IMHP..Sex, Right and Wrong , What's good or bad is taught at home; not at school. School should teach math, science history , and language. Sex should be taught at home. Yes; it can be uncomfortable, however our children get the facts straight. Sex is a natural occurrence and we should be comfortable discussing it with our children.
Love your open and down to earth discussion about human sexuality! Very important topic and you both handled the topic very professionally! Keep up the awesome work! Thanks! 😎😎😎
Gladys: "Being able to sing the song of pleasure". What a joyus thing! It's all part of communication between partners. The better you communicate, the stronger your bond can become and the more you can enjoy sex and the entire relationship.
Hi beautiful ladies, just discovered your channel. I like what i see and subscribed, to Glady's channel as well. I am moving to your country next month with intention to stay. New adventures in my old age. Choose Malaybalay Bukidnon as my first residence where i intend to apply for SRRV.
How do filipina's feel about waiting until marriage before becoming intimate? As a Christian man who was not always Christian and did it outside of the protection of marriage... I found that it caused spiritual issues. I value my partner enough to protect her honor and above all honor my GOD who saved me.
I agree , as a 60+ yr old , happily married man I can say that I agree , if your lady knows what she finds pleasurable then she can help you to know how to give her the maximum pleasure.and if she’s comfortable with herself then she hopefully she can relax and completely enjoy herself. Mutual respect and pleasure are the best encounters trying to be respectful.and enjoyed your video
Hi Ladies, I'm a 65 year old divorced guy who has 3 children I raised as a single father so just to say for many years I was a musician from age 15 through 30 and had many situations I was involved in?
Great video. Gladys does an exceptional job of producing content that, sadly, most in the Filipino culture won't dare touch, but it is important for discussion and her topics are always done with class and maturity, not the least bit raunchy, no matter the subject. The story about her daughter walking in was hilarious to hear. I can only imagine the circumstances of intimate relations in those living arrangements. Depending on the position and age of the child, sex might be able to be explained away as "wrestling around" or "massaging", but I keep joking with my wife about what if our daughter walks in and finds us in bondage gear, in the middle of a rimjob, or some other intimacy that nearly impossible to explain away. Believe me, I hope it doesn't happen. My mother-in-law is coming to live with us very soon, and I hope she doesn't hear "mama was kissing dada's lubot" from our toddler. Hoping I'm not having a conversation much more awkward than Gladys did. 😮😮😮😬😬😬
Outstanding interview on a really important topic. A healthy sex life is such a natural and vital part of our human experience. Sex is GOOD! LOL Thanks Maya this was on another level and you killed it!
Good morning Maya this is an amazing subject you and glades are chatting about, they are more information needed to get to more women about sexua information ,l
I think its important to explore yourself. And explore all of this with your partner. But i dont think exploring with strangers is wise. Even though it can obviously be fun. You dont want to turn into the U.S. culture.
Why is there no sexual education in the Philippines? It may be a mostly Catholic country, but also has millions of unwanted teen pregnancies, leading to poor outcomes for all. What is the government's position on this?
Maya I have been around lots of Filipina the last 30 years because I'm a Registered Nurse working with them on the job, and I was married to a Filipina nurse for 24 years but single now for 6 years. Also know hundreds of Americans married to Filipina. I spend half my life in the Philippines (just got back) and half in USA. I have been dating the last few years when in the Philippines looking for the right woman. I have a funny question for you. All the Filipina I have been intimate (one at a time not a playboy) with during sex they all are saying 'OH SHIT OH SHIT" why do they do or say that. Is that a common thing to say when having sex and feeling good hehehehe? I have discussed this with other foreigners, and they too have had the same experience with Filipina and have no answers. On another note I cannot have sex if anyone is around. I want privacy. I know Filipina are shy to chat sex but being a nurse its natural for me. I was the one that had the sex talk with our Mestiza daughter when she was 13 because her mother was scared to talk about it but maybe that's why she got pregnant in nursing school at age 20 and so many young Filipinas get pregnant because no one educate them. My daughter is 27 now and still no kids. I have noticed this new generation of Filipina is different. I am 57 and my current GF is 30. She is widow with two young boys and that's OK with me. In my world if a woman has kids its a package deal take it or leave it. Thanks for your time. BTW I found her on Filapina Christian app. All the other ones not good. Lots of scammers.
In truth Americans can be too open about sex. I only say that because we get so much urban myths and made-up crap it's hard to separate the truth from the real. The fact is couples should openly talk to each other about sex and what pleases them. Men need to drop their egos and women need to open up about what they think. Communication is one of the greatest keys to intimacy in any sexual relationship
Great video iam glad Theresa filipina that has an open talk about l9ve and sex ,good job looking forward to seeing more and will check out Gladys in love as well
I enjoyed listening to this conversation! Great interview Maya :) Also, I vote for women to be as loud as possible and just let people hear it 😂 so that other women expect more. If they aren't saying sanaol, then the sex isn't good enough or loud enough lol
Im moving there in January next year. Single and looking for wife. Im 64 but many think Im younger. I got lots of energy , told Im handsome, and have retirement income. Any suggestions in my search.
sexual education isn't hard or complicated. You have sex, and you are going to have any combination of three things... pleasure, pregnancy or std.... it's not hard or complicated.
I owe you my sincere apology. I thought you were just another pretty woman who was an ego driven know-it-all who only cared about what others thought (crab mentality). I was wrong. Very wrong. You have the courage and the curiosity to explore. I salute you. 👏 Have you read the book "50 Shades of Grey"? The story is not about Maya, but it could be. Hahaha
Unfortunately the book Fifty Shades of Grey is a terrible misrepresentation of what a healthy BDSM relationship is. Instead it is the story of a misogynistic abuser and his victim
ONE OF GOD'S RULES IS ! NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE 🙏 HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE CAN DRAW DEMONS INTO THY SELF! GOD MADE SEX FOR MARRIED COUPLES ! PACIFICALLY FOR MAN AND WOMAN
Really appreciate you Maya for interviewing me and having me in your channel ❤
Your content is appreciated. Salamat po. Amping. New subscriber from NY,USA.
I am glad you relaxed and let go once you realized you were utterly helpless. That is the point of various types of bonds. Still, a Dominant or Master should generally talk you through things PRIOR to an encounter and also give after care. It sounds like your experience was very good anyhow. That is a good thing.
I generally do not recommend doing such things outside of a committed relationship though because many of the goals in BDSM techniques involve building trust and deepening a relationship.
The relaxation from subspace can be a great release of tension and stress, especially for a woman who leads in her daily life (office manager, teacher, mommy to many, etc ...) These benefits enhance your overall spiritual fitness, even without any sort of faith background. Yet, with a faith background, the spiritual growth that can occur from such encounters is exceptional, generally better than intense meditation &/or fasting for the same amount of time.
You're a breath of fresh air. Thank you!
thx
Why do all the fathers disappear after having kids??? Why is there so many single mom stories out there?
I think anyone that cares for their partner should want to give them pleasure - it's one of the bonds that helps hold a relationship together.
For a Filipina, typically very conservative, this is quite an extraordinary testimony.
Great video, Maya. You and Gladys were great and loved the open discussion. I remember taking my son to sex education when he was in 5th grade. I was dreading it! But the instructor (a fairly young male doctor), was not embarrassed or shy at all and his comfort with the subject made everyone else in the room comfortable as well. Gladys has this same quality. She is so comfortable discussing sex and intimacy, that she projects confidence and caring, and I am sure that some of the younger women who are embarrassed or ashamed will lose their fear and discomfort after listening to her. One final amusing story: after the first night of the program with my son, we had learned all the mechanical parts and process of sex. As we were getting into the car, I asked my son: "So, what did you think of the program?'" His response: "It was weird." Me: " Well, let me ask you, you pretty much knew most of everything right?" "Dad, I had NO IDEA!" "But son, you knew that men had penises and women vaginas, and they were different - didn't you ever wonder what that was for? Him: "Yes, I guess so, but I never thought it was for that!" 😂
This made me laugh. Thanks for sharing this. I wish people in PH would be able to have this experience. Even growing up in the US (in the South), I never had such open conversations or information. It's great that you went with your son. very cool.
Thank you, sexuality is a topic we shouldn't be ashamed of❤
Funny story with your son 😂
Education is key to reducing unwanted pregnancies.
So many it seems don't have full facts, so congratulations to help get messages out there to your community.
That ‘floaty’ feeling is called sub-space. BUT, having your first experience of Shibari be with somebody who you’ve never met before is very dangerous! Questions of consent, boundaries, trust, haven’t occurred yet and are so critical to your safety and even just to the experience itself. I’m very glad to hear that you were able to experience subspace nevertheless.
100 % correct. Should only be done with someone who you know well and trust. Especially someone new to this.
Very true. Should be done with someone you know well and trust.
Especially if you are new. Much too dangerous to start this a stranger.
Yes, sexual attraction needs to be there. But I have found that that attraction can be created and/or grow through other connections between people beyond physical attraction. I have found that while I am very visual, I have also found that I am sapiosexual, I can build sexual attraction through deep, meaningful, honest conversations.
I never thought I would see a Pinay with a channel like that but I am a follower now.
Great interview! Love her attitude. My filipina faced many similar issues. Healthy to educate Filipinas to cause needed changes.😊😊😊
This is about the most mature and informative interview that I have seen so far! Take aside that the focus is on Filipina's, self-pleasuring and understanding your body and what excites you is important. Its a tough ask for a guy to do the right thing and get a lady 'across the line' if she does not know herself. Great interview. Sex is not shameful, without it, you would not be here!
Fantastic women, a great topic and a brilliant conversation. I think the Filipino culture is so pure and wholesome..
Gladys is a very mature woman. I'm impressed.
Wow that is super interesting, she's really has had a spiritual awkening, she was enlightened through total surrender
Loved the interview, very brave of both of you to discuss this topic. Good luck to both of you with your channels.
Superb conversation. I appreciate deeper subjects and uncomfortable conversations.
Hi Maya, thanks for this video, and thanks for sharing your experiences. Thanks also to Gladys for sharing her experiences. 😊
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yes Maya! You do a great choice of your dress
Well done interview on a topic that is important yet gets little attention in many countries.
Gladys has really brought to her viewers attention to her honest opinions for questions and answers about her past life searching for love, and then finally finding her current career and life partner Eli. ❤🙏🙌I wish her all the best for her future career and personal life to experience.
I agree
Gladys is one of the most interesting Filipina's I've seen on RUclips. She breaks the mold for what many people think Filipinas' are like. Being able to be honest and open with your partner about intimacy is very freeing.
Wow, two beautiful Filipinas. Great interview too.
Awesome open and honest conversation. Good stuff!
Love your openness and details. Very helpful
Thank you Maya for this informative video. I am looking for a Philipino girlfriend who is adjustable for me
IMHP..Sex, Right and Wrong , What's good or bad is taught at home; not at school. School should teach math, science history , and language. Sex should be taught at home. Yes; it can be uncomfortable, however our children get the facts straight. Sex is a natural occurrence and we should be comfortable discussing it with our children.
Love your open and down to earth discussion about human sexuality! Very important topic and you both handled the topic very professionally! Keep up the awesome work! Thanks! 😎😎😎
This was a very informative interview. Well done Maya.
Thank you for having an informative conversation on sex and Filipino culture.
Gladys: "Being able to sing the song of pleasure". What a joyus thing! It's all part of communication between partners. The better you communicate, the stronger your bond can become and the more you can enjoy sex and the entire relationship.
Hi beautiful ladies, just discovered your channel. I like what i see and subscribed, to Glady's channel as well.
I am moving to your country next month with intention to stay. New adventures in my old age.
Choose Malaybalay Bukidnon as my first residence where i intend to apply for SRRV.
Thanks Martin !
Great interview,Glady,,s is awesome
Great content
There’s no chance that I would be willing to be tied up for any reason, that’s insane😳
This is a video, everyone should watch.. Very candid, very real, and informative too!
How do filipina's feel about waiting until marriage before becoming intimate? As a Christian man who was not always Christian and did it outside of the protection of marriage... I found that it caused spiritual issues. I value my partner enough to protect her honor and above all honor my GOD who saved me.
Excellent interview. 🙏🏻
I hope your country finds a way to accept women's sexual feelings and allows them to freely express themselves without being preyed upon.
I agree , as a 60+ yr old , happily married man I can say that I agree , if your lady knows what she finds pleasurable then she can help you to know how to give her the maximum pleasure.and if she’s comfortable with herself then she hopefully she can relax and completely enjoy herself. Mutual respect and pleasure are the best encounters trying to be respectful.and enjoyed your video
What tool do you use to edit your videos?
Fillmora
Smart, brave women
Interesting 😊.
Nice dress Maya.
Hi Ladies, I'm a 65 year old divorced guy who has 3 children I raised as a single father so just to say for many years I was a musician from age 15 through 30 and had many situations I was involved in?
Great video/topic. I have subscribed ✌️😎
Great interview
Good job
Great video. Gladys does an exceptional job of producing content that, sadly, most in the Filipino culture won't dare touch, but it is important for discussion and her topics are always done with class and maturity, not the least bit raunchy, no matter the subject.
The story about her daughter walking in was hilarious to hear. I can only imagine the circumstances of intimate relations in those living arrangements. Depending on the position and age of the child, sex might be able to be explained away as "wrestling around" or "massaging", but I keep joking with my wife about what if our daughter walks in and finds us in bondage gear, in the middle of a rimjob, or some other intimacy that nearly impossible to explain away. Believe me, I hope it doesn't happen. My mother-in-law is coming to live with us very soon, and I hope she doesn't hear "mama was kissing dada's lubot" from our toddler. Hoping I'm not having a conversation much more awkward than Gladys did. 😮😮😮😬😬😬
Talking is the secret ❤
Outstanding interview on a really important topic. A healthy sex life is such a natural and vital part of our human experience.
Sex is GOOD! LOL
Thanks Maya this was on another level and you killed it!
Thanks Brian ☺️
They all have kids!
Good morning Maya this is an amazing subject you and glades are chatting about, they are more information needed to get to more women about sexua information ,l
Wow, I really didn't expect Filipina vloggers to be discussing Shibari! That's a very niche fetish, even in the West...
Maya you are such a beautiful philipina and gio lost a good thing
Wonderful content, well done ladies. You are both great women.
HELLO MAYA ❤ I REALLY APPRECIATE THE CONTENT AS IT IS NECESSARY FOR ADULTS TO UNDERSTAND OUR SEXUALITY! THANK YOU ❤
Excellent interview. The damage that religion does
I think its important to explore yourself. And explore all of this with your partner. But i dont think exploring with strangers is wise. Even though it can obviously be fun. You dont want to turn into the U.S. culture.
Why is there no sexual education in the Philippines? It may be a mostly Catholic country, but also has millions of unwanted teen pregnancies, leading to poor outcomes for all. What is the government's position on this?
Maya I have been around lots of Filipina the last 30 years because I'm a Registered Nurse working with them on the job, and I was married to a Filipina nurse for 24 years but single now for 6 years. Also know hundreds of Americans married to Filipina. I spend half my life in the Philippines (just got back) and half in USA. I have been dating the last few years when in the Philippines looking for the right woman. I have a funny question for you. All the Filipina I have been intimate (one at a time not a playboy) with during sex they all are saying 'OH SHIT OH SHIT" why do they do or say that. Is that a common thing to say when having sex and feeling good hehehehe? I have discussed this with other foreigners, and they too have had the same experience with Filipina and have no answers. On another note I cannot have sex if anyone is around. I want privacy. I know Filipina are shy to chat sex but being a nurse its natural for me. I was the one that had the sex talk with our Mestiza daughter when she was 13 because her mother was scared to talk about it but maybe that's why she got pregnant in nursing school at age 20 and so many young Filipinas get pregnant because no one educate them. My daughter is 27 now and still no kids. I have noticed this new generation of Filipina is different. I am 57 and my current GF is 30. She is widow with two young boys and that's OK with me. In my world if a woman has kids its a package deal take it or leave it. Thanks for your time. BTW I found her on Filapina Christian app. All the other ones not good. Lots of scammers.
Please talk to western women, that hit the wall around 30. Ask them how they listened to the universe
Jesus died on the cross FOR our sins \o/ That is why we can ask God for forgiveness when we do slip up.
Maya is such a beautiful woman
In truth Americans can be too open about sex. I only say that because we get so much urban myths and made-up crap it's hard to separate the truth from the real. The fact is couples should openly talk to each other about sex and what pleases them. Men need to drop their egos and women need to open up about what they think. Communication is one of the greatest keys to intimacy in any sexual relationship
Great video iam glad Theresa filipina that has an open talk about l9ve and sex ,good job looking forward to seeing more and will check out Gladys in love as well
No sex after 4 months marriage and gradually stopped
Maya is gorgeous ❤
"he is a good person, he got money"!!!???? Is that summarize what a Filipina expect and only look for...?
Some shame is necessary. Otherwise you get fast to the downfall like the west. And breakdown of family. So a balance is important
I enjoyed listening to this conversation! Great interview Maya :)
Also, I vote for women to be as loud as possible and just let people hear it 😂 so that other women expect more. If they aren't saying sanaol, then the sex isn't good enough or loud enough lol
😂
That is one smart woman.
Im moving there in January next year. Single and looking for wife. Im 64 but many think Im younger. I got lots of energy , told Im handsome, and have retirement income. Any suggestions in my search.
Knot tying course 😂
sexual education isn't hard or complicated. You have sex, and you are going to have any combination of three things... pleasure, pregnancy or std.... it's not hard or complicated.
Having sex is Not a sin !!🤔
A remake from filipina pea
Old Christian morality. I like the Islamic view on sex in a monogamous relationship
Just be careful, I think instead of teaching kids about sex why don’t you teach parents how to teach their children
Learn from Sweden and the other Noridc countries how to deal with these topics....
Try BJ she won’t make no noise lol
I owe you my sincere apology. I thought you were just another pretty woman who was an ego driven know-it-all who only cared about what others thought (crab mentality). I was wrong. Very wrong. You have the courage and the curiosity to explore. I salute you. 👏 Have you read the book "50 Shades of Grey"? The story is not about Maya, but it could be. Hahaha
Unfortunately the book Fifty Shades of Grey is a terrible misrepresentation of what a healthy BDSM relationship is. Instead it is the story of a misogynistic abuser and his victim
the western world is bad.. dont try to change so much in the philipines
Sex is only for man and woman who are legally married.God does not tolerate fornication it is a sin.
Yikes didn’t know Filipinas are that wreckless 😅
GOD'S SECOND COMING IS VERY NEAR TO HAND ALL MUST BE READY BECAUSE HE COMES AS A THIEF IN THE NIGHT NO WARNING
ONE OF GOD'S RULES IS ! NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE 🙏 HAVING SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE CAN DRAW DEMONS INTO THY SELF! GOD MADE SEX FOR MARRIED COUPLES ! PACIFICALLY FOR MAN AND WOMAN
thats a form of witchcraft Ate…please stay away from that bondage