Parents stop constantly comparing your kids with other kids. Imagine your children always comparing you with other parents and always talking about your flaws. Everyone is different.
I wish Daniel’s dad actually took the time to listen to his son, this is a critical stage in his life. Poor baby needs assurance and kindness from his dad
Oba and Dolu are goals Femi and Israel Dad is crazy and trying to put his responsibility on his son. Mistake outside? Wash clothes? Can’t call? Provide for the family? Just yuck! And dad lies jare. David and Samson are trying, I believe they will get there in time. At least they are open and honest Daniel and Dickson need serious HELP, Dad doesn’t listen at all and will lose his son. The son has a lot of repressed anger. Both need therapy. Son really wants a better relationship
See Israel's father is something else. Imagine expecting that young man to take care of his younger sibling's need when he is alive. So what is the essence of him constantly being at work and not being able to call.
I hope OBA knows how blessed he is to have such a father like he does that he can have such bond with? if a lot of children had that, they would have turned out better.
The way David’s dad loves him is sooo visible! You can tell that he really loves the boy! He’s even willing to change for his son, which is very rare to see in African men! You can tell he’s the dad who always listens to his kids ! It’s soo amazing ❤❤ I love Oba and his dad too lol😂
Daniel, if you're reading this, know that many of us see you and see your heart. You seem kind and gentle. I'm very sorry that your father is set in his ways and treats you unkindly. Please don't let it break your spirit. Keep being the self aware boy that you are. It will get better I promise. You will find your tribe of people who will love you for who you are, without condition. They will love you regardless of your results in school. I had a hard dad too but I found good people and comfort in life. You will get there too. Wishing you the very best in life! Keep your head up.
David and samson have so much pride and respect in eachother. He was so ready to listen to his son and foster their bond. I wish i had this kind of relationship with my father
Daniel ifnyou see this it gets better bro. When you said you don't really see a point to some extent I understand you bro because ive felt like that before. 'Make everybody just dey their lane, nothing will change'. People change, people grow, love can grow and family can hrow closer with conscious effort. Your dad came here with you, see this as a win and a call for closeness. God is with you and your family.
Israel has such a sadness in his eyes. He is so reserved and quiet, and I am afraid he did not get to say his piece.. Overall it was a great video to watch and I like that (more or less) the parents were perceptive towards what their sons were telling them.
Oba and his dad, holding hands, looking straight into each other's face, the entire vibe, you can really touch the emotions and what they share. Superb 😊
I actually feel Daniel’s father had a moment of realization that “this is what my child thinks of me” but he was just not going to be vulnerable enough to show that. He definitely learnt something from this.
I was talking to my dad and used a slang, wasn't even refering to him, just used it in my sentence and he asked me if we are mates 😂😂😂. My mom sha no send, she's even now my "junior" in the sense that she's doing things that I've abandoned years ago and picking up some new slangs I don't use, understand emojis at 63😅😅
Samson and his son. Honest with each other. The love is very evident too.❤❤ OBA and his Daddy😂❤I love how freely they interact with each other. Both Dad/son relationships are favourite this episode ❤
I really like the “cadence” of the questions, how it started from being fun to getting deep then getting being fun again. This show is so insightful and interesting. Shoutouts to the presenter!
@@ilerilawalI love it for them. It's really comforting to know that some people really enjoy such amazing relationships with their fathers. It's something some of us will never get to experience in this lifetime. That's really comforting.
Among the set, he is the youngest, and may be that is a factor to how we see their relationship compared to the others. I don't know if l am alone, but l noticed the boy was a bit relaxed at the later part. I saw some eye connection.
Because he's the youngest, he should have had a closer relationship with his dad. Daddy is meant to be his hero and support but he's too busy criticizing him. There is a lot of rage and anger in that place, if his father doesn't change, he will lose his son to the streets.
It's good his mum is a good parent but believe me , men who don't have a good relationship with their Dad struggle with their identity. Every child needs a good father in their lives.
Moral lesson: Your children not only see but also feel every one of your actions. Your sacrifices, your failures, your good and bad behavior towards them, their mom/dad or people around you, they may not talk, but they see and feel it all.
There's a lot to be said between Daniel and his dad. He seems like a very bright boy with a lot of unspoken hurt and their relationship has a lot of potentials seeing as both his father and Daniels actions or inactions is fueled by love and respect ❤. I hope they see this
I think the only guys that took something out of this show are the cap guys. Wande and his dad came to have fun as always. As for the rest. There are a lot of work to be done and wounds to be healed.
35:18 - Israel’s body language shows he is hurt by his father’s “accidental” family, but his father is not addressing this main issue of him having a second family outside. He is rather using the “I know where I’m taking you” trope that is very common of men like him in Nigeria. Abeg! Let this boy be papa Israel. Men do better!
I am in awe of this program. I can imagine growing up in such environment. The mere fact that these Dads showed up for the show says a lot about them and I am very proud of these Kings. Well done
Haven’t watched it yet but sincerely, thank you, Cruise, for always addressing the elephant in the room (meaning your videos are addressing crucial matters). These are the discussions we’ve longed for. Thank you.❤
Daniel's Dad evidently loves him, and he wants the best for him, he just seems really old school and he is not the best listener, but he loves his son.
I don't know how this channel pulled this off but this is a great one. I'd be more surprise if I see an Igbo dad in his 50s and above agree to this kind of episode
I love how this show shows the different family dynamics The way some parents were willing to change and some stood their ground and asked the kids to change
@@ifeifesiPlease remember that you don't actually know them personally, so mind the words you use. Daniel's dad likely wants the best for him. Besides, you can't judge him as useless just because of a show.
I really hope he stops comparing him same time in years to come Daniel will see what his dad was trying to get at albeit using poor means to do so. But you can see is dad genuinely wants the best for him. But he’s a young man I see a lot of my young self in him and it’s only as I got older and had my own kids I got all the discipline my dad was trying to lay down for me.
I just want to give maximum respect to the dads (especially) and the sons that were brave enough to share their stories with us. We are learning and healing tnrough you guys. ❤
I'm really loving this channel. They handle topics that really matter, topics that touch the grass root issues in Nigeria and I believe Africa as a whole. Great content 👍.
Oba and his dad are such a vibe😂😂
Likeeeee😂
Ajeh😂😂😂
I swear down 😂
I swear 😂😂😂
@@IsaacImomoh-vd2gwok
Parents stop constantly comparing your kids with other kids. Imagine your children always comparing you with other parents and always talking about your flaws. Everyone is different.
Eggxactly 😂
Exactly, next time my father compares me I’ll just compare him with otedola or dangote
@@Munawatches I can't believe that a parent is still comparing their child in this day and age😭
Exactly!
That boy didn't look in his dad's eyes once! Dad do better let your child be free with you
I wish Daniel’s dad actually took the time to listen to his son, this is a critical stage in his life. Poor baby needs assurance and kindness from his dad
Azin ehhhh....even with wenti d boy talk the man nor still feel moved
Do you gettt, the man is even annoying me qtp coz he's not listening, still saying he has to compare
Exactly my thoughts. Daniel is brave for opening up, dad should listen before it’s too late.
@@ethojadifference8461
Seriously, it got to a point he said he not moved again or afraid of anything, may God help his father o
You can see his heart break, i hope he listens to understand and not to respond or re-battle.
The chemistry between Oba and his Dad is Top notch. Vibes everywhere!
Aswear
Oba and Dolu are goals
Femi and Israel Dad is crazy and trying to put his responsibility on his son. Mistake outside? Wash clothes? Can’t call? Provide for the family? Just yuck! And dad lies jare.
David and Samson are trying, I believe they will get there in time. At least they are open and honest
Daniel and Dickson need serious HELP, Dad doesn’t listen at all and will lose his son. The son has a lot of repressed anger. Both need therapy. Son really wants a better relationship
This comment needs to be pined
Why don’t you wash my clothes 😂😂😂
omo you took notes oo🤣🤣
Well said
See Israel's father is something else. Imagine expecting that young man to take care of his younger sibling's need when he is alive. So what is the essence of him constantly being at work and not being able to call.
I hope OBA knows how blessed he is to have such a father like he does that he can have such bond with? if a lot of children had that, they would have turned out better.
Yes I wish I had such selfless father
Me too
I enjoy watching them on tiktok, they have a good relationship
Please we need Oba and his dad to come back and fry egg abeg
😂😂
Tell them oh! Tell them!
Yes. There should be a father-son cooking contest next Father's Day lol
Omelette for 4 people each please 😂
Yes oh! Let's settle the matter.....invite us to taste sha 😂😂😂😂
Watching Oba and hia dad fight about who will die for who in a sincere argument made me almost cry to their level of love 😩...
Omo see the distinct differences of people’s homes 😢 see how the guys who can’t have a conversation with their fathers don’t have so much joy💔
Then they transfer the toxicity to other women. So painful
This is a valid observation ohhh.
Omoooo!! Thank youuuu cruise
And that's how generational traumas and cycles start 😢😢😢
Am telling you
The devil knows this...after studying mankind for millenia. Recognise your enemy
We are talking about who cooks better ,Oba and his dad are talking about cooking indomie , boiling yam,rice .God abeg 😂😂😂😂
lol that’s cause OBA only knows how to make those things. Our dad deadass cooks the best soups. He’s a whole chef
@@moyinadebiyi8273 😂😂
I thought as much
And he was so proud saying he cooks better 😂😂
😂
My shock was shocked
And frying eggs 😂
The way David’s dad loves him is sooo visible! You can tell that he really loves the boy! He’s even willing to change for his son, which is very rare to see in African men! You can tell he’s the dad who always listens to his kids ! It’s soo amazing ❤❤
I love Oba and his dad too lol😂
Daniel, if you're reading this, know that many of us see you and see your heart. You seem kind and gentle. I'm very sorry that your father is set in his ways and treats you unkindly. Please don't let it break your spirit. Keep being the self aware boy that you are. It will get better I promise. You will find your tribe of people who will love you for who you are, without condition. They will love you regardless of your results in school. I had a hard dad too but I found good people and comfort in life. You will get there too. Wishing you the very best in life! Keep your head up.
It's another level of friendship when you can call your dad BRO!!
David and his father are twins, fam. Same people, different bodies. Lion no dey born goat
He looks so much like his father, God is so great!
I actually love them most. I prefer their relationship to that if Oba and Dolu.
david and samson are twinnns 😭 so cuteeee
and oba and daddy are besties omg what a sweet video
20:57
David and samson have so much pride and respect in eachother. He was so ready to listen to his son and foster their bond. I wish i had this kind of relationship with my father
Wande's father will have to adopt all of us.
Too real 😭😭
7:22 7:22 7:23 7:23 7:23 7:25 7 8:58 8:58 : 8:57 25 7:26 7:26
9:09
9:09 9:25
Real like mad
I like Oba and his dad. The relationship is maddd
😂calling his dad bro😅
I swear 😂😂
Daniel ifnyou see this it gets better bro. When you said you don't really see a point to some extent I understand you bro because ive felt like that before. 'Make everybody just dey their lane, nothing will change'. People change, people grow, love can grow and family can hrow closer with conscious effort. Your dad came here with you, see this as a win and a call for closeness. God is with you and your family.
Israel has such a sadness in his eyes. He is so reserved and quiet, and I am afraid he did not get to say his piece.. Overall it was a great video to watch and I like that (more or less) the parents were perceptive towards what their sons were telling them.
I feel like he doesn't want to say anything to hurt his dad
The boy would rather mute because talking might not change anything but there's so much he's swallowing.
They were speaking in code the whole conversation.
David is literally a replica of his father.
There’s an Akan saying that a crab does not give birth to a bird.
@@mtenzagh”)k)t) nwo anomaa” 😂😂
@@Enkaybe 😅🤝
My grandma said that to my mother when i was born 😥
Likeeee! His clone
“They use to call me Baba for the girls”😂😂😂😂
Omo, immediately I saw Oba and his dad, I knew they were going to be a vibe and they didn't disappoint ❤️
I really love the Matanmi's relationship. Their communication is just so sincere, respectful, considerate and mature.
Same thing I observed...
The maturity and thoughtfulness
I love David's father willingness to change and oh my the resemblance is striking
Oba and his dad, holding hands, looking straight into each other's face, the entire vibe, you can really touch the emotions and what they share. Superb 😊
Wande and Dolu are literally fighting over who should die for the other. They are too cute!!!
I actually feel Daniel’s father had a moment of realization that “this is what my child thinks of me” but he was just not going to be vulnerable enough to show that. He definitely learnt something from this.
Telling your father "deadass bro" is super unconventional 😂😂😂
I was talking to my dad and used a slang, wasn't even refering to him, just used it in my sentence and he asked me if we are mates 😂😂😂. My mom sha no send, she's even now my "junior" in the sense that she's doing things that I've abandoned years ago and picking up some new slangs I don't use, understand emojis at 63😅😅
@@tamiausten873🤣🤣🤣🙌 sorry
I thought I was the only one that noticed
😭 crazzzyyyy
I love how Daniel put his father on the spot by asking, "So you love her more than me?" Man went out for a while 😂😂
😂 he was rebooting
😂😂
That part was my favorite 😂😂😂I replayed it 3 times!
I feel like Israel’s dad thinks it’s by magic that sons are close to their fathers. A bond is built intentionally, with sacrifice and with time.
Exactly!
He kept saying "you're supposed to be closed to me" as if closeness is a switch on the wall 🤦🏽♀️
Samson and his son. Honest with each other. The love is very evident too.❤❤
OBA and his Daddy😂❤I love how freely they interact with each other.
Both Dad/son relationships are favourite this episode ❤
I really like the “cadence” of the questions, how it started from being fun to getting deep then getting being fun again. This show is so insightful and interesting. Shoutouts to the presenter!
Oba and Mr. Dolu.. ❤
I’m not even crying, y’all are the ones cutting onions!
I don laugh and cry at the same time. Love to see their duo living out the fantasy relationship that others only dream about.
@@ilerilawalI love it for them. It's really comforting to know that some people really enjoy such amazing relationships with their fathers. It's something some of us will never get to experience in this lifetime. That's really comforting.
The young boy in the white shirt. I feel so sorry for how dismissive his Father is. It breaks my heart how disconnected they are
Too real 😢
The father is so aggressive and doesn't want to agree with the son
Oba and dolu is the type of relationship every boy and their father should have fr
Daniel's daddy is not letting Daniel to Express himself 😢😢😢😢
I was waiting for this comment
Because his father is really shutting him up and it really hurts 💔
@@PrincessOmolola-nc8mo yes ooooooo I feel sorry for the boy
The boy said it that his always shouting on him
Among the set, he is the youngest, and may be that is a factor to how we see their relationship compared to the others. I don't know if l am alone, but l noticed the boy was a bit relaxed at the later part. I saw some eye connection.
Because he's the youngest, he should have had a closer relationship with his dad. Daddy is meant to be his hero and support but he's too busy criticizing him. There is a lot of rage and anger in that place, if his father doesn't change, he will lose his son to the streets.
I love the communication between the father and son in native ❤ so wholesome
OBA and his Dad, I love their relationship so much. I think this is the best episode I've seen on CRUISE so far, loveeeeeeeeettttt ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
We need a daddy and daughter show too 😜
Edit: thank you guys for the likes. I’m honored. @cruise we can’t wait for this very episode 👌🏻 😉
I agree
Yessssss
I'd love to go with my daddddddd🥺
If the do mother and daughter....
I wud love to go with my dad
Cos I just got to be close to him
I won't steal your money...
Dsd screamed AGAIN!!! 😂
The only time Daniel lit up was when He spoke about his Mum. That brought tears to my eyes.
Thank God he has a good parent in his mum
It's good his mum is a good parent but believe me , men who don't have a good relationship with their Dad struggle with their identity. Every child needs a good father in their lives.
@@sunshiney15I struggle with my identity
Moral lesson: Your children not only see but also feel every one of your actions. Your sacrifices, your failures, your good and bad behavior towards them, their mom/dad or people around you, they may not talk, but they see and feel it all.
The dad and son that are besties… the dad even understands the lingo, they besties for real!!
I really like Israel’s demeanor! So calm but expressed himself so well
I opened this video immediately I saw “I mistakenly had another woman somewhere”. LMAO😂😂😂
😂😂
😂😂😂 exactly what brought me ohh
Me too o😂
Geng geng 😂😂😂😂
Like he found the other woman by error 😂
There's a lot to be said between Daniel and his dad. He seems like a very bright boy with a lot of unspoken hurt and their relationship has a lot of potentials seeing as both his father and Daniels actions or inactions is fueled by love and respect ❤. I hope they see this
OBA and his dad love each other so much, they no just won gree 😂😂😂
I think the only guys that took something out of this show are the cap guys. Wande and his dad came to have fun as always. As for the rest. There are a lot of work to be done and wounds to be healed.
Their scenes resonated well with me. Couldn't agree more.
I appreciate everyone's comments. I'm actually not going through a lot. All those are pasts that have been trashed
Thank you for being vulnerable to us😇. Wishing you all the best for your future.
35:18 - Israel’s body language shows he is hurt by his father’s “accidental” family, but his father is not addressing this main issue of him having a second family outside. He is rather using the “I know where I’m taking you” trope that is very common of men like him in Nigeria. Abeg! Let this boy be papa Israel. Men do better!
“You need to sit tight and face your book”😂😂 this Daniel papa Dey muzz me😂
The cheating one being the one who kept quoting scripture 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the jokes write themselves
Very laughable one 😂😂
Nobody is perfect
Jajjajaja
Ikr!
That’s to tell you people disguise under religion.
I am in awe of this program. I can imagine growing up in such environment. The mere fact that these Dads showed up for the show says a lot about them and I am very proud of these Kings. Well done
Haven’t watched it yet but sincerely, thank you, Cruise, for always addressing the elephant in the room (meaning your videos are addressing crucial matters). These are the discussions we’ve longed for. Thank you.❤
why don't you always like to wash my cloth?😂😂😂. that question muzz me 😂😂
That's Daddy's own love language. He should just take them to the dry cleaner's. Lol
Was shocked too😂
I was shocked 😂😂😂
Broooo 😂😂😂😂
The guy on white that his dad is on blue native the guy is soo blunt😂😂😂.
Omo see that guy dey call ihm pman Bro, i can really see how close they are 😂
Bruh,... We shock sef 😂
I no try am ohh😂, I no get house yet God abeg
“Daniel you know I can cook very well especially beans”😂😂
Like of all food beans
The way I SCREAMEDDD😂
“Your not wearing socks”🤣🤣🤣
Daniel literally putting his dad on the spot 😂 not him rebooting 😭💀
😅 That was the nicest moment they've had so far. If they work hard towards their relationship, they'd have a really cute bond with loads of dry humor.
I miss my dad. My dad is still my number one. Very lovely father. ❤ 😢
May your soul rest in peace.
I love you dad. ❤
Oba and his dad have an incredible relationship i hope, I'd have that with my future son
May God help you
Wow what a display of humility from David's dad by being willing to change👌🏿👏🏿.
I never had a father
Neither a mom
But happy for whoever did
❤
🤗
❤❤❤
Sending you all the love in world buddy❤
Psalms 27:10 NKJV
[10] When my father and my mother forsake me, Then the Lord will take care of me.
❤️
This was emotional for me. Good Fathers make a real difference
The Dad that "mistakenly had another woman" seem so mean not just to his son but to his wife as well 😢
He supposed to be the father and he’s putting all his responsibility on his son. It’s insane. I really dislike him.
Oba, i like your bustle. You are a very smart chap ❤ . Your Dad is a very smart, infact, listen to him more.
I hope that young boy's dad watches this video again before he loses that boy.
This is a deeply moving video. The imperfections, vulnerability and selflessness of each of these men (father and son) is amazing. Such brave men.
Yall! It’s the love you my son with David and his Father 🥹🥹🥹
Mistakenly having another wife somewhere is wild 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My thoughts exactly. "Mistakenly" took me out 😂😂😂
Imagine if a woman said the same thing. 😂
Juju😢😂
@@chelseashamim9148they do it all the time
Wish I could have a moment like this with my Dad😔🕊️❤
Daddy Oba yiiii😂😂 The way he’s twisting everything lmaooo I love it!
Daniel's Dad evidently loves him, and he wants the best for him, he just seems really old school and he is not the best listener, but he loves his son.
Facts!
Oba and his dad are complete cruise. They need a show of their own. They have a very strong bond.
This video makes me cherish my parents so much, and how they struggled and travelled abroad to give us better opportunities.
That guy on white, em papa fit beat am when them go house😂😂🤲🏾
Hopefully not
Werey 😂
😪 I feel for Daniel cause I have been there when I'm being compared to my friends a lot and it can be draining 💔
I don't know how this channel pulled this off but this is a great one. I'd be more surprise if I see an Igbo dad in his 50s and above agree to this kind of episode
Now you are being really stereotypical 🙂
Why so?
Daniel “is my son I know when I grow I’ll enjoy him”😂😂😂😂bro whaaaaatttttt
😂😂😂
Daniel gagged his father real bad with that “so you love her more than me?” question 😂🤣
Even before I watched the video my anxiety done shot up! African son, dey be honest with the father!!!! And no slap slap flying around 🙆🏿♂️🙆🏿♂️🙆🏿♂️
I love David and his dad. ❤
Oba and his dad are just too fun to watch😂😂
You can tell OBA and his dad have a very healthy relationship how they joke with each other.. i love seeing this 🖤
Oba just wanted to look for trouble with his answers 😂😂
Very good relationship with his dad
I love how this show shows the different family dynamics
The way some parents were willing to change and some stood their ground and asked the kids to change
That guy won slap him papa😅😂🥰
😂
This Isreal guy has Alot on his mind, just imagine his father saying he mistakenly married someone else,
Daniel dad wants the best for him, he just couldn’t do it better ❤
A very useless father
@@ifeifesiPlease remember that you don't actually know them personally, so mind the words you use. Daniel's dad likely wants the best for him. Besides, you can't judge him as useless just because of a show.
I really hope he stops comparing him same time in years to come Daniel will see what his dad was trying to get at albeit using poor means to do so. But you can see is dad genuinely wants the best for him. But he’s a young man I see a lot of my young self in him and it’s only as I got older and had my own kids I got all the discipline my dad was trying to lay down for me.
@@ifeifesiei
@@ifeifesiThat is too harsh. You can tell he is a responsible dad even though he has some imperfection and his son loves him
How would you “Mistakenly” have another woman somewhere??? Ehh sir😂😂
I was wandeing the same thing o
😂😂
😂😂😂 like how?!
Like laugh wan injure me
You 'mistakenly' had another woman somewhere?????
😂😂.
like wtf do u mean MISTAKENLY
Abi ...mistake indeed😂😂
Very disgusting talk
I tire ooo
Oba and his dad? That’s how I want to be to my son in future🙏
Omg.. You brought Oba and his daddy? 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m sat
I’m sat like maddddd
Please we need to get his content id, tiktok, IG, YT
@@noisemaker-f3xhehe. Just type @all.oba anywhere ❤
I just want to give maximum respect to the dads (especially) and the sons that were brave enough to share their stories with us. We are learning and healing tnrough you guys. ❤
I'm really loving this channel. They handle topics that really matter, topics that touch the grass root issues in Nigeria and I believe Africa as a whole.
Great content 👍.
I love David and his dad relationship, especially his willingness to do better
Oba’s dad should adopt daniel … he is everything daniel wished his dad was
Son: But I've not tasted your food
Dad: Oh wonderful
🤣🤣
Likeeee is that a response 😂