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  • @allofdestiny
    @allofdestiny  4 года назад +33

    I really hope you all enjoy this one because i'd love to do more!!!! sound off below!
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  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 4 года назад +70

    I am 25 living with my parents...no shame in that because I am so blessed to be able to have a parents to live with BILL FREE but i do take care of my own needs(clothes,personal items, etc), i no longer let pressure get to me because I dance to GODS beat and NO ONE ELSE when it comes to ANYTHING.

    • @Nicolekimmie
      @Nicolekimmie 4 года назад +5

      My daughter is 19 in college. I expressed there is no hurry to move. That was definitely my mistake

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +20

      PERIODDDD!!! THIS WAS MY EXACT VIBE WHEN I LIVED AT HOME! bill free & chilling; let people say what they want! we don't careeee!!! I love this!

    • @Tina-zt8dk
      @Tina-zt8dk 4 года назад +6

      Thank GOD for that. You will definitely appreciate it in the long run. Think about all the money you will save for whatever you want to do ....buy a house, travel, kids etc. Planning for your future... A lot of younger folks don't think about that . . .if you don't have to go then stay home and enjoy that blessing !!!

    • @virgoscorner
      @virgoscorner 4 года назад +8

      I wish I would've continued to live with my parents. I moved out around that age bc I was being hot in the @** & wanted to be with my boyfriend of 5 years at that time. But younger women please wait until you're mentally & financially ready!!!!

    • @m.aurelia.s9098
      @m.aurelia.s9098 4 года назад

      Hell to the freaking yeah!!!! Girl, I'm 25 as well and still with my parents, I'm still responsible.
      The idea for it is, cutting off rental bills l can't afford, realistically speaking living with my parents is helping me save up a whole lot and everyone is ok with it.

  • @daniellescott698
    @daniellescott698 4 года назад +7

    I’m 28 about to be 29 in February. I’m still at home with my parents. No rush I will be here till I graduate Dental Hygiene school. Folks make comments & I’m like why would I add stress to myself when I’m comfortable still here & they rather me be here as well. Im bill free. I do like to contribute to groceries & the water bill, bt they always find a way to give it right back to me somehow. I’m blessed that I have parents who are supportive of me reaching my goals.
    Lol dad is gonna have a fit when I do move out tho 😂

  • @armanispeaks1625
    @armanispeaks1625 4 года назад +43

    Girl you don't have to do something to talk to us! Do like a nighttime "Tea with Destiny" segment so we can all be settled with our tea ready to hear your thoughts. I absolutely love your channel!!

  • @sunflowerlela4424
    @sunflowerlela4424 4 года назад +4

    Such a big sister vibe I get from you, I love this! If anything can you elaborate on moving out tips? And relationships no matter if they are romantic or not just tips on those - like recognizing genuine people.

  • @sharinadavis8811
    @sharinadavis8811 4 года назад +1

    Makeup is flawless!

  • @shawncarter1767
    @shawncarter1767 4 года назад +1

    Good advice on moving out Destiny. The first thing I did is take care of all personal things then when I made more money I picked up the phone bill. I also bought groceries food that I wanted and staples like milk and eggs. If you’re not used to taking care of yourself you’re going to feel overwhelmed when you move out 👌🏾

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад

      Most definitely. I did the same things. It makes the transition so much smoother🙌🏽.

  • @nappyashley
    @nappyashley 4 года назад +21

    The funeral scenario has me crying!!! 😂😂

  • @Liviruni
    @Liviruni 4 года назад +4

    I moved out on my own term, and when I tell you ... I wish I could go back! I’d go through hail and back to go back and think again ! Also , I do feel as though I wouldn’t have gotten where I am now if I would’ve been still at home ! Love the look 🥰🥵

  • @oraleejenkins6447
    @oraleejenkins6447 4 года назад +3

    My step daughter just moved out. She's 27 will be 28 in February. She has a job where she gets paid pretty good and she works alot of over time. She talked about moving for about two years. Until I started telling my husband its time for her to go. She never asked to pay a bill. She did give money, but I never knew how much. My husband used some of that money to pay her cell phone. Which she is on his plan. She never cleaned. Her room was always a mess. But she is a hard worker. She never cooked. Me and my husband brought food. My husband never said oh lets use the money that his daughter gives. So I was putting out hundreds of dollars a Month for food. She didn't even want to wash dishes. If it was dinner dishes. She would wash her fork, and leave the only dishes. I cooked for everybody. So she needed to move to learn some responsibility. Sorry to say but its a big relief that she's gone. I felt like she was using us. She never even brought toilet paper or detergent to wash clothes. Enough was enough

    • @kraziikiim
      @kraziikiim 4 года назад

      Yeah she needed to go.

  • @latricefrierson1362
    @latricefrierson1362 4 года назад +2

    Sit and chat. I love those types if chill videos. And the makeup is beautiful as usual. I'm always down for a natural brown eye shadow on my lids

  • @Toiorchid86
    @Toiorchid86 4 года назад +11

    It's the sarcasm for me! The forced relationships and funeral scenario had me dying...no pun intended. 😂 Ratchet Destiny made an appearance tonight. I would love to see sit and chat girl talk videos.
    Your makeup looks awesome! 😍

  • @michealadaniels8351
    @michealadaniels8351 4 года назад +16

    You could also attempt to film a “Makeup therapy” style kind of video when you take your time and do your makeup up close ,while talking about a topic voice over style with soothing music in the back ground ...not necessarily “asmr” but you would do it speaking in a more calming way

  • @keasharpie
    @keasharpie 4 года назад +3

    I'm looking to get back into makeup so this video came right on time. I'm thinking about getting some of these products

  • @samanthaterblanche982
    @samanthaterblanche982 4 года назад +25

    Your videos make me feel like I'm at home talking to one of my friends ..

  • @roshaunaanderson4362
    @roshaunaanderson4362 4 года назад +11

    She did mention filming this in the other video. I've been waiting 😊

  • @saniyabyrd5198
    @saniyabyrd5198 4 года назад +1

    I loved the video . You could talk about how you can start looking simples and cute on a everyday bases.

  • @itstiyah
    @itstiyah 4 года назад +1

    I loved your advice about finances, so I’d love for you to talk more about money management when living on your own

  • @_SoulfullyP
    @_SoulfullyP 4 года назад +4

    Cannot wait till vlogmas❤ def would like more in detail chats on moving out/ saving tips

  • @sharhondaify
    @sharhondaify 4 года назад +1

    I really enjoy your chatty get ready with me videos, and your makeup is always popping😍

  • @msfiesty88
    @msfiesty88 4 года назад +1

    You gave some really good advice. You're makeup turned out so pretty😍. One day I'll have the patience to learn how to do all of that, lol. I love it 💕. I think you should mix it up. Some vids just straight talking, some just makeup and some with both😊.

  • @sylvettehardy3474
    @sylvettehardy3474 4 года назад +1

    I must say Destiny I wasn’t sure where you were going with the makeup but I have to say hands down you just gave Us Life. Your finish look is so freaking natural just Amazing. Please keep giving the tips and trip I really enjoyed this video. Yessssss!!!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад

      Lol🤣 talking and doing makeup is a struggle but I'm glad you enjoyed it🙌🏽

  • @virgoscorner
    @virgoscorner 4 года назад +7

    Sis I felt that when you said those forced relationships 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @daughterofthekingofkings90
    @daughterofthekingofkings90 4 года назад +1

    You made my night. I like the advice you gave about moving out.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +1

      So happy to hear that & thanks

  • @pamelagordon8072
    @pamelagordon8072 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful makeup ❤❤❤

  • @antoinettefreeman3951
    @antoinettefreeman3951 4 года назад +1

    Flawless makeup and wig looking 👀 great too.

  • @lulutovar
    @lulutovar 4 года назад +3

    You should definitely try out the new ELF liquid glitter eyeshadows. They are a great dupe for the Stila glitters and so easy to work especially if you are new to makeup. I highly recommend them!

  • @VadaB5
    @VadaB5 4 года назад +1

    What's the best way to find your correct shade if ordering online?

  • @Daphneamy360
    @Daphneamy360 4 года назад +1

    Your makeup skills is coming along way 😍

  • @sabahtinasenatus3293
    @sabahtinasenatus3293 4 года назад +1

    Who you know build like this😍😍😍😍😍😍you really do this yassssssss🥰

  • @ShineLikeSheen
    @ShineLikeSheen 4 года назад +1

    Yassssssss face beat 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I loved the chat too eventhough I’m married in not in that place anymore you still gave sound advice 😘

  • @teresaf.9841
    @teresaf.9841 4 года назад +2

    Hey Destiny congrats on all your success keep winning doing your thang I love any and all your videos looking forward to the Vlogmas videos

  • @shang2424
    @shang2424 4 года назад +1

    Dropping gems in this video🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Chachaproductionsx10
    @Chachaproductionsx10 4 года назад

    love all your videos 💕 definitely do the girl chats!!

  • @MikalaGabrielle
    @MikalaGabrielle 4 года назад +1

    Makeup and a good conversation! I’m here for it. Thank you!! I’m so motivated! ❤️

  • @lakeishaheard5678
    @lakeishaheard5678 4 года назад +2

    Loved this and your energy is everything, makeup is also beautiful 😍

  • @KaylasKorner
    @KaylasKorner 4 года назад

    Kat recently reposted your post that was about there not being a timetable we must follow & I think everybody needs to see that cause it’s so true! Also, it’s the snatched nose & lip combo for me baybii!

  • @deegee6868
    @deegee6868 4 года назад

    I love ur GRWM videos! I love all of ur content! Nail and GRWM r my favs!

  • @CarasPlace
    @CarasPlace 3 года назад

    Yesss! I love this look 🤎🤩

  • @ManifestbyDestiny
    @ManifestbyDestiny 4 года назад +1

    Love the girl chat! Thanks for sharing 💛

  • @DonnaGeeTV
    @DonnaGeeTV 4 года назад +1

    All around great video. Love the conversation & the beginner makeup tips. I will definitely be following this when I start doing my own makeup. Keep it up girl!

  • @gaylabailey4001
    @gaylabailey4001 4 года назад

    Luv the look... you always come thru with the makeup.

  • @christalpinchback
    @christalpinchback 4 года назад

    I love videos on Finances, Christian Dating Tips, Steps to buying your first home, maximizing your gifts while creating income.

  • @monique7885
    @monique7885 4 года назад +2

    I like these types of videos.

  • @pamelajohnson6498
    @pamelajohnson6498 4 года назад

    OMG 😳 your makeup looks DOPE 👍😍

  • @windyevans5796
    @windyevans5796 4 года назад

    Hi destiny your makeup Always look good would please do makeup for beginning and please do eyelashes for beginning. I can not do both

  • @tracienotstacie7577
    @tracienotstacie7577 4 года назад

    Loved it! I like either a chat and GRWM or sit and chat!

  • @NaturallyDomo
    @NaturallyDomo 4 года назад +4

    Yasss I’m here for this video!I know it’s gonna be litt

  • @elizabethlove88
    @elizabethlove88 4 года назад +1

    Sit and chat. It seems like you would be more comfortable with that so do that. Like all your other videos. Those who want to watch will and if they don’t they know where to go. I’ll be tuning in either way!

  • @Brownskinlove-qh4io
    @Brownskinlove-qh4io 4 года назад

    Yes sis please help. Thanks boo!

  • @kayess718
    @kayess718 4 года назад +1

    5:51 Petty! 😂 And I'm here for it! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    I agree, though. So on point with this.

  • @MariamaDiallo-xx5ps
    @MariamaDiallo-xx5ps 4 года назад

    Yes. Love your videos gurl. Can't wait till you reach 1 mill. 😀❤❤❤

  • @angelamack5300
    @angelamack5300 4 года назад

    Good job on the makeup. Don't stress bout the quarantine 15 we all got a little extra goin on right now but it will come off plus you back in the gym so you good. Stay blessed.🙏🥰

  • @LoveMeLatai
    @LoveMeLatai 4 года назад +1

    Ok. I see you Destiny. Beautiful as always!!

  • @black_butterfly4947
    @black_butterfly4947 4 года назад

    I moved out at 21 I was not ready it was mainly because my aunt wanted me and my sister gone and it wasn't even her place it was my mother's needless to say I'm not gone stay wherein not wanted and ended up going back home 3 times

  • @Preteahumblegirl
    @Preteahumblegirl 4 года назад +1

    Yes the live last night was really good I enjoyed my self your make up is flawless ❤️🥰🎀

  • @ardelljohnson6997
    @ardelljohnson6997 4 года назад

    Beautiful and informative 🥰❤

  • @ashleighlloy7009
    @ashleighlloy7009 4 года назад +2

    Yesss I’m ready for this😩💕

  • @gracem.668
    @gracem.668 4 года назад

    Sis you are too cute. As always thanks for sharing and blessings.

  • @whitneylisette5043
    @whitneylisette5043 4 года назад

    I love your personality

  • @bridgetpatrick6793
    @bridgetpatrick6793 4 года назад

    That lip combo boss!!

  • @latoyajeffries9532
    @latoyajeffries9532 4 года назад

    I enjoy ur video

  • @Nicolekimmie
    @Nicolekimmie 4 года назад +2

    Finna watch my girl on the big screen

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +2

      i'm on TV, look momma I made it!🙌🏾

  • @patriciamcnair5460
    @patriciamcnair5460 4 года назад +1

    Got the notification and now I’m TUNED IN!!!!!!

  • @MsJuicyGirl81
    @MsJuicyGirl81 4 года назад

    I’m always calling you my friend when I’m telling someone about your videos, or things you say or do 😭 Love the video!! Is the terry cloth headband in your Amazon store?? I know you previously had a pink one..... I want the pink and my daughter wants the one in this video.

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +1

      I love that. All of those actually come in an 8 pack together. Check my birthday gifts category on my amazon store.

    • @MsJuicyGirl81
      @MsJuicyGirl81 4 года назад

      allofdestiny thanks ♥️

  • @myrnaj4502
    @myrnaj4502 4 года назад

    Happy Thanksgiving to you and the Family. 🥰🤗💐

  • @liawalker
    @liawalker 4 года назад +1

    love the makeup do a night time or date night look also ladies night out 😍❤️💋

  • @MistyL82
    @MistyL82 4 года назад

    "You know how people have lots & lots of makeup". Me, 🙋🏾‍♀️I'm people, people is me. I have soooo much makeup but I love it💖. This is a good video. I have elf products: the 64 eyeshadow palette, concealer palette, smudge eye pots, brow lift pencil, blush palette,lippies & brushes💄💄

  • @LaurenMonty
    @LaurenMonty 4 года назад

    love this look❤️❤️

  • @35tshone
    @35tshone 4 года назад

    Come through wisdom!!!!! Ok👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @i8874
    @i8874 4 года назад

    Happy Late Thanksgiving🦃to you🌠
    and your family💯👍🏾

  • @jaaxyjackie
    @jaaxyjackie 4 года назад +1

    Your make up is on point, great job Destiny. Your completion is beautiful. Girl you be talking some smack I be laughing 😂

  • @jovonculberson2993
    @jovonculberson2993 4 года назад

    Awesome video!

  • @shaumeselatiahra2191
    @shaumeselatiahra2191 4 года назад

    Love this video and I love the elf products. I have some of their lip gloss/sticks, a makeup brush holder, even their skincare products. I just have a ton of stuff lol. Wish I could post a pic

  • @deegee6868
    @deegee6868 4 года назад

    Great video!!

  • @jasmineday994
    @jasmineday994 4 года назад

    Destiny 😂😂😂😂😂 not forcing like the relationship!!! Bloop 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @collegegrad2955
    @collegegrad2955 4 года назад

    love elf! hey sis! you are so beautiful! happy thanksgiving and what are you thankful this year?

  • @reviewqueen2395
    @reviewqueen2395 4 года назад +5

    I agree don’t let people rush you to move out. However, you should at least be saving and getting rid of debt while living at home, if you can. It’s makes no sense to move out with no savings.

  • @sherryreed2342
    @sherryreed2342 4 года назад

    Make up on fleek

  • @royaltyloyalty6616
    @royaltyloyalty6616 4 года назад

    What do u think about having a second savings account for the important things?

  • @PinkDreamsPlans
    @PinkDreamsPlans 4 года назад +1

    Make up 🔥, hair 🔥, personality 🔥

  • @lashantejenkins1019
    @lashantejenkins1019 4 года назад

    I would love to have a sit and chat video

  • @alannamcghee6690
    @alannamcghee6690 4 года назад

    Hey girl!!! Happy Thanksgiving!!!! 🦃🍁

  • @BEAUTIINBRAVERY
    @BEAUTIINBRAVERY 4 года назад +11

    🎶THAT'S JUST HOW I'M LIVIN🎵 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 yes I'm twerkin 😂

  • @Randijewell
    @Randijewell 4 года назад

    Yess chat and take your time doing your makeup honestly I’d be doing mine right along with u !! 😂

  • @laurensam7348
    @laurensam7348 4 года назад

    Yeah I would like a sit down and chat. Topics like "Fake friends"

  • @MsKyiah
    @MsKyiah 4 года назад +1

    Ayee let’s get into it!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

  • @ItsEkcho
    @ItsEkcho 4 года назад

    My mom use to give my the least expensive bill the water bill and I use to buy a little bit of groceries and toilet tissue, my own toothpaste, feminine products you know the essentials and I f we were running low on something I wouldn’t ask my Mom to get it I’d go get it. It made me feel like an adult 😂. I moved out at 22 and I haven’t been back and I’m 37 now. Sometimes I want to go back tho to save some coins 😂

  • @loveterrimarie
    @loveterrimarie 4 года назад +1

    I'm here for a girl chat video

  • @DestinyOshalon
    @DestinyOshalon 4 года назад

    Oh yes thank you thank you thank you Destiny ❤️

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +1

      You're welcome thanks for watching

    • @DestinyOshalon
      @DestinyOshalon 4 года назад

      @@allofdestiny of course, anytime !

  • @shontayharrell4850
    @shontayharrell4850 4 года назад

    Giving us looks🤩. I use quite a few of the same items you were using from
    E.L F. The foundation is a good one for the affordable brands. People be sleeping on E.L.F but they better .....regnecalize🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @KHYAWash
    @KHYAWash 4 года назад

    Yessss look 😍😍

  • @bargainbeauty7529
    @bargainbeauty7529 4 года назад +6

    🗣️" I'm recording!" Haven't heard you say that I'm a while!!

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад

      Lol I def haven't had a need for it🙏🏾🤣

  • @mommanme9237
    @mommanme9237 4 года назад

    So beautiful💎💙😻😻🦋

  • @tdroney1
    @tdroney1 4 года назад +1

    Oh my goodness, I literally had a similar conversation last night with my 18 yr old son and 22 yr old daughter. My daughter flipped out like I was going to ask them to pay the mortgage

    • @allofdestiny
      @allofdestiny  4 года назад +1

      😆 lol nah tell them they need to practice responsibility. You can't live nowhere for free. Thats what I was taught

  • @markeesatimmons4945
    @markeesatimmons4945 4 года назад

    Love it flawlessly cute

  • @youtubingwithwall9145
    @youtubingwithwall9145 4 года назад

    Keep them vids coming beautiful

  • @HighclassQue
    @HighclassQue 4 года назад

    I can’t put my finger on it, but for some reason this video gives me good vibes

  • @bacardit8842
    @bacardit8842 4 года назад

    Yayyyy another vlog😍😍😍

  • @DivineReadingsTarot
    @DivineReadingsTarot 4 года назад

    Hey destiny! I'm early!! Love your videos