@@notestingmeIt’s not obvious to me. I really feel she loves him, but also wants a better life. If he loved her he should want to provide that for her.
@@anarose7193she has friends right, the bunch that gathered and look horrified when she told them she’s bringing Rory. She always have this numb “can’t be bothered” look and it’s very weird 😵💫
I hope she gets over it and reviews what was said. Niles did not say he doesn't want to get married at all, just not now. Let's not forget that Niles could feel the same embarrassing feelings if he doesn't speak his truth and ends up not being able to provide the brides price.
Having to tell your African family and friends that the wedding has been "postponed" is beyond embarrassing. Its disgraceful and humiliating. You will become a laughing stock amongst other things. Postponing a wedding simply doesn't happen, unless there is a drastic reason for it.
They live in different places and visas are involved so it's definitely not an everyday situation for these two so in this case I think postponing really means postponing.
As a person with similar culture ..Caribbean. I understand Maltida. I would feel the same ..its a huge shame ... people will talk . Family respect & name will suffer until he does right by her & if he doesnt it will be a stain mentioned by others to whoever she ends up with & their children
@@lisamothersole4484 If he wasn't ready he shouldn't of asked and in the episode when he first tells us he proposed he said " he couldn't wait anymore and didn't want to be apart anymore so he proposed " 🤷🏾♀️ this one is on him . Formal cultures proposals are not taken lightly and not spoken of if not serious you barely even let people know you dating . Note how to formally propose he still has to knock at her families door and they accept even though she has . Tradition is real yall
Caribbean culture is not similar. Caribbean ppl will talk yes, but Africans & ppl from the east have rigid cultures & they take marriage more seriously, so their expectations are different. Eastern cultures care more about how society will judge the family if a marriage doesn't work out hence the shame. Her feelings are understandable, & even though he's at fault for not telling her sooner, ppl from the east who choose to date others need to realize that their culture & needs are not the only things that matter. What about him or his family, if they wanted to attend? He shouldn't have to rush to marry her on his first trip just because he proposed to her prior to meeting her. His family has valid concerns esp since he's autistic & she has mentioned her desire to live in the US. When he communicated that he needed time prior to the trip, she dismissed it. He only made the situation worse by delaying to tell her.
@@cynthiareed4848I believe the real reason why he did it because I guess she would use he to get green card and Divorce him and Take everything away from him and to be honest I don't blame him I do The same thing too Because why she wants get married so fast 🤔And we not get to know each other first.That's weird if women went to marriage me We got to get to know each other first before I put a ring on your finger. I'm sorry.
Matilda handled it well. She was upfront and he wasn’t. Maybe they can have an engagement celebration. I don’t know the culture but somehow , he needs to save her and her family from the embarrassment
I don't know... I really wanted to hate matilda but now I am kinda rooting for her and niles. Noone is the bad guy here I just think their communication was off. Even her reaction to the news wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.
Niles is definitely wrong here. He knew how excited she was planning the wedding and knew she wanted to get married during his trip. Instead he strung her along and even went as far as buying a ring
Niles Should tell her he doesn't have the money for The Bride Price. The list of items the family makes him buy for them, and a Huge Wedding for 200 People!! That he needs more time to Save the Money for the Wedding! Not that he needs to get to know her better!!
@Melicia, in African culture, you are raised to live and die by public perception. The level of humiliation she will experience, especially because she’s been bragging about how her life and her family’s life will be improving soon. It is hard to believe how hard it could be because Americans have more anonymity, through the culture of America and the different societal norms. Having lived in both, I am thankful to have grown up in the U.S. because living in West Africa would have stifled me.
Urgh I feel for Matilda. I'm not African but I have Nigerian etc friends. I know weddings are a huge deal. This is why understanding the culture of your intended is important.
@@Kylynn420 she said it should said I want to go to America he can take me there he’s got wealth she don’t realize cause he lives In America 🇺🇸 he ain’t rich
Girl please Veah did NOT have good intentions neither did Rory he knew what would happen if he came. She’s holding back truly loving Sunny because she’s still obsessed with her ex!
I honestly can’t hate Matilda, she’s been real about herself so far. She acknowledged that she is quick tempered and despite being angry at Niles, she still kept it respectful, she didn’t raise her voice at him and she didn’t curse him out 🤷♀️ Let’s see how this goes next episode
I didn’t see Niels and Matilda from the beginning, so I don’t know what promises he made. Considering their cultural differences could be part of her disgrace of not getting married right away. Not every culture has e tended engagements. I pray things work out for this couple.
Well everyone needs to give Miles Credit being Autistic he Struggles with alot. He made the Trip to Meet her all by himself, which im sure is very difficult, and he meant no harm by not telling her. He didnt tell her because hes Scared of more things than one, and one of them is Probably he doesn't want to lose her 😢
Is so understandable why Matilda is upset. In her culture, people wait 1-2 years to get married after being engaged. They’ve been engaged for 5 months so far and she told everyone in her family. Of course they would start planing for the wedding. I feel like Niles did her dirty by not communicating this with her from the beginning. They could have had a mutual agreement for the wedding date. Niles is already aware of certain cultural differences between them and I’m sure she didn’t tell him about the wedding plans only when he was telling her that he was coming to visit her in Nigeria 🤔
I completely understand her reaction I’d be absolutely humiliated. He should’ve told her from the start. She made the right decision to calm down first
Veah has the audacity to raise his voice at sunny as if she has done nothing wrong. Didn’t apologise at all. Think she secretly wants to patch back with Rory and is bringing him to trigger jealousy and making the 2 guys fight for her. She must be texting Rory in front of Sunny, leading to him snatching her phone and saw the pic. Never like her, she has weird vibes. 😵💫
Niles should’ve told her before he came. At least she wouldn’t have to break the news to her family. I feel of SUNNY, he deserves someone that actually loves him
15:05 see I was rooting for Matilda and then I see this so she knew that he wanted to wait but yet she still continue to tell him she wants the wedding by the end of the trip see I can’t get down with that and I cannot feel bad for her!
I'm so glad someone else saw that! He definitely let her know that they should wait, especially because they don't know each other. You have to spend time with people. He didn't even know she had anger issues before her brother let him know!
I think they are both in the wrong. Niles obviously has his reservations about jumping into marriage with someone he hasn't really spent time with or knows very well, and Maltilda is desperate to get married and has probably bragged abut it to family and friends. Niles should have been very clear once they were getting serious and insisted on them getting to know each other better. Long distance relationship is hard work especially if there are cultural differences. They both need time to know and understand each other to a certain degree of comfort before jumping into marriage. As someone who has been in maltida's shoes before, my now husband insisted we spent time together before tying the knot even after dating for 2 1/2 years long distance. Even after getting married and relocating to be with Him, there was a lot we both had to learn and unlearn about ourselves since we were now living together as a couple. Maltida needs to calm down and not let desperation influence rational thinking, Niles needs to learn to speak up, be confident and stand by his words.
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I actually think miles is extra careless to play with Matilda emotions like that. Didn’t tell her firmly not to plan the wedding before he came, proposed to her and make it so sweet to keep her hopes high. It’s cruel when he blindside her with the bad news at the peak of her happiness. It’s so uncalled for and could have been avoided if he’s not so wishy washy about it. Dont propose if you don’t wanan get married soon , or make it clear. He’s horrible. 😑
Good for pointing out that Matilda did know he was talking about longer engagement and that it was still wrong for him to not make a point to clearly communicate and yet communication impairment is the largest part of an autism diagnosis so marrying someone with autism with communication impairments can be so dysfunctional.
Oh, she definitely has been bragging about the wedding to her friends and family. She is determined to marry him ASAP..he should have definitely told her it would not happen in this trip though🤔🤷🏾♀️
Niles should have been honest for sure.. He proposed to her in the daytime will you marry me then at night time .. we not getting married yet :D i think Niles is lacking $ waiting for that $$$$$$$ from the show to flow in
Right? She not telling him what the freaking bride price is and telling him things on the list that he has to get everyone one of them being a suitcase? Jewelry all kinds of crap and he never said he was going to marry her on this trip plus he can say he wants some of his family there. I think she just wants to do it quickly before his family talk him out of it. I’m sorry, but she was even jumping on him the first night give me a Break.
Matilda is selfish she I haven’t heard her ask about how he felt about being alone or about his parents being there for the wedding like she thought it was about her and that’s it ..
Im sorry i totally disagree with what she did to sunny. She should have never even asked her ex to travel in first place and she should have been honest since she did..BUUUTT the way sunny snatched her phone from her and is cursing her out her name is also unnecessary. Thats a little bit of a red flag too
I don’t think you Americans are getting Matilda, as a Nigerian that marriage is a very important thing, you can’t tell your family the wedding has been shifted like that it will make the man look like he’s not serious with her I will be so embarrassed myself. He should have just told her before even coming to Ghana. And I feel she loves him a lot because no offense Niles doesn’t look like he has a lot of money in the first place there are richer people in Africa so please stop thinking that every one wants to use you cus you’re American 😂 this is 2024 please
No way, the way Sonny immediately dissolved into the cursing and verbal abuse; no. She did wrong but the way he acted was a huge red flag, she should honestly just go home and forget about him. Verbal abuse is still abuse.
As for Matilda, can't really blame her since Niles didn't say anything when they were talking on the phone about the wedding. He should've just told her before anything, I understand how embarrassed she is to that 200 people.
Why do these people always keep there “exs as friends or besties” like wtf🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ wtf where you expecting some dudes would explode you expect him to laugh over it and congratulate you guys??? Mehn you two was so cool why then did you break up
If she had told him about her ex being there in his country, he probably would have tossed her in the water 😂🤷🏾♀️ yeah she was wrong for keeping that man in the dark about her ex being there
Any man will be mad when his girl brings out her ex with her on their first meeting.. . I mean, she could bring one of her girl friends if she's not comfortable travelling on a different country to meet his boyfriend, I could never understand her reasons. Bringing your ex is a terrible thing to do to the person you are with, plus a big insult
Matilda is not wrong, there is a cultural difference, African engagements are quick precisely because a broken engagement is considered so shameful. What he is says is literally the most embarrassing thing that could actually happen in her situation her people will most definitely be laughing at her
Yoh!! Niles has just made this girl into a complete joke. A broken engagement is a massive taboo. There is no postponement in Africa, people dont take breaks in relationships. Its either you are or you are not, none of this western mental gymnastics. Matilda is now a "marked woman"
Matilda was doing the planning all by herself all this time. Sincerely, I would not want to marry someone after seeing them for the first time. Postponing the wedding is not a bad thing. If they wait for the perfect time the marriage will last a lifetime. A wedding is for a day, a marriage is for a lifetime. Slow down Matilda and enjoy the relationship. I am still rooting for Matilda and Niles relationship 💐
I would feel like imma die too. 200 towns people judging or laughing at you for dreaming up a wedding with an American. She is going to be the town clown for the next 3 months at least 😢
this is the first recap tbat I've watched on ET. I actually enjoyed this one. the lady doing the recap has a nice voice and she smoothly guided us through the shit show that happened several times during this episode. I feel like the producers kind of hurried along Sunny finding out that Veah brought her ex boyfriend. you know how they like to be messy.
😂🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ sunny is showing his real self. He has a temper and he seems like a narcissist undercover but I think that she should just move onto to somebody else or just go back to her ex because he seems crazy.
I like Matilda and how hard she works for her family, but I've said all along that she would freak out with no wedding at this time. She has an agenda.
Like matilda i will also feel like dying if i invited 200 people including African aunties who said i will never get married
Exactly! Marriage and getting engaged is a huge deal to ancient cultures. Canceling a wedding two weeks before the date will raise eyebrows anywhere.
Niles was so wrong to string her along like that. Why would you get her a ring and get her all excited for the wedding just to drop that bomb on her
@@Rogueviewer1Her own fault for trying to rush things its obvious she is just using him to get to America
Yes, it's shameful for her having a boyfriend and not getting married!!
@@notestingmeIt’s not obvious to me. I really feel she loves him, but also wants a better life. If he loved her he should want to provide that for her.
Inviting your ex to escort you to meet your new boyfriend for the first time is crazy.
Yes it is!!! I think that's so wrong 😕 stupid!!!!
They just friends with benefits
Keep in mind it sounds like she has no one else
I agree though lmao
@@anarose7193she has friends right, the bunch that gathered and look horrified when she told them she’s bringing Rory. She always have this numb “can’t be bothered” look and it’s very weird 😵💫
I don’t think Matilda was being overly dramatic. I would be dying of embarrassment as well.
I would feel the same and I am American. Any woman in love and with a soul who cares about what their family thinks would feel that way really 😢
Same here! Especially when she already announced their wedding beforehand.
Forreal, its an expression and there’s a language barrier 😂
He isn't calling it off though so it's just postponed
I hope she gets over it and reviews what was said. Niles did not say he doesn't want to get married at all, just not now. Let's not forget that Niles could feel the same embarrassing feelings if he doesn't speak his truth and ends up not being able to provide the brides price.
Having to tell your African family and friends that the wedding has been "postponed" is beyond embarrassing. Its disgraceful and humiliating. You will become a laughing stock amongst other things. Postponing a wedding simply doesn't happen, unless there is a drastic reason for it.
Why didn't she tell him his family needed to.come to?
How do you plan the wedding without your fiance knowing…his family is not even there
@@pn4640easy, cos they dont have the money to travel to Ghana
It's sad your family are like that glad marry my Africa man in uk
They live in different places and visas are involved so it's definitely not an everyday situation for these two so in this case I think postponing really means postponing.
As a person with similar culture ..Caribbean. I understand Maltida. I would feel the same ..its a huge shame ... people will talk . Family respect & name will suffer until he does right by her & if he doesnt it will be a stain mentioned by others to whoever she ends up with & their children
It's crazy did she really think in short time together getting married was o good idea or telling everyone before they even meet
@@lisamothersole4484 If he wasn't ready he shouldn't of asked and in the episode when he first tells us he proposed he said " he couldn't wait anymore and didn't want to be apart anymore so he proposed " 🤷🏾♀️ this one is on him . Formal cultures proposals are not taken lightly and not spoken of if not serious you barely even let people know you dating . Note how to formally propose he still has to knock at her families door and they accept even though she has . Tradition is real yall
Caribbean culture is not similar. Caribbean ppl will talk yes, but Africans & ppl from the east have rigid cultures & they take marriage more seriously, so their expectations are different. Eastern cultures care more about how society will judge the family if a marriage doesn't work out hence the shame. Her feelings are understandable, & even though he's at fault for not telling her sooner, ppl from the east who choose to date others need to realize that their culture & needs are not the only things that matter. What about him or his family, if they wanted to attend? He shouldn't have to rush to marry her on his first trip just because he proposed to her prior to meeting her. His family has valid concerns esp since he's autistic & she has mentioned her desire to live in the US. When he communicated that he needed time prior to the trip, she dismissed it. He only made the situation worse by delaying to tell her.
@@cwjm
I hear you on everything that you said. !
But , he was wrong for not telling her before hand .
I guess you can say Matilda was getting HEATED 🥁 😂 14:24 but her emotions are valid she did a good job controlling her emotions and anger
I hate this for Matilda because I believe she genuinely loves him 😢
Me too!!! I just love her personality 💕 and spirit 💕
@@cynthiareed4848I believe the real reason why he did it because I guess she would use he to get green card and Divorce him and Take everything away from him and to be honest I don't blame him I do The same thing too Because why she wants get married so fast 🤔And we not get to know each other first.That's weird if women went to marriage me We got to get to know each other first before I put a ring on your finger. I'm sorry.
Veah's ex knew exactly what he was doing lol
Right lmaooo
That is why he is her EX 😂😂😂😂
Matilda handled it well. She was upfront and he wasn’t. Maybe they can have an engagement celebration. I don’t know the culture but somehow , he needs to save her and her family from the embarrassment
Yea they can have a traditional engagement or introduction and white marriage later
I don't know... I really wanted to hate matilda but now I am kinda rooting for her and niles. Noone is the bad guy here I just think their communication was off. Even her reaction to the news wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.
Niles is definitely wrong here. He knew how excited she was planning the wedding and knew she wanted to get married during his trip. Instead he strung her along and even went as far as buying a ring
Niles Should tell her he doesn't have the money for The Bride Price. The list of items the family makes him buy for them, and a Huge Wedding for 200 People!! That he needs more time to Save the Money for the Wedding! Not that he needs to get to know her better!!
I agree, but both are the issues. He really should have told her before going there
He should say that
@@MsLignumvitaeit doesn’t seem like he wasn’t aware of the customs surrounding marriage in her country and maybe Matilda wasn’t clear either
@Melicia, in African culture, you are raised to live and die by public perception. The level of humiliation she will experience, especially because she’s been bragging about how her life and her family’s life will be improving soon. It is hard to believe how hard it could be because Americans have more anonymity, through the culture of America and the different societal norms. Having lived in both, I am thankful to have grown up in the U.S. because living in West Africa would have stifled me.
Niles was irresponsible. Massively irresponsible, he is not ready to be a husband or be a man to lead a household with an African wife.
Urgh I feel for Matilda. I'm not African but I have Nigerian etc friends. I know weddings are a huge deal. This is why understanding the culture of your intended is important.
Niles can ask for more time to plan and get money for the wedding
Sunny was in that TIME!!!! And you know what I’m soo glad he stood up for himself
I think Matilda really loves him
I'm rooting for Matilda! He's lucky
She just wants citizenship she has one goal come to America I don’t feel sorry for her
I still got to feel her out more idk what she really wants
HE is definitely lucky. Matilda. not so much..
@@Kylynn420 she said it should said I want to go to America he can take me there he’s got wealth she don’t realize cause he lives
In America 🇺🇸 he ain’t rich
@@tinaschultz1976
So?
Niles and Matilda are so adorable, im rooting for them
Girl please Veah did NOT have good intentions neither did Rory he knew what would happen if he came. She’s holding back truly loving Sunny because she’s still obsessed with her ex!
I honestly can’t hate Matilda, she’s been real about herself so far. She acknowledged that she is quick tempered and despite being angry at Niles, she still kept it respectful, she didn’t raise her voice at him and she didn’t curse him out 🤷♀️
Let’s see how this goes next episode
Can these clips be longer! I love the coverage. Melecia does so well!!😅
I really like Matilda
Me too
As a fellow African, i can imagine the humiliation she will go through . Damn, she will be the gossip for years. All those mean African aunties😅
And cousins
In Africa….. keeping your word is everything or you will be labeled as a liar which that stigma won’t go away.
Engagements are often several months in the US.
They should find a happy medium.
Matilda comes from a culture that these are big commitments - marriage is no joke
I didn’t see Niels and Matilda from the beginning, so I don’t know what promises he made. Considering their cultural differences could be part of her disgrace of not getting married right away. Not every culture has e tended engagements. I pray things work out for this couple.
He tried telling her on the phone, but she kept forcing the idea of a wedding on him.
Well everyone needs to give Miles Credit being Autistic he Struggles with alot. He made the Trip to Meet her all by himself, which im sure is very difficult, and he meant no harm by not telling her. He didnt tell her because hes Scared of more things than one, and one of them is Probably he doesn't want to lose her 😢
Having your ex-boyfriend meet your current boyfriend is like a powder keg but I guess she didn't think it would backfire on her🤣🤣🤣🤣
Is so understandable why Matilda is upset. In her culture, people wait 1-2 years to get married after being engaged. They’ve been engaged for 5 months so far and she told everyone in her family. Of course they would start planing for the wedding. I feel like Niles did her dirty by not communicating this with her from the beginning. They could have had a mutual agreement for the wedding date. Niles is already aware of certain cultural differences between them and I’m sure she didn’t tell him about the wedding plans only when he was telling her that he was coming to visit her in Nigeria 🤔
It’s the way he found out seeing a picture of her and her ex so close together in the airplane looks like they are closer than just exes
MITILDA & NILES ARE TOO CUTE 😆
I completely understand her reaction I’d be absolutely humiliated. He should’ve told her from the start. She made the right decision to calm down first
Veah has the audacity to raise his voice at sunny as if she has done nothing wrong. Didn’t apologise at all. Think she secretly wants to patch back with Rory and is bringing him to trigger jealousy and making the 2 guys fight for her. She must be texting Rory in front of Sunny, leading to him snatching her phone and saw the pic. Never like her, she has weird vibes. 😵💫
That “now you actin up” got me so dead 😂😂
😂 He was LIVID!
Niles should’ve told her before he came. At least she wouldn’t have to break the news to her family. I feel of SUNNY, he deserves someone that actually loves him
15:05 see I was rooting for Matilda and then I see this so she knew that he wanted to wait but yet she still continue to tell him she wants the wedding by the end of the trip see I can’t get down with that and I cannot feel bad for her!
I'm so glad someone else saw that! He definitely let her know that they should wait, especially because they don't know each other. You have to spend time with people. He didn't even know she had anger issues before her brother let him know!
She's so desperate...geeez
She doesn’t even apologize !!!!
Matilda is gorgeous ❤
I think they are both in the wrong. Niles obviously has his reservations about jumping into marriage with someone he hasn't really spent time with or knows very well, and Maltilda is desperate to get married and has probably bragged abut it to family and friends. Niles should have been very clear once they were getting serious and insisted on them getting to know each other better. Long distance relationship is hard work especially if there are cultural differences. They both need time to know and understand each other to a certain degree of comfort before jumping into marriage. As someone who has been in maltida's shoes before, my now husband insisted we spent time together before tying the knot even after dating for 2 1/2 years long distance. Even after getting married and relocating to be with Him, there was a lot we both had to learn and unlearn about ourselves since we were now living together as a couple. Maltida needs to calm down and not let desperation influence rational thinking, Niles needs to learn to speak up, be confident and stand by his words.
I am a junguian therapist and I simply loooove your inputs, Melícia. You are an amazing and wise mentor for all this new generation. "Big hug" (abração) from Brazil 🇧🇷
She already invited a zillion people to this wedding. And Sunny reaction is exactly right. Misery!!!
I actually think miles is extra careless to play with Matilda emotions like that. Didn’t tell her firmly not to plan the wedding before he came, proposed to her and make it so sweet to keep her hopes high. It’s cruel when he blindside her with the bad news at the peak of her happiness. It’s so uncalled for and could have been avoided if he’s not so wishy washy about it. Dont propose if you don’t wanan get married soon , or make it clear. He’s horrible. 😑
Good for pointing out that Matilda did know he was talking about longer engagement and that it was still wrong for him to not make a point to clearly communicate and yet communication impairment is the largest part of an autism diagnosis so marrying someone with autism with communication impairments can be so dysfunctional.
Oh, she definitely has been bragging about the wedding to her friends and family. She is determined to marry him ASAP..he should have definitely told her it would not happen in this trip though🤔🤷🏾♀️
Niles should have been honest for sure..
He proposed to her in the daytime will you marry me
then at night time .. we not getting married yet :D
i think Niles is lacking $ waiting for that $$$$$$$ from the show to flow in
Right? She not telling him what the freaking bride price is and telling him things on the list that he has to get everyone one of them being a suitcase? Jewelry all kinds of crap and he never said he was going to marry her on this trip plus he can say he wants some of his family there. I think she just wants to do it quickly before his family talk him out of it. I’m sorry, but she was even jumping on him the first night give me a Break.
@@gram1976exactly, she’s in a hurry
Matilda does not mean it. It's an expression of how so bad she feels .
I love your recaps !!
He should have said he’s not ready from the very beginning. As a fellow African, the disgrace is not the type you come back from that easily
"Not this next one" *side eye* lmao melicia! 😅
You blaming Sunny is bullshit lol
Matilda is selfish she I haven’t heard her ask about how he felt about being alone or about his parents being there for the wedding like she thought it was about her and that’s it ..
Exactly. I don't even know what he sees in that illiterate. She reeks of desperation, and had anger issues.
Mstilda, be patience this a good guy
Im sorry i totally disagree with what she did to sunny. She should have never even asked her ex to travel in first place and she should have been honest since she did..BUUUTT the way sunny snatched her phone from her and is cursing her out her name is also unnecessary. Thats a little bit of a red flag too
Right!! Like he really said “go f yourself” to the girl he claims he loves
Love these recaps! The host feels like a bestie
Niles ; We needs some more time....
Matilda; WERE GONNA HAVE OUR WEDDING , YOU WILL NOT DISAPPOINT ME.
PERIODT!
He needed some to guide him through moments like this. His processing issues are off right now
In my humble opinion I think Matilda is too much him 😂😂
Suni’s unibrow though…
WTF would you invite your ex? Sunny has beautiful eyes
OMG girl, that was hilarious 😂
She just wanted the card. 5 years and couldn't tell her he was blinde. You didn't care for her chickens . This whole season is 🎉 on one.
I don’t think you Americans are getting Matilda, as a Nigerian that marriage is a very important thing, you can’t tell your family the wedding has been shifted like that it will make the man look like he’s not serious with her I will be so embarrassed myself. He should have just told her before even coming to Ghana. And I feel she loves him a lot because no offense Niles doesn’t look like he has a lot of money in the first place there are richer people in Africa so please stop thinking that every one wants to use you cus you’re American 😂 this is 2024 please
Melicia is born for this job 🤣🤣
I’d feel like dying too considering she has an African family
They should date first you can’t just expect him to marry you like that
I really feel bad for Niles. I could relate because I have an Autistic daughter.
You can Matilda loves him and just wants to be a good wife. Marriage is huge in other countries
Lol 😂Is there someone on here looking for ❤ Let’s get 🎉 started.
Are you serious
What man in their right mind would be ok with his woman traveling across the world with her ex? I don't know a single one.
No way, the way Sonny immediately dissolved into the cursing and verbal abuse; no. She did wrong but the way he acted was a huge red flag, she should honestly just go home and forget about him. Verbal abuse is still abuse.
You make these episodes so much more funnier ❤good laughs
As for Matilda, can't really blame her since Niles didn't say anything when they were talking on the phone about the wedding. He should've just told her before anything, I understand how embarrassed she is to that 200 people.
I love Matilda she's gorgeous
But Matilda needs to understand he is authentic so u cant force him
What was the purpose of them getting engaged if he’s not ready to get married?
She is trying to blame him and make him seems like he is wrong and have an extreme behavior !!!!she is crazy!!!!
Why do these people always keep there “exs as friends or besties” like wtf🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ wtf where you expecting some dudes would explode you expect him to laugh over it and congratulate you guys??? Mehn you two was so cool why then did you break up
I feel sorry for Niles He in over his Head and Completely don't know what he doing ...Because he is Artistic
The sad part is that there’s actually people like Niles digging themselves into their own holes all because they can’t be honest
She is Going to lose face in her town. The whole family will be embarrassed. He kept saying yes to everything she said. What a cluster sex.
If she had told him about her ex being there in his country, he probably would have tossed her in the water 😂🤷🏾♀️ yeah she was wrong for keeping that man in the dark about her ex being there
Any man will be mad when his girl brings out her ex with her on their first meeting.. . I mean, she could bring one of her girl friends if she's not comfortable travelling on a different country to meet his boyfriend, I could never understand her reasons. Bringing your ex is a terrible thing to do to the person you are with, plus a big insult
Matilda is not wrong, there is a cultural difference, African engagements are quick precisely because a broken engagement is considered so shameful. What he is says is literally the most embarrassing thing that could actually happen in her situation her people will most definitely be laughing at her
Niles gotta tightened up. This is a bad tone to set in a relationship.
Matilda is cute.
Yoh!! Niles has just made this girl into a complete joke. A broken engagement is a massive taboo. There is no postponement in Africa, people dont take breaks in relationships. Its either you are or you are not, none of this western mental gymnastics. Matilda is now a "marked woman"
She is to blame.
😂 and Sunny is just getting to know each other and it’s weird how he’s acting give a person a chance it’s weird. It’s definitely a red flag.
Matilda was doing the planning all by herself all this time. Sincerely, I would not want to marry someone after seeing them for the first time. Postponing the wedding is not a bad thing. If they wait for the perfect time the marriage will last a lifetime. A wedding is for a day, a marriage is for a lifetime. Slow down Matilda and enjoy the relationship. I am still rooting for Matilda and Niles relationship 💐
Team Sunny. Veah was craaaazy tone deaf for the stunt she pulled. Ex boyfriend new exactly what he was doing.
Bless his heart
People will laugh at you who are those people.. my sister do the writing. And forget about what people will said
I would feel like imma die too. 200 towns people judging or laughing at you for dreaming up a wedding with an American. She is going to be the town clown for the next 3 months at least 😢
Africans are dramatic 😂. She just means she's so sad
He waited way too long to tell her
I wondered the same thing about her purse…
this is the first recap tbat I've watched on ET. I actually enjoyed this one. the lady doing the recap has a nice voice and she smoothly guided us through the shit show that happened several times during this episode. I feel like the producers kind of hurried along Sunny finding out that Veah brought her ex boyfriend. you know how they like to be messy.
Can I get the name of your hair stylist? Your hair and commentary are always fire!
Seems like you want to hate matilda so bad 🙄
Right!
😂🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️ sunny is showing his real self. He has a temper and he seems like a narcissist undercover but I think that she should just move onto to somebody else or just go back to her ex because he seems crazy.
I like Matilda and how hard she works for her family, but I've said all along that she would freak out with no wedding at this time. She has an agenda.
I love Melicia 😊
Me too ❤