While I am still getting myself at 27 cuz life is hard and price of living is crazy, I still try to find a connection. And I would like someone who will grow with me and help become a better version of myself
first and foremost develop a sense of morals, discipline, DEEPLY ROOTED CONFIDENCE AND SELF LOVE first to be able to handle a woman, then GO OUT and find one and put yourself out there bc i guarantee it aint coming to your doorstep. if thats what you want go get it but develop self love and confidence, truly, before you hop into any relationship.
I disagree, but I can respect why 90% of dudes give the same advice reggie gives. Not every woman is that way. Some women still want to be true supporters for your growth
I don’t agree with what the dude in the video was talking about but as single can talk about a wife because men choose who gets in relationships and who gets married. That’s why. If I wanted to catch fish do I ask the fish or the fisherman
So a woman can freeload instead of working together even when you do have your life together, including investing as well . What the point of adding women to your life 9/10 hell go brake loose sometimes even the good 1 do yu wrong smfh can't win 4 nun
Reggie, I damn near unsubscribed. Your generalization that women in their early 20's aren't interested in making money is VERY dated. More women, especially women of color are enrolling in college more than ever. Please touch some grass.
A lot of women of color are enrolled in college but most don’t graduate. Most women of color…..black women are baby mamas. They graduate with student loan debt and the debt that comes with being a single parent. The most enrolled doesn’t mean the most to graduate. Even with all these black women in college men still make more money. This generation of women does seem to be lazy a lot of them will gladly sit on their asses if they find a man dumb enough to let them do so.
One thing about that tho, It Doesn't Matter! Why you ask, because most women want to have a man that pays the bills even with college degrees and their own jobs. I've only met a handful of women who would rather live life 50/50 LBFFR
@@killahroundz457 you’re making the mistake of thinking who you’ve encountered is the complete rule 😂. No shade, it’s a common thing that happens among ppl today. They tend to think what they see is the end all be all and can’t accept that they are just one person seeing a minute fraction of what’s out there. You’d be better off saying most women YOU’VE encountered. To say most women blah blah blah. And why is because you’ve met blah blah blah is disingenuous at best and the drivel of a self centered individual at worse. A great and personal example. I could say most men are gRapists or potential ones due to most of the men I’ve encountered having those tendencies or being actual perpetrators. However, I’m aware enough to know the men I’ve encountered are a small amount compared to men at large. Therefore, even with my encounters, I understand I can’t make a sweeping generalization based off what I’ve seen. It’s really simple and requires some humility
@@Januaryjenkins but based on the 1st paragraph (as far as I went) this isn't just through my personal experience and this is just a majority thing ,let's be real you check the stats and surveys only 3% of men in America have attempted or completed rape while on the other hand 3 years ago Forbes did a study on bills and married couples and 72% of women believe that he should pay the bills . Which there is nothing wrong with that btw no shade on nobody
"women don't have a sense of money" uhh...we have to do some of the same things y'all have to do, i.e. pay bills, invest, build some type of career (if that's what we want), not all of us are stupid kids...come on now
Reggie is right. we are not Barbara the builders. no woman is looking to "build with you." don't look for a relationship if you're not completely stable already. like he said, it just creates relationship issues. life is hard when youre broke. women, relationships in general, are expensive, why are you trying to make it more hard on yourself? if you two paychecks away from being homeless why are you looking for a woman? on top of that, you'll constantly feel and be emasculated to repeatedly fail to take care of/give your girl the world and you'll come to resent her. whether you realize that or not. just don't lmao
"Green" = new/naive I think "Green" usually refers to how knowledgeable you are in what's discussed. Like, if I've never cooked before, I'm "green" in the cooking field.
When you get married God comes first and your spouse comes second. I would never recommend getting married before the age of 30. Secondly before you get married make sure you know what the Bible says about marriage because according to the Bible once you get married you are bound until DEATH. There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Divorce is a sin. Secondly biblical the wife is not commanded to work (but she can if she so chooses, I believe women should work)….the husband is. Marriage is hard. Most ppl aren’t capable of doing it…..even the Bible says this. Most people are not faithful, most ppl are not marriage material. FAST AND PRAY before you get married to prevent you from marrying the wrong person. Seek first the kingdom of God or else you are doomed to fail. If you are incapable of being monogamous or simply don’t desire to be STAY SINGLE.
If you have all the things that you need and desire, what can a woman do to add to it? Going to leave that as an open question, cause it has been some gymnastics turning the question into something that overlooks the building the relationship. I can understand needing to be grounded first, but the relationship also needs its own foundation. People really just need to let others life experience, be their life experience and learn to be themselves.
when bro said green I instantly went to "industry" sayings lol im like ahhh ok if you dont want a woman thats too NEW to the game. I could be completely wrong though. Im getting old too
I think when he said GREEN he means NEW like the old phrases: you have a green horn, greenie, or you're still wet behind the ears, the type of stuff older folks use to say to the younglings.
While I am still getting myself at 27 cuz life is hard and price of living is crazy, I still try to find a connection. And I would like someone who will grow with me and help become a better version of myself
Same bro
first and foremost develop a sense of morals, discipline, DEEPLY ROOTED CONFIDENCE AND SELF LOVE first to be able to handle a woman, then GO OUT and find one and put yourself out there bc i guarantee it aint coming to your doorstep. if thats what you want go get it but develop self love and confidence, truly, before you hop into any relationship.
I disagree, but I can respect why 90% of dudes give the same advice reggie gives. Not every woman is that way. Some women still want to be true supporters for your growth
A true wife adds to the equation in everyway. If your quality of life goes down because you choose a dragon, then you picked the wrong woman.
How are all these single dudes making videos on how to get a wife, let alone a gf.
Red flags guys....
I don’t agree with what the dude in the video was talking about but as single can talk about a wife because men choose who gets in relationships and who gets married. That’s why. If I wanted to catch fish do I ask the fish or the fisherman
So a woman can freeload instead of working together even when you do have your life together, including investing as well . What the point of adding women to your life 9/10 hell go brake loose sometimes even the good 1 do yu wrong smfh can't win 4 nun
Reggie, I damn near unsubscribed. Your generalization that women in their early 20's aren't interested in making money is VERY dated. More women, especially women of color are enrolling in college more than ever. Please touch some grass.
A lot of women of color are enrolled in college but most don’t graduate. Most women of color…..black women are baby mamas. They graduate with student loan debt and the debt that comes with being a single parent. The most enrolled doesn’t mean the most to graduate. Even with all these black women in college men still make more money. This generation of women does seem to be lazy a lot of them will gladly sit on their asses if they find a man dumb enough to let them do so.
One thing about that tho, It Doesn't Matter! Why you ask, because most women want to have a man that pays the bills even with college degrees and their own jobs. I've only met a handful of women who would rather live life 50/50 LBFFR
@@killahroundz457 you’re making the mistake of thinking who you’ve encountered is the complete rule 😂. No shade, it’s a common thing that happens among ppl today. They tend to think what they see is the end all be all and can’t accept that they are just one person seeing a minute fraction of what’s out there. You’d be better off saying most women YOU’VE encountered. To say most women blah blah blah. And why is because you’ve met blah blah blah is disingenuous at best and the drivel of a self centered individual at worse.
A great and personal example. I could say most men are gRapists or potential ones due to most of the men I’ve encountered having those tendencies or being actual perpetrators. However, I’m aware enough to know the men I’ve encountered are a small amount compared to men at large. Therefore, even with my encounters, I understand I can’t make a sweeping generalization based off what I’ve seen. It’s really simple and requires some humility
@@Januaryjenkins ain't gon lie that's too damn long too read so I'm sorry that happened or I'm happy that to you
(This is a joke)
@@Januaryjenkins but based on the 1st paragraph (as far as I went) this isn't just through my personal experience and this is just a majority thing ,let's be real you check the stats and surveys only 3% of men in America have attempted or completed rape while on the other hand 3 years ago Forbes did a study on bills and married couples and 72% of women believe that he should pay the bills . Which there is nothing wrong with that btw no shade on nobody
As a person who’s almost 40 Reggie gave completely sound advice. Idk what the hell the dude in the original video was talking about though 😂😂
Respectfully, I didn’t know you was on this level in mindset
"women don't have a sense of money" uhh...we have to do some of the same things y'all have to do, i.e. pay bills, invest, build some type of career (if that's what we want), not all of us are stupid kids...come on now
Reggie is right. we are not Barbara the builders. no woman is looking to "build with you." don't look for a relationship if you're not completely stable already.
like he said, it just creates relationship issues. life is hard when youre broke. women, relationships in general, are expensive, why are you trying to make it more hard on yourself? if you two paychecks away from being homeless why are you looking for a woman?
on top of that, you'll constantly feel and be emasculated to repeatedly fail to take care of/give your girl the world and you'll come to resent her. whether you realize that or not. just don't lmao
"Green" = new/naive
I think "Green" usually refers to how knowledgeable you are in what's discussed. Like, if I've never cooked before, I'm "green" in the cooking field.
also please understand your mental health as well...
When you get married God comes first and your spouse comes second. I would never recommend getting married before the age of 30. Secondly before you get married make sure you know what the Bible says about marriage because according to the Bible once you get married you are bound until DEATH. There are no biblical grounds for divorce. Divorce is a sin. Secondly biblical the wife is not commanded to work (but she can if she so chooses, I believe women should work)….the husband is. Marriage is hard. Most ppl aren’t capable of doing it…..even the Bible says this. Most people are not faithful, most ppl are not marriage material. FAST AND PRAY before you get married to prevent you from marrying the wrong person. Seek first the kingdom of God or else you are doomed to fail. If you are incapable of being monogamous or simply don’t desire to be STAY SINGLE.
Adultery is biblical grounds for divorce.
Yeah you jumped out the window with this. This ain’t it.
If you have all the things that you need and desire, what can a woman do to add to it?
Going to leave that as an open question, cause it has been some gymnastics turning the question into something that overlooks the building the relationship.
I can understand needing to be grounded first, but the relationship also needs its own foundation.
People really just need to let others life experience, be their life experience and learn to be themselves.
when bro said green I instantly went to "industry" sayings lol im like ahhh ok if you dont want a woman thats too NEW to the game. I could be completely wrong though. Im getting old too
I think when he said GREEN he means NEW like the old phrases: you have a green horn, greenie, or you're still wet behind the ears, the type of stuff older folks use to say to the younglings.
@@blackrex828 ok, good we all on the same page then. Lol
Like your reaction videos because your point of view is relatable.
Had to comment much love n respect to reggie was well needed 1ove
Great video much love ❤️
Yo what's with mans in the second vid like where did he get the number 4% of good women out there? I always find these type of guys weird.
Your facial expressions on “built together” 😂😂😂😂
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