He later said when they got divorced that him and his wife got along better than ever. Which I HAVE hear from multiple people. Sometimes it’s just the two adults living together that causes 99% of the anger.
I'm almost 40, married almost 10 years, two kids in early elementary school. I can't relate to everything in this segment, but some of it is definitely representative of how my marriage feels in its darker moments (which, thank f*ck, ebb and flow.) It's both comforting and sad to hear and read that so many others' experiences are similar to mine.
i think louis baby-momma was prolly more "feminist" than the rest, slightly more "sane" women. that whole thing about him paying all the bills being "tabu", like wtf. Never east coast feminist women for baby mommas, or youll get this shit
Being honest with yourself is refreshing. Being honest to the whole world about your marriage and private life is disrespectful to your spouse. But what can you expect in the age of social media and Narcissism.
8:20 I love how he says that it's not for the kids' good, it's just because he selfishly likes to be with his kids x) not all parents will honesty admit that
My marriage literally almost killed me. I had a complete breakdown and OD'd. As strange as it may be my marriage ending was the single healthiest thing that has ever happened to me. It financially ruined me and I got to go through this all while watching her profit from me but as time went on things got better for me. Now I'm in the best shape of my life and I have learned what truly matters to me. I no longer have any interest in chasing material nonsense and I honestly enjoy living a more minimalistic lifestyle. Meanwhile my ex is still fully caught up in the chase for things. I'm 3 years older than her but you'd never tell. I'm told on a regular basis that I look at least 10 years younger than I really am and I am often asked to show my license to prove my age. People just don't believe it. But my ex is the complete opposite. You'd look at her and think she is 10 years older than she really is. But I'm at a place where I honestly feel indifference towards her. I just do not care if she is good nor do I care if she is bad. It's a non-issue for me. The ONLY part of me that wants to see her well is the part that remembers that she is my children's mother and I want them to have her around as long as possible. My kids are the ONLY thing that has gotten me this far and some days they have been the only reason I could come up with to get out of bed and deal with the world.
That feeling of all that weight being lifted off of you never goes away. Its what I imagine a climbers feels after reaching the peak of a dangerous mountain. Never would have guessed I’d be grateful to be driven to the brink by someone I loved with all my heart. I know whats truly important now thanks to that pain and the amount of space it left behind for me to grow.
@@daakrolb It's not so much that she is unpleasant but she and I just became VERY different people and therefor completely incompatible. We were young when we started dating and really had no idea what we wanted or who we were as people. As we each figured this out we just began walking different paths that lead in completely different directions. It's like we arrived at a fork in the road and she went left while I went right. And I know this makes me a bad person but frankly she just isn't a smart person. I thought it was cute when we were younger but as time when by and so many dumb things came from her I knew intellectually we were on completely different levels. But I chose not to let this person define me either while married of afterwards.
Fucking love Louis and this is not my place at all but i kept thinking of how i would felt hearing those things about my mother from my father...FUNNY AF AS ALWAYS
I'm pretty sure it all would make sense. Kids are very perceptive of emotion. You don't really see your parents as people initially. That'd be an adjustment.
If growing up in the 90's taught me anything it is that marriage is the worst thing you could do. It's a waste of money, time, and years you'll never get back.
@otherworldly feelings You say that like people can see in the future and know that the person they love then and now, will be the same person they hate much later in life. And signs? if you see signs like catching your partner fucking another person, or them never telling you they love you, or anything that could point to them not loving you to being with, then sure you're stupid for getting married, but that's not why most marriages fail, time is. Love/emotions are an unpredictable thing and there's no real telling to if it will or how long a marriage will last.
As someone who’s been in couples therapy and felt a lot of the same feelings as Louis, I can tell he held a lot of resentment and hurt that he never really processed with his wife. Even today, he sounds self-loathing and self-pitying at the same time, and who really wants to be around that? I love Louis’ comedy but he’s a sad, sad individual, and no one should seek to model their behavior after his.
Certainly not someone with a false heart, which is precisely why marriage is oft a farce. The responsibility is on the partner to seek a way to heal those wounds, not to stand back and watch their "eternal love" drown in their own nightmares in convenient self-preoccupation.
Yeah, women who've been indoctrinated into thinking they must all be financially independent or they're worthless even when their husbands bring in a killing at work.
@Vasilijan Nikolovski I don't understand how history has anything to do with it. A man could equally say they have been forced into bloody war as teenagers for all of history- but this has no bearing on conditions in the current day. As a separate point- I also think that reading history through the lens of female victimhood is total insanity and just a tactic of manipulation. Everyone had it rough in the past and the game of deciding whose terrible suffering was apparently 'worse' is pretty fucked up. Why can't we just observe the difficulties that everyone had in the past and be thankful for improvements we see today without making it a war between the sexes?
The fundamental reason its fucked up is that individuals suffer- not groups. The ways in which people suffer are so varied- that its absolutely certain that if you start conceptualising 'victimhood' through the lens of superficial identity you will do two things: cancel out genuine suffering that doesn't fit into the narrow category (which will be the vast majority of suffering), open the door for manipulative people to gain power through false victimisation. Many times in history the same thing has been done with the result that millions of people die. So yes, it makes me uncomfortable.
Divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me and to her, because I can honestly say I would have done something awful. I see on news about a spouces killing the other and I get it now. Louie says he has 8% less drive, when I was younger that sounds horrid, now at 45 divorced I welcome it. Young fellas you are all backed up now and want to get at it but they're comes a moment when that changes and you want quite more than anything.
It sounds like you are with the right person, someone you have a really strong connection with. It's like meeting best friends - it's like it was meant to be and you were supposed to meet this person, but it rarely happens. I think a failure of marriage is largely based on people choosing the wrong partners from the start and marrying for the wrong reasons. They settle for partners they know deep down they are not completely satisfied with. Their fear of being alone or fear that no one else will love them causes them to settle. Or they have an accidental pregnancy and try to stay together for the kids.
Being a divorced man who had a horrible break up I can say. It’s about caring which means when you care you argue and it’s just painful and frustrating. When you are divorced you dontcare anymore so arguments don’t even start because what’s the point.
This probably has to be one of the best endings ever. I mean I have no idea what that guy was about to say, but seemed to me like it was the perfect timing to cut away 😂
My parents didn’t get married. They didn’t want to deal with any horrible divorce if they ever wanted to break up. They’ve lived together happily for over 3 decades and had 3 kids.
11:49 It goes both ways. My youngest is 16 and I’m counting the months to graduation. The opposite isn’t of love isn’t hate - it’s ambivalence. When you truly get to that part, it really is over. I hear of couples who have so much hatred. I’m way over that. IDGAF anymore. So we’re cordial but live in different rooms. Way past couples therapy lol
@@sunnyblueskies6505 Peace is underrated. I think there are millions of men who've quietly checked out of 'society' and are living in a pleasant little groove between their work and hobbies. I was talking to a family friend who's a recently divorced (her idea) 49 year old mother of 3. She'd been living in the country but has just moved to the city mostly because she says the dating scene was completely dead. But she's found it's still dead. She can't figure out where the men are. She goes to yoga classes and painting classes etc hoping to meet a guy but it's just a bunch of single women like herself, all looking for a man. Online is likewise barren. She couldn't understand it. But once you've experienced peace you have no interest in their drama. I don't at least.
It's insane how opie can just take Louie's opinion right after he says it and think he's contributing. Opie says 5 things and it's all an echo of what Louie just said
Its perfect!! As if he was pulling feelings and scenarios straight from my brain 18 months ago. And his frustration with their ignorance couldn't be more on time in those moments. I stumbled on this when i was going through my shit and it helped me realize I wasn't crazy for having rhe same thoughts in thise exact moments. He's the world's most brilliant comic, and he feeling and thinks jist line a normal guy. That's why he'll always have a re-birth. He's relatable.
It is actually awful that people in the comments is talking so bad about Marriage ,when actually Everyone talk about own experiences.I think Marriage is wonderful ❤️ and it can make grow as a person, so don’t be so negative people!
Bruh! That was the realist conversation I've ever heard about marriage. Why the hell would any man want to get married in this social climate today. Smh
I don't doubt any of what he said for a single second, but if anyone cared to chime in, I have two scenarios where I see this not happening: 1) a woman who is getting up in years and is worried about remaining single (I can see her finding an older man who would take care of her, and not daring to mess up the good situation for her by causing friction), and 2) a religious marriage, where traditional behavior is the norm. I am not saying religious people don't have marriage problems, but it's so much less of what Louis is saying. Does anyone disagree? I'd be interested in hearing so if so.
Look at Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican marriages that began around the pre-90's. They are pretty much solid as a rock. Family focused traditional marriages.
@@xeropunt5749 No, I totally agree. Not just them. People from different backgrounds in general, but these people, in the United States, in today's generation, I believe suffer from the same problems as anyone else. I am referring to people of this generation - no matter their background. I think only religious families and families in which the woman is getting up there in years are mainly immune to this, or more than in other instances.
@@JoshLavian Yes, other backgrounds too. The religious minded do have more dedication & less alternative plans. The older, secular, women do have less alternatives & therefore more dedication...lol. Unfortunately true.
So obviously Louie's marriage stories make it sound miserable, but his stories about having kids make that sound like a blessing. I don't know what to make of this, just saying.
Like he said, if you're in love, get married and then get divorced because divorce is forever. So are kids unless they die or disappear for some awful reason.
Maybe that's why the therapist charged so much. Because he knows he's not gonna have repeat customers because his shitty advice is gonna split couples up faster than if they didn't go to therapy in the first place.
What made my relationship healthy was that after a big discussion we'd have good make up sex. Then my boyfriend got backsurgery (at 28 years old) and had to take painkillers, so the last 12 years sex was not so good as it used to be. It was never a reason for me to leave him, but sometimes I would just feel so pumped up, way too much energy, and he was so drugged all the time he had no idea. Our relationship turned into taking care of each other and worrying. We just broke up because the was no more passion. No kids Thank God
Your relationship was never going to work anyway and comparing that throwaway trash to a marriage is laughable. Imagine if that guy got MS or Parkinson’s. I’d never leave my wife due to her being on painkillers and “losing the passion”…what are you, in middle school? Good lord…
I think its more about the people. A miserable person will be miserable married or not. But that miserable person will shair the mesery to their spouse. Also, I think people feel that their mate should somehow solve their problems, instead of trying to figure out how to live their best life while being married, or not. But this is just my single dumbass viewing peoples relationships from the outside.
@@machinesandthings7121 Yeahhhhhhh that’s accurate. When marriage is literally acting like s bandaid to make one party feel better, it’s doomed to fail. Because the fear of losing it gets worse and worse and generates more anger and so on….
Thank God I never had kids. Never got married, and I believe its gonna stay that way. The sadness of being single is more tolerable than sleeping next to someone that won't fuck you making feel single.
Loving his kids more than his wife was his first mistake. Those kids wouldnt have been there if it wasnt for her. Even with children, you have to keep your significant other first. The children will see that and automatically benefit from that love.
But he's a stand up comic that goes on the road? Atleast he was before he made it big. It's hard for "date night" and all that stuff with 2 little kids and you're gone all the time. Marriage is rough. I'm on #2, but I spent 1998-2023 single and trying to get my s together. That's the 50% of it that most people don't consider
Damn. I've been in a horrible marriage and can relate to so much of this. But then I also found something way better so I can relate to the opposite of this too
I have zero desire to get married and highly doubt I could ever think enough of someone to love them enough to marry them. I am damaged beyond being fixed after the loss of my dog and over a decade of being terrorized. I also will NEVER work again unless I can work for a LIBERAL UNIVERSITY IN A JOB THAT DOES NOT INSULT MY INTELLIGENCE.
I’ve found the most successful relationships are usually when you’re the best looking guy your woman has ever been with. If you find some 30-something who’s been run through by a dozen dudes better looking than you, you’re always going to be seen as the guy she settled for instead of the guy she won. When you’re the latter, the sun rises and sets with you.
why would you take marriage advice from someone who hates being married and got a divorce? that’s like taking english lessons from someone who dropped out of grammar school.
I think there is value to hearing where things go wrong and how things fail. I have seen a lot of unrealistic advice from people who have really great marriages that are not representative of what most people see. You might want to take advice from a couple who had a successful marriage till death did they part, but maybe they never had one of those major disagreements that can end a relationship, like whether they wanted more or any kids, how much work should be prioritized over family obligations, what religion should the kid be raised in, etc. Additionally, divorce is not the worse thing that can happen to a marriage, living miserably for decades is.
As a man you are rolling a dice.. i sure hope MY WOMAN is not crazy... lets hope this one is nice, treats me well and is kind to me.. After the honeymoon period is over. Problem is most of they are miserable, depressing bat shit crazy.. Incabable of being happy on their own at all.. im sure there are good/happy women but good luck finding one.
It’s definitely possible, just don’t rush in to things with your partner. Wait til you know 100% that they’re someone you could spend the rest of your life with before you have kids with them.
3 years in, you should know whether they will be a decent wife. Before that, do not sign up to anything. Women can lie well, for a long time. I say that as a woman. 2/3 of my female friends are class A gold-diggers who had an exit plan before they even married. 90% of their husbands have no clue, 5% have a clue but convince themselves it's their own fault due to years of abuse, 5% are planning their own exit strategy.
Basically, enjoy the ride but don't commit to anything you can't easily walk away from until you've known them a long time (and long distance relationships even more so). If they turn out to be a gold-digger, you can cut and run with minimal impact. There's very little reason to marry anyway, so waiting a few years shouldn't be that difficult.
Only one other guy is a comedian in the room. This show is funny tho, look up Opie and Anthony, there are classic clips on here. Look for “Breaking Bobo’s Heart”
To me it looks like A. Louis is funny. B. It's his family and his emotional problems. If you roast someone on this kind of stuff to his face you kinda sound like a bully. C. Guys try to outbid him on nastiness and that's not the way. Louis gets a good balance here and they just seem to cut in and ruin his flow.
Louis has definitely mastered the art of describing things (especially dark/taboo things) in a funny way. He has definitely had a lot of practice doing it too. This is his arena baby
@@TIRK125 I also think it has something to do with the fact that the hosts really feel desperate to come from a position where they or their analog is simply correct, where Louis is willing to give up that position and paint a more nuanced picture. O&P are just mean and that is at the core of their appeal while Louis is miserable and angry but also gets some of that is on him and the situation is just bad for both of them. Louis is not just saying "my wife is a bitch" (which is the general tone of the hosts) he understands why she feels and acts the way she does in some way and is willing to take some blame for it. He talks about how watching the kids drives him insane and the only thing that saves him is the work and she has nothing like that. Overall I think a lot of Louis's humor comes from the fact that he is not the arbiter of the politically incorrect truth (like O&P want to be) he is a man being stepped on by life along with everyone else including his wife.
I have come to many understandings as a man and almost 10 year war vetran of the war known as marriage. Thank god a peace treaty was made and we know are going about our own business. I would not invade that country even with forces 1000 to 1. I have realized that young boys are taught to sacrifice, be of service and the list goes on. Many fathers teach their sons how to treat a women and many women train their sons on how to treat women. Daughters on the other hand are taught how to be adversarial to men, they don’t need no men and the list goes on and on. We wonder why realtionshits suck now. I remember I got a raise when i was married. I brought home 2/3 to 100% of the bacon during our marriage. She was not happy. Her comment was something to the fact that now i made substantial more money then her. How sad. I ain’t going back to that plantation.
Btw this was in 2007, they got divorced in 2008 lol
I wonder if his jacking off in front of other women was one of the reasons for the divorce
@@DR-qi3pv the voyeur jerker was like 10 years of being single.
2018, I think?
who would have thought that marriage that involved the saddest handjob in history would come to a premature end?
@@DR-qi3pv from his pov it’s all her. Idk about that. Can’t be all her.
He later said when they got divorced that him and his wife got along better than ever.
Which I HAVE hear from multiple people.
Sometimes it’s just the two adults living together that causes 99% of the anger.
I'm almost 40, married almost 10 years, two kids in early elementary school. I can't relate to everything in this segment, but some of it is definitely representative of how my marriage feels in its darker moments (which, thank f*ck, ebb and flow.) It's both comforting and sad to hear and read that so many others' experiences are similar to mine.
i think louis baby-momma was prolly more "feminist" than the rest, slightly more "sane" women. that whole thing about him paying all the bills being "tabu", like wtf. Never east coast feminist women for baby mommas, or youll get this shit
For sure. So much suffering when we thought we were unique.
I think the best reason would be to have kids. If you can't have kids, it wouldn't be worthwhile imo.
I wish Patrice Oneal was in this convo...
He will be missed
Why? He would trample all over the conversation with his barely coherent thoughts. You Patrice ball-washers are pathetic.
His level of honesty is so refreshing ♥
Being honest with yourself is refreshing. Being honest to the whole world about your marriage and private life is disrespectful to your spouse. But what can you expect in the age of social media and Narcissism.
@@rustneversleeps85 💯
@@rustneversleeps85 Lighten up. Very soon we will all cease to exist
10:58 Opie derails the best part of the conversation for two shitty phone calls
Legit one of the worst phone calls ever taken in the 20 yr history of the show.
He's like a comedy version of the Grim Reaper
8:20 I love how he says that it's not for the kids' good, it's just because he selfishly likes to be with his kids x) not all parents will honesty admit that
Universally true, but predominantly denied. We should remember that anytime we cast stones at others' deceit.
My marriage literally almost killed me. I had a complete breakdown and OD'd. As strange as it may be my marriage ending was the single healthiest thing that has ever happened to me. It financially ruined me and I got to go through this all while watching her profit from me but as time went on things got better for me. Now I'm in the best shape of my life and I have learned what truly matters to me. I no longer have any interest in chasing material nonsense and I honestly enjoy living a more minimalistic lifestyle. Meanwhile my ex is still fully caught up in the chase for things. I'm 3 years older than her but you'd never tell. I'm told on a regular basis that I look at least 10 years younger than I really am and I am often asked to show my license to prove my age. People just don't believe it. But my ex is the complete opposite. You'd look at her and think she is 10 years older than she really is. But I'm at a place where I honestly feel indifference towards her. I just do not care if she is good nor do I care if she is bad. It's a non-issue for me. The ONLY part of me that wants to see her well is the part that remembers that she is my children's mother and I want them to have her around as long as possible. My kids are the ONLY thing that has gotten me this far and some days they have been the only reason I could come up with to get out of bed and deal with the world.
Glad you are in a good place
That feeling of all that weight being lifted off of you never goes away. Its what I imagine a climbers feels after reaching the peak of a dangerous mountain. Never would have guessed I’d be grateful to be driven to the brink by someone I loved with all my heart. I know whats truly important now thanks to that pain and the amount of space it left behind for me to grow.
You’re a good man
Good for you man. I feel feminism has ruined so many women. Was yours just not pleasant most of the time?
@@daakrolb It's not so much that she is unpleasant but she and I just became VERY different people and therefor completely incompatible. We were young when we started dating and really had no idea what we wanted or who we were as people. As we each figured this out we just began walking different paths that lead in completely different directions. It's like we arrived at a fork in the road and she went left while I went right. And I know this makes me a bad person but frankly she just isn't a smart person. I thought it was cute when we were younger but as time when by and so many dumb things came from her I knew intellectually we were on completely different levels. But I chose not to let this person define me either while married of afterwards.
his kids are listening to this and their minds are spinning. being famous is hard.
Think you’re right 👍
I wanna see the reaction of Louis ck daughters to this when they're older lol
The house of Chaos this comment I made isn't in regards to the new story of his sexual misconduct. Loneliness doesn't excuse anything regardless.
Fucking love Louis and this is not my place at all but i kept thinking of how i would felt hearing those things about my mother from my father...FUNNY AF AS ALWAYS
@@alexmoum1337 How about...how would you feel hearing about YOURSELF from the mouth of your enemy...with no chance to present your case?
@@SelfReflective that must suuuuck dick!!!
I'm pretty sure it all would make sense. Kids are very perceptive of emotion. You don't really see your parents as people initially. That'd be an adjustment.
If you're having problems in your marriage, Opie and Anthony are the right people to get good advice.
If you’re married you already ignored the good advice. Might as well come here for a chuckle!
😂😂😂
bwahahahaha
@@TheRealDebussyFarts 🤣🤣 good one!!
If growing up in the 90's taught me anything it is that marriage is the worst thing you could do. It's a waste of money, time, and years you'll never get back.
@otherworldly feelings You say that like people can see in the future and know that the person they love then and now, will be the same person they hate much later in life. And signs? if you see signs like catching your partner fucking another person, or them never telling you they love you, or anything that could point to them not loving you to being with, then sure you're stupid for getting married, but that's not why most marriages fail, time is. Love/emotions are an unpredictable thing and there's no real telling to if it will or how long a marriage will last.
Saul Goodman statistically speaking you CAN predict it will go to shit.
Marriage and sex with a psycho
As someone who’s been in couples therapy and felt a lot of the same feelings as Louis, I can tell he held a lot of resentment and hurt that he never really processed with his wife. Even today, he sounds self-loathing and self-pitying at the same time, and who really wants to be around that? I love Louis’ comedy but he’s a sad, sad individual, and no one should seek to model their behavior after his.
Certainly not someone with a false heart, which is precisely why marriage is oft a farce. The responsibility is on the partner to seek a way to heal those wounds, not to stand back and watch their "eternal love" drown in their own nightmares in convenient self-preoccupation.
I listen to this every time I consider starting a relationship.
I Support Louis CK, bring him back
He has a new special you can buy
Lucas Kambeitz And it’s fucking hilarious; one of his best specials ever
By 09 he changed his mind. Got divorced. Realized u should not stay together for the kids
Women get resentful and freaked out if they are so dependent and financially dependent on a guy.
Yeah, women who've been indoctrinated into thinking they must all be financially independent or they're worthless even when their husbands bring in a killing at work.
@Vasilijan Nikolovski I don't understand how history has anything to do with it. A man could equally say they have been forced into bloody war as teenagers for all of history- but this has no bearing on conditions in the current day. As a separate point- I also think that reading history through the lens of female victimhood is total insanity and just a tactic of manipulation. Everyone had it rough in the past and the game of deciding whose terrible suffering was apparently 'worse' is pretty fucked up. Why can't we just observe the difficulties that everyone had in the past and be thankful for improvements we see today without making it a war between the sexes?
The fundamental reason its fucked up is that individuals suffer- not groups. The ways in which people suffer are so varied- that its absolutely certain that if you start conceptualising 'victimhood' through the lens of superficial identity you will do two things: cancel out genuine suffering that doesn't fit into the narrow category (which will be the vast majority of suffering), open the door for manipulative people to gain power through false victimisation.
Many times in history the same thing has been done with the result that millions of people die. So yes, it makes me uncomfortable.
@Vasilijan Nikolovski Not to be rude, but you sound like a gay man.
Their bubble shifts indiscriminately
I appreciate the second caller's use of the phrase "cock custard"
Marriage sounds like a freaking nightmare
it is
Can confirm. It is awful. Do not get married in western legal framework. Every marriage comes to this point because once your married women own you.
Jeremy Weishaar
Unfortunately you're exactly right.
It's worse than a fuckin nightmare! You get to wake up from a nightmare!
*his marriage
Curb your Enthusiasm may have stolen from this clip, when Larry's therapist drops hints about his other clients but the hints clearly tell who it is.
I had a client who frequented prostitutes , I don't want to mention his name but he did direct Star wars. Hilarious
This was hillarious and depressing. I'm laughing but I want to slash my veins.
Good
Divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me and to her, because I can honestly say I would have done something awful. I see on news about a spouces killing the other and I get it now. Louie says he has 8% less drive, when I was younger that sounds horrid, now at 45 divorced I welcome it. Young fellas you are all backed up now and want to get at it but they're comes a moment when that changes and you want quite more than anything.
Damn, I’ve been with my girl for 30 years, and I still can’t wait to see her!
Sorry all
That’s beautiful, man. Sounds like you two put the work in.
It sounds like you are with the right person, someone you have a really strong connection with. It's like meeting best friends - it's like it was meant to be and you were supposed to meet this person, but it rarely happens. I think a failure of marriage is largely based on people choosing the wrong partners from the start and marrying for the wrong reasons. They settle for partners they know deep down they are not completely satisfied with. Their fear of being alone or fear that no one else will love them causes them to settle. Or they have an accidental pregnancy and try to stay together for the kids.
Lucky bastard! 🤣
Rare
I’m sure the other guys say that about your girl too!
Being a divorced man who had a horrible break up I can say. It’s about caring which means when you care you argue and it’s just painful and frustrating. When you are divorced you dontcare anymore so arguments don’t even start because what’s the point.
Truth. My women is just too stupid to get it.
This probably has to be one of the best endings ever. I mean I have no idea what that guy was about to say, but seemed to me like it was the perfect timing to cut away 😂
My parents didn’t get married.
They didn’t want to deal with any horrible divorce if they ever wanted to break up.
They’ve lived together happily for over 3 decades and had 3 kids.
that's marriage
That’s a common law marriage
This can be so true. Not always but I've experienced this exactly.
So sad that my life too without his money fame and talent
Get out of your marriages boys
When he said "we've learnt that we are trapped and it's not our fault" I had a little giggle.
It's ABSOLUTELY your fault
11:49 It goes both ways. My youngest is 16 and I’m counting the months to graduation. The opposite isn’t of love isn’t hate - it’s ambivalence. When you truly get to that part, it really is over. I hear of couples who have so much hatred. I’m way over that. IDGAF anymore. So we’re cordial but live in different rooms. Way past couples therapy lol
How’s it going now?
@@enricopallazzo3244 - We are now divorced.
@@sunnyblueskies6505 Better or worse now?
@@enricopallazzo3244 The best - my life is so good now. I am finally at peace. 😊
@@sunnyblueskies6505 Peace is underrated. I think there are millions of men who've quietly checked out of 'society' and are living in a pleasant little groove between their work and hobbies. I was talking to a family friend who's a recently divorced (her idea) 49 year old mother of 3. She'd been living in the country but has just moved to the city mostly because she says the dating scene was completely dead. But she's found it's still dead. She can't figure out where the men are. She goes to yoga classes and painting classes etc hoping to meet a guy but it's just a bunch of single women like herself, all looking for a man. Online is likewise barren. She couldn't understand it. But once you've experienced peace you have no interest in their drama. I don't at least.
It's insane how opie can just take Louie's opinion right after he says it and think he's contributing. Opie says 5 things and it's all an echo of what Louie just said
This is depressing.
Its perfect!!
As if he was pulling feelings and scenarios straight from my brain 18 months ago.
And his frustration with their ignorance couldn't be more on time in those moments.
I stumbled on this when i was going through my shit and it helped me realize I wasn't crazy for having rhe same thoughts in thise exact moments.
He's the world's most brilliant comic, and he feeling and thinks jist line a normal guy. That's why he'll always have a re-birth.
He's relatable.
Yes few people R here to help us men...we tend to suffer in silence.
It is actually awful that people in the comments is talking so bad about Marriage ,when actually Everyone talk about own experiences.I think Marriage is wonderful ❤️ and it can make grow as a person, so don’t be so negative people!
No, everyone in the comments is correct. Marriage IS fucked. Stop lying to yourself and others.
You’re delusional
Bruh! That was the realist conversation I've ever heard about marriage. Why the hell would any man want to get married in this social climate today. Smh
Spot on. TOO RISKY
I'd much rather be single and wish I was married than married and wish I was single
That’s actually a great line.
Next, you should do one about dating w/ Bill Cosby clips.
I have plenty experience in what louie talks about. At the end of all that disaster when everything is clear; you realize it was so simple
He's lucky he didn't end up like Phil Hartman.
That still makes me sad. Insane woman ruined so many lives.
Rough. But as a marriage, better than most.
That random S in the title"triggers" me lol
Well this was just so inspiring
Love the honesty of Louis CK !! Majority of marriages are like this that’s for sure.
Why was this re-uploaded?
Do not get married if you are happy with that person. JS.
Sound advice
@@bucketofsteam9260my brother in law said “they must put something in the wedding cake. They change.”
Couples therapy doesn't work
They use it against you in court later
lol no way, that's crazy
Maybe it doesn't work to make things better, but it does to make you figure out what's wrong ?
Well, it works for things you don't like.
Really know the person you are marrying before you commit.
I don't doubt any of what he said for a single second, but if anyone cared to chime in, I have two scenarios where I see this not happening: 1) a woman who is getting up in years and is worried about remaining single (I can see her finding an older man who would take care of her, and not daring to mess up the good situation for her by causing friction), and 2) a religious marriage, where traditional behavior is the norm. I am not saying religious people don't have marriage problems, but it's so much less of what Louis is saying. Does anyone disagree? I'd be interested in hearing so if so.
Look at Indian, Chinese, Japanese, Mexican marriages that began around the pre-90's. They are pretty much solid as a rock. Family focused traditional marriages.
@@xeropunt5749 No, I totally agree. Not just them. People from different backgrounds in general, but these people, in the United States, in today's generation, I believe suffer from the same problems as anyone else. I am referring to people of this generation - no matter their background. I think only religious families and families in which the woman is getting up there in years are mainly immune to this, or more than in other instances.
@@JoshLavian
Yes, other backgrounds too. The religious minded do have more dedication & less alternative plans. The older, secular, women do have less alternatives & therefore more dedication...lol. Unfortunately true.
So obviously Louie's marriage stories make it sound miserable, but his stories about having kids make that sound like a blessing. I don't know what to make of this, just saying.
Like he said, if you're in love, get married and then get divorced because divorce is forever. So are kids unless they die or disappear for some awful reason.
hes just in a toxic relationship and thats the only good part. having kids is a nightmare
They weren’t teenagers yet when he gave this interview.
If you can afford them otherwise its hell
Why don’t ya toot in this for a few minutes 😂
So messed up, depressing, and hilarious XD
Maybe that's why the therapist charged so much. Because he knows he's not gonna have repeat customers because his shitty advice is gonna split couples up faster than if they didn't go to therapy in the first place.
The very last part.
That last part... wished the would have cut it before that 😟
Yeah they could have cut that. Leave it to Norton to take us there
the end hahahahah
Kids boutta listen to this
What made my relationship healthy was that after a big discussion we'd have good make up sex. Then my boyfriend got backsurgery (at 28 years old) and had to take painkillers, so the last 12 years sex was not so good as it used to be. It was never a reason for me to leave him, but sometimes I would just feel so pumped up, way too much energy, and he was so drugged all the time he had no idea. Our relationship turned into taking care of each other and worrying. We just broke up because the was no more passion. No kids Thank God
Yeah god forbid you might have to put YOUR back into it...
Christ women are useless...
Don’t get married if you’re counting on good sex forever
Your relationship was never going to work anyway and comparing that throwaway trash to a marriage is laughable. Imagine if that guy got MS or Parkinson’s. I’d never leave my wife due to her being on painkillers and “losing the passion”…what are you, in middle school?
Good lord…
@@kevinc8955 I was faithful to him for 15 years and he left me actually. I was heartbroken
@@kevinc8955 yeah, it's shocking to see adults being so shallow.
I would love to call this show and get roasted for sounding dumb lol
Yo this is an old video but do u jus not care tht there’s an S in ur thumbnail 😂
Truth is most women never grow up even though they do physically. Emotionally so many are still children.
Women have child brains so they can raise the children.
Your thumbnail title looks like it was designed by an robot
Joel Segner What is being married S like?
a robot
Marriage is a roll of a dice by the gods.
It’s either gonna be an awesome partnership where you like each other forever.
Or…… it’s not.
I think its more about the people. A miserable person will be miserable married or not. But that miserable person will shair the mesery to their spouse. Also, I think people feel that their mate should somehow solve their problems, instead of trying to figure out how to live their best life while being married, or not. But this is just my single dumbass viewing peoples relationships from the outside.
@@machinesandthings7121
Yeahhhhhhh that’s accurate.
When marriage is literally acting like s bandaid to make one party feel better, it’s doomed to fail.
Because the fear of losing it gets worse and worse and generates more anger and so on….
1:48 turns out Louis really did like that advice
Just spoke my first words to a human being 😂
Marriage is like life.
"$400 a person?"
I think speaking this freely about marriage for Louie made a lot of damage in his relationship, but it's entertaining as F...😅
The damage was done way before this interview was conducted😂
Marriage sounds like a trap.
I think he sensed it was beyond saving anyway, so might as well get some material out of it
Thank God I never had kids. Never got married, and I believe its gonna stay that way. The sadness of being single is more tolerable than sleeping next to someone that won't fuck you making feel single.
Nice thumbnail
He just married the wrong woman
So disappointed in these comments. I thought one of you wouldve tried to Google the sports writer and his wife by now smh
Mike Florio has to be I just googled sports writer with wife lawyer
Where's the video?
Loving his kids more than his wife was his first mistake. Those kids wouldnt have been there if it wasnt for her. Even with children, you have to keep your significant other first. The children will see that and automatically benefit from that love.
But he's a stand up comic that goes on the road? Atleast he was before he made it big. It's hard for "date night" and all that stuff with 2 little kids and you're gone all the time. Marriage is rough. I'm on #2, but I spent 1998-2023 single and trying to get my s together. That's the 50% of it that most people don't consider
1:48 lol
This is how my union went into the dumper too. She is still sleeping with our 8 yr old son. She's not doing her best to keep us united.
Damn. I've been in a horrible marriage and can relate to so much of this. But then I also found something way better so I can relate to the opposite of this too
Funny how many couples go to therapy and still get the divorce only because they realize they shouldn't be together to begin with.
Is this an old podcast or did Louie get remarried?
he said it was 2007 in the show
He states it's 2007.
Louie will never remarry
Remarried? Funny.
NOBODY who listens to this will EVER get remarried again. EVER. For ANY reason whatsoever.
Learn how to read a video description before commenting, you crotch hobbit
A Godless marriage sounds exactly as exhausting as I thought it would be. Thanks Louie😂😂😂
2007?
I have zero desire to get married and highly doubt I could ever think enough of someone to love them enough to marry them. I am damaged beyond being fixed after the loss of my dog and over a decade of being terrorized. I also will NEVER work again unless I can work for a LIBERAL UNIVERSITY IN A JOB THAT DOES NOT INSULT MY INTELLIGENCE.
god, norton was fucking useless throughout lol
just kept being unable to get it
lol
Moral- Kids ruin everything
"Just start eatin her ass like a loon"
3:23 Mike and Jill Florio?
Judging from what I hear I'd say that marriage is through.
Do you use Google? You can search stuff with it...
iwishaniggawoods187 I was being sarcastic, you idiot.
Marriage can be great IF you find the right one.
Odds one in fifty.
I’ve found the most successful relationships are usually when you’re the best looking guy your woman has ever been with. If you find some 30-something who’s been run through by a dozen dudes better looking than you, you’re always going to be seen as the guy she settled for instead of the guy she won. When you’re the latter, the sun rises and sets with you.
why would you take marriage advice from someone who hates being married and got a divorce? that’s like taking english lessons from someone who dropped out of grammar school.
True
Exactly ,the fact the he failed ,doesn’t mean Marriage ist awful
I think there is value to hearing where things go wrong and how things fail. I have seen a lot of unrealistic advice from people who have really great marriages that are not representative of what most people see. You might want to take advice from a couple who had a successful marriage till death did they part, but maybe they never had one of those major disagreements that can end a relationship, like whether they wanted more or any kids, how much work should be prioritized over family obligations, what religion should the kid be raised in, etc. Additionally, divorce is not the worse thing that can happen to a marriage, living miserably for decades is.
Survivorship bias
6:56 If you don't have kids,..
As a man you are rolling a dice.. i sure hope MY WOMAN is not crazy... lets hope this one is nice, treats me well and is kind to me.. After the honeymoon period is over. Problem is most of they are miserable, depressing bat shit crazy.. Incabable of being happy on their own at all.. im sure there are good/happy women but good luck finding one.
This was pop culture prior to the red pill and it shows. Nowadays it would be too embarrassing to say these things on a podcast.
What a bizarre and enlightening conversation
His daughter is still breastfeeding at 2 years old and the wife is sleeping with the kids still.. that's fucking weird. What was the wife doing?
Holy shit the loser vibes in this video and these comments 😂
Qustion: What's the leading cause of divorce? Answer: Marriage.
Damn.... Am I an idiot because I still wanna get married and have kids? Is it possible to have a happy marriage?
It’s definitely possible, just don’t rush in to things with your partner. Wait til you know 100% that they’re someone you could spend the rest of your life with before you have kids with them.
3 years in, you should know whether they will be a decent wife. Before that, do not sign up to anything. Women can lie well, for a long time. I say that as a woman. 2/3 of my female friends are class A gold-diggers who had an exit plan before they even married. 90% of their husbands have no clue, 5% have a clue but convince themselves it's their own fault due to years of abuse, 5% are planning their own exit strategy.
LDT7Y not very optimistic but I appreciate the input.
Basically, enjoy the ride but don't commit to anything you can't easily walk away from until you've known them a long time (and long distance relationships even more so). If they turn out to be a gold-digger, you can cut and run with minimal impact. There's very little reason to marry anyway, so waiting a few years shouldn't be that difficult.
RandomSh*t it’s being realistic. Statistically the majority go to shit.
Why does Louis come off as funny when he speaks crassly about his family and marriage, but the other guys make me cringe?
Because he’s funny and the hosts are not
Only one other guy is a comedian in the room. This show is funny tho, look up Opie and Anthony, there are classic clips on here. Look for “Breaking Bobo’s Heart”
To me it looks like A. Louis is funny. B. It's his family and his emotional problems. If you roast someone on this kind of stuff to his face you kinda sound like a bully. C. Guys try to outbid him on nastiness and that's not the way. Louis gets a good balance here and they just seem to cut in and ruin his flow.
Louis has definitely mastered the art of describing things (especially dark/taboo things) in a funny way. He has definitely had a lot of practice doing it too. This is his arena baby
@@TIRK125 I also think it has something to do with the fact that the hosts really feel desperate to come from a position where they or their analog is simply correct, where Louis is willing to give up that position and paint a more nuanced picture. O&P are just mean and that is at the core of their appeal while Louis is miserable and angry but also gets some of that is on him and the situation is just bad for both of them. Louis is not just saying "my wife is a bitch" (which is the general tone of the hosts) he understands why she feels and acts the way she does in some way and is willing to take some blame for it. He talks about how watching the kids drives him insane and the only thing that saves him is the work and she has nothing like that. Overall I think a lot of Louis's humor comes from the fact that he is not the arbiter of the politically incorrect truth (like O&P want to be) he is a man being stepped on by life along with everyone else including his wife.
I have come to many understandings as a man and almost 10 year war vetran of the war known as marriage. Thank god a peace treaty was made and we know are going about our own business. I would not invade that country even with forces 1000 to 1.
I have realized that young boys are taught to sacrifice, be of service and the list goes on. Many fathers teach their sons how to treat a women and many women train their sons on how to treat women. Daughters on the other hand are taught how to be adversarial to men, they don’t need no men and the list goes on and on. We wonder why realtionshits suck now. I remember I got a raise when i was married. I brought home 2/3 to 100% of the bacon during our marriage. She was not happy. Her comment was something to the fact that now i made substantial more money then her. How sad. I ain’t going back to that plantation.
then why did you marry her?
People need to stop having children and complaining about it.