In old age, especially after 70 years old, such things should never be given to children!
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- Опубликовано: 13 июн 2024
- In this thought-provoking video, we delve into the complexities of parental love and the challenges faced by aging parents. Through the story of Mr. Liu, a retired civil servant, and his family, we explore the delicate balance between parental sacrifice and filial piety. Mr. Liu's refusal to financially support his adult children sparks a discussion on the expectations and responsibilities within familial relationships. Join us as we navigate through the nuances of intergenerational dynamics and reflect on the true meaning of family bonds. Don't miss this insightful exploration of love, sacrifice, and the realities of aging in modern society. Subscribe for more thought-provoking content on family and relationships.
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When my my husband was alive he too believed the same as the couple in this video. I disagreed with him at times but now that I’m a widowed with two adult sons, I’m in the same situation as the couple. My husband was correct, so did the couple. Don’t give any means of your assets to your children while alive. Lesson learned by many.
But money must be kept as our security.. it's our duty to distribute love to our children n grands..then we'll be able to get the emotional happiness that we are looking for during the old age periods..
New generation don't want to take care elderly..only need their fortune😢😢😢😢😢!!!
Its really very frustrating and depressing if children don't care for their parents especially if the parents are poor
Many people are facing this kind of situation. No one likes to share it because of the criticism from the public
Children and grandchildren should not feel entitled to the money from there parents. If parents , Grandparents give them is voluntary .Not an obligation
Their older age need the saving to take care of themselves .kids should be grateful that is a load off their hands.
Give Them love n respect for what They are your Parents,Grandparents.
One day we all be in the same situation Old. Please Think and be kind.✨🙏🏻✨
Teaching children is the best job-- especially if you have been a teacher
What a great video! Very sad story for those parents who gave so much and only received indifference in the end. If you don't suffer consequences, you do not learn, grow, mature, and become your best self. Children need to be prepared for the future roles they will play, if not there is certain failure and disappointment. Similarly, parents must financially prepare for disability and old age. But how do you teach the children to love and care for elderly parents in need that have given so much?
Good video and lesson to remind retiree who have childten, don't leave them any fortune, take care and enjoy your own money and give to charity or help the community!
Of course you should help your children and grandchildren. Times are tough with such high cost of living nowadays
My wife? Died....just me. My children eroded my savings ...with world ending disasters after another..... after a while a sister visited children's home at the wrong time. Then told me how well there are doing....shame on me..I never saw a dime. .. I faked a disaster needed money.......all ways...we are broke. Can't help. They started.. nibbling with we are starving ploys.. then one day I closed the bank of dad....then they went into a tail spin...I heare little from them now. ..I figure if they don't learn to take care of problems now. I'm not feeding my children at 50-60 yrs old at my 80s.. not me. Teach them to solve theer problems early. You will never be in this fix😊😊
Wow, the children of Mr & Mrs Lu are heartless. I suggest they remove the children from their wills and donate the money to charity when they pass away.
What is happening to Chinese filial piety?
It's happening all over the world. Children today don't give a damn for their parents. Materialism has made them inhumane.
The children that are described here are ones that parents spoiled. They only had two. But when there are multiple children, only one or two get spoiled this way and other kids are left with nothing. The kids that got nothing are the ones that end up taking care of the parents at old age and usually have a lot of resentments towards the parents.
I believe that whatever our decisions and actions are one should not go to the extreme. The childrens are still ours. You hurt the childrens more if you excluded them from your will. We just want to leave peacefully. I understand at times it's difficult to decides.
@jefftan4052,
With all due respect, I don’t understand how someone wants to leave peacefully knowing they caused chaos and hurt their own children. If for some reason the parents exclude their children, at least tell the excluded children up front.
My parents provided care and education until my graduation. After that I have to work my way up. My husband and I plan our retirement since our marriage, we are living happily without anyone’s help. Therefore I won’t extend excessive help to my children after grooming them to be independent.
Thank you God BLESS you for your encouraging words
You are so welcome
We train others how to treat us, never ever let them know your finances. Kids today are taught to be entitled. I would insist on part-time jobs and student loans in university for kids. After graduation, if I see them seriously taking on paying debt with financial rigger, I'd gift them and pay it off so they can go on their new stage of life, clear and free.
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Thank you for giving good idea and lesson
I have gone throw the same thing soon as the grandchildren have grown up a bit you have had your uses ny friend said to me once while you are doing for them you are ok but the minute you need them you are just a nuisance
thank you so much, l learned.
True Story . Many retirees are facing this hash reality. Very painful. So remove children out of this equation for they’re very selfish and plan for a very joyful old age God willing. God please us retirees and elderly.
Very true, Govt. too 17:32 should take initiative for helping elders rather helping girl child when they r capable of looking after themselves
The story is a reality.
Don't have children
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Better 2 have chickens if YOU like them n YOU can eat them.
@@rosegombos2120 Absolutely!
Plz suggest me as a mother of special child what kind of job I can do ....
so true, know this first hand
Thank you so much..mind opening.
This kind of behavior has been going on for ever according to the history books I have read. My sons will get only cold money (when we are dead) verses warm money (while we are alive). Giving them big money while you are alive will only spoil them and make them dependent on you. They will never become independent of you and will ruin their lives. They also don't know how much they will eventually receive so have to plan for their own retirements.
I. Like. This.
ThNk u sir great info 👍 I will definitely try an earn a little money I love cooking
So nice of you
Well, my sons really are beautiful as is my daughter in law. This is so sad to listen too.
I think some parents are too protective of their children when they were young. They only want their kids to study well and make them proud. It's wrong concept from the start.
Your story is so true, but your advice of security guard is worst, it will spoil your old-age peace, worst than your children's torture. The other one is more worst selling vegetables,fruits in front of malls/streets etc, the middle one is ok as per your story, hope they are middle class pair combaindly start assisting same lonely people in the way of moral support, cooking spending time experiencing their own life stories each other's etc ., other wise better job is drive a cab/auto of your own, so that you can yourself be king and servent with full respect and honour. One more true is your story two sons some ones story heard two daughters with the same attitudes so as on today's wathawaran (whatsapp, Facebook, tuter age) male ya female child both are same. Your story is a moral/guidence for retired senior middle class citizens.of the country.🎉
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The people you give the most to will be the ones to turn on you and leave you by the side of the road.
I lived it. And just turned cold in the last 6 months.
That extends to companies and corporations with all kinds of sneaky fee, arbitration clauses and no refund policies to screw you.
And everybody wants a tip or donation.
All suck and will get NOTHING else,from me.
Somebody FOS
Can't handle the voice.