@@cathysoo2350I don’t think you listened to the interview. She wasn’t a good mother. A good mother doesn’t ask her children if they should drive off a cliff.
0:16 hopefully he will continue to council with Dr. John. He seems reserved about it. Just like Lori's brother who has the podcast with Grunkle Rex.@@PNWShanaLee
There’s not generational dysfunction, you offend me as part of a generation. She is a narcissist psychopath killer don’t put the whole generation in the same bucket. Don’t blame others for what she is done. For goodness sake what an evil comment.
Not wanting to turn into my mom was one of my biggest fears. A wise therapist told me" you can't, it's impossible - the very fact that you're here saying this to me means you're already such a different person." Lovely that your wife is a good sounding board too
I totally understand. My father is a narcissist and my mom is a covert narcissist. My greatest fear in life was to turn out like them until a wise person told me that a narcissist would never have such a fear because they believe there's nothing wrong with them. The relief I felt was amazing.
It's so great to see that Colby is now connected to a whole community of incredible people - the best humanity has to offer, really. Good for him! Edit: Just wanted to throw out to Colby that if he ever has the interest to find out more about how Chad became Chad, the 3 part interview John and Lauren did with Heather Daybell is super revelatory. Heather is a wealth of wisdom and insight and she's brave as hell.
Colby... i keep typing and erasing and typing and erasing. All i know that i can get into words is that you were Tylee & JJ's amazing big brother, and now the roles have switched and they are your guardian angels. I have tried to imagine myself "in Colby's shoes" & it's an absolute nightmare. You are incredible, insightful & full of grace. Thank you for letting us in to the most raw, gut-wrenching part of your life. We don't deserve it, but we're so grateful. I promise...A lot of us want to understand, not crucify. Thank you Colby
I am so glad Dr Matthias is there for you! And yep, unbiased. He is a special man. I am so glad you had the opportunity to speak with him so early on in this journey!! Thank you @HiddenTrueCrime WONDERFUL!
I wrote down, in regards to being a people pleaser.. it’s not being nice.. you’re neglecting yourself to please someone else… and I felt that to my core. Thank you, Colby.
Breaking the cycle of ancestral trauma, abuse and toxicity is the hardest, bravest and most vital and powerful things you can give yourself and your children as a good adult. Kudos to you and Kelsey. Keep up the awesome work
The stories about Lori mixing books and movies into another reality is something so new to hear. Colby, you seem incredibly intelligent and reflective. Keep talking.
@@KK-rc5ds hi, this is exactly was delusional disorders, phychotic disorders are.. having to grow up with relatives (generations) of serious mental illness in family... its so difficult to even know wat normal is... and is extremely stressful..
How is a mental illness new in this whole valley situation??? Its the whole reason it happened... why is it new info??? Its very sad that average Americans are so extremely ignorant of how common these mh illness are... EVERY FAMILY HAS ONE... EVERY FAMILY...
Oh Colby I am stunned at the fact your mother told you your death date is around the corner. You have dealt with an insurmountable amount of psychological abuse. Your strength in life is amazing to see. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I think Colby was describing what Lori was saying to him about herself, he used "I" in her voice to relate the "two years left" part. That's besides the more general impending doom of the end of the world fixation.
Colby thanks for bringing us into your world. We were all so invested in justice, that I am so glad to see you during your healing and now seeing your life and family. You'll never be alone, ever!
Dr. John is probably the best person for Colby to talk to therapeutically. Not only because he's so intelligent and empathetic, but because he knows so much about the intricacies of what happened. I'm so glad that they were able to connect again, and that Colby is starting to be able to heal and sort out his feelings about everything. I hope they can talk more privately because I really believe Dr. John can help Colby better than others due to the vast knowledge that he has on the case. ❤
Colby..you may have lost your mom...but i guarantee you..that you have MANY mothers here on your site..myself included who would be so blessed and proud to call you SON❤
agreed. this helped bring healing more than anything, and we weren't even immediate family. But this case/true story has been on many of our hearts and minds since December 2019. thank you Matthias family (Dr. John and Lauren) and Colby Ryan/Kelsey and Vallow/Woodcock, Nate Eaton/EIN ,Justin Lum, law enforcement and this supportive community.
@@Jeweliedear Absolutely agree with you. So many wonderful, compassionate and insightful people helped bring understanding to this complex story. Each of the people/groups you mentioned were pivotal in telling the story of JJ, Tylee, Charles, Tammy, Brandon and other named or unnamed victims in this case. Thank you for pointing the storytellers out for all of us to acknowledge and appreciate.
Colby I am so impressed with your level of insight and maturity! I hope you realize that there are people all over the world rooting for you and seeing you become such a wonderful adult! Hugs to you!
I don't think it's a matter of "maturity". I think some people are just more perceptive, more grounded, and more aware already as young people. And on top of that, such a massive traumatic experience like that propels one into having to grasp for a broader picture of reality. And just the opposite, some people regardless of their age, never grasp a sense of maturity. But anyway, I do think Colby will be one of those great souls who make a mark on the world that others can gain and grow from. Maybe with his inside view, he can help society to better understand the root causes of delusional disorders.
You continue to help me, Colby. Your bravery gives me strength as I head into a legal battle with my elderly, mormon, hyper-religious, narcissistic mother. She continues to resist giving up custody of my youngest brother, who is a disabled adult. I am really very concerned about his safety. I constantly think about your siblings and how you would have fought for their lives if you had had any kind of advanced warning. I lean on your courage for support and strength. Thank you for all that you do!
You're incredibly strong and brave to file this suit and go to court for your brother and advocate for his health and safety. You have my best wishes, prayers, and a big hug from a fellow survivor of an NPD/BPD Mormon human incubator. 💚💐🕊
Rely on and lean on God, not another human being. Pray and ask Him to give you wisdom and strength. “God is a very present help in times of trouble”. 🙏🏻✝️🕊️
Thanks to Dr. John for helping Colby process this horrific situation. Colby thank you for sharing your beautiful soul with us. You model gracious and loving compassion. I can't imagine enduring the grief you have gone through. You are modeling amazing strength and forgiveness. I wish you and your family a blessed and peace-filled life.
It's so nice to see you two together on the same screen. Dr. John and Lauren have taken this case seriously and respectfully- when it's so easy for creators on RUclips to sensationalize the whole ordeal. Colby, I hope that the Matthiases can help you come closer to healing from the multiple losses you've endured.
My heart goes out to you, Colby. I had to cut ties with my family, and I've accepted the fact I will never receive an apology from them. I have my wonderful inlaws who have adopted me as theirs.
I dont agree!! Lauren is hands down more informed, more involved, is just as smart as john if not smarter. I find it devastating how she always makes herself lesser in their podcasts. Lauren would have been a hundred times better for this interview. But hey whatever...men always need to be overly praised🙄🥱just annoying that women go along with it!! Enablers!
@@mynameiseve.1 Whoa- please don’t use my comment to launch your own agenda. I am referring to mental health support of a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist with over twenty-five years’ experience in both clinical and forensic work. No shade to Lauren at all. She is an excellent professional in her own field and has impeccable expertise as well.
Colby, you being able to provide your own children with the childhood you never had is the greatest gift you can give to yourself. You are doing great work ❤.
@Colby J Ryan, when I first saw the interview with Lori, the main thing ringing through my mind was; Oh no, why would you do this to yourself, Colby? I was struggling to see anything of value in it for you, or anything that could be beneficial for you. I thought, that with having a lot of experience with toxic, manipulative and abusive people, that I knew that all that conversation could do for you, was to hurt you further. I was wrong, and of course I was! I've had a lot of abuse and manipulation directed at me, but not to the degree that you have, and this follow-up has truly humbled me, and I truly appreciate that. I'm almost a decade older than you, and it's important to remember that that doesn't mean s*it at the end of the day, because I've never experienced what you've experienced, so why would I know better, just because I've been alive for longer? I always hated it when older generations would put forth their age as the reason they knew better about any subject, even if they'd never so much as read a single page out of one book on said subject, and it's good to be reminded of those things every once in a while. Hearing you explain that, now you know, all the way deep to your core, that you did everything you could. You have listened, and you've tried, and you've done everything you can for her, and with her, and you can finally let go, knowing that there is nothing left for you to say or do. It's almost like when a broken bone heals poorly, all you can do is to break it again to fix it, if that makes sense? You had an injury that healed poorly, and in order to heal properly, you had to allow her to hurt you again. I truly hope that you can finally move on in whatever way you want, and I wish for all the best for you in moving forward. Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us, and for bringing us with you on your healing journey, and in helping others heal from their trauma.
It's beautiful to hear you and Dr. John laughing over Twilight. Don't worry Dr. John we won't tell anyone. Colby thank you for baring your soul for all to see. I'm so thankful you have wonderful people like Dr. John and Lauren to help you process. God bless!
I'm so glad that Colby has really good people like John in his corner. He has lost so much family but I'm glad he has gained some sincere friends who love him like family.
Dr. John, thank you for being a safe support for Colby. I’m sure it means the world to him to have your steady presence in his life. Colby, I’m amazed by you. You are so strong and wise beyond your years. You’re also a natural at this podcasting thing! Sending you love💜
Also, can we take a moment to appreciate that out of 779 comments (as of my writing) I haven't stumbled upon one single negative comment, everyone has been respectful....that speaks volume about the beautiful community you've created, Colby.
Love Dr. John or as Lauren calls him, Dr. Babe. Lol 😂 He is a wise, honorable man and gives excellent observations which are hopefully very helpful in your healing. Blessings to your heart and soul, Colby. ❤
Colby has such a good spirit after all he’s been through. To greave the loss of so many people in his life is unfathomable and to keep trying to grow and learn through these losses speaks volumes to the kind of person he is. Stay strong Colby and family. 💕
Thank you for this interview. My husband comes from an abusive childhood and she is definitely mentally ill. We totally cut contact but sometimes it's hard for him. This interview helped him further process it. Thanks for being a strong brave example for him and so he knows he's not alone. His mom also continually talked about driving off the bridge with all 8 kids in the car. Both his brothers are in prison for the same murder. It's a shitty situation but I am grateful for you sharing your life with everyone and grateful that your example helped my husband. Praying for you and your mom ❤
Colby, it's heartwarming to watch as you continually grow into a young man of ever-evolving grace and intelligence. This conversation with Dr. John is incredible - thank you for sharing it with us. I'm so happy that you have John as a mentor and friend! 💖💖💖
😮Such an intriguing interview, hearing these explanations, some of your past and Dr. Johns assessment. Thank you so much for your openness and honesty, despite the pain. It helps us understand better.
Wow. As a total outsider, just an interested observer who has closely got into this case, I think this is the single most impactful & significant discussion of the "Daybell-Vallow case", as we outsiders might call it, to date. I cannot express to you Colby how much I, some dude far away, am rooting for you. There's a theme of yours that rang very true to me - the role of fictional stories, especially movies. In recent preceding years I've studied Qanon quite a bit. I was struck very early on in that, from 2018-9 in my case, by the role of movies in the conspiracy (fantasy) narratives. The whole Q thing looked ridiculous to me from the get go but millions of people made it wholesale a reality in their minds, and identities both real and in social media. Movie archetypes, scenes & characters run through the Qanon stories like our veins & arteries run through our bodies. And speaking as a non-religious person I think in Lori's case the religious stories, the LDS components that fixate on non-real or supernatural personas and concepts (God & heaven for example) blend into the fictional and imagined narratives that Lori absorbed from movies and books. Thank you for sharing your journey Colby, I hope it helps you to do so. I think it will for what it's worth.
Telling ourselves stories has been part of the human experience since we started talking. I think that you are have really touched on something important that I’m not sure I have the language for, but I’ll be thinking it over for awhile.
For a deeper insight into the fabric of the Cox/Ryan families, visit podcasts called AMurderousHeart by Annie Cushing, Joe Ryan's sister. You can see how L.R/V/D became so adept at controlling those around her and how the family were taught by Lori's parents that the family were "above" everyone else - in looks, money, community power, with a right to behave in non-LDS ways whilst still ascribing themselves as pious LDS members, etc.. Colby seems to be getting a better idea of just how manipulative his mother was. Must be hard for a child to distinguish truth from indoctrination at such young ages when all you want is to be able to have the love, albeit conditional, from the one constant in your life. Plus the constant relocations would also make the children depend even more on their mother. Her power over them manifested when poor Tylee lied about the shooting of her step-father... There are so many still grieving because of this woman. We also call for justice for Joe Ryan.
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU, Colby! And I am not the only one, you have so many people that have prayed and continue to pray for you and your family. God bless you!
Colby.. having DR. John on your side is FANTASTIC! I truly believe he will help you heal in amazing ways! I’m sorry your mom is the way she is and I’m happy to hear you say that you can no longer have her in your life, or your family life!!! I’m not sure your mom is delusional or just a plain liar. That being said , how can she admit to the things she has done? I believe she could not handle the reality of it! Your mom has manipulated you all your life and I’m so sorry!!!! Heal Colby and enjoy your little family and know you are loved world wide. You have a lot of “moms” out here!!!!❤
This is an eye opening interview & Dr. John is the best interviewee I could ever think of. He has the education and experience to interview you and have this discussion. I really appreciate you sharing these details Colby.
Colby is incredibly insightful. He's an impressive human. This conversation is a beautiful example of how one deals with severe trauma in a healthy and vulnerable way.
Listening to Colby talking about Lori telling him she and him were going to die soon and things like that had me balling 💔 how can you do that to your child. Hearing you say that the interview was your goodbye to your mother, I can't imagine how hard that was for you but I am so proud of you! 😢 Hugs Colby! You now have thousands of us who care about you like a mom should and have your back forever! It brings me so much joy to see you and Dr. John laughing and joking.
Thank you Colby for having this conversation with Dr John. You are nothing like your mom. You have a good head on your shoulder and a beautiful sweet wife to talk and reason tough situations together! Love your channel ❤
Great guest Dr John is amazing. I love your videos they’re so informative and interesting. Thank you so much for sharing your videos. Prayers to Colby and his family.
I am so appreciative that you are willing to unpack this call with Lori. I'm also glad that Dr. John is helping you digest everything that was thrown at you.
I liked what John said about throwing pop culture into Lori's void to see what would stick. Then Colby's reflection that she couldn't accept hardship is part of life on Earth. She had to make herself special.
Colby, that was seriously so deep, and the fact that you have come to that conclusion absolutely shows that you are breaking the cycle! It would be so easy for you to choose to ignore all of this pain about your mom and the horrible things she's done to you. I'm not positive, but it seems like ignoring the pain might be the more common thing people do. The fact that you are choosing to actively work through it all is absolute proof that you are and will break the cycle!! I truly hope you allow yourself to be proud of yourself, Colby. You are changing the world for your kids, and that is the very best gift you can give them, Kelsey and yourself!! I don't matter at all in your life but I just want to tell you that I am so proud of you!! I am a 50 year old momma of 2, Grandma of 1, and you inspire me!!
This is soooo helpful to so many. Now I understand why your name is scar wars. We heal then rip open scars. We battle between truth and loved ones false reality.
One of the great things that you’re doing by doing your podcast and speaking on what happened and how it’s all affected you, is you’re giving other people who are in a somewhat similar situation an example of something they can do, if they want or need to. I hope I’m making sense. You’re showing other victims, survivors, family members of those lost to violence that it’s ok to speak out and share their feelings, if they choose. That if they’re ready, or if they wish they could, they can. Obviously, every situation is different. Some may never want to speak on it, but they can if they do. Though we may not understand your pain, we at least see it, and we support you. And we support others in your situation. Like if family members of the Idaho college students, or family of those girls in Delphi want to speak out, we’re here to listen. We’re here to support. We’re complete strangers, but we care and we’re praying for you and your family. You’re siblings are not forgotten by us. You’re not forgotten either, bruv. We’re behind you.
@HTC @ColbyRyan thank you both so much for allowing us to listen to your discussion. Excellent interview and incredibly valuable (especially in regard to LDS members who are fixated on the end-times) and I’m so grateful to have listened to this particular video.
@elizabethroberts6169 Two former colleagues, who are now a married couple, left the LDS church earlier this year. They are members of a recovery group for ex Mormons, something I didn't know existed. There is so much to unravel, which has led them to believe that they were in a cult. I was a senior manager in the company where we all met. The owner was LDS, and a very difficult person to deal with. He broke every rule in the book, every day. He had an affair with a Sales rep, as his wife was pregnant with their 3rd child. He drank coffee daily. When he travelled for business, he drank alcohol to excess. How astonishing that such a "sinful" man was held in such high esteem by the LDS movement.
We are all so happy that you have a great team (Lauren and Dr. John and so many) behind you to be by your side and help you navigate this difficult transition 🙏🏼
Colby I am so glad that you have your wife and children to help lift you out of that darkness praise God! You are 100% correct that your Mom is gone the Mom that you once knew. Even attempting to have a truthful conversation with her is useless and I truly think you have come to that conclusion. I pray God grants you peace. Thank you for sharing with the world.
@karistutzman8381 I'm not a psychologist. But if it were a medication issue, they would offer them to her. Every person has a choice to participate in therapy or medical treatment. The Word of God states that when we turn from God repeatedly , "God the Creator Himself will SEND STRoNG DELUSIONS that they would believe a lie." In order to know truth and live in reality, we have to CHOOSE TO KNOW. Choose reality. Vs. Delusions. Part of being deluded I believing it is reality. Deluded means deceived. We don't understand when we are deceived. Deception is believing a lie. Terrifying. Trust that God will help the person who relies on HiM for truth and assistance. . . . Part of the Cluster B diagnosis is being invested in unreality, paranoia, and self centeredness. It's not a chemical imbalance like some mental health diagnosis are. It's being transformed by changing my thoughts intentionally. On purpose. We don't do that unless we want to do it and choose to be changed!!!
@@karistutzman8381 I’m not Dr John, but I remember when Lori was declared unfit to stand trial in the very beginning and she was placed in a facility then but she refused medication, and I’m sure she would refuse again because in her mind there is nothing wrong with her.
Dr John is so special as a human! I always love hearing what he has to say. Even when it’s hard to hear. I wish everyone had access to someone like that in life
Hi Colby, I am sending you lots of love. I grew up in an abusive household too. My abuser was also my mom. My mom would blow up over small things too. I am so proud of you for the healing work you have done. I know from personal experience how hard it can be.
Thank you so much for allowing us to be a part of your healing journey. A lot of us who grew up with narcissistic, emotionally manipulative parents are so proud of you! A lot of us have so much we want to say to the narcs in our lives, but didn’t get the chance or haven’t had the courage to do it. We’re cheering you on from the sidelines. Process your trauma and break the cycle.
I'm so glad you are so comfortable with Dr. John. Nobody can vaguely even begin to understand what you've been through. Keep getting help, you've got thousands of people that want the best for you and your family.
Colby - I really admire your ability to love your mom as your mom, and to understand that she has issues but you've been wise enough to distance yourself from her.
51:39 Colby, You are so brave! One thing I can't stop thinking about is that your mom put you in a position as husband/spouse. That is such a confusing thing for a child to go through. You should have just been her son but she made you, and leaned on you as a spouse and BURDENED you with the responsibilities you never agreed too or could not even do? God Bless You!!❤❤❤❤
Lauren and Dr John are some of the most compassionate people I've seen have these conversations. They really dig deep into the human mind and the possibilities and reasons why people do what they do. They don't make excuses but they dig into what brought someone to that point.
I get so emotional as a viewer since day one. To see how this has transformed into such a healing process than just leaving it to perspective. Growth is and will continue to be blessed. With love ❤️
Colby, it's so awesome to see you smile and laugh!!! And Dr. John, you are truly an amazing person!! This interview is really enlightening! Thank you so much for sharing❤🥰
Lauren and Dr John are special humans.❤ I appreciate their insights and discussions. Mental health is fragile and odd. You are so brave to ask these questions and move toward understanding. Thank you.
I like how natural you are Colby. You're just yourself and that's rare to come across on podcasts. You were born to do this. Keep it up, continue to seek truth and speaking up ... Prayers with you and your family from across the world
Seeing and hearing you and doctor John laugh with such authenticity when discussing twilight gives me joy. “He’s Team Edward AND team Jacob” 😂😂 This is a healing convo - thank you for sharing with us! We ❤ Dr John and Lauren!
There was a really sweet person in the comments in the last video who sent me to HTC channel, and I’m glad they did. I didn’t realize I’ve been to their channel before! They are absolutely wonderful people, and I’m glad you have Dr John and Lauren! They are a blessing for sure! I’m glad to see you have each other. Dr John is incredible. I’m really glad you have them, Colby. To the person who recommended their channel, thank you ♥️
I absolutely agree that Lori chose the cruelest story to tell in that interview. I'm glad Dr. John and this online community were able to help Colby recognize and have closure about his mom's manipulation. It's so unfair to have to process such a horrific and needless trauma. Thank you for letting us listen in on this raw, intelligent, and fascinating conversation.
You are such a good dude I am genuinely cheering you on out here in the world. So cool you can call Dr John a friend. Much love to you and your loved ones. I love a cool, collaborative effort!
I appreciate how Dr John listens to hear and can give unbiased feedback when talking about difficult topics. Colby, you are healing and I am proud of you for setting boundaries.
This was the best podcast with the 2 of you. Please always stay in touch with each other. Colby you are so brave and kind. Hope that I could be as respectful as you were to your mother. Take care of yourself, the gem you have for a wife, and your children. You are a great dad. As your children get older the only thing you can be with them is honest. They will be counting on you to tell them the truth. Best wishes for your emotional healing. You are on your way!!! ❤️❤️
So glad to see this conversation- Dr. John is so very smart and you just have such a great head on your shoulders - you will find your way thru this with the support of the community you are building Colby! Keep moving forward in love ❤
Colby, I'm so glad you got to process with Dr. John. I have so much admiration for you and your ability to hold it together during your call with your mom. My thoughts and prayers 🙏 are with you and your family as you heal.
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You’re breaking the chain Colby. Never stop believing in yourself. ❤
He raped his ex wife. I wouldn't call that breaking the chain. 🤷
Yes!!! I love it! ❤
How did Colby become so wise & grounded?!?! I’m blown away 🤯
A great man❤
A real relationship with Jesus Christ!
@@suel5914Amen!🙏
@@cathysoo2350I don’t think you listened to the interview. She wasn’t a good mother. A good mother doesn’t ask her children if they should drive off a cliff.
I agree, he's more mature than most men 2 or 3 times his age.
Thank for the privilege of allowing us in to this conversation.
Great comment. Well said.
I agree. Thank you for posting this.
I agree. An eye-opening conversation
Well said.
Thank you for this comment. I wholeheartedly second it.
Dr John is such a safe pair of hands…Supportive and thoughtful.
Your worldwide tube family respects and cares about you Colby. ♥️
Such a blessing for Colby to have such wise ppl he can turn to, if he chooses.
0:16 hopefully he will continue to council with Dr. John. He seems reserved about it. Just like Lori's brother who has the podcast with Grunkle Rex.@@PNWShanaLee
The generational dysfunction ends with you Colby. God bless you❤️
There’s not generational dysfunction, you offend me as part of a generation. She is a narcissist psychopath killer don’t put the whole generation in the same bucket. Don’t blame others for what she is done. For goodness sake what an evil comment.
Not wanting to turn into my mom was one of my biggest fears. A wise therapist told me" you can't, it's impossible - the very fact that you're here saying this to me means you're already such a different person." Lovely that your wife is a good sounding board too
I totally understand. My father is a narcissist and my mom is a covert narcissist. My greatest fear in life was to turn out like them until a wise person told me that a narcissist would never have such a fear because they believe there's nothing wrong with them. The relief I felt was amazing.
I completely agree. I felt the same way
@@angesoup Thank you for posting that. I have always said that also and I never looked at it the way your therapist put it.
It's so great to see that Colby is now connected to a whole community of incredible people - the best humanity has to offer, really. Good for him!
Edit: Just wanted to throw out to Colby that if he ever has the interest to find out more about how Chad became Chad, the 3 part interview John and Lauren did with Heather Daybell is super revelatory. Heather is a wealth of wisdom and insight and she's brave as hell.
Colby... i keep typing and erasing and typing and erasing. All i know that i can get into words is that you were Tylee & JJ's amazing big brother, and now the roles have switched and they are your guardian angels. I have tried to imagine myself "in Colby's shoes" & it's an absolute nightmare. You are incredible, insightful & full of grace. Thank you for letting us in to the most raw, gut-wrenching part of your life. We don't deserve it, but we're so grateful. I promise...A lot of us want to understand, not crucify. Thank you Colby
Whew! I thought it was just me who typed, erased, retyped, etc. Well said!
@@elizabethroberts6169 Same here
@@LisaFerguson-lw8il I’m with ya sister! 🤦🏼♀️
What a wonderful comment! You put it perfectly! ❤
I will attach myself to this comment as well….❤
My heart goes out to Colby. Thank you Dr John for being there for Colby.
I am so glad Dr Matthias is there for you! And yep, unbiased. He is a special man. I am so glad you had the opportunity to speak with him so early on in this journey!! Thank you @HiddenTrueCrime WONDERFUL!
You expressed my feelings, as well. So glad they're looking after the emotional well-being of this young man.
I don't even need to comment. You said it perfectly 🙏🥰💯
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made me cry!!! Love Dr John, Lauren and Colby's precious hearts!!
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I wrote down, in regards to being a people pleaser.. it’s not being nice.. you’re neglecting yourself to please someone else… and I felt that to my core. Thank you, Colby.
Perfectionism and people pleasing led me down a dark path to alcoholism.
I loved that too! Perfectionism and people pleasing really is a form of self abuse. I'm the same way.
Breaking the cycle of ancestral trauma, abuse and toxicity is the hardest, bravest and most vital and powerful things you can give yourself and your children as a good adult. Kudos to you and Kelsey. Keep up the awesome work
The stories about Lori mixing books and movies into another reality is something so new to hear. Colby, you seem incredibly intelligent and reflective. Keep talking.
@@KK-rc5ds hi, this is exactly was delusional disorders, phychotic disorders are.. having to grow up with relatives (generations) of serious mental illness in family... its so difficult to even know wat normal is... and is extremely stressful..
How is a mental illness new in this whole valley situation??? Its the whole reason it happened... why is it new info??? Its very sad that average Americans are so extremely ignorant of how common these mh illness are... EVERY FAMILY HAS ONE... EVERY FAMILY...
Makes ya wonder how deeply she was getting lost in Chad's books!
Colby you have a true gift for podcasting and interviewing people.
Oh Colby I am stunned at the fact your mother told you your death date is around the corner. You have dealt with an insurmountable amount of psychological abuse. Your strength in life is amazing to see. My heart goes out to you and your family.
I just started watching. Did she really???? Just WOW!!!!
I think Colby was describing what Lori was saying to him about herself, he used "I" in her voice to relate the "two years left" part. That's besides the more general impending doom of the end of the world fixation.
She was talking about her own death, not his. Still highly difficult for a child to experience either way, but for clarity’s sake…
I am so thankful Colby has a very strong survival instinct. 🙏
20:18
Colby thanks for bringing us into your world. We were all so invested in justice, that I am so glad to see you during your healing and now seeing your life and family. You'll never be alone, ever!
You mean invested, not infested.
@@susanreitsma6844 🤦♀️
Dr. John is probably the best person for Colby to talk to therapeutically. Not only because he's so intelligent and empathetic, but because he knows so much about the intricacies of what happened. I'm so glad that they were able to connect again, and that Colby is starting to be able to heal and sort out his feelings about everything. I hope they can talk more privately because I really believe Dr. John can help Colby better than others due to the vast knowledge that he has on the case. ❤
Colby..you may have lost your mom...but i guarantee you..that you have MANY mothers here on your site..myself included who would be so blessed and proud to call you SON❤
I agree, what an outstanding man Colby is.
I am 56 and would love to
Call Colby mine too… my son was killed 5-2-21😢
Amen!
Me too! You are outstanding - keep searching keep working keep healing every day
@@mitziblankenship I’m so sorry….
We all need a human like Dr. John in our lives! So glad to be apart of this community of wonderful humans!
This is the most insightful interview on the Vallow/Daybell story I’ve seen. Thank you, Dr. John and Colby. It helps us process so much.
agreed. this helped bring healing more than anything, and we weren't even immediate family. But this case/true story has been on many of our hearts and minds since December 2019. thank you Matthias family (Dr. John and Lauren) and Colby Ryan/Kelsey and Vallow/Woodcock, Nate Eaton/EIN ,Justin Lum, law enforcement and this supportive community.
@@Jeweliedear Absolutely agree with you. So many wonderful, compassionate and insightful people helped bring understanding to this complex story. Each of the people/groups you mentioned were pivotal in telling the story of JJ, Tylee, Charles, Tammy, Brandon and other named or unnamed victims in this case. Thank you for pointing the storytellers out for all of us to acknowledge and appreciate.
Two great guys. Colby, so glad you have a friend & mentor in Dr John. Thank you both for sharing. 🩵
I adore Colby. Such a genuine guy, even after being through more than anyone can imagine.
Colby I am so impressed with your level of insight and maturity! I hope you realize that there are people all over the world rooting for you and seeing you become such a wonderful adult! Hugs to you!
I don't think it's a matter of "maturity". I think some people are just more perceptive, more grounded, and more aware already as young people. And on top of that, such a massive traumatic experience like that propels one into having to grasp for a broader picture of reality.
And just the opposite, some people regardless of their age, never grasp a sense of maturity.
But anyway, I do think Colby will be one of those great souls who make a mark on the world that others can gain and grow from. Maybe with his inside view, he can help society to better understand the root causes of delusional disorders.
You continue to help me, Colby. Your bravery gives me strength as I head into a legal battle with my elderly, mormon, hyper-religious, narcissistic mother. She continues to resist giving up custody of my youngest brother, who is a disabled adult. I am really very concerned about his safety.
I constantly think about your siblings and how you would have fought for their lives if you had had any kind of advanced warning. I lean on your courage for support and strength. Thank you for all that you do!
@@laycie_mnm So sorry for the battle you are facing with your mom. Blessings and prayers from Oklahoma City ❤️
Wishing you and your brother all the best from colorful Colorado ❤
You're incredibly strong and brave to file this suit and go to court for your brother and advocate for his health and safety. You have my best wishes, prayers, and a big hug from a fellow survivor of an NPD/BPD Mormon human incubator. 💚💐🕊
Praying for you and your brother 🙏🙂
Rely on and lean on God, not another human being. Pray
and ask Him to give you wisdom and strength. “God
is a very present help in times of trouble”. 🙏🏻✝️🕊️
Thanks to Dr. John for helping Colby process this horrific situation.
Colby thank you for sharing your beautiful soul with us. You model gracious and loving compassion. I can't imagine enduring the grief you have gone through. You are modeling amazing strength and forgiveness. I wish you and your family a blessed and peace-filled life.
❤❤❤❤❤
It's so nice to see you two together on the same screen. Dr. John and Lauren have taken this case seriously and respectfully- when it's so easy for creators on RUclips to sensationalize the whole ordeal. Colby, I hope that the Matthiases can help you come closer to healing from the multiple losses you've endured.
My heart goes out to you, Colby. I had to cut ties with my family, and I've accepted the fact I will never receive an apology from them. I have my wonderful inlaws who have adopted me as theirs.
I’m 30 mins in and this is the BEST, more transparent conversation. Fantastic!
So grateful to see your connection with Dr John! Best support and understanding of this situation possible for you, Colby.
I dont agree!! Lauren is hands down more informed, more involved, is just as smart as john if not smarter. I find it devastating how she always makes herself lesser in their podcasts. Lauren would have been a hundred times better for this interview. But hey whatever...men always need to be overly praised🙄🥱just annoying that women go along with it!! Enablers!
@@mynameiseve.1 Whoa- please don’t use my comment to launch your own agenda. I am referring to mental health support of a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist with over twenty-five years’ experience in both clinical and forensic work.
No shade to Lauren at all. She is an excellent professional in her own field and has impeccable expertise as well.
@@DebC7777 Your response is excellent. They are 2 wonderful people who are the best example of "made for one another".
@@DebC7777 wonderful response! They compliment one another, they are a true team.
@@DebC7777Amen 🫶🏼
Colby, you being able to provide your own children with the childhood you never had is the greatest gift you can give to yourself. You are doing great work ❤.
Colby laughing with dr is the best ❤
@Colby J Ryan, when I first saw the interview with Lori, the main thing ringing through my mind was; Oh no, why would you do this to yourself, Colby?
I was struggling to see anything of value in it for you, or anything that could be beneficial for you. I thought, that with having a lot of experience with toxic, manipulative and abusive people, that I knew that all that conversation could do for you, was to hurt you further. I was wrong, and of course I was! I've had a lot of abuse and manipulation directed at me, but not to the degree that you have, and this follow-up has truly humbled me, and I truly appreciate that. I'm almost a decade older than you, and it's important to remember that that doesn't mean s*it at the end of the day, because I've never experienced what you've experienced, so why would I know better, just because I've been alive for longer? I always hated it when older generations would put forth their age as the reason they knew better about any subject, even if they'd never so much as read a single page out of one book on said subject, and it's good to be reminded of those things every once in a while.
Hearing you explain that, now you know, all the way deep to your core, that you did everything you could. You have listened, and you've tried, and you've done everything you can for her, and with her, and you can finally let go, knowing that there is nothing left for you to say or do. It's almost like when a broken bone heals poorly, all you can do is to break it again to fix it, if that makes sense? You had an injury that healed poorly, and in order to heal properly, you had to allow her to hurt you again. I truly hope that you can finally move on in whatever way you want, and I wish for all the best for you in moving forward. Thank you for sharing these thoughts with us, and for bringing us with you on your healing journey, and in helping others heal from their trauma.
It's beautiful to hear you and Dr. John laughing over Twilight. Don't worry Dr. John we won't tell anyone. Colby thank you for baring your soul for all to see. I'm so thankful you have wonderful people like Dr. John and Lauren to help you process. God bless!
"There's no way I'm going to watch Star Wars and go out and try to force choke." OMG, I'm dying!!!
I watched an interview with Ewan McGregor where he says he pretends to use the force to open automatic doors. Just a funny interesting story.
I'm so glad that Colby has really good people like John in his corner. He has lost so much family but I'm glad he has gained some sincere friends who love him like family.
Dr. John, thank you for being a safe support for Colby. I’m sure it means the world to him to have your steady presence in his life. Colby, I’m amazed by you. You are so strong and wise beyond your years. You’re also a natural at this podcasting thing! Sending you love💜
Also, can we take a moment to appreciate that out of 779 comments (as of my writing) I haven't stumbled upon one single negative comment, everyone has been respectful....that speaks volume about the beautiful community you've created, Colby.
Two amazing men! Doctor John is such a huge helper to many in need. His wisdom has taught many and will continue to in the future.
Couldn’t agree with you more! 🙏🏻
You are a delightful human being, Colby. It's so good to see you healing. I can't imagine the work you've had to do.
I am so so glad Dr John is there for you. You have a lot of love and support from all over the world Colby.
Love Dr. John or as Lauren calls him, Dr. Babe. Lol 😂 He is a wise, honorable man and gives excellent observations which are hopefully very helpful in your healing. Blessings to your heart and soul, Colby. ❤
Colby has such a good spirit after all he’s been through. To greave the loss of so many people in his life is unfathomable and to keep trying to grow and learn through these losses speaks volumes to the kind of person he is. Stay strong Colby and family. 💕
Thank you for this interview. My husband comes from an abusive childhood and she is definitely mentally ill. We totally cut contact but sometimes it's hard for him. This interview helped him further process it. Thanks for being a strong brave example for him and so he knows he's not alone. His mom also continually talked about driving off the bridge with all 8 kids in the car. Both his brothers are in prison for the same murder. It's a shitty situation but I am grateful for you sharing your life with everyone and grateful that your example helped my husband. Praying for you and your mom ❤
Colby, it's heartwarming to watch as you continually grow into a young man of ever-evolving grace and intelligence. This conversation with Dr. John is incredible - thank you for sharing it with us. I'm so happy that you have John as a mentor and friend! 💖💖💖
😮Such an intriguing interview, hearing these explanations, some of your past and Dr. Johns assessment. Thank you so much for your openness and honesty, despite the pain. It helps us understand better.
Wow.
As a total outsider, just an interested observer who has closely got into this case, I think this is the single most impactful & significant discussion of the "Daybell-Vallow case", as we outsiders might call it, to date.
I cannot express to you Colby how much I, some dude far away, am rooting for you.
There's a theme of yours that rang very true to me - the role of fictional stories, especially movies.
In recent preceding years I've studied Qanon quite a bit. I was struck very early on in that, from 2018-9 in my case, by the role of movies in the conspiracy (fantasy) narratives. The whole Q thing looked ridiculous to me from the get go but millions of people made it wholesale a reality in their minds, and identities both real and in social media.
Movie archetypes, scenes & characters run through the Qanon stories like our veins & arteries run through our bodies. And speaking as a non-religious person I think in Lori's case the religious stories, the LDS components that fixate on non-real or supernatural personas and concepts (God & heaven for example) blend into the fictional and imagined narratives that Lori absorbed from movies and books.
Thank you for sharing your journey Colby, I hope it helps you to do so. I think it will for what it's worth.
Telling ourselves stories has been part of the human experience since we started talking. I think that you are have really touched on something important that I’m not sure I have the language for, but I’ll be thinking it over for awhile.
For a deeper insight into the fabric of the Cox/Ryan families, visit podcasts called AMurderousHeart by Annie Cushing, Joe Ryan's sister. You can see how L.R/V/D became so adept at controlling those around her and how the family were taught by Lori's parents that the family were "above" everyone else - in looks, money, community power, with a right to behave in non-LDS ways whilst still ascribing themselves as pious LDS members, etc.. Colby seems to be getting a better idea of just how manipulative his mother was. Must be hard for a child to distinguish truth from indoctrination at such young ages when all you want is to be able to have the love, albeit conditional, from the one constant in your life. Plus the constant relocations would also make the children depend even more on their mother. Her power over them manifested when poor Tylee lied about the shooting of her step-father... There are so many still grieving because of this woman. We also call for justice for Joe Ryan.
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU, Colby! And I am not the only one, you have so many people that have prayed and continue to pray for you and your family. God bless you!
Colby.. having DR. John on your side is FANTASTIC! I truly believe he will help you heal in amazing ways!
I’m sorry your mom is the way she is and I’m happy to hear you say that you can no longer have her in your life, or your family life!!! I’m not sure your mom is delusional or just a plain liar. That being said , how can she admit to the things she has done? I believe she could not handle the reality of it!
Your mom has manipulated you all your life and I’m so sorry!!!!
Heal Colby and enjoy your little family and know you are loved world wide. You have a lot of “moms” out here!!!!❤
This is an eye opening interview & Dr. John is the best interviewee I could ever think of. He has the education and experience to interview you and have this discussion. I really appreciate you sharing these details Colby.
So impressed by Colby! Brave, eloquent, resourceful and thoughtful.
Enjoy hearing you talk with Dr John.
Colby is incredibly insightful. He's an impressive human. This conversation is a beautiful example of how one deals with severe trauma in a healthy and vulnerable way.
Dr Matthias is a wonderful human this was a great podcast I think this has been very therapeutic for you
Listening to Colby talking about Lori telling him she and him were going to die soon and things like that had me balling 💔 how can you do that to your child. Hearing you say that the interview was your goodbye to your mother, I can't imagine how hard that was for you but I am so proud of you! 😢 Hugs Colby! You now have thousands of us who care about you like a mom should and have your back forever! It brings me so much joy to see you and Dr. John laughing and joking.
Thank you Colby for having this conversation with Dr John. You are nothing like your mom. You have a good head on your shoulder and a beautiful sweet wife to talk and reason tough situations together! Love your channel ❤
Great guest Dr John is amazing. I love your videos they’re so informative and interesting. Thank you so much for sharing your videos. Prayers to Colby and his family.
Colby is such a wonderfully mature person! This was a great discussion!
One thing I have noticed is Dr. John has always had your back, Colby
I am so appreciative that you are willing to unpack this call with Lori. I'm also glad that Dr. John is helping you digest everything that was thrown at you.
I liked what John said about throwing pop culture into Lori's void to see what would stick. Then Colby's reflection that she couldn't accept hardship is part of life on Earth. She had to make herself special.
Yea.... that was so profound!!
Colby, that was seriously so deep, and the fact that you have come to that conclusion absolutely shows that you are breaking the cycle! It would be so easy for you to choose to ignore all of this pain about your mom and the horrible things she's done to you. I'm not positive, but it seems like ignoring the pain might be the more common thing people do. The fact that you are choosing to actively work through it all is absolute proof that you are and will break the cycle!! I truly hope you allow yourself to be proud of yourself, Colby. You are changing the world for your kids, and that is the very best gift you can give them, Kelsey and yourself!! I don't matter at all in your life but I just want to tell you that I am so proud of you!! I am a 50 year old momma of 2, Grandma of 1, and you inspire me!!
This is soooo helpful to so many. Now I understand why your name is scar wars. We heal then rip open scars. We battle between truth and loved ones false reality.
One of the great things that you’re doing by doing your podcast and speaking on what happened and how it’s all affected you, is you’re giving other people who are in a somewhat similar situation an example of something they can do, if they want or need to. I hope I’m making sense. You’re showing other victims, survivors, family members of those lost to violence that it’s ok to speak out and share their feelings, if they choose. That if they’re ready, or if they wish they could, they can. Obviously, every situation is different. Some may never want to speak on it, but they can if they do.
Though we may not understand your pain, we at least see it, and we support you. And we support others in your situation. Like if family members of the Idaho college students, or family of those girls in Delphi want to speak out, we’re here to listen. We’re here to support. We’re complete strangers, but we care and we’re praying for you and your family. You’re siblings are not forgotten by us. You’re not forgotten either, bruv. We’re behind you.
Well stated! 🙏🏻
@HTC @ColbyRyan thank you both so much for allowing us to listen to your discussion. Excellent interview and incredibly valuable (especially in regard to LDS members who are fixated on the end-times) and I’m so grateful to have listened to this particular video.
@elizabethroberts6169 Two former colleagues, who are now a married couple, left the LDS church earlier this year. They are members of a recovery group for ex Mormons, something I didn't know existed. There is so much to unravel, which has led them to believe that they were in a cult. I was a senior manager in the company where we all met. The owner was LDS, and a very difficult person to deal with. He broke every rule in the book, every day. He had an affair with a Sales rep, as his wife was pregnant with their 3rd child. He drank coffee daily. When he travelled for business, he drank alcohol to excess.
How astonishing that such a "sinful" man was held in such high esteem by the LDS movement.
Not all members are fixated, on the End Times.
@@Luluisraging.86 glad and relieved to hear that. However & unfortunately A LOT in my neck of the woods are over fixated with the end times.
We are all so happy that you have a great team (Lauren and Dr. John and so many) behind you to be by your side and help you navigate this difficult transition 🙏🏼
Colby I am so glad that you have your wife and children to help lift you out of that darkness praise God! You are 100% correct that your Mom is gone the Mom that you once knew. Even attempting to have a truthful conversation with her is useless and I truly think you have come to that conclusion. I pray God grants you peace. Thank you for sharing with the world.
Question for Dr. JOHN. Are there medications that could be given to Lori that would lessen her delusions and ground her back to reality?
@karistutzman8381
I'm not a psychologist. But if it were a medication issue, they would offer them to her. Every person has a choice to participate in therapy or medical treatment. The Word of God states that when we turn from God repeatedly , "God the Creator Himself will SEND STRoNG DELUSIONS that they would believe a lie."
In order to know truth and live in reality, we have to CHOOSE TO KNOW. Choose reality. Vs. Delusions. Part of being deluded I believing it is reality. Deluded means deceived. We don't understand when we are deceived. Deception is believing a lie. Terrifying. Trust that God will help the person who relies on HiM for truth and assistance. . . .
Part of the Cluster B diagnosis is being invested in unreality, paranoia, and self centeredness. It's not a chemical imbalance like some mental health diagnosis are.
It's being transformed by changing my thoughts intentionally. On purpose. We don't do that unless we want to do it and choose to be changed!!!
@@karistutzman8381 I’m not Dr John, but I remember when Lori was declared unfit to stand trial in the very beginning and she was placed in a facility then but she refused medication, and I’m sure she would refuse again because in her mind there is nothing wrong with her.
Dr John is so special as a human! I always love hearing what he has to say. Even when it’s hard to hear. I wish everyone had access to someone like that in life
Hi Colby,
I am sending you lots of love. I grew up in an abusive household too. My abuser was also my mom. My mom would blow up over small things too. I am so proud of you for the healing work you have done. I know from personal experience how hard it can be.
I’m so happy you’re sitting down with John…💋🧚🏻♀️❤️🇺🇸
Thank you so much for allowing us to be a part of your healing journey. A lot of us who grew up with narcissistic, emotionally manipulative parents are so proud of you! A lot of us have so much we want to say to the narcs in our lives, but didn’t get the chance or haven’t had the courage to do it. We’re cheering you on from the sidelines. Process your trauma and break the cycle.
I'm so glad you are so comfortable with Dr. John. Nobody can vaguely even begin to understand what you've been through. Keep getting help, you've got thousands of people that want the best for you and your family.
Colby - I really admire your ability to love your mom as your mom, and to understand that she has issues but you've been wise enough to distance yourself from her.
Replay. The two of you are both so natural and down to earth, like listening to two ole friends. I've never heard Dr. John laugh so much.
When your mother called Tylie a brat she was talking about herself being one...
All the best to you and your sweet family. ❤
51:39 Colby, You are so brave! One thing I can't stop thinking about is that your mom put you in a position as husband/spouse. That is such a confusing thing for a child to go through. You should have just been her son but she made you, and leaned on you as a spouse and BURDENED you with the responsibilities you never agreed too or could not even do? God Bless You!!❤❤❤❤
I 🙏🏼 that Dr. John can help you make peace with the call you had with Lori. 🙏🏼🙏🏼
This is beautiful! I want Cobly to heal and feel this life. And Dr. John is the perfect person to make this happen. I want/need dr john in my life.
Colby J Ryan, WOW!!! You're so emotionally intelligent and have every excuse not to be. I'm gobsmacked.
Do Emotionally intel8gent men rape their wives?
Lauren and Dr John are some of the most compassionate people I've seen have these conversations. They really dig deep into the human mind and the possibilities and reasons why people do what they do. They don't make excuses but they dig into what brought someone to that point.
I get so emotional as a viewer since day one. To see how this has transformed into such a healing process than just leaving it to perspective. Growth is and will continue to be blessed. With love ❤️
Colby, it's so awesome to see you smile and laugh!!! And Dr. John, you are truly an amazing person!! This interview is really enlightening! Thank you so much for sharing❤🥰
Two incredibly wonderful men, Im so glad you have the support of Dr John to get you through. My heart really goes out to you ❤
Lauren and Dr John are special humans.❤ I appreciate their insights and discussions. Mental health is fragile and odd.
You are so brave to ask these questions and move toward understanding. Thank you.
I like how natural you are Colby. You're just yourself and that's rare to come across on podcasts. You were born to do this. Keep it up, continue to seek truth and speaking up ... Prayers with you and your family from across the world
Colby I truly appreciate everything you do. Dr John is such a compassionate Man. Im so glad you have this kind of support.
Seeing and hearing you and doctor John laugh with such authenticity when discussing twilight gives me joy. “He’s Team Edward AND team Jacob” 😂😂 This is a healing convo - thank you for sharing with us! We ❤ Dr John and Lauren!
I really don’t know how you handled the conversation with your mom. You are a better person than me.🙏
What a powerful video. Mature, respectful and compassionate interview. Well done, both of you. This was not an easy conversation to navigate. Respect
I am so happy to see colby doing so well, considering all he's been through. Im glad he's able to laugh and see the lunacy of it all... ❤❤❤
I totally loved this, too hear Colby and Dr. John laugh, that was awesome.
Sent from Hidden True Crime - Wishing You The BEST, Colby
There was a really sweet person in the comments in the last video who sent me to HTC channel, and I’m glad they did. I didn’t realize I’ve been to their channel before! They are absolutely wonderful people, and I’m glad you have Dr John and Lauren! They are a blessing for sure! I’m glad to see you have each other. Dr John is incredible. I’m really glad you have them, Colby. To the person who recommended their channel, thank you ♥️
I absolutely agree that Lori chose the cruelest story to tell in that interview. I'm glad Dr. John and this online community were able to help Colby recognize and have closure about his mom's manipulation. It's so unfair to have to process such a horrific and needless trauma. Thank you for letting us listen in on this raw, intelligent, and fascinating conversation.
You are such a good dude I am genuinely cheering you on out here in the world. So cool you can call Dr John a friend. Much love to you and your loved ones. I love a cool, collaborative effort!
I appreciate how Dr John listens to hear and can give unbiased feedback when talking about difficult topics. Colby, you are healing and I am proud of you for setting boundaries.
This was the best podcast with the 2 of you. Please always stay in touch with each other. Colby you are so brave and kind. Hope that I could be as respectful as you were to your mother. Take care of yourself, the gem you have for a wife, and your children. You are a great dad. As your children get older the only thing you can be with them is honest. They will be counting on you to tell them the truth. Best wishes for your emotional healing. You are on your way!!! ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤ I am not your mom, but I am a mom. I am proud of you. And you should be so proud of yourself, too. ❤
So glad to see this conversation- Dr. John is so very smart and you just have such a great head on your shoulders - you will find your way thru this with the support of the community you are building Colby! Keep moving forward in love ❤
Colby, I'm so glad you got to process with Dr. John.
I have so much admiration for you and your ability to hold it together during your call with your mom.
My thoughts and prayers 🙏 are with you and your family as you heal.
Great talk. Colby is sounding good today. On the road to healing.
You're my hero! 😊❤
Thanks!