I wanted to apologize for the quality of this stream! Im working on making our streams better! Love you all, thank you for being a part of this journey 🙏🏻
@ColbyJRy did you catch that? She said after Charles died her Tylee and ALEX were setting at the table and Tylee mentioned cremation so she was saying there he did that bc of what he heard Tylee say. Wow. I caught that.
I think it would be incredibly insightful to hear Kelsee’s perspective on navigating her role as a supportive partner through this challenging journey. Many of us face situations where our loved ones-partners, friends, or family-are dealing with traumatic experiences, and knowing how to be supportive can make a significant difference. It would be valuable to explore how we can offer support effectively, knowing when to step in and when to step back. What are the common misconceptions about being in such a role? How do we define our role without overstepping? And importantly, when is it appropriate to challenge them or give them the tough love they might need? Kelsee’s personal experience could shed light on these questions and offer guidance for anyone trying to support a loved one through difficult times.
TOBY🎉TOBY🎉TOBY🎉 ATTENTION TOBY SCAREWARS I left a comment about two weeks ago about his wife being in some videos as well .I believe it would be great. I'm sure there's a good reason he is not had her in any of his videos for this channel yet. Perhaps he feels he is protecting her from haters or my first thought was he just don't want a bunch of perverts saying things about her looking good exc. It might be to hard for him not to respond to such a thing. I don't know but agree with you 💯. Her perspective would be wonderful and helpful.
@@Eman__7 I think she already knew a lot about this already ! Lorie hates her told Colby something wrong with ur mom she wouldn't believe her and stories of preaching and saying those things! Weird to here her say!
I’m very impressed with how you handled yourself during your interview. Your thoughtfulness, endurance, and patience seemed to allow her to say more than maybe she intended to. You must have worked so hard to maintain that control. That’s such an accomplishment.
I love hearing you talk about how your wife has helped you see your mom's narcissistic tactics and traits for what they are. Being raised by a narcissistic parent can be very confusing and mentally draining. I'm glad you two found each other because having a good partner is such a gift and a blessing to your life and perspective ❤
The fact that you were strong enough to even ask questions without just screaming at her is amazing. I'm so sorry for your loss. Driving my kids to school i pass a stree woodcock lane and i think of your family every day.
You don’t ever have to justify the emotional pull your mom has on you. She was at one point your everything and can’t even imagine the amount of deconstruction it takes to work through that. Sending love and light ❤
so cathartic to hear Colby's reactions in this because I also had a lot of the same thoughts, reactions but obviously in the first video, he couldn't fully express anything because he was trying to give her the floor to speak which was so amazing of him. I also think it'd be amazing to hear Colby and Chad Frankie have a conversation about all their experiences
You are the strongest kid (yr my son’s age) I’ve seen. But please know it’s ok to not be ok once in a while. All of us internet mommy’s would be so proud to have a son like you. ❤❤
As a big sister, after losing my little sister I found it so very deeply meaningful and healing to share about her. I cannot put into words how much I’m looking forward to getting to know Tylee and JJ through you. All my love ❤️
There is something wrong with Melanie. I saw it in the first interview with her. She comes off as very manipulative and fake. Like she relished in the attention and acted superior to Lori, even though Melanie was knee deep in all of this. Not that she was complicit in the murders, I do not believe she knew. However, she was buying all their nonsense hook, line and sinker and participated in it.
Hard is also healing...I pray you heal Colby...its hard to loose so much so young.. Love your family you have surrounding you now. Mom is living in a world that makes no sense pray that someday she realizes it.
“It really doesn’t get nuttier than that”. You summed it up when you said that Colby. She has definitely completely lost her mind. I’m so sorry for you Colby 😢 such a hard reality to accept. At least you doing this all is helping you come to terms with that. You’re doing what you need to do and it’s inspiring ❤
When someone continues to say "right?" it makes me think that they need confirmation for whatever they are thinking. It makes me wonder if she is actually that delusional or just a sociopathic liar. You did such a great job with her as a poker face! That in itself is impressive. You are doing a great job of getting closure as well as helping others with your story. Thank you for being bold enough to share your interview.
You mentioned the laughter. I find it so unbelievable that she can laugh after what happened. She seems to be in total denial, as if she's done nothing wrong. You handled it so well. Much love Colby ❤
Thank you for sharing your healing journey. I read when she kept talking about Tylee’s mental health and physical problems that she is somehow rationalizing what she did as saving her from suffering. That you would understand because you saw her suffer. While I believe that your sweet sister is no longer suffering, I believe no human has the right to take the life of another. That your sister was supposed to live and that she was a young vibrant woman set to share her gifts with the world. If you ever need a mom, I’m here and there are so many moms on here that are so proud of you.
I am from Louisiana. I live about 30 mins north of Kay and Larry. I made the trip to Boise for a week of Chads trial. I am actually originally from the Pacific North West. I've lived in Washington state and in Idaho for about 10 years. So I feel connected! I admire your strength and your deep Faith! God will always see us through those tough times. (Believe me, I know this!!) just wanted to tell you how much I love your love of God. Much love and prayers for you and your little family! Stay Strong!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
I've always heard that forgiveness is more for yourself than for the other person. I am 43 years old and I have only recently REALLY understood this. Forgiveness results in no longer allowing a person or their actions to have power over you. When I recognized that, all of the pieces clicked and made sense. It's a wonderful feeling to let go of anger.
I had a mom similar to Lori. My heart goes out to you! My mother found me annoying - any compliment or success I achieved was a thorn in her side- perhaps similar to the way Lori saw Tylee. My mother tried to poison me once- but spent all of my growing up years beating me down in any way she could- all while using "God" to hurt me. Yep- sick. You are fortunate to have Dr. John available as a support person! Hugs to you and your family!! Hind sight is often painful! No matter what the emotional connection we have with our parents- It's also healthy to acknowledge when they're a danger to you and your family. She shouldn't have any influence over you, your wife, and definitely your children! You are wise beyond your years! God hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort you when things are hard!
Not that I had any doubt, but the reason I know your mom is lying 100% about what happened with Tylee and JJ is because my grandson passed away in 2008. It took a long time for any of us to be able to talk about him without crying but even after all of these years, talking about the day he died still brings us to tears. Your mom seems to have no problem talking about Tylee and JJ and the day she said they died. She tries to act upset but her lack of empathy comes through. I loved your interview with Dr. John, God bless your little family Colby. 😊
So true, I was practically mute for 3 months after suddenly losing my husband, I can't imagine the loss of a child/grandchild. Lori has no remorse or love for her children. And I am so sorry for your loss.
My little sister died 10 years ago and I too cannot talk about it without crying. Just the thought of her brings tears to my eyes. In the conversation Colby had with Dr. John, he said his mother leaned on him for emotional support, but it was never OK for him to burden her with his own emotions. That is the clearest sign of a narcissistic parent, and it was so clear that Colby has lived with that his whole life, and just didn't know it. He was her golden child so got positive strokes from her, but everything has always been about her. Poor Tylee was the scapegoat and I think Lori pinned all of her negative emotions on her. I'm convinced that the Munchausen Syndrome was definitely part of that relationship. Lori didn't really love those kids.
I kept thinking about this too. Not one tear when speaking about supposedly walking in on two of her children dead. She just doesn't care and is fine with lying about Tylee to escape blame or accountability.
@@gtaylor6937 I'm so sorry about losing your sister. I agree with 100 % of your post. I believe Lori loved playing the victim especially concerning her children. Imo she's the type that if one of the kids went to the ER for a cut/ stitches would call/ tx ALL her friends and fam in hopes of getting attention/sympathy for herself, she thrived on one crisis after another. It's not an excuse but I don't think she woke up one day being this demented, it seems she grew up in a very strange and dysfunctional family.
HI Colby.. Love your podcast and the interview with your mom was outstanding. I have been following this since Tylee and JJ were missing. My husband and I were in Kauai the same time Lori and Chad were…. Literally minutes away from them. We are going back October 24 and I am going to Hanalei Pier to honor Charles, Tylee, and JJ by placing 3 Lei’s in the water and saying a prayer. You and your beautiful family deserve the most healing and peace.
Missed your live, you handled that interview with your mum so well. This must’ve been one of the hardest things to do. You have matured so much over the past five years. You must be missing your siblings so much. Tons of love to you and your family from New Zealand ❤
So glad to hear you immediately protected yourself and didn’t give her anything more than what she tried to use to manipulate you with from the beginning!!!
I am pretty convinced, she has always used these manipulative tactics on everyone, for all her life. Pulling on emotional strings, fake crying, avoiding answering questions that she doesn't want to answer.
@@Bella-yb6gg I feel like you are 100% right. It sounds like a high schooler trying to get the tea, without ask direct questions. Except she did ask directly…. Dang this is gut wrenching and confusing.
I'm glad the scales have lifted and you have the clarity that comes from knowing the Word of God keep learning and recognizing the difference of religion and relationship! God prepared you to fight through this! Keep fighting the Good Fight Brotha!!!! ❤🎉🎉
Hi Colby. You are mature beyond your years. I have a 28 year old son. I wouldn’t want him to go through anything like you have. It looks like you have chosen truth over everything ❤️
I know this is neither here nor there, but I have had Pancreatitis, many times. It’s sucks and is one of the most painful things I have been through. My mom was there, she dealt with it. I really feel for you and I can NOT imagine the crap you have dealt with in the horrible scenario. My heart is with you and yours.
Hi Colby! Thank you for sharing your thoughts while interviewing Lori. It’s good to know that everyone on here has reaffirmed what your heart already knew about Lori but your mind did not want to accept. I’m so glad that you have the support of your wife Kelsee to also bring perspective and help you process all this. When you love someone especially the love we have for our own mom, it’s almost impossible to believe they would want to manipulate and lie to us and do the things Lori has done. I admire your strength and resilience. You have turned your pain into power 💪🏼 and that takes tremendous courage. We are all so proud of you! 👏
You are such a strong, empathetic and insightful man, Colby. If I had to personify the idea of true GRACE, I would point directly at you. I can only imagine the fortitude it took to remain so calm during this call…but you made it through. Soak in the love of your wife & kids…nothing heals heart wounds like a child’s belly laugh or the feeling of their tiny hand in yours 🕊️🤍🕊️
Please do a podcast with Shari Franke! I think it could really benefit society to have two children of such fanatical parents take a look at this subject together. Maybe y'all can help alert more people to children who are in such dangerous situations.
That's a good point. I wonder if there are "signs" people might have been able to see from both Tylee and from JJ. It creeps me out so much that Tylee was "sent off" (is that the right term?) to live with Alex of all people for weeks. It is so sad that she apparently did not have a safe space. To me, I find it impossible to imagine how TERRIBLY difficult it was to be Lori's daughter. I really just cannot imagine.
@@MadlyinLovewithJesus-1953 I can imagine Tylee was scared the last days of her life but under the watchful eye of uncle Alex she had no chance to call for help.
@@Xianne027 And who could she call? She may not have felt she could call someone who really could save her -- plus it's hard to imagine your own parent would have you offed.
@@MadlyinLovewithJesus-1953 Yes, I think so too. Trapped in a gaslighting nightmare. I imagine she could have called Colby for help, of course, but the phone was taken away from her. Like Colby said, he had the feeling it wasn't her who he was texting with.
@@Xianne027 I know Colby must feel terrible that he didn't KNOW how much his brother and sister needed his help. Don't blame yourself, Colby. YOU DIDN'T KNOW.
Colby you are such an amazing man. I am proud of the way you went about this entire process. It takes a real man to do what you are doing. May God's blessings flow into you family's life.
I can’t tell you how proud I am of you Colby. The clarity of mind and strength you maintained during this very manipulative conversation actually blows my mind. There are so many moments that would have pulled me in as her child, which was her intention and you stayed clear and centered. It makes me think you are maybe freed from her after a lifetime of chains you didn’t even know were there. Beyond the the killing of your siblings which is beyond horrible, I suspect your mom has had you in chains your entire life as her golden child.
Hi Colby, missed your live but Im replaying it. I think you are very brave to do this. Im sure it isn't easy. I pray that you continue to keep doing what you do that makes you happy and of course making you heal. ❤
I hope baby boy is born on the 23rd of Ocotber! You are the same age as my late son Eric Lee, he will always be 28. Colby J. you and your sweet little family have a whole bunch of mommas out here, know it's not the same, but we are out here for you.
I just want to point out that it is SO normal to want to have closeness with a parent NO MATTER what they have done. Our brains are hot wired to always love our parents even if they’ve done horrendous things or if they are actively doing terrible things. It is what makes it so hard for the children of narcissistic parents to identify the situation for what it is. It’s so hard to acknowledge it, and never easy to accept that reality. My heart goes out to you for this. So sorry 😞💜
1:27:16 I think the detectives would have looked the medications up just like they did with JJ to find out when they were last filled. They never mentioned her on any
I appreciate you letting us in on this ❤. Reading through some comments, you’re helping people that are healing from their own trauma while you’re healing from yours.
I’m happy to see and hear you get angry. So much trauma thrown your way, getting angry is part of a healthy way to process. You won’t always be angry but you have to feel it in order to move through it. Hoping for the absolute best for you.
I am so proud of you Colby. You’ve endured so much and you’ve come through the storm so strong. Your wife is an amazing woman who I believe God had given you as a gift to get through it all. And your beautiful family. God bless you all. Stay strong. Your mom loves you. She’s just completely delusional. So sad. Love and prayers to you all, Colby.
I think it is amazing that you are willing to try to work through this in the public eye. Most people struggle to open up like this in private. Thank you. Really. We're holding you up in prayer!
I'm very glad to hear that you are in some kind of therapy. You deserve a place to be raw and unfiltered. I'm also glad you're processing this interview in depth and in multiple ways. Hopefully it can really help you move through things. Wishing Kelsee and the baby a safe and easy delivery!
My heart has never ached so much for people I never knew - and that’s because you bring JJ and Tylee to life every time you speak. You are the ultimate big brother and now father to your kids. Your strength is palpable and admirable.
I didn't catch the live for either parts but I'm catching up. This whole case your siblings and yourself and growing family have caught my heart and I think about you and Kelsee often ❤️ You are a very strong hearted man and I wish nothing but happiness and success for you and you little fam❤️
Re 1:40:00 - "I was NEVER going to tell ANYONE ANYTHING," which translates from narc-speak to "if everything had gone as planned and I hadn't got caught."
I was just 14 when Tylee and JJ went missing You are so strong Colby I have never been through anything remotely close to what you have been. But you give me strength when I do get down to pick myself up. If you can do it after everything I can do it for little petty things. God Bless you and your family
I remember there being a text to Alex where he asked what had she been doing. She replied with something along the lines of battling z's and Alex replied with I'm proud of you. It must have been in the long read out of the texts done in Chad's trial by law enforcement or the tech guy.
Colby, do what you need to do to heal. I think you still have a lot of questions, etc. IF you can do more interviews with her, it might help you to heal. Every time you talk to her, she provides a little more information. I would love to know how she feels about Chad now and if she realizes he threw her under the bus. However, you need to do what is best for you to heal. Kelsee, I am so happy you are supporting Colby, and I am soooo excited to meet your baby boy. You and the girls are beautiful!! Much love to all of you.
You are so brave by telling YOUR story! I am just so sorry all of this has happened. As hard as this is, please don’t stop sharing your voice. This experience is going to make you a great, great father. RIP, Tyler and JJ.
Colby, an episode where you talk about your happiest memories with Tylee and JJ would be beautiful to hear. To hear about their happy moments would be wonderful thinking about all the lies Lori has told.
Colby, you are having to accept the unacceptable and that is a difficult journey. I have my own nightmare I am working through that pales in comparison to what you are working through. I cannot imagine the struggle you have faced. If it’s one good thing that comes from all of this it’s that your strength through the fire 🔥 is an inspiration to people like me who are struggling. To face what you’ve had to face and come out in strength is inspirational. If you can do it then I can do it. Here you are building your family, maintaining your faith and helping others. You’ve chosen healing and not hate. You have a valiant spirit and I am certain JJ and Tylee are proud of you and cheering you on. God truly walks with you. Bless you Colby 🙏❤️🌟
I know you are trying to get through it and it will take a while just like my counselor explains it to me but we are all here for you keep going and you know the truth
I missed it too. Dang My daughter just turned 27. Raised her single..knows her dad and she is such a beautiful young women. You have great strength behind you. Love Kelsey with all you got.❤
41:19 of this video shows a man with a heart for the Lord. ❤ A man that can see the pain of others while being broken is truly a blessing of the Lord. Humility followed by great discernment.
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable throughout your healing journey. I’ve personally learned a lot from the conversations on the podcast and I hope you remember that facing it head on, with such courage, is truly inspiring ❤ wishing you the best and peace ✌🏻
Colby, you are a remarkable young man. Your strength, convictions and heart have been shaken to the core by the woman you trusted, loved. The man you have become is one who stands as a public example of healing and love. I hope that you know how much you are admired. May you and your family find peace.
I know you likely won't see this but your strength is so inspiring to me and has helped me in many ways during a difficult health journey.as someone close to the area Tylee,JJ you and so many will be forever in my heart. Thank you for having an impact on me and thank you for sharing this journey it matters so much. 💛
I’m so thankful you have Kelsee and family to be with you through this. I didn’t watch any media or the trial, but I feel compelled to support you in the only way I can by watching. 💙
Your restraint is so admirable. I was raised by a narcissistic alcoholic and then I married the king of the narcissists. It’s taken a lot of years and a lot of counseling to realize that I was never the problem. Listening to her was so triggering (please know that I am not a fan of using that word because it is so overused - but it was totally applicable here). As a parent of kids with a raging narcissist for a dad, I felt so overprotective of you as I listened.
Colby, I’m happy that you have found your way through this horrible Tragedy. May God comfort you continue to move forward in a journey that no one ever should have to go on. I would love to learn more about Charles and how and what effect his loss has had on you. What he was like and your thoughts about what happened to him. I apologize if you have already shared this. Again prayers for your continued healing. I’m so sorry for all your losses including the loss of the mother you believed to know and love 💔😪🙏🏼
Watching later because Australia here but absolutely love hearing you pop off and vent here. And would really love to hear Kelsee's take she sounds absolutely spot on. What a champ she is.
You have an entire community who love and respect you. You are wonderful and I give you so much credit for being this vulnerable and honest. This is going to help you heal. You are so very strong ❤❤❤❤❤
From South Africa ! I’m sure you miss your Mom so much ! She is a huge personality and seems to have made all of your lives just as big and bright ! I’m so sorry for the loss of all of your family xx
Hi Colby! Sending you so much love from Indianapolis. I have followed your story since the beginning and I have been praying for all of you. You should be so proud of yourself and what you have endured. You have a beautiful little family and God Bless you!❤️
Colby- Congrats on the new baby! I also wanted to say you are incredibly strong! I'm sure she tried to manipulate everyone like this, talking to them like they are the only person in the world she connects with. Thank you for showing us how you are processing through something so incredibly traumatic!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on all this. It really does help many people. You are a beacon of how to work through adversity. So proud of you ! Love and peace 🙏 ❤
You are truly a good-hearted, classy person. Wishing you nothing but peace and blessings. Thank you for sharing your journey and know that you are making a difference.
Hi colby, I don't think any one can know what you are having to deal with, I hope some how, you are able to find peace. You are an inspiration! I wish you the very best. Sue from England, ❤❤
![BLACK BAG - Official Trailer [HD] - Only in Theaters March 14](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/Du0Xp8WX_7I/mqdefault.jpg)
I wanted to apologize for the quality of this stream! Im working on making our streams better! Love you all, thank you for being a part of this journey 🙏🏻
@ColbyJRy did you catch that? She said after Charles died her Tylee and ALEX were setting at the table and Tylee mentioned cremation so she was saying there he did that bc of what he heard Tylee say. Wow. I caught that.
No aplogy necessary ❤ shits so hard
Thank you and God bless you for sharing your story!❤
I think it would be incredibly insightful to hear Kelsee’s perspective on navigating her role as a supportive partner through this challenging journey. Many of us face situations where our loved ones-partners, friends, or family-are dealing with traumatic experiences, and knowing how to be supportive can make a significant difference. It would be valuable to explore how we can offer support effectively, knowing when to step in and when to step back. What are the common misconceptions about being in such a role? How do we define our role without overstepping? And importantly, when is it appropriate to challenge them or give them the tough love they might need? Kelsee’s personal experience could shed light on these questions and offer guidance for anyone trying to support a loved one through difficult times.
TOBY🎉TOBY🎉TOBY🎉 ATTENTION TOBY SCAREWARS
I left a comment about two weeks ago about his wife being in some videos as well .I believe it would be great. I'm sure there's a good reason he is not had her in any of his videos for this channel yet. Perhaps he feels he is protecting her from haters or my first thought was he just don't want a bunch of perverts saying things about her looking good exc. It might be to hard for him not to respond to such a thing. I don't know but agree with you 💯. Her perspective would be wonderful and helpful.
@@Eman__7 I think she already knew a lot about this already ! Lorie hates her told Colby something wrong with ur mom she wouldn't believe her and stories of preaching and saying those things! Weird to here her say!
It has to be incredibly difficult to listen to her , maybe it's not a good idea ? Use your best judgemental.
@@caseyconatser7926maybe she doesn't want to e on video?
Kelsey’s an angel
I’m very impressed with how you handled yourself during your interview. Your thoughtfulness, endurance, and patience seemed to allow her to say more than maybe she intended to. You must have worked so hard to maintain that control. That’s such an accomplishment.
It's very impressive i would not been able to do it. I would have been like how can Tylee kill JJ when see was dead for 2 weeks please do tell.
@@22222DedeB YES, that was SOOOOOO over the top for Lori to say that!
Yes! The patience of a saint! I cried several times, I was mad, I was frustrated.. I cannot imagine how you and your family feel.
@tw200yamaha i was telling are you kidding me! How dare you!
I love hearing you talk about how your wife has helped you see your mom's narcissistic tactics and traits for what they are. Being raised by a narcissistic parent can be very confusing and mentally draining. I'm glad you two found each other because having a good partner is such a gift and a blessing to your life and perspective ❤
The fact that you were strong enough to even ask questions without just screaming at her is amazing. I'm so sorry for your loss. Driving my kids to school i pass a stree woodcock lane and i think of your family every day.
You don’t ever have to justify the emotional pull your mom has on you. She was at one point your everything and can’t even imagine the amount of deconstruction it takes to work through that. Sending love and light ❤
I'm glad you put that wall up. It needs to stay there so that you can protect your heart and mind.
Is it a wall or a blanket of Jesus’ peace? Jesus’ light is so bright through this man.
Colby, you showed such maturity and true love in this talk with your mom. Many of us were screaming at our phones at her. You are on the right path.
so cathartic to hear Colby's reactions in this because I also had a lot of the same thoughts, reactions but obviously in the first video, he couldn't fully express anything because he was trying to give her the floor to speak which was so amazing of him. I also think it'd be amazing to hear Colby and Chad Frankie have a conversation about all their experiences
You are the strongest kid (yr my son’s age) I’ve seen. But please know it’s ok to not be ok once in a while. All of us internet mommy’s would be so proud to have a son like you. ❤❤
I love how you are such a bright star in this dark dark world! 🙏🏼❤️
As a big sister, after losing my little sister I found it so very deeply meaningful and healing to share about her.
I cannot put into words how much I’m looking forward to getting to know Tylee and JJ through you.
All my love ❤️
@@KiraBirb-pi6sl Agree! Tylee seems like an amazing young woman!
Sweet Comment ❤
Kelsee is right. ❤ Lori did not do things to protect people. She did things to manipulate people. Huge difference.
Hey Colby
Just wanted to say thank you for allowing us to walk this journey with you. Stay as strong as you are! From South Africa 🇿🇦
That's a beautiful way of putting it,you are right about that though,we will all watch out for Colby and family ❤❤❤❤❤
1:14 min, "Stupid Melanie", she says. Interesting she now thinks of her that way.
There is something wrong with Melanie. I saw it in the first interview with her. She comes off as very manipulative and fake. Like she relished in the attention and acted superior to Lori, even though Melanie was knee deep in all of this.
Not that she was complicit in the murders, I do not believe she knew. However, she was buying all their nonsense hook, line and sinker and participated in it.
Hello, Sweet Melani….
Gag🤢🤮
Beginning of the call: "you know what I believe"
End of the call: "you don't even know WHAT I believe"
10 thumbs for that comment
Hard is also healing...I pray you heal Colby...its hard to loose so much so young.. Love your family you have surrounding you now. Mom is living in a world that makes no sense pray that someday she realizes it.
😢😢I can't believe how much you have had to endure.
“It really doesn’t get nuttier than that”. You summed it up when you said that Colby. She has definitely completely lost her mind. I’m so sorry for you Colby 😢 such a hard reality to accept. At least you doing this all is helping you come to terms with that. You’re doing what you need to do and it’s inspiring ❤
When someone continues to say "right?" it makes me think that they need confirmation for whatever they are thinking. It makes me wonder if she is actually that delusional or just a sociopathic liar. You did such a great job with her as a poker face! That in itself is impressive. You are doing a great job of getting closure as well as helping others with your story. Thank you for being bold enough to share your interview.
Yes. They want confirmation that you believe them. They're gauging if they need to further spin lies to get you to believe them.
@@ce4d I totally agree
You mentioned the laughter. I find it so unbelievable that she can laugh after what happened. She seems to be in total denial, as if she's done nothing wrong. You handled it so well. Much love Colby ❤
You do so well staying leveled out, Tylee & JJ are so lucky to have you advocate for them, take care of yourself 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing your healing journey. I read when she kept talking about Tylee’s mental health and physical problems that she is somehow rationalizing what she did as saving her from suffering. That you would understand because you saw her suffer. While I believe that your sweet sister is no longer suffering, I believe no human has the right to take the life of another. That your sister was supposed to live and that she was a young vibrant woman set to share her gifts with the world. If you ever need a mom, I’m here and there are so many moms on here that are so proud of you.
Your resilience is admirable. Love for you and your family
I'm listening to what she DOESNT TALK ABOUT - Chad.
@@pattyakriel9918 I did notice that she never says chads name or says anything about him
@@pattyakriel9918 so true!
I thought the same thing
She still thinks her and Chad are on their mission, meanwhile he totally threw her under the bus
Absolutely 💯 SO SURPRISED she doesn't mention her Husband Chad at all !!!!
I am from Louisiana. I live about 30 mins north of Kay and Larry. I made the trip to Boise for a week of Chads trial. I am actually originally from the Pacific North West. I've lived in Washington state and in Idaho for about 10 years. So I feel connected! I admire your strength and your deep Faith! God will always see us through those tough times. (Believe me, I know this!!) just wanted to tell you how much I love your love of God. Much love and prayers for you and your little family! Stay Strong!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼
For someone who wants to protect Tylee, she throws her under the bus in multiple ways.
I've always heard that forgiveness is more for yourself than for the other person. I am 43 years old and I have only recently REALLY understood this. Forgiveness results in no longer allowing a person or their actions to have power over you. When I recognized that, all of the pieces clicked and made sense. It's a wonderful feeling to let go of anger.
Her answers are exhausting. you are a great example of how to handle the worst situation in life. Proud of you!!
I had a mom similar to Lori. My heart goes out to you! My mother found me annoying - any compliment or success I achieved was a thorn in her side- perhaps similar to the way Lori saw Tylee. My mother tried to poison me once- but spent all of my growing up years beating me down in any way she could- all while using "God" to hurt me. Yep- sick. You are fortunate to have Dr. John available as a support person! Hugs to you and your family!! Hind sight is often painful! No matter what the emotional connection we have with our parents- It's also healthy to acknowledge when they're a danger to you and your family. She shouldn't have any influence over you, your wife, and definitely your children! You are wise beyond your years! God hold you in the palm of his hand and comfort you when things are hard!
WOW that must have been awful💔
Not that I had any doubt, but the reason I know your mom is lying 100% about what happened with Tylee and JJ is because my grandson passed away in 2008. It took a long time for any of us to be able to talk about him without crying but even after all of these years, talking about the day he died still brings us to tears. Your mom seems to have no problem talking about Tylee and JJ and the day she said they died. She tries to act upset but her lack of empathy comes through. I loved your interview with Dr. John, God bless your little family Colby. 😊
So true, I was practically mute for 3 months after suddenly losing my husband, I can't imagine the loss of a child/grandchild. Lori has no remorse or love for her children. And I am so sorry for your loss.
My little sister died 10 years ago and I too cannot talk about it without crying. Just the thought of her brings tears to my eyes. In the conversation Colby had with Dr. John, he said his mother leaned on him for emotional support, but it was never OK for him to burden her with his own emotions. That is the clearest sign of a narcissistic parent, and it was so clear that Colby has lived with that his whole life, and just didn't know it. He was her golden child so got positive strokes from her, but everything has always been about her. Poor Tylee was the scapegoat and I think Lori pinned all of her negative emotions on her. I'm convinced that the Munchausen Syndrome was definitely part of that relationship. Lori didn't really love those kids.
Nicely said!
I kept thinking about this too. Not one tear when speaking about supposedly walking in on two of her children dead. She just doesn't care and is fine with lying about Tylee to escape blame or accountability.
@@gtaylor6937 I'm so sorry about losing your sister. I agree with 100 % of your post. I believe Lori loved playing the victim especially concerning her children. Imo she's the type that if one of the kids went to the ER for a cut/ stitches would call/ tx ALL her friends and fam in hopes of getting attention/sympathy for herself, she thrived on one crisis after another. It's not an excuse but I don't think she woke up one day being this demented, it seems she grew up in a very strange and dysfunctional family.
HI Colby.. Love your podcast and the interview with your mom was outstanding. I have been following this since Tylee and JJ were missing. My husband and I were in Kauai the same time Lori and Chad were…. Literally minutes away from them. We are going back October 24 and I am going to Hanalei Pier to honor Charles, Tylee, and JJ by placing 3 Lei’s in the water and saying a prayer. You and your beautiful family deserve the most healing and peace.
Missed your live, you handled that interview with your mum so well. This must’ve been one of the hardest things to do. You have matured so much over the past five years. You must be missing your siblings so much. Tons of love to you and your family from New Zealand ❤
So glad to hear you immediately protected yourself and didn’t give her anything more than what she tried to use to manipulate you with from the beginning!!!
We Love And Support You Colby❣️❤️💚
I am pretty convinced, she has always used these manipulative tactics on everyone, for all her life. Pulling on emotional strings, fake crying, avoiding answering questions that she doesn't want to answer.
It is clear Lorie wanted to know what Tylee said to Colby because she was wondering if Tylee told him what REALLY happened
@@Bella-yb6gg I feel like you are 100% right. It sounds like a high schooler trying to get the tea, without ask direct questions. Except she did ask directly…. Dang this is gut wrenching and confusing.
I'm glad the scales have lifted and you have the clarity that comes from knowing the Word of God keep learning and recognizing the difference of religion and relationship! God prepared you to fight through this! Keep fighting the Good Fight Brotha!!!! ❤🎉🎉
Doing the rewatch! Missed the live. God bless you.
Hi Colby. You are mature beyond your years. I have a 28 year old son. I wouldn’t want him to go through anything like you have. It looks like you have chosen truth over everything ❤️
"In my mind" = "this is the lie I've told myself and endlessly repeated to myself"
My heart hurts for you Colby….you are loved❤
I know this is neither here nor there, but I have had Pancreatitis, many times. It’s sucks and is one of the most painful things I have been through. My mom was there, she dealt with it. I really feel for you and I can NOT imagine the crap you have dealt with in the horrible scenario. My heart is with you and yours.
Hi Colby! Thank you for sharing your thoughts while interviewing Lori. It’s good to know that everyone on here has reaffirmed what your heart already knew about Lori but your mind did not want to accept. I’m so glad that you have the support of your wife Kelsee to also bring perspective and help you process all this. When you love someone especially the love we have for our own mom, it’s almost impossible to believe they would want to manipulate and lie to us and do the things Lori has done. I admire your strength and resilience. You have turned your pain into power 💪🏼 and that takes tremendous courage. We are all so proud of you! 👏
Good for you for not taking the bait. She tried so hard and you are so strong, she’s your mother after all. ❤❤
You are such a strong, empathetic and insightful man, Colby. If I had to personify the idea of true GRACE, I would point directly at you. I can only imagine the fortitude it took to remain so calm during this call…but you made it through. Soak in the love of your wife & kids…nothing heals heart wounds like a child’s belly laugh or the feeling of their tiny hand in yours 🕊️🤍🕊️
@@Sarah-Graham575 I agree with you 100%, great comment.
Please do a podcast with Shari Franke! I think it could really benefit society to have two children of such fanatical parents take a look at this subject together. Maybe y'all can help alert more people to children who are in such dangerous situations.
That's a good point. I wonder if there are "signs" people might have been able to see from both Tylee and from JJ. It creeps me out so much that Tylee was "sent off" (is that the right term?) to live with Alex of all people for weeks. It is so sad that she apparently did not have a safe space. To me, I find it impossible to imagine how TERRIBLY difficult it was to be Lori's daughter. I really just cannot imagine.
@@MadlyinLovewithJesus-1953 I can imagine Tylee was scared the last days of her life but under the watchful eye of uncle Alex she had no chance to call for help.
@@Xianne027 And who could she call? She may not have felt she could call someone who really could save her -- plus it's hard to imagine your own parent would have you offed.
@@MadlyinLovewithJesus-1953 Yes, I think so too. Trapped in a gaslighting nightmare.
I imagine she could have called Colby for help, of course, but the phone was taken away from her. Like Colby said, he had the feeling it wasn't her who he was texting with.
@@Xianne027 I know Colby must feel terrible that he didn't KNOW how much his brother and sister needed his help. Don't blame yourself, Colby. YOU DIDN'T KNOW.
“When I came upon that, SCEN..UH and they were GON ..UH, I thought it was my fault!” It was absolutely your fault, Lori!
The deep pain in your eyes when she says some things is heartbreaking. So happy you are healing and have the strength of Gods true love within you.
Colby you are such an amazing man. I am proud of the way you went about this entire process. It takes a real man to do what you are doing. May God's blessings flow into you family's life.
I can’t tell you how proud I am of you Colby. The clarity of mind and strength you maintained during this very manipulative conversation actually blows my mind.
There are so many moments that would have pulled me in as her child, which was her intention and you stayed clear and centered.
It makes me think you are maybe freed from her after a lifetime of chains you didn’t even know were there. Beyond the the killing of your siblings which is beyond horrible, I suspect your mom has had you in chains your entire life as her golden child.
Hi Colby, missed your live but Im replaying it. I think you are very brave to do this. Im sure it isn't easy. I pray that you continue to keep doing what you do that makes you happy and of course making you heal. ❤
I hope baby boy is born on the 23rd of Ocotber! You are the same age as my late son Eric Lee, he will always be 28. Colby J. you and your sweet little family have a whole bunch of mommas out here, know it's not the same, but we are out here for you.
I just want to point out that it is SO normal to want to have closeness with a parent NO MATTER what they have done. Our brains are hot wired to always love our parents even if they’ve done horrendous things or if they are actively doing terrible things. It is what makes it so hard for the children of narcissistic parents to identify the situation for what it is. It’s so hard to acknowledge it, and never easy to accept that reality. My heart goes out to you for this. So sorry 😞💜
Thanks!
1:27:16 I think the detectives would have looked the medications up just like they did with JJ to find out when they were last filled. They never mentioned her on any
I appreciate you letting us in on this ❤. Reading through some comments, you’re helping people that are healing from their own trauma while you’re healing from yours.
I’m happy to see and hear you get angry. So much trauma thrown your way, getting angry is part of a healthy way to process. You won’t always be angry but you have to feel it in order to move through it. Hoping for the absolute best for you.
I am so proud of you Colby. You’ve endured so much and you’ve come through the storm so strong. Your wife is an amazing woman who I believe God had given you as a gift to get through it all. And your beautiful family. God bless you all. Stay strong. Your mom loves you. She’s just completely delusional. So sad. Love and prayers to you all, Colby.
I really don’t think Lori is capable of maternal love. She murdered two of her kids, remember??
I think it is amazing that you are willing to try to work through this in the public eye. Most people struggle to open up like this in private. Thank you. Really. We're holding you up in prayer!
I'm very glad to hear that you are in some kind of therapy. You deserve a place to be raw and unfiltered. I'm also glad you're processing this interview in depth and in multiple ways. Hopefully it can really help you move through things. Wishing Kelsee and the baby a safe and easy delivery!
You"re the best one to interview her. She would either not talk or drag others down rabbit holes
@@Fivar YES
My heart has never ached so much for people I never knew - and that’s because you bring JJ and Tylee to life every time you speak. You are the ultimate big brother and now father to your kids. Your strength is palpable and admirable.
Good stream, bruv. Glad to see you’re doing well, even with the tough phone call. God bless your family and good luck if the little one is on the way!
I didn't catch the live for either parts but I'm catching up. This whole case your siblings and yourself and growing family have caught my heart and I think about you and Kelsee often ❤️ You are a very strong hearted man and I wish nothing but happiness and success for you and you little fam❤️
Thanks so much for sharing this. Respect and support from Utah❤
Re 1:40:00 -
"I was NEVER going to tell ANYONE ANYTHING," which translates from narc-speak to "if everything had gone as planned and I hadn't got caught."
So great to know this is helping you heal. Sending you so much love. Xx
I was just 14 when Tylee and JJ went missing You are so strong Colby I have never been through anything remotely close to what you have been. But you give me strength when I do get down to pick myself up. If you can do it after everything I can do it for little petty things. God Bless you and your family
You are so brave. The whole story breaks our collective hearts. We are with you on your grief and healing ❤️🩹 journey.
I remember there being a text to Alex where he asked what had she been doing. She replied with something along the lines of battling z's and Alex replied with I'm proud of you. It must have been in the long read out of the texts done in Chad's trial by law enforcement or the tech guy.
Colby, do what you need to do to heal. I think you still have a lot of questions, etc. IF you can do more interviews with her, it might help you to heal. Every time you talk to her, she provides a little more information. I would love to know how she feels about Chad now and if she realizes he threw her under the bus. However, you need to do what is best for you to heal. Kelsee, I am so happy you are supporting Colby, and I am soooo excited to meet your baby boy. You and the girls are beautiful!! Much love to all of you.
So, I'm happy you are finding healing!!! God has you and your lovely family in HIS HAND!!! God Bless you!!!
You are so brave by telling YOUR story! I am just so sorry all of this has happened. As hard as this is, please don’t stop sharing your voice. This experience is going to make you a great, great father. RIP, Tyler and JJ.
Colby, an episode where you talk about your happiest memories with Tylee and JJ would be beautiful to hear. To hear about their happy moments would be wonderful thinking about all the lies Lori has told.
Colby, you are having to accept the unacceptable and that is a difficult journey.
I have my own nightmare I am working through that pales in comparison to what you are working through.
I cannot imagine the struggle you have faced.
If it’s one good thing that comes from all of this it’s that your strength through the fire 🔥 is an inspiration to people like me who are struggling.
To face what you’ve had to face and come out in strength is inspirational.
If you can do it then I can do it. Here you are building your family, maintaining your faith and helping others. You’ve chosen healing and not hate.
You have a valiant spirit and I am certain JJ and Tylee are proud of you and cheering you on.
God truly walks with you. Bless you Colby 🙏❤️🌟
I know you are trying to get through it and it will take a while just like my counselor explains it to me but we are all here for you keep going and you know the truth
I missed it too. Dang My daughter just turned 27. Raised her single..knows her dad and she is such a beautiful young women. You have great strength behind you. Love Kelsey with all you got.❤
I became a member on your channel this morning. Mostly because wanting to support you and your lovely wife and two (?) kids. ❤
41:19 of this video shows a man with a heart for the Lord. ❤ A man that can see the pain of others while being broken is truly a blessing of the Lord. Humility followed by great discernment.
Your strength & calmness is remarkable!! Sending ❤
Are you & Kelsey going to sell merchandise? Scar wars!!!
So god to see you Colby. I love your videos and always look forward to the next one.
You're in my prayers sweetheart. I'm proud of you for standing strong. You're a great big brother, you've stood strong for them.
Thank you for being so open and vulnerable throughout your healing journey. I’ve personally learned a lot from the conversations on the podcast and I hope you remember that facing it head on, with such courage, is truly inspiring ❤ wishing you the best and peace ✌🏻
HI Colby!I just love your channel. You are such an awesome person .
Colby, you are a remarkable young man. Your strength, convictions and heart have been shaken to the core by the woman you trusted, loved. The man you have become is one who stands as a public example of healing and love. I hope that you know how much you are admired. May you and your family find peace.
I know you likely won't see this but your strength is so inspiring to me and has helped me in many ways during a difficult health journey.as someone close to the area Tylee,JJ you and so many will be forever in my heart. Thank you for having an impact on me and thank you for sharing this journey it matters so much. 💛
I’m so thankful you have Kelsee and family to be with you through this. I didn’t watch any media or the trial, but I feel compelled to support you in the only way I can by watching. 💙
Your restraint is so admirable. I was raised by a narcissistic alcoholic and then I married the king of the narcissists. It’s taken a lot of years and a lot of counseling to realize that I was never the problem. Listening to her was so triggering (please know that I am not a fan of using that word because it is so overused - but it was totally applicable here). As a parent of kids with a raging narcissist for a dad, I felt so overprotective of you as I listened.
Colby, I’m happy that you have found your way through this horrible Tragedy. May God comfort you continue to move forward in a journey that no one ever should have to go on.
I would love to learn more about Charles and how and what effect his loss has had on you. What he was like and your thoughts about what happened to him. I apologize if you have already shared this. Again prayers for your continued healing. I’m so sorry for all your losses including the loss of the mother you believed to know and love 💔😪🙏🏼
Hi Colby! I'm so glad that you are in a huge hearing process ...
Watching later because Australia here but absolutely love hearing you pop off and vent here. And would really love to hear Kelsee's take she sounds absolutely spot on. What a champ she is.
Your a very strong, good and full of love for ur family ❤ bless u Colby many prayers
You have an entire community who love and respect you. You are wonderful and I give you so much credit for being this vulnerable and honest. This is going to help you heal. You are so very strong ❤❤❤❤❤
From South Africa ! I’m sure you miss your Mom so much ! She is a huge personality and seems to have made all of your lives just as big and bright ! I’m so sorry for the loss of all of your family xx
Hi Colby! Sending you so much love from Indianapolis. I have followed your story since the beginning and I have been praying for all of you. You should be so proud of yourself and what you have endured. You have a beautiful little family and God Bless you!❤️
Colby- Congrats on the new baby! I also wanted to say you are incredibly strong! I'm sure she tried to manipulate everyone like this, talking to them like they are the only person in the world she connects with. Thank you for showing us how you are processing through something so incredibly traumatic!
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts on all this. It really does help many people. You are a beacon of how to work through adversity. So proud of you ! Love and peace 🙏 ❤
You are truly a good-hearted, classy person. Wishing you nothing but peace and blessings. Thank you for sharing your journey and know that you are making a difference.
Hi colby, I don't think any one can know what you are having to deal with, I hope some how, you are able to find peace. You are an inspiration! I wish you the very best. Sue from England, ❤❤