Reacting to your unpopular book opinions part 2 *I get personally offended?*

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  • @brittanyprice8109
    @brittanyprice8109 Год назад +140

    BookTok can be pretty ridiculous. Readers should be excited to have more people joining the hobby. There are sooo many genres of books, that there is literally something for everyone. Just because you don’t like a certain author or type of book, doesn’t mean you should crap on the people who enjoy them. I don’t like Colleen Hoover books, but I would never call someone who likes them “non-readers.” That’s so absurd.

    • @emmisouliere5456
      @emmisouliere5456 Год назад +7

      for real. i like the way you worded this!!:)

    • @steph9054
      @steph9054 Год назад +9

      Absolutely! Personally romance books aren't my thing but I love seeing others enjoy them. I swear some people grow a superiority complex when it comes to books and book genres and its not nice.

    • @saardcv
      @saardcv Год назад +9

      TikTok is ridiculous overall, so much negativity on that app

  • @raquelh7682
    @raquelh7682 Год назад +127

    I feel personally attacked with the seven husbands of evelyn hugo, it made me cry so much and it was a five star for me, obviously it's totally fine if people didn't like it!!!

    • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
      @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Год назад +9

      I didn't liked it but i understand why people love it.

    • @jennefera932
      @jennefera932 Год назад +5

      I absolutely loved that book. I resonated with Evelyn so much, i love her♥️

    • @miksug
      @miksug Год назад +2

      this was a book i REFUSED to read for sooo long bc it was so hyped up and sounded really boring to me, but i cried while reading this! i loved it!!!

    • @becca4889
      @becca4889 Год назад +3

      I really didn’t like it but I wanted to live it I was so sad

    • @raquelh7682
      @raquelh7682 Год назад

      @@miksug I'm so glad you gave it a chance!

  • @pen1785
    @pen1785 Год назад +21

    I'm convinced people who write bully romance have never been bullied a day in their life because if they did they would understand that bullying is NOT a "brutal" way of showing someone you like them, but a way for people who feel inferior to elevate themselves at the expanse of others. And listen if the person that was bullied want's to forgive their bully they have every right to do so, but how tf do you want a healthy relationship with someone who gave their significant other trauma?? F that.

  • @stephmariem
    @stephmariem Год назад +53

    I love how respectful you are of other peoples opinions, it’s so refreshing honestly❤️

  • @kyraallerton4612
    @kyraallerton4612 Год назад +40

    Ugly love is one of my least favourite books I have ever read. Half the book is his love story and obsession with another girl. Tate was instantly obsessed with him because of how “hot he is” and he treated her like garbage. She felt like a second choice next to Rachel

    • @emmisouliere5456
      @emmisouliere5456 Год назад +2

      I didn’t love ugly love either, however, the whole point of the “7 years earlier” parts is to go back and show us the story of miles and rachel. I think Tate was interested in him for other reasons as well. yes, she thought he was good looking, but she talks abt wanting to get to know him for his past. also, the point of it in the beginning was only a physical attraction so i can see what you mean but i also think there’s other ways to look at it.

    • @saardcv
      @saardcv Год назад +1

      I just feel like you can’t hate on Miles’ behavior because Tate knew what she was in for and still tried to push him to open up, yes it worked eventually but like she KNEW AND AGREED to keep it strictly physical.. so yeah it is kinda the point as well to find your friend with benefits hot like.. lmao imagine. but anyways she is a grown ass woman and she knew. that’s all. and if she was like nope I can’t handle you treating me like this then leave miss girl

    • @heatherstiara8033
      @heatherstiara8033 Год назад

      I agree. He sucked. She deserves better lol

    • @pranjalpatankar5566
      @pranjalpatankar5566 Год назад +1

      i absolutely agree with you. First of all, it is NOT a romance book. its NOT. Most of Colleen Hoovers books are basically romanticised abuse. Miles treated Tate horribly, and Tate was not even the main character - the book was about a sibling relationship between Miles and Rachel. Ugly love and November 9 are one of the worst books i have read. No hate tho everyone can have opinions :)

  • @eshadayal7935
    @eshadayal7935 Год назад +12

    The letting someone borrow a book from me is so true though. I’ve let two people ever borrow a book from me, one of them got glue on the cover and half of it is kind of like water damaged, and the second person fully spilled their water bottle on it accidentally…. Up the second person is buying me a brand new version of the book I lent them

  • @LVHAPPY5
    @LVHAPPY5 Год назад +16

    My unpopular opinion (I'm sure LOL) I HATE HATE HATE...when I'm researching a book whether its on YT, TT, Booktok etc and the poster/someone in the comments give away the tropes. Ohhh...this is enemies to lovers, childhood friends to lovers, fake dating etc. I can't even!! I don't want to know any of the tropes cuz I feel like it gives away what the books gonna be about. I always have to hurry up and MUTE or scroll to try an avoid that. For me, it's like...well why read it now? they basically told me what it's about. ALSO, 7 Husbands...meh. Like someone said in the vid...had to MAKE myself finish it. I DNF'd for a bit, but decided to finish. I liked it, it was good...but overall for me "ok."

    • @anaaraujo3967
      @anaaraujo3967 Год назад +4

      Right? And when it's something that is a major spoiler like "oh I hated this romance book because I hate the surprise pregnancy trope". LIKE, hmmm let me guess what the huge plot is going to be in this romance book

    • @LVHAPPY5
      @LVHAPPY5 Год назад

      @@anaaraujo3967 HAHA! Exactly!!! :)

  • @lomesiaallen473
    @lomesiaallen473 Год назад +9

    OMG OMG the friendship adds more to the book comment was mine!! I meant I love when the main characters have close friends that are involved in the book. I feel like so often romances don't show the characters with other people like friends or family but I loveee when they do. I think it gives them more depth and makes me able to imagine the character as a person outside of their pending relationship. It also usually is funny and relateable and I love that.

  • @MaryJXOXOPLans
    @MaryJXOXOPLans Год назад +49

    I'm a 58yr young woman.. I really enjoyed the story from "A Thousand Boy Kisses". Not in my age group, however the story moved me. ❤

    • @taryndancer29
      @taryndancer29 Год назад +8

      I'm a 30 year old woman and it made me bawl my eyes out. I was also on my period when I read it though 😅

    • @saardcv
      @saardcv Год назад +6

      I’m 25 and it ruined me!!! absolutely broke my heart and I loved it lmao

    • @MaryJXOXOPLans
      @MaryJXOXOPLans Год назад +4

      @@taryndancer29 If a book moves me, it's worth the read. 🥰

  • @shrutisideas2742
    @shrutisideas2742 Год назад +10

    The opinions oh my god-
    I feel so attacked cuz they said they didn't like song of acchiles, seven husbands of Evelyn hugo is boring.. man i cried like a baby while reading them. I love them so much

  • @jenniferperry8038
    @jenniferperry8038 Год назад +12

    My unpopular opinion: I liked Every Summer After more than Love and Other Words. So many people compare them and say Every Summer After was just a rip off of Love and Other Words.
    I think people just need to learn the phrase "agree to disagree".

  • @nataliepaigep
    @nataliepaigep Год назад +25

    Always making my days better💛💛💛 literally the reason I got into reading

  • @engyelmihi4025
    @engyelmihi4025 Год назад +2

    no because i'm 13 and i hated a thousand boy kisses lmao. i agree with the immature aspect of the book, maybe it's cause i read more mature books but the book made me cringe so much and i was actually surprised to find that people liked it. but like to each their own yk thats just my opinion

  • @lilyemma901
    @lilyemma901 Год назад +6

    des…I love you and your videos and I just wanted to thank you for helping me get back into reading. Your videos brighten my day 💞

  • @BookOBSESSED123
    @BookOBSESSED123 Год назад +8

    Ooh super excited! Loved part one!

  • @ginny9394
    @ginny9394 Год назад +5

    I absolutely loved tsitp books and show!! Its literally my fav. Banter is everything. I love funny banter between the protagonists. Ilyyy

  • @Laura.Lynn.
    @Laura.Lynn. Год назад +12

    Mrs. ma’am, you got me back into reading and I LOVE you for that

  • @jessannis3269
    @jessannis3269 Год назад +1

    des, you are so sweet🥺 only you could be so nice while also dissing books😭😭 love u queen! also agree so much abt booktok🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @HesstonandTandem
    @HesstonandTandem Год назад +3

    Yes!! So sad how people hate lately. We should all be happy that people are enjoying reading again. I may say I didn't like a book but I'll never ever hate on someone for liking it. I think it's so neat how we all like/dislike different things

  • @nadiaburkett4490
    @nadiaburkett4490 Год назад +5

    I hate when people say something is over hyped just because they didn't like the book.

    • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
      @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Год назад +1

      What's your opinion on colleen hoover books?

    • @nadiaburkett4490
      @nadiaburkett4490 Год назад +2

      @@idkwhattonamemyself9326 I am not a colleen hoover stan but I do find her books easy to read. I only have read 4 of her books but I can't really connect with her characters and her men sometimes feel the same to me but I don't hate or dislike her and reading her books is reading, I don't get where that came from. I will read her books tho.

  • @Niina-py5uw
    @Niina-py5uw Год назад

    I loved the first part and I am here for this now and so excited

  • @Puty0urlipstick0n
    @Puty0urlipstick0n Год назад +3

    "I love the worn-book aesthetic, I like to see a really loved book"

  • @taylorlaws6229
    @taylorlaws6229 Год назад +1

    I already loved you and your content but after this video and your booktok video I love you 10× more!!♥️

  • @jenniferbravo7530
    @jenniferbravo7530 Год назад +1

    Felt that so hard for the devils night series but like I couldn’t stop reading them I just needed to know what happens🫣

  • @jadeadams5335
    @jadeadams5335 Год назад +1

    why do I miss your videos so much des!!!!!

  • @RWFN01
    @RWFN01 Год назад +46

    unpopular opinion: where the crawdads sing is boring and unbelievable

    • @amberlawson668
      @amberlawson668 Год назад +2

      I agree

    • @bethanirose5542
      @bethanirose5542 Год назад

      I did not like it either

    • @Kayla-if9rq
      @Kayla-if9rq Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @katja3137
      @katja3137 Год назад +2

      and the author is so problematic!!!

    • @lauren2898
      @lauren2898 Год назад +1

      YES! I managed to get halfway through before I just put it aside and I’ve not thought about it since. BORING

  • @coffeebean660
    @coffeebean660 Год назад +1

    I love binge watching these videos

  • @zienabahmed9292
    @zienabahmed9292 Год назад

    omg I absolutely loved this video😩❤️

  • @_digitaldiary
    @_digitaldiary Год назад +3

    Without Merit is my favourite CoHo book but there were some topics and things that happened that didn't sit right with me

  • @dominikasolecki
    @dominikasolecki Год назад +3

    I read Red, White and Royal Blue and I did not like it at all and I posted a review and I was getting so many negative comments that I took it down :/

  • @totallynotkarm4
    @totallynotkarm4 Год назад +8

    Destiny uploaded
    I’m cured
    Btw is it possible for u to make a “closed door romance” book recs

  • @ellenhagglund
    @ellenhagglund Год назад +3

    love u so much des

  • @kellyf8500
    @kellyf8500 Год назад +1

    Completely agree with you on TJR vs CoHo!

  • @alihausman6854
    @alihausman6854 Год назад +3

    Turns destiny’s video on. Destiny has coffee. Pauses the video and goes to make a coffee too.

  • @annascorner84
    @annascorner84 Год назад

    Puppers is so cute!!

  • @VicandWes
    @VicandWes Год назад

    The banter between Charlie and Nora in Book Lovers by Emily Henry is 😍

  • @Showtunediva
    @Showtunediva 5 месяцев назад

    Bookmarkimg this video for Later until after I read these books.

  • @jessbaldwin
    @jessbaldwin Год назад

    Agree first summer I turned pretty book was good other two weren’t great.
    I never usually read the synopsis of a book xx

  • @lindsaybrooke3985
    @lindsaybrooke3985 Год назад +4

    jumped to your video when i got this notification

  • @taylorsversion7336
    @taylorsversion7336 Год назад +6

    Unpopular opinion : Daisy Jones and the six was a boring and unreadable book

    • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
      @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Год назад +2

      You're right it was so hyped tho

    • @jenniferperry8038
      @jenniferperry8038 Год назад

      The only way I got through it was listening to the audio book because all the people in the book had a different reader. I literally got to the end and said "this is what everyone was raving about?"

  • @taryndancer29
    @taryndancer29 Год назад +2

    I had to DNF Throne of Glass. Really couldn't get into it. I am curious about ACOTAR through and may read the first one soon.
    Also I do not like writing in my books at all. You can't make me do it 😆

  • @dillyprimavera5021
    @dillyprimavera5021 Год назад

    Ur so pretty love ur content👑

  • @Sof_rha
    @Sof_rha Год назад

    such a fun vid❤️❤️

  • @asyarotella
    @asyarotella Год назад

    Y E S: please make a video on the toxicity of booktok

  • @wiktoriagoszczynska2328
    @wiktoriagoszczynska2328 Год назад +2

    I liked Seven Husbands, but cant say the same about Malibu Rising. It was ok, I liked it at first when we get to know each character, but after Taylor J-R started introducing sooo many other ones I felt it went flat, mostly bc I love books when characters have a chance to develop during the book and in this one there were a lot of them and it was just too hard for me to feel connected and involved, also I felt like we didn't get enough of main characters in the second part of the book and that was really disappointing for me. I think this book could be some much better if it focused more on less of them, but do it more in depth.
    At some point, I was just meh.

  • @mayisunreal
    @mayisunreal Год назад +2

    I really need to know what you thought about Gerard Gibson, he is one of my favourite characters ever!!

  • @elkleponis
    @elkleponis Год назад +1

    Saw my response in the thumbnail and boy am I sweating watching this vid😅

  • @VicandWes
    @VicandWes Год назад

    I don’t think I’ll ever read CoHo and here’s why: I’m physically disabled and I was verbally and emotionally abused for two and a half years. I’ve heard about spoilers for some of her books and I just can’t 😢

  • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
    @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Год назад +4

    A thousand boy kisses is actually overrated, i didn't liked it at all my friends tend to love it but i find it so cheesy and cringe. I wanted to DNF the book but i somehow thought it would change my mind by the end of the book but it didn't.

    • @nadiaburkett4490
      @nadiaburkett4490 Год назад +1

      I mean considering it was made for a younger audience I think maybe that's why it was cheesy. I haven't read the book but from what I have seen I think that's why.

    • @idkwhattonamemyself9326
      @idkwhattonamemyself9326 Год назад

      @@nadiaburkett4490 yeah i didn't read that it was for younger audience but I understand now. Thanks. But it wad quite popular on tiktok.

  • @khadijahamki5962
    @khadijahamki5962 Год назад +3

    Love books❤️❤️

  • @rebar351
    @rebar351 Год назад +1

    Unpopular opinion it ends with us was brutal and I DNF’d it

  • @jaja231
    @jaja231 Год назад +3

    Connor Cobalt who refused to put on a condom for his first time with Rose even though she asked for it, also when Rose said she was pregnant the first time, he was just like: You are not having an abortion. Like? It wasn't a question, concern for her, how does she feel about the whole situation etc it was just like you are not getting it. So yeah....

    • @saardcv
      @saardcv Год назад +3

      is this a spoiler, because then you kinda ruined it for me 🥰

  • @cristalynmurray3455
    @cristalynmurray3455 Год назад +3

    Book-tok has become SO toxic and hypercritical. Like every other video on my fyp is some person literally just hating and spreading SO much negativity on authors/books. And not only that but they literally invalidate people who read certain books (ex. coho books). Also, they are blatantly ableist and say that listening to audiobooks is not considered reading….that is offensive on so many levels. Idk I loved being on book tok but now it’s just a game of “I’m better than you because I read this”

  • @lindsaydeviveiros5533
    @lindsaydeviveiros5533 Год назад +2

    So sad how people literally bully other people for their taste in books. I have many opinions that people will disagree with and there are things that I heavily disagree with as well, however we don’t have to be mean to people. I personally hate Coho books however I get why people like them. I constantly see people on TikTok talk shit about Ya thrillers and people who like to read them. Like can we stop? It’s BOOKS 📚 we’re supposed to be enjoying ourselves people 😂

  • @Shantilly0091
    @Shantilly0091 Год назад +1

    I agreed with the majority of these comments👌

  • @alexisgallagher6051
    @alexisgallagher6051 Год назад +1

    Q.U.E.E.N. PERIOD I love your videos so much ❤️

  • @amberrockwell3801
    @amberrockwell3801 Год назад +1

    I personally relate to Normal People. The story is literally how I lived my early 20's (minus the travel and stuff lol) and I still HATED the book. It's the only book I've ever rated 1 star😅😅😅
    Not judging anyone who loves it, but relating to it didn't sway me either lol

  • @catchats
    @catchats Год назад

    "get a restraining order" LMAO

  • @itsnoterica
    @itsnoterica Год назад +1

    My unpopular opinion: The House Across the Lake was good until that weird plot twist. I literally thought she was just her losing her mind 😭 it was way out of pocket w that genre switch I wish there would’ve been way more creepy unexplainable moments to lead up to that reveal

    • @jojoxoxo444
      @jojoxoxo444 Год назад +2

      Please I felt the same when it came to the silent patient I felt insane reading it

  • @Alyssa22919
    @Alyssa22919 Год назад +1

    I let my friend borrow love and other words, corrupt, and the deal and her dog chewed all of them 😭

    • @tayler2957
      @tayler2957 Год назад

      Omg I’d be devastated! That’s why I can’t loan my books lol

  • @tayler2957
    @tayler2957 Год назад

    I like dark romances but I still hated Alex from Twisted Love lol

  • @selmaalj5259
    @selmaalj5259 Год назад +2

    My unpopular opinion is that I didn’t like the mindfck series that much. I feel safe saying that here since I saw you also didn’t like it much- otherwise I’d be terrified to say it because people are so defensive of it 😭😭

  • @eviebunnyxo
    @eviebunnyxo Год назад +3

    facts conrad wayyy better. people who are team jeremiah are the same ones who are team jacob i said what i said

  • @Blackgirlmagic2000
    @Blackgirlmagic2000 Год назад

    How do you make your thumbnails?

  • @SS-ph1ll
    @SS-ph1ll Год назад +1

    Unpopular opinion: A lot of books released nowadays are just bad. Too many typos, bad grammar, no depth in characters and mediocre plots.
    I still mostly read books written before 2010, I feel the content back then was made with more thought and attention.

  • @ochoasamantha
    @ochoasamantha Год назад

    I remember someone told me that they don't DNF books because they only respect people's opinions if they read the entire book. So now I can't DNF a book because I want my true 1-star rating to be respected LOLL

  • @lomesiaallen473
    @lomesiaallen473 Год назад

    Freaking out because TWO of my comments were in this video 🤯🤯

  • @debbiepowell599
    @debbiepowell599 Год назад +1

    ❤️📖

  • @marion8909
    @marion8909 Год назад +2

    💕💕

  • @bookstore9347
    @bookstore9347 Год назад

    I have a question, English isn’t really my native tongue so I’m wondering why instead of saying “her“ you say “them” to reference to Penelope Douglas?

  • @isabellabrown7769
    @isabellabrown7769 Год назад +1

    naw girl og 2020 booktok was throne of glass, six of Crows, shadow and bone, they both die at the end, we were liars, acotar, and the book thief
    edit: and the cruel prince and the invisible life of Addie Larue

    • @isabellabrown7769
      @isabellabrown7769 Год назад

      booktoks shifted from ya fantasy to adult romance which isn't the best for me bc I'm fifteen and my mom won't let me read them

  • @Kjk32
    @Kjk32 Год назад +1

    These violent delights and our violent ends sucked; book tok fooled me . Same with 7 husbands of Evelyn Hugo . Three books I wasted my time on
    Whoever liked those books I’m happy for you just saying my personal thoughts .
    Also agree ugly love def not a romance he was clearly in love the first woman don’t remember her name he couldn’t have her so went for second best just leaving that here .

  • @lightscamerasashley.
    @lightscamerasashley. Год назад +1

    💖

  • @nadiaplancarte6430
    @nadiaplancarte6430 Год назад +3

    Hi destiny

  • @dakotagooch5448
    @dakotagooch5448 Год назад +1

    i'm happy i'm not the only one who doesn't really like connor

  • @kayyla5
    @kayyla5 Год назад +1

    I believe in connor cobalt supremacy but I respect everyone else’s opinion.

  • @amberlawson668
    @amberlawson668 Год назад +7

    Here's my unpopular opinions: I hate Verity it's the worst book I have ever read in my opinion and I love Thriller so that's not why I didn't like it. 🙃 Daisy Jones and Evelyn Hugo were honestly not that good.

  • @guadilis6640
    @guadilis6640 Год назад +1

    Hii hru?

  • @arabellapearl9925
    @arabellapearl9925 Год назад

    *slight spoiler warning for the Summer I Turned Pretty*
    I loved the first book in the summer I turned pretty and honestly wish it stopped there the other two books were quite unecessary but I did like the ending of the last book. I absolutely hate the TV series though, not only was it extremely cringey the whole time, but also the plot was completely changed and it had no relation to most of the book. The whole debutante thing was so dumb and unneeded. So yeah the show sucked but the books were pretty good 👍

  • @Julie_ao
    @Julie_ao Год назад +1

    😍❣️❣️

  • @daijarae8420
    @daijarae8420 Год назад +1

    book tok is so toxic no cause people can’t handle people reading popular things

  • @user-ul1pv2iv4o
    @user-ul1pv2iv4o Год назад

    ryke meadows was creepy for liking daisy when she was 16

  • @christellemurugan
    @christellemurugan Год назад +3

    Love your energy!
    GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME!

  • @DPD04
    @DPD04 Год назад +1

    With Alex, I liked him in the series more than in his own book

  • @carelesskitten9475
    @carelesskitten9475 Год назад +1

    3:47 I completely agree I hate the summer I turned pretty ..it is a complete dumpster fire. So that’s not an opinion it’s a fact lol

  • @eliotyaeger1839
    @eliotyaeger1839 Год назад

    PERIOD ON THE JEREMIAH THING I LOVE CONRAD 💗

  • @Niina-py5uw
    @Niina-py5uw Год назад

    Alex volkov is better in the other books

  • @emmisouliere5456
    @emmisouliere5456 Год назад +1

    i really liked beach read but hated book lovers and i haven’t been able to bring myself to read people we meet on vacation 🥲