Idk what is the reason behind Joel being like this with girls. But when he older and has a daughter he will understand how it feels when his daughter gets his heart broken
if you’re that one girl joel’s messing with, please love yourself and KNOW this is NOT normal, i don’t even let my boyfriend raise his voice at me, THIS IS NOT OKAY AND IT NEVER WILL, you’re just a laugh for him, this isn’t worth it, love isn’t supposed to be this hard 😢
We can’t even feel bad for her because of the amount of times she went back😭. She needs to feel bad for herself before we even can, she needs to support herself before we send her support.
As a boy mom this makes me want to work harder on making sure my son doesn’t think that being a “player” is something to be proud of. I hope and pray he treats these girls like he would want his daughter to get treated. He will find the women he truly loves and karma will catch on quick 😭 rip Joel
I truly value nat and jake’s relationship but joel?? ew. it’s so disgusting seeing how open he is about cheating. I feel bad for that poor girl. he needs to grow up..respectfully.
@@miriam288 literally, like its not that hard to leave someone when you are in love with them. sadly that's why people who are is abusive relationships stay, because they love them and beleive the other person when they say they won't do something again.
at the end of the day hes gonna do what he wants obviously all they could do is listen , whats the point of giving him advice if he obviously aint gonna take it 😭
Joel is hypocritical, and clearly has a high ego. “It’s her fault for staying” it’s that this girl still has good potential in you, and stayed because she loved you enough to forgive you. It’s sad. Don’t say nothing when his karma comes back.
Life be playing with me too much fr 😭😭 But I always tell Jake, if we just had joel around us for a summer. Things would change! I swear I saw progress in just 1 weekend. We took him to my investment property and talked to them about investing and I know there is potential there. Ikkkk there is 😭😭😭😭
My brother is like Joel, my husband is like Jake & I thank God every day I found a guy like my husband because guys him & Jake are few & far between, believe me! And for my brother to be the way he is & and I am the complete opposite of his selfish self, we had the same parents, same upbringing, dna is a funny thing!
i saw joel and instantly clicked😂 i knew this episode was gonna be JUICYYY🫣😂but anyways, i absolutely love the episodes u guys have been putting out!! you guys are doing great! keep up the good work💙💙🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This is the only podcast I would always recommend because you guys put so much hard work and planning into it and the things that are talked about is either relatable or admirable yk but can’t wait to watch this 1 hour long banger 💪💪
idk how i feel abt them being ok w his behavior 😭 he’s getting older but he’s being kinda odd with girls. i love ur guy’s podcast but sometimes joel’s behavior is crazy /:
@@JathalteaPodcast. i can tell! but sometimes it feels dismissive. i’m not trying to b rude at all either i love ur guys videos it’s just something i’ve noticed abt him
@@cinemakissesyou also have to remember. these are not his parents. they do not live with him 24/7 to correct his behavior in the moment. there is nothing to be done about it after because it happened & won’t change anything. correcting him after is the best thing they can do & are trying. he has to want to change that nasty behavior though.
@@cinemakissesI agree! I’m not trying to hate but them laughing at the situation and making jokes especially nat as a woman🫤 but Joel is super young and immature he won’t change unless he wants to and I don’t see that happening anytime soon lol no matter what nat and Jake tell him it’s all up to him to change. I’m sure he will eventually!
This was one of the most entertaining podcasts I’ve watched for sure! He’s definitely got an amazing couple to look up to! Congrats on graduating! Y’all are so funny and I def hope he learned 😂😂
@@br1annavargas look after something keeps happening over and over again its a cycle, and you know what's gonna happen. you're allowing that type of behavior. so atp you're just doing it to yourself, you're allowing yourself to stay in that position. YOU are CHOOSING to stay. it's not blaming the girl for staying, but if one has a brain and knows their worth they know how its gonna go down.
why jake laughing hella hard for???? his BROTHER treating girls hells poorly and he tryna blame the girl for “staying” instead of his brother for the actions he does.
@@lesliefernandez7283 i know that but the way Jake was justifying the girl “ You got cheated on, why would you go back?” Putting all the blame on her and laughing as his BROTHER tells his story about him cheating, ik Jake can’t do anything but he was laughing a lil too hard when he heard she was getting cheated on.
Im so like flabbergasted because Joel is a big player! The fact, that he has a sister of his own and she doesn’t say anything to him about his behavior is crazy! I feel so sorry for the girls he has played with and hurt cause the fact that he is telling these stories loud and proud is so sad. He is going to find someone just like him or worse!
My sister literally does tell him stuff. She took the girl on a little girls date and she said she’s not going to change but she didn’t believe her apparently…
@@oka-g3t but doing it multiple times after knowing its wrong and he PROMISED her he wouldnt do it again is different. if you do it once and never do it again and apologize and pray thats wayyyyy different
I just graduated from college with zero debt. There are definitely programs that can help you achieve your academic goals for such a cheap price and sometimes even free. Getting an education is such an amazing experience, LOS QUE QUIEREN PUEDEN 🇲🇽🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@landinsteph1369 of course! Depending on your city and state there are different resources! FAFSA is the most important one to complete make sure to fill it out close to opening date. In my city we had the promise program which gave you the first two years of community college free (of course if you abide by the requirements: maintain 2.0 gpa, attend one community even per semester, etc). Community college and then transferring to a four year was the BEST decision ever which helped me graduate debt free. I did have to pay out of pocket my last semester but luckily I was blessed enough to afford the last year! Look into scholarships and apply apply apply! I hope I was able to help 🩷
Honestly regarding student loans I swear ppl talk about it to scare ppl off from going to college. But if you applying to instate schools that are public you literally apply for fafsa, scholarships. Honestly the less money your parents or you have if you emancipated the cheaper college is with fafsa. And that’s only for public schools that are instate. Out of state is obviously more money but fafsa still covers. And fafsa dosent care about academics, it’s just government aid based off of taxes. You don’t have to take out loans, don’t let that be the reason you don’t go to college.
they say they’re not allowing this kind of behavior from Joel but they’re making it seem okay by laughing about it and blaming the girl for going back too. Feel bad for the girl
I mean it’s not right on how they think it’s a joke but it’s also the girl’s fought bc she kept going back and she perfectly knew that he was most likely gonna cheat again
hey just wondering what equipment you guys use if i were to start a podcast, btw been watching you guys for some time and you guys have been such an inspiration!
Please consider having Joel stay with you guys for the summer. I don’t think Bakersfield is benefiting him. I have family there and it’s sad seeing them stay inside the environment of drugs and gangs. I also live in OC and the environment change is definitely there. I know Joel would benefit a lot from seeing that there is more to life than gangs, girls, alcohol, and car meets.
I love you guys so much and I’m so HAPPY Nat and Jake found each other and are the sweetest cutest ever 🫶🏽🫶🏽💕 my Boy Joel Judy need to mature some more and it’s sad to say but what goes around comes around and I hope he doesn’t have to get heart broken 💔 to learn and see how relationships are 🫶🏽😭😭
Joel out here acting like he’s 6’7 with this behaviour
HELP ✋🏼
😭
IM DEADDD😭
🧌
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Idk what is the reason behind Joel being like this with girls. But when he older and has a daughter he will understand how it feels when his daughter gets his heart broken
This is so true
if you’re that one girl joel’s messing with, please love yourself and KNOW this is NOT normal, i don’t even let my boyfriend raise his voice at me, THIS IS NOT OKAY AND IT NEVER WILL, you’re just a laugh for him, this isn’t worth it, love isn’t supposed to be this hard 😢
i can’t even imagine the girl watching this, i’m so sad for her fr
literally, my heart hurts for her
I know!! Sending love to her❤️🩹❤️🩹
Real
We can’t even feel bad for her because of the amount of times she went back😭. She needs to feel bad for herself before we even can, she needs to support herself before we send her support.
GET NELY AND JOEL ON THE POD TG?🌚🌚😭
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Joel is 18 and Nely is 16 so they technically can’t get tg
@@ashleyserna8159it’s two years apart though???
@@ashleyserna8159 not like that js as guests tho😭
Omg yessss!!!
As a boy mom this makes me want to work harder on making sure my son doesn’t think that being a “player” is something to be proud of. I hope and pray he treats these girls like he would want his daughter to get treated. He will find the women he truly loves and karma will catch on quick 😭 rip Joel
I’m sure they won’t be players:)
😊😊❤😮❤😢😮❤😊😮🎉😂🎉🎉🎉😮😮🎉🎉😮🎉🎉😮😮😊🎉😢
Another man’s trash is another treasure is crazyyy😭😹
Girl, I feel like I need to take a shower after hearing this one 😭
Please do😭
Fr the fumes from Joel were going thru the screen 😢
@@lunartist8768😭😭
stoppp when nat said nely is the one he will never do dirty had me deaddd😭😭
What time?
😹😭
@@Paosdiaryylike the first 30 mins🧐
@@alexandria65 I did that was before I started it😭
I truly value nat and jake’s relationship but joel?? ew. it’s so disgusting seeing how open he is about cheating. I feel bad for that poor girl. he needs to grow up..respectfully.
@@miriam288honestly they both would be & he said the action not the girl
fr im just getting the vibe he wants validation from his boys lol
@@miriam288 literally, like its not that hard to leave someone when you are in love with them. sadly that's why people who are is abusive relationships stay, because they love them and beleive the other person when they say they won't do something again.
He will meet his match...I don't wish that on him but it's how it goes.
I love how nat was basically not okay with anything joel does . Nat is a girl girls!!! You tell him nat!!❤❤❤❤
Joel swears he's a good looking guy! 🤦♀️ ego is so big! Girls should not let anyone treat them like this at all!
No way he said the therapist is going to fall in love too 🤣🤣
He will work on that😭
He has too much confidence 😂😂😂😂
I already know this episode is gonna be crazy by seeing Joel 😭😭
I literally love how every time joel says something that's kind of a red flag nat just stares into the camera lmaooo
okayy but nat the pod set up eatsss looking aesthetic af😩
Mhmm
I remember him being on live asking if anyone could do his homework 😭
Brooo same 😭
😭👍
What an idiot
he’s disgusting and childish and they really need to put some sense into him. it’s just sad.
they are , they don’t agree what what he does did you not watch it right
he gon make u fall in love too 🤣 im just playin but he’s barely graduating hs and he’s just living life, you live and u learn
It’s so sad because she has feelings.
@@luvvstokeley😭
at the end of the day hes gonna do what he wants obviously all they could do is listen , whats the point of giving him advice if he obviously aint gonna take it 😭
Joel is hypocritical, and clearly has a high ego. “It’s her fault for staying” it’s that this girl still has good potential in you, and stayed because she loved you enough to forgive you. It’s sad. Don’t say nothing when his karma comes back.
This whole episode is so triggering I need a player girl to step up to Joels game and show him what the girlys can do 😅😂
LOL PLSSSSSS! I second this 👍
i mean nely did like reject him😭😭 she wasn’t going to put herself in that situation
Joel isn’t a bad person, you can tell. He may have toxic tendencies but he’s so young, as he goes he’ll mature and learn… hopefully lol
Yess🙌
hopefully😭
Wdym he isn’t a bad person ? We watching the same podcast ?😂
@@angelinajaade there’s a difference and everyone has a different opinion on what’s a bad person but I get both povs
@@danihern186 no u don’t you’re not that girl 💀
His ex sound too nice I woulda been broke his lil trap phone 😂😂😂
its so funny and ironic how the type of guys Nat hates is the type of guy her brother in law is 😭
Life be playing with me too much fr 😭😭 But I always tell Jake, if we just had joel around us for a summer. Things would change! I swear I saw progress in just 1 weekend. We took him to my investment property and talked to them about investing and I know there is potential there. Ikkkk there is 😭😭😭😭
it’s so true that networking is just sm more important than a school certificate atp
@@JathalteaPodcast.with what money lmao
@@Ydnew51aye you never know🤷♂️
@@Ydnew51 always hating LMAOOO … he has potential to make THAT money unlike you sis …. So just move along 🫶🏼
we need roy , rango , and joel all on the pod again !!!!!!!!!!!!!
IM SO READDYYY LMFOAOA the scripttt of his biography LMFOAOA LOVE IT ALREADY
Natalie trynna grill Jake on his comments is THEEEE FUNNIEST . She just like me 🤭
kinda sad how Joel has no embarrassment for treating girl like that..
My brother is like Joel, my husband is like Jake & I thank God every day I found a guy like my husband because guys him & Jake are few & far between, believe me! And for my brother to be the way he is & and I am the complete opposite of his selfish self, we had the same parents, same upbringing, dna is a funny thing!
I used to ship him with nelly, not anymore 😭
😂
hope he realizes he’s not cool and it’s actually embarrassing to be acting like a 6th grader at his GROWN age
“I’m the good trash, like the trash you want” 🤣🤣😭 I’ve never laughed more
i saw joel and instantly clicked😂 i knew this episode was gonna be JUICYYY🫣😂but anyways, i absolutely love the episodes u guys have been putting out!! you guys are doing great! keep up the good work💙💙🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
SO!🫢😭
This is the only podcast I would always recommend because you guys put so much hard work and planning into it and the things that are talked about is either relatable or admirable yk but can’t wait to watch this 1 hour long banger 💪💪
idk how i feel abt them being ok w his behavior 😭 he’s getting older but he’s being kinda odd with girls. i love ur guy’s podcast but sometimes joel’s behavior is crazy /:
We’re trying to change his behavior, we’re not okay with it haha.
@@JathalteaPodcast. i can tell! but sometimes it feels dismissive. i’m not trying to b rude at all either i love ur guys videos it’s just something i’ve noticed abt him
@@cinemakissesyou also have to remember. these are not his parents. they do not live with him 24/7 to correct his behavior in the moment. there is nothing to be done about it after because it happened & won’t change anything. correcting him after is the best thing they can do & are trying. he has to want to change that nasty behavior though.
@@cinemakissesI agree! I’m not trying to hate but them laughing at the situation and making jokes especially nat as a woman🫤 but Joel is super young and immature he won’t change unless he wants to and I don’t see that happening anytime soon lol no matter what nat and Jake tell him it’s all up to him to change. I’m sure he will eventually!
If you knew joel personally and not through social media you’d understand that we don’t take him serious.. 😊
This was one of the most entertaining podcasts I’ve watched for sure! He’s definitely got an amazing couple to look up to! Congrats on graduating! Y’all are so funny and I def hope he learned 😂😂
nat is for the girls! always defending the girlies
While she literally laughing at this girl 🤨
Poor girl she abt to watch this 😞😞😞 free her 🙌
UMMMMM NOT HIM BLAMING HER FOR STAYING WITH HIM……. MANS SHOULD’VE NEVER CHEATED
He stinks
@@br1annavargas look after something keeps happening over and over again its a cycle, and you know what's gonna happen. you're allowing that type of behavior. so atp you're just doing it to yourself, you're allowing yourself to stay in that position. YOU are CHOOSING to stay. it's not blaming the girl for staying, but if one has a brain and knows their worth they know how its gonna go down.
@@br1annavargasbut like after the second and third time? Lol like that’s on her knowing he’s trash and staying with him
why jake laughing hella hard for???? his BROTHER treating girls hells poorly and he tryna blame the girl for “staying” instead of his brother for the actions he does.
there is nothing that jake can do that will change joel. he clearly knows it’s wrong for his brother to be doing that..
@@lesliefernandez7283 i know that but the way Jake was justifying the girl “ You got cheated on, why would you go back?” Putting all the blame on her and laughing as his BROTHER tells his story about him cheating, ik Jake can’t do anything but he was laughing a lil too hard when he heard she was getting cheated on.
This is why joel was on tik tok live late at night and I recognized it was ur housee!! I just know this about to be a juicy podcast 😮💨
😂
😭
Im so like flabbergasted because Joel is a big player! The fact, that he has a sister of his own and she doesn’t say anything to him about his behavior is crazy! I feel so sorry for the girls he has played with and hurt cause the fact that he is telling these stories loud and proud is so sad. He is going to find someone just like him or worse!
My sister literally does tell him stuff. She took the girl on a little girls date and she said she’s not going to change but she didn’t believe her apparently…
That’s actually a lie , your sister was actually helping cover for Joel. She was literally playing both sides.
@@melissasevilla859 how do you know 😮
@@jasminnn382 because I know the girl personally and she showed me all the receipts.
@@melissasevilla859 be quiet
Yet he has Christian tattoos 🤨
I don’t get it.
Nothing he does glorifies God
Human ain’t perfect we sin
@@oka-g3t but doing it multiple times after knowing its wrong and he PROMISED her he wouldnt do it again is different. if you do it once and never do it again and apologize and pray thats wayyyyy different
Omg my heart hurts for joels girl , run girl run
I just graduated from college with zero debt. There are definitely programs that can help you achieve your academic goals for such a cheap price and sometimes even free. Getting an education is such an amazing experience, LOS QUE QUIEREN PUEDEN 🇲🇽🙏🏼🙏🏼
can you pleasee share me the resources
@@landinsteph1369 of course! Depending on your city and state there are different resources! FAFSA is the most important one to complete make sure to fill it out close to opening date. In my city we had the promise program which gave you the first two years of community college free (of course if you abide by the requirements: maintain 2.0 gpa, attend one community even per semester, etc). Community college and then transferring to a four year was the BEST decision ever which helped me graduate debt free. I did have to pay out of pocket my last semester but luckily I was blessed enough to afford the last year! Look into scholarships and apply apply apply! I hope I was able to help 🩷
Joel has the funniest stories 😭
"She switched up on me baaadddd"
😂😂😂 like if man didn't cheat on her with multiple girls jajajaja
I just saw Jake’s insta story about this lol perfect timing 😭
Joel’s life is a freaking movie bruh😭
Joel better be careful or he’s gonna catch a std 😂
Nah Fr😭
Them saying they didn’t know what a sausage party but they talked about on a podcast before and like explained the whole this is to funny😂23:45
21:18 the podcast called I got her a ring
😭we forgot
No way I love you guys so muchhhhh I’ve been watching you for the longest time you are my favorite RUclipsrs🫶
No Fr😭 but i think like they said they hadn’t heard someone actually use the phrase😹😭
Nah this podcast was good asf we NEED nely and Joel on a podcast together 😂
Clicked right away!
Nat is a Girl’s Girl, LOVE HER❤️
Gotta be one of my fav podcast episodes yet, gotta get Joel on more the stories are hella entertaining 😂
Yupp
I started watching this yesterday and had to stop at 28 mins…today, I made my coffee and starting this episode from the beginning!!!
“I couldn’t do her dirty again but yea I did” THATS FOUL JEOL 😭😭
bro is a certified bop 😭
The girls messing with Joel wishing they could turn him into Jake😭😭
him thinking he can bag nely… HAHAHAHAHA who hyped him up that much that he has this mentality 😭
I LOVEEE this ep I was dying the whole time😭😭😭 yall r funny af
Plz when nat got defensive over Nely 😭 no bc same lollll.
joel and roy are kings of going live 🤣🤣🤣 i went on roys live once and he was trying to get me to send a galaxy LMFAOOO
Yay I can’t wait!!! And since you guys posted on my birthday it makes this episode even better!!!!❤🎉
Oh shooottt I’m ready for this😭😭
lol 😂
just one girl who knows her worth completely, trust he'll be set straight. esp if shes straight up and doesnt take any of his bs.
LMAOO I WAS ON THAT LIVE TOO "wsp chula" 😭😭
LMFAOOO yooo I can’t with Joel, he’s something else for sure😭😭
YESS JOEL THAT MEANS MORE CHISME 🙏🏼🙏🏼 IM SAT
I can’t register how Joel and Jake are even related 💀😂😭 they’re water and oil compared to each other 🥲😂💀❤️ you got so lucky with Jake nat ! ❤😊
I could see why they don’t tell nat anything and I can see why nat gets pressed 😭
They simply cannot be ✨trusted✨
These JOES ain’t loyal fr 😭
IM SO READY FOR THIS ONE, long time coming 😫
The fact that he thinks he’s cute for cheating lmao
joel is crazy bruh 😭😭😭 he’s just exposing himself
Honestly regarding student loans I swear ppl talk about it to scare ppl off from going to college. But if you applying to instate schools that are public you literally apply for fafsa, scholarships. Honestly the less money your parents or you have if you emancipated the cheaper college is with fafsa. And that’s only for public schools that are instate. Out of state is obviously more money but fafsa still covers. And fafsa dosent care about academics, it’s just government aid based off of taxes. You don’t have to take out loans, don’t let that be the reason you don’t go to college.
they say they’re not allowing this kind of behavior from Joel but they’re making it seem okay by laughing about it and blaming the girl for going back too. Feel bad for the girl
I mean it’s not right on how they think it’s a joke but it’s also the girl’s fought bc she kept going back and she perfectly knew that he was most likely gonna cheat again
Fr the way they laugh at his behavior instead of calling his cheating ass out😭 I know I would’ve idc
200k views Joel and Nelly both in a podcast saying their experiences with love and drama 👀
omg yes yes yes that would be amazing!!!!!
37:06 nat's laugh aww it cute and her smile
ngl i thought joel was gonna drop out LMFAOAOAOA 😭 , but he did it yall
😮😭
28:14 😭 real ones know its been nelyyyy
Yupppp
ughhh i love you guys so much !!! fav youtubers for life🫶❤️❤️
iknow this podcast is gonna have all the tea 😭😭
surprise joel on the podcast with all the girls he’s cheated with 💀 like everyone gets to roast him 😂
Lmao was just watching last podcast while cleaning 😭 love yall 💕
Yooooo this podcast is different, we need more of this 😭😂
Psalm 73:26 John 3:16 God loves you
Omg “lmk if you need me to go in your windows “🤣
Joel aint changing till his frontal lobe fully develops LMAOO 😭😭😭😭😭
Joel is so hurt and is taking his anger in a Rong way .....he needs love..
49:05 jakes face is mine when he says about the dog😭
hey just wondering what equipment you guys use if i were to start a podcast, btw been watching you guys for some time and you guys have been such an inspiration!
hi! We use shure podcast mics! And rodecaster pro mixer, if you want more info let us know!:)
Find a man who values you more than wings 😅
Please consider having Joel stay with you guys for the summer. I don’t think Bakersfield is benefiting him. I have family there and it’s sad seeing them stay inside the environment of drugs and gangs. I also live in OC and the environment change is definitely there. I know Joel would benefit a lot from seeing that there is more to life than gangs, girls, alcohol, and car meets.
Joel’s head when Nat said, I’ll always be team Girl!!! 20:24
earlyyy!! favorite podcast for sure!💕
All I can think is the karmic debt he’s putting himself into doing all that and being proud of it 🥴
I love you guys so much and I’m so HAPPY Nat and Jake found each other and are the sweetest cutest ever 🫶🏽🫶🏽💕 my Boy Joel Judy need to mature some more and it’s sad to say but what goes around comes around and I hope he doesn’t have to get heart broken 💔 to learn and see how relationships are 🫶🏽😭😭
🔊I think hes young and learning but hopefully he sees jake and what being a good guy gets you !! Please dont break hearts be a green flag !!
Yes it’s that
it’s a phase fs where he thinks he’s cool but for his age is ….. he acts 13
AHHH LOVE YOU GUYS IM AT THE GYM AMAZING TIMING ❤❤❤
ON THAT GRIND LETS GO
I swear Joel is playing chess ♟️ "I did the wrong moves" 😭😂 time 40:50 to 41:05😂
Love Nats Barbie sweater 💕
Yes it looks cute!