Hhhmmm, what is the appropriate way to heal your inner child? Often we over parent giving children what we wish we would have gotten as a child. All that making up for what I didn’t get as a child to a child who doesn’t have the same life I had in the first place, produced a spoiled child who feels entitled and not appreciative. I learned inner child healing really goes deeper. We heal our inner child by attending to our own needs.. ❤
Girl, when you said it heals your inner child . That hit home for me . I have 3 kids, I will not state how much a spent on back to school things. like you , I was one of those kids . I had nothing new, everything was handed down from cousins . My kids will not go through the same thing . But, I will say this , I am who I am, because of my experiences. I am driven because nothing was and is handed to me .
I don’t think so, did you see the size of the bag she was taking to school. So where is she putting her books? I have a soon to be 16 year old daughter. She’s pretty, but I make it very clear to her school is for her books and not her looks. I’m from England, so they don’t allow fake lashes, nails or heavy makeup to school. That I am thankful for.
@@keepingitnatural7601 at my school the first few days they tell you not to bring a bag because its all ice breaker stuff. also yes i agree school is for books but you can go feeling pretty. you dont want to go to school feeling like shit everyday
That sounds nice but when school starts the mean kids and bullies come out to play and the midriff showing clothes and obviously not natural hair are fair game!!! And YOU caused it! Blend in don’t draw attention to yourself save that crap until you fit in and have friends don’t wear looks that get you called names!!
😂😂😂😂RIGHT! We prepped with cool mechanical pencils and gel pens. It was about the jeans and the sneakers. Whatever school bag in trend. Now it’s full face, grown woman aesthetic 😂. These kids skipping the awkward phase.
So anything that's not butt ass naked is a blessing? two outfits and one pair of shoes is not a blessing, its below bare minimum, its poverty. Stop acting like that's something to be okay with. It's not okay and every child deserves more than that. ALSO just incase you wanna use the argument "well back when I was a kid I only had this and that and i made it by they should be grateful there's kids without this and that" makes you look foolish. Every child deserves everything good in this world. Just because there is children that go without doesn't mean that others should also or feel bad for being taken cared of. A child having a good life isn't a privilege, it's what should always fucking happen. .
Stop with the fake positivity. OK I can’t stand people like you..obviously everybody can have it worse but no child should only have two new sets of outfits. That’s ridiculous. stop trying to force people to accept the bare minimum that’s not deserved, especially when you having children. They deserve the world. If you can’t provide it then you shouldn’t have them keep them legs closed. Coming from someone who used to have hammy downs, and a few gets from goodwill please I would give anything for a chance like this, and I would do it for my children in a heartbeat when I have them.
@@karllevs5694 nigga 2 sets of uniform and a single pair of shoes are enough you spoiled rats who get their nails done before school, who study 3rd grade shit would not understand. Who gets their lAsHeEs and nAiLs done before school that is just spoiled. You dont need "toner" "eyeliner" "cleanser" "facewash" "lip scrub" ALL YOU NEED IS SOAP AND VASLINE. this "inner child" shit and not all kids deserve the world if they are getting nails and lashes done before school AND getting bad grades. hope you understand that you dont need to get lashes and nails done before school. and dont go around saying "STOP WITH THE FAKE POSITIVETY" maybe its enough for them? your just spoiled and need more .. I love you
Americans are different 😭😭I’m South African my back to school look was cornrows or just braids.Eyelashes and wigs were for working women not high schoolers Lol i really find it funny that people are calling me jealous for simply pointing out the differences.I was not bringing down the mom or her daughter, ya'll are reaching. Did you guys see me say that she shouldn't do things for her daughter? LOL
Exactly, I'm American. To each their own but I don't understand false nails, lashes & hair for women, definitely not for young ladies. Hoping folks get back to embracing natural beauty & free themselves from the needless expenses of wigs, lashes, etc.
I love that you're doing so much for your daughter and making sure she doesn't go through what you once did....you're amazing and best wishes to both of you and your fam!
let’s hope you went all out like this for her supplies and supporting her learning/studying schedule! kids lately have only been caring about aesthetics and that isn’t what carries you through life
As a mom that relates to this mom, in my experience it's easier to be successful when your needs are being met and your have confidence. I'm a mom of 9. 4 in college. Oldest getting her masters in biology. Finishing in a few months. Currently a high school science teacher. Pretty and smart 🩷💚
@@mrs.t3733I completely agree! I have been doing the same for my daughter. She is currently in her senior year of high school and has consistently been an A and B student since elementary school. I will continue to provide her with all the necessary support throughout her college years so that she can solely focus on higher education.
@@talklesslistenmore5578 Yeah it is. Most parents who struggled growing up but have a better life as an adult now, always say they want to give their children a better life than what they had and give them things they never had.
Giving your child a better life doesn't mean giving them everything you never had. It's teaching her to be a better person, and preparing her to be a contributing member of society. Appearance contributes to that, but if she had two outfits and cheap shoes, she could still be all those things and more.🤦🏽♀️
Indeed she can but if that’s what she wants to do for her daughter than that’s her choice, obviously her daughter wanted these things so she made it happen.
Exactly, and then call it healing inner child smh. Your inner child resides within you, so you heal her by taking care of yourself. You cannot parent your child as if she is you.
but her daughter enjoys it. She is pouring love into her daughter. Think of it this way, if a parent grew up never going to good schools and now made absolute sure their kids went to the best schools is that called “living vicariously?” No, it isn’t. It is called building your kids up and making damn sure they want for nothing. All those roadblocks and obstacles are disappearing. Sometimes it feels like we only do this to black people. Specifically black mothers. That baby is living her best life.
@@themotherlanderI also do this for my daughter... but she's not out here looking 25. We get facials. She's learned to love her own thick and full natural lashes. We get rid of a few stray hairs around her brows because they're otherwise prefect. She gets gel manicures because acrylics can tear your nails up and she's grown them out so they're long on their own anyway. She baby's her real hair and we rarely put heat on it... hardly ever blow dry it. So she wears her natural curls, which she loves, and her hair is nearly hip length. And she doesn't show unnecessary skin. Because she's 15. And looks 15. And loves who she is as she, and feels no desire or need for enhancements. Because there's nothing to enhance. No need to look like a real housewife at her age. No reason for older men to confuse her for anything more than what she is.
@@chocolatte522 I can’t argue with this. I don’t necessarily agree with the choices of hair or nails here, but so do love that she loves and pampers her daughter.
School uniform was the back to school trend. No nailpolish , no lashes ,no eyebrows done. Natural beauty was appreciated. Got to love South Africa. No stress about adult stuff, just had to be a child. But times have changed Different countries ,different priorities😊
@@pinkleather6725 um duh…I know that. Money and having the opportunity to spoil your children doesn’t make you a good money nor did I say that. But when I have children I want to be in a place where I can give them certain opportunities and experiences and that’s okay. Don’t put words in my mouth, thank you.
@@lailakonstantinos137lmao u don’t realize the og comment is being ignorant? That’s the only reason why people say “we wore nothing and we looked natural” to be ignorant
@@IminlovewithanemogworlMan i get why you’d say that , but she could just be shedding light on how from her experience they didn’t wear makeup or lashes to school. not to necessarily downplay her daughter’s experience (the daughter from the video)
I get it but it’s important to follow that up with making sure kids know how privileged they are and to have gratitude to have a parent who can and wants to do that for them. Some parents only end up spoiling their kids’ personalities trying to fill their own void.
You always try to give ur kids what u wish u had when u were there age and that's just beautiful and so wholesome. Thankyou for being such an amazing mom
Fake eyelashes a head full of weave and a bunch of makeup😂😂 that's what most of these women are doing to their little children grade school children and elementary school children they're putting them in sexual clothing 11 their middle school daughters wear fake eyelashes s*** ton of makeup long nails I'm sorry but y'all women need to get it together and stop dressing your daughter's like whores and making them look like grown women it's sad just let them be kids they don't need to be you don't you want something different for your kids it's sad that these modern women want to raise their daughters to be just like them. It's sad I have a 17 year old daughter who says modest as can be doesn't wear long nails doesn't wear makeup why because I never enforced all that on her doesn't show her belly she's a young modest lady because she knows that she will have value in this life not for her looks for her sexuality for her actual brains😊
In Kenya, back to school means you get rid of your fancy Christmas hair and either shave clean/short or plaiting super simple tiny cornrows that can take you through the school term
@sunshinee1353 actually in most african countries its recquired. But slowly schools are starting to allow girls keep their hair. But usually simple conrows ot braids. No color or weaves n what not
@@who_me4321 that’s so interesting :^ my step father was Nigerian and most of the little girls in Nigeria more specially the lagos and woru (I’m not sure on the spelling) region wore synthetic hair like a weave. But it could’ve just be that area while in other parts of Nigeria could’ve been like what u described
@@who_me4321 it’s interesting to learn the reason why some regions in Africa style their hair a certain way. My grandma is South African and she would keep her hair short in her adolescent years not necessarily for school or work but because curly hair was look down upon and it was easier to make it “look “ straight when it was shorter ! But that could’ve just been her lol
I think this is great. You never want your child to want for anything. Not only does this help with confidence, but she will also realize she will not have to rely on a man to buy her anything, her mom’s got her!!!! Also, I love, addicted, lashes, she does great work!
I wore mine for 3 years now ams im graduating.. one of my shirt is ripped but I still have to wear it as it is for Friday. Its a different material and I know have one
You know what? Im so proud of you actually knowing where your "doing too much" energy comes from😂 Healing your inner child is so insightful. 💓 A lot of our generation does this for our kids because we know what it feels like to be without.... and actually I think every generation does some version of this.
Go mama! You and your daughter rock! She is a princess and deserves everything! The world is so cruel- thanks for sharing so much love to her. She will never go below these high standards. Hope she does awesome in school.
Wow, I wish my daughter knew life as I did in school. Before lace wigs, eyelashes, false nails, and so many other things that take place now. Life was sooooooo amazing back then. These kids don't know how good life used to be, sweet and innocent. When you see a young sweet female with no lashes, no wigs, no make-up, just naturally beautiful, it is a sight for sore eyes. Unfortunately, when they come with all that equipment, they are judged differently.
how absolutely beautiful and so loving and nurturing!! i cannot even begin to imagine this kind of care, love and attention but I am certainly glad it is a thing for some!!!! Bravo Mama‼️.. truly, how beautiful, kind and special are you!! Your daughter is just precious too☺️
Schools allow kids to have their stomach exposed?? They did not allow that when I was in high school. We couldn’t even wear skirts shorter than finger tip length or we got sent home lol
Girl! I was sent home once for having some short. Now these kids are wearing sheistys, bonnets, half shirts and all that stuff lol. Times have definitely changed lol
@@mwright0428Yes times have changed for what is allowed at schools. People will come for me, but I would not want my daughters to have their belly out. This is a time where those teens hormones are going bonkers no need to further enticing folks. Even some teachers get attracted to pretty young girls😖 No parent wants that.
@@Chizzboss Independent, parochial and even some public schools most certainly have dress codes inclusive of nail length and polish color. Wigs and lashes have also recently been added to the dress codes. It wasn't a thing a few years back but it is now. Most public schools in NYC don't even allow crop tops.
I think the love you show your daughter is beautiful. What incredible bonding experiences! You’re raising a confident daughter who surely feels valued.
Sometimes we think we’re setting the framework for better lives for our kids…….However many of us end up doing too much and end up creating lazy entitled brats.
@@nicoleayala4153she’s got a point😅 idk HOW many moms o hear saying they’re gonna spoil their kids because they didn’t have the life they think they needed, but end up with kids that dont understand how to take care of themselves😂
@@nicoleayala4153I'm pretty sure she wasn't talking about this specific child if you're gonna say "that's what you got from this short clip?" It's just in general, true.
Good for you. Now I hope she focuses on what's really important. Getting good grades. Not looking good Going over and beyond in her studies because if you think it's expensive out her now Just wait to when she has to support And Yes. I focused on my studies. I'm 26 years old with a Masters in Finance/accounting, Married with a 3 year old and a 4 month old Happy I focused on what's important ❤ Oh, and my husband is a Pharmacist As Blacks we need to focus ❤❤❤
When you said " im gonna go all out for her, it heals my inner child " my first tought was : you as a mother, as a person, a beautifull person, you deserve the world and all the good things in it.
Oh wow getting ready for school is totally different now 😂. The pressure is something serious. I’m so happy sew ins and lashes wasn’t the norm when I was in school. Kudos to you parents lol.
It's not, I think it's really weird how upset and salty y'all get when you see a black girl who appears to be well taken care of, y'all never do this to any other group of children....
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 I totally agree it's no different. Plus, to piggyback off of you. I don't think a lot of people realize that the black community as a whole is not in the same position we were back in the day. We can definitely do more and have more.
Not an American thing. Everyone is different here. We don’t have one culture, we have many. And everyone is very different. Personally, I’d never allow this that early. Lashes naturally pull your real lashes out, and young women need to dress respectfully, especially in school. That’s ME though
I'm definitely not doing this some people like to waste money especially the ones that don't truly have it to spend, I would only buy a couple of new pieces just because anything else would have to be needed, my daughter got three pairs of shoes because her feet grew and barely was able to fit her old stuff, one year she had a growth spurt and couldn't fit any of her old stuff so she got 10 outfits, buying stuff just because is crazy to me.
My my my how times have changed 😂. Fake eye lashes and acrylic nails were never a part of my back to school shopping 😂. Call me old school but I’m 36 and I’ve never worn a wig, not to mention a full lace front at 16 😂😂. I miss the simpler times in life.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 What is main character syndrome? That sounds completely made up. 😆 l know no one is stopping me from doing anything. I was just saying how times have changed and now teenagers with full heads of hair wear wigs and fake lashes. That used to be a grown-up thing.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 I just looked up main character syndrome and based on its definition it does not apply to me at all. I’m not self centered or self absorbed as it is described. You tried though. 😆
We are in the same boat 😂 just a few years younger than you and I just bought my first wig last week looool and it because I’m going back natural….it human hair, and the 3c consistency is the closest I could get to my 4c natural hair. In Jamaica we wear uniforms so the only expense is for books pens and pencils one pair of black school shoes and a school bag to serve for the entire school year and yuh better tek care a dat, loool and some socks (5-6) pairs. My mom is a hair dresser/ nail tech and she processed my hair when I entered high school so it was either worn down on my shoulders or up in one with a ponytail or a bun. She started waxing my eyebrows in 10th/11th grade and I was super cute too😅 I’d raise my children the same way with just a few changes. I was taught to create a distinction between when you going out, going to school, going to church and going to work, these outfits never looked the same. My father also made sure that I never looked like a woman as a high school student. The man never wah load the machine or sharpen the lass fi a bwoy weh think him can come put sexual words to me. There was no misunderstanding, everyone knew I was a minor. My first set of lashes was for my wedding day, second was for my lil brother wedding and my 3 might be for my maternity shoot. But to each his own in different cultures. #OneLove❤
i am probably baby compared to you guys. i tried wigs, weaves and everything I between as well… at 19. and by 21 i hate it all. before that i wasn’t allowed hair extensions past my shoulders and no colours. i appreciate that rule from my mother because it helped me to appreciate my 5c hair haha. i spent like 300 on a weave and i removed it after 2 days. and before i removed it i said “i have never appreciated my 4c hair as much as i ever had”. people were saying the hair suits me and they like the new hair but my real friends were like “but do you really like it?”. 300 down the drain but next hairstyle will likely be short braids again. even my hairdresser be like “you should try colours and curly!” but that’s not me. not changing my african culture to fit western societal norms. i respect my age mates doing all of this but a 16 year old?! i can’t lie my biggest worry at 16 were my grades. this is what school uniform is for. if it wasn’t allowed at school why should it be allowed at home. and maybe because i wore uniform up until 16 i just adopted that culture again i respect young women but this mother saying she’s “appreciating her inner child”… in my culture 16 is still a child therefore i think the mum is too lenient to allow any of this. people can argue “16 year olds can reveal their chest it’s no big deal” but that is the age they are changing physically and biologically. they need that time to grow and accept their new bodies. strutting it off to everyone is inappropriate… or maybe im just raised ultra conservative
You don't have to make excuses for doing the wonderful things for your daughter that you do. You are a good mom, and she will remember the times you spent together, and how grateful she is for you, taking the time to love your daughter the way that you are doing. God Bless You!!
Just as much as I love this for her…I LOVE IT EVEN MORE FOR YOU!! I felt that “it heals my inner child!” 🙌🏽🙌🏽 wishing her a very successful Jr year! 🎉🥳💕
I would love for our generation to go back to the books. Let kids be kids and not rush them to grow. Missing a step in their growth, trust me, will make a difference in their adulthood.
Shut the hell up this is healing the children like she said her self she wasn’t as fortunate so she does for her Child. Y’all are so used to the bare minimum and struggle. I’m so tired of struggle culture as long as your raise YOUR kids with good morals, and principles no amount of “clothes” and or superficial items your fear could strain your child…because when you’re installing good character in your children they shouldn’t be this easily influence. The education is still there she’s just making sure she feels and looks good. What are you on about?
@@Ebunoluwa13That’s ridiculous. Why do teenage girls need to wear wigs for a protective style? It’s a terrible message to see so many black girls and women rocking whole lacefront wigs.
@@Ebunoluwa13it's covers the head but it's not that protective it rips out your edges and mst change or have to change after just 1 week....you still have to manipulate your natural hair braods are more protective than wigs
I am from South Africa, our back to school would be doing the reverse…removing eyelashes and nails you did over the holidays. Ironing your school uniform and polishing your shoes. Removing all the colourful hair and making sure the style you had was neatly tied back. A teacher of ours would come so close to your face to make sure you are not wearing eyelashes and makeup. The rules simplified getting ready for school, we all looked somewhat similar, but I have to say it was got boring quickly 😂
I understand, growing up my single mom had 4 kids and we only got 3 or 4 new outfits for school as a person that has always love clothes I always wanted more so when I had my daughter I always brought 10 outfits for back to school, I was too healing my inner child 😊.
Good Mom - I would go all out for my kid's as well. I feel you on the Payless shoes as well. My Dad raised three daughter's as a single father. He worked so hard and gave us all he could. As we got older we got high end item's.
You don't have to explain anything to ppl especially about what you do for yours. Ppl make me sick with that. But I bet you if you were going all out for theirs they wouldn't question it or even say no, don't do it. Bravo Mom! That's right keep your baby together!🙏🏾❤️😊
yeah!!!!! i completely agree!!!! being confident sucks and children who feel bad abt themselves wearing bland clothes with no self expression should continue that way
@@MissMK3473are eyelashes for adults or something? Maybe everyone didn't have a lash tech as a mother but let's not pretend what she is doing is inappropriate.
U can tell the teen has her priorities in order and she’s well mannered, polite and sweet. Totally understand that u coming from ur situation would always start off ur daughter’s year like this & i LOVE it. 🙏🏻
I would be concerned about teaching my daughter that her natural appearance, or that she in general, is not beautiful or enough as she is... During the most insecure, impressionable, emotionally challenging, and developmental period in her life. I understand wanting to give your babies what you didn't have... I'm just saying coupling these kinds of choices with social media, and you have a recipe for children with crippling insecurity whose sense of self worth is externalized, and rooted in everything other than who they are naturally. I also think her appearance communicates that she's much older than she really is and will definitely lead to older men pursing her sexually despite her being a minor (she looked her age before).
Nothing about this women says she isn’t instilling natural beauty into her daughter, they just had a fun girls day and made her feel pretty before going back to school. Have you never painted your nails, shopped for clothes, or got your eyebrows waxed with your mom before? Times are different and this is what’s cool for younger kids. I’m 26, don’t really care for fake nails or painting mine, but I would always get a sew-in, braids, or do something with my hair, but new clothes and shoes, and get my eyebrows waxed before the first day. I have issues with my self image but that’s because me and my mom have issues in our relationship and she would leave me at these places by myself so I wasn’t spending time with her. This mother is “healing her inner child” by being able to provide for her and give her what she couldn’t as a child which is something a lot of parents do. The only thing I would really say is that I don’t know any school where they would let her show off her belly like that, but she still looks like a child to. You can see it in her face. Older guys would probably still try to talk to her even if she didn’t dress like that because it happens especially to young black girls, so she shouldn’t enhance her beauty because of men? Her daughter seemed happy before and she seems happier now because she’s spending time with her mom, doing girly things, and her mom is hyping her up instead of being jealous. I think this mom is doing a great job.
Don't apologize for doing more or better for your child. Only silly folks would make you feel guilty for that. A child's confidence is real. You are a great mom for pouring into her. Ask some of the folks who were teased relentlessly and even as an adult they feel that pain. While all of our children have to learn how to handle criticism and bounce back, you are doing well to help her feel good about herself! GREAT MOM and BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER.
Please mind your own business lol this is her child not yours. I understand that everyone has different opinions about these kind of topics but please don’t judge other people for loving there kids because it’s very ignorant, that woman is doing nothing wrong by taking care of her daughter so if y’all don’t like it keep scrolling. SIMPLE
This sends a false message to a growing child/teen. That they have to look like mini adults to attend school. There's a difference, teach them to maintain and upkeep their appearance without having to do too much. Regular mani/pedi hair done, no wigs. You are not falsely changing your appearance for more likes and attention with the extra stuff. Teach them to like how they look and feel without adding anything to change their appearance. Make sure they are comfortable just being themselves. Or they will get so attach to the outter appearance wigs lashes nails, give them that they will not want to go anywhere without the extra shit. Now it is okay if they are going to a party event or something that they can then get all doll up. Just have to know the time and place to switch up they appearance.
This lady did more than shop. She also implemented maintenance on this child that she herself would have wanted as a kid. Never one saying it's what her kid always wanted.
I totally understand as a single mother of two amazing girls. My daughter never knew the sacrifices I made for her to keep her hair weave to get her the Jordans that she wanted that came out. I save that money I sacrificed we didn’t have that. I have had a summer job since I was 12 years old because I lied and told him I was 15 because my parents could not afford to literally get us anything, they did what they could. I did not know that we were poor because of the neighborhood we lived in back in the day in San Francisco but I had two hard-working parents that love me so I knew how to love my girls and I still love them care for them And I would do anything for them to push them to their purpose and to build their self-esteem and make them the great young ladies that I know that they can be so hands down to you as an amazing, amazing mother you keep up the amazing job that you are doing with your baby girl 💕💕💕💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I went 4 winters in a row without a decent winter coat and it gets cold cold here, but all my kids had everything they needed plus some. All I asked is that they be respectful and get good grades. That's yo kid, do you momma ❤
You should always want to do better for your child! Her look did seem a little too grown for me, but hey not my child. You guys have a great relationship and hope it continues! She'll remember these moments forever!
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I felt that, “it heals my inner child.” ❤❤
SAMEEEEE, at first i was looking sideways but, thats some real shit. much love and success to everyone doing it big for they kid 🥹❤️
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Hhhmmm, what is the appropriate way to heal your inner child? Often we over parent giving children what we wish we would have gotten as a child. All that making up for what I didn’t get as a child to a child who doesn’t have the same life I had in the first place, produced a spoiled child who feels entitled and not appreciative. I learned inner child healing really goes deeper. We heal our inner child by attending to our own needs.. ❤
Same!
Yes every generation needs to unlearn and relearn new beahviors
She looked bomb at the end too. Love the hair color.
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Girl, when you said it heals your inner child . That hit home for me . I have 3 kids, I will not state how much a spent on back to school things. like you , I was one of those kids . I had nothing new, everything was handed down from cousins . My kids will not go through the same thing . But, I will say this , I am who I am, because of my experiences. I am driven because nothing was and is handed to me .
You're a great mother! It's not about what you buy, but how much you love her!
She's a great mom because, who has her daugther looking older than 16.
@@joycelynparks2140 Exactly, seems to me she fxcked up in the head…got her daughter looking like Cardi B 🤢
I don’t think so, did you see the size of the bag she was taking to school. So where is she putting her books? I have a soon to be 16 year old daughter. She’s pretty, but I make it very clear to her school is for her books and not her looks. I’m from England, so they don’t allow fake lashes, nails or heavy makeup to school. That I am thankful for.
@@keepingitnatural7601 at my school the first few days they tell you not to bring a bag because its all ice breaker stuff. also yes i agree school is for books but you can go feeling pretty. you dont want to go to school feeling like shit everyday
That sounds nice but when school starts the mean kids and bullies come out to play and the midriff showing clothes and obviously not natural hair are fair game!!! And YOU caused it! Blend in don’t draw attention to yourself save that crap until you fit in and have friends don’t wear looks that get you called names!!
Back to School prepping has definitely changed since I remember it!
😂😂😂😂RIGHT! We prepped with cool mechanical pencils and gel pens. It was about the jeans and the sneakers. Whatever school bag in trend. Now it’s full face, grown woman aesthetic 😂. These kids skipping the awkward phase.
@@DajiaStarExactly blame social media & the music
@@DajiaStarwhy do they have to go through the awkward phase?
@@destynesmith5187 I really don't know!
@DajiaStar right I'm like are these kids or adults?
Starting school with two outfits and one pair of shoes is still a blessing.
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So anything that's not butt ass naked is a blessing? two outfits and one pair of shoes is not a blessing, its below bare minimum, its poverty. Stop acting like that's something to be okay with. It's not okay and every child deserves more than that. ALSO just incase you wanna use the argument "well back when I was a kid I only had this and that and i made it by they should be grateful there's kids without this and that" makes you look foolish. Every child deserves everything good in this world. Just because there is children that go without doesn't mean that others should also or feel bad for being taken cared of. A child having a good life isn't a privilege, it's what should always fucking happen.
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Stop with the fake positivity. OK I can’t stand people like you..obviously everybody can have it worse but no child should only have two new sets of outfits. That’s ridiculous. stop trying to force people to accept the bare minimum that’s not deserved, especially when you having children. They deserve the world. If you can’t provide it then you shouldn’t have them keep them legs closed. Coming from someone who used to have hammy downs, and a few gets from goodwill please I would give anything for a chance like this, and I would do it for my children in a heartbeat when I have them.
It's not, it's poverty. In what reality do you live? Get real.
@@karllevs5694 nigga 2 sets of uniform and a single pair of shoes are enough you spoiled rats who get their nails done before school, who study 3rd grade shit would not understand. Who gets their lAsHeEs and nAiLs done before school that is just spoiled. You dont need "toner" "eyeliner" "cleanser" "facewash" "lip scrub" ALL YOU NEED IS SOAP AND VASLINE. this "inner child" shit and not all kids deserve the world if they are getting nails and lashes done before school AND getting bad grades. hope you understand that you dont need to get lashes and nails done before school. and dont go around saying "STOP WITH THE FAKE POSITIVETY"
maybe its enough for them? your just spoiled and need more ..
I love you
Americans are different 😭😭I’m South African my back to school look was cornrows or just braids.Eyelashes and wigs were for working women not high schoolers
Lol i really find it funny that people are calling me jealous for simply pointing out the differences.I was not bringing down the mom or her daughter, ya'll are reaching. Did you guys see me say that she shouldn't do things for her daughter? LOL
This is ridiculous
Good for you🤷🏾♀️😐
Exactly, I'm American. To each their own but I don't understand false nails, lashes & hair for women, definitely not for young ladies. Hoping folks get back to embracing natural beauty & free themselves from the needless expenses of wigs, lashes, etc.
I agree. Plus you have to find a balance. It’s easy to give someone *too much* because you had so little.
I worked a summer job and bought all my own clothes for back to school.
We got school clothes and a book bag 💼 😅
That’s all they need
1m 14 and there’s certain things I wanted but realized I don’t need that, and I’m very humble and picky
Same
@@Logantaliaferro you can’t be humble and picky at the same time babe
The operative word here is "school" clothes. There's school clothes and then there's hanging out on the weekend at the mall with my friends clothes.
I love that you're doing so much for your daughter and making sure she doesn't go through what you once did....you're amazing and best wishes to both of you and your fam!
let’s hope you went all out like this for her supplies and supporting her learning/studying schedule! kids lately have only been caring about aesthetics and that isn’t what carries you through life
That part!
Kids lately are also the ones who have been going to college more than ever. Being the first in their families and breaking generational barriers.
@@gingerheadedbrowskin_798yup and most have college debt because they can’t find a job focusing on the degree they have
As a mom that relates to this mom, in my experience it's easier to be successful when your needs are being met and your have confidence. I'm a mom of 9. 4 in college. Oldest getting her masters in biology. Finishing in a few months. Currently a high school science teacher. Pretty and smart 🩷💚
@@mrs.t3733I completely agree! I have been doing the same for my daughter. She is currently in her senior year of high school and has consistently been an A and B student since elementary school. I will continue to provide her with all the necessary support throughout her college years so that she can solely focus on higher education.
“it heals my inner child” - I felt this - it’s really about giving your children the things you missed out on
No its not
@@talklesslistenmore5578 Yeah it is. Most parents who struggled growing up but have a better life as an adult now, always say they want to give their children a better life than what they had and give them things they never had.
@@niicolee06exactly it’s common sense
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Giving your child a better life doesn't mean giving them everything you never had. It's teaching her to be a better person, and preparing her to be a contributing member of society. Appearance contributes to that, but if she had two outfits and cheap shoes, she could still be all those things and more.🤦🏽♀️
In Ethiopia -new bags, uniform and school material, put on vaseline, don't forget your lunch and go to school for every student.
😂😂😂😂
Which out for cars while you cross the road. Too.
I'm 33 and this is my routine for work 😅😅
In South Africa too... 😂😂😂😂
@@MonaLisa-ww3ys😂
That’s your child, no explanation needed, you doing what a good mother does. ❤
Exactly. You don’t have to not need to explain. Is your child and that should be enough explanation
a mother can be good without buying fake hair,nails , lashes
Indeed she can but if that’s what she wants to do for her daughter than that’s her choice, obviously her daughter wanted these things so she made it happen.
You can still be a good mother and not do all that
I wonder how many white and Asian parents blowing money on fake hair, lashes and nails blacks are hopeless
We cannot live vicariously our through our children.
Its dangerous
Exactly, and then call it healing inner child smh. Your inner child resides within you, so you heal her by taking care of yourself. You cannot parent your child as if she is you.
but her daughter enjoys it. She is pouring love into her daughter. Think of it this way, if a parent grew up never going to good schools and now made absolute sure their kids went to the best schools is that called “living vicariously?”
No, it isn’t. It is called building your kids up and making damn sure they want for nothing. All those roadblocks and obstacles are disappearing. Sometimes it feels like we only do this to black people. Specifically black mothers.
That baby is living her best life.
@@themotherlanderI also do this for my daughter... but she's not out here looking 25. We get facials. She's learned to love her own thick and full natural lashes. We get rid of a few stray hairs around her brows because they're otherwise prefect. She gets gel manicures because acrylics can tear your nails up and she's grown them out so they're long on their own anyway. She baby's her real hair and we rarely put heat on it... hardly ever blow dry it. So she wears her natural curls, which she loves, and her hair is nearly hip length. And she doesn't show unnecessary skin. Because she's 15. And looks 15. And loves who she is as she, and feels no desire or need for enhancements. Because there's nothing to enhance. No need to look like a real housewife at her age. No reason for older men to confuse her for anything more than what she is.
@@chocolatte522 I can’t argue with this. I don’t necessarily agree with the choices of hair or nails here, but so do love that she loves and pampers her daughter.
Super cute! I get the " heals my inner child." It's nice giving our kids things we couldn't/ or didn't have as a kid.
Her natural hair is so beautiful!
so is her wig.
@@earlinebeaman684🧢
Correct she’s gorgeous! But it’s her choice if she wants to wear a wig and she looks beautiful both ways. 😊
It looks average tbh
@@earlinebeaman684y’all odd like what’s wrong with appreciating her natural hair
School uniform was the back to school trend. No nailpolish , no lashes ,no eyebrows done. Natural beauty was appreciated. Got to love South Africa. No stress about adult stuff, just had to be a child. But times have changed Different countries ,different priorities😊
This is one video. No way to know what her priorities are.
@ToLovelyJesus As she states, she wanted to treat her daughter and that ok. Her daughter, her choices. I'm sure she appreciates her mom's effort. ❤️
U can say that again...
I think you countrys way is best. Unfortunately we women tend to focus on the wrong things.
Fake nails fake eyelashes fake hair. What are you teaching your daughter's self esteem?
Don’t wanna have kids till I can spoil them like this! Love your content so much and your relationship with your daughter is so beautiful
And that's not going to make you a good mother this is why we are at the bottom of the totem poll crop tops in school like seriously 😂 smh
@@pinkleather6725 um duh…I know that. Money and having the opportunity to spoil your children doesn’t make you a good money nor did I say that. But when I have children I want to be in a place where I can give them certain opportunities and experiences and that’s okay. Don’t put words in my mouth, thank you.
*mom
In the Caribbean, we wore uniforms. No makeup, no lashes, no fake nails.
we don’t care
and?
@@leaalol.9803why are you being rude ? is it wrong for someone to talk about their past school experience ?
@@lailakonstantinos137lmao u don’t realize the og comment is being ignorant? That’s the only reason why people say “we wore nothing and we looked natural” to be ignorant
@@IminlovewithanemogworlMan i get why you’d say that , but she could just be shedding light on how from her experience they didn’t wear makeup or lashes to school. not to necessarily downplay her daughter’s experience (the daughter from the video)
I totally understand boo, it’s a blessing that you could do for your daughter sis 🫶🏾💯🙏🏿
I don't have kids but I do it for my God kids. ....4,3,2 yrs old and get mad when they come home from school with something on their cloths....😅
Definitely a blessing
@@sandrawiggins5201lol I have a 4 3 and 2 yr old and baby when I tell you my money is waiistedddd!!😂😂😂😂😂
Aww she is just absolutley beautiful😊❤
She's absolutely beautiful
I get it but it’s important to follow that up with making sure kids know how privileged they are and to have gratitude to have a parent who can and wants to do that for them. Some parents only end up spoiling their kids’ personalities trying to fill their own void.
Right !!!
This right here
Right
"Healing my inner child"...this phrase will stay with me forever. I'm also doing the same with my son❤
You always try to give ur kids what u wish u had when u were there age and that's just beautiful and so wholesome. Thankyou for being such an amazing mom
Fake eyelashes a head full of weave and a bunch of makeup😂😂 that's what most of these women are doing to their little children grade school children and elementary school children they're putting them in sexual clothing 11 their middle school daughters wear fake eyelashes s*** ton of makeup long nails I'm sorry but y'all women need to get it together and stop dressing your daughter's like whores and making them look like grown women it's sad just let them be kids they don't need to be you don't you want something different for your kids it's sad that these modern women want to raise their daughters to be just like them. It's sad I have a 17 year old daughter who says modest as can be doesn't wear long nails doesn't wear makeup why because I never enforced all that on her doesn't show her belly she's a young modest lady because she knows that she will have value in this life not for her looks for her sexuality for her actual brains😊
In Kenya, back to school means you get rid of your fancy Christmas hair and either shave clean/short or plaiting super simple tiny cornrows that can take you through the school term
Dont forget uniforms🤣
Girls really have to cut/ shave their hair for school in kenya ?? :0
@sunshinee1353 actually in most african countries its recquired. But slowly schools are starting to allow girls keep their hair. But usually simple conrows ot braids. No color or weaves n what not
@@who_me4321 that’s so interesting :^ my step father was Nigerian and most of the little girls in Nigeria more specially the lagos and woru (I’m not sure on the spelling) region wore synthetic hair like a weave. But it could’ve just be that area while in other parts of Nigeria could’ve been like what u described
@@who_me4321 it’s interesting to learn the reason why some regions in Africa style their hair a certain way. My grandma is South African and she would keep her hair short in her adolescent years not necessarily for school or work but because curly hair was look down upon and it was easier to make it “look “ straight when it was shorter ! But that could’ve just been her lol
I think this is great. You never want your child to want for anything. Not only does this help with confidence, but she will also realize she will not have to rely on a man to buy her anything, her mom’s got her!!!!
Also, I love, addicted, lashes, she does great work!
watching this made me appreciate my school uniform a lot. it was kinda expensive but it lasted around a half the year
You can say that again appreciation❤ I wore mine 5 years for secondary school and still have it, finished school almost 25years ago.
I wore mine for 3 years now ams im graduating.. one of my shirt is ripped but I still have to wear it as it is for Friday. Its a different material and I know have one
You know what? Im so proud of you actually knowing where your "doing too much" energy comes from😂 Healing your inner child is so insightful. 💓 A lot of our generation does this for our kids because we know what it feels like to be without.... and actually I think every generation does some version of this.
This
Your so positive and kind
Go mama! You and your daughter rock! She is a princess and deserves everything! The world is so cruel- thanks for sharing so much love to her. She will never go below these high standards. Hope she does awesome in school.
Wow, I wish my daughter knew life as I did in school. Before lace wigs, eyelashes, false nails, and so many other things that take place now. Life was sooooooo amazing back then. These kids don't know how good life used to be, sweet and innocent. When you see a young sweet female with no lashes, no wigs, no make-up, just naturally beautiful, it is a sight for sore eyes. Unfortunately, when they come with all that equipment, they are judged differently.
Thank God for school uniforms 🇯🇲🇯🇲🥰
cope lmao
Why dress your kids on fake everything just like saying your not good enough the way you are.?
Always. All i had to worry abt was making sure my uniform fit and my skin was okay
@@amysdreamvideos8174Fake everything?😂 Cry harder
Exactly.. it also works out cheaper and takes the stress out of picking what to wear and these kids don't like to repeat clothes.
how absolutely beautiful and so loving and nurturing!! i cannot even begin to imagine this kind of care, love and attention but I am certainly glad it is a thing for some!!!! Bravo Mama‼️.. truly, how beautiful, kind and special are you!! Your daughter is just precious too☺️
Schools allow kids to have their stomach exposed?? They did not allow that when I was in high school. We couldn’t even wear skirts shorter than finger tip length or we got sent home lol
elementary schools in my area allow it now
@@emilyramsey1380wow
That's what I was saying, I work at a elementary school and see first graders with crop top on
.....
Girl! I was sent home once for having some short. Now these kids are wearing sheistys, bonnets, half shirts and all that stuff lol. Times have definitely changed lol
@@mwright0428Yes times have changed for what is allowed at schools. People will come for me, but I would not want my daughters to have their belly out. This is a time where those teens hormones are going bonkers no need to further enticing folks. Even some teachers get attracted to pretty young girls😖 No parent wants that.
Wow😂😂❤...In Nigeria we know we cant do dis in high sc 😂❤
You can't do it in many schools in the US. There are dress codes.
@@GeeBee212not against wigs and lashes and nails
@@Chizzboss Independent, parochial and even some public schools most certainly have dress codes inclusive of nail length and polish color. Wigs and lashes have also recently been added to the dress codes. It wasn't a thing a few years back but it is now. Most public schools in NYC don't even allow crop tops.
@@GeeBee212 well I know there's many that do allow sexualized children
@@Chizzboss That would be the fault of the parents and school boards who are elected by the parents.
I think the love you show your daughter is beautiful. What incredible bonding experiences! You’re raising a confident daughter who surely feels valued.
Back in the day, we couldn’t dress like that at school. I wore a skirt above my knees, I had to be sent home.
Yep!
I would have never ever wanted all those esthetics at 15-16 yrs of age.
Y'all are the reason kids have dress codes now, let's not💀
Yea we def had dress codes, I don’t think they have them anymore, esp for prom.
well are you being forced to???@@coppertonedone
Sometimes we think we’re setting the framework for better lives for our kids…….However many of us end up doing too much and end up creating lazy entitled brats.
You got allllll that from a 20second clip lol stop projecting ma’am
Exactly!!!! 🙌🏻
@@nicoleayala4153she’s got a point😅 idk HOW many moms o hear saying they’re gonna spoil their kids because they didn’t have the life they think they needed, but end up with kids that dont understand how to take care of themselves😂
It’s one thing to spoil your kid rotten just because and another to provide what you wish you had and actively have a good relationship with them.
@@nicoleayala4153I'm pretty sure she wasn't talking about this specific child if you're gonna say "that's what you got from this short clip?" It's just in general, true.
It heals my inner child. I felt that.
Good for you. Now I hope she focuses on what's really important.
Getting good grades. Not looking good
Going over and beyond in her studies because if you think it's expensive out her now
Just wait to when she has to support
And Yes. I focused on my studies. I'm 26 years old with a Masters in Finance/accounting, Married with a 3 year old and a 4 month old
Happy I focused on what's important ❤
Oh, and my husband is a Pharmacist
As Blacks we need to focus ❤❤❤
Lashes though. Kids can't be kids nomore
She’s a teenager wdu mean lol
When I was a junior in high school girls were wearing strip lashes on the daily, this ain't much different lol
@@bellaprincesa2452 what I said
Because she needs artificial things to fill her momma’s inner child 😂😂
Do you not see her? She’s a kid
When you said " im gonna go all out for her, it heals my inner child " my first tought was : you as a mother, as a person, a beautifull person, you deserve the world and all the good things in it.
Great bonding time. Just make sure she puts the same effort in her studies.
And her character.❤
That part
My loving how she is so interested in what her daughter likes and even goes out of her way to make sure it’s special
Do YOU mama! We love to see the children smiling! & kudos to you! Healing your inner-child thru ya baby ❤
Oh wow getting ready for school is totally different now 😂. The pressure is something serious. I’m so happy sew ins and lashes wasn’t the norm when I was in school. Kudos to you parents lol.
It's not, I think it's really weird how upset and salty y'all get when you see a black girl who appears to be well taken care of, y'all never do this to any other group of children....
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 I totally agree it's no different. Plus, to piggyback off of you. I don't think a lot of people realize that the black community as a whole is not in the same position we were back in the day. We can definitely do more and have more.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413Oh Please spare me🙄😏
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413it really is. It's a trend just as much as anything else and you know it so move along bot
@@ThisIsMeVernDomg get over yourselves
Back to school,lashes,nails,hair and all that is an American thing?
Is it beauty school? If not,why do this?
Not an American thing. Everyone is different here. We don’t have one culture, we have many. And everyone is very different. Personally, I’d never allow this that early. Lashes naturally pull your real lashes out, and young women need to dress respectfully, especially in school. That’s ME though
The weave ok, but lashes and nails?
Never she's trying to get her daughter knocked up too early.
I'm definitely not doing this some people like to waste money especially the ones that don't truly have it to spend, I would only buy a couple of new pieces just because anything else would have to be needed, my daughter got three pairs of shoes because her feet grew and barely was able to fit her old stuff, one year she had a growth spurt and couldn't fit any of her old stuff so she got 10 outfits, buying stuff just because is crazy to me.
I love your daughter’s smile, so sincere and humble! ❤️
She is gorgeous! I hope she's eatin all that momma time up and knows how special she is to you. ❤
My my my how times have changed 😂. Fake eye lashes and acrylic nails were never a part of my back to school shopping 😂. Call me old school but I’m 36 and I’ve never worn a wig, not to mention a full lace front at 16 😂😂. I miss the simpler times in life.
Nobody is stopping you from doing that, y'all are too old to be having main character syndrome THIS badly
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 What is main character syndrome? That sounds completely made up. 😆 l know no one is stopping me from doing anything. I was just saying how times have changed and now teenagers with full heads of hair wear wigs and fake lashes. That used to be a grown-up thing.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413 I just looked up main character syndrome and based on its definition it does not apply to me at all. I’m not self centered or self absorbed as it is described. You tried though. 😆
We are in the same boat 😂 just a few years younger than you and I just bought my first wig last week looool and it because I’m going back natural….it human hair, and the 3c consistency is the closest I could get to my 4c natural hair. In Jamaica we wear uniforms so the only expense is for books pens and pencils one pair of black school shoes and a school bag to serve for the entire school year and yuh better tek care a dat, loool and some socks (5-6) pairs. My mom is a hair dresser/ nail tech and she processed my hair when I entered high school so it was either worn down on my shoulders or up in one with a ponytail or a bun. She started waxing my eyebrows in 10th/11th grade and I was super cute too😅 I’d raise my children the same way with just a few changes. I was taught to create a distinction between when you going out, going to school, going to church and going to work, these outfits never looked the same. My father also made sure that I never looked like a woman as a high school student. The man never wah load the machine or sharpen the lass fi a bwoy weh think him can come put sexual words to me. There was no misunderstanding, everyone knew I was a minor. My first set of lashes was for my wedding day, second was for my lil brother wedding and my 3 might be for my maternity shoot. But to each his own in different cultures. #OneLove❤
i am probably baby compared to you guys. i tried wigs, weaves and everything I between as well… at 19. and by 21 i hate it all. before that i wasn’t allowed hair extensions past my shoulders and no colours. i appreciate that rule from my mother because it helped me to appreciate my 5c hair haha. i spent like 300 on a weave and i removed it after 2 days. and before i removed it i said “i have never appreciated my 4c hair as much as i ever had”. people were saying the hair suits me and they like the new hair but my real friends were like “but do you really like it?”. 300 down the drain but next hairstyle will likely be short braids again. even my hairdresser be like “you should try colours and curly!” but that’s not me. not changing my african culture to fit western societal norms. i respect my age mates doing all of this but a 16 year old?! i can’t lie my biggest worry at 16 were my grades. this is what school uniform is for. if it wasn’t allowed at school why should it be allowed at home. and maybe because i wore uniform up until 16 i just adopted that culture
again i respect young women but this mother saying she’s “appreciating her inner child”… in my culture 16 is still a child therefore i think the mum is too lenient to allow any of this. people can argue “16 year olds can reveal their chest it’s no big deal” but that is the age they are changing physically and biologically. they need that time to grow and accept their new bodies. strutting it off to everyone is inappropriate… or maybe im just raised ultra conservative
You did your thing girl, you’re a great mom. Bless y’all. ❤️🙏🏽
You don't have to make excuses for doing the wonderful things for your daughter that you do. You are a good mom, and she will remember the times you spent together, and how grateful she is for you, taking the time to love your daughter the way that you are doing. God Bless You!!
Just as much as I love this for her…I LOVE IT EVEN MORE FOR YOU!! I felt that “it heals my inner child!” 🙌🏽🙌🏽 wishing her a very successful Jr year! 🎉🥳💕
she looks stunning !! Your such a caring mother ❤
I just hope she shows appreciation by getting good grades!!
Frl dho
I would love for our generation to go back to the books. Let kids be kids and not rush them to grow. Missing a step in their growth, trust me, will make a difference in their adulthood.
Shut the hell up this is healing the children like she said her self she wasn’t as fortunate so she does for her Child. Y’all are so used to the bare minimum and struggle. I’m so tired of struggle culture as long as your raise YOUR kids with good morals, and principles no amount of “clothes” and or superficial items your fear could strain your child…because when you’re installing good character in your children they shouldn’t be this easily influence. The education is still there she’s just making sure she feels and looks good. What are you on about?
Her daughter is a teenager she's not being rushed
I remember when we’d just… go to school 😂 none of this beauty stuff. Just us and our clean clothes
I mean... this was definitely not the culture in my day
but this is the new day and age and if the daughter feels confident, then there shouldn't be an issue
I'm noticing its a trend for all black teenage girl to wear wigs.🙄
Because its a protective style
everybody looking the same,fake hair,nails, lashes no brains to think outside the box to be their own individual selves
@@Ebunoluwa13That’s ridiculous. Why do teenage girls need to wear wigs for a protective style? It’s a terrible message to see so many black girls and women rocking whole lacefront wigs.
@@Ebunoluwa13it's covers the head but it's not that protective it rips out your edges and mst change or have to change after just 1 week....you still have to manipulate your natural hair braods are more protective than wigs
@@msjrenefulit’s a bad message to be judge mental like sheesh y’all never happy
She went from little girl to grown women. The result was beautiful. It took her innocent look away
omg girl she’s so pretty !!🩶 the ginger suits her so well
Love your relationship guys, you inspire me to get my money right and do the same for my daughter❤
I love this ❤ your child's love for self starts with the mother. It's personal. She will take these moments into adulthood with confidence
Oh my goodness she looks ADORABLE what a lovely loving mother killing the game!
Wow, everything turned out beautifully. Go Mom & daughter 💕🌷
I am from South Africa, our back to school would be doing the reverse…removing eyelashes and nails you did over the holidays. Ironing your school uniform and polishing your shoes. Removing all the colourful hair and making sure the style you had was neatly tied back. A teacher of ours would come so close to your face to make sure you are not wearing eyelashes and makeup. The rules simplified getting ready for school, we all looked somewhat similar, but I have to say it was got boring quickly 😂
Gorgeous girl. Hope her back to school experience is good!
I understand, growing up my single mom had 4 kids and we only got 3 or 4 new outfits for school as a person that has always love clothes I always wanted more so when I had my daughter I always brought 10 outfits for back to school, I was too healing my inner child 😊.
It's so cool to see someone choose ginger 😊 I'm a ginger and I'm constantly ridiculed for it, but I love my hair! She's gorgeous😊
Same
her final look atee!
Good Mom - I would go all out for my kid's as well. I feel you on the Payless shoes as well. My Dad raised three daughter's as a single father. He worked so hard and gave us all he could. As we got older we got high end item's.
You don't have to explain anything to ppl especially about what you do for yours. Ppl make me sick with that. But I bet you if you were going all out for theirs they wouldn't question it or even say no, don't do it. Bravo Mom! That's right keep your baby together!🙏🏾❤️😊
Nothing more beautiful then the bond she has with her beautiful daughter ❤🫶🏼
Your daughter looks so grateful and appreciative. What a lucky girl she is to have a wonderful mom like you!
She was cuter at the beginning for a child her age. She will do everything she wants when she gets older. School is somewhere we study not a runway.
She’s 17… the look is appropriate for “her age”
Force ripe
Womp womp
Let a girl feel pretty (She is pretty) and she's 17
No one cares what you think, just smile and enjoy that a 17 year old is happy 🎀❤
I love the way her hair turned out it’s beautiful😊🎉
This is what's wrong with kids today.
Yup! ...their parents/upbringing
yeah!!!!! i completely agree!!!! being confident sucks and children who feel bad abt themselves wearing bland clothes with no self expression should continue that way
Fr cause why should we feel the need to dress ho we went and express ourselves… yall weirdos have a problem with everything
Yep. Trying to make minors look like grown women. Lashes… really?
@@MissMK3473are eyelashes for adults or something? Maybe everyone didn't have a lash tech as a mother but let's not pretend what she is doing is inappropriate.
While other parents make their kids suffer more to heal “their inner child” you do the opposite I’m proud of u girl
U can tell the teen has her priorities in order and she’s well mannered, polite and sweet. Totally understand that u coming from ur situation would always start off ur daughter’s year like this & i LOVE it. 🙏🏻
She looks amazing 😊.
I wish them all the best and hope her daughter does well in life.
Your daughter seems really polite, sweet and appreciative❤...great job Mom🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I would be concerned about teaching my daughter that her natural appearance, or that she in general, is not beautiful or enough as she is... During the most insecure, impressionable, emotionally challenging, and developmental period in her life. I understand wanting to give your babies what you didn't have... I'm just saying coupling these kinds of choices with social media, and you have a recipe for children with crippling insecurity whose sense of self worth is externalized, and rooted in everything other than who they are naturally. I also think her appearance communicates that she's much older than she really is and will definitely lead to older men pursing her sexually despite her being a minor (she looked her age before).
I agree. What will happen to the daughter’s self-image if she’s unable to get her nails done, false lashes and wear a wig?????
@@onebeyutifulright!
I agree as well, well said
I agree 👍
Nothing about this women says she isn’t instilling natural beauty into her daughter, they just had a fun girls day and made her feel pretty before going back to school. Have you never painted your nails, shopped for clothes, or got your eyebrows waxed with your mom before? Times are different and this is what’s cool for younger kids. I’m 26, don’t really care for fake nails or painting mine, but I would always get a sew-in, braids, or do something with my hair, but new clothes and shoes, and get my eyebrows waxed before the first day. I have issues with my self image but that’s because me and my mom have issues in our relationship and she would leave me at these places by myself so I wasn’t spending time with her. This mother is “healing her inner child” by being able to provide for her and give her what she couldn’t as a child which is something a lot of parents do. The only thing I would really say is that I don’t know any school where they would let her show off her belly like that, but she still looks like a child to. You can see it in her face. Older guys would probably still try to talk to her even if she didn’t dress like that because it happens especially to young black girls, so she shouldn’t enhance her beauty because of men? Her daughter seemed happy before and she seems happier now because she’s spending time with her mom, doing girly things, and her mom is hyping her up instead of being jealous. I think this mom is doing a great job.
Don't apologize for doing more or better for your child. Only silly folks would make you feel guilty for that. A child's confidence is real. You are a great mom for pouring into her. Ask some of the folks who were teased relentlessly and even as an adult they feel that pain. While all of our children have to learn how to handle criticism and bounce back, you are doing well to help her feel good about herself! GREAT MOM and BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER.
I love how you can tell how appreciative she is just by her mannerisms
Teaching your daughter she needs Fake hair, fake lashes, fake nails what is this world coming to😒. Whatever happened to being a natural beauty 😵💫
To go to SCHOOL?? You're there to learn, not model !!!!!!!!
School is to learn get an education. Not play Barbie dress up
@@cl4025 yeah 💯
@@gilliangiles7589 yeah,i agree with you 💯
Please mind your own business lol this is her child not yours. I understand that everyone has different opinions about these kind of topics but please don’t judge other people for loving there kids because it’s very ignorant, that woman is doing nothing wrong by taking care of her daughter so if y’all don’t like it keep scrolling. SIMPLE
This sends a false message to a growing child/teen. That they have to look like mini adults to attend school. There's a difference, teach them to maintain and upkeep their appearance without having to do too much. Regular mani/pedi hair done, no wigs. You are not falsely changing your appearance for more likes and attention with the extra stuff. Teach them to like how they look and feel without adding anything to change their appearance. Make sure they are comfortable just being themselves. Or they will get so attach to the outter appearance wigs lashes nails, give them that they will not want to go anywhere without the extra shit. Now it is okay if they are going to a party event or something that they can then get all doll up. Just have to know the time and place to switch up they appearance.
What’s the problem with her dressing up the way she wants to?
Dang wrote a whole essay about some kid let her live
Thats so sweet that you do that for your daughter. I grew up similar, hardly being able to afford new clothes. ❤
Is it back to college? I know it's not HS.
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That ginger look good on her love it
I love this! Healing your inner child through motherhood is an amazing concept! God bless this beautiful family! ☺️🙏🏼❤️💖💕💞💗🩷🤍
My mom also went all out in shopping before going back to school ❤ I love her for that ❤️
This lady did more than shop. She also implemented maintenance on this child that she herself would have wanted as a kid. Never one saying it's what her kid always wanted.
Oh she’s winning best dressed for sure! I’m doing this for my future kids!
Yess
Awww ❤I love this!! She has a beautiful smile and great energy. Have fun at school! 🎉
GREAT JOB MOM!!! I FEEL YOU!!!❤❤❤
I totally understand as a single mother of two amazing girls. My daughter never knew the sacrifices I made for her to keep her hair weave to get her the Jordans that she wanted that came out. I save that money I sacrificed we didn’t have that. I have had a summer job since I was 12 years old because I lied and told him I was 15 because my parents could not afford to literally get us anything, they did what they could. I did not know that we were poor because of the neighborhood we lived in back in the day in San Francisco but I had two hard-working parents that love me so I knew how to love my girls and I still love them care for them And I would do anything for them to push them to their purpose and to build their self-esteem and make them the great young ladies that I know that they can be so hands down to you as an amazing, amazing mother you keep up the amazing job that you are doing with your baby girl 💕💕💕💕👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She looks beautiful. Great job. Your are a very inspiring multitalented wonderful momma. 🧡
I completely understand about your inner child. ❤
And thats sad cause her child is her own human thats not her inner child
I went 4 winters in a row without a decent winter coat and it gets cold cold here, but all my kids had everything they needed plus some. All I asked is that they be respectful and get good grades. That's yo kid, do you momma ❤
They just be saying anything lol, I love what you’re doing ❤.
You should always want to do better for your child! Her look did seem a little too grown for me, but hey not my child. You guys have a great relationship and hope it continues! She'll remember these moments forever!