Parents, Circle of Life, & Battle of Plassey ❤️ (No Politics this time) - Modiji & Rahulji can wait
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
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Understand and Healing Parent-Child Relationships
Parent-child relationships are among the most complex and significant connections in our lives. They shape our early experiences, influence our development, and leave lasting imprints on our personalities. However, these relationships are not immune to conflict, disappointment, and resentment. Many individuals struggle with negative feelings toward their parents, which can be deeply distressing and challenging to navigate. Helping someone transition from a place of hatred to a place of understanding and, ideally, love requires patience, empathy, and strategic approaches. This essay explores the dynamics of parent-child relationships, the roots of conflict, and strategies to foster reconciliation and healing.
The Complexity of Parent-Child Relationships
The parent-child bond is inherently complex because it is laden with expectations, emotions, and cultural influences. Parents are often viewed as the primary providers of love, security, and guidance. When these expectations are unmet or violated, feelings of disappointment, anger, and even hatred can arise. These negative emotions can be compounded by various factors, including:
1. *Unrealistic Expectations:* Parents and children often have idealized images of each other. When reality does not match these expectations, it can lead to feelings of betrayal and resentment.
2. *Communication Breakdowns:* Lack of effective communication is a common issue in strained relationships. Misunderstandings and unexpressed emotions can build up over time, creating a barrier between parents and children.
3. *Generational Differences:* Differences in values, beliefs, and life experiences between generations can lead to conflicts. Parents may struggle to understand the perspectives of their children and vice versa.
4. *Traumatic Experiences:* Past traumas, such as abuse, neglect, or significant family disruptions, can severely damage the parent-child relationship. These experiences can leave deep emotional scars that are hard to heal.
Acknowledging and Validating Feelings
The first step in addressing these negative feelings is acknowledging and validating them. Telling someone their feelings are valid is crucial because it assures them that their emotions are recognized and respected. It is essential to listen empathetically and without judgment. Statements such as, "It's okay to feel the way you do," can provide comfort and open the door to more in-depth conversations.
Encouraging Open Communication
Effective communication is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. Encouraging open and honest dialogue between parents and children can help bridge gaps and foster understanding. It is beneficial to create a safe space where both parties feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings. Techniques such as active listening, where one truly hears and reflects on what the other is saying, can be invaluable. For example, saying, "Sometimes, talking about what's bothering you can help. Have you tried discussing your feelings with your parents?" can encourage dialogue.
Focusing on Positive Aspects
While it is important to address negative feelings, it is equally important to recognize and appreciate the positive aspects of the relationship. Focusing on good memories or acts of kindness can help balance negative perceptions. Asking someone to recall positive experiences with their parents can shift their perspective and highlight that the relationship is not entirely negative. Phrases like, "Can you think of some good memories or things your parents have done for you?" can prompt reflection on positive experiences.
Empathy and Perspective
Encouraging empathy can help individuals see their parents in a new light. Understanding the reasons behind a parent's actions, including their own struggles and limitations, can foster compassion and reduce anger. Encouraging statements such as, "Try to see things from their perspective. What might be the reasons behind their actions?" can help individuals develop a more nuanced understanding of their parents' behavior.
Self-Reflection and Understanding Needs
Self-reflection is a critical component of healing. Understanding one's own needs and communicating them clearly can lead to better relationships. Encouraging individuals to reflect on what they need from their parents can help them articulate these needs more effectively. Statements like, "Reflect on what you might need from them. Is it more understanding, support, or love?" can guide this process.
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Naman
No ads, No bakwas, Original content, salute to this man.
Respect! Naman. Keep up your good work! World needs more ppl. Like you. Thank you for being YOU!
Your critical thinking needs to be protected so that your voice is not muzzled in the future!
Respect sir ! 🤍
Literally I was thinking the same kind of connection between me any my father. You made my day.
For the first time ever in my life I found someone who matches my thoughts.
No matter how our parents may make us feel they always want the best for us. I often don't land on the same page with my parents but it doesn't mean that I will start hating them. I know how lucky I am to have someone who will be there by my side whenever and whenever I "need", the parents who have taught me the difference between right and wrong so well that I can write this comment.
Also lucky to have a role-model like you in this time, when teens are falling for the so-called influencers as their gods.
We cannot generalize parents! For majority Indian parents specially the middle class and below, kids are a pension plan. Parents dump their unfilled dreams on their kids to fulfill.
It is the parent ego that stops them from agreeing with the decision made by the children.
Absolutely !
Totally agreed....
They push their unfulfilled plans on us. My father was a state govt officer and he pushed me from day-1 to slog for IAS so much so that I left Software jobs at college and blocked my mind to look for other opportunities. I had the opportunity to move into IT, research and consulting. But they only wanted State and Central Govt jobs and I got diagnosed with OCD. One decade got wasted into all of this Govt job preparation..Missed out on the fun in college. Got a job in a PSU but life is boring as hell.
@@Airops-td4qs no worries you can start a side project or IT freelance in your free time
Are nahi yaar , sab chodo aur maa baap ko pyar karo kuch bhi ho
Kyunki itna time nahi hain unke pass
Naman sir, just by watching your youtube channel I have learnt a lot. You have taught me how to think and build opinions on issues. I am the person who find it difficult to rote memorize. Ever since I have started watching your videos I have developed a habit of "take a pause and think for a moment". Why am I studying this topic?, what is the philosophical aspect behind this, how is it impacting the various sections of society and etc. You have taught me to interlink the topics and develop a holistic understanding around it. Thank you.
2:50 aakkhe bhar aai Gurudev ❤ unconditional love
This is what we want to listen at the of 22 frustrated demotivated regular unwanted fight with parents but now this video give me answers of all what i am searching for long thankue bhaiyaa for thiss
Beautiful message! Thanks for sharing Naman bhaiyya ✨
Hi Naman,
I have been following for last few weeks. You are just telling the truth . I'm 29 years. Still I don't have specific knowledge about politics and other taxes etc.
My Question is : Is still Justice existed in India or we should buy Justice in our Country?
Thank you sir! Respect!
A lesson learnt very late in life. However, your happiness will directly lift up their life as well.
I am glad to found someone whom i can call genuinely nice
Aptly said sir.
Great 👍
Good morning Sir,
One thing I came to know in your Channel you are the best finetuner of life.
Your journey will be a route map of the person once who follows.
We enjoy this journey because of best life mentor like you.
Thank you.
Jai Hind. 🇮🇳
your voice is so caliming🤗🤗
Sir if you will do this podcast in Hindi then people of villages and town also benefitted by this video ❤
and i saw your srk khan expose video as u covered
I totally surprised about secret scam that is happening in india
Aapke gardan me pain start hone wala hai. Correct your posture.
True man
I thought I was the only one who saw his wrong posture in almost all videos 😂
He can have a desktop setup , don't know why he chose it
Spondilitis
❤️❤️❤️ thank you (bhaiya)
"MAKE PEACE WITH THAT"... THAT. IS. what is needed like harrrrd. ^^
Same feeling
Bhai pls discuss BNS section 69. Pls highlight rampant misuse of Women protection laws
❤❤
what you said is absolutely right sir.we should really really cherish our parents.thank you sir☺.
Sir I do struggle with procrastination, planning, and finishing things on time Inspite of I have all the potential I have. I am preparing for upsc and want to join your class. Actually I was to join it when it started the live ones. But now it's recorded. Yet I want want to join it, but my only problem is like I said above procrastination, planning, finishing things in time. How can I deal with it please guide me sir? Ans how will this course help me in it please guide sir. 🙏🙏🙏
Missing my dad
❤
From bgm to your words ❤
What's the name of bgm by the way?
Sir why are you using others thumbnail ,even you don't talk about them ?
Let me tell you a truth, in India whenever a tow people get married they asked by their relatives that "khushkhabri" and if someone of them is courageous enough to ask them why should I go for a baby, we both are happy in our life, the answer coms from them is the baby (especially the baby boy) will become you support after you 60s or 70s. I'm a boy and I have a sister she will left the house after marriage and I have to take care of my parents and I will, but this thought that I am here to support them in their old age made me think that.
is this unconditional love?
Well you can always leave your parents if you feel like this.
@@diehardernxgt2161 I don't want to leave them mister, but I'm trying to rais a very valid question. If you have the answer then tell me, what is love?
👍🏻👍🏻😊
The guy in the right side of the thumbnail is vishal singh.
He cleared ssc and became an income tax inspector.
Hello bhaiya
need help
I am from a Village area in Rajasthan and i have always been a sincere child, good in academics, polite and respectful to the elders and always obeying them type of child. I love my parents and family a lot because i have seen them struggling and doing intence farming work just for my education. They almost sacrifice half of their life just for me.
BUT
Here is the issue, i gave my jee advanced exam this year and 100% making it to top IITs but due to the pressure of society and this so called samajh, they want me to get engaged now and Marry me just after i turn 21( in villages of Rajasthan, it's very common even child marriage, almost all my friends are married even before 18 , i just got lucky here)
It doesn't matter for me that what samajh says but it does for my parents.
I have a lot of dreams to fullfill but
i am getting pressure for this
Can anyone advise what can I do?
Are you a boy or a girl?
You are well educated. You shouldn't live in village. Pack up
Village is hell for educated guy. I am also from small Village, UP
@@jdidjsnj
My whole family is there buddy
They sacrificed everything just for me, and it is my responsibility to take care of them in their old days...
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
Have been following you for a while now and I genuinely love every single video of yours except this one. Felt like it was the same generalized statements being conveyed in the context of parent's love and how they are doing everythingout of that love/for your betterment etc etc. Video was lacking a nuanced perspective, I truly believe that most of the Indian parents/teachers use their kids/students as a tool/nthing less than a tissue paper or a toilet roll.
Not everyone is fortunate to have a teacher such as yourself and parents who irrespective of their education, generation gap or financial status respect you and devote their to understand you for being their kid's in the first place.
I was 18 a neet aspirant back then got 70% in 12 and a rank of 1.6 lac that in NEET my father wanted me to join a private medical college that year but I refused next year got a rank of 8525 to prove my father wrong that it is cracking these types of exams is not for me believe me he was the happiest and proudest person around I’m 24 now aiming to crack UPSC he still doesn’t digest the idea but the thing is even if it something negative to prove them wrong it gets me in that survival mode where I push an extra mile or two it’s for the time if i would be cracking this time but he is the one that gets that competitive spirit and a will to give the best in me…
I believe mourning is the real problem if you get past it and be strong it could lead to a very strong sense of responsibility and action
Sir please neet paper leaked issue
sirji your videos are just amazing if i send you mail will you reply sir please i need to ask manny things and learn from you please
Weeshal kumar
Bhai Hindi me video bana Diya Karo
Are haan, hindi hi kyu, Telugu, Tamil, bangla, Marathi ye sabhi major languages and ancient rich culture waale languages me banaana chahiye 🤔
@@regal_lane❤
Enhlish hi shi hai phir toh itna teen jaam seh 😂@@regal_lane
Bhaiya paisa earn karte he kyu childern feels like they don't need their parents ajkal yese environment create ho raha hai
Tell me why such facial expression in the thumbnail though
Neet scam alert
Ur videos are excellent still your channel is not huge. The ONLY reason is all your videos are in English.
Create same videos in both English and Hindi
I promise you, you will touch millions of subscribers in matter of months