"Why Would My Man Ask Me For Head?" Black Women Complain When Men Ask For Servicing Their Needs 😳
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The problem with so many women today is that at one time they actually did what Anton said a wife should do….but they did it for the WRONG man. The man that didn’t deserve it. So now they think they need to make the man that actually DOES deserve it prove on a daily basis that he deserves it
FACTS!!!!
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That’s still on them & half the time they don’t real the real or full story of what last dude “put her through” she needs to open up or shut it
Whatever her experience, she is the one doing what she doing so she will be held accountable.
🧢
Well she can be 70 and alone
It sound crazy when I say "I don't feel like going to work, or I'm not mentally or emotionally up to paying these bills" don't it
This why ninjas got side pieces. Don't be mad ladies.
Damn bro I said the same exact thing to my wife about 2 months ago she didn’t have anything to say,i keep a side piece though 😂
Women makes excuses for everything. Like he said he is not asking her to bend over. 15 minutes to please your significant other 😊
They will do it for their job when they are tired just not the bm they are dating
Big facts
Ladies, there are no wrong answers. Do it, or dont do it. Its totally up to you. But dont be mad at us brothas who marry becky who does it without asking, and without an attitude. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Mi ling, or Maria
yupppp
4 Real, Becky,Maria, Selma, anybody except Keisha Ass
Its not even Becky...dont trigger them so they have an excuse not to pay attention.
How many times did their best friend or cousin steal their Boyfriend because they knew she wouldnt give her boyfriend Head.
That was growing up...
How many times does a 304 in your building or on your block...
How about the 304 at his job that hears him complain to his boy about no Head or once a week Kat
What about the true work 304s that will steer a conversation to Sex and let you know shes with all the Nasty ish....Browneye....ball juggling....groceries ate...
Shyt she kniws he can only dream of at Home??????
This is how early on you set your marriage at risk....Men are immature and driven by the littke head.....Too many women send their men out there starving....
Because they are lazy or complacent or listening to their SINGLE girlfriends. You kept him drained when you first met....most did oral and other things AND did it everywhere backseat, job, parks yo momma's house...
Now you always tired....you'll do it tomorrow....not now the kids might hear.
Nah it aint Becky you got to run to ...plenty of Sistas out here ready to slob down some other Sista's man.... Have been since 7th grade
Too many Females send out men that would never be weak enough to fall in with these 304s if their woman wouldnt have them out their thirsty and starved.
We not talking about Dog negros because they gonna do it no matter what....
Sad thing is most females kniw they dogs but eff with them anyway them be mad at all Black men...smh
Or Ling ling
This is always a problem with the sistas. I dated a white woman and she couldn’t keep her hands off of me for the whole three years we dated.
It was to the point where my “manhood” was sore from so much constant s3x… and I had to fight her off at times. And the sistas wonder why other groups of women are getting chose left and right 🤦🏾♂️
This
@@canadianbrotv1303 indeed, but Pookie gets all the H3AD he wants though.
@@MrSamPhoenixpookie has a special place in their heart… that most of you guys will never fill honestly. He beats them, he steals from them, he is selfish, he may or may not swing both ways… 😂
@@MrSamPhoenixPookie also doesn't take care of their children and created a generation of dudes with no game. That's not a flex. Pookies have to be held accountable since they're the ones getting all the loose box.
My marriage in a nutshell
I have been married for 31 years. I can’t believe how this woman are reacting. Giving that man that happy ending, will make your man’s whole day. Don’t find a problem with it so guess why I never have to worry about my guy looking elsewhere.❤
Been Married for 20 years and this has been a issue in my marriage If you keep him satisfied he won't even wanna look else where for it there no need when you got it at home
Some people are just like that, I guess. I heard a newly married woman say, “if my husband wakes up with an erection, that’s his problem” 😳. It’s pretty obvious she just wanted a wedding and a house, not to actually be a wife
@@sleepy1760If we get that issue everytime we get home we don't have the time or energy to look elsewhere. Even if we wanted to. Cheating would be too exhausting.
You're awesome
Anton hit it right on the head, most women do view sex as a chore.
Because most women settled with guys who are not the men they want.
And most of their simp husband's chose/ bought a woman who was out of their league. Instead of dating women who view you as their type.
If you can't tell a woman isn't in to you, then you are a lame with no experience, but wants the type of women the men they wanted to be like had. Aka Steve Harvey or Dr.Boyce.
Crazy part is, they start feeling that way when they're in a relationship or married
Western women guys western women
@@canadianbrotv1303I'm in the Army, I've traveled all over the world. I would somewhat agree. There is definitely a difference as to how we are treated when we leave the US.
Any for a man is a chore ..
“This mouth was made to whip you, not give you pleasure.”
-Modern Woman
This why the Bible speaks against denying your spouse sex in marriage
All the head shaking while he’s speaking tells me everything I need to know 🤣🤣🤦🏾♂️ they not even trying to comprehend
I hate that "I gave you a child" crap, they make it sound like they never wanted the child and only got pregnant because the guy wanted it.
Sure as hell didn't want mine. But ask her mom and it's the same shit.
She also needs his seed to make a child with him.
Like she didn’t feel that raw meat inside of her 🤦🏽♂️
Yep, most women get pregnant because they want the child, not the man. Men go along with it to make the woman happy and they really don't have a choice. My ex wife said that when we were at a party at her cousins house. I quickly spoke up loud enough for everyone to hear that I never wanted children and it was her that stopped taking her birth control without saying a word to me. I continued by saying remember when I asked why you didn't talk to me about it first and was told it's your body and your choice?
Women pull this stupid crap all the time. When I tell people that my children were all born without my concent and their mothers stopped taking birth control to get pregnant on purpose. Every single woman looks at me straight in the face and says that I should not have taken their word about the birth control and should have worn a condom.
My response? So, as a woman, you are saying that a man should never trust a woman he is in a relationship with? He should never trust a woman that says she loves him? He should never trust a woman living under his roof, being supported by him and who has access to his bank account? Funny, I have been told by women that trust is supposed to be the foundation of a relationship? The only answer I got was, "not on something like that". Hmmm, so don't trust a woman on a decision that can change a man's entire life and cost him a quarter of a million dollars at the minimum, but trust her on everything else? The math isn't mathing!
@@robchurch881yeah man that’s some real spill right there.
That lil 15 min of pleasure will have your man willing to go above and beyond for you for the rest of the day 😂 . These women don’t understand their power in a relationship.
For real for real. 💯
Using being tired as an excuse when theres no other LEGIT, non-emotional reason....you deserve what happens.
It’s not black and white… LIFE HAPPENS to us daily … sex crazed people need to calm down for a second and try and understand the other side too sometime s
What if the bills need to be paid and he says he don’t feel like going to work, he needs some time ?
If a man said “I don’t feel like paying these bills….” Hell will raise
What is telling is the rebellious nature of the "married" and "engaged" women , Eve personified !
It's Lilith that was rebellious, Eve was deceitful
@@evos469 Eve disregarded a direct command. That is rebelling against authority.
@@evos469what Bible are you reading lol
No man shouldn't have to ask his woman for some happy endings
Last time I checked the Bible said A man should not deny his wife and a wife should not deny her husband. Shout out to all my fake Christians out there going to the church to get married for a show 😆😆😆
😂😂😂
Yes! Your not allowed to deny your husband or wife. It's wrong
A baby is not up 24 hours a day and actually sleeps most of the day when it's a newborn.
Bit the mother is up, though, in the first month. She had to feed the baby every 2- 4 hours . The first two weeks is no joke. Physical pain discomfort, bleeding sore cracked nipples, engorged breasts, passing blood clots. Having a bleefing fleshy painful hemroid hanging out your anus. I hate to be graphic but this is the reality of child birth. Some women don't even survive it. My husband and I have 3. It's a miraculous event but treacherousat the same time. If she gets a c section walking is of great difficulty because of the emense pain. It feels like gettling slashes in your gut getting it tightly stitched or stapled together then dumping alcohol on it. The sensation is a constant burn and stabbing pains. Anton is gaslighting you guys because he would never be this way with his wife, nor would he accept this for his daughter.
@@amandamiller798 good point
@amandamiller798 Basically! Thank You! This New Generation of Men are not Men of Integrity....
Quarrelsome women like this is lost. Period.
Raising families is so much more than this. But one thing for sure. No one wants to come home to a bellicose partner.
Two weeks no sex or head in a relationship is CRAZY!!!!
Exactly!!!…Two days without head!..the relationship is in jeopardy
You need to talk with more married men to see how long some go without...2 weeks is rookie numbers
There’s more to life than sex.
So you give no grace no matter what is going on??? Damn you are truly heartless 🎉
@@Ntwadumela89 Seriously. Who is raising y’all?
Dont beg no woman to please you. Theres too many out here that will and would love doing it. Just keep it pushing fellas. Three of these chics on the panel are ridiculous in their thinking but want her man to stay faithful lol foh.
Preach Anton!!!!!
When women expect something from a good man, we do not complain. But, let us have requirements and you will hear every excuse why a woman doesn't want to do it. It's pretty comical at this point.
No man in a relationship or married should have to ask for anything it should be given expeditiously!!
My opinion ❤
That combative spirit will always lead to cheating or divorce court.
No your lack of grace did that.
@@ebonycherry9280 grace is something you give to the elderly, children and fools. And the moment I see that a woman has that combative spirit, I loose interest. So I’ll never have to cheat or divorce
Anton is PREACHING today!!!!! Go Anton! I agree...most of these wives out here don't respect and value their husbands. They consider sex as an undesirable chore, as if it is only one-sided. They always make excuses for avoiding sex. SMH
If you don’t get married and keep a certain distance they’ll always seek your validation
Yep! They always have an excuse ready to avoid sex, and then when he rejects her sudden advances, she wants to either get upset or look confused.
@@cen1276That because they are...LAZY!🐨
@@dailyhunter3683 They'd rather have everything handed to them, including intimacy. Whereas men have to beg and damn near risk their lives to even ask for.
It's because 90% of women's husbands were not their first choice. That's why seggs feels like a "duty" to them, going through the motions. Sad
If she had to ask to be taken out on a date she will feel like the dude didn't care and had lack initiative
This chick literally compared her man to a child begging 😆. Head really is only 10-15 mins. Even on the baby’s schedule, there is enough time in the day yo.
Nooo see she gotta wait on husband to go to work so she can call pookie over
I would have love to see Kevin Samuels come on this panel
I envisioned him floating down from the heavens like Jesus' return, with a "Samuels Bible" in one arm.
Then lay the SMACK DOWN in one verse.
"If thoust not be a Hoe for thy man when he needeth, then a Hoe he shall beget elsewhere!"
LOL.😂
Thank you anton, I’m so used to these lazy modern women. Didn’t even imagine you could be treated so good that you turn down head😂. I will accept nothing less now
These modern women will give their boss, acquaintances and strangers their best on a daily basis, even begrudgingly, but rationalize giving “crumbs from the table” to their man.
The man they’re building a life with; a man that would lay down his life to protect her has to ASK to have his needs met.
Let’s just be honest, these women don’t believe black men are worth their time or consideration and that we are beneath them.
In their eyes, our job is to be subservient to them and not taking care of her man’s needs is a power play. Plain and simple.
Only if you are not a pookie. Better pookiefy yourself
I NEVER asked for head in any relationship. In fact I denied it often. That literally led to them mouth 🍇ing me lol. Start saying NO and they start TAKING it. Literally. Anton said this right after I wrote it lol 😂
On GOD I NEVER asked for it and got more than I bargained for.
Big facts my boy ! Start saying no and all of a sudden they get handsy
Agreed. With some women, that’s their idea of an alarm clock lol. The women complaining have ZERO idea of the competition they face.
Ye ole reverse psychology.
Some Women seem to want to fight and be contrarian to feel empowered, so you have to do/ask for the opposite of what outcome or outcum you need from them so they think they won.
Their all missing the point, everyone has to make sacrifices
These women been wrecked, went out to get wrecked, and now they fightin' for rights.
Which is funny, because the people who started this country made it to where that fighting was even possible...
Anton is FKN COOKIN'!!!!
"It's mine too deny, not mine too ask..."
They don't give men the credit or opportunity to be or show how considerate we can be! They'll give a guy the opportunity to say "Don't worry about it, I got it" all day when that check hit the dinner table, but won't afford a man THE OPPORTUNITY to deny servicing for the betterment of her health. They just make that decision themselves lol.
"I gave you a whole human"...not without my seed. Funny how children are ours when it suits them...any other time they're saying "my kids/children". These chicks are birds. Thank God I have a Unicorn.
Yep come divorce time it's their children because they want that check.
If a killer breaks into your house one night, you're gonna "request" your man protect you. if he doesn't feel like it, that's O.K?
So i guess I’ll tell Wells Fargo i wasn’t mentally emotionally and physically able to pay the mortgage this month.
They will eat pickles and ice cream all day ....but a pickle lol not tonight my mouth hurts....
Her also : Let's talk
Theres NO PERSONAL information that people won't tell strangers about themselves on social media. WOW!!!! SMH!!!
This whole problem can be alleviated by having more than one woman.
Anton is 1000% correct
From the sound of the ladies' comments, this conversation was literally going nowhere. Any subject that involves bringing any kind of pleasure or satisfaction to a man will be like kryptonite to a woman. It triggers an upset and/or disagreement in the female mind. The main questions asked will be, 'Why do I need to do that?', 'What are you always asking for that for?', 'Why do you feel like you deserve that from me?', etc.
Now, if the roles were reversed and this discussion involved the LADIES being pleasured in that way, it would've been a much more happier conversation. Right or wrong?
Make it make sense!
Feminist ideals
Be grateful. Those responses are immediate grounds for dismissal from anything long term. With 4 billion women on the planet, you need an efficient way to weed out the undesirables. Attitude is everything.
@@ghorn1217 "Attitude is everything." This is why some friends who dated 8,9,10's married 4,5's not pretty, even got fat/huge(medical problem I think) but stuck in it with children.
They catered to them vs other girls who were all about themselves.
I can’t imagine being told no from someone that I take care of and provide for.
Wait till you have a 2-3 year old that can talk back. 😂
But women want to accountability of a child so....there you go.
Men are physical and women are emotional. If you dgaf about meeting our physical needs, we dgaf about your emotional needs. Its a reciprocated exchange. Last I checked, the HUSBANDS are the head (no pun) of the house, therefore, his needs should be prioritized in order to maintain a stable & happy home. If the Husband isn’t happy or satisfied, the man cheats, if the man cheats -the Marriage/Home goes to shxt; and the Wife eventaully becomes a bitter Ex-Wife. “Happy Wife, Happy Life”?, No mam! That was a fairytale lie conveyed to you. More like “Happy Husband, Happy Home!” And this ain’t for debate.
If we're being honest, unless you plan on homeschooling your kid, being a mom is only a full-time job until like age 5. Then it becomes a part-time job where school and friends do the other half of parenting. So what's the excuse for the next 13 years?
Anton is on point here. What he described is EXACTLY how my Queen is... I don't have to ask... These women on the panel, with the exception of the first one who was talking, are no good, lazy, and selfish. Throw them away.
When a woman or wife says the husband is not entitled to anything while they exist in entitlement just head out
Preventive maintenance is a two way street. If you are able to service your partner and you don't then be prepared to deal with the consequences of that. The realTooka's attitude and tone with this topic is the very reason why many Men have side chics. You're a wife and you still have wifely duties.. The women on the panel will make a Man say "fuck it, I'm calling Keysha..."
Queendulce won't be married long 😂😂😂😂I give her 3 years max
I think it’s super weird that these women have such a big problem with giving a husband what he’s owed. Your not supposed to deny your husband or your wife in the bedroom. Smh as a woman this is just sad to continue to see this nonsense. And yes your husband can make demands because he’s above you, and in charge. I can see why most marriages are failing when it comes to stuff like this. A good wife would wanna be of service to her husband. End of story. Most women who are getting married in America aren’t serving their husbands at all smh
Welp I'm definitely in a sexless marriage
I thought women are Intelligent people that have discernment of who they open their box with, but I guess I was wrong‼️🤦🏾♂️
She said this whole conversation is way too general. Then, in that case it shouldn't be had publicly. So these shows are a joke.
I understand both sides, I suppose. But if a woman does give her man head on the regular and then just stops, she should express why she’s stopped or hasn’t been in the mood instead of saying those things after he’s already asked. It comes off as an excuse especially if it’s happened on a number of occasions.
Seems like women are so wrapped up in what they have going on in their heads they forget about their partner. You go through things and that’s understandable but I’m your person. Don’t go through it alone unless you absolutely have to. Even to that point though, it should be expressed to your partner.
It's manipulative. She never had the genuine desire to do it in the 1st place. "Bait n' switch" is the term that gets thrown around...most men experience it during a long term situations.. majority of women don't express that level of commitment, loyalty, or duty. They are slave to their emotions, so depending on how she feels about you during that instance or period of time, she'll withdraw from you, and/or things she does for you. Remember, women conditionally "love" men under the pretence you provide what she deems worthy of her emotional satisfaction. When that regresses, so does everything else slowly but surely. It's not the same for a man. At most, he'll pull back the communication, but that depends on the nature of the situation. More than likely he will not as long as there is no ridicule when he is expressing his concerns. A man will continue to play his part in the relationship even if there is head butting or arguements
The undertone to women saying I'll satisfy my man no matter what is based on the condition that I am "happy". The flip side is that she just never wanted to do it..she just did it to get what she wanted from you, hence the absence of something like head. This is why relationship-minded men REALLY cheat, and this is the part that needs to be talked about because this is the case in the majority of cheating cases for men. If there is something in the relationship that is emotionally triggering for the woman, best believe it's going to affect everything else as it relates to her role, the desires you want from her, etc...The weight of the things a man ideally brings to a relationship versus what he asks in return(like consistent head) doesnt remotely measure up to what she's asking for in the relationship!!! You want me to tie my resources up with a 30 yr mortgage, never turn you down for sex, take you out, etc...and I can't get head on a consistent basis...GTFOH🗣️🗣️🗣️. Take relationships/marriages off the table fellas..it's a $&tty deal.
This big facts it's 24 hrs in a day n you can't wipe me down for 15 minutes? 😂🤣🤣🤣 i could eat it all day if I wanted to but that's how some women operate you please them n they don't please you.
Anton is killin em !!!!
Why would my woman ask me to give her money to pay the bills, buy clothes, jewelry, food, weaves, hair extensions....?🤔
Anton speaking facts. If the woman/wife is into her guy and respects him, she usually has no problem doing this. Typical modern woman problems...smh. Men don't usually ask for much, then they wonder why men will date/marry someone outside of the US or from a different background that has traditional roles and values.
Go ahead, say something stupid, I dare you. I don’t NEED to keep you. And, any women that has it within her to SAY something that stupid, never made it out of the “recreational use only” category anyway. The problem solves itself.
This is one of the bedt examples of why MOST black women are single
So if he don't talk to you for 2 weeks then she'll be good? Or will she go talk to someone else 😂... It's all good until men flip the script
Maybe this has been said in earlier comments but I truly think that some women aren’t fully aware of their partners sex drive. For sexually healthy men , it’s very high, which is one main reason men get involved in serious relationships, as a source for sex on a regular basis. It’s not being bad it’s simply part of his physiology. Yes, we can practice restraint, but not to the level women can.
It's funny because we ALWAYS have to understand when it's 'that time of the month' and back off or cater to her whims.
But they don't seem to care about men's physiology that you pointed out.
Every man is different but her job is to learn him, and then apply the knowledge.
Anton I love you Big Bro #DetroitStandUp
We gotta ask for it.😅😅😅
“When I become a wife lol”😢
Anton, 100! I told my wife, I should not have to ask, I should have to turn down. It is better for my wife to initiate intimacy and I say " Babe, I love you, I'm good though!" Versus me asking for it! When she didn't get it, I left... 2 Months later, when I came back and told her, don't let it happen again, because next time I will not be coming back. Have not had that problem no more! Don't make me have to ASK!
Bars Anton! Those are bars! Why should you humiliate a man to the point he has ask for heads? Means you’re not even considering his needs lol
Bruh...damn.😂
Dear women,
You couldn't keep it out'cha mouth in the beginning, so don't get finicky now! Sometimes, that's all a man needs to keep him going. Sometimes, that's the only appreciation a man ever gets.
Shit always get different once the time put in! Jokes ain't funny no more, don't wanna give head, Etc man that behavior is destructive to any relationship 😂
I agree wit Anton 💯%
Ima use that justifiably 😂😅😅😅😂😂😂
Most women who consistently deny sex to their husbands either get cheated on or left for a woman who will satisfy that man. What you are not willing to do for him, another woman will.
The problem is women think everything they do is 1 point cause they keep scores. Everything the man does is what he suppose to do he gets zero points. Most relationships end up the man doing 60% - 90% more than the women. Men need to start holding women to their duties.
Justifiably????
Smh this is crazy 🤦. I'm done with this culture and these conversations ✌️
The bait and switch to the extended post partum. Its just the times we are in. If you avoid her then shell say she doesnt feel the spark anymore. Its just something to be aware of, im not going back and forth.
Just do you. We're only asking for validation, lol
I stand with Anton✊🏿
When I whip it out my wife gets to F'n work. Not a word said
If she don’t want to but says another time that’s fine, but if she gets offended at your asking that’s a problem
This shit is wild. My ex was giving excuses why she didn’t wanna do this and that. I was doing this and that. I had to end that shit quick.
We men dont ask for much. Shake that ass every now n then, ask me if I’m ok..
This is nothing new in any culture but also why the mistress/side chick, street walker and stripper exist. Married men have always been the top customers
That's what the hookers say..the wife won't let him poop and pee in her face so he goes to the prostitute
We should bring back polygyny
@@trombonefellow go get your passport..let them deal with ..
5:36 ‘did you have the baby through yo mouth?’ Took me out 💀
Facts
I ain’t got this problem. Even when my girl angry/tired she’ll lay there & let me hit. after a few seconds in she awake & engaged anyway
I wonder why do people make things complicated
🙎🏾🙎🏾♀️how to say I don't deserve a husband without saying it🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯 NOTHING SHOULD STOP YOU' FROM SATISFYING YOUR HUSBAND, FORSAKE EVEN KIDS😤🤬💯❗‼️🔥
These black women be outta pocket!!!….
Anton right. Men keep ya side girls for this reason. 🤷🏾♂️
This chick said im so sick of... As soon as Anton said "you know I don't feel like paying these bills". Well you know what? We stick of women always saying a birthed a whole child as an excuse to not do s something like it's a get out of nut free card. Foh 10:50
If you love your husband you should be service to him just as well he is a service to you. To provide and protect etc.
Just because one ride is broke doesn't mean that the amusement park is closed
The 3 women who disagreed with anton.......either are bad wives or not wife material. Because they have a right to disagree but their tone is very masculine. Almost like the man owes them something. You cant make this shit up😂
Let him cook...👨🍳👩🍳🍳
Just thought, has the guy ever said no to the move from the wife?
What in the hell shes talking about how did we get here.
Women not wanting to give a head to their hubby post-partum is exactly why we can't get aHead as a species trying to make a Headway in these perilous times.
Wait sometime Ton let them talk 😅
😂🤦🏾♂️.....💯
11:47 1000000%
Excuses are like assholes. If she in that mood is how you give your man to another. Now I'm not say right away. I guarantee that three month pass and you scream no not right now. You have lost him