I like that she didn't let him try to explain his way out of it. "I said Goodbye, Stanley." She didn't let him take the moment away from her. Very empowering.
Exactly. If someone ever cheats on you, don't demand an explanation or expect a sincere apology because they will always try to justify their actions. Just give them a piece of your mind (if you're lucky enough to ever have that moment) and say goodbye.
I'm POSITIVE......Dorothy spoke for COUNTLESS women(including ME) who were cheated out of speaking our minds, BECAUSE some SPINELESS men are incapable of being upfront!!! I remember a man saying to me; "see, THIS....is why I left you," to me. What was my response? "Do you think that gave you the upper hand? You DID me the GREATEST FAVOR, by leaving!!" "Thank you."
38 years of her life she can't get back. She gave him her life. He doesn't deserve someone as good as her. Good for her for confronting him. There's no justification for what he did. He’s a coward for getting a lawyer to tell her the marriage was over.
@@betoen: Dorothy had EVERY right to be a "Cry Baby." She invested 38 years of her life into that man and, even when he was NOT contributing financially to their FAMILY, she didn't BAIL out on him. But, could a man.....have the COJONES to do the same? Very rarely and, with the advent of texting, IMing, DMing...et cetera, people are even MORE cowardly in ending unions!!
Yes, he does come back, but this moment was about closure. Closure that he denied her during the divorce. Now that she's gotten that closure, she can better move on.
That character was too good to let go! Herb Edelman was great as the obnoxious ex husband, and I like how he and Dorothy still were able to stay on friendly terms (for the most part). Plus, it was pure gold when she’d slam the door in his face!
Through the show, you can almost see what she saw in him. He has moments of being a genuinly caring, loving and kind man. The episode where Sophia has hypothermia and they arenr sure she will make it, he stays with her in the hospital waiting room, gets her food, demands the doctor keep them updated on the hour and overall genuinly comforts and helps her. Stan is a surprisingly layered character.
“You’re damn right things happened.” The way her voice deepens even lower sent chills down my spine because you can tell she’s digging deep into a real place to deliver that monologue. She was the queen Stanley the yutz never deserved.
Dorothy had every right to be mad. Not only did he cheat on her, he walked out on her and had his lawyer tell her he wanted a divorce after 38 years of marriage. He deliberately threw her under the bus and watched it run over her time and time again.
He actually admits, in front of their daughter, the bride, that it was very classy of Dorothy to have him there at all, "after what went down" (and that makes Dorothy mad, too.)
One thing that annoyed me is almost to the end of the series Stan tried to have his cake and eat it. He wanted to be single yet didn't want to let go of her. It finally hit him when Dorothy finally found someone who loved and wanted to marry her. At least he finally learned to let go.
I think Stanley loved Dorothy too but realized it to late he screwed up big time, and he knew Dorothy would never take him back after all the grief he put her through and when he was sitting in the church he realized he lost her for good.
Some irresponsible men and woman took the easy way out by sleeping with a bimbo because they'll succeed with that person who didn't do better in life like their partner does. They expect expectations from you. That's why normal people rarely last long than difference in people.
"I said goodbye, Stanley." Another example of why The Golden Girls was such a hit - it went far beyond mere comedy - the writers injected some heavy doses of reality into these characters' stories.
Herb Edelman did a phenomenal job of portraying a deadbeat loser who simply cannot let go of his ex-wife due to his emotional immaturity. Stan was one of my favorite characters. His interactions with the girls, especially Dorothy and Sophia, were hilariously funny, yet relatable, and sometimes poignant and touching.
He and Bea were heavy smokers in real life. Both also served in the Military. Yes. Even Herb. He served in the Korean War. Herbert died from Emphysema at the age of 63 in 1996. Bea Arthur died from Lung Cancer in 2009.
It's strange how of all the times she displayed her comedic talents on film and television, my favourite Bea Arthur moment is this intensely dramatic speech. It's incredible to hear her tearfully lament how years of her dedication and love were so cruelly betrayed by this man whom she's finally able to confront.
Mine too! You see Bea Aurthur was a magnificent Broadway actor, in the beginning these talents were highlighted. The reason she left the show in season 7 is because the show relied too much on the comedic relief snd forgot about the substance in scenes like this. She wanted to go out right, while the show still had umph.
Bea delivered a stunning performance here. I couldn't believe the strength she showed, it touched my soul, like it happened to me. Really teared up here.
Same! This is one of the few moments in The Golden Girls where I legit teared up, because everything Dorothy said was real. Bea was a phenomenal actress. ❤️
“I said goodbye, Stanley.” I think those words cut deep into Stan. I think he realized the depths of the pain he caused Dorthy. He couldn’t make it right.
It always broke my heart when she said "I finally get to say goodbye" with tears in her eyes. Poor Dorothy. Alot of the stuff she had been through in her life makes you totally understand why she was so serious and bitter at times in the series.
And this really was the first time Stan appeared on the show, so it really could have been the first time she'd really talked to him since he left her.
@@LindaMalone12 Both smoked like Chimney's. Herb was killed by a 2 Pack a Day Camel Habit and Pipe Habit. He died in 1996. Bea smoked a Pack of Kools a day until her Death from Lung Cancer in 2009.
Natalie's Channel:I believe that's because, Stan really loved Dorothy. And, he realized that he wouldn't find another woman that late in his life, who would have his back the way she did.
If I remember correctly, the last scene goes something like this - Dorothy: I know that there will be a part of him that will always stay with me. Rose: I understand, Dorothy. After 38 years of marriage, there will be memories which stay with you forever. Dorothy: I was talking about this (picks up the toupee) 😂😂
This speech was written in the 80s, but this performance was so therapeutic that it hit home when I left my boss after 5 years. When you dedicate your loyalty to giving any man a happy life for 5 years, in ANY context, it screws with your head when he underappreciates it
I feel bad about what Dorothy went through when she married Stan. It's sad that Stan doesn't realize how much Dorothy loved him and did everything for him when times were tough. I don't blame Dorothy for being angry at Stan and it was a rotten thing to have his lawyer call Dorothy about the divorce and he wasn't man enough to go up to Dorothy and say, Dorothy I don't feel happy in our marriage and I'm sorry but I want a divorce. Stan should be ashamed of himself for doing something that heartless and not be grateful for what Dorothy gives to Stan to make him happy, but he never returns anything back after 38 years of marriage. Dorothy did a brave thing and she deserves all the blessings in the world for doing what she did. TEAM DOROTHY!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
This whole time... I thought she was mad because he cheated on her, when all along, it was because he left and never saw her again, only to have his lawyer her that they’re getting a divorce. I’m not sure which is worse to go down in.
You still can. Write down or say out loud everything that you would tell them if they were in front of you. You can release your emotions even if they aren't there physically.
I really enjoy the episode "Sick and Tired" because it brought awareness to Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Plus it was inspired by the show's creator Susan Harris battling Chronic Fatigue Syndrome in real life.
DesertRose122 I know he re-married someone like 25 years younger, but I thought his marriage to Bea ended because her career brought her to California, and his remained in New York? Not that it's our business. I was just curious.
This was Dorothy at her best. Not her hilarious sarcastic quips, but the righteous indignation over being mistreated. Bea Arthur was masterful in her acting
@@amybess Stan doesn’t deserve to be with Dorothy after everything he’s done to her, he’s a loser, a cheater, and a man child, men like him should be single
@@plawson8577 yes, in a way it was the best revenge for Dorothy, being the woman he can't have. May we all have a Stan and the wisdom of Dorothy. What I love about their relationship, was that Dorothy always kept her dignity.
Their relationship was mostly used for humor. Even when discussing their relationship, it's usually done for a laugh. Not here though. The tears in Dorothy's eyes shows how much he really hurt her.
I rewatched the series in order, and this is season 1 episode 2.... holy crap, to pull that performance out during only the second episode.... 🙌🏻 This makes her cynicism and wit throughout the series make a lot more sense. Beautiful character moment, awesome Bea monologue moment.
Fun Fact: On Murder She Wrote, Herb Edelman first played one cop in season 2 (who never appeared again), and then in the later seasons had a recurring role (maybe five or six times) as Lt. Artie Gelber - an NYPD homicide cop who became something of a buddy to Jessica Fletcher (or at least, one of her contacts "on the force"). They wrote some comical sub-plots about his outside-of-work life that make you think of Stan - but the character is a pretty nice guy, respectful toward Jessica (which not every cop is) and, it seems to me, not so stupid as a cop. Later on, after his episodes, there are episodes that based on the cops' lines, I feel like were written for the Gelber character, and then he turned out not to be available.)
I’ve loved The Golden Girls since I was a kid. When they were comical, it was hilarious. The serious moments , however, always cut to the heart. My favorite Dorothy moment is when she tells off Barbara Thorndyke. Such a perfect and dynamic cast. I miss shows like this. In my opinion, quality television died out in the late 90s - early 2000s. We really don’t see shows like this anymore. So thankful for reruns! 💐
I purchased this on my itunes account and I noticed it on my iPad mini lmfao I'm glad someone else did because when I tried to show my friend who was watching it with me didn't believe it was a camera
Michael Harrison i saw it too. good, so I'm not seeing things. Stan was such a weasely coward and a leech, always making excuses for all the rotten things he did and not leaving Dorothy alone. he doesn't tell her he's leaving, but yet he still sticks around. what a creep. 😒
There are people in this world like stan. People find it easier to cheat or just walk out rather than talk to their spouse that they feel something is wrong in the relationship or break it off face to face.
Dorothy spent 38 years of her life with someone and in the end he was a coward and left...stanly is not a man for doing wat he did. Hes a coward who couldnt face the music when he needed to. Dorothy deserved to say that goodbye. Its the least he could have gave her
This was Beatrice Arthur's best moment as Dorothy. The best Dorothy Spornack moment in the history of the Golden Girls. This scene shows how empowered Dorothy is and how brilliant Beatrice Arthur was as an actress.
Standing ovation for Ms Dorothy Zbornak. I..... WISH.....I could find the SPINELESS worms who slithered on their bellies out of my life, and ANGERED me to degrees I didn't know, existed!! Thankfully though, there were no children from ANY of those individuals, so, I can hold my head up high and say, I didn't bring any children into the world, to permanently..... SCAR....like I have been!!
I’m happy she left Stan and told him exactly how she felt. She was way too good to Stan and for her to go and do the best she can while Stan doesn’t take it that serious means it’s time for him to go home.
What funny about this is we weren’t suppose to see this Stan character again. The audience loved the dynamic so much the producers and network brought him back
@@smill1985 I was thinking about that - this was his first appearance - she tells him off, but then in other episodes she is still struggling with feelings for him, contemplating getting back together, and even if not that, they are sometimes a "team" - especially when it involves their kids. Until I read these comments I really didn't think about the fact that this scene, which, as everyone has commented, is serious and meaningful, is inconsistent with Stan being a recurring character, who is often funny, and Dorothy's later flippant comments about her marriage.
This so what happens when you give your all to one husband or wife. Its their lost . after everything you give them , they took the easy way out. Then you move on with life and they had the nerve to said they want you back . go to hell !! You had that person , you are the one who threw it away!
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I like that she didn't let him try to explain his way out of it. "I said Goodbye, Stanley." She didn't let him take the moment away from her. Very empowering.
Yep. That was Bea. :)
Exactly. If someone ever cheats on you, don't demand an explanation or expect a sincere apology because they will always try to justify their actions. Just give them a piece of your mind (if you're lucky enough to ever have that moment) and say goodbye.
DTG 143 me too
Mark Mullins Well, we are all equal.
I'm POSITIVE......Dorothy spoke for COUNTLESS women(including ME) who were cheated out of speaking our minds, BECAUSE some SPINELESS men are incapable of being upfront!!! I remember a man saying to me; "see, THIS....is why I left you," to me. What was my response? "Do you think that gave you the upper hand? You DID me the GREATEST FAVOR, by leaving!!" "Thank you."
38 years of her life she can't get back. She gave him her life. He doesn't deserve someone as good as her. Good for her for confronting him. There's no justification for what he did. He’s a coward for getting a lawyer to tell her the marriage was over.
Cry baby.
@@betoen no shit, thats why he is a coward
@@betoen: Dorothy had EVERY right to be a "Cry Baby." She invested 38 years of her life into that man and, even when he was NOT contributing financially to their FAMILY, she didn't BAIL out on him. But, could a man.....have the COJONES to do the same? Very rarely and, with the advent of texting, IMing, DMing...et cetera, people are even MORE cowardly in ending unions!!
Jane Doe same thing happened to my mom and had divorced for 15 years
Jane Doe yes I totally agree
“Goodbye Stanley”
*stanley visits 20 times later*
200 times 😂 I like the one he's her limo driver at her wedding
Yes, which makes it realistic. I've had ex's that I wasn't talking to for a while but later on became my friends
She knew he’d be back probably but she still needed to say goodbye and get it off her chest.
Yes, he does come back, but this moment was about closure. Closure that he denied her during the divorce. Now that she's gotten that closure, she can better move on.
That character was too good to let go! Herb Edelman was great as the obnoxious ex husband, and I like how he and Dorothy still were able to stay on friendly terms (for the most part). Plus, it was pure gold when she’d slam the door in his face!
She was way to good for Stan.
... I never understood why Dorothy married him :-)
Sebastian Wendel cause she got preggo by him.
DHGlee2013
ok I know :-) but she often says: "We had good times together ... "
+Sebastian Wendel 38 years could include good times.
Through the show, you can almost see what she saw in him. He has moments of being a genuinly caring, loving and kind man. The episode where Sophia has hypothermia and they arenr sure she will make it, he stays with her in the hospital waiting room, gets her food, demands the doctor keep them updated on the hour and overall genuinly comforts and helps her. Stan is a surprisingly layered character.
“You’re damn right things happened.” The way her voice deepens even lower sent chills down my spine because you can tell she’s digging deep into a real place to deliver that monologue. She was the queen Stanley the yutz never deserved.
Probably thinking about her 30+yr marriage/divorce to real life husband Gene Saks
Yep.....Gene Saks left Bea Arthur in a similar fashion....he had an affair with a much younger woman and divorced Bea to marry her.
@@lgibbons58 That's probably how Bea Arthur was able to perform this scene in the episode with such passion and raw emotion.
Stanley was too good for her..
@@kleeamd8274 it was actually 28 years from 1950 to 1978
Dorothy had every right to be mad. Not only did he cheat on her, he walked out on her and had his lawyer tell her he wanted a divorce after 38 years of marriage. He deliberately threw her under the bus and watched it run over her time and time again.
He actually admits, in front of their daughter, the bride, that it was very classy of Dorothy to have him there at all, "after what went down" (and that makes Dorothy mad, too.)
One thing that annoyed me is almost to the end of the series Stan tried to have his cake and eat it. He wanted to be single yet didn't want to let go of her. It finally hit him when Dorothy finally found someone who loved and wanted to marry her. At least he finally learned to let go.
I think Stanley loved Dorothy too but realized it to late he screwed up big time, and he knew Dorothy would never take him back after all the grief he put her through and when he was sitting in the church he realized he lost her for good.
@@marwatson7408 I always got the sense he was not willing to trust anyone.
Some irresponsible men and woman took the easy way out by sleeping with a bimbo because they'll succeed with that person who didn't do better in life like their partner does. They expect expectations from you.
That's why normal people rarely last long than difference in people.
"I said goodbye, Stanley."
Another example of why The Golden Girls was such a hit - it went far beyond mere comedy - the writers injected some heavy doses of reality into these characters' stories.
This is one of the best aspects of a show about older people
And mind you, this was only the 2nd episode in the series. The writers knew what they were doing.
Herb Edelman did a phenomenal job of portraying a deadbeat loser who simply cannot let go of his ex-wife due to his emotional immaturity. Stan was one of my favorite characters. His interactions with the girls, especially Dorothy and Sophia, were hilariously funny, yet relatable, and sometimes poignant and touching.
He and Bea were heavy smokers in real life. Both also served in the Military. Yes. Even Herb. He served in the Korean War. Herbert died from Emphysema at the age of 63 in 1996. Bea Arthur died from Lung Cancer in 2009.
This is one of my favorite Dorothy monologues. Especially that line, "A STRANGER told me my marriage was over!"
And her favorite writer said she wasn't very good at monologues, maybe she was good at this one cuz it was a serious topic.
It's strange how of all the times she displayed her comedic talents on film and television, my favourite Bea Arthur moment is this intensely dramatic speech. It's incredible to hear her tearfully lament how years of her dedication and love were so cruelly betrayed by this man whom she's finally able to confront.
Mine too! You see Bea Aurthur was a magnificent Broadway actor, in the beginning these talents were highlighted. The reason she left the show in season 7 is because the show relied too much on the comedic relief snd forgot about the substance in scenes like this. She wanted to go out right, while the show still had umph.
Bea was cheated on herself in real life.. 😔
She had tears in her eyes! Beautiful actor. Will always be my favorite!
no doubt u know people dont stay married after 38 years anymore its kind of sad
She was the best one
But in my roles that I play when I'm on stage I also feel the emotion. That's not acting, that's passion
@@qeetuhd I'm sure she was thinking about her 30+yr marriage/divorce to real life husband Gene Saks
@@kleeamd8274
I wonder how her ex husband would have felt if he watched that scene
Bea delivered a stunning performance here. I couldn't believe the strength she showed, it touched my soul, like it happened to me. Really teared up here.
Same! This is one of the few moments in The Golden Girls where I legit teared up, because everything Dorothy said was real. Bea was a phenomenal actress. ❤️
Also, the fact that Bea Arthur suffered a similar experience in real life, definitely helps this scene.
“I said goodbye, Stanley.” I think those words cut deep into Stan. I think he realized the depths of the pain he caused Dorthy. He couldn’t make it right.
It always broke my heart when she said "I finally get to say goodbye" with tears in her eyes. Poor Dorothy. Alot of the stuff she had been through in her life makes you totally understand why she was so serious and bitter at times in the series.
And this really was the first time Stan appeared on the show, so it really could have been the first time she'd really talked to him since he left her.
RIP Beatrice Arthur and Herb Edelman.
Two very good actors, and there was chemistry between them.
@@LindaMalone12 Both smoked like Chimney's. Herb was killed by a 2 Pack a Day Camel Habit and Pipe Habit. He died in 1996. Bea smoked a Pack of Kools a day until her Death from Lung Cancer in 2009.
Stan divorced Dorothy, but she could never seem to get rid of him...
Natalie's Channel that's the irony
Yutzes are like that...
Natalie's Channel:I believe that's because, Stan really loved Dorothy. And, he realized that he wouldn't find another woman that late in his life, who would have his back the way she did.
Until she remarried
@@LaKellita and failed
This, and the one where she tells off the doctor who didn't care about her illness, are her best monologues.
He got kicked out so bad, he didn’t have the sense to pick back up his toupee.
I noticed that. Maybe he had forgotten about it, lol.
The end of the episode actually does acknowledge that Stan left his toupee.
@@Namyag2357
Thank you for that because I was wondering. 🙂
@@Namyag2357it was good comic relief
If I remember correctly, the last scene goes something like this -
Dorothy: I know that there will be a part of him that will always stay with me.
Rose: I understand, Dorothy. After 38 years of marriage, there will be memories which stay with you forever.
Dorothy: I was talking about this (picks up the toupee) 😂😂
My whole family clapped when she finished her speech and a few of us cried. Our dad pulled a Stan, shall we say.
I hope things got better
Oh I’m SO sorry 😢. Hope all turned out ok. 🙏🏽😢❌⭕️😇
No one could snatch a weave while proving her real strength like Dorothy ❤️❤️
This speech was written in the 80s, but this performance was so therapeutic that it hit home when I left my boss after 5 years. When you dedicate your loyalty to giving any man a happy life for 5 years, in ANY context, it screws with your head when he underappreciates it
"I said goodbye Stanley"
I remember watching this as a kid. I always thought Stan was a loser. He's a grown man who keeps running to his ex-wife whenever he has a problem.
I still see him that way until this day!
This is most definitely one of my all-time favorite Bea Arthur scenes, that was an Emmy nod in my book !
1:56 seeing the tears in her eyes ALWAYS makes me cry she was an amazing actress ❤️ 😢
I feel bad about what Dorothy went through when she married Stan. It's sad that Stan doesn't realize how much Dorothy loved him and did everything for him when times were tough. I don't blame Dorothy for being angry at Stan and it was a rotten thing to have his lawyer call Dorothy about the divorce and he wasn't man enough to go up to Dorothy and say, Dorothy I don't feel happy in our marriage and I'm sorry but I want a divorce.
Stan should be ashamed of himself for doing something that heartless and not be grateful for what Dorothy gives to Stan to make him happy, but he never returns anything back after 38 years of marriage. Dorothy did a brave thing and she deserves all the blessings in the world for doing what she did.
TEAM DOROTHY!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
I've always thought of Dorothy as the protagonist of the series. Anyone else?
dorothy was the main character
Yes. Adding her mother as a character caused the show to revolve around her more as well
It's an ensemble show, dummy.
No.
I thought that too. She felt like the centre character to me ... but only by a tiny margin!
She spoke the first and last words of the series. :)
This whole time... I thought she was mad because he cheated on her, when all along, it was because he left and never saw her again, only to have his lawyer her that they’re getting a divorce.
I’m not sure which is worse to go down in.
This part always makes me cry, I wish I could do something like this to my ex.
+Ivette Mimieux Here Here!!!
Mark Mullins 🖕🏼
What? who is who and who am I
You still can. Write down or say out loud everything that you would tell them if they were in front of you. You can release your emotions even if they aren't there physically.
Really one of the best monologues written in a sitcom. And no one could’ve delivered it like Bea Arthur. It pulls you in like its real.
My favorite of Dorothy was this this, and the episode where she told off that doctor that dismissed her as being emotional when she was sick.
I really enjoy the episode "Sick and Tired" because it brought awareness to Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Plus it was inspired by the show's creator Susan Harris battling Chronic Fatigue Syndrome in real life.
all 4 girls and Stan all passed away i love this show
I really felt for Dorothy in this episode. Bea Arthur was a genius!
This happened to Bea in real life apparently her husband left her for someone younger. What a jerk!
DesertRose122 I know he re-married someone like 25 years younger, but I thought his marriage to Bea ended because her career brought her to California, and his remained in New York? Not that it's our business. I was just curious.
This was Dorothy at her best. Not her hilarious sarcastic quips, but the righteous indignation over being mistreated. Bea Arthur was masterful in her acting
if this episode was a full length movie it would have been nominated for a number of awards including a few Oscars
and he would go on to become one of the best recurring running gag characters on the show.
Bea Arthur was a phenomenal actress.
At least in the finale, Dorothy and Stan parted on better terms.
True.
He didn't deserve that.
@Bess Who are you to judge. Dorothy has grace.
@@amybess Stan doesn’t deserve to be with Dorothy after everything he’s done to her, he’s a loser, a cheater, and a man child, men like him should be single
She was too honest for him. He just couldn't take it.
He realized too late he had the best woman in his life.
Don't we all.
It didn't stop him from trying to weasel his way back. He never really let her go.
@@Thechimeradragon-xc9tqStan spent majority of the show trying to get her back.
@@plawson8577 yes, in a way it was the best revenge for Dorothy, being the woman he can't have. May we all have a Stan and the wisdom of Dorothy. What I love about their relationship, was that Dorothy always kept her dignity.
38 years of her life wasted - so sad. To waste your life in such a marriage is probably worse than being single for such a long time.
Very well done scene, and anyone who has been in Dorothy's situation (husband, wife or what-have-you) can relate
Stanley , you never DESERVED this queen
I think more women should have her strength. She nailed it.
Their relationship was mostly used for humor. Even when discussing their relationship, it's usually done for a laugh. Not here though. The tears in Dorothy's eyes shows how much he really hurt her.
You can definitely see Dorothy's theater training here.
Those were real tears in Bea’s eyes at the end. Anyone notice? She was such a good actress. Stan was such a drag 😔
One of the best monologues ever. Oscar worthy.
I rewatched the series in order, and this is season 1 episode 2.... holy crap, to pull that performance out during only the second episode.... 🙌🏻 This makes her cynicism and wit throughout the series make a lot more sense. Beautiful character moment, awesome Bea monologue moment.
Beatrice Arthur...you were a terrific actor...respects🙏 That monologue was superbly and very effectively delivered.
Heart wrenching and stunning monolgue, and Dorothy rises above it with such strength. And a tour-de-force moment for Bea Arthur
You could see the hurt in Dorothy’s eyes after she said “Goodbye, Stanley,” the second time.
Goodbye, Stan is a whole mood.
The first scene of the golden girls I fell in love with Dorothy. A great scene.
Damn..I still love this show..RIP Bea..Betty..Rue..and Estelle
Bea Arthur she is just so damn good. The swelling of emotion. Holding back her emotions. She fucking kills it. That folks is acting.
RIP to all The Golden Girls
One of the best monologues on this show
She had me teary eyed. What an actress! 😍
aww.. the way they all ran to Dorothy❤
My God do I love me some Bea! This beautiful soul will never be replaced ❤
Herb Edelman had a history of playing knuckleheads. But, in reality, he was a highly intelligent individual who spoke 5 languages.
Fun Fact: On Murder She Wrote, Herb Edelman first played one cop in season 2 (who never appeared again), and then in the later seasons had a recurring role (maybe five or six times) as Lt. Artie Gelber - an NYPD homicide cop who became something of a buddy to Jessica Fletcher (or at least, one of her contacts "on the force"). They wrote some comical sub-plots about his outside-of-work life that make you think of Stan - but the character is a pretty nice guy, respectful toward Jessica (which not every cop is) and, it seems to me, not so stupid as a cop. Later on, after his episodes, there are episodes that based on the cops' lines, I feel like were written for the Gelber character, and then he turned out not to be available.)
@@jessicalillianweinberg4401Herb was also 10 years younger than Bea.
Probably one of the more powerful non-comedic scenes of the entire series and it only lasted two minutes. Excellent writing and acting.
What a strong performance by a great actress.Im sure
plently of people could relate to what she said.RIP Beatrice.
😮
I’ve loved The Golden Girls since I was a kid. When they were comical, it was hilarious. The serious moments , however, always cut to the heart. My favorite Dorothy moment is when she tells off Barbara Thorndyke. Such a perfect and dynamic cast. I miss shows like this. In my opinion, quality television died out in the late 90s - early 2000s. We really don’t see shows like this anymore. So thankful for reruns! 💐
Exactly shows like this fresh prince,family matters,full house,they were great and realistic at the same time they had more substance
At 1:41, one of the cameras was shown in the corner of the frame! And I didn't need the Internet to help me find it! Yes!!!
+Michael Harrison I found it too
I purchased this on my itunes account and I noticed it on my iPad mini lmfao I'm glad someone else did because when I tried to show my friend who was watching it with me didn't believe it was a camera
Michael Harrison i saw it too. good, so I'm not seeing things. Stan was such a weasely coward and a leech, always making excuses for all the rotten things he did and not leaving Dorothy alone. he doesn't tell her he's leaving, but yet he still sticks around. what a creep. 😒
A powerful acting performance by Bea Arthur. And a sad one.
Stanley was a terrible husband. From Ms. Harper Stacey.
@@harperstacey9604 : he was a two-timer. My heart bled for Dorothy. Especially during this scene.
Dorothy's tone reminds me of the episode where she went off on Dr. Budd.
I love this episode they are very good actors
I love this sitcom. These girls ate funny but there were epiaodes that hit the heart too
I wish THIS for any women who has ever been hurt by someone they used to love😭💖👏
2 minute clip, viewed out of context, which I've seen many times before but I'm still crying. Acting masterclass, courtesy of Bea Arthur.
He should have told her.
Sam Steffen he did take the easy way out. He did.
R.I.P. Herb xxxxx💖💖
R.I.P. Bea xxxxxx💖💖
She finally got the closure she needed
Dorothy is an amazing and strong woman, and Stan messed up big time by betraying her trust.
Her theatre training really came through in this scene 👏✨
I wish I could have told my ex husband how I felt without his smart ass comebacks and told him goodbye like that.
There are people in this world like stan.
People find it easier to cheat or just walk out rather than talk to their spouse that they feel something is wrong in the relationship or break it off face to face.
One of these days I hope to become as smart as Dorothy when I become an old lady.
I liked the fact dorothy finally told stan off. I hope someday i get to tell my ex some things that should have been said.
Damn golden girls moments are still
Golden
This was stunning. Absolutely amazing.
Made me cry
Dorothy spent 38 years of her life with someone and in the end he was a coward and left...stanly is not a man for doing wat he did. Hes a coward who couldnt face the music when he needed to. Dorothy deserved to say that goodbye. Its the least he could have gave her
This was Beatrice Arthur's best moment as Dorothy. The best Dorothy Spornack moment in the history of the Golden Girls. This scene shows how empowered Dorothy is and how brilliant Beatrice Arthur was as an actress.
This was one of if not the first episode of the whole show. Really set the bar for many great moments to come.
Standing ovation for Ms Dorothy Zbornak. I..... WISH.....I could find the SPINELESS worms who slithered on their bellies out of my life, and ANGERED me to degrees I didn't know, existed!! Thankfully though, there were no children from ANY of those individuals, so, I can hold my head up high and say, I didn't bring any children into the world, to permanently..... SCAR....like I have been!!
Bea Arthur did pay tribute to the real actor. Bea said he was a good person in real life
I’m happy she left Stan and told him exactly how she felt. She was way too good to Stan and for her to go and do the best she can while Stan doesn’t take it that serious means it’s time for him to go home.
When you feel the emotion of Dorothy’s heartbreak and then the camera stand comes into view. Dang
What funny about this is we weren’t suppose to see this Stan character again. The audience loved the dynamic so much the producers and network brought him back
Didn't realize that. Glad he wasn't just a one-time guest star.
@@smill1985 I was thinking about that - this was his first appearance - she tells him off, but then in other episodes she is still struggling with feelings for him, contemplating getting back together, and even if not that, they are sometimes a "team" - especially when it involves their kids. Until I read these comments I really didn't think about the fact that this scene, which, as everyone has commented, is serious and meaningful, is inconsistent with Stan being a recurring character, who is often funny, and Dorothy's later flippant comments about her marriage.
Dorothy is just like my mom.
This so what happens when you give your all to one husband or wife. Its their lost . after everything you give them , they took the easy way out. Then you move on with life and they had the nerve to said they want you back . go to hell !! You had that person , you are the one who threw it away!
This was real acting at it’s best,
I FELT THIS
Dear God, this is amazing.
At the start when she tells him to have a seat it's like she's his boss and he's in trouble.
Goosebumps!