I remember taking a birthday trip where I visited a childhood "friend" in another country. We hadn't seen each other in many years. She did everything in her power to make that trip terrible. Every time she got upset, she cut the internet access. She was monitoring my spending and trying to control and manipulate during the entire trip. It was very traumatic. So much so that I literally FLED her apartment and went to the airport hours before my scheduled departure. It was crazy.
Tiffany is a genius, your theory give me chills. Because you can look in shanquella’s eyes she not a punk. But she wasn’t throwing punches for a very specific reason. She also works with kids she’s a hairstylist for children and doesn’t want to ruin her brand
Jealousy: I want what you have Envy: I want to be you. Glad for your success because they see it as a win for them. Your personality is taken over by them. Then the person becomes angry because you keep being you. "There is no space for the both of you in your personality". Both linked to murder.
And covetousness, which means to take something that belongs to someone else in an unlawful manner. It is when you want that specific thing, like your neighbor's wife or your neighbor's wife.
@@gracecole1You hit it on the nail!!! Covetousness gives birth to discontent which then gives birth to jealousy which then links up with Envy who causes Murder. It’s like a chain reaction.
“JEALOUSY HURTS TO BAD TO HOST” TIFFANY YOU AINT SAID NOTHING BUT A WORD UP IN HEA !!! This whole message is so sooooo good. Thank you for doing this video because it is really so helpful on so many levels foreal. So many gems were said in here !!!
Stop shrinking in the presence of people. That's me, Especially on my job. Breaking down my standards to fit in and remain relatable. It's almost like I felt bad for aiming to operate in excellence lol God is helping me to realize where I am going requires separation. I need to be okay with being alone sometimes.
Once worked at a church where people would put in the bare minimum. I did feel pressure not to do so much because it made them look bad and I honestly loved some as friends/colleagues. But then I would remember that my work was a covenant with God and that I had promised to give Him my ALL. So I focused on my promise to God
I can definitely relate you would think that their being a good friend because they are there for you.until you are doing well and then you don't hear from them
I agree! They will repeat the same cruel or embarrassing joke every time they are around you, and when you call them on it, they'll play the victim. (Gaslighting) and act like they didn't mean anything by it. I don't like being around those types of people at all. I keep my distance from them because they are evil.
I broke out laughing when u described envy and said there’s not enough room for both of us in your personality 😂. Never heard it described like that. Regarding childhood memory, I always thought it strange that I could not remember much of my childhood…it’s like bits and pieces. Old friends and fam could share stories and I vaguely remember or not at all. I recently came to see that as a sign of childhood trauma, not saying that your young memories does not indicate trauma b/c it could…but I wish I could get back my childhood memories
This. I remembered bits of my childhood and thought that was normal, until I listen to how my kids can remember theirs. I'm 43 now and been in therapy for 3 years and remember more now than I ever have. It's amazing how the mind will block out traumatic memories. Its even more surprising how many of those traumatic memories I had in my childhood.
Hearing you break down the differences between jealousy and envy !!! WOW. seriously one of the best breakdowns I’ve heard by far foreal. This whole message, - things you’ve experienced - theories - just how you take your time to explain things I Foreal Appreciate you Tiffany. Seriously Thank You Ok lemme keep listening I’m at the 45 minute mark
I went through a lot of jealous and envious girls in secondary school. Because like you said, I have the spirit of excellence. I just shined in every way. It was actually a difficult time for me cause I couldn't understand them, why they couldn't just love. I believe God allowed me to go through it to prepare me for the real world and my calling and to teach me discernment. I would find myself trying to hide my true self and shrinking like you said, God told me, but now I don't care what people think of me and I don't even have a full "circle". I'm like David, it's only once in a while that you'll find your "Jonathan" who was a sincere friend of David. Other than that David was a loner with God alone. This video is really good.
I am a loner too. People try to make you feel guilty or bad for not having a lot or any friends but I don’t have time for fake people trying to guess if they are for me or if they are going to do to me what they did to Shanquilla. I’m just fine until God sends me a true friend or true friends. Jesus is my friend😊🙏🙏🙏
@@SandraBlessed4ever hallelujah ! The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. May God bless us with sincere brothers and sisters in the Lord by His Grace and His will.
I pray God protects you and keeps you safe, bc you are so valuable and special. I really feel heart broken hearing about your aunt Maybel story. I know that had to traumatize you... I found your channel 2 years ago when I left my abusive ex. You have gave me LOADS of knowledge. I wish I had an auntie or someone like you in my life, bc I you possess so much wisdom. I learned alot about myself from watching you, I know i am Def called to be a prophetess. I learned what my own problems were too.. people pleasing... keeping jealous people around me... etc. Bc of you, my circle is so tight , only God is allowed in during this season.. a couple times your videos would convict me and I would shut my phone off... only to go back later and rewatch it. I pray that God blesses you more than you can ever imagine, and just know that the time you put into these videos are deff life changing... your not doing it for nothing.. thank you...
Always blessed by this wonderful woman of God. There is always something profound to take from her videos. 'Part of my healing is I am to people what i needed people to be to me' wow!🙌🏽🙏🏼❤
Sister you are on point with everything👍 I’ve had a few unpleasant experiences with envy and jealously and let me tell you, it’s cold it’s wicked and it’s dangerous. I’ve been around people who hated me so much for no reason, I used to blame myself all the time for things I didn’t do nor comprehend. But, now that I am wiser I see things exactly for what they are. Additionally, when I pick up on a weird vibes, when my gut is telling me to go, I just go without any questions asked nor explanations. At the end of the day, you must defend and protect yourself always. I used to feel bad for saying no or cutting the wrong people off. No more!!!!
I realize I accepted narcissistic abuse in relationships due to accepting it in my family. I stopped both. Doing the necessary work. I use to lack boundaries
I’m glad an arrest is being made. They are are totally demonic her so called “friends” . Pure evil their actions. ALL are at fault not just the main girl attacking her
Not everyone that struggles with being a jealous person is a villain or evil beyond repair (this isn’t related to the Shanquella case, just in general). There are origins to it and intricacies that rarely get covered. This subject is often being covered in a way to be accusatory toward the insecure, broken, disappointed person that is battling with the hatred associated with jealousy. People in this position need guidance on how to get out of that disposition of being jealous and envious.
Tiffany this video was so awesome and very much needed. Not only have you confirmed something in my life this video is going to save some people’s life. This was a wonderful tribute to Shanquilla in a type of way. God bless you my beautiful sister for letting God use you in such a time as this!🙏👏❤️🔥🔥🕊🕊🕊🙌🏽
It’s so very sad that not one of those so called friends did nothing to intervene on her behalf you don’t have to be friends with someone to stop injustice.
This was soooo on point. I emjoyed the teaching so much!I've experienced both jealousy and envy. My mother explained the differences to me some years ago same way you did. I loved the part about identity. I have had people do to me exactly what you described. Wonderful insight. Thank you.
Thank you so much Tiffany for this advice. I can’t express enough how many times my family or old friends guilt tripped me for distancing myself from them due to toxic behavior and all to later on see them in some kind of family/event gathering and it would turn into some kind of awkward encounter, so much entitlement to have explanations of what I’ve been doing in my life to justify why I’m not around as much. It’s hard sometimes to know always what’s the best thing to do cause I know there will be that kind of toxic behavior where it’s mixed with gaslighting. Where I feel in myself I know it’s happening but others say it’s not. It can be mentally and emotionally draining to be around that kind of behavior. Times when I’d even wonder if I truly have decernment. I just thank God so much for leaders like you to help us with our walk with Christ. And I thank God that through my whole walk he’s never left me alone. May God continue to bless you and your ministry in the name of Jesus ❤
Jacqueline Carr voice: "I've never seen the righteous forsaken." Thank you for this video, it helped me with a few insecurities of mine. I always like to play the back because girls/women always have an issue with me or if they like me, they're normally gay. I never had a real friend and now I definitely do not want one. Its to the point that as things change for the better in my life, no one will ever know unless they're in my will and until then no one will ever know about my come up. I have very little now and hear nothing but jealousy, hate, envy and lies and I KNOW GOD HAS MORE FOR ME. I SERIOUSLY KNOW IT. I just thank God for showing me who he is, no one will ever have another chance to get close to me ever again. We seriously have to always be careful, even around our children, siblings and parents. People like to say keep your enemies close but the Bible says to stay away from them and I'm listening to my Father God❤️✝️❤️.
I hate to admit it, but what you've said about a person not being themselves, and shrinking to not hurt others feelings, or to make them feel good describes me to the T.
I have a very jealous sister and mother. God removed them from my life and is caused them to manifest to the fullest. I see my sister driving by my house 3 or 4 times while calling my phone 20 times. I keep ignoring them and have them blocked but it kind of spooks me so much
@@MelissaKWilson I'll be praying for you. It deff isn't fun. When I don't answer her calls it makes her turn into a maniac, I can literally sense how obsessed she is by the way she drives by my house. I get cold chills and it makes me go into deep prayer. Before I set boundaries I allowed her in my life whenever, and she isn't handling the silence very well. When family says "but ShEs YoUr SIsTeR" it makes me cut them off too.. idc family or not, toxic is toxic. May God bless you.
I’m a voluptuous woman and I can’t tell you how many of my friends I’ve been around that will make comments about their behinds. They start saying things like, I gotta start back doing my squats, or I’m transferring my fat, or I wish I had a bigger butt. And the energy changes And I end up being sneak dissed or somehow the butt of a joke. 🤦🏾♀️ It’s annoying and what these females fail to realize is that I’m already beginning to feed them with a long spoon. Some of those females jealousy actually manifested. The first whiff of jealousy around me and I’m cutting off somebody real quick. I am humble and still working towards a goal. I don’t have time to be around folks jealous of my crumbs 🤷🏾♀️
I have watched several videos on this matter. Quella was “best friends “ with Khalil. Khalil was lifelong friends with the others. Quella met all of them in college. His loyalty was with the group and not Quella. Khalil probably planned this with Quella so that Quella could pay for the trip. Even though he knew she wasn’t liked by Daejanae. Wenter did a live saying Daejanae dragged Quella out of bed Saturday morning that’s why she was nude. Quella was ambushed. She was probably confused but did not expect to die. If she knew her life was in danger she would have tried to run out of the house. Allegedly there is a video of Wenter giving the death blow. I do believe they chose to beat her in Mexico because there have been a rash of tourist death from alcohol poisoning and recently carbon monoxide poisoning. Perfect cover up.
You better say it Tiffany, I have been going through this for years, but now I'm in a space that I have to cut these folk off. I have been there for them every time. Deliver me from people Lord!!! I see I have to leave these folks (family included) right where they are and pray for them, ask God to continue to cover me and remove them. My mom has constantly told me and a very close friend of mine that all these other people since I have moved away from my home town are jealous of me. I have been in my feelings thinking that I did something wrong, I been working hard on my goals and dreams, but I see these are distractions, trying to get me off track and not get God's Glory by always going back. My ex husband, the folk I met him with, even some family members and folk talking about me behind my back. Shanquella Robinson story has truly truly touched my heart and she is the same age as my sons. My heart breaks for her mom and for what has happened to her. God knows exactly what these folks are plotting and the conversations when you aren't around. Its taken me 45 years too, but I get it!!! Amen and Thank you for the revelation sis......... Justice for Shanquella
Jealousy is irrational. According to the bible, "who can withstand it?" (Proverbs 27:4). I have encountered this spirit many times in my life so now, if I even get an inkling of its presence in someone, I part ways.. no questions asked. It's dangerous and lethal.
Thank you, Tiffany! I discovered you about a year ago and I am totally a student. 🙏🏾 The story about the little girl being triggered by your excellence (wiping streaks behind her)…when I put myself in the place of the little girl, I wonder if she would have received what you were doing had you explained to her WHY you were doing it? 🤔
My man came out of prison and became jealous of all I have accomplished to make a decent apt. Why ? I just couldn't do enough to please him he was just so envious so I am alone but I don't have that evil words being said to me! I believe he was with a female jealous spirit and I always saw the femininity in him. I hope he really finds peace.
Hey pretty lady how are y'all doing I am well watching replay you on point teach I been through that I lefted mega mess churches becarul who you let in your circle stay safe and strong blessings ❤️🙏
We as women don't think that men can have a female spirit of jealous, but they can! I've had to put a couple of them in check! It It's just not the gay guys, it's the so call 'straight' ones too! Learn discernment and stay in prayer!
TRUST ME SIS...ANGELS RECOGNIZE OTHER ANGELS..I CAN SEE IT IN YOUR EYES THAT YOU ARE BLESSED AND COVERED BY GOD MY SISTER! YES YOU ARE! AND I DONT SAY THIS TO ANYBODY EVER!!! UNLESS I SEE IT AND I DO NOT SEE IT THAT OFTEN IN MANY MANY PEOPLE....SO, KNOW THAT YOU ARE BLESSED QUEEN!!!!!
I had a cousin who I cut off due to jealousy! He was actually jealous of the way my parents raised me compared to his! He would always have a slick comment and he eventually stole from me so I cut him off completely!
It is so disrespectful to show these revealing private photos of this young lady that was not meant to be seen in public! People don't have no respect anymore for anybody!
BS!!!! They all hated her!! That young woman was terrified and distraught to realize just how much these ppl hated her! She was scared and surprised! What we experienced was the element of surprise. There is noooooooo way that that energy was suddenly! The whole scenario speaks volumes for itself🤷🏽♀️
The Bible says, “jealousy is as cruel as the grave”! Song of Solomon 8:6-7 KJV Set me as a seal upon thine heart, As a seal upon thine arm: For love is strong as death; Jealousy is cruel as the grave: The coals thereof are coals of fire, Which hath a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, Neither can the floods drown it: If a man would give all the substance of his house for love, It would utterly be contemned.
WOOOOO YOU ARE SO RIGHT MY SISTER! YOU HIT IT RIGHT ON! WHEN I TELL YOU YOU ARE AN ANGEL MY SISTER YOU BETTER KNOW IT! ONLY GOD COULD HAVE GIVEN YOU THAT! I SEE THE SAME THING AND I TELL PEOPLE THIS VERY SAME THING!
I just subscribed to your channel, I was suppose to be in bed, but your story got my attention. I’m sorry for your aunt and Shanquella, may they both Rest In Peace. My God. 😢
Anointed fire God bless you I got baptized this year Everyone in my life before this left my life after I changed Praise God I pray for the past friends But I can’t associate with any of them I only fear God now Before being born again, I feared everyone I was friends with . They stole, they drugged , they plotted. They never loved me Now I have good Christians in my life . God’s will be done . Amen
There is a video showing her best friend (Khalil) filming Shanquella while she was sleep in a hammock. You can hear him saying, dead body, body, body,...she ain't not more. So, they had planned to end her in Mexico. Very very sad.
@@ludwinasky I saw it on Gossip Girl XO 's channel...warning it is so demonic hearing him chant over her almost. Pray to cover your eye gates and ear gates.
Jealousy in the family is toxic. My late dad was the Joseph in his family. Dearly loved by his father but hated by his brothers. On every trip to my grandparents, we had car accidents of all sorts. Didn't connect it to those relatives. Years later, after he passed on and I grew up, I would experience spiritual warfare. If an aunt called me to "check" up on me, I would have an attack at night- being choked by a dark figure. Dad's mom, whom I'm named after, practised sorcery and interfered in all her sons' marriages. So the entire lineage is filled with hatred, jealousy, envy, and generally wickedness. Imagine uncles and aunties jostling to get dad's money, land, etc when he died. They took my mom to court and blamed her for his death, just so they could have free-fall, forgetting how much dad supported them when they were younger. Back then, I didn't know about generational inequity but spent time fasting and praying this year to repent for her inequities (sorcery), broke those altars and set up a new altar and covenant with Abba. Since then, I've closed the doorway that gave evil spirits legal entry into my world.
As a teen I stay overnight with these Friends . We was drinking I got drunk the friend who had the envy hit me ,put my coat on ,had me outside in the winter hitting me I believe kicking me in front of our male friends. The next day I was beyond mad I kept saying she hit you should pick up a knife and try to kill her. The whole time she had this look on her face like yes I did it and what you going to do! I calling my Uncle to get me. The other friend was drunk to she swear that the one who hit me didn’t do anything like that ! The male friend had to tell her it did happen! The one who hit me I approach her about it she refused to apologize or really acknowledge what happened. More to the story! In the end after of years of friendship she walked away blaming me . The other friend fell away a few years ago like God told me she was going to do.
I think you might be on to something sistah Tiffany . About it not being their intention to kill her . As you said it could have been to humiliate her . To break her will & spirit as a "grinder" and a go getter . The repeated blows to her face could have been an effort to destroy/disfigure her ascetic beauty . And they may have decided that once they all got back over here to the States . There'd be nothing anybody could do about it . Since it happened in Mexico , it wasn't like she could call the police on them in North Carolina . For an assault that happened to her . In another country .
Hmmmm....@30:30 So True!! Truly those two ladies were very offended with her...regarding to another situation !!... Yet the spirit of offense has ALWAYS been among them as long as they have been so called "friends". They ran among the same circle which classified them as "Associstes"..
I was in the grocery store after seeing a movie with a co-worker I used to work with and as I looked up after I paided for my groceries she was staring at me with eyes of jealousy. My mistake,I did not cut her off then. Now with listening to this viedo it sends cold chills down my spine. As I reflected back there were many red 🚩 🚩 flags.
I was waiting for someone in the body of Christ to speak about this because the people of the world would not understand what I'm about to say. Spiritually Shanquella was already dead. I repeat Shanquella was already dead. You are right they didn't intend to kill her but the events of the night prior cause her death to manifest in the natural world. I'm sure Shanquella had dreams of her demise but she ignored them because she is in the world and doesn't know that on waking, such dreams have to be canceled because they will manifest in the physical realm. However, the night before her death I saw a video of her friend Khalid saying. 'Dead body, dead body, we have our first dead body" Unbeknownst to him and everyone, he basically conjured up the Spirit of Death. As the world would say he spoke those words into existence (world said he meant she was the first to be affected by alcohol). Just as there are heavenly hosts awaiting our command, the enemy also has his demons waiting for us to speak negative words about ourselves or others. The thing is in the Spirit Realm, the demons don't care about how we are using the words, death is still death in the spirit. These young people are using these negative words that are giving the enemy access to their lives, then they wonder why their lives are filled with drama, anti- progress, limitations and set-backs. I didn't look at the video. I can't expose my eyes to such violence. However I heard Dahjahnae punched her over thirty times. They had the spirit of jealous, envy, hatred and death entered that girl. How can any one punch someone without hand injury? (demonic) The Cabo 6 who were in that room have the spirit of death on them now and that demon has to be fed. I pray for them that they will repent and be delivered from these spirits (death, hatred, jealousy, envy) before they are destroyed. (kill or be killed)
Allegedly, she fronted the bill for the trip. There was a disagreement the night before and Shanquella threatened to leave which means they’d have to continue to pay for their stay, activities and flights back. She was ambushed in her room the next morning where she slept naked. The girl demanded that she get out of bed or get dragged out of bed.
Queen Paris Six things the LORD hates, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that run to evil, False witness who utters lies, One who sow discord among brethren. Proverbs 6:16-19
I moved into this bldg and the new me let me know the females in here are jealous of me? Why ? I m elderly disabled in a wheelchair and don't know how anyone could be jealous of me and my lonely life? It doesn't make sense!
I suffered so many adversaties in life but some people are jealous of me ...trust me it does not have to make sense because it is demonic...envy and jealousy
"Some people are a friend to your dysfunction"...😳😳😳 thats real talk Ms.Buckner
I totally can relate to this!!
Deep
Wow that hit home
Factssssss
Amen!!! "Do not tolerate narcissism in family." Took me 44 years to break away!🙌
It took me 45 years! Because it's family so I kept forgiving with no apology! But now I'm just over it! I don't treat them how they treat me.
It took me 48 years. I cut my last family member out of my life in January of this year. My life feels soooo peaceful now...
I went no contact two years ago. One of the hardest but best decisions I’ve ever made.
One will have to pull and pull away! One can't give access to them. It means not relying on them. Seek people who are trustworthy.
I remember taking a birthday trip where I visited a childhood "friend" in another country. We hadn't seen each other in many years. She did everything in her power to make that trip terrible. Every time she got upset, she cut the internet access. She was monitoring my spending and trying to control and manipulate during the entire trip. It was very traumatic. So much so that I literally FLED her apartment and went to the airport hours before my scheduled departure. It was crazy.
That must have been awful for you. Good thing you found out sooner then later that she was not a good friend. Shanquella found out to late
I’m happy you fleed, screw them!
I can hardly count the number of times that you have blessed me through your messages!
Tiffany is a genius, your theory give me chills. Because you can look in shanquella’s eyes she not a punk. But she wasn’t throwing punches for a very specific reason. She also works with kids she’s a hairstylist for children and doesn’t want to ruin her brand
Trueee
Jealousy:
I want what you have
Envy:
I want to be you. Glad for your success because they see it as a win for them. Your personality is taken over by them. Then the person becomes angry because you keep being you.
"There is no space for the both of you in your personality".
Both linked to murder.
And covetousness, which means to take something that belongs to someone else in an unlawful manner. It is when you want that specific thing, like your neighbor's wife or your neighbor's wife.
@@gracecole1You hit it on the nail!!! Covetousness gives birth to discontent which then gives birth to jealousy which then links up with Envy who causes Murder. It’s like a chain reaction.
“JEALOUSY HURTS TO BAD TO HOST”
TIFFANY YOU AINT SAID NOTHING BUT A WORD UP IN HEA !!!
This whole message is so sooooo good.
Thank you for doing this video because it is really so helpful on so many levels foreal. So many gems were said in here !!!
Stop shrinking in the presence of people. That's me, Especially on my job. Breaking down my standards to fit in and remain relatable. It's almost like I felt bad for aiming to operate in excellence lol God is helping me to realize where I am going requires separation. I need to be okay with being alone sometimes.
Once worked at a church where people would put in the bare minimum. I did feel pressure not to do so much because it made them look bad and I honestly loved some as friends/colleagues. But then I would remember that my work was a covenant with God and that I had promised to give Him my ALL. So I focused on my promise to God
A friend comes around only when you are doing bad. They are not there when you do well because of jealousy.
I can definitely relate you would think that their being a good friend because they are there for you.until you are doing well and then you don't hear from them
Cruel and embarrassing jokes are a sign too
I agree! They will repeat the same cruel or embarrassing joke every time they are around you, and when you call them on it, they'll play the victim. (Gaslighting) and act like they didn't mean anything by it. I don't like being around those types of people at all. I keep my distance from them because they are evil.
I broke out laughing when u described envy and said there’s not enough room for both of us in your personality 😂. Never heard it described like that.
Regarding childhood memory, I always thought it strange that I could not remember much of my childhood…it’s like bits and pieces. Old friends and fam could share stories and I vaguely remember or not at all. I recently came to see that as a sign of childhood trauma, not saying that your young memories does not indicate trauma b/c it could…but I wish I could get back my childhood memories
THIS !!!
This. I remembered bits of my childhood and thought that was normal, until I listen to how my kids can remember theirs. I'm 43 now and been in therapy for 3 years and remember more now than I ever have. It's amazing how the mind will block out traumatic memories. Its even more surprising how many of those traumatic memories I had in my childhood.
Hearing you break down the differences between jealousy and envy !!!
WOW.
seriously one of the best breakdowns I’ve heard by far foreal.
This whole message,
- things you’ve experienced
- theories
- just how you take your time to explain things
I Foreal Appreciate you Tiffany.
Seriously Thank You
Ok lemme keep listening I’m at the 45 minute mark
I'm so glad that you're talking about this from a spiritual point of view. God bless you Sister Tiffany. 💞🤗🙏🏼
Yes! From the Spiritual aspect! Amen.
I went through a lot of jealous and envious girls in secondary school. Because like you said, I have the spirit of excellence. I just shined in every way. It was actually a difficult time for me cause I couldn't understand them, why they couldn't just love. I believe God allowed me to go through it to prepare me for the real world and my calling and to teach me discernment. I would find myself trying to hide my true self and shrinking like you said, God told me, but now I don't care what people think of me and I don't even have a full "circle". I'm like David, it's only once in a while that you'll find your "Jonathan" who was a sincere friend of David. Other than that David was a loner with God alone. This video is really good.
I am a loner too. People try to make you feel guilty or bad for not having a lot or any friends but I don’t have time for fake people trying to guess if they are for me or if they are going to do to me what they did to Shanquilla. I’m just fine until God sends me a true friend or true friends. Jesus is my friend😊🙏🙏🙏
@@SandraBlessed4ever hallelujah ! The Lord is my shepherd I shall not want. May God bless us with sincere brothers and sisters in the Lord by His Grace and His will.
I have had people BLESS me and then disappear. My belief: they didn't want me to think they wanted "something" from me.
This video has helped me so much, you don't understand how thankful I am. I feel god led me here to heal. Thank you.
I pray God protects you and keeps you safe, bc you are so valuable and special. I really feel heart broken hearing about your aunt Maybel story. I know that had to traumatize you... I found your channel 2 years ago when I left my abusive ex. You have gave me LOADS of knowledge. I wish I had an auntie or someone like you in my life, bc I you possess so much wisdom. I learned alot about myself from watching you, I know i am Def called to be a prophetess. I learned what my own problems were too.. people pleasing... keeping jealous people around me... etc. Bc of you, my circle is so tight , only God is allowed in during this season.. a couple times your videos would convict me and I would shut my phone off... only to go back later and rewatch it. I pray that God blesses you more than you can ever imagine, and just know that the time you put into these videos are deff life changing... your not doing it for nothing.. thank you...
Always blessed by this wonderful woman of God. There is always something profound to take from her videos. 'Part of my healing is I am to people what i needed people to be to me' wow!🙌🏽🙏🏼❤
That part!!
Abel died at the hands of his jealous brother
I'm 50 and have memories from when I was 3 years old. This is a great video-thank you!!
Sister you are on point with everything👍 I’ve had a few unpleasant experiences with envy and jealously and let me tell you, it’s cold it’s wicked and it’s dangerous. I’ve been around people who hated me so much for no reason, I used to blame myself all the time for things I didn’t do nor comprehend. But, now that I am wiser I see things exactly for what they are. Additionally, when I pick up on a weird vibes, when my gut is telling me to go, I just go without any questions asked nor explanations. At the end of the day, you must defend and protect yourself always. I used to feel bad for saying no or cutting the wrong people off. No more!!!!
This is a necessary teaching and hard lessons to apply to our lives. Unfortunately, many of us learn late, and struggle to guard our hearts and minds!
I realize I accepted narcissistic abuse in relationships due to accepting it in my family. I stopped both. Doing the necessary work. I use to lack boundaries
I’m glad an arrest is being made. They are are totally demonic her so called “friends” . Pure evil their actions. ALL are at fault not just the main girl attacking her
Not everyone that struggles with being a jealous person is a villain or evil beyond repair (this isn’t related to the Shanquella case, just in general). There are origins to it and intricacies that rarely get covered. This subject is often being covered in a way to be accusatory toward the insecure, broken, disappointed person that is battling with the hatred associated with jealousy. People in this position need guidance on how to get out of that disposition of being jealous and envious.
Tiffany this video was so awesome and very much needed. Not only have you confirmed something in my life this video is going to save some people’s life. This was a wonderful tribute to Shanquilla in a type of way. God bless you my beautiful sister for letting God use you in such a time as this!🙏👏❤️🔥🔥🕊🕊🕊🙌🏽
It’s so very sad that not one of those so called friends did nothing to intervene on her behalf you don’t have to be friends with someone to stop injustice.
This was soooo on point. I emjoyed the teaching so much!I've experienced both jealousy and envy. My mother explained the differences to me some years ago same way you did. I loved the part about identity. I have had people do to me exactly what you described. Wonderful insight. Thank you.
Thank you so much Tiffany for this advice. I can’t express enough how many times my family or old friends guilt tripped me for distancing myself from them due to toxic behavior and all to later on see them in some kind of family/event gathering and it would turn into some kind of awkward encounter, so much entitlement to have explanations of what I’ve been doing in my life to justify why I’m not around as much. It’s hard sometimes to know always what’s the best thing to do cause I know there will be that kind of toxic behavior where it’s mixed with gaslighting. Where I feel in myself I know it’s happening but others say it’s not. It can be mentally and emotionally draining to be around that kind of behavior. Times when I’d even wonder if I truly have decernment.
I just thank God so much for leaders like you to help us with our walk with Christ. And I thank God that through my whole walk he’s never left me alone. May God continue to bless you and your ministry in the name of Jesus ❤
I needed to hear this message on jealousy and envy.
Jacqueline Carr voice: "I've never seen the righteous forsaken." Thank you for this video, it helped me with a few insecurities of mine. I always like to play the back because girls/women always have an issue with me or if they like me, they're normally gay. I never had a real friend and now I definitely do not want one. Its to the point that as things change for the better in my life, no one will ever know unless they're in my will and until then no one will ever know about my come up. I have very little now and hear nothing but jealousy, hate, envy and lies and I KNOW GOD HAS MORE FOR ME. I SERIOUSLY KNOW IT.
I just thank God for showing me who he is, no one will ever have another chance to get close to me ever again. We seriously have to always be careful, even around our children, siblings and parents.
People like to say keep your enemies close but the Bible says to stay away from them and I'm listening to my Father God❤️✝️❤️.
I have to say, I really enjoy your videos. From your wisdom to your personality, I enjoy every moment! 😊
I was SO waiting to hear your opinion on this Sister T.
I hate to admit it, but what you've said about a person not being themselves, and shrinking to not hurt others feelings, or to make them feel good describes me to the T.
I have a very jealous sister and mother. God removed them from my life and is caused them to manifest to the fullest. I see my sister driving by my house 3 or 4 times while calling my phone 20 times. I keep ignoring them and have them blocked but it kind of spooks me so much
Praying for safety, protection, and freedom
My sister is like that obsession. It is scary
@@MelissaKWilson I'll be praying for you. It deff isn't fun. When I don't answer her calls it makes her turn into a maniac, I can literally sense how obsessed she is by the way she drives by my house. I get cold chills and it makes me go into deep prayer. Before I set boundaries I allowed her in my life whenever, and she isn't handling the silence very well. When family says "but ShEs YoUr SIsTeR" it makes me cut them off too.. idc family or not, toxic is toxic. May God bless you.
@@JB-ro7kq thank you!!
I’m a voluptuous woman and I can’t tell you how many of my friends I’ve been around that will make comments about their behinds. They start saying things like, I gotta start back doing my squats, or I’m transferring my fat, or I wish I had a bigger butt. And the energy changes And I end up being sneak dissed or somehow the butt of a joke. 🤦🏾♀️ It’s annoying and what these females fail to realize is that I’m already beginning to feed them with a long spoon. Some of those females jealousy actually manifested. The first whiff of jealousy around me and I’m cutting off somebody real quick. I am humble and still working towards a goal. I don’t have time to be around folks jealous of my crumbs 🤷🏾♀️
Jealousy, touched my life in the worst way also, it caused me loosing so much in my life by that person and person's.
I have watched several videos on this matter. Quella was “best friends “ with Khalil. Khalil was lifelong friends with the others. Quella met all of them in college. His loyalty was with the group and not Quella.
Khalil probably planned this with Quella so that Quella could pay for the trip. Even though he knew she wasn’t liked by Daejanae.
Wenter did a live saying Daejanae dragged Quella out of bed Saturday morning that’s why she was nude. Quella was ambushed. She was probably confused but did not expect to die. If she knew her life was in danger she would have tried to run out of the house.
Allegedly there is a video of Wenter giving the death blow.
I do believe they chose to beat her in Mexico because there have been a rash of tourist death from alcohol poisoning and recently carbon monoxide poisoning. Perfect cover up.
You better say it Tiffany, I have been going through this for years, but now I'm in a space that I have to cut these folk off. I have been there for them every time. Deliver me from people Lord!!! I see I have to leave these folks (family included) right where they are and pray for them, ask God to continue to cover me and remove them. My mom has constantly told me and a very close friend of mine that all these other people since I have moved away from my home town are jealous of me. I have been in my feelings thinking that I did something wrong, I been working hard on my goals and dreams, but I see these are distractions, trying to get me off track and not get God's Glory by always going back. My ex husband, the folk I met him with, even some family members and folk talking about me behind my back. Shanquella Robinson story has truly truly touched my heart and she is the same age as my sons. My heart breaks for her mom and for what has happened to her. God knows exactly what these folks are plotting and the conversations when you aren't around. Its taken me 45 years too, but I get it!!! Amen and Thank you for the revelation sis......... Justice for Shanquella
“WHY YOU CHEW LIKE THAT”
Loooooooooord !!!
Thank you for this message Sis! I needed this Holy Spirit clarified so much thru you! GOD Bless you!
Jealousy is irrational. According to the bible, "who can withstand it?" (Proverbs 27:4). I have encountered this spirit many times in my life so now, if I even get an inkling of its presence in someone, I part ways.. no questions asked. It's dangerous and lethal.
Very!
I remember before starting preschool…I can tell you about 70% of each kid names, teachers, etc…. in detail on up present. I’m 46 years old
Thank YOU I need to hear all this 🙏
Thank you, Tiffany! I discovered you about a year ago and I am totally a student. 🙏🏾 The story about the little girl being triggered by your excellence (wiping streaks behind her)…when I put myself in the place of the little girl, I wonder if she would have received what you were doing had you explained to her WHY you were doing it? 🤔
Shanquilla did fight back.
Watch the video. She swung, it did not connect. And then she just stopped.
She felt helpless.
I’m 57 & still remember kindergarten 😅
You're 57? Girl, you look great!
The Holy Ghost is speaking through you!! Hallelujah! Thank you 🙏🏼 Father God for this entire message!!!!!! Amen
Lots of wisdom from the Anointed Fire. Bless you.
This was so powerful ‼️❤️ Thankyou for your teaching!
Tiffany 😂😂😂🤣 that "😬 good job girl" scurred me
I too have encountered jealousy many times in my life. But not to this magnitude!!!
My man came out of prison and became jealous of all I have accomplished to make a decent apt. Why ? I just couldn't do enough to please him he was just so envious so I am alone but I don't have that evil words being said to me! I believe he was with a female jealous spirit and I always saw the femininity in him. I hope he really finds peace.
You words about him are kind. He is a man that HATES women and secretly wants to be a woman. How about that.
Hey pretty lady how are y'all doing I am well watching replay you on point teach I been through that I lefted mega mess churches becarul who you let in your circle stay safe and strong blessings ❤️🙏
Glad you got away from him💪🏽
We as women don't think that men can have a female spirit of jealous, but they can! I've had to put a couple of them in check! It It's just not the gay guys, it's the so call 'straight' ones too! Learn discernment and stay in prayer!
@@misslady5029 Thanks for this information of jealousy in straight males.
Your theory makes the most sense!
Awesome message Sister Tiffany 🙏🏽💗
I needed this video! Thank you for your wisdom. God bless you. Praise God!!
TRUST ME SIS...ANGELS RECOGNIZE OTHER ANGELS..I CAN SEE IT IN YOUR EYES THAT YOU ARE BLESSED AND COVERED BY GOD MY SISTER! YES YOU ARE! AND I DONT SAY THIS TO ANYBODY EVER!!! UNLESS I SEE IT AND I DO NOT SEE IT THAT OFTEN IN MANY MANY PEOPLE....SO, KNOW THAT YOU ARE BLESSED QUEEN!!!!!
I am going to teach myself the computer and write a book for at risk youths.
Lord Tiffany ... hilarious when you described those literally girls rolling their eyes. 🤭
I had a cousin who I cut off due to jealousy! He was actually jealous of the way my parents raised me compared to his! He would always have a slick comment and he eventually stole from me so I cut him off completely!
This is powerful, how do we schedule one on one with you Anointed fire? Very encouraging
It is so disrespectful to show these revealing private photos of this young lady that was not meant to be seen in public! People don't have no respect anymore for anybody!
BS!!!! They all hated her!! That young woman was terrified and distraught to realize just how much these ppl hated her! She was scared and surprised! What we experienced was the element of surprise. There is noooooooo way that that energy was suddenly! The whole scenario speaks volumes for itself🤷🏽♀️
No discernment whatsoever....got to read the room
@@Jiron127 To each his own. The thing is, I don’t have to agree with you🤷🏽♀️
Thank you for teaching and preaching
The Bible says, “jealousy is as cruel as the grave”!
Song of Solomon 8:6-7 KJV
Set me as a seal upon thine heart, As a seal upon thine arm: For love is strong as death; Jealousy is cruel as the grave: The coals thereof are coals of fire, Which hath a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, Neither can the floods drown it: If a man would give all the substance of his house for love, It would utterly be contemned.
I have experienced jealously through my sisters like nothing I could have imagined.
WOOOOO YOU ARE SO RIGHT MY SISTER! YOU HIT IT RIGHT ON! WHEN I TELL YOU YOU ARE AN ANGEL MY SISTER YOU BETTER KNOW IT! ONLY GOD COULD HAVE GIVEN YOU THAT! I SEE THE SAME THING AND I TELL PEOPLE THIS VERY SAME THING!
I just subscribed to your channel, I was suppose to be in bed, but your story got my attention. I’m sorry for your aunt and Shanquella, may they both Rest In Peace. My God. 😢
I am hollering right now! In that place right now loving walking alone with the Holy Spirit!! He is revealing so much!
This was timely content(sigh)....thank you!
Anointed fire
God bless you
I got baptized this year
Everyone in my life before this left my life after I changed
Praise God
I pray for the past friends
But I can’t associate with any of them
I only fear God now
Before being born again, I feared everyone I was friends with . They stole, they drugged , they plotted. They never loved me
Now I have good Christians in my life .
God’s will be done .
Amen
This is good you speak on this it was so evil what they did to that lady Shanquella
There is a video showing her best friend (Khalil) filming Shanquella while she was sleep in a hammock. You can hear him saying, dead body, body, body,...she ain't not more. So, they had planned to end her in Mexico. Very very sad.
Oh wow.... where is this video?
@@ludwinasky I saw it on Gossip Girl XO 's channel...warning it is so demonic hearing him chant over her almost. Pray to cover your eye gates and ear gates.
Omg ! That is awful.
Jealousy in the family is toxic. My late dad was the Joseph in his family. Dearly loved by his father but hated by his brothers. On every trip to my grandparents, we had car accidents of all sorts. Didn't connect it to those relatives. Years later, after he passed on and I grew up, I would experience spiritual warfare. If an aunt called me to "check" up on me, I would have an attack at night- being choked by a dark figure.
Dad's mom, whom I'm named after, practised sorcery and interfered in all her sons' marriages. So the entire lineage is filled with hatred, jealousy, envy, and generally wickedness. Imagine uncles and aunties jostling to get dad's money, land, etc when he died. They took my mom to court and blamed her for his death, just so they could have free-fall, forgetting how much dad supported them when they were younger.
Back then, I didn't know about generational inequity but spent time fasting and praying this year to repent for her inequities (sorcery), broke those altars and set up a new altar and covenant with Abba. Since then, I've closed the doorway that gave evil spirits legal entry into my world.
As a teen I stay overnight with these Friends . We was drinking I got drunk the friend who had the envy hit me ,put my coat on ,had me outside in the winter hitting me I believe kicking me in front of our male friends. The next day I was beyond mad I kept saying she hit you should pick up a knife and try to kill her. The whole time she had this look on her face like yes I did it and what you going to do! I calling my Uncle to get me. The other friend was drunk to she swear that the one who hit me didn’t do anything like that ! The male friend had to tell her it did happen! The one who hit me I approach her about it she refused to apologize or really acknowledge what happened. More to the story! In the end after of years of friendship she walked away blaming me . The other friend fell away a few years ago like God told me she was going to do.
This is an 💯 on time message! Woooow
Something with social media influencer killing,two such people were murdered in Jamaica lately.
I think you might be on to something sistah Tiffany . About it not being their intention to kill her . As you said it could have been to humiliate her . To break her will & spirit as a "grinder" and a go getter . The repeated blows to her face could have been an effort to destroy/disfigure her ascetic beauty . And they may have decided that once they all got back over here to the States . There'd be nothing anybody could do about it . Since it happened in Mexico , it wasn't like she could call the police on them in North Carolina . For an assault that happened to her . In another country .
Hmmmm....@30:30 So True!!
Truly those two ladies were very offended with her...regarding to another situation !!...
Yet the spirit of offense has ALWAYS been among them as long as they have been so called "friends". They ran among the same circle which classified them as "Associstes"..
I also think when they punish you excessively for something you did wrong.
Good message💯 had a jealous best friend who was very insecure, couldn’t do anything without me and started to become a mini me 57:42
Greetings. Shaquille Robinson incident is more sinister than folks realize. It goes beyond being jealous. The enemy come to kill, steal and destroy.
That's how I caught ppl to know how they feel about me, I use my side eye
I was in the grocery store after seeing a movie with a co-worker I used to work with and as I looked up after I paided for my groceries she was staring at me with eyes of jealousy. My mistake,I did not cut her off then. Now with listening to this viedo it sends cold chills down my spine. As I reflected back there were many red 🚩 🚩 flags.
This is great insight Tiffany Buckner
this is exactly why...i truly, stay to myself. not a homegirl in sight.
20:40 When you said Jacob asked them to go to the movies I already knew where this story was going...smh
Thank-you Tiffany I love you this is definitely my confirmation.
You can't be friends with folks that want your life! Sad bcz we all have the same 24hrs
It’s a wonderful feeling to have true friendships.
You're very insightful.
You just described my sister 😂💯 sad but true story
I was waiting for someone in the body of Christ to speak about this because the people of the world would not understand what I'm about to say. Spiritually Shanquella was already dead. I repeat Shanquella was already dead. You are right they didn't intend to kill her but the events of the night prior cause her death to manifest in the natural world. I'm sure Shanquella had dreams of her demise but she ignored them because she is in the world and doesn't know that on waking, such dreams have to be canceled because they will manifest in the physical realm. However, the night before her death I saw a video of her friend Khalid saying. 'Dead body, dead body, we have our first dead body" Unbeknownst to him and everyone, he basically conjured up the Spirit of Death. As the world would say he spoke those words into existence (world said he meant she was the first to be affected by alcohol). Just as there are heavenly hosts awaiting our command, the enemy also has his demons waiting for us to speak negative words about ourselves or others. The thing is in the Spirit Realm, the demons don't care about how we are using the words, death is still death in the spirit. These young people are using these negative words that are giving the enemy access to their lives, then they wonder why their lives are filled with drama, anti- progress, limitations and set-backs. I didn't look at the video. I can't expose my eyes to such violence. However I heard Dahjahnae punched her over thirty times. They had the spirit of jealous, envy, hatred and death entered that girl. How can any one punch someone without hand injury? (demonic)
The Cabo 6 who were in that room have the spirit of death on them now and that demon has to be fed. I pray for them that they will repent and be delivered from these spirits (death, hatred, jealousy, envy) before they are destroyed. (kill or be killed)
Great work 👍🏽. Very true. As mentioned, she was not aware to sense impending danger.
Allegedly, she fronted the bill for the trip. There was a disagreement the night before and Shanquella threatened to leave which means they’d have to continue to pay for their stay, activities and flights back. She was ambushed in her room the next morning where she slept naked. The girl demanded that she get out of bed or get dragged out of bed.
Good message so true thanks for sharing
Queen Paris
Six things the LORD hates, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that run to evil, False witness who utters lies, One who sow discord among brethren. Proverbs 6:16-19
I moved into this bldg and the new me let me know the females in here are jealous of me? Why ? I m elderly disabled in a wheelchair and don't know how anyone could be jealous of me and my lonely life? It doesn't make sense!
I suffered so many adversaties in life but some people are jealous of me ...trust me it does not have to make sense because it is demonic...envy and jealousy
It’s not always about the looks it’s about the light that is within you. Their demons can’t stand it.
Great advice!!! Clearly understood!!! I get it!
Jealousy, envious=murder
Happy Holidays to you!
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