That one comment shows her entire motivation. She is abusive and seeking power/control of the child. It’s horrifying. Edit: I’m a mental health therapist and specialized in DV and advocate for victims who are getting orders of protection. It is RARE a judge grants a plenary order of protection, so if she got an OP for three years there was evidence.
Another grown man being defended by his mother. Ladies. When you meet a man, if his relationship with his mother is to the level where he would disrespect you to please his mother, you will never be the number one person in his life even if you have his child. He will run to his mother when he argues with you, and she will not defend you against him.
Same here. I was married previously and had a miserable mother-in- law. Now I currently have the best mother-in-law a woman could ask for. She is 87 years old
I think he's a dbag and shouldn't have allowed this case to happen, but him sitting has nothing to do with him. Judy doesn't let witnesses stand unless she's questioning them
They probably could have worked things out if his mother's mouth wasn't in their business. I just watched this episode yesterday and the defendant said he's a great father and loves his children. He said the same thing about his ex wife. I sense they still have feelings for each other, but mom probably told him to not work it out and since he's a wet noodle, he'll never have a life on his own terms.
Some folks do that for various reasons. My mom does it to focus on what she’s saying since she receives regular medical treatment that drains her of a lot of mental energy. Idk this woman’s situation though
MIL is probably part of the reason they got divorced and will cause problems with any relationship the son will have. MIL has not gotten a job or had her husband collect disability in at least 2 years!
Anyone else notice the grandmother says he couldn’t have “my daughter” instead of granddaughter…?? 🤔 the grandmother needs to back off, no wonder the parents couldn’t make it work 🤦🏻♀️
@@Moonie95 , She did a lot of stuff & had Karen behavior since she was a child. Even her mom as an adult had to cut her off & there was only one other child they had that was a son
The husband & wife sound very humble and mature towards each other even though they are separated. He looks like a real nice guy and I’m sure one day he will become a lovely veterinarian too
My husband was and is a mama's boy. I did have some struggles, but she helped me raise our sons and feel blessed now that she is part of our lives. Sometime it's all about everyone involved to just do the right things for kids.
My mom has threatened three people that I know of to stab them. Two were my Father and brother. The other is more recently,, this person being her roommate in long term care. She claimed that my father and brother lied. They got a 2 year restraining order, helps that he had it on the answering machine. Yes she left the threat on the answerin machine and didn't bother to show up to court. She still says it's not true
@@dianagarrison9218 Story I got was she fell at home, she was a hoarder. The reason the doctor gave was her apparent inability to take care of herself. She's now been diagnosed with Dementia according to the nurse.
I’ve thought about this a lot - that lying eventually drives us crazy and/or makes our brains atrophy into dementia. Not that it’s the only reason for crazy or dementia, but one reason. I wonder to what degree these problems could improve if we “truthed” more. Does lying injure our brains?
That's what a really entitled person does...thinks they are even entitled to rewrite the facts of a narrative, that it's a given. Sounds like uber power/control and narcissistic traits. Very toxic.
Everyone...as you start dating a man...pay attention to their relationship with their mother. If he's a momma's boy. End it right there and then. Trust me on that.
The wife seems very calm and reasonable I don't see her being a problem at all. And mom in law seems super uptight and defensive so.... Pretty clear what's going on here.
Y’all please stop having kids when you’re not gonna stay with their other parent forever. This is extremely dysfunctional. How can a kid grow properly and develop properly moving from house to house every week? they can’t! This is insane. The child will never know peace. Stop being delusional thinking children growing up in homes with irresponsible parents is ever going to be a good thing. It’s not. Maybe the parents can have their lives but it’s not putting the child first. Which should’ve been done before conception and should’ve been an intentional choice.
Jj: u have 3 minutes to explain Plaintiff: speaks: 15 seconds later: Jj: wait! "NVM actually I'm just going to talk over you and tell u how it happened"
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I am a mother in law... I love my daughter in law like my own daughter! She and my son have a 6 month old little boy. They are incredibe parents and I'm there often with my grandson. My dil and I, love each other very much! We laugh and talk like best friends! I can't even understand having a battle like this with her! Shame on this woman! Even though her son and dil are getting divorced she shouldn't get in the middle of that! That's not her business!! She should stay neutral and maintain a relationship with her because at the end of the day she is the mother to her grandchild!
Im so glad Judge Judy saw through this mother and even the people in this comment section... my heart goes to this girl because I experienced the exact same thing from my mother.... The world tears you apart in traumatic ways and the one thing that should be there for you for support is family... To deal with the trauma from the world.. relationship partners... and then your own mother.... is tragic... I knew the mother was no good when the daughter said the mother invited the daughter's estranged husband to where she was living. If anyone with common sense knows, it's dangerous to do this. What if this man would've killed her.. or their child.. any real mother would never want to endager their daughter's life if you truly love and care for your daughter. The mother is bitter and unhappy and wants to exert toxic authority and torment over her daughter's life... You'll make it through. May God Bless you 🙏🏽❤️
I loved my inlaws (may they both rest in peace). In fact, my father-in-law threw hubby under the bus on an occasion or two. He was such a character. Lol.
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@@MindSetReset a lot
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Did anyone else catch the MIL say “my daughter” about her granddaughter at the end? She feels entitled to the little girl, definitely manipulative.
yup came to the comments to see if anyone else caught that.
That one comment shows her entire motivation. She is abusive and seeking power/control of the child. It’s horrifying.
Edit: I’m a mental health therapist and specialized in DV and advocate for victims who are getting orders of protection. It is RARE a judge grants a plenary order of protection, so if she got an OP for three years there was evidence.
I caught that! Damn, can you believe the defendant has to deal with that lady until she … ya know?..🫠💀
Caught that too. Sick narcissistic POS.
Yesssssssssss!!! I was like “wtf how close is she to her son” 😅
Another grown man being defended by his mother.
Ladies. When you meet a man, if his relationship with his mother is to the level where he would disrespect you to please his mother, you will never be the number one person in his life even if you have his child.
He will run to his mother when he argues with you, and she will not defend you against him.
👌 !! Exactly.
100%
mummy dearest is a real piece of crap and the son needs grow some balls !!
I remember Judy's comment to one grown son "I bet you gave him trophies for coming in 3rd!" 😂🤣
Some mothers can never let go of their sons.
@@RocketRocket-ce3ke And you need to avoid those men like the plague.
The more i see other people's mother in law the more i appreciate mine. Thank God i married someone whose mom is normal.
Same, my boyfriends mom is so sweet
Same here. I was married previously and had a miserable mother-in- law. Now I currently have the best mother-in-law a woman could ask for. She is 87 years old
Same here i have a very lovely mother in-law
Yeah because mines isn't
@@stay_low_key damn, that's rough
I've known this woman four minutes and I know for an irrefutable fact that she absolutely made that threat.
Never get involved with a mama's boy.
He’s still breastfeeding
Amen to that
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That part never get involved with a mama's boy 👏👏👏
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The fact that he is sitting down while Mommy sues his ex speaks volumes!
Right sooo pathetic!
He can’t sue his EX for hitting his Mother……….He can’t say anything unless asked………
@@GlennCarverhe doesn't have to be there
I think he's a dbag and shouldn't have allowed this case to happen, but him sitting has nothing to do with him. Judy doesn't let witnesses stand unless she's questioning them
Daughter in law is so calm and composed. She seems mature
sadly, she's tied to the plaintiff's son until their child turns 18 years old.
@@cajayson8301 that's really sad
They probably could have worked things out if his mother's mouth wasn't in their business. I just watched this episode yesterday and the defendant said he's a great father and loves his children. He said the same thing about his ex wife. I sense they still have feelings for each other, but mom probably told him to not work it out and since he's a wet noodle, he'll never have a life on his own terms.
Wet noodle 🤣🤣🤣
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Omg 😂😂😂😂😂
He is a grown man. If he can't stand up to his Mother for the sake of his child and wife then He is not a great husband or father.
The way the mom closes her eyes while making up stories is leaking deception.
I think she's been drinking.
Looks high, 😂 mamma's boy ...
Definitely a bunny boiler on her mamma's boys behalf. Hideous woman and obviously lying.
She’s a hot mess, but she closes her eyes when she talks the whole time
Some folks do that for various reasons. My mom does it to focus on what she’s saying since she receives regular medical treatment that drains her of a lot of mental energy. Idk this woman’s situation though
This grandmother is too involved and keeps referring to her granddaughter as her daughter. That says a lot.
Sandra Miller sounds like she wish she would have had a daughter.
@@marvellastewart2571who cares what she wanted? Another monster in law overstepping boundaries
She looks high to me..
I love when Judge Judy looks at her watch, and essentially says 'you better have your shit together in 3 minutes.... aaaand GO!'😅
If you look at the audience after she said that, a lady laughs at her comment lol
I just love how Judge Judy cuts through the crap!
_You have a pot stirrer mother! Want a peaceful life? Get rid of your mother!_ lol
She’s right on about that 😂
MIL is probably part of the reason they got divorced and will cause problems with any relationship the son will have. MIL has not gotten a job or had her husband collect disability in at least 2 years!
Anyone else notice the grandmother says he couldn’t have “my daughter” instead of granddaughter…?? 🤔 the grandmother needs to back off, no wonder the parents couldn’t make it work 🤦🏻♀️
IN MY VIEW
4:12 This former mother-in-law referring to the mother of her grandchild as "This Woman" shows she is a nasty mother-in-law.
Plaintiff: Crazy Karen Walking!
Must be the hair
Lmao the first thing popped in my head was the hair also
@@kellec5951 and the big ass necklace.
The son wants to grow a pair! Bloody mother in laws...
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The defendant is so much more believable and intelligent than the plaintiff.
When JJ says "you have so much time to prove you have a law suit" that means you've already lost 🤣
I went to school with Patricia & she’s as Crazy Now as she was from grade school to High school. Some people never change!
Oh really? That’s crazy! 😂 What did she do that was crazy? Just typical Karen behavior?
@@Moonie95 , She did a lot of stuff & had Karen behavior since she was a child. Even her mom as an adult had to cut her off & there was only one other child they had that was a son
Wow she looks absolutely nuts and the poor son doesn’t seem to get out of her thumb any time soon.
It’s a shame when your relationships/marriages don’t last because of your mother being a pot stirring troublemaker. I actually feel sorry for the son.
1:54 Judge Judy asks the MIL if she was served with a restraining order… she says no, her lawyer served it to her. 😑🙄
I feel like the son understands his mommy is a pain in the behind but he doesn’t say anything because she will guilt trip him
The husband & wife sound very humble and mature towards each other even though they are separated. He looks like a real nice guy and I’m sure one day he will become a lovely veterinarian too
I think he meant he is a war vet…
@@PrettyMiyaw19159 Ah ok. Thank you for telling me that. When he said vet I assumed veterinarian
@@Sara.Rose. that’s alright! 👍🏼
Love seeing how Judge Judy adjudicate cases!
So glad I don't have a mother-in-law.
Praise be.
My husband was and is a mama's boy. I did have some struggles, but she helped me raise our sons and feel blessed now that she is part of our lives.
Sometime it's all about everyone involved to just do the right things for kids.
And a deadbeat husband.
My MIL died before I met her son. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. 😇❤️🤣
My mom has threatened three people that I know of to stab them. Two were my Father and brother. The other is more recently,, this person being her roommate in long term care. She claimed that my father and brother lied. They got a 2 year restraining order, helps that he had it on the answering machine. Yes she left the threat on the answerin machine and didn't bother to show up to court. She still says it's not true
Is she in long-term care because of dementia or a physical disability? If it’s dementia/mental problems, I have a theory about that.
@@dianagarrison9218 Story I got was she fell at home, she was a hoarder. The reason the doctor gave was her apparent inability to take care of herself. She's now been diagnosed with Dementia according to the nurse.
I’ve thought about this a lot - that lying eventually drives us crazy and/or makes our brains atrophy into dementia.
Not that it’s the only reason for crazy or dementia, but one reason. I wonder to what degree these problems could improve if we “truthed” more.
Does lying injure our brains?
That's what a really entitled person does...thinks they are even entitled to rewrite the facts of a narrative, that it's a given. Sounds like uber power/control and narcissistic traits. Very toxic.
2:18- the girl's face in the background is hilarious.
👍 that girl in the back is saying, ' yep! You're guilty 😃
"You have three minutes to tell me what the problem is and tell me why you think you have a lawsuit" Lol JJ is always so savage.
I feel so sorry for the father in this case. His mother is calculating, rude, self-centered. He has to endure her ways every single day.
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probably a mama's boy if his mother is living in his house at that age
I don’t feel sorry for him at all, he puts up with it
@@lesleyd1987 for some ppl, especially if their mother, friend, or spouse is manipulative, have a hard time leaving.
He doesn't have to endure anything if his grown ass doesn't want to.
You can see the crazy on the mother in law’s face.
I feel so sorry for the son and grandchildren having to deal with his mother. She’s dreadful. Just dreadful.
I can't feel sorry for him. He needs to get a backbone and put his foot down when it comes to his domineering mother
The woman in the audience behind the plaintiff (to the left) is having the time of her life :D
Poor son...he should just ask his mom to open her handbag and give him back his testicles
A lesson to grandmothers how to know your place.
Sometimes I watch just to see the woman behind the defendant. She has been in the audience for years and is so beautiful.
Judge is my hero and angel of light.
Grandmommie Dearest needs professional help.
The dude mother 100% threatened to stab her.
Grandma looks scary I’ll stay away 😆
2:32 JJ: "She filed an application alleging that you threatened her."
Plaintiff: "Alleging".
No shit, Sherlock. That's what JJ said.
😂💀
WITCH can’t stop BARKING :)
HE NEEDS TO GROW A PAIR...LETTING HIS MOMMY SPEAK FOR HIM ..😠
AMEN!!!
It’s her case… not his 🙄
What a joke the plaintiff is 🤦🏾♀️
Everyone...as you start dating a man...pay attention to their relationship with their mother. If he's a momma's boy. End it right there and then. Trust me on that.
I’ve watched this case at least four times. Pot-stirrer!
The mother in law is the epitome of a KAREN.
That grandmother needs to be quiet!
That woman is a complete nightmare!
Lawd he is a mama boy, girl don't get back with him
Mother in law looks like real life karen
U can tell the plaintiff runs her son's life
Ya think? 😂
It would appear that the mom/MIL was the cause of their breakup and divorce. The guy needs to grow a pair.
Mother in law should brush her hair lol
The guys mother's downturned mouth shows how miserable and bitter she is, and it seems like she's put in quite a few years
Something about mommy taking her daughter in law to court,,,,while sonny boy sits behind her.
after watching part 2, 0:01 speaks volumes
The girl in the background (on the left with the glasses) is all of us😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
The wife seems very calm and reasonable I don't see her being a problem at all. And mom in law seems super uptight and defensive so.... Pretty clear what's going on here.
I love my daughter in law, they've been divorced 12 yrs, and we still text, pm, and she has came and visit me.
Former Husband looks guilty from the beginning 😂
Y’all please stop having kids when you’re not gonna stay with their other parent forever. This is extremely dysfunctional. How can a kid grow properly and develop properly moving from house to house every week? they can’t! This is insane. The child will never know peace. Stop being delusional thinking children growing up in homes with irresponsible parents is ever going to be a good thing. It’s not. Maybe the parents can have their lives but it’s not putting the child first. Which should’ve been done before conception and should’ve been an intentional choice.
I see the mother in law wearing all that jewelry and mussed up hair and instantly doubt everything she says.
Who needs enemies when you have family
Even before the gm spoke I knew that she did it.
Interesting how they divorced and the mom moved in. Mom’s a gold digger lol
Prob moved in to supersede any wife/s o role (in her own eyes).
Jj: u have 3 minutes to explain
Plaintiff: speaks: 15 seconds later:
Jj: wait! "NVM actually I'm just going to talk over you and tell u how it happened"
Just say “no” to mama’s boys.
This is my favorite judge Judy case..
Mom is crazy. Period!!! Moving on!
I think he still loves her.
Def is lucky to get away from him
EX Mother in law needs to step back big time…And Father?….Get a back bone
NEVEF EVER GET INVOLVED WITH A MAMA'S "BOY" its in the phrase "BOY" because thats EXACTLY what he is, not a grown man at all....
The grandmother is definitely an issue she just called her granddaughter my daughter.
Look at the mother law look she's crazy and manipulative no relationship will wrk with she around.
0:33 Her other grandchild is far away… I wonder why 🤔 I’m kidding 🤣
but seriously that MIL looks TOXIC.
Mommas boy. If any man has to hide behind his mothers skirts , run like hell!
Jail please
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Grandparents these days are insane.
I can see why the other family lives in Georgia!
I know this woman’s other granddaughter. The reason the granddaughter lives here in Georgia is because she wants nothing to do with the woman.
How close does she want to be to her “son” where she actually calls her granddaughter her “daughter”?
Right?! She certainly seems to think she is!
I am a mother in law... I love my daughter in law like my own daughter! She and my son have a 6 month old little boy. They are incredibe parents and I'm there often with my grandson. My dil and I, love each other very much! We laugh and talk like best friends! I can't even understand having a battle like this with her! Shame on this woman! Even though her son and dil are getting divorced she shouldn't get in the middle of that! That's not her business!! She should stay neutral and maintain a relationship with her because at the end of the day she is the mother to her grandchild!
I have a pet peeve of people saying "correct" instead of "Yes" ugh Idk why that bothers me so much. I digress back to the case.
I keep a photo of my mother on the mantelpiece...it keeps the kids away from the fire...😂
It's a shame that the children are the ones to suffer
Mother in law looks cray cray, weird
The mom needs a brush…my GOD!
Im so glad Judge Judy saw through this mother and even the people in this comment section... my heart goes to this girl because I experienced the exact same thing from my mother....
The world tears you apart in traumatic ways and the one thing that should be there for you for support is family...
To deal with the trauma from the world.. relationship partners... and then your own mother.... is tragic...
I knew the mother was no good when the daughter said the mother invited the daughter's estranged husband to where she was living.
If anyone with common sense knows, it's dangerous to do this. What if this man would've killed her.. or their child.. any real mother would never want to endager their daughter's life if you truly love and care for your daughter.
The mother is bitter and unhappy and wants to exert toxic authority and torment over her daughter's life...
You'll make it through. May God Bless you 🙏🏽❤️
I loved my inlaws (may they both rest in peace). In fact, my father-in-law threw hubby under the bus on an occasion or two. He was such a character. Lol.
Mine too! They both passed on, but I would have kept my in-laws after the divorce if I could have 😂
She’s lying she’s blinking continuously lol
My mother in-law is FAR from normal, but she's a hell of a lot closer than this circus act
Plaintiff looks like an art teacher😅
Get over it, learn to get along (you don’t have to be friends) and move on, do it for the child!
She’s a pot stirra’(in her NY accent) LOL!
The mother of that other grandchild probably fled to Georgia in order to get away from her
She said my daughter twice
Why do grown women behave like teenagers… like grow up