My father stopped talking to me after I walked out of my toxic marriage | Tuko TV
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- Опубликовано: 13 фев 2022
- Ann Bilha Wahome says her husband was chatting and flirting with several women during their wedding. It's a nightmare for every woman out there. Then on their honeymoon he lied to one of the side chics that his wife was "just a colleague". The mother of one soon saw cracks in her marriage and shortly after she had to act on it to maintain her sanity. She speaks to Yvonne Kawira about what her experiences have taught her. And how this has shaped her perception of marriage in the future.
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Bilha my namesake your are too beautiful it's well with you gal.
How do you go on to marry a man with all this!? Sometimes women are too blame. Were you marrying the mother or sisters? It's important to walk out early than later because it will hurt more. You can't manipulate a man into love/marriage. It will never work🤧
@@joanmiksabel3598 Huyu dada alikuwa amependa kweli ..wish Sisi tungepewa Wazuri ka yeye.
@@peterlonyait4101 boss! One thing I know, men are hunters naturally. When a woman takes that role, he looses interest and goes for others. When they started having problems and she kept running to his mother, that was wrong. No man appreciates that, and none can be forced into loving you. This behaviour pushed him further away.
Wow !!! It was way too open that the man had no feelings for this lady , in kikuyu culture a man’s mother can’t call the son’s girlfriend to meet without the son’s introduction .
Parents! Parents! Parents! , welcome your daughters back from broken marriage and advise them that is not the end of life than waiting to see her in a coffin or with wounds and pain. A woman saying one day enough is enough that is the end of her pain as she walks away . Promise you no other day you will never hear and see her again 🔙
After kuvumilia sana na kuishiwa na kila kitu.....alileta another woman na kunifukuza....😥🥲😭
Thanks to my parents they welcomed me back... parents please give your children that should to lean on 🙏.. please
The stigma is really i was there once they blame the ladies but I owe nobody an apology for the decisions i made am so proud of myself
@@sarahnyokabisallitah lol, good, but that's no license that you shouldn't look well before going into another one. 'Return to sender' is not a good stigma as well.
@@sarahnyokabisallitah I am thankful my mother welcomed me back home.
I just need to hug this lady for like five minutes. She needs a shoulder to cry on.
The interviewer is doing it right. Giving a listening ear. Keep it up
Thank you so much
Yes, without too much interjection.
Very true
May God have mercy upon you Anne
That’s right
🤣🤣 looking back I just laugh . I had this toxic X ! weeh . He was asked who is she ? He said "just a friend." Then after 1 year 6 months dating , I called it quits . 3 days later he had gotten another lady pregnant. 🤣Weeh ! Ogopa wanaume ! Years later he still regrets the decisions he made. I am now happily married and outside Kenya .
Waoooooo 👏
Wow that nyc God has a purpose for everone
My experience with an ex is the funniest; he told his girlfriend I’m his landlord (he lives in my servants quarter)!
@@nahyialetomia9284 😅😅hiyo ni kali
@@wambui185, imagine! He told the gf that I’m married to some man from Nyeri and had two kids. The girl called me, after some time she had a son with him too. We both later struggled as single mothers😛
Let's cut down this habit of raising broken children in the name of keeping marriages.
True
One red flag is when a mother to a boyfriend really puts you close n pushes you to marry the son. In most cases the mother covers bad behaviour of son and just uses you to tame him.
THIS IS SO TRUE 💯. Been a victim of it but lucky enough I called off the wedding 2weeks before. The mother has tried witchcraft on me and all kind of things but when you trust God and make him the center of it all he wins the battle for you.
Weh, you're so right🎯🎯! Was almost getting into such a mix. But who is God who revealed his true character and got me out of it
@@NazarofGod If God be on our side who can be against us
I second you,my marriage ilikuwa hivyo
This is true 💯 percent
Coz they know their useless sons will be zombies and wrecks if you leave them. Know it too well.
Darling, be strong and all will be well,I chose the wrong person twice but I left everything to God's hand and I was blessed with the right person and my wedding is next month,take your time and you will be fine...
Do you have kids pls? If u have then you are twice lucky....all the best in your wedding...u deserve happiness...
you deserve it swty
Wish u success after the wedding. From stories all over, it seems all hell breaks loose after the wedding.
Very nice
She is at peace with her ex husband but for her father thats where her heart is broken in pieces
The interviewer is a qualified counselor. Good listening skills,and there for for the client
I have a friend who went through a similar situation. Too many red flags, everything just went wrong after wrong after wrong.
May God heal her and restore her relationship with her father.
Ooh I see😥🙏❤️
I know what it feels to be rejected by a father.
God is more than a father
I want to believe there's no tear a person will shed because of someone else and go unpunished. Take heart, let God take control.. He won't embarass you
She's crying because of the dad.
Wedding can not hold a man.
@Mrs Inziani Mwambie..sometimes huwa hawakui punished 😂😂😂
Very very true
Amen
If you witness an accident, you'll realize that some victims are screaming for help, ignore them , give priority to the one that is silent, they are the most hurting......your father's love for you is deep
Thankyou for giving me a platform to encourage someone going through the same
Thanks for coming over to our channel
We appreciate you
TUKO family let's support this girl's channel too. She super blessed.
Take heart dear. I feel the pain.
You are young and beautiful. Love yourself more, cry, let go. Better now than later. God has something greater and better for you. Keep the faith , trust God. You will look back one day and thank God for getting you out.
you're a strong, beautiful woman
You're a strong woman.
Never put a wedding ahead of a man's personality and character. Most ladies believe a wedding is everything.
Ever been on her shoes take heart bilha
Ever been on her shoes take heart bilha
True because they concentrate more on public image. Friends, neighbours and Family.
It's due to societal pressure
We are losing Christianity wedding is good, despite all challenges, problems will never end, more aee coming
Hugs from your villagemate. Really loved your mum, my teacher. Thanks for sharing your story. Surely marriage is not a ticket to heaven!
This lady's story has touched my heart because I also wedded weeks before her and the day she wedded is the I was coming from honeymoon but my marriage ended on 28th September 2020 because of my Ex-wife was cheating on me with a matatu driver, it affected me to a point where I distant myself from God and wanted to revenge but God has a way of ya kurudisha mtoto kwa laini, now I am healed and my relationship with God is do tight than with any human being and I will serve Him till my last breath because He rescued me from the wrong marriage.
Sorry. Glad God saw you through
Hugs
@@sharonmbithe74 Thanks.
@@felicityncube1007 Thanks
My ex husband started abusing me from our honeymoon last year. I left him just after 4 months of marriage because it was too toxic for me. I had to save myself from verbal,emotional and physical abuse.
Tuko always remember to have with you serviettes or wipes for the guests. It doesn't look good when the guest is in tears and you can't provide.
That's why we love linny
True
True
And Lnny always provides
@@marthashimwaka5853 what do mean this is not Lynn know how to talk on people's platforms
I'm more angry with the dad ,than the ex-husband.
Me too so sad
Same
True
😁
Sure
Tuko pls tupatieni story zingine sio broken marriages only, ladies huku nje hata wameogopa kuolewa.
😂😂😂kama mm hapa
Good intro Yvonne, good work. Let the grind roll
I love weddings but hearing things people go through in the name of weddings gives me chills....
hahaha weddings are overrated
It gives me chills too
Same wueeh
Don’t cry over a fool who doesn’t respect or care about you.
Crying heals
Yes... That is what I have learnt with time
I have viewed many of search stories & I have noted something common, "the guy looked handsome" my kind advice to ladies, appearance will never matter if it does not correspond with a right character... Check out for the right virtues & values of the person.... its like choosing a beautiful cup & not minding if its content is poisonous or healthy, the content in the cup is what that matters the most , the beautiful cup should comes as an added advantage … another thing marriage is not a product of society, so never mind what people will say, if you are in a messed up marriage just exit, time is irreversible, the only treasure that you should not let any one waste is your time.... most times after exit you'll find peace, so my dear sisters just move & never look back. God will restore & make you shine...Isaiah 60:1-2
Well said brother...
We are visual creatures and nothing wrong with noticing the outer beauty. You meet the face first before you meet their character. Unless you are on common ground and ovlbserve them all the time. It's upon you to get to know the person beyond the physical appearances. Again we all have our tastes and yes all those her/his smile,his/her body looks good are okay to look out for.
Handsome is relative to everyone
You seem right👏
You were a beautiful bride,please dnt cry....Lakini what kind of man was that🥺🥺
A parent stands by his/her child no matter what....that father needs to talk to his daughter
My mother did not speak with me after my divorce. She died in 2020 before she could. I basically lost my mom 2yrs before her death
It depends with the child some children they dont listen to parents
Nothing hurts than knowing the person you love is cheating on you,this is the reason why i fear getting married or being in a relationship
Overcome that fear My Sister
😭painful
Am not alone I fear relationship alot
Talk to God, He is faithful, He will give you your husband
Painful 😭😭
I am so sorry for what this lady has gone through. In future it would also be nice to watch positive stories of good marriages so we can also see that it is possible. I am sure Kenya has such couples. These negative stories can be discouraging.
Absolutely true
True. It's become a trauma channel
Hadi mtu anakua private investigator kwa relationship
True
Eish you are so right.
Dad please listen to your daughter….she loves you
Never beg for love
I'm already crying because I'm also that girl's dad despite being married to a man that I love deeply. I really love my dad so so much
hugs mama,sometimes we go through hell to get a testimony, good things a coming your way
Hugs girl, just pray for ur dad he might also be going through Alot u know how the society judges but it reaches a time it is just u n ur God when I was in such situation I came to sing " on Christ the solid rock I stand...all the other ground is sinking sand"
As a mother with married daughters I want them to hold onto their marriages and make things work. However, if my daughter or son indicates that they are unhappy with the relationship I will drop everything to give them an ear. And yes, if all indications is that it's not working it's not working! My child's happiness is what matters even when they are sixty!
Thank u
Am sorry for everything....but on the same these are men of nowadais,you could have not leave the marriage...na kuavoid the phone ya wazee😭they are sons of jezebel...
True mama
Their were RED flags,the man said I don't want a wedding,he wanted come we stay,he left the lady plan the wedding all by herself.This guy is a narcissist.God is in control all will be well with u,atleast u left early,1yr not 20 yrs later.
Good interviewer.....
i wish you all knew way what you talking off you sooo supportive yes but come to think of her back of the story,,,y all abt the man and not of hers,wacha kumpaka tope kwenye mgongo wa chupa,atupe her blunders as well.
You're strong lady . Don't let anything pull you back. Walking out of the toxic marriage was the best decision you made for you and your girl.
Keep on holding onto prayers and your relationship with your Dad will be restored.
Woiye aki watu hupitia through alot in this life😔😔 sorry mama and if possible just cry cry it out, lia uchungu wote uishe...iknow it's not easy but God's preparing something good for you, from now onwards your life with never be the same again.
So proud of you for walking out of a marriage that was definitely a non starter. I truly hope your dad talks to you!! He should not allow someone to come between the two of you.
It's OK not to be OK.I walked out of a very toxic relationship and am doing just great!! Just cry and for you to heal and also give yourself time💝💝
We celebrate your courage to walk out of a toxic marriage Mildred.
You are a true hero.
Soo sorry dr
@@YvonneKawiraTuko thanks mum♥️
@@khadijahamisi9470 am good dear
The HOST is so gracious. I like her❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bilha! Be strong and have courage dear, your life and your daughter is very important than the life of that fool. God will lift you up and you'll live a happy life which was planned for you. Take heart.
I’m only 30 minutes into this but I love this woman! I’m praying for you and your beautiful baby girl❤️
Same here... I love her for free
The toxic marriage hurt her but the problem with her dad has devastated her. Keep going my sister. I applaude you for beiing strong and leaving before it got worse. I applaud you for looking out for your Precious Rose. Daddy if you are seeing this Fathers are very important to daughters so please reach out to your daughter.
I say a lot that love yourself first and know that life is short, be happy and live your life. Nobody knows how you feel but yourself.
It's such an emotional story,this girl has gone through so much. Yaani I can imagine what she feels aki
I feel your hurt, however I understand your Dad is hurting too because of the outcome of a daughter he treasured, he needs time to heal, just give it time, all gonna be well.
Noooooo...parents shouldn't have such expectations from their children that's why there's alot of suicide
I am so proud of you of walking away of this toxic marriage. Good on you girl. Dad where are you for your daughter. You are missing on your granddaughter . Keep your spirit on girl.
Praying for healing from above..this lady is still in pains jehovah heal you my sister. It is well girl. People go through pain to grow stronger you'll overcome all these and emerge victorious. I love you and praying for you.
The lady is beautiful 😍😍 we all make mistakes
The mother in law was caring .
They Normaly care when they know their son is useless. Ukipendwa na inlaws think twice. Ujue that son is a problem u will live with. They will do anything to ensure u stay with him juu no one else will.
@@terryray3147 sad truth 😭😭😭😭😭
Hugs mummy....this gal is soo cute 🥰🥰she deserves a good person.....all will be well kui...trust God ...it's painful but dad will come back to his senses soon woiye 😭,.....
This is very painful. Hugs and ❤️ to this lady.
The man gave her all the red flags before the wedding but she still went on with it. When will women stop compromising with wrong men all because they want to be married. Marriage is not a life achievement and no man can make you happy if you can't make yourself happy.
I know another female like that. They already had 2 kids together. He was having sex with an old classmate of his while engaged and messing with other women. Barely 1 year after their wedding he messing with that old classmate flame and seeking out other lose women. It will destroy her soon. She knew who this man was
True.
Amen so true,u have spoken facts n thruth🤗
😪😪true may God help us
...some situations are just soo painful. But i am glad u walked out that drama. U are such a strong lady.
The lesson I learned here I will never force relationship weeee huyu aliforce everything had wedding but sory for tht without challenge huez kua strong.
I like how you conduct your interviews Ivonne. Doing an amazing job. Keep it up
Thank you so much. I truly appreciate your support.
@@YvonneKawiraTuko
Hey great Job.Kindly be carrying or providing Tissues for emotional moments.😊
@@consolataogola976 okay I will. Asante
You are bold that was so nice of you getting out, you will heal with time dad will come around maybe he is still coming to terms with this.i love your strength and you're so hardworking keep going.
Men are able to read other men. Your father knew and he knows what you went through and he is hurting...his little gal was hurt. When men hurt, they stay away coz if the anger build up, they might do something they will regret. Give your dad time to calm down.
Marry for happiness n not desparation
Kabisa.the man was not in love frm the word go
Yvonne you are growing as an interviewer good job keep it up.
Yes she gvs space for the whole story
Aaaaaw darling!!!
I was part of your wedding doing decorations!!
You are the most strongest person i know! Hugs love!
Gal, I understand your position. I personally was born a mistake!! At least this is what my mother kept communicating to me both in words and actions. That hardened me from childhood where I knew so early that in this world, no-one is there for me. I grew up used to the fact that I am not loved. I have worked so hard to reach where iam. I have never known anything like a father figure in my life!!!!
God calls you previous in His sight.
Fearfully and wonderfully made.
The Apple of His eye.
He loves you with an everlasting love.
You are worthy of love and shame on those who didn't see your worth.
Toxic marriages have become the norm for most of the involved. And they injure the victim and the children mostly. Getting out is the best option because there’s no rehearsal in life and don’t think about what others think and say. It’s all about you the individual. Perseverance only hurts you and makes you a prisoner.
Hi, it's not the end, keep your head up. You fallen twice, collect yourself, take time to reflect, rise up the future a head looks bright!
It's soo emotional, may God give you happiness girl. Actually have cried Kui. All the best dear girl
I remember when broke up a courtship in 2020 on basis of character defects, I gathered courage and went home in person to explain it to mum and dad that the most anticipated wedding was not coming forth!!! It was hard yes, but my parents understood me!!! I have seen enough bad marriages to sign up for one in the broad daylight!! I am a daughter in that home and not a single day can I be denied access!! Some actions require boldness... Bring them to speed and let them understand why you made that decision
Mom I can feel you,
Thank you for sharing your story it has been a great lesson
God bless you more
Go strong mammy, believe that one day those who rejected you ,those who ignored you, will come back for your help. Let love lead in the body of Christ..Pray and leave the rest to God.
Dad plis talk to your daughter. She needs you today more than never.
Say no to toxic relationship. Let God take the wheel of your life gal
Bilha you made a bold move ... Not everyone is able to do it ..
May the Lord see you through
Ooh we trending like alot lately tuko... killing it💞💞💞
I feel for you baby girl ❤️....I'm scared of weddings
Lady, you are beautiful and I believe there are good days ahead. You deserve a better person that's why that didn't work.
Sorry for what you went through, may God journey with you and give you the best out of the worst you may have gone through.
My daughter is my strength too , through going out of toxic marriage,finally am at peace ✌
Just pray for your dad that God touches his heart.
Toxic marriages, toxic relationships.. marriage seems to be a scary institution...
It's cheaters who complicate it it's supposed to be a sweet thing
I have no words to say let me pray that your father may know what you are passing through ,my dear God will bless you take courage,you are awoman of destiny
Pole Anne....your relationship with dad will be restored. Please take heart, God is with you....Haki pole
😭😭😭😭😭 I found myself in tears 😭 aki watu are so heartless....Bilha don't worry your future is great don't worry about that ex husband .
This has broken my heart 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔 you will find solace baby gal
Parents break hearts too but nobody's ready for this conversation....This is hurting😭😭😭😭watching this with wet eyes
Take heart girl ,God will see you through this, surrender all to HIM
God choose the right husband for me and a dad to my daughter
Amen
Really????????????
@@mercymudara7431 yeah really put your n God he will never fail you you will testify one day I'll pray for u..
Amen
Amen
Mow you are wiser. Thank God hukupata mtoi mwingine na ur ex.. wed
A strong lady indeed...I like her...
If he didn't appreciate your daughter he ain't worth your tears. He's a beast.
Good show Yvonne but can you kindly invest in tissues/surviettes n even a glass of water perhaps.
I agree, 💯.
This is a very important point. Thank you so much for this. I'll definitely take this into consideration.
This guy was a narcissit.
They are addicted to see,they lie, have no emotions,are manipulative in short they are demonic.
I thank God you left him.
Who will educate pple on narcissits. 👹
Get educated on narcissits and with time you will heal
Your father should also learn on narcissits and understand all about this story.😫😫
The only perfect tr Benjamin Zulu
I dated one imagine i.sent him packing Mimi.siwezi.kubali.kuzalia vinyangarika
@@lifting599 🤔😂😂😂
Sad...hope her dad watch this
Hugs gal ❤🙏
It's so heartbreaking but please TUKO bring the boy child also and even the father so that we get full and deeper truth
I feel the same let's be fair to boychild
You're a strong seeking approval from a weak man (your father) that's a toxic move. Don't chase him, he will return when he needs you..
Live your life you have your own family but never seek approval from weakness, you will leave in shame and stress.
Toxic marriages are not to go by. Just go bila kuangalia nyuma
This girl has reminded me sooo much about myself. This has hit so differently
Precious is a real blessing in your life ,,,, you are a strong woman and you deserve a happy life,,,with time God will work it for you,,,and He is preparing you for something great,,,,,,I speak life and peace of mind in you life darling......God bless
You forced that thing mama
Red flags all over. You forced yourself on this man! May God bless your mom inlove!
Maybe she feared the dads doctrines..... She wanted a family
For sure she forced... Soooo many red flags 💔💔
Very sorry Ann Bilha, my mate back in NNP. I wish you well. Know you as a strong woman.