"She abandoned her children to enjoy life in the Philippines"

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  • Опубликовано: 29 май 2024
  • Who worries about the well-being of my children, don't worry, please. I promised them to come back if they missed me that much that would not be able to be without me. They have there for them, loving grandma and dad. That age children can already stay without mom for some time. When it was not possible for them I didn't leave them even for a half day.
    So interesting when I was with kids in Philippines and they father in Germany, no one person told that it is something wrong, only when I leave them for a short time and being a public person, it's like open platform to judge.
    Even if I don't find a perfect place at least I have had vacation and fulfilling my dream to sea the Philippines. of course, sometimes I'm sad thinking, oh would be nice if children also could see that, or experience. oh, how happy they would be to meet this people, try this food, or surf again. But I hope to be able bring them to the Philippines back to share all this experiences with them again ❤️🤗

Комментарии • 429

  • @johnmurata7275
    @johnmurata7275 Месяц назад +44

    I think she is a good mom. She can’t just take them out of school and pack to go to the Philippines. She already said she is bringing her kids in the Philippines it would just take time to do so. I hope you find a permanent home that you and your kids can enjoy.

  • @MetungKP
    @MetungKP Месяц назад +28

    Don’t mind the haters. Haters are going to hate. They are just jealous. Your videos showed how good of a mother you are. Enjoy!

  • @drexie45
    @drexie45 Месяц назад +40

    Why mind them? Go and enjoy, life is so short. Don't be stressed by the negative people.

  • @switzerlandandthephilippines
    @switzerlandandthephilippines Месяц назад +15

    We are so sad to hear that dear Jelena 😪 It is hard to be a vlogger. You only see about 5% of a person's life here on RUclips. Watching a RUclips channel doesn't mean you know a person. Unfortunately, viewers just judge. That's mean. Stay strong. God bless you richly dear Jelena 🙏🏼❤️

  • @MrTabo2023
    @MrTabo2023 Месяц назад +80

    I understand why you are in the Philippines. Don't let these naysayers get to you. These folks are quick to judge when they should mind their own business. In Filipino culture it is called Chismosa (female) or Chismoso(male). Live your life and grow the channel. This is kinda like your job now. You are a RUclips personality now.

    • @effu9375
      @effu9375 Месяц назад +3

      Or...maritess

    • @MrDac0964
      @MrDac0964 Месяц назад +7

      Oo nga parang OFW lang si Jelena, pabaliktad nga lang kumpara sa mga pinoys na OFW na iniiwan din mga anak at pamilya para kumita.

    • @libra7765
      @libra7765 Месяц назад +1

      Agree

    • @warayph
      @warayph Месяц назад +8

      Crab mentality yan. Keep on singing Tagalog and Visayan songs! Your kids will be fine. ❤

    • @scoobydoobap68
      @scoobydoobap68 Месяц назад

      stilaan

  • @wagkangiiyak7710
    @wagkangiiyak7710 Месяц назад +29

    Dont welcome any negative comments. They dont know the meaning of happiness.❤❤❤

  • @frederickvillarino7114
    @frederickvillarino7114 Месяц назад +14

    Don't pay attention to those who tell you that you are a bad mother, they have no honesty to judge you because it is your life, enjoy the life where you are happy, we will support you because we love you and you remain in our hearts❤❤❤🇵🇭

  • @rolandoalmonte8759
    @rolandoalmonte8759 Месяц назад +16

    Enjoy life here in the Philippines but always remember your children to bring them and and enjoy every single day in the Philippines so that your whole family could be happy.

  • @concepciongabito883
    @concepciongabito883 Месяц назад +10

    Hello jelena dont mind the negative your supporters understand you and your situation. You have a purpose when you went to the phil so keep going enjoy keep vlogging more vlog more fun more income we can support you by always watching your videos without skipping ads take care...

  • @rubendizon4194
    @rubendizon4194 Месяц назад +16

    No need to explain further Jelena, as you said your kids are fine with your family . Enjoy your vacation 😊

  • @mytutay878
    @mytutay878 Месяц назад +10

    Just enjoy. Good luck finding the perfect place for your kids

  • @user-pl7ty1yc7z
    @user-pl7ty1yc7z Месяц назад +9

    You’ve made the right decision. You are also entitled to enjoy life. Your kids are taken care of very well by their grandma and dad. Don’t mind negative people. There will aways be people that are jealous of you and make you feel bad. I will always support your channel because you are a beautiful, kind and lovely person. Good luck on your search!👍🏼❤️

  • @nenethantonio9077
    @nenethantonio9077 Месяц назад +14

    Abandoned is different from left for a while to look a place and work for settling. Just go your plan and don't mind negative vibes.

    • @estelanicolas7536
      @estelanicolas7536 Месяц назад

      There are people who think they know what is good for everybody. You have your own problems that only you can navigate.Dont mind these busy- bodies who have nothing positive to offer.

    • @FOX090270
      @FOX090270 Месяц назад

      Agree

  • @luislegamia150
    @luislegamia150 Месяц назад +12

    Its..okay atleast your kids they are in a good hands they are safe.with your parents.i know you have plan to moving here in philippines with your kids...god bless you jelena❤😊

  • @edgardogigante7567
    @edgardogigante7567 Месяц назад +11

    Live life to the fullest don’t mind the negativity as long as you prioritize your kids.

  • @SimpleLife-Cooking123
    @SimpleLife-Cooking123 Месяц назад +11

    enjoy life my friend --- time for yourself and time for your kids is in you.

  • @ronniealanquinial783
    @ronniealanquinial783 26 дней назад

    Your promoting the Philippines, thank you for that, we will support you all the way

  • @FOX090270
    @FOX090270 Месяц назад +7

    You don't need to explain to other people who don't understand, you have your reason and I'm sure it's for your good and the good of your children. Don't mind those bad comments.enjoy your stay.we love you Jelena ❤🎉😊

  • @maryanneisma3005
    @maryanneisma3005 Месяц назад +9

    Just enjoy go to the fullest joy because life is to short ignore the bitter and crab mental people ❤❤❤ watching love from Hongkong

  • @danilo07241974
    @danilo07241974 2 дня назад

    I think your stay in the Philippines is paying off. You look younger now than the first time I watched you. You deserved alone time and what a better way to spend it exploring our beautiful country! Keep it up Jelena!

  • @b28ben
    @b28ben Месяц назад +9

    Enjoy your life jelena ignore the haters

  • @tisay103
    @tisay103 Месяц назад +3

    Jelena, i know what you're going through, that's why we're here to support you. ❤

  • @user-cm4id3de8o
    @user-cm4id3de8o Месяц назад +5

    Well explained yeah just enjoy life and promote a place to be a tourism someday.

  • @RaulSubido-vo8ub
    @RaulSubido-vo8ub Месяц назад +3

    How beautiful you and your kids together enjoying here in Philippines, that's great 👍😃

  • @dejesussantiago2516
    @dejesussantiago2516 Месяц назад +6

    Over Acting bashers... That's not true.... Keep doing your stuff... ENJOY YOUR TIME... YOU DESERVE IT... Don't mind them..❤

  • @leapdrive
    @leapdrive Месяц назад +1

    Yes Jalena, I see your point of view, and hopefully you get to at least 300 thousand subscribers so you can earn more. That would be a good time to move your kids to the Philippines. The timing will be better too because they will be older and won’t need close supervision like you used to do.

  • @stevehoukol4280
    @stevehoukol4280 7 дней назад

    I support you 100% in anyway you want please enjoy your life we only live once god bless you

  • @GT-gh9qw
    @GT-gh9qw Месяц назад +2

    Don’t worry about what people think!! Be happy,live your life, your kids are with their Daddy and your mom is also helping you out!! You’re a wonderful mom!

  • @joelmonsalud4613
    @joelmonsalud4613 Месяц назад +17

    Samal is a good place. No storm and simple living and less expensive.

    • @xinhi1447
      @xinhi1447 Месяц назад

      She can find good schools in Davao City that she dont know about. Besides its cheaper there and life is not fast paced. Not so much tourists, but she has options if she doesnt want to live anymore in Davao. Moreso, not affected by storms typhoons etc than in other areas in Phil.

  • @jerryigalcioi8935
    @jerryigalcioi8935 Месяц назад

    yeah..i hope they got it now😊❤congratz 123&counting😂❤

  • @briancinco5818
    @briancinco5818 Месяц назад +4

    You are a truly now affect by Filipina hearth it's normal to us to leave our own country (OFW) to seek for a better future for our Family and there's no different for your dreams to give a better future and happiness for your Kids.

  • @ardendavid5515
    @ardendavid5515 Месяц назад

    Thats ok Jelena were here for you!! more power!!😇😇

  • @bertlacatan1620
    @bertlacatan1620 Месяц назад +2

    She never abandoned her kids. In fact she came back here in the Philippines to look for a suitable place for her and her kids.

  • @mprincessgomez05
    @mprincessgomez05 Месяц назад +2

    You deserve a time alone now 😊 the kids i know is happy for you 😊

  • @Mydkc
    @Mydkc Месяц назад +1

    Jelena!!!❤❤ We love you and your children❤❤ we know what is in your heart, to find a good place for your beautiful kids!! ❤❤❤Stay Positive!!!❤❤

  • @PhilippinesMyParadise
    @PhilippinesMyParadise Месяц назад

    Live the way you want, not the way someone else want you to live. Another great video! Full support & Best regards/Ned 👍👏👍

  • @jgrb235
    @jgrb235 28 дней назад

    You're okay Jelena. Just do what you like best for your life. I admire your strength. You've got the best smile in youtube .

  • @nestorb.vicente3881
    @nestorb.vicente3881 Месяц назад

    Hello & Hi Jelina!!! Enjoy your vacation !!!

  • @lhyneapura7370
    @lhyneapura7370 Месяц назад

    Hello Ms. Jelena, go.go.go..Don't mind the negative comments, they don't know about ur story..I know ur a good mother to ur kids..just enjoy and God bless 🙏❤️

  • @rakel1544
    @rakel1544 Месяц назад +1

    Eversince I understood your reason, Jelena. You did mention it in your previous vlogs. It was a touching content. You're a good person and the awesomest MOM to your kids. PS., all comments I read from Barbie Island vlog is.. Wow, that's Jelena. You're so famous.🎉

  • @Blueski78
    @Blueski78 Месяц назад +2

    Dont mind them, and pls.forgive them Miss Jelena 🙏they dont know your situation they must ask first before they judges you. Just enjoy your vacation in the Philippines and keep safe.

  • @mariateresaperalta1936
    @mariateresaperalta1936 Месяц назад

    continue being a cool Mom - children will appreciate your being that way later...live the life you think is best for you and the kids in the future😊

  • @mariateresaperalta1936
    @mariateresaperalta1936 Месяц назад

    thank you for appreciating Philippines, just so elating...thank you😊

  • @robarose9138
    @robarose9138 Месяц назад

    You are a good mom , dont worry about it we love you

  • @heideetoreras8199
    @heideetoreras8199 Месяц назад

    Don’t mind them Ms Jelena.. we’re always here to support you💕

  • @MarifelFrez
    @MarifelFrez Месяц назад

    You are a good mom! And you’re the only one that knows what is best for your kids. We all make sacrifices in life and this things do happen where one parent is separated from their kids to look for a better life and opportunities or choice of life environment. At least your kids dad is there and your mom too and I’m sure you always call them or FaceTime them. I agree with you, I would rather go back to PI the second time around without my kids , I don’t want to disrupt their education at this time while I try to find the right place for me and my kids too. As long as you have their approval too and support and give
    yourself a timeframe. I reckon they also like to live in the Philippines? - if so, do what you have to do and I support you all the way and I wish you the best
    always! I’m a single mom too so I understand where you’re coming from and saludo to your mom and family for supporting you to your difficult decision you made.

  • @mariageorge6961
    @mariageorge6961 Месяц назад +1

    The people who are saying negative comments about your vacation in the Philippines are shallow minded people. Please enjoy your vacation and remember, you are an awesome mother to your children!❤️

  • @antoniodayandayan3867
    @antoniodayandayan3867 Месяц назад +4

    mind your own play ground guys, thats personal matter.go ahead Jolina

  • @darrylgrigg3264
    @darrylgrigg3264 Месяц назад

    I am glad you raised this topic. As a former non-custodial parent in Australia, I am fully aware of the issues which can arise when a custodial parent seeks to move with his/her children to a location which effectively prevents access visits. Sometimes it can be fought out in court. I cannot judge your situation as I do not know and am not entitled to know the details of your private life. All I ask is that the children`s father`s interests are fully considered before deciding to move countries. Wish you the best in your future endeavours.

  • @joeldelrosario3658
    @joeldelrosario3658 29 дней назад

    You have a beautiful heart inside. Abandoning your children would never be the result of your behavior, that I am sure of.

  • @natherdonsuarez5492
    @natherdonsuarez5492 28 дней назад

    Keep on going what you think is right. Be happy and be strong. GOD BE WITH YOU AND TAKE CARE.

  • @marichutesado180
    @marichutesado180 Месяц назад +2

    What u think and do for yourself as single mom is what impt than what others think of u. Keep doing what is best and pleases u and settle after you've chosen the most livable peaceful place for your children.

  • @user-gb6wc8nx4p
    @user-gb6wc8nx4p Месяц назад

    We admire the fact that you learned to love our country, the Philippines! Sometimes we have to make sacrifices, but sooner or later, it will all be fine!

  • @t2dev
    @t2dev Месяц назад

    It never ever crossed my mind. Ignore the haters. I know you didn't abandon them. Keep doing what you're doing. You and the kids look happy. Have fun.

  • @user-vn2gm7pm5f
    @user-vn2gm7pm5f Месяц назад +2

    Mind them God bless you always and have a nice day keep safe always 🙏

  • @maritestumarao5810
    @maritestumarao5810 Месяц назад +1

    I am a single mother too, believe me, those who criticised you for being a bad mother because you’re enjoying and taking your time off for yourself having fun and relaxing with friends are simply ignorant and jealous! Having kids in the Philippines has a great deal of differences than in Europe, in the Philippines you have family members or friends that could look after your kids, however, in Europe you’re on your own. It’s a different culture and different ways of living! Just don’t mind them, live your life to the fullest possible and recharge your energy, HAVE FUN AND NO STRESS 😎 kids will understand that you’ve been there literally with them ever since they were born!

  • @Agr508
    @Agr508 Месяц назад

    The force be with you, Jelena! 😊

  • @joelmonkley6177
    @joelmonkley6177 Месяц назад

    Your a great mother don't worry about what others say the kids will join you soon enough ❤ Let God judge you he knows your heart 💖💯

  • @susansabino5942
    @susansabino5942 Месяц назад

    Enjoy life jelena,hope you can have what your looking for,okay im with you

  • @DennisUlla
    @DennisUlla Месяц назад

    For me You are a great mother.❤❤❤

  • @MrJFC
    @MrJFC 29 дней назад +1

    Thanks!

    • @MsJelena
      @MsJelena  29 дней назад +1

      Thank you 🤗❤️

  • @susanmayohack2891
    @susanmayohack2891 Месяц назад

    Lola and thier dad take care of the kids ..Don’t mind those gossipers ..they got jealous b coz ur Channel is growing..yeyyy
    Keep vlogging and save money.We are here to support u always.
    Ok take care keep safe always🙏

  • @artemioduenas3906
    @artemioduenas3906 Месяц назад

    Stay strong beautiful Jelena just focus your vlog, that's life sometime people judging outside appearances, they don't understand of other, why you do good for the sake your kids, that you want to be free and find freedom here in the Philippines that make you plan happy; with your kids, God bless you.

  • @raymundopalomar7555
    @raymundopalomar7555 Месяц назад

    Jelena I think your decision is right temporarily your kids with your mom. Really it's hard to travel with your children. Enjoy 👍👍❤️

  • @albertquiroz9189
    @albertquiroz9189 17 дней назад

    I understand you Jelena my friend, ignore the other comments, continue your work, remember my friend the lord bless you. Continue your work vlog. God bless you. My friend.

  • @augustolucero7684
    @augustolucero7684 Месяц назад

    Don't worry about the negative comments. Those who've been following you knows what you're doing. But it's good that you explained it to the new viewers. You have lots of supporters. ❤

  • @FilCanGil
    @FilCanGil Месяц назад +1

    Your kids can now spend some quality time with their Dad. You’ve worked very hard taking care of them and now it’s his turn to step up…….you deserve to have some rest and relaxation also. Ignore the haters and enjoy your vacation💪🏼🙏🏼

    • @MsJelena
      @MsJelena  Месяц назад +1

      🙏♥️🥰

  • @dorothygarcia8102
    @dorothygarcia8102 Месяц назад

    Ignore all that toxic people who comments on your RUclips they are toxic to you godbless jelena I don’t think so that you are a bad mother you’re a great mom ❤

  • @JamesGilas
    @JamesGilas Месяц назад

    Watching 😊

  • @mariavictoriafrancisco8172
    @mariavictoriafrancisco8172 Месяц назад

    Enjoy your vacation. You did the right thing….in time all will fall into place. You can always video call your kids to remind them mommy always love them. I pray for the day when you and your children can be together again here in the Philippines🇸🇽 🇷🇺 Thank you for loving our country.🤗

  • @Kunsansan
    @Kunsansan Месяц назад

    Keep going, Jelena. 💪

  • @ainsinluzonmindanaovlog
    @ainsinluzonmindanaovlog Месяц назад +3

    Just be yourself..no need to explain.

  • @dorigaid_02
    @dorigaid_02 Месяц назад

    Yes some people is easy to judge without knowing all the past video,i saw your video you are in the PH to find what,where is the good places to stay with your family because you love PH you deserve to live there with your family sooner ❤

  • @chooflixvlogtv1495
    @chooflixvlogtv1495 Месяц назад

    Its ok ms.jelena just enjoyed yourself in the Philippines and soon you will become a filipino citizen but siargao or samal island is the best ❤❤❤

  • @bartbartolome4302
    @bartbartolome4302 27 дней назад

    You're doing it for them which only a few will understand. A sacrifice only a mother will do. keep going! be consistent.

  • @northmanbau9168
    @northmanbau9168 22 дня назад

    Family is family being together is the most important

  • @vanotelitram6084
    @vanotelitram6084 Месяц назад

    Enjoyed Lang ma'am....while enjoying likewise love your childrens.

  • @FieraJa
    @FieraJa Месяц назад

    🎉enjoy your vacation.

  • @angelogumnad8206
    @angelogumnad8206 Месяц назад

    Don't take the negative comments to heart. Many of them are misplaced concern and should be taken in that context. Those who have been following you for sometime know your situation and reasons for doing what you have to do. Keep on posting the content we have come to expect from you. God bless and I hope you be successful in bringing your family together here in the Philippines.

  • @altf9063
    @altf9063 Месяц назад +1

    Dont mind those people. Let their Dad do his part as a parent. Enjoy your life. I hope you find a better place to live with your kids.

  • @RusbucRipe
    @RusbucRipe Месяц назад

    Hi Jelena, Don’t let those negative comment(s) get to you. Your followers know that you are wonderful & caring mother.
    You have a plan for the entire family future.
    All your followers will support you every step of your journey.-me included. Everyone loves you , Emma & Dominic.
    I will personally send $$$ in private to support your channel .
    I urge all your viewers to please do not skip any Ads on Jelena’s channel to help her out & to make her dream a reality & that is to live in the PH with her family. ❤❤❤. Watching you in Upstate New York , USA 🇺🇸. Safe Travels & God Bless…
    PS: Please sing or serenade all your viewers with the classic Filipino song “ Dahil Sa Iyo”…You will mesmerized everyone.

  • @christopherdelorance957
    @christopherdelorance957 Месяц назад

    Helena I think you are doing your best . As a mother I understand you so much .doing mind the bad comment . And enjoy the life in the Philippines

  • @johnjaro
    @johnjaro Месяц назад

    Some people are just judgmental. Ignoring them is the best thing to do. God bless!

  • @irmapaglinawan5291
    @irmapaglinawan5291 Месяц назад

    You are a good mother... Haters always hate... Don't mind them cause you are really good...have a great day and be happy jelena

  • @8877jazz
    @8877jazz Месяц назад

    Love and God bless

  • @RabRegino
    @RabRegino Месяц назад +6

    Don't mind negative comments ❤❤❤

  • @Ishivy718
    @Ishivy718 Месяц назад

    Don't mind them. Enjoy the life Jelena.❤️

  • @user-kk1vp9lm7s
    @user-kk1vp9lm7s Месяц назад

    Those who says negatives did not not watch all your previous vlogs or have missed some so they don't know your agreement with your children and family in coming to the Philippines alone. Don't mind them; what's important is your goal in being here. We pray you will be able to find a place fitted for what you're looking for so that you can bring back your children with you. You are a very loving good mother. We support and pray for you and family. Meantime grow your channel with your ever happy spirited attitude and smiles. Take care. God bless.❤

  • @SOLARDIYSmallSetup
    @SOLARDIYSmallSetup Месяц назад +4

    just enjoy life ❤

  • @TheTmamoros
    @TheTmamoros Месяц назад

    ❤you do what is good for you

  • @user-mp8qq2ys2u
    @user-mp8qq2ys2u Месяц назад

    Hi Jelena first of all welcome back to my beautiful Country. I live in the U.S.A. But reading the comments on your Channel shocked me. They have no business criticizing you on how to take care of your Children. I have watched you take care of you Children before you went back to Germany and noticed that you were a very good Mother to them. So please. Ignore Negative Comments and just enjoy life to the fullest.

    • @MsJelena
      @MsJelena  Месяц назад

      ThAnk u 🤗❤️

  • @Goldatz
    @Goldatz Месяц назад

    All moms deserves a vacation. Relax ❤

    • @MsJelena
      @MsJelena  Месяц назад

      😅😅♥️♥️🤭

  • @Arnel_A67
    @Arnel_A67 Месяц назад

    understandable, you are not a bad mom ❤

  • @elisahernandez5245
    @elisahernandez5245 Месяц назад

    Don’t mind those judgmental people, they for sure don’t know your full story .
    You are a great Mom and I salute you 🫡

  • @ashsamlegend5356
    @ashsamlegend5356 Месяц назад

    She is doing her job, it's a travel vlog guys... Don't be judgemental.... Travel vlogs are a hit among viewers... Take it easy people, she is a good mother.❤❤❤

  • @legiejanmulato1465
    @legiejanmulato1465 Месяц назад

    Enjoy your life, don't be stressed for other people negative thinking 🥰🥰🥰

  • @scorpio6562
    @scorpio6562 Месяц назад

    As what i heard from Jelena,she will look for a job then look for a good place and school so that she can bring her children in the Philippines.....we'll just hope and pray that all of these will come in fruition.godbless you and you family Jelena have a strong will and determination❤

  • @emilylusbog6017
    @emilylusbog6017 Месяц назад

    Just ignore the haters, enjoy your vacation..may God bless you always 🙏🙏🙏♥️❤️❤️

  • @milagrosdelmonte733
    @milagrosdelmonte733 Месяц назад

    Yes i for one would like to say "enjoy your vacation and do more vlogs while you are here...Be Happy!

  • @user-lg5tj3ym8s
    @user-lg5tj3ym8s Месяц назад

    Just keep focusing on your goal... you'll go through many steps on your way and along with them are distractions and obstacles...so brace yourself for more as you are becoming famous and live an open life. The most important thing is to get your objectives done one at a time. That's how you get closer to your goal. Take care always.