Played alto sax In the marching band...it gets no riskier than that, folks! I risked being a nerd and never getting laid for the rest of my life. Thank God I was tough enough to overcome that period of retardation. #survivor 😂🤷🏼♀️
I had to be yelled at to come inside. Sun went down, grandma screaming out the windows for me to get in. But the entire day outside... the good old days.
Me too but we are all hooked on the smart phones and RUclips now imagine if a gameboy could play and video you want at a swipe of the finger I get why kids are hooked. It’s shit though. My kids still love climbing trees feel like that’s a win lol
@@kenmorris8219 Yea my buddies would make fun by screaming "David!" in an old lady voice. I hated it then, now the memory of it kind of makes me feel warm and fuzzy. lol
Those kids grew up and then covered the entire town with cement. Boomers got rid of all the parks and filled the town with anti homeless structures. Then wonder why kids don't play on the fucking concrete lmao
Being born in 93 the combo of street hockey, pond hockey, basketball, backyard football, dirt biking, wiffle ball and madden and some Xbox with no social media was the shit
Being a parent comes with more responsibility than just feeding your kids and making sure they live through the day. As a father of 3 I feel that one of the most important things is just being present and taking some time to let them tell you about their day and the adventures they had. I work 12 hr shifts and commute an hr each way, it doesn’t leave me much time to do anything on the days I work. But when I get home I talk with my kids, get them ready for bed, read a few books, then sing the 2 younger ones to sleep. It means the world to them and they let me know it everyday. Nothing in the world is better than having your kids desire to spend time with you.
@@Blazorbust I agree because now you can’t play with kids at day care nor can they touch each other to wrestle or play like humans need to do to develop at certain ages. Now we don’t even let them outside out of our laziness. “Too busy on my phone to watch you sweetie just go back to being parented by RUclips!”
According to my mom she was ahead of the parenting curve by 20 years. Yet I remember not wearing a seatbelt, riding in the bed of a truck, BB gun wars. In her parallel universe these things never happened!
i can remember when my parents got their first computer i was in high school and the internet was dial up that shit drove me nuts at times , kids these days have no clue what it means to wait your turn because some one was on the the phone
There's also those people that feel like they "didn't make it" and then fall for the cheap psychiatric trick: blame your parents. It absolves them of all the faults even if they are already adults when they made those mistakes. Also, bare in mind that both our comments aren't mutualy exclusive....ok? Forgiveness can be the key for (some) happiness and don't forget to forgive yourself too.
@@xedasxedas Well of course you can. Any decision you make as an adult came from your values and thought process rooted throughout your life's history, cultivated by, surprise, your parents. You can always blame your parents and probably should. You just can't blame them for everything that's wrong, and blaming your parents doesn't mean the entire onus of fault is on the parents solely.
@@xedasxedas I look at this issue as one of trajectory. Your parents set your trajectory and you are stuck on it even into adulthood. So when a kid turns 18 and becomes an adult and they can now set their own path they are so far into the weeds that getting out becomes an unnecessary challenge. While other people are building upon their success, they are just getting started. If they screw up on their way back to civilization, is it really their fault? Honestly, you call it a psychiatric trick, but we really don't hold parents accountable for how they raise their kids. Going to a psychiatrist and they say "You're parents fucked you up" is the closest you get to any kind of acknowledgement from anyone.
I'm in my 20's now and looking back I feel sadness almost all the time about how much I didn't experience as a child. All the cool stuff my parents did as kids VS my summers spent playing video games. I still rode bikes, went to parks and did some outdoor shit but the opportunities were fewer. Way less kids had the skills for "outside" so you either did that stuff alone or did indoor stuff. Kids today lack adventure and video games are basically the only place to scratch that itch these days. So many more rules both from society and from your parents mean you grow up without certain skills and your ability to push boundaries is so limited. By the time I realised half that stuff I was too old to take those risks. Detention Vs jail time and all that lol
@David Nilsson yeah im sure its situational. most kids i knew had newer games consoles and all this other stuff going on. my options were either hang with a bad crowd, somehow convince my parents to get me an Xbox and let me play games way above my age rating or make up for most of my social interaction in school. Granted i wasnt a big sports guy but i did love playing outside. I think its just the kind of environment you grow up in. big city vs country vs suburbs etc. rich vs poor neighbourhood
Dude, I've seen people in their 50's or 60's collecting toy cars or stuffed animals because they feel like they missed out of being kids. We never really stop being kids, and there's no age limit to try what we like, I mean, within reason. So if you really want to know how that was you can find out what older people did when they were kids and find a way to try it out: go to a mountain trail, grab a stick and pretend it's a sword and you're fighting an imaginary monster, find a place to go fishing or look for frogs or lizards, play in the rain, etc. It won't be exactly the same but I think what makes life beautiful is to keep that childish sense of wonder.
@@ryanjensen5897 True. However that won't fix the "phantom pain" of lost experiences. The best a person can do in my case is to live as a free adult since no one can turn back time.
@@michaelkeller5927 I remember I was trying to get this one chick to go on a date and thought I'd be aggressive and call her a "bad bitch". My spell check decided to change it to "fat bitch". No one got laid that night.
I am 32 , And I remember when I was a Kid , our neighborhood was full with kids playing outsiding every evening , and specially in the weekends , my parents are still living in the same house , and when I came back to visit them , I never see any kids outside , its sad , parents now are raising a whole generation of shy and awkward people
Raising the younger generation used to be a community effort, it shouldn't have just been the parents' job. Your generation should have took a stand against smart phones back when they were still new.
That story about the family bike ride actually broke my heart. It's something that surprises so many people in life, it's too easy to miss good things, too easy to spend all of your time away
I can see Bill's dad looking at him and saying "Oh you think I was to hard on you.Aren't you one of the most successful people in comedy.How bout a thank you prick"
... and I cant. I tried, but it doesnt make sense, at least not considering the Entirety of what Bill has revealed to us about his relationship to his father - not to mention some of his creative choices in F is for Family, though they might have emerged due to him trying to cope with the situation as it was...
@@DirtSpud I never said it Wasnt - just pointed out that I dont see his father holding a grudge against his son for sharing what he perceived as hurtful actions towards him as a child.
My mom was emotionally and physically abusive during my childhood. I got punched in the face by my mom in elementary before the bullies did it. Anyways, I talk to my mom about that shit and she goes " I never did that". I was like "Get the fuck out of here. Did you really think I was going to forget all that shit you did" Now she leaves me messages crying about how I never call her. Oh, I wonder why I don't call you mom! It's a big mystery, unsolvable in her eyes.
If that feels right to you then stand your ground. I haven't spoken to my mother since 2014 because of shit she did then (and that was basically the last straw of years of crap). She knows how to contact me if she wants to apologise. As for me, I don't need shit people in my life, family or not, at the end of the day people are people.
Wow now my situation was no where near as bad as yours but my mom would beat me very often throughout my child hood over stupid shit i did and to this day she says she never laid a finger on me, it’s wild to me how they act like they just forget about it all but anyways, condolences for what you’ve gone through. 🤝
Same kinda thing happened to me, no dad in the house but still love my mom, she did the best she could, not a victim of anything though, guess it either makes you or breaks you...
The gaslighting these fucking parents do over their behavior is unfucking-believable. Both my parents and older brother are that way. Hell, my boyfriend’s mom is the same. She was building a little house out in the woods with friends when he was little. She sets my 4yr old boyfriend up at a makeshift outdoor sink and tells him to wash the breakfast dishes. He’s four so naturally his mind wanders and he wanders off. After the third time he does that, his mom grabbed him and said “When you don’t listen to me it’s like you are spitting in my face.” And then she drew up all her spit and then she spat into his four year old face. Although my father beat us with his belt and his fists and my mother spanked using our toys, I CANNOT get over his mother spitting in his face at 4 years old over a task that was too adult for a 4 year old to do. These mofos want to act all surprise that we aren’t eager to talk to them or hang with them.
Isn't that just Ice Hockey for countries without really cold temperatures? In fact, I am pretty sure that's how they invented Ice Hockey in Canada, in the first place.
It was embarrassing when I was a child and my friend's dad had to teach me how to throw a football because mine was always too busy. But at the same time my father was younger than I am now and I can understand how hard it would be to provide for a family and fulfill their needs.
Parents and elders before: Yelling to come back inside Parents and elders now: Yelling to go outside. Moral of the story: Parents and elders never change
I blame parents more than I do kids. Those late 90s/early 00s of total fear mongering to parents ruined it for kids. From old enough to remember to when I was about 10 I played outside all the time with no issues. Then outta the blue one day my parents said I can't go ride my bike or go play around the neighborhood with my friends. All our parents wanted us to be inside and safe from "the dangers of the world". I'm almost 30 now and talking to friends my age most of us had this weird cut off moment from the outside world at one point because of our parents being scared. Then years later they had the audacity to say I was a lazy kid who only played video games and my generation was going to shit lolol fuckin hell there was no winning.
I grew up piss poor, never had owned a bike as a kid, but still learned by myself how to ride a bike by jumping on the other kids bikes in the neighborhood.
I didn't learn how to ride a bike until 21, I wish I would have been taught, but I had to ask a 15 year old to teach me. No shame in learning a skill, if you don't know learn
Learning to ride a bike is like anything else, better late than never. Driving, swimming, etc. Just be proud of yourself when you learn or accomplish something new! Definitely no shame in learning a new skill. That's what life is all about, learning and growing as a person. :)
I grew up on a gravel road with no neighbors. Me and my brother lived outside. Making forts, shooting guns and bows, exploring the woods, dirt bikes, climbed trees, played in creks, skateboarded on the concrete walk. No internet where we lived. 20 miles from the nearest store. Absolute freedom to do most of whatever our imaginations could come up with. Im in my mid 20s now and i miss that shit.
I've been bored because of the pandemic so I started skateboarding, therefor I've been more conscious about whose outside. I live right next to a junior high school and 2 elementary schools in a neighborhood that used to be FILLED with kids roaming the streets in packs all evening and night. Now you never see a soul outside. It's like a ghost town for kids. The only people I see outside are an occasional pair of friends riding a bike, wanna be lance Armstrong, and older women walking, and that's it. Our neighborhood used to be full of kids causing mischief. It's a sad sight to see. I think the pandemic made It worse for them.
im 38 still played outside when I was 10-12 into my teens. I feel that my age group was one of the last generations to do play outside for most of the day and then show up at home to go to sleep then to school. good times and scary times too but mainly good times
This just made me grateful for my dad and the notes he did hit as a father. Not perfect by any measure, but I cherish memories of him teaching me to ride a bike, throw a ball, etc.
Bill is speaking so many facts. If I decides to have kids, them not being afraid to approach me is a huge deal to me. Because you can't truly guide your kids through life if they don't want to come to you with their issues/questions. One way communication will fuck up your kids into adulthood. Its not permanent, but as an adult I'm having to deal with some stuff I could've dealt with awhile ago if I wasn't afraid of my dad; and my dad wasn't even on Bill's dad's level. And like he said, as an adult you gotta cut your parents some slack too; theres no manual for this shit and parents are human
Very 1st vehicle I drove extensively was my grandfather’s old Ford truck 3 speed on the column. Nothing wrong with parents being old school because at least you had more respect for your elders, something lacking with kids or teens these days. Just my opinion. Yes, I was scared of “ the wrath of dad” but when I became a young adult he treated me as such and I miss him every day. Lost him to cancer, when I was 39, 17 years ago.
i remember the switch very clearly from when people were outside 24/7 to staying inside. it was around when playstation 2 got released that it all started going downhill. we played a little back then but we still felt that playing outside was more fun. then xbox 360 and playstation 3 got released then it just went downhill from there. i used to go outside all the time until around 2011 where games became way more fun than playing outside.
I find it very ironic that my neighborhood has "Slow Down: Save the Kids!" signs on half the lawns but I have not seen a kid outside playing in 15 years. Never saw a single sign like that when I was a kid and there would be street hockey games on every street as well as kids riding bikes, skateboards, roller skates all over the place.
I honestly think the slow down bullshit is for old ladies and prissy Karens who hate the sight of someone being less boring than them. It’s more dangerous to weave around these signs in tight residential streets. Makes me consider toppling every one I drive by now cause there ain’t no kids playing outside now!!
Tom Green was talking about the same topic on a Huffington Post article and on a video, how kids and adults rely too much on digital obviously. Kids these days they rather play video games, they never want to go outside and play or even socially interact with people the same goes with adults. Just like Tom Green's example huff post "don't you remember the old times when people actually talk to each other on the phone and actually physically met people outside and didn't rely on the internet to meet people" Most importantly it's not even social interactions, so many of us today rely on Amazon and s*** like that to get personal Goods people don't go outside anymore and buy stuff and socially interact with people. This same statement was made by people who work at Amazon and who were in the reaction video for the South Park Amazon episode. Comedy Central did a special presentation of the episode where they had previous Amazon employees to do a compare and contrast of how close the episode resembles the experience of being an Amazon employee at the warehouse. In terms of kids think about what Morgan Freeman said a couple years ago it always start in the home. Parents don't tell their kids to go outside, they let their kids do whatever they fucking want. I see so many kids on social media who are just trying to start s*** with people. That's the problem with a lot of parents and teachers they don't tell kids to not talk to strangers. This is relevant to the concept of how kids don't go out anymore because they think they can do what they want they can just sit in their room without consequences they think they can do whatever they want without consequences because nobody tells them what's right and what's wrong. Same goes for the Board of Education most schools don't even offer recess to kids. Most importantly I even had a couple of close family friends where their kids finished high school, these kids were in advanced placement and they didn't even know how to write a summary properly they did not know how to write a research paper they did not know how to write a essay etc Just like what happened to me in college I didn't actually learn how to properly be a good writer until I went to college. The education system in this country is so f*****. Just like what President Obama said back when he was a president, the problem is the tenured when you have a 10-year tenured you have immunity from being fired. Simply put teachers can do whatever they want they can decide not to teach the kids they can decide not to teach the kids about the importance of physical activity. You can learn much more about this concept if you watch the movie Superman and me it's a sociology movie about how bad the education system is Lastly I find it so comical that teachers and parents are caring more about their kids because of the pandemic because prior to the pandemic teachers did not care about a child's education. Now with the pandemic we have so many education programs for home some of these programs should have been offered already in school.
I loved playing outside as a kid because it was safer than home. I think it's important for kids to do. So many parents are scared their kids are gonna get snatched up, but I think there's a big difference between neglecting kids and letting them have some autonomy and freedom. And parents playing outside with their kids when they're really young is great for both of them!
That pond hockey opening.. so great. I loved playing pond hockey growing up. For us it wasn't a rock being tossed out on the surface. You would get a crowbar and chip a hole in the ice to measure the thickness. Then you would completely disregard and ignore the thickness of the ice you just measured and drive an ATV with a plow out on the pond because 1/4 of the way through manually shoveling the snow you were sweaty, tired, and desperate!
right at the end,..."yes you do...". Because it's true. And I try to tell myself that everyday in dealing with my boys' needs... The least I can do is "listen", just like Bill said.
My mom would push my brothers and I out the door and lock it, saying don't come back till dinner. Thanks mom, that was some great parenting right there. (no sarcasm)
@@skeezix8156 Hah, garden hose water. I still remember this one hot summer where my friends and I would periodically drink water from our neighbor's garden hose. There was this one who kid in the neighborhood who would always race everyone there to get the first drink. One day, when he beat us to the spot as usual, it turns out a cicada was resting inside of the garden hose. It flew out of the hose and into his mouth as soon as the water was on. He's probably still spooked by those fuckers to this very day.
@@-1kg240 a coworker of mine has an RV with two gas tanks, one of the gas tanks he converted to a toilet water holding tank. He got home from work one day and the story told itself on the lawn. There was a siphoning hose and puke all over the driveway. Nothing like sucking down some old shitwater thinking it’s gas. Those thieves never came back
Some parents today are so out of control in-control. I witnessed a mom this past weekend who would not leave her children alone. Like she was constantly in a frenzy. She had to be sitting next to them the entire time, and if one of her children got up to go outside and play, she had to get all of her children up so she could have all her kids around her outside. All the parents in this group were the same way. The kids were not even 20 feet away from their table yet they all had to be up and standing around their kids while they tried to play with each other. I just can't imagine being parented like that and what it does to kids psychologically. It's madness
When Bill said he was afraid of his dad, I related so hard to that. My mom, dad and thier families were all like that. However, they are not good people. They never really apologized and they still don't listen to me and to each other. Then they wonder why I wanted to start college at 16 and why I never call after I left home smh
People act like you're supposed to be afraid of your dad, likes that how it was done back in the day. Really weird. Glad you got out of that Toxic environment. Family can be a sink hole.
Same shit too , in fact I never heard the word " I love you " from my parents , even though I know they somehow care about me , but no one knows how to fucking express love ! and it fucked me up really bad , to this day I never said " I love you " to any girl or any person for that matter , I don't know my parents , we have nothing to say to each other...and when I see some parents talking and playing with their kids like they're friends I always get jealous...and It made me seek this love and attention from friends which always ends up in betrayal of course...
I was lucky to move to Switzerland when my kids were growing up in 2010s. We literally lived next door to the Swiss Freestyle ski training center, and they spent all summer learning how to incredibly difficult dangerous maneuvers in the air (into swimming pools, foam pits and on a trampoline). The rest of the time they roamed around outside in the town looking for things to do. One time I went looking for my two sons across the street where there was a farm. I walk into this barn and this farmer has my two sons (age 9 and 11 ) holding syringes and injecting the udders of dairy cows! It didnt seem to have any negative psychological impact on them
Lots of children dont go outside because they are taking all the basketball hoops down ,no bike riding, no skateboards signs everywhere.The wooded areas are taken down to put up homes! So of course you play videogames more
My parents never really had time for me when I was a kid so basically I am pretty much self taught. I taught myself how to ride a bike, how to skate, how to swim (learned deep diving 1st and when being comfortable, I applied that technique above water). I am not really mad because I have learned the 1st lesson in life - do it yourself if there is nobody out there helping you.
Since mid 70's Skateboard Parks bowls snake runs, Snowboarding..Played Rep soccer in high school and for the town! Played lot's of shinny hockey at the park, no rules! Played Ball hockey with equipment and running shoes, that took a lot out of you when your short:) I'm 58 and scratching my head now, what's going on? Skateboarding as everyone that did it knows, getting older you just don't bounce back from a slam, as you do in your teens not as indestructible as you thought lol how do you replace that? I love these 2 guys!! Thanks for making us laugh!
My childhood sucked compared to my friends. My dad used "playing outside" as extortion to get us to do chores and homework. It basically just made me not ask to go outside as much, it made me resent my dad, and made me hate school lol
You had the chance to "buy" your outside time by caring come of your load at home, but choose to not do it. Somehow the fault it's upon your dad because your friends had it better. School also fits into the charade for some unknown reason. Jesus you need a better therapist asap hahaha
For my two boys, I've taught them quite a bit. From walking, talking, using utensils, bike riding, wrestling, boxing, sports, controlling emotions, wood working, car tune ups, about nutrition, videogaming and I look forward to teaching them more as they become men. But sometimes I miss the time they were toddlers. I was superman to them and they were always hugging me.
It took me a long time to learn how to ride a bike. Other kids got the hang of it by the time they were 7 years old. I didn't learn until I was 11. I still lose my balance once in a while and fall down.
I blame parents more than I do kids. Those late 90s/early 00s of total fear mongering to parents ruined it for kids. From old enough to remember to when I was about 10 I played outside all the time with no issues. Then outta the blue one day my parents said I can't go ride my bike or go play around the neighborhood with my friends. All our parents wanted us to be inside and safe from "the dangers of the world". I'm almost 30 now and talking to friends my age most of us had this weird "cut off from the outside world" moment at one point in our young lives because of our parents being scared.
I think its those types of parents who says "i want to be a better parent then my own parent" and i think that's the issue. Like be a parent not their friend.
At the end: Kevin: "My dad doesn't have any realization of the shit that he did. And me and my brother, we don't really give a fuck, but-" Bill: "Yes you do."
I grew up in the uk, but moved to france when i was around 10. I remembered the whole street was alive, all the kids played outside together in the street, it was great, just like a tv show. And i went back to visit a while back, and it was so depressing. Middle of summer. No kids playing, no life. Just absolutely dead
He said his friend is filthy rich, so I'm guessing he spent very little time at home actually raising his kids, and spent all his time making another million bucks he'll never need
@@apalo70 depends who he's talking about. Is it an actor? An inventor? I don't remember Chadwick Boseman's money, but I remember his contributions to the MCU.
Bill got a more balanced perspective which I really appreciate. Kevin was way too dismissive and trash talk about the kids today. It's too easy to talk trash about the kids but the reality is they have way more at their fingertips and we would be just like them if we had what they had. You can't blame them for wanting to play video games all day tbh. They're fucking fun and just a few seconds away. Someone, the parents, got to show them balance. And balance is really the key to living a healthy life.
In the late 90s, parents became frightened of abductors. I was never allowed to even answer the door as a kid, whereas my older brother (14 years older) took the train to primary and secondary school when he was younger.
If more fathers were in alignment with him on That one, then I think it would Definitely help prevent our extinction as a species, as well as people like me - depressed, unmotivated, barely holding on - wouldnt exist anymore...
@@nickturner9476 absolutely. and just helps you see what the world can be outside of your box. So many people get caught up thinking what they know is all that exists. Theres so much out there.
I totally agree with Bill. I respect my Dad but I’m not afraid of him. Never beat me or nothing but he made sure I acted right when I would get out of line. Today’s parents are scared of their kids and let them do whatever they want. Only school and outside for the week. Games only on weekends, is gonna be the rule 4 for my kids. Plus no phones until jr high, if u give em to them younger YOU RUIN THE KID
We had to be home when the streetlights went on! And even then my parents had to shout out our names to come inside 😆 I loved to play and running through our neighborhood all day with all the kids who lived there too! 🥰
I've been a Bill Burr fan for years but only recently discovered Kevin Hart. Brilliant guys. I've really enjoyed Bill's personal growth and development over the last few years. There's a marked change in his reactions to things, and his self-awareness that I really admire. So many people simply can't or won't do the work. Kudos to him.
They fail to address the school system that makes kids sit inside all day and then sends them home to do homework and by the time they're finished it's dark outside.
@@EG-uu3kr bruh, elementary school is still school. You still go to school until 3pm, home by 4pm, finish homework by 6pm, and there goes the day. Maybe if there were less pointless school hours there would be more daylight to go outside.
@@EG-uu3kr Lol, You clearly don't remember elementary school. We had to spend hours on homework. Keep living in fantasy land kid. I know you're a kid because no adult would get so offended by a school comment that they curse at the person who made it. Now get to bed before I pimp slap you.
I know Bill said this more succinctly but I'll echo the sentiment. I'm not considered one of todays kids but as a youngster in the 2000's and early 2010's (I feel old all of a sudden but I digress) I grew up with a house that had Satellite TV most of the time with several channels dedicated to kids shows, a Game Boy Advance sp, and a PS2. Even living in a trailer that's a pretty sweet deal compared to tossing a ball in the air and catching it out on the lawn. fast forward to 13 when facebook came around and that was all she wrote (and I was late to get on). I'm sure if I came up with nothing but an hour of cartoons on saturday morning and an Atari 2600 I would've gone outside a lot more. I don't for one second blame kids coming up with ipad access at 4 and smartphones at 12 for not going outside like kids used to.
I was born in the mid 50's and I roamed miles from home on my bike and played on railroad tracks. I was obsessed with reptiles. I got snake bit quite a few times, fortunately nonvenomous.Then at 18 hitch hiked out west then worked all over the west on US Forest Service and BLM reforestation contracts. All day in all weather on mountain sides sometimes steeper than a cows face. I'm still in good physical shape because of being outside. I couldn't even imagine.
I'm very glad the majority of my childhood was being kicked out of the house in the morning and not allowed back in before Dinner. I'm 24 so maybe I'm not alone in this
Careful there, bud. A bunch of Boomers are gonna crawl out of the woodwork to tell you how they were the only ones who played outside and they drank from the hose or some shit.
@@richardwagon6433 It's a video about a real problem that is pretty much only meaningfully dangerous to our generation and all you have to say is "lol boomer" No one find people saying worth listening except other retarded kids.
1:19 This is what makes bill special. Yes, that is it. Every generation is jealous of the next one, because they have it "easier", "better", more this, more that... despite it all being surface level
Did you play any risky sport while growing up? 🤔 👇
Ya broke a nose and a heart lol.
Pond hockey
We used to provoke and run from a local bull when I lived in a village. I was like 8 😅
Dirtbikes, hockey, boxing,pool skating, snowboarding and basically anything else your mom didn’t want you to do
Played alto sax In the marching band...it gets no riskier than that, folks!
I risked being a nerd and never getting laid for the rest of my life. Thank God I was tough enough to overcome that period of retardation. #survivor 😂🤷🏼♀️
I had to be yelled at to come inside. Sun went down, grandma screaming out the windows for me to get in. But the entire day outside... the good old days.
Same. Awesome 😃
Me too but we are all hooked on the smart phones and RUclips now imagine if a gameboy could play and video you want at a swipe of the finger I get why kids are hooked. It’s shit though. My kids still love climbing trees feel like that’s a win lol
Moms literally used to shout my name out the window and the whole block knew "Time for Ken to GTFO".
@@kenmorris8219 Yea my buddies would make fun by screaming "David!" in an old lady voice. I hated it then, now the memory of it kind of makes me feel warm and fuzzy. lol
Those kids grew up and then covered the entire town with cement. Boomers got rid of all the parks and filled the town with anti homeless structures. Then wonder why kids don't play on the fucking concrete lmao
Being born in 93 the combo of street hockey, pond hockey, basketball, backyard football, dirt biking, wiffle ball and madden and some Xbox with no social media was the shit
89 Here. and yes. But SNES, sega, N64..... goddamned xbox generation!!!! Shakes fist. Lmao
@@justinstevenson2061 another 93 kid here, we started on N64! Xbox just came right after
You're 28 man, crazy how time flies
I thought Bill was saying pawn hockey, but seeing your comment, I realize it's pond hockey. Lol.
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Being a parent comes with more responsibility than just feeding your kids and making sure they live through the day. As a father of 3 I feel that one of the most important things is just being present and taking some time to let them tell you about their day and the adventures they had. I work 12 hr shifts and commute an hr each way, it doesn’t leave me much time to do anything on the days I work. But when I get home I talk with my kids, get them ready for bed, read a few books, then sing the 2 younger ones to sleep. It means the world to them and they let me know it everyday. Nothing in the world is better than having your kids desire to spend time with you.
May Allah bless you for being such a good father. Wish all of us had fathers like you
Salute
The real test is to be that dedicated, interested and affectionate when they enter their pre-teen and teenage years.
@@pokemonjourneyzippy who is Allah and where does he work?
@@JSTAR585 Dude shut up.
"Go outside and play" was what we heard from our parents when I was a kid. That was before fear mongering scared parents witless.
That is a stretch of a statement
Can you blame them? child predators exist gotta be carful
@@ChaseJim True, but they've always existed, and in trying to shine light on the issue there was an over-correction (in my opinion)
@@Blazorbust I agree because now you can’t play with kids at day care nor can they touch each other to wrestle or play like humans need to do to develop at certain ages. Now we don’t even let them outside out of our laziness. “Too busy on my phone to watch you sweetie just go back to being parented by RUclips!”
"Get out of the house, be back by the time the street lights turn on."
It's so true that later on parents just seem to forget everything they did...
Isn't that the whole point of the movie Hook "Peter Pan"
According to my mom she was ahead of the parenting curve by 20 years. Yet I remember not wearing a seatbelt, riding in the bed of a truck, BB gun wars. In her parallel universe these things never happened!
We also didn't have human trafficking everywhere
They don't forget, they lie to themselves and the child confronting them, it's essentially a continuation of the abuse.
Maybe because they were exhausted and stressed out of their minds
i feel like bill is genuinely gonna be an awesome dad
I was a kid in that transitional phase of the 90s where indoors and outdoors were getting equally fun
Late 80s here. Yup. Best of EVERYTHING.
i can remember when my parents got their first computer i was in high school and the internet was dial up that shit drove me nuts at times , kids these days have no clue what it means to wait your turn because some one was on the the phone
Kids being traumatized by their parents and then pretending it never happened when the kids are old enough to ask questions is infuriating to me.
That's my parents to a t
There's also those people that feel like they "didn't make it" and then fall for the cheap psychiatric trick: blame your parents. It absolves them of all the faults even if they are already adults when they made those mistakes. Also, bare in mind that both our comments aren't mutualy exclusive....ok? Forgiveness can be the key for (some) happiness and don't forget to forgive yourself too.
@@xedasxedas both of yall spit facts here
@@xedasxedas Well of course you can. Any decision you make as an adult came from your values and thought process rooted throughout your life's history, cultivated by, surprise, your parents. You can always blame your parents and probably should. You just can't blame them for everything that's wrong, and blaming your parents doesn't mean the entire onus of fault is on the parents solely.
@@xedasxedas I look at this issue as one of trajectory. Your parents set your trajectory and you are stuck on it even into adulthood. So when a kid turns 18 and becomes an adult and they can now set their own path they are so far into the weeds that getting out becomes an unnecessary challenge. While other people are building upon their success, they are just getting started. If they screw up on their way back to civilization, is it really their fault? Honestly, you call it a psychiatric trick, but we really don't hold parents accountable for how they raise their kids. Going to a psychiatrist and they say "You're parents fucked you up" is the closest you get to any kind of acknowledgement from anyone.
I love how he just tells em “Hey it’s OK if you don’t know something, u don’t need to go “WTF is that??”
that part was hilarious
I hate when people react like that because it's so unnecessary.
says the world's most peaceful talker BILL BURR. he NEVER says wtf is THAT and go on a long rant. XD
@@adarshbs7259 Bill defiantly has issues and projects all the time
He son'd him
As a kid with electronics and helicopter parents, realizing you missed out is like having a rock in your shoe that you can't find.
I'm in my 20's now and looking back I feel sadness almost all the time about how much I didn't experience as a child. All the cool stuff my parents did as kids VS my summers spent playing video games. I still rode bikes, went to parks and did some outdoor shit but the opportunities were fewer. Way less kids had the skills for "outside" so you either did that stuff alone or did indoor stuff. Kids today lack adventure and video games are basically the only place to scratch that itch these days. So many more rules both from society and from your parents mean you grow up without certain skills and your ability to push boundaries is so limited. By the time I realised half that stuff I was too old to take those risks. Detention Vs jail time and all that lol
@@Arcadia6227 imagine this, i was too outdoors for kids in the 80's. lool
@David Nilsson yeah im sure its situational. most kids i knew had newer games consoles and all this other stuff going on. my options were either hang with a bad crowd, somehow convince my parents to get me an Xbox and let me play games way above my age rating or make up for most of my social interaction in school. Granted i wasnt a big sports guy but i did love playing outside. I think its just the kind of environment you grow up in. big city vs country vs suburbs etc. rich vs poor neighbourhood
Dude, I've seen people in their 50's or 60's collecting toy cars or stuffed animals because they feel like they missed out of being kids. We never really stop being kids, and there's no age limit to try what we like, I mean, within reason. So if you really want to know how that was you can find out what older people did when they were kids and find a way to try it out: go to a mountain trail, grab a stick and pretend it's a sword and you're fighting an imaginary monster, find a place to go fishing or look for frogs or lizards, play in the rain, etc. It won't be exactly the same but I think what makes life beautiful is to keep that childish sense of wonder.
@@ryanjensen5897 True. However that won't fix the "phantom pain" of lost experiences. The best a person can do in my case is to live as a free adult since no one can turn back time.
Bill has such an amazing perspective. I live this guy so much
Live lol
@@brandonlucas2101 my stupid fat fingers + this keyboard. I do it almost every time lol
@@michaelkeller5927 I remember I was trying to get this one chick to go on a date and thought I'd be aggressive and call her a "bad bitch". My spell check decided to change it to "fat bitch". No one got laid that night.
@@michaelkeller5927 lol at least you can laugh at yourself
@@DirtSpud "F" in the chat for our fallen brothers
I really appreciate the video clips in the middle I know it’s more work but it really makes a difference.
Indeed, they really help illustrate the conversation.
I am 32 , And I remember when I was a Kid , our neighborhood was full with kids playing outsiding every evening , and specially in the weekends , my parents are still living in the same house , and when I came back to visit them , I never see any kids outside , its sad , parents now are raising a whole generation of shy and awkward people
So true!
go to a local park, theres a fuck ton of kids and people doing things, just not in the middle of the street
Raising the younger generation used to be a community effort, it shouldn't have just been the parents' job.
Your generation should have took a stand against smart phones back when they were still new.
Same man...I went to my old neighborhood too and I didn’t see any one outside. Back in the day played kickball tag tennis just chilled on the steps
@@sean78745 parks are empty, my kid, my sister's kid and my other sister's kids all sit inside and play online with each other
That story about the family bike ride actually broke my heart. It's something that surprises so many people in life, it's too easy to miss good things, too easy to spend all of your time away
Kevin Hart and Bill Burr are two guys who never hung out at school but one day randomly got put together and got on surprising well with each other.
Bill just made me look at my child from a completely different perspective. He is the greatest.
Oh fuck, here comes the next snowflake demanding Communism in 10-15 years.
I can see Bill's dad looking at him and saying "Oh you think I was to hard on you.Aren't you one of the most successful people in comedy.How bout a thank you prick"
... and I cant. I tried, but it doesnt make sense, at least not considering the Entirety of what Bill has revealed to us about his relationship to his father - not to mention some of his creative choices in F is for Family, though they might have emerged due to him trying to cope with the situation as it was...
😂😂😂😂
@@19RaxR91 so funny.
@@DirtSpud I never said it Wasnt - just pointed out that I dont see his father holding a grudge against his son for sharing what he perceived as hurtful actions towards him as a child.
Imagine this dialogue in Bill Burr's voice.
My mom was emotionally and physically abusive during my childhood. I got punched in the face by my mom in elementary before the bullies did it. Anyways, I talk to my mom about that shit and she goes " I never did that". I was like "Get the fuck out of here. Did you really think I was going to forget all that shit you did" Now she leaves me messages crying about how I never call her. Oh, I wonder why I don't call you mom! It's a big mystery, unsolvable in her eyes.
If that feels right to you then stand your ground. I haven't spoken to my mother since 2014 because of shit she did then (and that was basically the last straw of years of crap). She knows how to contact me if she wants to apologise. As for me, I don't need shit people in my life, family or not, at the end of the day people are people.
Wow now my situation was no where near as bad as yours but my mom would beat me very often throughout my child hood over stupid shit i did and to this day she says she never laid a finger on me, it’s wild to me how they act like they just forget about it all but anyways, condolences for what you’ve gone through. 🤝
Same kinda thing happened to me, no dad in the house but still love my mom, she did the best she could, not a victim of anything though, guess it either makes you or breaks you...
Glad u found a way to express your feelings. Get that ish off your chest
The gaslighting these fucking parents do over their behavior is unfucking-believable.
Both my parents and older brother are that way.
Hell, my boyfriend’s mom is the same. She was building a little house out in the woods with friends when he was little. She sets my 4yr old boyfriend up at a makeshift outdoor sink and tells him to wash the breakfast dishes. He’s four so naturally his mind wanders and he wanders off. After the third time he does that, his mom grabbed him and said “When you don’t listen to me it’s like you are spitting in my face.” And then she drew up all her spit and then she spat into his four year old face. Although my father beat us with his belt and his fists and my mother spanked using our toys, I CANNOT get over his mother spitting in his face at 4 years old over a task that was too adult for a 4 year old to do.
These mofos want to act all surprise that we aren’t eager to talk to them or hang with them.
Great segment where Bill talks about his dad, his upbringing and how it shaped him. Really resonates with me.
Pond hockey fun as hell
Outdoor rinks are the best
What’s a “pond”
I grew up in Texas so I never got to experience that. I can't remember what dangerous things we did.
Isn't that just Ice Hockey for countries without really cold temperatures? In fact, I am pretty sure that's how they invented Ice Hockey in Canada, in the first place.
It was embarrassing when I was a child and my friend's dad had to teach me how to throw a football because mine was always too busy. But at the same time my father was younger than I am now and I can understand how hard it would be to provide for a family and fulfill their needs.
Parents and elders before: Yelling to come back inside
Parents and elders now: Yelling to go outside.
Moral of the story: Parents and elders never change
I blame parents more than I do kids. Those late 90s/early 00s of total fear mongering to parents ruined it for kids. From old enough to remember to when I was about 10 I played outside all the time with no issues. Then outta the blue one day my parents said I can't go ride my bike or go play around the neighborhood with my friends. All our parents wanted us to be inside and safe from "the dangers of the world". I'm almost 30 now and talking to friends my age most of us had this weird cut off moment from the outside world at one point because of our parents being scared. Then years later they had the audacity to say I was a lazy kid who only played video games and my generation was going to shit lolol fuckin hell there was no winning.
Right? They made a world that kids can't go out in, now they bitch that kids don't go out.
And when you're old you gonna be the same, same as me and everyone
@@Nerdsammich bc those kids that loved being outside then are the parents of today
I mean those kids are the parents now so the logic makes sense
I grew up piss poor, never had owned a bike as a kid, but still learned by myself how to ride a bike by jumping on the other kids bikes in the neighborhood.
I can relate🤙
same here, nothin' wrong with that fam.
🤣 or their cars!
I just had this old ass bike my grandpa brought with him from Mexico.
@@lavonnealexander6936 no. he’d have gotten beat up lol
I didn't learn how to ride a bike until 21, I wish I would have been taught, but I had to ask a 15 year old to teach me. No shame in learning a skill, if you don't know learn
@Wolfgang Von Ludwig you're right sometimes violence isn't the answer it's the Solution.
@@sikwitit773 What is the context to the comment you were responding to?
Learning to ride a bike is like anything else, better late than never. Driving, swimming, etc. Just be proud of yourself when you learn or accomplish something new! Definitely no shame in learning a new skill. That's what life is all about, learning and growing as a person. :)
HA
How did you get around??
I grew up on a gravel road with no neighbors. Me and my brother lived outside. Making forts, shooting guns and bows, exploring the woods, dirt bikes, climbed trees, played in creks, skateboarded on the concrete walk. No internet where we lived. 20 miles from the nearest store.
Absolute freedom to do most of whatever our imaginations could come up with. Im in my mid 20s now and i miss that shit.
Now some parents won't let kids grab sticks in fear of them being hurt.
Welcome to hell.
Sounds like you had a good run, at least.
A football or basketball was a great toy to play with back in my day....loves it....now I go outside to do cardio and weights....
I've been bored because of the pandemic so I started skateboarding, therefor I've been more conscious about whose outside. I live right next to a junior high school and 2 elementary schools in a neighborhood that used to be FILLED with kids roaming the streets in packs all evening and night. Now you never see a soul outside. It's like a ghost town for kids. The only people I see outside are an occasional pair of friends riding a bike, wanna be lance Armstrong, and older women walking, and that's it. Our neighborhood used to be full of kids causing mischief. It's a sad sight to see. I think the pandemic made It worse for them.
They're probably playing games all day so I don't think so, but their shoulders and backs will be aching 10 years from now.
They’re avoiding the insecure evil adults of this world
It's great how Bill sometimes mixes comedy and life lessons in such an elegant way
Bill’s kids will be flying helicopters 🚁 thru a tunnel with a cigar in their mouth
Bet
They'll all have scarves by the door for the day the zombies come and bill takes the unforeseen helicopter out from the bushes
😂😂👍
im 38 still played outside when I was 10-12 into my teens. I feel that my age group was one of the last generations to do play outside for most of the day and then show up at home to go to sleep then to school.
good times and scary times too but mainly good times
This content is gold.
Kevin: WTF is that
Bill: If you don't know anything it's ok
Kevin chills down
0:10 Bill using what he learned in anger management classes
This just made me grateful for my dad and the notes he did hit as a father. Not perfect by any measure, but I cherish memories of him teaching me to ride a bike, throw a ball, etc.
Bill is speaking so many facts. If I decides to have kids, them not being afraid to approach me is a huge deal to me. Because you can't truly guide your kids through life if they don't want to come to you with their issues/questions. One way communication will fuck up your kids into adulthood. Its not permanent, but as an adult I'm having to deal with some stuff I could've dealt with awhile ago if I wasn't afraid of my dad; and my dad wasn't even on Bill's dad's level. And like he said, as an adult you gotta cut your parents some slack too; theres no manual for this shit and parents are human
i spent almost all of my youth outside and i feel blessed
Very 1st vehicle I drove extensively was my grandfather’s old Ford truck 3 speed on the column. Nothing wrong with parents being old school because at least you had more respect for your elders, something lacking with kids or teens these days. Just my opinion. Yes, I was scared of “ the wrath of dad” but when I became a young adult he treated me as such and I miss him every day. Lost him to cancer, when I was 39, 17 years ago.
Omg the truth of this interview and the added visuals.. Awesome 👍.
I’d get home from school, do my homework then my parents would practically toss me outside till dinner
In my generation forget about outdoors. It was homework until bed
Backyard hoops until dinner, homework after that.
Sounds lit
That's not a lot of homework lol
Nowadays kids have an average of like five hours of homework to get through. No time to go be a kid.
i remember the switch very clearly from when people were outside 24/7 to staying inside. it was around when playstation 2 got released that it all started going downhill. we played a little back then but we still felt that playing outside was more fun. then xbox 360 and playstation 3 got released then it just went downhill from there. i used to go outside all the time until around 2011 where games became way more fun than playing outside.
I find it very ironic that my neighborhood has "Slow Down: Save the Kids!" signs on half the lawns but I have not seen a kid outside playing in 15 years. Never saw a single sign like that when I was a kid and there would be street hockey games on every street as well as kids riding bikes, skateboards, roller skates all over the place.
I honestly think the slow down bullshit is for old ladies and prissy Karens who hate the sight of someone being less boring than them. It’s more dangerous to weave around these signs in tight residential streets. Makes me consider toppling every one I drive by now cause there ain’t no kids playing outside now!!
Tom Green was talking about the same topic on a Huffington Post article and on a video, how kids and adults rely too much on digital obviously. Kids these days they rather play video games, they never want to go outside and play or even socially interact with people the same goes with adults.
Just like Tom Green's example huff post "don't you remember the old times when people actually talk to each other on the phone and actually physically met people outside and didn't rely on the internet to meet people"
Most importantly it's not even social interactions, so many of us today rely on Amazon and s*** like that to get personal Goods people don't go outside anymore and buy stuff and socially interact with people. This same statement was made by people who work at Amazon and who were in the reaction video for the South Park Amazon episode. Comedy Central did a special presentation of the episode where they had previous Amazon employees to do a compare and contrast of how close the episode resembles the experience of being an Amazon employee at the warehouse.
In terms of kids think about what Morgan Freeman said a couple years ago it always start in the home. Parents don't tell their kids to go outside, they let their kids do whatever they fucking want. I see so many kids on social media who are just trying to start s*** with people. That's the problem with a lot of parents and teachers they don't tell kids to not talk to strangers. This is relevant to the concept of how kids don't go out anymore because they think they can do what they want they can just sit in their room without consequences they think they can do whatever they want without consequences because nobody tells them what's right and what's wrong.
Same goes for the Board of Education most schools don't even offer recess to kids. Most importantly I even had a couple of close family friends where their kids finished high school, these kids were in advanced placement and they didn't even know how to write a summary properly they did not know how to write a research paper they did not know how to write a essay etc
Just like what happened to me in college I didn't actually learn how to properly be a good writer until I went to college. The education system in this country is so f*****.
Just like what President Obama said back when he was a president, the problem is the tenured when you have a 10-year tenured you have immunity from being fired. Simply put teachers can do whatever they want they can decide not to teach the kids they can decide not to teach the kids about the importance of physical activity. You can learn much more about this concept if you watch the movie Superman and me it's a sociology movie about how bad the education system is
Lastly I find it so comical that teachers and parents are caring more about their kids because of the pandemic because prior to the pandemic teachers did not care about a child's education. Now with the pandemic we have so many education programs for home some of these programs should have been offered already in school.
I LOVE hearing these guys! So fun and relatable, but massive stars.
Kids are still playing sports! I'm from Minnesota and my daughter plays hockey and softball
I loved playing outside as a kid because it was safer than home. I think it's important for kids to do. So many parents are scared their kids are gonna get snatched up, but I think there's a big difference between neglecting kids and letting them have some autonomy and freedom. And parents playing outside with their kids when they're really young is great for both of them!
I'm surprised my cousins and I never got snatched by a panther or snake bit.
That pond hockey opening.. so great. I loved playing pond hockey growing up. For us it wasn't a rock being tossed out on the surface. You would get a crowbar and chip a hole in the ice to measure the thickness. Then you would completely disregard and ignore the thickness of the ice you just measured and drive an ATV with a plow out on the pond because 1/4 of the way through manually shoveling the snow you were sweaty, tired, and desperate!
The kids that TikTok be doing near death challenges, while back then they at least made sure the lake was frozen
Guys figure it's better to be dumb than single.
Would you say tiktokers get outside more than most kids today? Even of it's only for the money?
right at the end,..."yes you do...".
Because it's true. And I try to tell myself that everyday in dealing with my boys' needs... The least I can do is "listen", just like Bill said.
My mom would push my brothers and I out the door and lock it, saying don't come back till dinner. Thanks mom, that was some great parenting right there. (no sarcasm)
Same here. Nothing like fresh garden hose water. Lol they wouldn’t let us back in and then get mad when you took a piss by the garage
@@skeezix8156 Hah, garden hose water. I still remember this one hot summer where my friends and I would periodically drink water from our neighbor's garden hose. There was this one who kid in the neighborhood who would always race everyone there to get the first drink. One day, when he beat us to the spot as usual, it turns out a cicada was resting inside of the garden hose. It flew out of the hose and into his mouth as soon as the water was on. He's probably still spooked by those fuckers to this very day.
@@-1kg240 a coworker of mine has an RV with two gas tanks, one of the gas tanks he converted to a toilet water holding tank. He got home from work one day and the story told itself on the lawn. There was a siphoning hose and puke all over the driveway. Nothing like sucking down some old shitwater thinking it’s gas. Those thieves never came back
Kind of makes you think why you had so many siblings now doesn’t it. Parents that do that are automatically going to pound town lmao
Some parents today are so out of control in-control. I witnessed a mom this past weekend who would not leave her children alone. Like she was constantly in a frenzy. She had to be sitting next to them the entire time, and if one of her children got up to go outside and play, she had to get all of her children up so she could have all her kids around her outside.
All the parents in this group were the same way. The kids were not even 20 feet away from their table yet they all had to be up and standing around their kids while they tried to play with each other.
I just can't imagine being parented like that and what it does to kids psychologically. It's madness
When Bill said he was afraid of his dad, I related so hard to that.
My mom, dad and thier families were all like that. However, they are not good people. They never really apologized and they still don't listen to me and to each other. Then they wonder why I wanted to start college at 16 and why I never call after I left home smh
People act like you're supposed to be afraid of your dad, likes that how it was done back in the day. Really weird.
Glad you got out of that Toxic environment. Family can be a sink hole.
Same shit too , in fact I never heard the word " I love you " from my parents , even though I know they somehow care about me , but no one knows how to fucking express love ! and it fucked me up really bad , to this day I never said " I love you " to any girl or any person for that matter , I don't know my parents , we have nothing to say to each other...and when I see some parents talking and playing with their kids like they're friends I always get jealous...and It made me seek this love and attention from friends which always ends up in betrayal of course...
@@Akronkangaroo You have no idea what you're even talking about.
Go plow a field and walk up a hill both ways boomer.
@Adam Vickers Keep crying. Trump lost in a landslide
wow you sound like a byich
I was lucky to move to Switzerland when my kids were growing up in 2010s. We literally lived next door to the Swiss Freestyle ski training center, and they spent all summer learning how to incredibly difficult dangerous maneuvers in the air (into swimming pools, foam pits and on a trampoline). The rest of the time they roamed around outside in the town looking for things to do. One time I went looking for my two sons across the street where there was a farm. I walk into this barn and this farmer has my two sons (age 9 and 11 ) holding syringes and injecting the udders of dairy cows! It didnt seem to have any negative psychological impact on them
BTW, the videos playing were absolutely hilarious, thank you for that.
Our ice rink was open till April. It was mild in the winter, but cold at the end of February.
Lots of children dont go outside because they are taking all the basketball hoops down ,no bike riding, no skateboards signs everywhere.The wooded areas are taken down to put up homes! So of course you play videogames more
@musicman007 why make this political?
Almost all of the baseball fields in my county are chained up and locked for permit use. Things sit empty like 80% of the time.
@@jackiedaytona3965 Blame these asshats suing everyone for everything.
Lawsuits
Then add the negativity and meanness of people nowadays
My parents never really had time for me when I was a kid so basically I am pretty much self taught. I taught myself how to ride a bike, how to skate, how to swim (learned deep diving 1st and when being comfortable, I applied that technique above water). I am not really mad because I have learned the 1st lesson in life - do it yourself if there is nobody out there helping you.
We used to swim threw the slewsgate when it opened up at low tide
Since mid 70's Skateboard Parks bowls snake runs, Snowboarding..Played Rep soccer in high school and for the town! Played lot's of shinny hockey at the park, no rules! Played Ball hockey with equipment and running shoes, that took a lot out of you when your short:) I'm 58 and scratching my head now, what's going on? Skateboarding as everyone that did it knows, getting older you just don't bounce back from a slam, as you do in your teens not as indestructible as you thought lol how do you replace that? I love these 2 guys!! Thanks for making us laugh!
My childhood sucked compared to my friends. My dad used "playing outside" as extortion to get us to do chores and homework. It basically just made me not ask to go outside as much, it made me resent my dad, and made me hate school lol
You had the chance to "buy" your outside time by caring come of your load at home, but choose to not do it. Somehow the fault it's upon your dad because your friends had it better. School also fits into the charade for some unknown reason. Jesus you need a better therapist asap hahaha
@@bobarros funny, you read my post and completely disregard that I'm speaking about how that circumstance felt AS A CHILD.
@@bwbh117 you probably right. I read "resent" and thought otherwise. Like it was an adult feeling.
@@bobarros the fuck you talking about lmao
Some great wisdom was shared here
“Kids these days” rable rable. The outside kids have today is way more depressing then the outside kids had in the past.
THANK YOU
Very well observed. You guys are great.
For my two boys, I've taught them quite a bit. From walking, talking, using utensils, bike riding, wrestling, boxing, sports, controlling emotions, wood working, car tune ups, about nutrition, videogaming and I look forward to teaching them more as they become men.
But sometimes I miss the time they were toddlers. I was superman to them and they were always hugging me.
You’ve done the work for your kids and experienced their love.
If you do the work for your future grandkids you will be able to relive that
It took me a long time to learn how to ride a bike. Other kids got the hang of it by the time they were 7 years old. I didn't learn until I was 11. I still lose my balance once in a while and fall down.
I blame parents more than I do kids. Those late 90s/early 00s of total fear mongering to parents ruined it for kids. From old enough to remember to when I was about 10 I played outside all the time with no issues. Then outta the blue one day my parents said I can't go ride my bike or go play around the neighborhood with my friends. All our parents wanted us to be inside and safe from "the dangers of the world". I'm almost 30 now and talking to friends my age most of us had this weird "cut off from the outside world" moment at one point in our young lives because of our parents being scared.
Too many pedos it’s not the same as before when ppl knew everyone’s good and bad, now everything is too PC so the derelicts go undetected
Bill and Kevin - so honest and helpful.
Mom never would let us hang around inside the house all day..she always said..it's a nice day..go.outside and play. Kids are to spoiled...
I think its those types of parents who says "i want to be a better parent then my own parent" and i think that's the issue. Like be a parent not their friend.
Yes you do at the end there was brilliant.
At the end:
Kevin: "My dad doesn't have any realization of the shit that he did. And me and my brother, we don't really give a fuck, but-"
Bill: "Yes you do."
I grew up in the uk, but moved to france when i was around 10. I remembered the whole street was alive, all the kids played outside together in the street, it was great, just like a tv show. And i went back to visit a while back, and it was so depressing. Middle of summer. No kids playing, no life. Just absolutely dead
Man how do you forget to teach your kid how to ride a bike? Jeeeeeeezzuuus
He said his friend is filthy rich, so I'm guessing he spent very little time at home actually raising his kids, and spent all his time making another million bucks he'll never need
@@michaelkeller5927 he will be remembered for his money not for his life
@@apalo70 depends who he's talking about. Is it an actor? An inventor? I don't remember Chadwick Boseman's money, but I remember his contributions to the MCU.
@@michaelkeller5927 I’m talking about people who work so much they don’t even make memories with their children
@@apalo70 oh sorry man, my bad. I read that wrong.
I grew up playing outside from morning to evening, being a kid is very fun
Time changes. I'm just 32. I clearly remember me begging my parents to go out and stay out until 9pm during the summer time.
Awesome to hear two legend comedians opinions on life
Bill got a more balanced perspective which I really appreciate. Kevin was way too dismissive and trash talk about the kids today. It's too easy to talk trash about the kids but the reality is they have way more at their fingertips and we would be just like them if we had what they had. You can't blame them for wanting to play video games all day tbh. They're fucking fun and just a few seconds away. Someone, the parents, got to show them balance. And balance is really the key to living a healthy life.
Problem is, there really is no balance and the kids are getting dumber and dumber. All the technology and yet they/we are becoming mental degenerates.
In the late 90s, parents became frightened of abductors. I was never allowed to even answer the door as a kid, whereas my older brother (14 years older) took the train to primary and secondary school when he was younger.
"That right there is my biggest fear as a father."
If more fathers were in alignment with him on That one, then I think it would Definitely help prevent our extinction as a species, as well as people like me - depressed, unmotivated, barely holding on - wouldnt exist anymore...
@@19RaxR91 exercise is one of the best ways to combat depression.
@@nickturner9476 absolutely. and just helps you see what the world can be outside of your box. So many people get caught up thinking what they know is all that exists. Theres so much out there.
So true. Love you guys;!!!! 😘
I totally agree with Bill. I respect my Dad but I’m not afraid of him. Never beat me or nothing but he made sure I acted right when I would get out of line. Today’s parents are scared of their kids and let them do whatever they want. Only school and outside for the week. Games only on weekends, is gonna be the rule 4 for my kids. Plus no phones until jr high, if u give em to them younger YOU RUIN THE KID
That was an amazing conversation. I needed to hear that this morning.
I love where it cuts off lol
I play pond hockey all the time in the winter. Pond hockey is the best.
Bill Burr realizing the need for balance. He’s not being like “video game bad” but realizing the need to give both that and outside.
I would let my kids play games because I want my kids to hate it
@@ultimatecharisma2822 meh. Games are fun. So is being outside. Best of both worlds. A balance.
I've been gaming since Atari. Also spent all day outside unless there was lightning. Balance is important.
More of bill burr and Kevin Hart shits great
These two need a movie or show together.
No Kevin Hart is not on bills level
We had to be home when the streetlights went on! And even then my parents had to shout out our names to come inside 😆
I loved to play and running through our neighborhood all day with all the kids who lived there too! 🥰
I've been a Bill Burr fan for years but only recently discovered Kevin Hart. Brilliant guys. I've really enjoyed Bill's personal growth and development over the last few years. There's a marked change in his reactions to things, and his self-awareness that I really admire.
So many people simply can't or won't do the work. Kudos to him.
Recently discovered or recently got into? Cause how the hell you just hear about Kevin Hart 😂
This conversation is gold!!!
They fail to address the school system that makes kids sit inside all day and then sends them home to do homework and by the time they're finished it's dark outside.
bruh kids in elementary school don't do shit after school
@@EG-uu3kr bruh, elementary school is still school. You still go to school until 3pm, home by 4pm, finish homework by 6pm, and there goes the day. Maybe if there were less pointless school hours there would be more daylight to go outside.
@@GreenEnvy. elementary school students don't have HW dipshit, if they do it takes minutes.
@@EG-uu3kr Lol, You clearly don't remember elementary school. We had to spend hours on homework. Keep living in fantasy land kid. I know you're a kid because no adult would get so offended by a school comment that they curse at the person who made it. Now get to bed before I pimp slap you.
This is true for my siblings. They won’t finish until 6-7 PM since elementary school.
I’m glad this channel puts in the effort to provide reaction gifs to very thing they say. I put the phone in my pocket, but I appreciate the hustle
I know Bill said this more succinctly but I'll echo the sentiment. I'm not considered one of todays kids but as a youngster in the 2000's and early 2010's (I feel old all of a sudden but I digress) I grew up with a house that had Satellite TV most of the time with several channels dedicated to kids shows, a Game Boy Advance sp, and a PS2. Even living in a trailer that's a pretty sweet deal compared to tossing a ball in the air and catching it out on the lawn. fast forward to 13 when facebook came around and that was all she wrote (and I was late to get on). I'm sure if I came up with nothing but an hour of cartoons on saturday morning and an Atari 2600 I would've gone outside a lot more. I don't for one second blame kids coming up with ipad access at 4 and smartphones at 12 for not going outside like kids used to.
This was very insightful!
Just finding out about Bill Burr University today July 7, 2023 8:30pm.
Man bill burr is the goat! Everytime I hear hear him I die laughing
I was born in the mid 50's and I roamed miles from home on my bike and played on railroad tracks. I was obsessed with reptiles. I got snake bit quite a few times, fortunately nonvenomous.Then at 18 hitch hiked out west then worked all over the west on US Forest Service and BLM reforestation contracts. All day in all weather on mountain sides sometimes steeper than a cows face. I'm still in good physical shape because of being outside. I couldn't even imagine.
I'm very glad the majority of my childhood was being kicked out of the house in the morning and not allowed back in before Dinner. I'm 24 so maybe I'm not alone in this
Careful there, bud. A bunch of Boomers are gonna crawl out of the woodwork to tell you how they were the only ones who played outside and they drank from the hose or some shit.
@@richardwagon6433 It's a video about a real problem that is pretty much only meaningfully dangerous to our generation and all you have to say is "lol boomer" No one find people saying worth listening except other retarded kids.
I love the clips you use..the moving back round is I dunno kinda unnecessary. Thank you for the content tho!
My god loved this on all levels!!
Great conversations... But we need to see you guys talk
1:19 This is what makes bill special. Yes, that is it. Every generation is jealous of the next one, because they have it "easier", "better", more this, more that... despite it all being surface level