Here’s what I do... It comes natural Walk with confident swagger Great posture Confidence Smile and joke Look them in the eye regardless who it is, man woman or child Be his equal (feminine confidence) Dress in classy fitting clothes Be able yo carry a conversation Listen, listen, listen Have values and boundaries Never touch a man even innocently I don’t know Never dumb down myself by agreeing when I don’t
Being the best version of my self every day. Enjoying myself, learning new hobbies and creative activities, spending quality time with others and with myself, keeping fit and healthy, being femenine but strong and confident... 💖💖💖
I am so pumped up about your videos. Been single for 10 yrs. Just started dating recently & implemented some of your advice. I am having a great time. I never thought it would happen for me at my age, 58 yrs-Wow
You hit hit the nail on the head. We have to fully embrace ourselves and show who we are. I was often criticized by men that I am too outgoing and bold. But hey, this is what I truely am and someone will be able to appreciate it. Thanks a lot for the clarification!
In the Mddle East countries ( mostly GCC countries ) women and men cover with Abayas for women and men wear Kanduras... so here it’s religious beliefs and culture in nature . Courting evolves very slowly for non traditional courting ways , such as those not in an arranged marriage . There are many meetings together and some with introductions by friends ... slower is better . So here the women exude their gorgeous smiles , their beautiful Arabic eyes , confident personalities and perfumed “Oud “bodies ... it’s an interesting and very effective part of culture and faith ... respect and conservative ways are a means to men wanting to look into who we are as potential partners ...
I totally agree with you 💯. Who wants to approach someone that looks sad, hurt, unfriendly. I am learning to put the past hurts in my rear view mirror be happy and move on.💪💪
Sometimes our body type may not allow for tight clothing. On some women it looks ridiculous. If I were physically fit I would wear it. I dress in what looks right on me. It has nothing to do with lack of confidence. I do agree with the rest of them. My posture is tall, I smile, and I have no problem making eye contact. I greet people when I see them, even strangers.
Thank you!! I'm at 1:04 and going out of my mind... Another 2 mins would have had me twitching like a psychopath. Oh god, and another 1:34 mins for first tip. Dang... This shit better be good. ;)
😂😂😂 true that’s how I got a guy falling in love with me he wanted to get to the point in one time and I stopped him and told him no not just yet 😂😂 and some months later he is still into me with out getting the “point” 😅.
Very much needed topic for many woman. Society is lowering our confidence in so many ways... I have noticed that I am afraid to show my beauty, I hide it being tall and beautiful by nature... seriously? Not anymore!
I loved this video. I wish I would’ve gotten this information when I was younger. Thank you so much! You are so helpful and uplifting. My mindset and confidence have already improved from watching your videos. In fact, I’m getting ready to break up with my boyfriend of almost five years because I deserve to be valued and treated right and I should’ve done it a long time ago.
I actually want to say this is so true..i just turned 36 and have just recently changed my whole outlook..everyday i am grateful, i am in an extroverted zone, kind to everyone, happy and confident, and take care of my body and mind, and it is unbelievable how good men flock to me and the men that cannot handle a good woman turn away..but this is all true what you are saying..
I've been told I was beautiful since I was a young child! I speak & carry myself with high esteem, but if a man stares at me I find it irritating! I wear what I feel comfortable in! I'm a happily married bodybuilder! I have the eyes of my husband & his eyes are all I want!!!
This is so honest and real. And I want to give a big HELL YES to all the women that have overcome some of their most challenging insecurities and setbacks, and made the choice to embody their femininity, and power. It takes work! This is what a high value woman embodies ^^. Thanks for sharing!
I really liked when u mentioned that if we appreciate and admire a beautiful art, a beautiful thing, etc then why not appreciate and like and even admire ourselves.... what a great insight!!!! Now I am learning to appreciate, to admire more myself (and still know and feel humble). After all, IT IS part of being CONFIDENT! Wow! I am already liking myself more now!!!!
Oh my gosh, YES! Please do a more detailed video on how to repel men! I'd prefer no strangers approach and harass me without having to look angry or internally dislike myself. Liking yourself, feeling great, and NOT having strangers make aggressive advances... THAT formula would. Be. Awesome.
I try to wear fitted clothing but my mom body shames me for it. It makes me feel a little bit fat. But deep down I know I'm beautiful. Especially since I believe my mom is gorgeous and I happened to look a lot like her.
U HIT IT RIGHT ON THE NAIL!! SOCIETY & SOCIAL MEDIA GIVES US A FALSE SENSE OF WHO WE SHOULD BE! VERY DETREMENTAL & UNREALISTIC! WE MUST STRIVE TO JUST BE THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELF! 🧞♂️ BE UR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL! 🧞♀️
Omg! I love all your videos no matter how long your intro is bc I love learning and picking up things from other people's experiences. I try to focus on my strengths when I get insecure/jealous about other women. Confidence if something I don't have growing up but I'm working on it. When I put a new set of clean clothes everyday, that's when confidence come into play and that makes me feel great.
These are the things that attract men: A youthful look, a warm smile, being interested in him and his story, faith in God, ability to love, kindness. Like yourself and show it in your grooming and in the clothing you wear.
I actually have this and it’s what I always tell women that confidence is so important. It’s obviously easier when your a naturally beautiful person but even a beautiful person can be unattractive if they don’t have any confidence in themselves. I don’t care about the comparisons because I know I am beautiful and natural and strong minded and I also love Jesus and he gives you a whole different perspective on the world and why we are here anyways.
Tight clothes is often considered sleazy here in the UK. Especially on mature women. We call it" mutton dressed as lamb." I wear what I'm comfortable in to suit the occasion. Feel more confident that way.
You are so right, Jason! Being true to who you are and loving it, is the greatest beauty treatment there is! Thank you for your extremely wonderful and helpful videos. God bless!
I followed your words And it's great Help for me to attract the Man, whom i wanted to be with for lifetime, now I'm getting married, these were not the only but many other things you suggested, thanks Jason . Really great help
I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - *4WhatHeWants. Com* Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?
Sometimes we're depressed when we've been told we're not good enough when we're young. It's not true. We're all perfectly made and perfectly who we're meant to be. DYT, (dressing your truth) is a great resource to understanding your best colors, style and personality and embracing you.
You are also saying without saying-let go of judgments-of yourself and others and the current circumstance. If you let go of judgments you feel beautiful and feel and exude love. Our minds can’t have 2 incongruent thoughts-so in the clothing-you are saying you love and take care of yourself and don’t judge your body. And you said it well-if we want to have the connection and bond-we need to also bring this to the table-you can only experience love at the Level you give to yourself. The looking away and posture is also a place of judgement and-you don’t believe you are worth the attention and adoration. I am here, I am present and I can love being right here, right now. I can and do love life. That’s the appreciation and gratitude attitude. Say it often when you’re anxious or worried ladies!! Worry is a fear of judgment.
I absolutely loved that you made this video. As woman I meet all types of people. Quiet, loud,intelligent, not so intelligent but one thing I notice with people in general is that confidence to believe in whatever it is and stand ground just isn’t there. I’ve been very overweight, overweight, slim and not that slim and I just said this today to a friend in all the different phases the one thing that remained constant was MYSELF! So since this is my body and no one else’s I’ve got to appreciate, take care and love it! But I’ve been this way after being in 1 relationship that tore my worth down psychologically I was only 14 married at 18 wi 1 child. The power that my ex husband had over me was so bad that it got me to fear allowing my true self to be seen. So as I regained more acceptance for myself over the years I discovered that all the differences that I possessed were valuable. Because there isn’t another me in this world. I’m naturally pretty bubbly and always smiling but that’s because I believe that the world has many beautiful things and beings are one of them so let yourself best side show and so I do. ♥️
so yeah.. I was in this mindset, and I attracted the most amazing man, but as I've been in a relationship with him for almost 5 months now, I have started to lose this amazing mindset, I started doubting myself, caring less about myself and more about him.. and unfortunately I have noticed he is taking me a bit for granted. Don't take me wrong he really loves me and all, but I have lost my high mindset quality value, and he can definitely feel and notice that, so to all the ladies out there, even if you have attracted the man of your dreams with this mindset, don't let it go, continue to take care of yourself and your own path and you will see amazing results and he will never stop pursuing you ❤️
This has been a REALLY helpful, affirming video. It makes a lot of sense and in particular, helps me feel more hopeful about another relationship. I have begun thinking I don't know how to date or communicate with men in a romantic way anymore since my husband died. It's been 7 years and I feel ready but I seem to be doing something wrong. This video really helped me and I'm going to keep coming back to it. Thank you!
THIS IS THE SECOND TIME I LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO! YES, IT'S SO TRUE, I FEEL BEAUTIFUL, I AM BEAUTIFUL AFFIRMATIONS WORK LIKE MAGIC! IT ALSO HAS THIS MAGNETIC PULL, WHICH BRING OUT OUR INNER BEAUTY AS WELL! IM IN A BAR, OFTEN QUIETLY LISTENING TO MUSIC, MEN APPROACH ME, WITHOUT ANY EFFORT ON MY PART! I JUST FEEL CONFIDENT TO JUST BE MYSELF, SMILE ENJOY OUR CONVERSATION! NO ONE & NOTHING IN LIFE IS A WASTE OF TIME! RIGHT NOW, IM EXACTLY WHERE I NEED TO BE!
More importantly is that a person wears cloth she is happy with. Do not wear cloth that is tight or unmodest... just wear pretty clothing but that show confidence that is beautiful that show self...too many women dress horrible inmodest... do not follow the flow
I have the head knowledge of these tips, but practicing it is a different story. However, the way you presented this information motivates me to exercise these tips.
so basically be confident in yourself and love yourself. we can do this girls!! i do everything but confidence 100% the time, dancers know that posture is important ;
Hello Jason, great video on being an authentic human being and being confident and proud of oneself-- supermodel mindset. Showing up for ourselves and in the world, making an impact, adding value for our relationships, and little things- like smiling sometimes, initiating eye contact and being open to talking more and expressing oneself...I used to be a shy introvert and it kept me invisible in my family and other relationships, now I am more balanced and enjoy having conversations and expressing with others about my own life and thoughts-- I feel this in a way set me free!
In my early 20s and figured all this out way before anyone else my age did. I'm single but it feels good to finally have people chase me instead of the other way around.
I have found that being me, not being fake or something I'm not has attracted more men. I am already confident, I like who I am, I dress in what I like, yes my clothes fit well, but not tight. I also have a positive attitude and genuinely love life and who I am.
I'm about the same size as you. I do that all the time too & it truly seems like some men have no problem with it. I also run into ppl I haven't seen in years who also had crush on me in H.S, wearing loose jean's & a simple T-shirt. These guys will not care at all. I'm also soooo clueless as to why some women think they need a certain outfit to make them appear confident. You should already feel that way.
Sometimes when someone that is having a hard time excepting themselves or what is happening around them it's good to hear words in repetition. So it sinks in... God has his way of speaking through others.
@@yakdhaneworld9235 True that! Unfortunately, some of us can't even get to that level with men to give them the 3! Jason's attempting to get us to that point. Appreciate his effort!
You are absolutely brilliant! I love how you pay homage to inspiration through secret messages (maybe just in my head). You are such a kind, giving, soul and your sense of urgency and unconditional love imbued in your video truly hit home. You open hearts and minds with your generous words of wisdom. You are one of a kind. Thank you for this wonderful contribution to society.
Girls listen up! Do not try to dumb yourself down or act to passive, trust me if a guy is intimated by your intellect, assertive manner or even being fit/strong, then he probably has a fragile ego and is not worth your time. I myself do boxing and I would consider myself to have a confident laid back attitude and ever since I stopped fearing I'm going to be to muscular/to masculine, I've had what you'd call 'high quality men' interested in me! I there is a video on power poses for woman that really helped me gain men's respect.
Yikes. I am guilty of making alot of these mistakes. I think I subconsciously believe that being confident is the same is being arrogant, but it's not. I'm definitely gonna try to work on #1 and #2.
Modesty in the way you dress should not repel men . In fact modestly doesn’t say anything about confidence at all. Biologically Men are looking for shiny hair, clear skin and eyes , those biological markers for health and fertility. Dressing in tight clothing and being provocative in that way is more likely to attract the wrong men than the right ones .
In sum: be confident!!! And in order to be confident, you'll have to love + know yourself first!!! So if you haven't learnt that yet, don't even waste your time watching this video, work on yourself first, then come back!!!
I seriously needed this type of advice 😂 . I am 33 yrs old still single , shy , highly introvert that i dont even talk to unknown ppl . whatever you said should not be done , i do most of the time 😅 no eye contact , slouching . Imagining all that thinks to do scares me a lot . Can you make a vedio on ppl who are introverts as how to start open communication , how to flirt with a guy 😅.
KingdomArjun Arjun Hi when I was 61 years old and a widow I lost 65 pounds by walking in a nearby park. Brought my weight down to a normal weight. As I walked I repeated to myself this mantra. I am beautiful I am sexy I am loved Ok I said this too.... Men fall in love with me. Guess what??? It worked! Seriously it’s mind over matter. Another one I’d say is I am confident! I’m now married to a handsome man 3 years younger that is a former Green Beret. I’m now 66 and married him this past February 2019 He’s telling you the truth. You can do this! Good luck, you are beautiful, sexy and loved! ♥️
My problem is different 😅 . I am highly beautiful , just dont want unwanted attention or fall in trap of play boys ( these are types which waste your time a lot ) 😑 .
Not sure if that's a promotional spiel but saying that "you probably doing the attracting thing wrong" alienates rather than enticing the viewer to be in a listening mode. Just my thoughts always with good intentions 👂
Ginga Fairbairn yes I didn’t like the gross over generalisations that 99% of women repel men etc. like seriously where’s the research to back up those stats?
I had to comment on this. The ending of this video is beyond encouraging. Seriously made me pumped to go out and do great things in the world and for others with my unique talents God gave me. Great tips too. Thanks!!
Love this video, I went through a horrible relationship with a covert narcissist and when I decided to end it something happened I had to face my worst financial fears when I ended it. It was really strange but the self love and courage it took to leave catapulted me into exuding this supermodel mindset and I've noticed all the men in my social life including the one I left are suddenly gaga over me :) they just love being around me. It's fascinating stuff and the fact that I've become a stronger Christian who no longer believes in sex before marriage is also working a very strange magic in my life. I just feel great and I'm loving my life. I've come so far and I feel so good about myself. I get what you talking about.
❤❤❤ Covert Narcissist are the worst! Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. I don’t know you, I know the hell you came from, I’m proud of you and anyone else who had the strength to run away from that relationship. Keep your faith. You GEAUX supermodel!
First of all thank you very much for sharing these advices 😊 and responding to your question: what is the world other than what we think it is? So obviously that what we focus is what we are going to see 😉
The point I think Jason is trying to make is that you should embrace the mindset whether or not anyone is looking. Be that woman who values herself, confident and curious, open to life, ready to smile and speak.
Women are always being told that they're doing things wrong, when did men get so blooming sensitive. Women have to jump through hoops to get a man it seems. Jeeze!
And if you actually get one, it is still hella tiring with them in a relationship, and most of the time you have to jump through loops there too. I don't have that problem, men generally treat me like shit, lol.
The way you describe “wear tight clothes” sounds like buying into the concept that only physically beautiful women who have the figure to wear tight clothes deserve to find a match. Why not say “wear clothes that flatter your figure” or “wear clothes that accentuate your curves”?
I fell in love with a homeless man because he took wonderful care of me when we were friends, after I did not get as good of treatment and he started treating me wrong to keep me down instead of step up to future responsibility. I became embarrassed to be with him, and broke up with him on my birth month, but Im glad thats the same month I learned of Jason Silvers uplifting information who reminds me of my twin sister!
I've been recently coming into my own, and feel really good that, unknowingly, I have four out of five of these locked down! (Need to up the ante on that posture 🤓).Thank you sooo much!
Wow, yesss! You so convincingly, confidently, with so right words, sweep away my insecurities about my female body out of my mind, that I feel so relieved and refreshed. Thank you, Jason!
You just described my 5 superpowers. Just Be Me! Works every time; and loved what you were saying about repelling! Totally repels 'the wrong'uns!' - Just wished I'd learned sooner not to take it personally, or think it was my fault! X
Great video, Jason, much appreciated. Now can you make another video where you teach women how to politely say no to all the men who would take their genuine friendly smile and confident posture as a sure sign the woman is open and willing to be approached. Over and over and over again, the smallest sign of friendliness and openness from a woman is take to signify sexual interests and men need very little encouragement to act on their impulses. Every woman has been there one too many times in her life, and therefore avoiding eye contact, wearing loose clothing and seeming shut off are actually way women employ to fend off unwanted sexual interest from men who mistake friendly, open postures and behavior as come-hither invitations.
this video is fantastic Jason, possibly the best advice Ive gotten from any other videos online. Exactly what I needed to hear. Cant thank you enough x
What do YOU do to exude sensual confidence?
Smile touch him a lot tell him i agree a lot with him and stay close to him than anyone else in the room
I smile a lot when I am in the grocery store. Not everyone will make eye contact with me but at least I try.
Being your best self, being humble and thankful for another day. Great video thanks =)
Here’s what I do...
It comes natural
Walk with confident swagger
Great posture
Confidence
Smile and joke
Look them in the eye regardless who it is, man woman or child
Be his equal (feminine confidence)
Dress in classy fitting clothes
Be able yo carry a conversation
Listen, listen, listen
Have values and boundaries
Never touch a man even innocently I don’t know
Never dumb down myself by agreeing when I don’t
Being the best version of my self every day. Enjoying myself, learning new hobbies and creative activities, spending quality time with others and with myself, keeping fit and healthy, being femenine but strong and confident... 💖💖💖
Most women don't want to "attract men", we want to attract and be attracted to the 'right man'.
✌🏽❤️💣
I live in my truth and if he doesn't like me being myself, I tell him goodbye.
Agreed and bye bye yes
True
I am so pumped up about your videos. Been single for 10 yrs. Just started dating recently & implemented some of your advice. I am having a great time. I never thought it would happen for me at my age, 58 yrs-Wow
You hit hit the nail on the head. We have to fully embrace ourselves and show who we are.
I was often criticized by men that I am too outgoing and bold. But hey, this is what I truely am and someone will be able to appreciate it. Thanks a lot for the clarification!
Yes! #PowerOfPolarity
@Nisha Rajah they were intimidated by you confidence.
Oh my god dont listen to them the first thing I have noticed in u is ur pic beautiful 😍
Nisha Rajah exactly, I am bold and outspoken but sweet and honest. And that is the kind of guy I attracted.
Concept: Have a Supermodel Mindset
1-Wear tight clothing
2-Eye Contact
3-Have a good posture
4-Smile
5-Being verbally free
Some heroes don't wear capes. Thanks. This dude is rambling on and on and on. Jesus christ 😒
Theinsomniac826 I like him anyway 😉 I like to listen to his voice 😊
God, thank you. 🙏🏼
Exactly x
In the Mddle East countries ( mostly GCC countries ) women and men cover with Abayas for women and men wear Kanduras... so here it’s religious beliefs and culture in nature . Courting evolves very slowly for non traditional courting ways , such as those not in an arranged marriage . There are many meetings together and some with introductions by friends ... slower is better . So here the women exude their gorgeous smiles , their beautiful Arabic eyes , confident personalities and perfumed “Oud “bodies ... it’s an interesting and very effective part of culture and faith ... respect and conservative ways are a means to men wanting to look into who we are as potential partners ...
I totally agree with you 💯. Who wants to approach someone that looks sad, hurt, unfriendly. I am learning to put the past hurts in my rear view mirror be happy and move on.💪💪
Sometimes our body type may not allow for tight clothing. On some women it looks ridiculous. If I were physically fit I would wear it. I dress in what looks right on me. It has nothing to do with lack of confidence. I do agree with the rest of them. My posture is tall, I smile, and I have no problem making eye contact. I greet people when I see them, even strangers.
But do show a little leg. It's nice to see.
He does a good job being both teacher and coach because he explains things fully. He's giving a lot..
Actual video starts from 3:11
4.45 for first tip
God, thank You xD
Thank you!! I'm at 1:04 and going out of my mind... Another 2 mins would have had me twitching like a psychopath. Oh god, and another 1:34 mins for first tip. Dang... This shit better be good. ;)
Wordy ugg
He uses to many unnecessary words. I almost clicked off
Here’s something that turns guys and girls off: Not getting to the point.
Sooo funny.
🤣🤣🤣
Absolutely right
Yeah😂
😂😂😂 true that’s how I got a guy falling in love with me he wanted to get to the point in one time and I stopped him and told him no not just yet 😂😂 and some months later he is still into me with out getting the “point” 😅.
Very much needed topic for many woman. Society is lowering our confidence in so many ways... I have noticed that I am afraid to show my beauty, I hide it being tall and beautiful by nature... seriously? Not anymore!
I loved this video. I wish I would’ve gotten this information when I was younger. Thank you so much! You are so helpful and uplifting. My mindset and confidence have already improved from watching your videos. In fact, I’m getting ready to break up with my boyfriend of almost five years because I deserve to be valued and treated right and I should’ve done it a long time ago.
I actually want to say this is so true..i just turned 36 and have just recently changed my whole outlook..everyday i am grateful, i am in an extroverted zone, kind to everyone, happy and confident, and take care of my body and mind, and it is unbelievable how good men flock to me and the men that cannot handle a good woman turn away..but this is all true what you are saying..
We must first love ourselves so that others can love us equally.Let's try to look at ourselves as a person we like and work on what we don't like.
I've been told I was beautiful since I was a young child! I speak & carry myself with high esteem, but if a man stares at me I find it irritating! I wear what I feel comfortable in! I'm a happily married bodybuilder! I have the eyes of my husband & his eyes are all I want!!!
This is so honest and real. And I want to give a big HELL YES to all the women that have overcome some of their most challenging insecurities and setbacks, and made the choice to embody their femininity, and power. It takes work! This is what a high value woman embodies ^^. Thanks for sharing!
I really liked when u mentioned that if we appreciate and admire a beautiful art, a beautiful thing, etc then why not appreciate and like and even admire ourselves.... what a great insight!!!! Now I am learning to appreciate, to admire more myself (and still know and feel humble). After all, IT IS part of being CONFIDENT! Wow! I am already liking myself more now!!!!
Oh my gosh, YES! Please do a more detailed video on how to repel men!
I'd prefer no strangers approach and harass me without having to look angry or internally dislike myself.
Liking yourself, feeling great, and NOT having strangers make aggressive advances... THAT formula would. Be. Awesome.
I try to wear fitted clothing but my mom body shames me for it. It makes me feel a little bit fat. But deep down I know I'm beautiful. Especially since I believe my mom is gorgeous and I happened to look a lot like her.
U HIT IT RIGHT ON THE NAIL!!
SOCIETY & SOCIAL MEDIA GIVES US A FALSE SENSE OF WHO WE SHOULD BE! VERY DETREMENTAL & UNREALISTIC! WE MUST STRIVE TO JUST BE THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELF!
🧞♂️ BE UR OWN KIND OF BEAUTIFUL! 🧞♀️
I attract high quality guys, I'm just so damn picky. They have to have what I want and what I like and if they don't, next.
Omg! I love all your videos no matter how long your intro is bc I love learning and picking up things from other people's experiences. I try to focus on my strengths when I get insecure/jealous about other women. Confidence if something I don't have growing up but I'm working on it. When I put a new set of clean clothes everyday, that's when confidence come into play and that makes me feel great.
These are the things that attract men: A youthful look, a warm smile, being interested in him and his story, faith in God, ability to love, kindness. Like yourself and show it in your grooming and in the clothing you wear.
Supermodels are not the happiest women in the world
I think that an eye contact and a smile are necessary when you want to attract someone
Your jacket is da bomb! Shows your form off perfectly and the cut and fabric are amazing. Wear it when you want the power position.
I actually have this and it’s what I always tell women that confidence is so important. It’s obviously easier when your a naturally beautiful person but even a beautiful person can be unattractive if they don’t have any confidence in themselves. I don’t care about the comparisons because I know I am beautiful and natural and strong minded and I also love Jesus and he gives you a whole different perspective on the world and why we are here anyways.
7:46 i like that you admit your own personal faults that your not where you wanna be. It makes you more human and relatable and worth listening to.
Tight clothes is often considered sleazy here in the UK. Especially on mature women. We call it" mutton dressed as lamb."
I wear what I'm comfortable in to suit the occasion. Feel more confident that way.
😂🤣😄
I'm in my sixties and a little overweight so I would never wear anything tight fitting.
michele davies I think he means fitted or tailored to your body as opposed to tight
He means something that fits your body type not a tight shirt and mini skirt just something that complements you
Feeling confident in what you wear trumps a generic "wear tight clothing" any day
Holing your shoulders back, talking, and smiling is good advice for life including job interviews.
You are so right, Jason! Being true to who you are and loving it, is the greatest beauty treatment there is! Thank you for your extremely wonderful and helpful videos. God bless!
I followed your words And it's great Help for me to attract the Man, whom i wanted to be with for lifetime, now I'm getting married, these were not the only but many other things you suggested, thanks Jason . Really great help
Hear, hear. I wish some of my sisters out there would listen to this. Self love is everything. Love this. Good job.
Awsome. Completely true. I have grown so much in the past 16 months. Loved your video! Great, confident teacher! Thank you
I'm a dude; this checks out.
Same here LOL
he aint foolin nobody lol
Good advice. “You can only compare yourself to your old self”. So true!!!
I LOVE what you said about only comparing yourself to yourself!
I have been researching "things that attract men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - *4WhatHeWants. Com* Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my mate got amazing results with it.?
“Take more esteemable actions based on YOUR strengths...” That’s the best way to go. Thanks for reminding us to lean into best selves. So sweet.❤️
Thank u. Its hard to be confident when yr in depression . So ya i see a link there. Stay blessed.
Sometimes we're depressed when we've been told we're not good enough when we're young. It's not true. We're all perfectly made and perfectly who we're meant to be. DYT, (dressing your truth) is a great resource to understanding your best colors, style and personality and embracing you.
You are also saying without saying-let go of judgments-of yourself and others and the current circumstance. If you let go of judgments you feel beautiful and feel and exude love. Our minds can’t have 2 incongruent thoughts-so in the clothing-you are saying you love and take care of yourself and don’t judge your body.
And you said it well-if we want to have the connection and bond-we need to also bring this to the table-you can only experience love at the Level you give to yourself.
The looking away and posture is also a place of judgement and-you don’t believe you are worth the attention and adoration.
I am here, I am present and I can love being right here, right now. I can and do love life. That’s the appreciation and gratitude attitude. Say it often when you’re anxious or worried ladies!!
Worry is a fear of judgment.
I absolutely loved that you made this video. As woman I meet all types of people. Quiet, loud,intelligent, not so intelligent but one thing I notice with people in general is that confidence to believe in whatever it is and stand ground just isn’t there. I’ve been very overweight, overweight, slim and not that slim and I just said this today to a friend in all the different phases the one thing that remained constant was MYSELF! So since this is my body and no one else’s I’ve got to appreciate, take care and love it! But I’ve been this way after being in 1 relationship that tore my worth down psychologically I was only 14 married at 18 wi 1 child. The power that my ex husband had over me was so bad that it got me to fear allowing my true self to be seen. So as I regained more acceptance for myself over the years I discovered that all the differences that I possessed were valuable. Because there isn’t another me in this world. I’m naturally pretty bubbly and always smiling but that’s because I believe that the world has many beautiful things and beings are one of them so let yourself best side show and so I do. ♥️
so yeah.. I was in this mindset, and I attracted the most amazing man, but as I've been in a relationship with him for almost 5 months now, I have started to lose this amazing mindset, I started doubting myself, caring less about myself and more about him.. and unfortunately I have noticed he is taking me a bit for granted. Don't take me wrong he really loves me and all, but I have lost my high mindset quality value, and he can definitely feel and notice that, so to all the ladies out there, even if you have attracted the man of your dreams with this mindset, don't let it go, continue to take care of yourself and your own path and you will see amazing results and he will never stop pursuing you ❤️
This has been a REALLY helpful, affirming video. It makes a lot of sense and in particular, helps me feel more hopeful about another relationship. I have begun thinking I don't know how to date or communicate with men in a romantic way anymore since my husband died. It's been 7 years and I feel ready but I seem to be doing something wrong. This video really helped me and I'm going to keep coming back to it. Thank you!
THIS IS THE SECOND TIME I LISTEN TO THIS VIDEO!
YES, IT'S SO TRUE, I FEEL BEAUTIFUL, I AM BEAUTIFUL AFFIRMATIONS WORK LIKE MAGIC! IT ALSO HAS THIS MAGNETIC PULL, WHICH BRING OUT OUR INNER BEAUTY AS WELL!
IM IN A BAR, OFTEN QUIETLY LISTENING TO MUSIC, MEN APPROACH ME, WITHOUT ANY EFFORT ON MY PART!
I JUST FEEL CONFIDENT TO JUST BE MYSELF, SMILE ENJOY OUR CONVERSATION!
NO ONE & NOTHING IN LIFE IS A WASTE OF TIME!
RIGHT NOW, IM EXACTLY WHERE I NEED TO BE!
Hello,I’m from India.I can say - reading, begin classy and a better updated version of yourself is a key ingredients
More importantly is that a person wears cloth she is happy with. Do not wear cloth that is tight or unmodest... just wear pretty clothing but that show confidence that is beautiful that show self...too many women dress horrible inmodest... do not follow the flow
Your right it works if you want a high value man... Loved your content
The supermodel mindset, as you call it, makes life soooo much more worth imo! That is how I operate most of the time and it make me feel alive. 😍
I have the head knowledge of these tips, but practicing it is a different story. However, the way you presented this information motivates me to exercise these tips.
so basically be confident in yourself and love yourself. we can do this girls!! i do everything but confidence 100% the time, dancers know that posture is important ;
Hello Jason, great video on being an authentic human being and being confident and proud of oneself-- supermodel mindset. Showing up for ourselves and in the world, making an impact, adding value for our relationships, and little things- like smiling sometimes, initiating eye contact and being open to talking more and expressing oneself...I used to be a shy introvert and it kept me invisible in my family and other relationships, now I am more balanced and enjoy having conversations and expressing with others about my own life and thoughts-- I feel this in a way set me free!
Great video and good distinctions on why these things matter: when I am authentic, I become confident and can grow more--this is based on self-love.
Annoyingly long intro
I agree! Sorry about that...I'll work on being more concise.
Yes too much waffling
Not really
Then dont watch it this video was great
@@jasonsilveryt Almost 3minutes.....
So 99% of women repel men? Geez. Hahahaha.
Is it that women repel men or are men just fickle and non committal.
@@jamilak8161 what do you bring to the table for that commitment
@@zero1188 willingness to support a guy, love, respect, a home, car and a great attitude. Any other suggestions?
@Ocean Flower l agree but zero asked me what I am bringing....
There are a bunch of cowards..dats where the problem is....thinkin of marrying myself in future😊
Tottaly confortable to be myself , and yah we are powerful, pure beauty... And can't stop thinking like this. Rooooar
He starts to give the 5 secrects in the 4.44 minute!
Great points right on point! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you for posting this Jason Silver.
In my early 20s and figured all this out way before anyone else my age did. I'm single but it feels good to finally have people chase me instead of the other way around.
I have found that being me, not being fake or something I'm not has attracted more men. I am already confident, I like who I am, I dress in what I like, yes my clothes fit well, but not tight. I also have a positive attitude and genuinely love life and who I am.
Apsolutly true. You can atract who ever you want, easily. Bravo
I am size 4 or 6, normal size. I wear loose clothes sometimes just because these are stylish. And it seems OK with men.
I'm about the same size as you. I do that all the time too & it truly seems like some men have no problem with it. I also run into ppl I haven't seen in years who also had crush on me in H.S, wearing loose jean's & a simple T-shirt. These guys will not care at all. I'm also soooo clueless as to why some women think they need a certain outfit to make them appear confident. You should already feel that way.
Be happy with who you are and confident. Different men like different types of women not just 1 percent.
Love your videos. Too much repetitive words and thoughts in the beginning. Took 3 mins to get through the intro. 🤦🏾♀️
Totally agree. Working on becoming more pithy! Hopefully my newer videos keep getting better.
@@jasonsilveryt No, I was drinking in every word. You really have a gift! Don't change.
Man is not complecated look: give him this 3 things : respect 50%, sex 35% and foods 15% ==》 he will not leave you at all
Sometimes when someone that is having a hard time excepting themselves or what is happening around them it's good to hear words in repetition.
So it sinks in...
God has his way of speaking through others.
@@yakdhaneworld9235 True that! Unfortunately, some of us can't even get to that level with men to give them the 3! Jason's attempting to get us to that point. Appreciate his effort!
I am PROUD to say, I am 100% a supermodel who does ALL of these traits!!!
You are absolutely brilliant! I love how you pay homage to inspiration through secret messages (maybe just in my head). You are such a kind, giving, soul and your sense of urgency and unconditional love imbued in your video truly hit home. You open hearts and minds with your generous words of wisdom. You are one of a kind. Thank you for this wonderful contribution to society.
Girls listen up! Do not try to dumb yourself down or act to passive, trust me if a guy is intimated by your intellect, assertive manner or even being fit/strong, then he probably has a fragile ego and is not worth your time.
I myself do boxing and I would consider myself to have a confident laid back attitude and ever since I stopped fearing I'm going to be to muscular/to masculine, I've had what you'd call 'high quality men' interested in me! I there is a video on power poses for woman that really helped me gain men's respect.
Yikes. I am guilty of making alot of these mistakes. I think I subconsciously believe that being confident is the same is being arrogant, but it's not. I'm definitely gonna try to work on #1 and #2.
#1 A woman with supermodel mindset - tight/fitted clothing showing curvature
#2 Eye contact
#3 Posture - chest open embracing the world, "I am here"
#4 Smiling - appreciation mode
#5 Verbally free - start talking
Modesty in the way you dress should not repel men . In fact modestly doesn’t say anything about confidence at all. Biologically Men are looking for shiny hair, clear skin and eyes , those biological markers for health and fertility. Dressing in tight clothing and being provocative in that way is more likely to attract the wrong men than the right ones .
In sum: be confident!!! And in order to be confident, you'll have to love + know yourself first!!! So if you haven't learnt that yet, don't even waste your time watching this video, work on yourself first, then come back!!!
Great video Jason, thank you. Being verbally free - is the most challenging for me. But I´m gonna try it!
I seriously needed this type of advice 😂 . I am 33 yrs old still single , shy , highly introvert that i dont even talk to unknown ppl . whatever you said should not be done , i do most of the time 😅 no eye contact , slouching . Imagining all that thinks to do scares me a lot .
Can you make a vedio on ppl who are introverts as how to start open communication , how to flirt with a guy 😅.
KingdomArjun Arjun
Hi when I was 61 years old and a widow I lost 65 pounds by walking in a nearby park. Brought my weight down to a normal weight. As I walked I repeated to myself this mantra.
I am beautiful
I am sexy
I am loved
Ok I said this too....
Men fall in love with me.
Guess what???
It worked!
Seriously it’s mind over matter.
Another one I’d say is
I am confident!
I’m now married to a handsome man 3 years younger that is a former Green Beret.
I’m now 66 and married him this past February 2019
He’s telling you the truth.
You can do this!
Good luck, you are beautiful, sexy and loved! ♥️
My problem is different 😅 . I am highly beautiful , just dont want unwanted attention or fall in trap of play boys ( these are types which waste your time a lot ) 😑 .
KingdomArjun Arjun watch the other videos to learn how to avoid play boys
@@kingdomarjunarjun245 same Age , same attitude. Everybody tell that I am highly attractive. But I scares nices guys and I am afraid of bad ones;-))))
KingdomArjun Arjun...... you just described me to a T 🤣
Great video! I wholeheartedly agree...as a woman with a supermodel mindset I find it easy to stay in my feminine energy and that drives men wild!
It’s better to be just who you are
Not sure if that's a promotional spiel but saying that "you probably doing the attracting thing wrong" alienates rather than enticing the viewer to be in a listening mode. Just my thoughts always with good intentions 👂
Ginga Fairbairn yes I didn’t like the gross over generalisations that 99% of women repel men etc. like seriously where’s the research to back up those stats?
I had to comment on this. The ending of this video is beyond encouraging. Seriously made me pumped to go out and do great things in the world and for others with my unique talents God gave me. Great tips too. Thanks!!
I love how you explain the video. Its so precise even if your talking fast.
Thanks for the challenge.
Love this video, I went through a horrible relationship with a covert narcissist and when I decided to end it something happened I had to face my worst financial fears when I ended it. It was really strange but the self love and courage it took to leave catapulted me into exuding this supermodel mindset and I've noticed all the men in my social life including the one I left are suddenly gaga over me :) they just love being around me. It's fascinating stuff and the fact that I've become a stronger Christian who no longer believes in sex before marriage is also working a very strange magic in my life. I just feel great and I'm loving my life. I've come so far and I feel so good about myself. I get what you talking about.
❤❤❤ Covert Narcissist are the worst! Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. I don’t know you, I know the hell you came from, I’m proud of you and anyone else who had the strength to run away from that relationship. Keep your faith. You GEAUX supermodel!
Thank you for no commercials, and for keeping it short.
What we should know is that we are perfect in our imperfections
I do feel confident and am happy with myself I believe I will get someone eventually I'm just expanding my social circle at the moment
Loved ❤️ it !! Appreciate this video very much Jason. Thank you very much
Supermodel mindset comes within after watching yourself into the mirror, you will walk with confidence. This is a wonderful video. Many thanks..
First of all thank you very much for sharing these advices 😊 and responding to your question: what is the world other than what we think it is? So obviously that what we focus is what we are going to see 😉
Ok, I'M GONNA TRY IT!!!:):)
I will repeat all those words in my head when I see that cute guy!!
Thanks Jason!!! :):)
Let me know how it goes!
The point I think Jason is trying to make is that you should embrace the mindset whether or not anyone is looking. Be that woman who values herself, confident and curious, open to life, ready to smile and speak.
“ Responsibility Matters for All Lives “ !
Women are always being told that they're doing things wrong, when did men get so blooming sensitive. Women have to jump through hoops to get a man it seems. Jeeze!
😁😁😁👍
It is the same when trying to get a fucking job.
No, all you have to do is go out in public and look pretty. You have no idea the kind of thought we put into courtship.
And if you actually get one, it is still hella tiring with them in a relationship, and most of the time you have to jump through loops there too.
I don't have that problem, men generally treat me like shit, lol.
at least this dude is positive. men feel the same way about women i think.
I like how specify each n every thing abt a guy so clearly n look forward to see more abt men.
l like all ur vedios.
The way you describe “wear tight clothes” sounds like buying into the concept that only physically beautiful women who have the figure to wear tight clothes deserve to find a match. Why not say “wear clothes that flatter your figure” or “wear clothes that accentuate your curves”?
Charmed 6266 agreed
I think he said clothes that fit not tight. Am I wrong because a lot of comments are saying he said tight clothes but I heard clothes that fit you.
I fell in love with a homeless man because he took wonderful care of me when we were friends, after I did not get as good of treatment and he started treating me wrong to keep me down instead of step up to future responsibility. I became embarrassed to be with him, and broke up with him on my birth month, but Im glad thats the same month I learned of Jason Silvers uplifting information who reminds me of my twin sister!
I've been recently coming into my own, and feel really good that, unknowingly, I have four out of five of these locked down! (Need to up the ante on that posture 🤓).Thank you sooo much!
Wow, yesss! You so convincingly, confidently, with so right words, sweep away my insecurities about my female body out of my mind, that I feel so relieved and refreshed. Thank you, Jason!
I shivered because this inspired me so much...✨💕
fRoOt LoOp Drum roll please and.....what were the results?
You can tell when a woman knows what she’s doing. That’s all a woman needs to show us.
You just described my 5 superpowers. Just Be Me! Works every time; and loved what you were saying about repelling! Totally repels 'the wrong'uns!' - Just wished I'd learned sooner not to take it personally, or think it was my fault! X
Now I have to watch your 90- video playlist.
Great video, Jason, much appreciated. Now can you make another video where you teach women how to politely say no to all the men who would take their genuine friendly smile and confident posture as a sure sign the woman is open and willing to be approached. Over and over and over again, the smallest sign of friendliness and openness from a woman is take to signify sexual interests and men need very little encouragement to act on their impulses. Every woman has been there one too many times in her life, and therefore avoiding eye contact, wearing loose clothing and seeming shut off are actually way women employ to fend off unwanted sexual interest from men who mistake friendly, open postures and behavior as come-hither invitations.
Thanks Jason,
Really enjoy listening to your advice!
this video is fantastic Jason, possibly the best advice Ive gotten from any other videos online. Exactly what I needed to hear. Cant thank you enough x
Thank you so much for this! All makes sense!