I was seriously bullied at school and abused at home. Only one of the mean girls stepped up and apologized. Only one. And it was recently. We are in our 40s now. It meant the world to me the she apologized. And in fact she’s reached out since then and tried to be friendly since. That’s super courageous, integral, and kind.
I think it would mean a lot, even more maybe, if they apologized while in school and if they said exactly what she said in that Reddit post. That she was desperate for attention, and insecure and jealous of them, doesn’t expect them to accept it but apologizing and being happy about who her victims are. If said in a genuine way I think that could mean the world. I still think it’d be good to have what happened to you happen like “holy sh-t, you still think about me?” Kinda thing (at least that’s how I would feel and take solace in that fact) but I think doing it while they’re still in school would be more beneficial, but that depends on how cruel they really were.
@@Fetidaf it honestly depends on how willing they are to look in the mirror. And how emotionally mature they are. If it happened at school it would’ve been cool, that would’ve been preferable. I didn’t have a single friend until I was 12. Not one. It honestly would’ve made the difference if she did it when we were children. But, the fact that she did it all shows so much growth. Emotionally mentally and behaviorally. I’m proud of her for doing it at all. It made me sad she still thought about it. Especially since she was not the one who antagonized me the most. She just went along with her friends.
I had a childhood bully reach out to me years ago and apologize. It so validated what I went through, and I forgave him instantly, because he didn't need to do that, we'll never see each other again, but he did and it meant a lot.
One thing important to note is that, when you're a teenager, your empathy isn't fully developed yet. It's even worse when you're a child. Kids and teens do things that their adult selves look back on and despise, all the time, and it's important to learn from it, but equally important to forgive yourself and to not hold the young version of yourself accountable the same way that you would hold yourself accountable for a similar action now. Accountability is still important, but it's different in this situation and kicking yourself for what your younger self did serves no one.
Fun fact from the collector's hobby: If something is made to be collectible, it will almost certainly never gain any value. Baseball cards and Beanie Babies are the most famous examples of this. Meanwhile, when I was sorting the sewing patterns for a local art reuse charity, I found a 1960's Barbie Clothing tie-in pattern (so you and your kid can have an outfit that matches your doll!). It was literally worth $300 and was just a random one off that didn't sell all that well in its day (though it's super rare and valueble now especially new in package for the Barbie collectors). We put it on the online storefront and it was sold within the hour
@ribbitfroog the OG ones do. Once they started mass production of collectibles, they lost their value (see 90's and 00's cards for example. The 50's ones are very valuable)
Regarding the mean girls confession. As someone who was subject to a lot of bullying growing up. While it’s been well over a decade since I graduated high school, and I no longer have a chip on my shoulder about it, it still hurts to remember those times. It also adds insult to injury when the people who did it will act all buddy buddy with me if we run into each other, and act like we were the best of friends or at least amicable even though they made my life a living hell from pre-k onward (yes, it was just that small of a school system). I would never wish ill will on them, but I actively avoid being in any space with them. For years I loathed going to the stores in town after I graduated because I didn’t want to be continually gaslit. Then I remember the one person who did apologize - one day we had gotten stuck on a canoe together during a camping trip with our youth group and got separated from the group. I don’t remember how it led to making amends - we were fighting over everything and suddenly the canoe flipped and as we finally got our shit together and back down stream she apologized. And she left me alone after that. I still remember the hurt, but I remember that canoe trip more than any of it. I haven’t heard from her since she moved in middle school, but heard around the grapevine she has a kid now. I hope life has been kind to her. So, yes. Talk to them. They may not be the most receptive to begin with, and they may not want to be friends, but they’ll remember the apology and the fact that you stuck to your word. And even if they don’t, you get the peace of mind that you genuinely tried.
Narc has several meanings, narcissist is one of them, narcotics officer is another, it's also short for nitrogen narcosis and an alternate spelling of nark, so a police informant, snitch, it might also be used about an unpleasant person that sticks their nose into things that aren't their business and then tells others about it, a gossip, tattletale.
People often shorten narcissist to narc, and in this context they're referring to narcissists as the confession was referencing narcissists. It wouldn't make sense for them to bring up narcotics officers out of nowhere
Decades ago when McDonald's did the Best Buy Bucks along side their Monopoly thing a few of us kinda gamed the system. The store I worked at had a basement where all the paper products were stored. One day it flooded, not high enough to ruin anything, but per health code all the paper stuff got tossed. There were three cases of large fry cartons down there, thousands of fry cartons. I being the maintenance guy, was the one tasked with cleaning everything out. I cleaned those cases right into the back of my truck and took them home where my room mates and I spent the night peeling cartons. We ended up with over $5000 in Best Buy Bucks and hundreds of free drink/fries/sandwiches. I still don't feel bad about it
That's legit. You did the work of transporting and checking. The prizes were already considered and planned for and put on the paper, so you cost them nothing more than they were already willing to give. No one else was gonna have those rewards if you weren't. I believe you were entitled to it.
When I was in 8th grade I continuously told a bi kid in my class that "being gay is a sin" (I was intensely Christian back then) and he bullied me for it, and look at me now, 16 and pansexual. I absolutely deserved to be bullied cause I was being a major bigot, and I know that god wouldn't put down people for being gay, and if you think otherwise, you ain't a real Christian, god loves EVERYONE, no exceptions.
@@Cats_-jf4hpyea. I never understood why most Christians hate people for no reason. They always say the Bible said so even though it says nothing of it. I think it probably started when one priest said something like that and everyone believed it.
Lol, I had a simliar story as the little girl on the slide. On my first week of kindergarten, another kid dared me to climb the the top triangle of this geodesic dome climbing structure and hang on the top from my hands and feet looking straight down. The metal bars were wet and slippery from rain earlier that day, and I face planted. A sharp piece of gravel cut my forehead and there was blood everywhere. The teachers panicked, my mom panicked when she arrived, but the doctor whas just like "Yeah, head wounds are like that. You only need 3 stitches." I got a letter from the other kid (now woman) apologizing around the time I graduated from my Masters' program. I wrote back saying, "Thanks for the apology, but it's been like 20 years, my scar has completely faded, and it really wasn't your fault anyways. Not only were their environmental factors that were unsafe (rain-slick bars, sharp gravel on a kid's playground), but I also did not have to do what you dared me to do. That was my choice." We're dating now
I forged my mom's signature for approx. 3 years when I was about 3rd Grade. Storytime, so there is this policy that I was given a written note that I was late for school. And oh boy, I was late for a lot of time for 2 main reasons. (1) We live an island away from school, bridges can be a pain to cross since traffic is so rampant there. (2) My family has poor time management. I was so tried and forgetful everytime I was given a note to make my parents sign so I began praticing my mom's signature since hers was so simple to copy than my dad's. I paid more attention to her strokes to perfect her signature. I was never caught. Tho, I stopped doing it when I became more frustrated about the times I got late, so I never relied on my parents to drive me to school and commuted alone (sometimes with my younger siblings) instead. I was 30 mins. early and never felt better. I dont have to be "suspended" to do community service.
I wish I still had my High School class ring. We had a pool in our back yard at our old house and I would take my ring off and put it in my shoe while I was swimming. It was fine until one day me and my little brother got into an argument about something and he hit me and I hit him back. He got out of the pool, grabbed my ring from my shoe and threw it as hard as he could over several of the neighbor's yards. Unfortunately, I was never able to find it. I was able to get a replacement for a discount fee from the ring manufacturer. However, I also lost the replacement several years later when I was working. I had started losing weight and my finger had gotten a little smaller, so the ring was loose. It ended up sliding off my finger and went down the garbage compactor chute when I was throwing out the evening garbage. I told my boss what had happened and they said that there was no way for me to get my ring back. I still wish I could have recovered one of them if not both of them.
5:52 My bully said sorry to me hugged me and walked away she made me want to end myself I was 7-10 still affected by her bullying and I all I get is “I’m sorry.” And “trust me she’s changed!” But she hasn’t done anything to show she’s actually sorry and not just saying it to stay friends with my sister. I can’t even make new friends because of her she might be a changed person but her actions never proved it.
I’m almost 40 and was horribly bullied to the point of having to be pulled out of school. A few bullies tried to apologize and all it did was remind me of their shit and minimize my suffering. I have told every single one who tried to apologize that I don’t accept it and I wish them the worst.
@@Z5uixCiz maybe they didn't apologize because no one is entitled to accept an apology? those people hurt this person too badly to ever be forgiven. grow up
@@Eternal_Solstice she said they apologized 2 you say Grow up but the mf is holding on to the past 20+ years ago I was bullied but guess what now that where adults they changed if they said they didn't accept it would be one thing but wishing them the worse after 20+ years proves they're no better
@@Z5uixCiz oh no honey. I’m doing better than all of them. Financially, emotionally, mentally. I just don’t want to give any of them an ounce of comfort.
I was bullied in school a lot and still feel terrible, I've never gotten an apology. Growing up however I did realize I had bullied another girl. Years after school we were kind of friends (mutual friends?) and I apologized to her, she thanked me and hugged me. An apology, however late, will help a lot.
19:00 I work at an airport on the ramp, and part of the job is to clean and search any aircraft that remain overnight. In the overhead bin at the back of the plane (at least on airbuses, I can’t remember off the top of my head if other aircraft have them), there’s a black box - I have no idea what’s in it. One time, a new hire who was helping clean asked what it was for. “Oh, that’s a disarming device! If there’s ever a bomb on the plane, they can just put it in the box and it’ll automatically disarm it,” I said. “Wow, really?!” she asked. I said no and laughed, and told her that I had no idea. I don’t remember what her reaction was after that, but she didn’t last long there anyways.
I lent someone a copy of my Golden Sun on GBA in high school once, grade 10 I think... now I never lend my games ever again because the b*stard claimed his little brother lost my game. He could've been telling the truth but he never offered to pay me back for the game, just told me to keep his Yugioh Duelist Saga game which didn't even come close to the prices of the Golden Sun game (which was a present from my grandfather). Screw you Justin Morris... this is a grudge that will never die. I did get a copy from someone at my part-time work though when they heard what happened which they only wanted $20 for at the time plus their copy of Pokemon Ruby. Why I can never remember the nicest people in my life is beyond me.😢
re the mean girl: hell yes she should apologize to the kids she victimized, and if they're cruel or angry in response, she should accept it gracefully, because she deserves it. Sorry not sorry.
3:26 imagine not having a booby tree growing up. we had several. they're just like, big knots on skinny trees. looked vaguely like boobies, hence the name
Uh, I'm not sure how I would react if my school bullies tried to become a friend to me to make amends. I don't think I'd be able to trust them since many of them took their sweet time to pretend to be my friend to find out my secrets and insecurities, and then exploited that to bully me more. And I fell for it more than once until I got to high school, our class merged with another and I made real friends there that still mean a life to me fifteen years later.
16:53 My college thesis leader borrowed my laptop for the lower class coding subjects. I wasn't really into TFA or double checks that time. I logged in to my facebook and saw one of my high school classmates chatting me up. Dude was essentially trying to use my account as a dating site. After that, I started using TFAs and double checks even though they're time consuming.
When I was a teenager I was abusive to my then girlfriend at the time. I didn't even realize I was being abusive because I was just acting how my mother treated my father. I thought acting that way in relationships was normal because my parents were really the only example I knew. So yeah she eventually dumped me and took all but 2 friends with her. I then rushed myself into another relationship, where I met someone even worse then me, then realized how shitty I was. 4 years later as an adult I've changed and I've strived to NOT be my mom or end up like her. (My parents are still together btw) And now my mom and I hardly get along anymore and I can barely tell my mom I love her anymore. We fight now and we've never really fought before. And I fucking hates how she treats my father, and my father has literally told me he only stays for my brother who is still underage. Because lmao imagine a father getting custody of his children? Couldn't be the southern US. My 2nd ex reached out and actually apologized to me, and that inspired me to reach out and apologize to my 1st ex. We've all had closure now. So, yes, absolutely fucking apologize to the people you hurt.
the last one reminds me of a quote I heard from a comedian (Nikita Miller): "How do you know your employer is paying you a fair wage? When you're not steeling from them."
12:00 I have a similiar story, but not that bad. So it was very cold winter, and me with some of my classmates where playing in a playground. One of the classmates desided to make a challenge, go down the very wavy slide with arms in air. I did it, and landed. Not very succesfully. I still have strong pain in the coccyx when I jump or turn sharply.
I got bullied a lot at home and at school, however I've accepted that we were all children so we hadn't gained full understanding of the impact of our actions on others, and I was also very emotionally disturbed and probably very difficult to be around. Did I deserve the bullying? No. But no one did, and I bullied other kids too. It took a lot for me to get to this point, I hope other people in the comments here that are still going through the mental trauma, can reach this point too.
I remember, when I was young, I was a complete see-you-next-time, often hurting those closest to me. I was also bullied a lot at school, but that's no excuse. But now, at the cusp of my 59th year, I like to think I have nothing but love for all - and, indeed, I do go out of my way to give those with whom I interact hearty good wishes and all the happiness they can handle. So you see, there's many a stormy morning brings in a sunny day. Btw, may you, yourselves, know bliss too x
The one were the kids stole his mother's earrings actually made me a little anxious because i JUST got earrings made from stones my grate grandma gave me and i would hate to lose them
Something to add (very late) to the bullying story, I made fun of a guy quite a few times. I was a jerk. Eventually, I got the hint, and stopped. Then, he started bullying me. Constantly annoying me, and gaslighting me, trying to make me think that he was a sweet innocent boy who done nothing wrong. He sometimes even tries the same bs with the teacher, but other times he stopped. He later went on a homophobic rant against my bi friend, casually called his friend an ableist slur, and the bi friend (who is also trans) told me that he was transphobic. Now we have to be careful when near him to not accidently outing my friend, to prevent him going on a transphobic rant against her.
the fact, that the girl is only 15 and realizes how terrible she was that's amazing that is maturity, so i think she should apologize but i am also just glad she's come to the right conclusions at a young age
In first grade, there was a girl who was allergic to wax, and every time someone sat next to her, they would air poke her with a crayon, one time I did actually poke her and she had an allergic reaction, I got suspended for 3 days and when I came back, the school completely switched to oil pastel, I haven't seen a oil pastel crayon since I left that elementary school.
20:51 reminds me of when i was 8-9 years old and playing early WoW (~2007-2009)... I had an adult "friend" who, when i expressed to her that i didn't have the gold for an item that i wanted, urged me to make a fake gift code for something in the game. it might have been for a mount or something, but i don't remember exactly what it was. she told me to make this code, stand in a capital city, and put in shout chat that i was selling it for a certain amount of gold. it worked, and the person messaged me and told me, 'i'm so excited, i've never bought one of these before'. i felt HORRIBLE. i was later banned for a time because of course i did, and told my dad i didn't know why i was banned. i didn't get in trouble, but i still feel guilty about it to this day, even at 26 years old. to that person in stormwind, i'm still sorry about that. i should have known better.
I used to have a next-door neighbor that would be an asshole, picking on me. One time slamming me into the metal electrical box between our houses (it was not in working condition but even if it was, I doubt it would've done anything) when they moved, I stole their cat. I grabbed the cat (her name was Princess) and cut her collar off and we kept her inside until we knew they weren't coming back even though this was years ago and I stole someone's animal, I don't feel shitty for it and don't worry I fed and loved Princess, she and another cat we were feeding (a stray cat my family and I named Maximus Prime or Max for short) had kittens and even though Max and Princess have both died, we still take care of the kittens and descendants they made.
That convertible owner went home and said to his wife all puzzled, some dude in a truck dumped nerds on me. PEOPLE? NO the candy? Bullshit? No really come see the car.🤣🤣🤣
So that was indeed zachxfuller. Can’t believe I’ve been wallowing in dementia-esque “hold on a second, he sounds like the emkay guy/ man, this voice actor reminds me of Zach Fuller.”
Trying to think of the worst thing I might have done as a kid. In my first job at the family business, I was trusted to count the money taken from the vending machines, and package the coins up. At one point I started pocketing some of the money, I think in part because my mother wanted to put my paychecks in a bank, and didn't give me a portion of it as spending money. I stopped after she started asking questions about why they weren't seeing as much money as they expected to, and how they suspected a thief. I don't know if they knew it was me, or only suspected. So yeah, I stole from my family's business because my parents wouldn't let me do whatever I wanted to with the money I earned.
i question the same thing as the other person you mean to tell me some people dont feel overwhelming guilt for stuff theyve done as a child? i felt guilt for stuff i DIDNT do as a child
When I was in early middle school I used to lash out and bite myself because certain noises made me want to punch people so I’d bite my arm, turns out not only was I autistic but I also had Misophonia which I only found out years later oh and the reason I’d bite myself was to scare off the three people who’d trigger it purposely one of them was a girl named heavenly and the other two were boys one of them had an extremely big Afro so heavenly if you’re reading this and still a sadist f you but if you’re not I’m sorry for all the times I’d threaten to unalivent out of stress, it turns out Misophonia isn’t exactly easy to ignore
While your illness may limit you from experiencing what us normal people call emotions you still have a lot to bring to this world. Be brave, even admitting to it is a big step
I will say, at least the first person didn’t do it on purpose and it was possible they could’ve lost their job over a small mistake, so I’m a tiny bit understanding
10:10 I wasn't expecting them to go for ANOTHER WHAT IN THE WORLD?! 11:58 HUH?! 22:40 Oh that's why she's "now ex" i figured they had a falling out tbh
oh wait no way i actually have something to say. In third grade I spit in someone's hair in the middle of class because I had just found out what spitballs were. I immediately felt terrible but nobody noticed (or said anything at least). Still feel bad about it. (21:57 reminded me about it)
It would be awesome if the neighbor saw this and went hmmm I wonder…I mean just think about it from HER perspective. Two missing bras that were put on the line AND NEVER SEEN AGAIN on this episode of Unsolved Mysteries
About Bully stuff I can't say much except the Game & that it was tried once with me then never Again and it never became a problem. I would say im rather lucky in that regard atleast.
I was build in school because I was the weird new kid in that school from grade 4-6 but 10 years later I got my pay back on of em by hacking/stealing his Wot blitz account
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I was seriously bullied at school and abused at home. Only one of the mean girls stepped up and apologized. Only one. And it was recently. We are in our 40s now. It meant the world to me the she apologized. And in fact she’s reached out since then and tried to be friendly since. That’s super courageous, integral, and kind.
I think it would mean a lot, even more maybe, if they apologized while in school and if they said exactly what she said in that Reddit post. That she was desperate for attention, and insecure and jealous of them, doesn’t expect them to accept it but apologizing and being happy about who her victims are.
If said in a genuine way I think that could mean the world. I still think it’d be good to have what happened to you happen like “holy sh-t, you still think about me?” Kinda thing (at least that’s how I would feel and take solace in that fact) but I think doing it while they’re still in school would be more beneficial, but that depends on how cruel they really were.
@@Fetidaf it honestly depends on how willing they are to look in the mirror. And how emotionally mature they are. If it happened at school it would’ve been cool, that would’ve been preferable. I didn’t have a single friend until I was 12. Not one. It honestly would’ve made the difference if she did it when we were children. But, the fact that she did it all shows so much growth. Emotionally mentally and behaviorally. I’m proud of her for doing it at all. It made me sad she still thought about it. Especially since she was not the one who antagonized me the most. She just went along with her friends.
I had a childhood bully reach out to me years ago and apologize. It so validated what I went through, and I forgave him instantly, because he didn't need to do that, we'll never see each other again, but he did and it meant a lot.
@@tinkrtailr it’s just super healing. For all people involved.
@@Fetidafthan your gonna get keep getting made front of lmao accept the apology and go on with life
7:14 imagine bumping into one of the kids that was told you died
“Wha- I was told you were dead!”
“Uhhhhh…I got better?”
My death was greatly exaggerated.
Nice puss and boots reference
I died.... but I LIVED
People die when they are killed.
Luckily, I wasn’t killed so I’m fine
@@RedstoneMiner18 were you killed??
sadly yes.... but i lived!
OP who is 15 and is recognizing how shit they were to other children already is kind of the growth you love to see
One thing important to note is that, when you're a teenager, your empathy isn't fully developed yet. It's even worse when you're a child. Kids and teens do things that their adult selves look back on and despise, all the time, and it's important to learn from it, but equally important to forgive yourself and to not hold the young version of yourself accountable the same way that you would hold yourself accountable for a similar action now. Accountability is still important, but it's different in this situation and kicking yourself for what your younger self did serves no one.
Kanye staring blank face gif me when I get told my teacher's house burnt down to the ground
Fun fact from the collector's hobby: If something is made to be collectible, it will almost certainly never gain any value. Baseball cards and Beanie Babies are the most famous examples of this. Meanwhile, when I was sorting the sewing patterns for a local art reuse charity, I found a 1960's Barbie Clothing tie-in pattern (so you and your kid can have an outfit that matches your doll!). It was literally worth $300 and was just a random one off that didn't sell all that well in its day (though it's super rare and valueble now especially new in package for the Barbie collectors). We put it on the online storefront and it was sold within the hour
baseball cards certainly gain in value? as well as beanie babies back in the day
@ribbitfroog the OG ones do. Once they started mass production of collectibles, they lost their value (see 90's and 00's cards for example. The 50's ones are very valuable)
@@jennastephens1224 agreed!
Regarding the mean girls confession. As someone who was subject to a lot of bullying growing up. While it’s been well over a decade since I graduated high school, and I no longer have a chip on my shoulder about it, it still hurts to remember those times. It also adds insult to injury when the people who did it will act all buddy buddy with me if we run into each other, and act like we were the best of friends or at least amicable even though they made my life a living hell from pre-k onward (yes, it was just that small of a school system). I would never wish ill will on them, but I actively avoid being in any space with them. For years I loathed going to the stores in town after I graduated because I didn’t want to be continually gaslit.
Then I remember the one person who did apologize - one day we had gotten stuck on a canoe together during a camping trip with our youth group and got separated from the group. I don’t remember how it led to making amends - we were fighting over everything and suddenly the canoe flipped and as we finally got our shit together and back down stream she apologized. And she left me alone after that. I still remember the hurt, but I remember that canoe trip more than any of it. I haven’t heard from her since she moved in middle school, but heard around the grapevine she has a kid now. I hope life has been kind to her.
So, yes. Talk to them. They may not be the most receptive to begin with, and they may not want to be friends, but they’ll remember the apology and the fact that you stuck to your word. And even if they don’t, you get the peace of mind that you genuinely tried.
18:38 interesting correction, "narc" isnt short for narcissist. its short for narcotics officer, aka people who care about stupid rules way too much
Narc has several meanings, narcissist is one of them, narcotics officer is another, it's also short for nitrogen narcosis and an alternate spelling of nark, so a police informant, snitch, it might also be used about an unpleasant person that sticks their nose into things that aren't their business and then tells others about it, a gossip, tattletale.
People often shorten narcissist to narc, and in this context they're referring to narcissists as the confession was referencing narcissists. It wouldn't make sense for them to bring up narcotics officers out of nowhere
@@bubbletractor i mean i just thought they were misusing the term. i didnt know it had so many meanings
I've only ever heard it as the one you used. The ones who will complain about stupid infractions waaayyyyyy too much
i was a about to comment that
Decades ago when McDonald's did the Best Buy Bucks along side their Monopoly thing a few of us kinda gamed the system. The store I worked at had a basement where all the paper products were stored. One day it flooded, not high enough to ruin anything, but per health code all the paper stuff got tossed. There were three cases of large fry cartons down there, thousands of fry cartons. I being the maintenance guy, was the one tasked with cleaning everything out. I cleaned those cases right into the back of my truck and took them home where my room mates and I spent the night peeling cartons. We ended up with over $5000 in Best Buy Bucks and hundreds of free drink/fries/sandwiches.
I still don't feel bad about it
You shouldn’t feel bad at all, it’s a massive corporation lol
That's legit. You did the work of transporting and checking. The prizes were already considered and planned for and put on the paper, so you cost them nothing more than they were already willing to give. No one else was gonna have those rewards if you weren't. I believe you were entitled to it.
Hi, current McDonalds worker here!
So *you’re* the reason why we staff can’t redeem Monopoly rewards anymore.
@@nopenopity-nope6621 Lol, McDonald's staff never could.
@@panzerwolf494 Aw man 😔
6:18 yeah when i was younger i bullied a guy, and i did apologise and *he* actually made the effort to be friends, now hes probably my best friend
I must confess that this is the series I was waiting to return
I must confess I still believe
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@@stickofbutter9842 true
I love confessions.
Blahaj :D
When I was in 8th grade I continuously told a bi kid in my class that "being gay is a sin" (I was intensely Christian back then) and he bullied me for it, and look at me now, 16 and pansexual. I absolutely deserved to be bullied cause I was being a major bigot, and I know that god wouldn't put down people for being gay, and if you think otherwise, you ain't a real Christian, god loves EVERYONE, no exceptions.
Well said.
Because judging people is wrong. And told not to do in the fucking bible
@@Cats_-jf4hpyea. I never understood why most Christians hate people for no reason. They always say the Bible said so even though it says nothing of it. I think it probably started when one priest said something like that and everyone believed it.
Oh so Soloman can have 500+ wives but if I want one I’m “going to hell.”
Bu- bUt iT gOeS aGAINsT tRaDiTON11!1!1111
Lexi's finale is in the archives, we need to retrieve it
Wait what? She retired from Emkay?
@@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 yeah she's retired from emkay to focus more on her channel TheLexiKitty where she does more indepth tech stuff
@@sopadumacacoumadelicia5 She's focusing on her own channel
@@thwomp363 I see.
I hope things go well for her
@@Ash0512 I had no idea until now but hey its good to know, thanks
Imagine you go on youtube and the first video you see is from a million sub youtuber and that the thumbnail is one of your post on reddit.
That’s you? Also it’s 3m
@@TheJasonParser wdym? It was an exemple, I never said that the youtuber with a million sub was EmKay.
@@goodnico0973then just don't make this comment bud
Lol, I had a simliar story as the little girl on the slide. On my first week of kindergarten, another kid dared me to climb the the top triangle of this geodesic dome climbing structure and hang on the top from my hands and feet looking straight down. The metal bars were wet and slippery from rain earlier that day, and I face planted. A sharp piece of gravel cut my forehead and there was blood everywhere. The teachers panicked, my mom panicked when she arrived, but the doctor whas just like "Yeah, head wounds are like that. You only need 3 stitches." I got a letter from the other kid (now woman) apologizing around the time I graduated from my Masters' program. I wrote back saying, "Thanks for the apology, but it's been like 20 years, my scar has completely faded, and it really wasn't your fault anyways. Not only were their environmental factors that were unsafe (rain-slick bars, sharp gravel on a kid's playground), but I also did not have to do what you dared me to do. That was my choice." We're dating now
what fairy tales are made of.
And everyone clapped
@galacticpotato833 r/nothingeverhappens
I forged my mom's signature for approx. 3 years when I was about 3rd Grade.
Storytime, so there is this policy that I was given a written note that I was late for school. And oh boy, I was late for a lot of time for 2 main reasons. (1) We live an island away from school, bridges can be a pain to cross since traffic is so rampant there. (2) My family has poor time management.
I was so tried and forgetful everytime I was given a note to make my parents sign so I began praticing my mom's signature since hers was so simple to copy than my dad's. I paid more attention to her strokes to perfect her signature.
I was never caught. Tho, I stopped doing it when I became more frustrated about the times I got late, so I never relied on my parents to drive me to school and commuted alone (sometimes with my younger siblings) instead. I was 30 mins. early and never felt better. I dont have to be "suspended" to do community service.
We need more of this pleaseeeeeeeeeeee.... I listen to these while drawing and it makes me feel so MOTIVATED for no reason...
hello
@@YoylecakeJ hi
I wish I still had my High School class ring. We had a pool in our back yard at our old house and I would take my ring off and put it in my shoe while I was swimming. It was fine until one day me and my little brother got into an argument about something and he hit me and I hit him back. He got out of the pool, grabbed my ring from my shoe and threw it as hard as he could over several of the neighbor's yards. Unfortunately, I was never able to find it. I was able to get a replacement for a discount fee from the ring manufacturer. However, I also lost the replacement several years later when I was working. I had started losing weight and my finger had gotten a little smaller, so the ring was loose. It ended up sliding off my finger and went down the garbage compactor chute when I was throwing out the evening garbage. I told my boss what had happened and they said that there was no way for me to get my ring back. I still wish I could have recovered one of them if not both of them.
5:52
My bully said sorry to me hugged me and walked away she made me want to end myself I was 7-10 still affected by her bullying and I all I get is “I’m sorry.” And “trust me she’s changed!” But she hasn’t done anything to show she’s actually sorry and not just saying it to stay friends with my sister.
I can’t even make new friends because of her she might be a changed person but her actions never proved it.
17:00 had someone steal my phone when i let them borrow it at a school game to call their parent for pick up... kids are amazing aren't they.
I’m almost 40 and was horribly bullied to the point of having to be pulled out of school. A few bullies tried to apologize and all it did was remind me of their shit and minimize my suffering. I have told every single one who tried to apologize that I don’t accept it and I wish them the worst.
Lmao this why you got bullied your still a emotional rec after 20+ years
@@Z5uixCiz maybe they didn't apologize because no one is entitled to accept an apology? those people hurt this person too badly to ever be forgiven. grow up
@@Eternal_Solstice she said they apologized 2 you say Grow up but the mf is holding on to the past 20+ years ago I was bullied but guess what now that where adults they changed if they said they didn't accept it would be one thing but wishing them the worse after 20+ years proves they're no better
@@Z5uixCiz oh no honey. I’m doing better than all of them. Financially, emotionally, mentally. I just don’t want to give any of them an ounce of comfort.
@@Beeperoni lmao totally still bent outta shape 20+ years later
I was bullied in school a lot and still feel terrible, I've never gotten an apology. Growing up however I did realize I had bullied another girl.
Years after school we were kind of friends (mutual friends?) and I apologized to her, she thanked me and hugged me.
An apology, however late, will help a lot.
11:43 I was really hoping the mom would pack two cookies 😭
Yeah.. high school bullies still come up now and then in my nightmares. And I haven't seen them in almost a decade.
An apology would've helped
19:00 I work at an airport on the ramp, and part of the job is to clean and search any aircraft that remain overnight. In the overhead bin at the back of the plane (at least on airbuses, I can’t remember off the top of my head if other aircraft have them), there’s a black box - I have no idea what’s in it. One time, a new hire who was helping clean asked what it was for. “Oh, that’s a disarming device! If there’s ever a bomb on the plane, they can just put it in the box and it’ll automatically disarm it,” I said. “Wow, really?!” she asked. I said no and laughed, and told her that I had no idea. I don’t remember what her reaction was after that, but she didn’t last long there anyways.
Lexi leaving Emkay tho is kinda sad, but if Lexi DOES read this.. I’ll still check on her every now and then.
She’s also really pretyy:3
SHE LEFT? NOOOOOO
Wait, she left?
@@squeaktheswan2007no
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@@kamj6607 ☝️
New Emkay video just dropped
I lent someone a copy of my Golden Sun on GBA in high school once, grade 10 I think... now I never lend my games ever again because the b*stard claimed his little brother lost my game. He could've been telling the truth but he never offered to pay me back for the game, just told me to keep his Yugioh Duelist Saga game which didn't even come close to the prices of the Golden Sun game (which was a present from my grandfather). Screw you Justin Morris... this is a grudge that will never die. I did get a copy from someone at my part-time work though when they heard what happened which they only wanted $20 for at the time plus their copy of Pokemon Ruby. Why I can never remember the nicest people in my life is beyond me.😢
re the mean girl: hell yes she should apologize to the kids she victimized, and if they're cruel or angry in response, she should accept it gracefully, because she deserves it. Sorry not sorry.
3:26 does that tree give you wood?
Just take my like and screw off 😡😡😡😡😡
3:26 imagine not having a booby tree growing up. we had several. they're just like, big knots on skinny trees. looked vaguely like boobies, hence the name
3:10 I definitely think she noticed they’re missing, as a woman too you really would notice something like that. Bras can be really expensive too🥲
26:09 i don't think it's immoral, you're just helping them make up for all the wage theft they're committing! How kind of you
Uh, I'm not sure how I would react if my school bullies tried to become a friend to me to make amends. I don't think I'd be able to trust them since many of them took their sweet time to pretend to be my friend to find out my secrets and insecurities, and then exploited that to bully me more. And I fell for it more than once until I got to high school, our class merged with another and I made real friends there that still mean a life to me fifteen years later.
16:53 My college thesis leader borrowed my laptop for the lower class coding subjects. I wasn't really into TFA or double checks that time. I logged in to my facebook and saw one of my high school classmates chatting me up. Dude was essentially trying to use my account as a dating site.
After that, I started using TFAs and double checks even though they're time consuming.
A date for? You??
0:16 "Oh, this will just be some silly fight between children way back. Nothing serious."
2 seconds later... "WHAAAT"
When I was a teenager I was abusive to my then girlfriend at the time. I didn't even realize I was being abusive because I was just acting how my mother treated my father. I thought acting that way in relationships was normal because my parents were really the only example I knew. So yeah she eventually dumped me and took all but 2 friends with her. I then rushed myself into another relationship, where I met someone even worse then me, then realized how shitty I was.
4 years later as an adult I've changed and I've strived to NOT be my mom or end up like her. (My parents are still together btw) And now my mom and I hardly get along anymore and I can barely tell my mom I love her anymore. We fight now and we've never really fought before. And I fucking hates how she treats my father, and my father has literally told me he only stays for my brother who is still underage. Because lmao imagine a father getting custody of his children? Couldn't be the southern US.
My 2nd ex reached out and actually apologized to me, and that inspired me to reach out and apologize to my 1st ex. We've all had closure now.
So, yes, absolutely fucking apologize to the people you hurt.
6:31 should absolutely apologize wtf
the last one reminds me of a quote I heard from a comedian (Nikita Miller): "How do you know your employer is paying you a fair wage? When you're not steeling from them."
12:00
I have a similiar story, but not that bad.
So it was very cold winter, and me with some of my classmates where playing in a playground. One of the classmates desided to make a challenge, go down the very wavy slide with arms in air. I did it, and landed. Not very succesfully. I still have strong pain in the coccyx when I jump or turn sharply.
I got bullied a lot at home and at school, however I've accepted that we were all children so we hadn't gained full understanding of the impact of our actions on others, and I was also very emotionally disturbed and probably very difficult to be around. Did I deserve the bullying? No. But no one did, and I bullied other kids too. It took a lot for me to get to this point, I hope other people in the comments here that are still going through the mental trauma, can reach this point too.
I remember, when I was young, I was a complete see-you-next-time, often hurting those closest to me. I was also bullied a lot at school, but that's no excuse. But now, at the cusp of my 59th year, I like to think I have nothing but love for all - and, indeed, I do go out of my way to give those with whom I interact hearty good wishes and all the happiness they can handle. So you see, there's many a stormy morning brings in a sunny day. Btw, may you, yourselves, know bliss too x
The one were the kids stole his mother's earrings actually made me a little anxious because i JUST got earrings made from stones my grate grandma gave me and i would hate to lose them
That cookie story was funny as hell.
They clearly leveled up their Thief Skill to the max
Lucilles parents are to blame ngl, your child comes home with new jewelry and you don't question it?
Something to add (very late) to the bullying story, I made fun of a guy quite a few times. I was a jerk. Eventually, I got the hint, and stopped. Then, he started bullying me. Constantly annoying me, and gaslighting me, trying to make me think that he was a sweet innocent boy who done nothing wrong. He sometimes even tries the same bs with the teacher, but other times he stopped. He later went on a homophobic rant against my bi friend, casually called his friend an ableist slur, and the bi friend (who is also trans) told me that he was transphobic. Now we have to be careful when near him to not accidently outing my friend, to prevent him going on a transphobic rant against her.
"i scratched a child and blamed it on another child"
whatever, they were probably just a ki-
"i used to be a preschool teacher"
...
the fact, that the girl is only 15 and realizes how terrible she was
that's amazing that is maturity,
so i think she should apologize
but i am also just glad she's come to the right conclusions at a young age
14:30 and then the earrings end up at a garage sale for $5
That last story: you’ve never heard of taking a s*** while on the clock? Amateur.
In first grade, there was a girl who was allergic to wax, and every time someone sat next to her, they would air poke her with a crayon, one time I did actually poke her and she had an allergic reaction, I got suspended for 3 days and when I came back, the school completely switched to oil pastel, I haven't seen a oil pastel crayon since I left that elementary school.
20:51 reminds me of when i was 8-9 years old and playing early WoW (~2007-2009)... I had an adult "friend" who, when i expressed to her that i didn't have the gold for an item that i wanted, urged me to make a fake gift code for something in the game. it might have been for a mount or something, but i don't remember exactly what it was. she told me to make this code, stand in a capital city, and put in shout chat that i was selling it for a certain amount of gold. it worked, and the person messaged me and told me, 'i'm so excited, i've never bought one of these before'. i felt HORRIBLE. i was later banned for a time because of course i did, and told my dad i didn't know why i was banned. i didn't get in trouble, but i still feel guilty about it to this day, even at 26 years old. to that person in stormwind, i'm still sorry about that. i should have known better.
Doe eyed children? Must be precious moments figurines. My mother was super into those.
OMG 19:00 is absolutely fkn INCREDIBLE. It's so ridiculous that it just might be an actual thing 😆
There's also the American Quodpot where they have to get the Quod into the barrel at the end of the course before it explodes.
I used to have a next-door neighbor that would be an asshole, picking on me. One time slamming me into the metal electrical box between our houses (it was not in working condition but even if it was, I doubt it would've done anything) when they moved, I stole their cat. I grabbed the cat (her name was Princess) and cut her collar off and we kept her inside until we knew they weren't coming back even though this was years ago and I stole someone's animal, I don't feel shitty for it and don't worry I fed and loved Princess, she and another cat we were feeding (a stray cat my family and I named Maximus Prime or Max for short) had kittens and even though Max and Princess have both died, we still take care of the kittens and descendants they made.
This was cool, nice job.
the cookie story had me dying!!! XD
getting my daily dose of emkay
That convertible owner went home and said to his wife all puzzled, some dude in a truck dumped nerds on me. PEOPLE? NO the candy? Bullshit? No really come see the car.🤣🤣🤣
The Cooke one was DEVIOUS😭🙏
8:35 Orteil (Guy who made cookie clicker) is that you?
real
Hey Crimsonace, have you tried looking through your comment history to find that comment your brother made?
what is the context of this 😭😭
I’m so glad I’m never having kids 😅 protecting my debit cards!!
So that was indeed zachxfuller. Can’t believe I’ve been wallowing in dementia-esque “hold on a second, he sounds like the emkay guy/ man, this voice actor reminds me of Zach Fuller.”
Trying to think of the worst thing I might have done as a kid. In my first job at the family business, I was trusted to count the money taken from the vending machines, and package the coins up. At one point I started pocketing some of the money, I think in part because my mother wanted to put my paychecks in a bank, and didn't give me a portion of it as spending money.
I stopped after she started asking questions about why they weren't seeing as much money as they expected to, and how they suspected a thief. I don't know if they knew it was me, or only suspected. So yeah, I stole from my family's business because my parents wouldn't let me do whatever I wanted to with the money I earned.
The cookie thief made my day lmao.
i dare lexi to make 400 EmKay videos in a row
Me frolicking in the field after emkay released a new video (the narrator isn't robin)
Robin's throat must be so sore.
i question the same thing as the other person
you mean to tell me some people dont feel overwhelming guilt for stuff theyve done as a child?
i felt guilt for stuff i DIDNT do as a child
11:10 the way you said thx-
16:56 there is no way I also got my iPod stolen in 7th grade by my ‘friend’ she said her mom destroyed it but I feel like she just kept it
When I was in early middle school I used to lash out and bite myself because certain noises made me want to punch people so I’d bite my arm, turns out not only was I autistic but I also had Misophonia which I only found out years later
oh and the reason I’d bite myself was to scare off the three people who’d trigger it purposely one of them was a girl named heavenly and the other two were boys one of them had an extremely big Afro so heavenly if you’re reading this and still a sadist f you but if you’re not I’m sorry for all the times I’d threaten to unalivent out of stress, it turns out Misophonia isn’t exactly easy to ignore
Bloop glorp zorp
ahem, i threw my sister's engagement ring into a lake
wtf, I've been watching EmKay for years and only just realised I wasn't subscribed. I am now :)
I think we should track down brah lady- just to know shes okay, she is okay.
0:40 I would've apologized to the girl. I got blamed for something like that as a kid and never forgot.
i must confess i am ginger
i am so sorry for keeping this information from you all
Sorry to hear you were born without a soul
Not gonna lie, the ruby kinda gave it away. You're still incredibly strong for outing yourself!
Dear god, I am so sorry
While your illness may limit you from experiencing what us normal people call emotions you still have a lot to bring to this world. Be brave, even admitting to it is a big step
You didn't accept my bottled lightbulb
yes more confessions
I will say, at least the first person didn’t do it on purpose and it was possible they could’ve lost their job over a small mistake, so I’m a tiny bit understanding
We were very stupid as kids. Glad we have the ability to learn.
10:10 I wasn't expecting them to go for ANOTHER WHAT IN THE WORLD?!
11:58 HUH?!
22:40 Oh that's why she's "now ex" i figured they had a falling out tbh
That's dark
babe wake up another EmKay video just came out
oh wait no way i actually have something to say. In third grade I spit in someone's hair in the middle of class because I had just found out what spitballs were. I immediately felt terrible but nobody noticed (or said anything at least). Still feel bad about it.
(21:57 reminded me about it)
confession. Im in love with a computer. Not a computer program. Not an AI. My PC.
It would be awesome if the neighbor saw this and went hmmm I wonder…I mean just think about it from HER perspective. Two missing bras that were put on the line AND NEVER SEEN AGAIN on this episode of Unsolved Mysteries
I no longer feel bad for asking for soda with no ice
Broo, this Em is pretty Kay 😏
13:23 He corrected the errors
About Bully stuff I can't say much except the Game & that it was tried once with me then never Again and it never became a problem.
I would say im rather lucky in that regard atleast.
23:23 ahh yes teenager = teacher
2:31 treasure hunt anybody?
Does a metal detector work?
@@TimothyLucero-mi2dw wait is the bra made of metal
I was build in school because I was the weird new kid in that school from grade 4-6 but 10 years later I got my pay back on of em by hacking/stealing his Wot blitz account
12:00 I had a great-grand uncle who caused a girl to have a glass eye. They played with a slingshot.
the lunch box one makes me so mad for some reason but also why did the girl not keep her lunchbox somewhere safer possibly
These posts are diabolical
I love y'all, Zack
Hi Zach!
here we go!