Faith, it's application and more Ft Bolanle
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- Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
- On this episode Toke is joined by Balance, they take us back in their journey working together, shared their experiences and all discuss their faith. ENJOY!
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Toke… the appeal of your podcast is your vulnerability, authenticity & honesty. If you continue like this… this will easily become one of the best podcasts. I’m always looking forward to your next upload. You make your audience feel included without revealing too much but still saying enough.
Absolutely 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Toke needs to date that guy, she likes him for real
Same here
Absolutely 🎉
I really loved this 😊👍
Bolanle has never disappointed me with her level of intelligence and thought processes.
Exaactlyy...
Bolanle is spiritually sound, so full of wisdom and full of laughter. I like how beautiful their friendship is both completing each other's statement/thoughts....leaving us with lots of blank sheets to fill...lol😅
This is my best guest yet.
Compliment of the season.
I completely understand Toke. The guy should openly tell her if he wants her. We can’t assume our lives to destruction. If you know you want a lady, let her know in what way you want her so she can accommodate you if she wants.
A similar thing happened to me just recently only that I’ve lost the friendship I was supposed have with this person because of lack of comprehension and understanding.
We met and he said he wanted a friends with benefit kinda thing. I told him I wasn’t up for that and won’t be open to friendship either. He insisted we could be friends and he genuinely believes I don’t want his friendship because I like him already but that’s false. I don’t want to be with anyone other than a man I’m in a relationship with. I honestly have no room for another person, I don’t enjoy people, small circle is my thing.
After much persistence (the reason I don’t like people, they won’t just rest🤦🏻♀️) I told him we could try to be friends. If he wants to take me on dates like he always demanded he should know that I won’t give him sex neither will I play the calling everyday role. It’s just friendship! Nothing more!!
He agreed! Friendship started and now he’s asking me what we are doing and why I’m not feeling him like a partner. We fought about him trying to kiss me a couple times and boy is he touchy. I don’t like your hands on me, not the way you do it at least.
We don’t talk to each other anymore and I’m back to blaming myself for accepting this friendship thing in the first place. He said he was hoping I would change my mind and want him. Like what?? From the moment you told me you wanted a friends with benefit relationship I lost all sexual interest and attraction towards him. No way are we dating. No fucking way and I’m not sorry.
I believe people aren’t naive. If you meet a girl you don’t want to lose let her know with your words and be very direct! Words matter! And stick to the choices you’ve made, don’t go wasting people’s time.
Damnnnn this is the first time I’m commenting on a space like this and I’ve got my life story on it. This 2023 will really be a great year 😂 and I receive it, amen.
Merry Christmas everyone❤
Thank you for sharing this. I really appreciate your vulnerability.
Happy New year, Precious! God bless you for sticking to your dignity! Friends with benefits NEVER benefits anyone! Amen to your prayers!
@@thefamilybusinesscoach My pleasure Catherine 😊
@@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 😂😂😂. I wish you the absolute same and may God bless you too.
Yeah! Kudos to Toke, now everyone is on RUclips. She was the first to jump on RUclips with Toke moments, never missed an episode as far back as the days of blackberry.
This is so true, I will spend hours binge watching.
Toke your podcast is like therapy for me.. I feel like I’m having girls time with y’all. I didn’t have a particularly easy year this year and I’m grateful I can escape through virtual reality
Toke and Bolanle have the best chemistry. They should both have a podcast. They balance each other out beautifully.
"Life is lived forward but understood backwards." Damn! Toke, that's deep!
Thank you!
Every woman needs a friend like Bolanle 😫
This was so organic and therapeutic. I’m in stitches 😂😂😂😂 Toke you were born to do this and Bolanle is so “Brandy” 😂. Issa love for me ❤
Bolanle is a huge blessing to womanhood. She's so full of wisdom, I'm so proud of her. God bless you...this is so interesting to watch
For real, Bolanle is so wise
This is so good seeing girls stand and look out for each other. The connection Toke builds with her friends is so dope. Bolanle is that friend that will stand on the gap for her friend once she knows it’s all for your good. She’s such a sweet soul. I wish she find love and friendship she’s looking for in 2023 just like her parents did. Merry Christmas to everyone reading this. 🎉🌲😘
Oh she is in a good place.
Time will reveal all good things.
Loved watching this! I’ve found that if a guy doesn’t have the courage to say what he actually wants DIRECTLY, he hasn’t made up his mind. And if he hasn’t made up his mind, he’s not that interested.
Girl, you just spoke to me. I'm in this state right now.
I totally get Toke... ❤
In my head, Toke is my bestie 😍😂😂😂😂 I love her so much. Bolanle is such a fun person🥰🥰 This has to be my favorite episode ❤
Toke said “at the point of God reminding me he showed me mercy” I held on to this because at the at end of all this, God never left me ❤️❤️. I love u TM for this message ❤️😁
“People no longer value people but things”. So true!
lol I love the way Toke says she can call all her friends at 2am midnight...
This conversation was so organic, Toke❤
Toke!!!! Love to see how much you and your show has grown. Bolanle’s energy is so pure and genuine and she’s such a wise person. Love your friendship.
Bolanle is so intelligent and well grounded as well.
TOKE YOU ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME..I LOVE YOU SO MUCH..WISHING YOU THE BEST LIFE CAN OFFER.. 2023 WE ARE GOING TO CELEBRATE 🍾 👏 🙌 🥰🙏
I need just 30 minutes with Toke and I’m sure that would be the best 30 minutes of my life
Bolanle is def my spirit animal cause she’s giving. I say these things all the time 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽
I love Toke, she's very genuine & confident in her own mother tongue & the way she blends it in conversations is really cool. Also there are to layers to her you think you know, but you'd just keep unravelling. Very Typical of a scorpio woman. Bolanle is also a sweetheart, followed her since moment on Ebonylife Tv & i love her growth so far.
This is actually how women should relate, not uneccessary competition & beefs.
Thank you so much Toke and Bolanle. Your talk about faith took me to a different phase entirely watching this podcast and found my self crying when you're talking about faith. I found myself on my kneels speaking in Tongues and calling God. Listening to you keeps me on check and I know am actually that girl that you so so much. God bless you always I love you so much.
Bolanle is full of wisdom. You should listen to those words more often. I see a lot of reality in the words she speak.
I have laughed!!! i feel like i was in the room when this was recorded. I was even contributing to the gist at some point. This has to be the absolute best episode.
Swears
I totally enjoyed this episode. Toke, may you find the love you crave and Bolanle, I love you. This was a great episode. I love the conversation.
I love Bolanle. This episode hits different!!
Toke is not a small girl that one guy will be playing with her emotions. So if the guy likes her, at this stage of her life saying it is the deal. No time wasters please for our beautiful Toke.
I just discovered this channel and I am obsessed 😊.
I am having a good time here
Toke Toke, I have watched you few times and followed on Instagram sometimes. But this is the first time I have watched anything from you fully and you are honestly misjudged.
You are true, authentic and not afraid to be who you are.
This topic right here should be discussed further, I have been married 5 year but just beginning to understand what self awareness is and finding my identity in Christ.
Everything you have said her is absolutely true, correct and I hope people will learn and not just laugh over the jokes. I hope it will make women sit up, reflect and stand up for themselves.
Love you❤❤❤
Nah this is the best episode this season, from talking about God to he likes her to GIRL NO!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣 I laughed so hard also loved that the episode was long and so juicy. Merry Christmas to you guys
This is my BEST PODCAST yet!🥵Omgg the vulnerability, the honesty, the authenticity love it sooooo much! You need to bring Bolanle back
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Please more of Bolanle😂
I so muchhhhh love love you Toke, the sincerity and optimism, faith and Knowing God more is the bomb of this episode, you and Bolanle are so good together and feels lyk we all were having gals talk physically 😅😂….Tokemoments is more Dan a podcast it’s a THERAPY!!!!🥰🥰❤
I can’t see myself missing any part of the podcast and like Bolanle said Toke was her introduction, Toke has been my inspiration and I can’t even believed a guy from London whom we were supposed to be together dumps me because I will always supporting Toke’s strengths, and I don’t care what anyone thinks about her…my conclusion is if you can literally walk that hall of fame like her then come try if you think it’s easy
Yes he likes Toke 😂❤. You guys are right! The chase is great but the friendship is more important cause like bolanle said, when you’re married who is chasing who again? It’s the friendship that keeps you going even on days you guys are not in love with each other ❤
When there's a prophecy it's our job to pray that prophecy into being or cancel it depending on the type of prophecy
Bolanle is simply the best. I love her so much. She speaks eloquently. I can listen to her everyday
I really love bolanle. She is so practical. And she is a good friend.. 😊 really love her point of views.. interesting topic today
Oh Bolanle, I missed watching the two of you on Ebonylife TV.
Bolanle is very bright, intelligent and do not project her views like someone who grew up in NIGERIA.
If she actually live how she speaks she’s gold.
God has intentionally allowed people to fail me so that I can see it’s being ALL HIM all this time….. What a fantastic way to end this season and to enter a new season.
I AM THAT I AM
I am HIS
The first post I saw from Toke in 2015 was when she posted about about open heavens… Toke introduced me to Open heavens guys so to me have always seen her as a preacher of some sort for want of a better word more relatable. I love her for always speaking her truth. Meanwhile Bolanle is just we Nigerians forever sweetheart.❤
This was soooooo good, 55mins long and I didn’t want it to end
My two favourite people...Love bolanle sooo much. I remember your "Moment with Mo days"...Love you guys. This episode gave exactly what it should give and some more
Life is lived forward and understood backwards. Word❤
Bolanle’s skin is life!
The authenticity of Aunt Toke is to be stunned. I love how you value friendships. It’s such a beautiful thing. It’s inspirational.
This episode was deep and true ❤ Love love both speakers ❤ Toke knows how to do this 👏👏👏👏👏
This episode got me laughing all through.. Godddddd 😂😂...
I love this, so relatable and I didn't want it to end.
NB: That man really likes you TM, we ladies sometimes ignore the one who truly cares for us for the one who doesn't think much of us ( I guess it's the law of attraction at work). May genuine love find you both(Amen)❤
The Chemistry between the both of you is so so beautiful to watch mehn!!!
I absolutely love this episode!! Gosh, Bolanle is soo spiritual!! Dropping nuggets here and there!!! Great episode Toke❤❤
Toke your podcast is more like a therapy to me and that’s why I always look forward to it. Thank you for you honesty and thanks for sharing it in all sincerity 😊
Love love love how this episode felt like a my girl and I’s conversation!
So natural!
Love it!
I really enjoyed this particular episode it’s so beautiful to see Bolanle again because it’s been a while . As regards to the guy you guys were talking about I think I get Toke completely because I totally feel the same about having a crazy attraction to the person I like or fancy but the missing factor is they are barely my friends and this dude seems like he is a real friend to you. Having a male friend you can tell about male shenanigans and your experience with his gender, it doesn’t get better than that . I agree with what Toke said she needs such a man in her life and who knows I will definitely be open minded and be flexible if I were in her shoes because the honest truth I came to terms with recently is that a lot of men are only in love with the idea of women like Toke. They don’t care enough to know the core person behind all the glamour.
This is natural and conversation so real! One of the best podcast! Keep doing great 👍
Loved you guys since the days of Ebony Life and you guys talking together just makes me so happy ❤️. Cheers to amazing friendship like this 🥂
Bolanle is such a deep person. Also a realist!
Toke is a vibe.... everything great starts from friendship indeed🤣🤣🤣
Okay ooooo one thing we all learned this year is people for who they are. Kaii people showed themselves this year !!!
No be small.
Yes he likes her ❤️❤️❤️ but you both damn ... I love this friendship ❤️. May God come tru for us all in his time 🥰
Bolanle is SMART!!!!
Toke is so lively, smart, & honest too.
These two are truly friends 😅😅😅
Love you Bolanle and Toke
The authenticity of this episode👏🏾♥️
Toke, this is by far my favorite. You do amazingly well. This conversation was essential and great. Well done to you and Bolanle.
It also reminded me of the saying that people judge others because they sin differently.
Keep up the beautiful work and blessings and blessings will be with you always. So happy I listened to this. I’m learning a lot. Thank you 🙏
Don't usually comment but this episode is special. Loved this sooooo much....learnt a lot as well❤️
I am in Sync with these Ladies! If our Toke is listening to podcasts on the holyspirit and bringing it to Us. Believe me Knowing God is the new COOL 😊
Where have I been all these while? Wow! I'm so obsessed with this Podcast 🥰🥰🥰
I love deep conversations. I mean I admire the way you and your friends relate. First was dabota now it’s bolanle.❤❤❤
I'm screaming this episode is loud, love ittttt. Bolanle, chai
Omg this is the littesttttt🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love bolanle so muchhhh
Toke's laugh gets me every time. I love her laugh 😂
Omg therapeutic toke and bolanle! Bolanle she’s such an amazing lady I loved watching this omg I didn’t want it to end , cracking my head to know y’all were talking about
I just love bolanle too much spitting some truth ,this podcast is one of my best I watched it twice like it should not end lobe to see more ,live and light ur way both ❤️
It’s 2am (🇺🇸) and got in here, found this!!!
U girls said it all ❤
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You just made me love bolanle more, I’m going to follow her across all platforms now. She’s super cool. I’m a little like you Toke, always dumping my issues on people, later I’ll be like sorry, I didn’t even ask wassup with you. 😂😂
I do like toke’s vulnerability.. Bolanle is a true friend
Omg bolanle and toke, what a combination. So sound 👌. I thoroughly enjoyed this
I’ve got work tomorrow by 8am and I’m here at 1am glued to my phone screen watching this very interesting podcast. Well done big T❤
My best episode. I totally enjoyed it.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Toks be making me laugh i love u girl
I love how this casually turned into a counseling session for Toke and the rest of us who are somehow Toke’s😂😂 I really loved the way each one gave valid insight on that “friendship” of Toke😂❤
It’s the way Bolanle said “Girl, no” when she clocked who Toke was talking about 😩🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m here let me relax and watch ❤
Deep,hearty,thought provoking conversation. I love it
Dope episode. You can see the connection bet you two. Enjoyed the podcast 🔥🔥
The best was the last part! Thank you for opening up and being so vulnerable with us
This is the best thing I've watched on RUclips this year. Thank you so much Toke. Words can't describe my appreciation for the blessings I've gotten from the wisdom you both dropped in this episode. Thank you so much. Thank you.... This will make 2023 a better year for me.... I've learnt a lot. ❤️❤️❤️💙💙💙
This was so good. Toke’s moment is one of the best shows I followed this year and I’m grateful ❤❤❤
Wow Bolanle intelligency is top notch..so intelligent, God bless her. How I wish to know her social media handle too..
Nice one Toke, keep up your good work, wish u success in everything
This episode. I loved it so much, Thank you Toke and Bolanle. Such an impactful session. And yes he like you, Even if ure saying Godforbid in ur heart. Bro likes u 😂😂😂😂😂
Omox1000000000000000 this was explosive 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I literally had my mouth open for most part of the vlog. Toke don kill me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This was my best episode Toke, its indeed saved the best for the last. i love love Bolanle and how spiritually sound she is, your freindship with her is so blended and no judging whatsoever. Bolanle wisdom tho, to think i did not know yall are friends friends. its deep and i love every iota of it. weldone toke , cant wait for more next year. merry chrismas guys.😍😍😍😍😍
Tokeeeeeeeeee! This was a lot of tea and I loved it. You are such a motivation for me and I like all of who you are. Keep getting the dollar and I hope you find that one thing you are looking for
"Who someone is on the inside, that is who they are. You can't grow character.'' That's good. A good Character and heart is huge and rare.
I wished it was longer, I love the conversation and it’s talking my language. I felt part of the conversation ❤