Toke… the appeal of your podcast is your vulnerability, authenticity & honesty. If you continue like this… this will easily become one of the best podcasts. I’m always looking forward to your next upload. You make your audience feel included without revealing too much but still saying enough.
Bolanle is spiritually sound, so full of wisdom and full of laughter. I like how beautiful their friendship is both completing each other's statement/thoughts....leaving us with lots of blank sheets to fill...lol😅 This is my best guest yet. Compliment of the season.
Toke your podcast is like therapy for me.. I feel like I’m having girls time with y’all. I didn’t have a particularly easy year this year and I’m grateful I can escape through virtual reality
Yeah! Kudos to Toke, now everyone is on RUclips. She was the first to jump on RUclips with Toke moments, never missed an episode as far back as the days of blackberry.
I completely understand Toke. The guy should openly tell her if he wants her. We can’t assume our lives to destruction. If you know you want a lady, let her know in what way you want her so she can accommodate you if she wants. A similar thing happened to me just recently only that I’ve lost the friendship I was supposed have with this person because of lack of comprehension and understanding. We met and he said he wanted a friends with benefit kinda thing. I told him I wasn’t up for that and won’t be open to friendship either. He insisted we could be friends and he genuinely believes I don’t want his friendship because I like him already but that’s false. I don’t want to be with anyone other than a man I’m in a relationship with. I honestly have no room for another person, I don’t enjoy people, small circle is my thing. After much persistence (the reason I don’t like people, they won’t just rest🤦🏻♀️) I told him we could try to be friends. If he wants to take me on dates like he always demanded he should know that I won’t give him sex neither will I play the calling everyday role. It’s just friendship! Nothing more!! He agreed! Friendship started and now he’s asking me what we are doing and why I’m not feeling him like a partner. We fought about him trying to kiss me a couple times and boy is he touchy. I don’t like your hands on me, not the way you do it at least. We don’t talk to each other anymore and I’m back to blaming myself for accepting this friendship thing in the first place. He said he was hoping I would change my mind and want him. Like what?? From the moment you told me you wanted a friends with benefit relationship I lost all sexual interest and attraction towards him. No way are we dating. No fucking way and I’m not sorry. I believe people aren’t naive. If you meet a girl you don’t want to lose let her know with your words and be very direct! Words matter! And stick to the choices you’ve made, don’t go wasting people’s time. Damnnnn this is the first time I’m commenting on a space like this and I’ve got my life story on it. This 2023 will really be a great year 😂 and I receive it, amen. Merry Christmas everyone❤
This is so good seeing girls stand and look out for each other. The connection Toke builds with her friends is so dope. Bolanle is that friend that will stand on the gap for her friend once she knows it’s all for your good. She’s such a sweet soul. I wish she find love and friendship she’s looking for in 2023 just like her parents did. Merry Christmas to everyone reading this. 🎉🌲😘
God has intentionally allowed people to fail me so that I can see it’s being ALL HIM all this time….. What a fantastic way to end this season and to enter a new season. I AM THAT I AM I am HIS
Loved watching this! I’ve found that if a guy doesn’t have the courage to say what he actually wants DIRECTLY, he hasn’t made up his mind. And if he hasn’t made up his mind, he’s not that interested.
Toke said “at the point of God reminding me he showed me mercy” I held on to this because at the at end of all this, God never left me ❤️❤️. I love u TM for this message ❤️😁
I have laughed!!! i feel like i was in the room when this was recorded. I was even contributing to the gist at some point. This has to be the absolute best episode.
I love Toke, she's very genuine & confident in her own mother tongue & the way she blends it in conversations is really cool. Also there are to layers to her you think you know, but you'd just keep unravelling. Very Typical of a scorpio woman. Bolanle is also a sweetheart, followed her since moment on Ebonylife Tv & i love her growth so far. This is actually how women should relate, not uneccessary competition & beefs.
The first post I saw from Toke in 2015 was when she posted about about open heavens… Toke introduced me to Open heavens guys so to me have always seen her as a preacher of some sort for want of a better word more relatable. I love her for always speaking her truth. Meanwhile Bolanle is just we Nigerians forever sweetheart.❤
Thank you so much Toke and Bolanle. Your talk about faith took me to a different phase entirely watching this podcast and found my self crying when you're talking about faith. I found myself on my kneels speaking in Tongues and calling God. Listening to you keeps me on check and I know am actually that girl that you so so much. God bless you always I love you so much.
Toke Toke, I have watched you few times and followed on Instagram sometimes. But this is the first time I have watched anything from you fully and you are honestly misjudged. You are true, authentic and not afraid to be who you are. This topic right here should be discussed further, I have been married 5 year but just beginning to understand what self awareness is and finding my identity in Christ. Everything you have said her is absolutely true, correct and I hope people will learn and not just laugh over the jokes. I hope it will make women sit up, reflect and stand up for themselves. Love you❤❤❤
Wow Bolanle intelligency is top notch..so intelligent, God bless her. How I wish to know her social media handle too.. Nice one Toke, keep up your good work, wish u success in everything
I saw a share of this video can came running to check out your channel... I think already in love with the vidoes, I'm gonna sit down and listen everything 💃😍😁don't be surprised I view old video.. I am a new subbie... And I love your vibe!
I so muchhhhh love love you Toke, the sincerity and optimism, faith and Knowing God more is the bomb of this episode, you and Bolanle are so good together and feels lyk we all were having gals talk physically 😅😂….Tokemoments is more Dan a podcast it’s a THERAPY!!!!🥰🥰❤
Toke, this is by far my favorite. You do amazingly well. This conversation was essential and great. Well done to you and Bolanle. It also reminded me of the saying that people judge others because they sin differently. Keep up the beautiful work and blessings and blessings will be with you always. So happy I listened to this. I’m learning a lot. Thank you 🙏
My two favourite people...Love bolanle sooo much. I remember your "Moment with Mo days"...Love you guys. This episode gave exactly what it should give and some more
I just love bolanle too much spitting some truth ,this podcast is one of my best I watched it twice like it should not end lobe to see more ,live and light ur way both ❤️
I really enjoyed this particular episode it’s so beautiful to see Bolanle again because it’s been a while . As regards to the guy you guys were talking about I think I get Toke completely because I totally feel the same about having a crazy attraction to the person I like or fancy but the missing factor is they are barely my friends and this dude seems like he is a real friend to you. Having a male friend you can tell about male shenanigans and your experience with his gender, it doesn’t get better than that . I agree with what Toke said she needs such a man in her life and who knows I will definitely be open minded and be flexible if I were in her shoes because the honest truth I came to terms with recently is that a lot of men are only in love with the idea of women like Toke. They don’t care enough to know the core person behind all the glamour.
OMG Toke. I have always followed you in Instagram cos of some connection I felt towards you, but going through this and your other toke moments, I am convinced you are the one God is peeing me to look at. Will explore that more and watch where God is going with this. But Thank you
I can’t see myself missing any part of the podcast and like Bolanle said Toke was her introduction, Toke has been my inspiration and I can’t even believed a guy from London whom we were supposed to be together dumps me because I will always supporting Toke’s strengths, and I don’t care what anyone thinks about her…my conclusion is if you can literally walk that hall of fame like her then come try if you think it’s easy
Toke your podcast is more like a therapy to me and that’s why I always look forward to it. Thank you for you honesty and thanks for sharing it in all sincerity 😊
Tokstarr always have a way of making every episode better than the last. I can boldly say Toke Moments is my best podcast so far. Merry Christmas! See you in 2023 We Love You
Omg therapeutic toke and bolanle! Bolanle she’s such an amazing lady I loved watching this omg I didn’t want it to end , cracking my head to know y’all were talking about
Tokeeeeeeeeee! This was a lot of tea and I loved it. You are such a motivation for me and I like all of who you are. Keep getting the dollar and I hope you find that one thing you are looking for
I love this, so relatable and I didn't want it to end. NB: That man really likes you TM, we ladies sometimes ignore the one who truly cares for us for the one who doesn't think much of us ( I guess it's the law of attraction at work). May genuine love find you both(Amen)❤
This episode. I loved it so much, Thank you Toke and Bolanle. Such an impactful session. And yes he like you, Even if ure saying Godforbid in ur heart. Bro likes u 😂😂😂😂😂
You just made me love bolanle more, I’m going to follow her across all platforms now. She’s super cool. I’m a little like you Toke, always dumping my issues on people, later I’ll be like sorry, I didn’t even ask wassup with you. 😂😂
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Toke… the appeal of your podcast is your vulnerability, authenticity & honesty. If you continue like this… this will easily become one of the best podcasts. I’m always looking forward to your next upload. You make your audience feel included without revealing too much but still saying enough.
Absolutely 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Toke needs to date that guy, she likes him for real
Same here
Absolutely 🎉
I really loved this 😊👍
Bolanle has never disappointed me with her level of intelligence and thought processes.
Exaactlyy...
Bolanle is spiritually sound, so full of wisdom and full of laughter. I like how beautiful their friendship is both completing each other's statement/thoughts....leaving us with lots of blank sheets to fill...lol😅
This is my best guest yet.
Compliment of the season.
Toke your podcast is like therapy for me.. I feel like I’m having girls time with y’all. I didn’t have a particularly easy year this year and I’m grateful I can escape through virtual reality
"Life is lived forward but understood backwards." Damn! Toke, that's deep!
Thank you!
This conversation was so organic, Toke❤
Toke and Bolanle have the best chemistry. They should both have a podcast. They balance each other out beautifully.
Yeah! Kudos to Toke, now everyone is on RUclips. She was the first to jump on RUclips with Toke moments, never missed an episode as far back as the days of blackberry.
This is so true, I will spend hours binge watching.
I completely understand Toke. The guy should openly tell her if he wants her. We can’t assume our lives to destruction. If you know you want a lady, let her know in what way you want her so she can accommodate you if she wants.
A similar thing happened to me just recently only that I’ve lost the friendship I was supposed have with this person because of lack of comprehension and understanding.
We met and he said he wanted a friends with benefit kinda thing. I told him I wasn’t up for that and won’t be open to friendship either. He insisted we could be friends and he genuinely believes I don’t want his friendship because I like him already but that’s false. I don’t want to be with anyone other than a man I’m in a relationship with. I honestly have no room for another person, I don’t enjoy people, small circle is my thing.
After much persistence (the reason I don’t like people, they won’t just rest🤦🏻♀️) I told him we could try to be friends. If he wants to take me on dates like he always demanded he should know that I won’t give him sex neither will I play the calling everyday role. It’s just friendship! Nothing more!!
He agreed! Friendship started and now he’s asking me what we are doing and why I’m not feeling him like a partner. We fought about him trying to kiss me a couple times and boy is he touchy. I don’t like your hands on me, not the way you do it at least.
We don’t talk to each other anymore and I’m back to blaming myself for accepting this friendship thing in the first place. He said he was hoping I would change my mind and want him. Like what?? From the moment you told me you wanted a friends with benefit relationship I lost all sexual interest and attraction towards him. No way are we dating. No fucking way and I’m not sorry.
I believe people aren’t naive. If you meet a girl you don’t want to lose let her know with your words and be very direct! Words matter! And stick to the choices you’ve made, don’t go wasting people’s time.
Damnnnn this is the first time I’m commenting on a space like this and I’ve got my life story on it. This 2023 will really be a great year 😂 and I receive it, amen.
Merry Christmas everyone❤
Thank you for sharing this. I really appreciate your vulnerability.
Happy New year, Precious! God bless you for sticking to your dignity! Friends with benefits NEVER benefits anyone! Amen to your prayers!
@@thefamilybusinesscoach My pleasure Catherine 😊
@@jaiyeolaolaribigbe6518 😂😂😂. I wish you the absolute same and may God bless you too.
This was so organic and therapeutic. I’m in stitches 😂😂😂😂 Toke you were born to do this and Bolanle is so “Brandy” 😂. Issa love for me ❤
Every woman needs a friend like Bolanle 😫
This is so good seeing girls stand and look out for each other. The connection Toke builds with her friends is so dope. Bolanle is that friend that will stand on the gap for her friend once she knows it’s all for your good. She’s such a sweet soul. I wish she find love and friendship she’s looking for in 2023 just like her parents did. Merry Christmas to everyone reading this. 🎉🌲😘
Oh she is in a good place.
Time will reveal all good things.
11:36 Toks is just like meeeeee MT ! Wow! Ppl hate when good things happen but GOD ❤❤
Bolanle is a huge blessing to womanhood. She's so full of wisdom, I'm so proud of her. God bless you...this is so interesting to watch
For real, Bolanle is so wise
“People no longer value people but things”. So true!
Bolanle is def my spirit animal cause she’s giving. I say these things all the time 🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽
Bolanle is so intelligent and well grounded as well.
Bolanle is very bright, intelligent and do not project her views like someone who grew up in NIGERIA.
If she actually live how she speaks she’s gold.
In my head, Toke is my bestie 😍😂😂😂😂 I love her so much. Bolanle is such a fun person🥰🥰 This has to be my favorite episode ❤
God has intentionally allowed people to fail me so that I can see it’s being ALL HIM all this time….. What a fantastic way to end this season and to enter a new season.
I AM THAT I AM
I am HIS
Loved watching this! I’ve found that if a guy doesn’t have the courage to say what he actually wants DIRECTLY, he hasn’t made up his mind. And if he hasn’t made up his mind, he’s not that interested.
Girl, you just spoke to me. I'm in this state right now.
I totally get Toke... ❤
Toke said “at the point of God reminding me he showed me mercy” I held on to this because at the at end of all this, God never left me ❤️❤️. I love u TM for this message ❤️😁
Toke!!!! Love to see how much you and your show has grown. Bolanle’s energy is so pure and genuine and she’s such a wise person. Love your friendship.
I have laughed!!! i feel like i was in the room when this was recorded. I was even contributing to the gist at some point. This has to be the absolute best episode.
Swears
I love Toke, she's very genuine & confident in her own mother tongue & the way she blends it in conversations is really cool. Also there are to layers to her you think you know, but you'd just keep unravelling. Very Typical of a scorpio woman. Bolanle is also a sweetheart, followed her since moment on Ebonylife Tv & i love her growth so far.
This is actually how women should relate, not uneccessary competition & beefs.
I love Bolanle. This episode hits different!!
Bolanle is simply the best. I love her so much. She speaks eloquently. I can listen to her everyday
TOKE YOU ARE A GREAT INSPIRATION TO ME..I LOVE YOU SO MUCH..WISHING YOU THE BEST LIFE CAN OFFER.. 2023 WE ARE GOING TO CELEBRATE 🍾 👏 🙌 🥰🙏
I need just 30 minutes with Toke and I’m sure that would be the best 30 minutes of my life
My best episode. I totally enjoyed it.
The first post I saw from Toke in 2015 was when she posted about about open heavens… Toke introduced me to Open heavens guys so to me have always seen her as a preacher of some sort for want of a better word more relatable. I love her for always speaking her truth. Meanwhile Bolanle is just we Nigerians forever sweetheart.❤
Thank you so much Toke and Bolanle. Your talk about faith took me to a different phase entirely watching this podcast and found my self crying when you're talking about faith. I found myself on my kneels speaking in Tongues and calling God. Listening to you keeps me on check and I know am actually that girl that you so so much. God bless you always I love you so much.
I just discovered this channel and I am obsessed 😊.
I am having a good time here
lol I love the way Toke says she can call all her friends at 2am midnight...
Toke Toke, I have watched you few times and followed on Instagram sometimes. But this is the first time I have watched anything from you fully and you are honestly misjudged.
You are true, authentic and not afraid to be who you are.
This topic right here should be discussed further, I have been married 5 year but just beginning to understand what self awareness is and finding my identity in Christ.
Everything you have said her is absolutely true, correct and I hope people will learn and not just laugh over the jokes. I hope it will make women sit up, reflect and stand up for themselves.
Love you❤❤❤
Bolanle is full of wisdom. You should listen to those words more often. I see a lot of reality in the words she speak.
I totally enjoyed this episode. Toke, may you find the love you crave and Bolanle, I love you. This was a great episode. I love the conversation.
I really love bolanle. She is so practical. And she is a good friend.. 😊 really love her point of views.. interesting topic today
Wow Bolanle intelligency is top notch..so intelligent, God bless her. How I wish to know her social media handle too..
Nice one Toke, keep up your good work, wish u success in everything
Bolanle’s skin is life!
The authenticity of Aunt Toke is to be stunned. I love how you value friendships. It’s such a beautiful thing. It’s inspirational.
Bolanle is such a deep person. Also a realist!
I saw a share of this video can came running to check out your channel... I think already in love with the vidoes, I'm gonna sit down and listen everything 💃😍😁don't be surprised I view old video.. I am a new subbie... And I love your vibe!
I so muchhhhh love love you Toke, the sincerity and optimism, faith and Knowing God more is the bomb of this episode, you and Bolanle are so good together and feels lyk we all were having gals talk physically 😅😂….Tokemoments is more Dan a podcast it’s a THERAPY!!!!🥰🥰❤
Toke, this is by far my favorite. You do amazingly well. This conversation was essential and great. Well done to you and Bolanle.
It also reminded me of the saying that people judge others because they sin differently.
Keep up the beautiful work and blessings and blessings will be with you always. So happy I listened to this. I’m learning a lot. Thank you 🙏
This episode got me laughing all through.. Godddddd 😂😂...
My two favourite people...Love bolanle sooo much. I remember your "Moment with Mo days"...Love you guys. This episode gave exactly what it should give and some more
I thoroughly enjoyed this episode. Please more of Bolanle😂
Omg this is the littesttttt🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is the best thing I have watched today. And about the guy, he should come out straight
This was soooooo good, 55mins long and I didn’t want it to end
I just love bolanle too much spitting some truth ,this podcast is one of my best I watched it twice like it should not end lobe to see more ,live and light ur way both ❤️
Love love love how this episode felt like a my girl and I’s conversation!
So natural!
Love it!
I really enjoyed this particular episode it’s so beautiful to see Bolanle again because it’s been a while . As regards to the guy you guys were talking about I think I get Toke completely because I totally feel the same about having a crazy attraction to the person I like or fancy but the missing factor is they are barely my friends and this dude seems like he is a real friend to you. Having a male friend you can tell about male shenanigans and your experience with his gender, it doesn’t get better than that . I agree with what Toke said she needs such a man in her life and who knows I will definitely be open minded and be flexible if I were in her shoes because the honest truth I came to terms with recently is that a lot of men are only in love with the idea of women like Toke. They don’t care enough to know the core person behind all the glamour.
OMG Toke. I have always followed you in Instagram cos of some connection I felt towards you, but going through this and your other toke moments, I am convinced you are the one God is peeing me to look at. Will explore that more and watch where God is going with this. But Thank you
I absolutely love this episode!! Gosh, Bolanle is soo spiritual!! Dropping nuggets here and there!!! Great episode Toke❤❤
I can’t see myself missing any part of the podcast and like Bolanle said Toke was her introduction, Toke has been my inspiration and I can’t even believed a guy from London whom we were supposed to be together dumps me because I will always supporting Toke’s strengths, and I don’t care what anyone thinks about her…my conclusion is if you can literally walk that hall of fame like her then come try if you think it’s easy
Another year is ending shey you dey whine me ni 😅😅😅😅😅😅, spot on
Toke your podcast is more like a therapy to me and that’s why I always look forward to it. Thank you for you honesty and thanks for sharing it in all sincerity 😊
It’s 2am (🇺🇸) and got in here, found this!!!
U girls said it all ❤
1️⃣ more subscriber
I wished it was longer, I love the conversation and it’s talking my language. I felt part of the conversation ❤
Deep,hearty,thought provoking conversation. I love it
I'm screaming this episode is loud, love ittttt. Bolanle, chai
This is natural and conversation so real! One of the best podcast! Keep doing great 👍
Bolanle is SMART!!!!
Toke is so lively, smart, & honest too.
These two are truly friends 😅😅😅
The best was the last part! Thank you for opening up and being so vulnerable with us
Best podcast of my entire year literally!!!!💕💕
Tokstarr always have a way of making every episode better than the last. I can boldly say Toke Moments is my best podcast so far. Merry Christmas! See you in 2023
We Love You
Omg therapeutic toke and bolanle! Bolanle she’s such an amazing lady I loved watching this omg I didn’t want it to end , cracking my head to know y’all were talking about
This is my best podcast from Toke this year!!!
Loveeeeeeet!
Tokeeeeeeeeee! This was a lot of tea and I loved it. You are such a motivation for me and I like all of who you are. Keep getting the dollar and I hope you find that one thing you are looking for
This episode was deep and true ❤ Love love both speakers ❤ Toke knows how to do this 👏👏👏👏👏
Where have I been all these while? Wow! I'm so obsessed with this Podcast 🥰🥰🥰
Omg bolanle and toke, what a combination. So sound 👌. I thoroughly enjoyed this
The Chemistry between the both of you is so so beautiful to watch mehn!!!
I love this, so relatable and I didn't want it to end.
NB: That man really likes you TM, we ladies sometimes ignore the one who truly cares for us for the one who doesn't think much of us ( I guess it's the law of attraction at work). May genuine love find you both(Amen)❤
Dope episode. You can see the connection bet you two. Enjoyed the podcast 🔥🔥
This is purely DOPE!... I love the energy🤩🤗
The best podcast ever ❤
Yes he likes her ❤️❤️❤️ but you both damn ... I love this friendship ❤️. May God come tru for us all in his time 🥰
Toke's laugh gets me every time. I love her laugh 😂
Best episode I enjoyed most
Oh Bolanle, I missed watching the two of you on Ebonylife TV.
I love this podcast,thanks @Bolanle @Tokestarr. Inow know better.
The authenticity of this episode👏🏾♥️
This episode. I loved it so much, Thank you Toke and Bolanle. Such an impactful session. And yes he like you, Even if ure saying Godforbid in ur heart. Bro likes u 😂😂😂😂😂
Okay ooooo one thing we all learned this year is people for who they are. Kaii people showed themselves this year !!!
No be small.
I am in Sync with these Ladies! If our Toke is listening to podcasts on the holyspirit and bringing it to Us. Believe me Knowing God is the new COOL 😊
Toke... I love every one of your podcasts but this is the best. Well done
Gosh! I love this so much 😂😂😂Enjoyed every bit.
Toke is a vibe.... everything great starts from friendship indeed🤣🤣🤣
This episode is soooooooooo soul lifting and interesting. It. Feels like girls time out😂❤. I had such a good time!
This is my BEST PODCAST yet!🥵Omgg the vulnerability, the honesty, the authenticity love it sooooo much! You need to bring Bolanle back
Toke, you deserve to be a preacher! If you open a church/fellowship today, I will be a proud member
I love deep conversations. I mean I admire the way you and your friends relate. First was dabota now it’s bolanle.❤❤❤
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Toks be making me laugh i love u girl
Don't usually comment but this episode is special. Loved this sooooo much....learnt a lot as well❤️
This video will de downloaded, saved and rewatched anytime I need to renew my faith.
As a Kenyan, your handle name caught my attention. Hi! 👋😊
@@beverlybevy Jambo Beverly, thanks for reaching out 🙂
He loves her❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You just made me love bolanle more, I’m going to follow her across all platforms now. She’s super cool. I’m a little like you Toke, always dumping my issues on people, later I’ll be like sorry, I didn’t even ask wassup with you. 😂😂
I do like toke’s vulnerability.. Bolanle is a true friend