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1.Wants you to be happy 2.Interest in his interest 3.Initiate sex 4.Wants to be praised and acknowledged 5.Encourage him to adventure 6.Confidence in him 7. Respect
If anything, I would move respect to number one. I think everything you say to a man or do for a man has to be filtered through the lens of respect. Respect = Love for men, in general. I think most men would rather be respected than loved (as we think of love) if they had to choose.
@@chelsabrinkman4076 well, i always think that any youtuber guru list always starts from the least to the most important one. Like, they save the best for the last. So, I think in this list, respect is the most important one.
Watching my parents (married 76 years! Passed 1 month apart, both 97) I came to believe that a couple will fall in and out of love a number of times in a long relationship. Stick with it: They ended up with the most protective, adoring relationship I've had the honor of viewing.
I believe this 100%. ppl change and if you remember to love each other in the good and bad as life takes you down different paths, you can make it. But you have to make an effort and learn from one another. This is also based on observing some great relationships over the years and others that failed.
@@rosejacklyn Personally, I wish I'd been wiser when I was young. I wish I'd known God when I was young, too! They probably go together. ;) Still, I'm so blessed to have been in the bleachers during important parts of my dear parents' love/life.
@@MsBee-oz7vd Amen, Ms. Bee..And thank you! I was so lucky to spend almost every evening for 2 1/2 years with them at the end. We got to say everything. And they were wonderful parents! I wasn't so great (Divorced mom), but these great parents of mine helped me with my own kids.
@@BeverlyM52 There is nothing wrong with you… You are great. I am sure your mother and father would agree. Divorced doesn’t mean defeated. There is hope There is Love and it’s beautiful the second time around as if it was the only. I believe it for you♥️ 🇯🇲
It's. THANK You...NEXT...TY...NEXT...I SO GRATEFUL FOR MY EX...NEVER 2 MAKE THAT STUPID MISTAKE...EVER... AGAIN...SO...TY...NEXT...TY ..NEXT...💗🗝️💓💯🎶💫🙏 AGAIN...TY...NEXT💫💯🎶💗♂️🗝️
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Matt!! She wasn't thanking you for paying for dinner...she was thanking you for giving her your time and attention. Really that's what most of us want. Also on the appreciation comment, I truly think the most lost words in a relationship are " I'm sorry"... I think many people remember to thank each other for taking time out, but the "I'm sorry" gets lost when someone has been let down. I don't expect for anyone to be perfect, but at least acknowledge that you've let someone down. If you do that...then you get the chance to make it right. If you don't....and it's been more than a few times...then that chance gets lost. Would you agree?
I'm not a relationship advisor, but I just wanna tell everyone out there, let it go with the flow, don't try to adjust or create any situation to make him/her love you. Because love can't be created but you can only feel it.
I’m one of those “strong” women. I’ve been a single mom for 20 years, put myself through college twice. I work long hours. What do I secretly want in a relationship? Old fashioned manners; to be treated as special & delicate. To have a man offer to help me carry something heavy, hold my door, my chair. I get told my men that they respect me because of my strength, but I don’t want to have to be strong all the time.
What I want from a man is for him to take the lead sometimes, make plans, see them through.. Having to call all the shots becomes stressful and feels lonely and like I'm managing him as well as the rest of my life. A man who is forward-thinking and holds his own is very attractive.
Have you tried asking him to make some choice or decision and then even if he doesn't, just leave it alone? And don't try to correct it if it isn't done the way you would do it. Too often we unconsciously undermine them by trying to micromanage him after we ask him to do it, which makes him pull back because he thinks "I can't do it right anyhow! Let her go ahead and do it her way! What's the use in my even trying!!" Even if it's something important like a faucet leaking or something needs fixing---try asking sweetly, then LEAVE HIM ALONE! Men absolutely HATE being told what to do or how to do it!! :D
Men and women think on different levels and have different needs. I think the number one most important thing is communication with your partner. My husband and I have been married over 30 years, rarely fight and we know each others needs and are there for each other no matter what. To build a strong relationship takes a lot of patience, understanding and love.
Hii can u plz help me out? I have many times hurt my bf (emotionally), it wasn't my intention to make him sad but I always mess up and did smthg without fully thinking about the outcome.....i don't want to make him sad, I want to change myself....can u plz give me some tips
1. Tell her you love her ... When it's not connected to physical intimacy. 2. Tell her she's beautiful... when her hair is a mess, when she has an acne outbreak, and when she least expects it. 3. Honor her through opening doors, making sure she's seated first, helping her bring in the groceries, and just letting her know that your her teammate. 4. Be honest with her. In the little things, and the big things. Never EVER lie, or twist the truth. Be open about YOUR ideas, because she DOES want to know them. 5. Have fun with her. In group settings and alone time. Be willing to try new things together. Laugh until your gut aches, and your eyes get teary. 6. Do something out of the ordinary sometimes. Surprise her and keep her guessing about you. 7. Learn to read her moods, and act accordingly. Sometimes she'll want hot and passionate. Other times, she'll want gentle and sweet. Give her the space to feel down sometimes. You don't need to fix it, but just knowing your are there for her, and aren't being critical goes a long way. 8. Communicate! Talk about the mundane things, and the big dreams. I'm very blessed to have a man who does all of these things. And he keeps me coming back for more, as I hope I do the same for him. Love your videos and your seminars, Mat. I have a strong relationship, but I'm always reminded of things I can do better, or of things I've let slide, and gotten comfortable in.
Your last 3 words really hit home for me; gotten comfortable in. I surprised my hubby a few times when he tells me "love you"... I reply lightly: "why?" then laugh. It's fresh, surprising and shakes it up a bit. After 30+ yrs, let me tell you girls, you better learn how to keep things fresh and alive. Thank you Matt!
Love this! Men need to give more attention to their women. They need to listen and remember what she likes/ dislikes/needs/craves. Being thoughtful and chivalrous. More romance....the kind that sweeps you off your feet.
I want a man to follow through and keep his word. When that doesn’t happen, it’s a wretched feeling of disappointment. I’ve learned disappointment is the worst feeling of all.
janet y I know all all about grieving for the loss of family and loved ones. I have lost both parents, my sister only a month ago on Easter Sunday and my ex committed suicide. I thank God for my Faith in knowing I will be reunited with them in Heaven. This, however, is a post re: romantic relationships. Thanks for the comment.
I love my man. He’s kind, gives me compliments is very smart. Makes me happy no matter what. He cooks and cleans, doesn’t text or looks at other women. He’s faithful and very handsome. Oh guess what, he doesn’t exist.
The list is almost the same for women if you change just a few words and take it to a higher level of abstraction 1. She wants you to be happy 2 she wants you to take interest in her interests 3. She wants you to initiate connection (through conversation, not just through sex - do the former and you'll have more of the latter than you ever dreamed) 4. She wants to be praised and acknowledged (especially for things OTHER then her looks/body) 5. She wants you to encourage her to have a life and community outside of her relationship with you (and the kids) 6. She wants your confidence in her 7. She has a deep desire for your respect ----- Men often kill #6 and #7 by mansplaining and assuming she can't figure out anything mechanical. Men are often afraid of impairing their masculinity if they do #2
@@RoddyPipersCorneas Dude, did you even understand what she even wrote even to the tiniest extent? No one expects you to like or take part in 'girly' hobbies. She just wants you to be accepting of her having a life outside of you and your children. Not only accepting, but encouraging as well. You seem like that bitter so called pro male activist whose only contribution to men's rights is complaining about feminists on youtube channels with a misplaced sense of self righteousness.
I think constant criticism is demeaning but men usually do that because they want to help/fix whatever is wrong rather than be buttholes. Rest assured, there are some guys who genuinely are butt holes and get off to criticizing and belittling you. But many men just want to help and feel useful, especially with something they’re familiar with.
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I'd like a verbal expression of appreciation for being a good mother to the children. It takes a lot of time and energy to invest in raising his children, so I'd love to hear, "Babe, I love what you do for our kids!"
Kim Katharina there's a quick remedy. Next time put your 'staying at home clothes' we all know what they are... that old hoodie with holes... but oh no comfy... If he says anything just say 'oh I didn't think u paid attention to that, that's no problem I'll dress up for u next time.' He'll never forget to compliment u again 😂
That is so pathetic. Sometimes I can’t believe I’m a woman because I can’t relate to most of y’all at all lol your comment got over 40 likes. Meanwhile I couldn’t care less about “compliments” and approval/validation, I focus on important things.
do a video about jealousy in a relationship pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase. everything u give advise on i always have done, and people wonder why and how i have a very succssesful relationship, and i still love to listen to u. u're amaaazing
Thanks for your advice, Mat! I watched your videos for a couple years as I was feeling perpetually single and wanting to “get out there” and start dating. I now have an amazing boyfriend of 4 months, and rewatching this video has helped me realize that I have implemented these qualities! My boyfriend has verbally praised me for them, too. Thank you!
I have been with my husband for 19 years (dated 10, married 9). I have to say I agree with these points. I also tell him Thank You when we are finished eating at a restaurant. Yes our money is combined and we both helped pay for that meal, but its him taking the time to take me out and spending that time together that I'm thankful for.
I never cook for a man. Men are the providers. They feel great by providing and I feel great by being spoiled. I always say thank you for the meal even if I picked up the check.
I give my boyfriend so much respect personally and the fact that he's a respectable person at his job too. I always acknowledge his hard work and his love for me. I tell him how handsome he is, how hard working he is and how he'll be an amazing dad to our future kids. He knows I'm all for him❤
I've watched many different dating advice videos & I love yours the best - because I feel like they're coming from a very sincere good place - keeping chivalry alive - yet also being realistic of modern day dating. Keep up the positive messages
I loooove it when I am standing next to him for a selfie and he put one of his hand gently around my waist. I feel soooo protected and safe for some reason :) and be a gentleman meaning hold the door open for me, walk in front when we go shopping because I am a small person and always feel like people will walk into me haha
1. He wants you to be happy. Your happiness is his effectiveness in the relationship. 2. He wants you to take interest in his interests. 3. He wants you to initiate the sex. 4. He wants to be praised or acknowledged. 5. Encourage him to adventure. 6. He wants your confidence in him. 7. Deep desire for respect.
Wow ! Great advises been giving me a huge booster since I’m in long distance relationship texted a great army guy in Kabul ,Afghanistan. He always checking on me how he feels about me as I for him . Time have always very limited ,though we managed encouraging each of us , I’m a deaf woman in my 70’s he’s 45 yrs old . The numbers don’t mean anything to us , our hearts entwines ...He have a very high regards towards me as I am to him , he tells me how grateful that I’m supporting him emotions and financially when he’s so very stressed out I write him a story to enlighten him that’s the way to ease his stressful moments .... Adding to send him pictures of me and my smiles indeed his heart melted, I wanted him to come home soon . As you have instructed , I’ll do to him he needs a lot of rub downs . Thank you Matthew Boggs so much and keep up a great work !
You know, I’m proud of myself for searching something like this!! I’m finding that in life sometimes if you go first, and do the things for ppl you wish were done for you 1. You realize how much effort it takes and have sympathy for those who have enough in their cup to even try 2. You realize how happy it makes ppl, and that maybe they had no idea how to love you but you just gave them one !
Thank you for this. I hear so many of my girlfriends complaining about what THEY should be getting from men, and never about what basic emotional support men appreciate from women. You guys aren’t robots; it’s time for us to recognize you have basic emotional needs, too!
He stares at me,in a train like no one else is present!!,he apologizes, he likes it when I ask for some help.He's always behind me cuddling me when am either cooking or washing the dishes...
The girl with a golden dream omg my bf is always there to make me happy no matter what he's amazing but... Too many cuddles ....JK no way cuddles are the best
Sorry to point this out but... unless the cuddles lead to intimacy - as in he's got the hots for you in bed, & on a frequent/regular basis ~ forehead kisses is a sign of a mere friendship, could be close friend - respectful type of "friend love". Lip kisses, or at least on the cheeks sometimes, with the hugs or cuddles, that's the intimate "in love" type. BTW, in my house, my husband does the cooking... 'cause I'm not a good cook and tend to burn things up. Lol 😊
If I can catch the attention of a man with 0 makeup on my face and dressed in sweats and a T-shirt I feel like it's mission accomplished. That's what makes me happy, that a guy loves me without having to cause me to work too hard to attract him. I mean presenting a false image cuts away from my Skyrim or Monster Hunter time!
Not only are you speaking in a calming, soothing tone but this really gave me some insight on some things I’ve been thinking about. Thank you SO much!!! ♥️
Hey Matt on the "combined bank account" note, could u please make a video about the money issue?? Like who should pay for things in the house when is a woman required to contribute and when do u let him take the lead. This issue is always in the grey zone please make a video about it. It would be great :)
This can go both ways in a relationship. I have known some men and women who don't appreciate and take for granted what they have with someone until it is lost. It's difficult to build/maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't appreciate what you bring to the relationship and vise versa.
I finally met a guy that tells me how amazing I am and a video like this makes me realize it's because I am naturally doing what he needs me to do. I think it's just seems natural because he is definitely a good man so I want to show my appreciation and keep encouraging his positive behavior. When you care for someone you should want to nurture them to be and feel their best.
When a man says “That’s my girl” as an unexpected comment, this melts my heart. What simple phrases can I say to my man that gives him chills like his words do to me?
I am proud of you! Men love that, especially when you back it with a reason. You handled that really well. I am am so proud! I am so proud of how you … ❤
Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!
I love to be asked for help with tasks, even little things, where my knowledge and intelligence is needed. It shows me that he acknowledges me and what I’m capable of.
I have no interest in adoration. I can get that cheaply for the wrong reasons. I want someone who admires me and whom I can admire. If we wind up madly in love and discover we both adore each other, it's a nice bonus.
I still believe there’s a good men out there. Old fashioned, sincere , gentlemen , romantic and has a sense of humor and oh btw a truly good hearted man ;)
Wow thank you for this. There are actually three things that are important to me. 1 I want to feel safe. If I'm struggling with something, in order for me to be vulnerable, I need to be able to go to him without feeling judged or criticized or for it to become a weapon to use against me at a later date. 2 I want to feel adored. Like he sees me and he wants to understand me and he accepts who I am without needing to change me. 3 I need him to have staying power. When things get tough that we're willing to do together what it takes to keep things alive. Which often equates to taking responsibility for his thoughts words and actions and for his own life experiences.
Mathew, I don't know if you gonna read this comment, but I just would like to thank you. Thank you so much for your teachings and advices. I've watched a lot of coaches here on youtube, but I can tell you that you stand out for the way you highlight the topics and approach the subjects wisely, in an extremely intelligent and deep way. You are such a great communicator. Thank you and wish you success.
Thank you, Mathew, for putting together this video for girls like me, for us to be more aware of what our partner really wants. Those points you mentioned I totally agree with!
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This made me feel really good, because I realize that I do these things consistently. My boyfriend and I are both very happy. Love begets love. I will be sure to consciously keep these in mind.
My mother explicitly taught me six of those seven things. She used different words and anecdotes, but she knew how to make her man happy. These are all old fashioned and traditional things that women used to all know--but the feminists told us that it was wrong to "ask a man to help you" or "show a man respect". I remember my mom telling me many times--if your guy is into cars and likes to work in the garage, then you go sit in the garage with him in your cutest outfit, and act interested in his cars. Learn to like cars with him, and he will love you all the more. My mom always said if you put your man on a pedestal, he will put you on a higher pedestal.
So basically go all out pretending without actually having any interest in what he does... That's extremely unhealthy and insiduous. It's not lile guys are advised to do the same for women, in fact, they're advised to "play the field" and f as many chicks as possible without strings attached. Your mom was lucky to be with a man who appreciated her but most men are not like that. Best be careful who you put on a pedestal...
What’s up with bashing feminism … everyone who is ignorant shouldn’t put that word in their mouth. Feminism is and was about women rights and freedoms - to stand against abuse and discrimination. Making a mockery out of it is dangerous. Ugh. Annoying
I really want flowers, I did not know how badly I really wanted to get some as I have never gotten them before. It is really meaningful to me, it is a little thing that takes effort and shows that I am still being pursued.
I’ve been praising & complimenting him since the beginning of our relationship and it turned out that he is all perfect and does everything perfectly and keeps nagging me all the time about my imperfections. Men should only be praised when they really deserve to be praised!
I would like the guy I’m seeing to be more open to meaningful conversations rather than very broad type of conversations. We are just getting to know each other but I’d like him to be more expressive.
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I just love your videos!! They are sooo helpful, really... I'm 43 and I'm starting to build a relationship with a guy I really like. We are going slow but with the constance and we are on the same page. And your videos just teach me what mistakes I've committed in the past and how to avoid them, and put the real, conscious effort into this man and our relationship. I'm learning so much with you!! And the crazy thing is that the most of things you say are so obvious, but we simply don't pay the attention to them, or just don't think and we make things automatically. Thank you Mat🙏🏼🤍🥰
Communication is key!!! :) It's hard when you both have communication issues... or trust issues. If there's an issue, talk about what you both want!!!! Be happy together 😊
I am looking for that old-time type of love. When couples were together say like World War II generation they knew how to love each other and I would like to find something like that
Those were more traditional so I would work on femininity and etiquette and traditional house/wife/mother skills since that will attract guys to want to get married/ have kids. Cheers
you know... There should also be some youtube link that says "7 things a woman don't say". And on that list there should probably be: "What you don't hear complains about = a compliment". Wich means, if you hear her complaining about the dishwasher, the meal. And that's it for that day, but you didn't hear her complain about: how you hugged her, how you stood up for her, how you fixed the machine afterwards, etc. That's that there isn't something to complain about (and she probably forgets to compliment you, cause you probably forget to compliment her too on the tasks she does for you. You both think that it's "the normal life"). Also there are types of woman. And to be honest... the perfectionists are the ones who are often misinterpreted. Because actually, they are high emotional. Try to figure out what type of wife you have, AND PUT TIME IN THAT THING! In stand of blackmailing her all over the place like: internet, café's, etc. If you are sarcastic about this "happy wife, happy life" kind off thing? Then you just don't know your wife well, I supose...
I cannot agree more with these desires especially respect!!! This the number 1 need of a man and women who takes care of this need they make a man stick to them for the life! Bless you for educating us women, you are doing a great job!!
Great video I don't know why anyone would put a thumbs down. Well something that I like that I don't ask for Is foreplay. I know men like it when you take control sometimes, But for most women we take a bit longer to get in the mood. It would To be nice For him to initiate Soft foreplay, Like rubbing my shoulders my back, Then of course going in for some other things I like before getting down to it!Lol Spending at least 10 minutes rubbing me down, and getting me riled up would be awesome! Yeah definitely initiating foreplay!👍👍👍
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Yep.. that'd be handy LOL Maybe one day you tie him down and do things to him that arouse but you hang off with the gratification. (While you're doing this it's quite erotic in itself) Gratification comes when you untie him and come together for a cataclysmic climax!! 😛💞
Dania Bamofleh when I have done something bed to my bf he still tries to show that he loves me but I pull away ... When it gets to the point where you stress or he finds it hard to show he loves u then u need a break ... Maybe a day or two
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Hi Matt, my name is Toni M.,and I just came across your videos , this video is great, it really opened by eyes, to the little things that my partner does for me. I appreciate him so much, and everything that he does for me, I see the love in his eyes, and I don’t ever want to take for granted everything he does for me. Your videos have opened my eyes. I am now as subscriber to your channel. Thanks again, for the great advice.
I had an arranged marriage to a men his whole life was about me myself and I and a motorcycle and hot temper and from day one I showed him respect patience compassion understandings space for him to grow emotionally and I built his confidence. made him into a better men even though he was fifteen years older, instead of relying on men to give us all these things we should take time understand men first it's going to be thirty years and raised five wonderful human beings. Appreciation and respect is key.
I want his respect as well. ANd his pride. I have a job that requires a lot of education and pays little. But it's who I am and it fulfills me greatly. I need a man to respect that I might not ever get rich, but I'm hella good at what I do! Be proud of me!
The gratitude for today Mat is seeing and living love I've never thought about love in this way before when our hearts connect and we are able to have intimacy of our emotions in our relationships softness in our conversations In being authentic I find that is really sexy and natural how we all connect with each other the love I'm noticing today so beautiful have a beautiful day today and week ahead 😊
I’m so excited to apply these to my relationship. After 2 years together you often forget these little things that matter. I’m writing these down and I can’t wait to make sure I do all of them every single day. Thank you for the reminder!
I think this is a wonderful list especially for someone who isn’t quite sure how to approach these sometimes awkward moments or those of us who have simply not realized after time or stressful periods of life that these things are a big deal (and simple to implement, if we are forgetting or needing a little push/change). Rebuilding connection is possible. I have never shared my “love language” mostly because I just didn’t even know but I think this is the thing that changes it up for us and I’d recommend for anyone who doesn’t already know or hasn’t reflected WITH their partner! After taking a quick quiz together (on an app so he can take it without you giving him his answers 😝), we were both laughing and finding comfort that we always knew deep down what each other’s love languages were but just didn’t know that we could be directing some unmatched energy elsewhere. Now that the hard part is out of the way, we can begin to work on fulfilling that love language a little more everyday together. Not only does it give us something to work toward after 8 years but it’s also something that allows us to get to know our constantly evolving partner and our changing needs/wants/fantasies together. If it’s not working after that kind of intimate discussion and commitment to respect each other’s feelings both emotional, physical, and sexual, then maybe it isn’t a great match.
It means a lot to me if my partner lets me know that we matter and that they are willing to step up and watch out for me as I would watch out for her. Its shows they care if they challenged one to suspend their own dogma. Life can be crazy and hard at times, but to understand that we will make it through the pain together and be stronger for it it. Together a family can make it through hellfire.
Im scrolling through looking at all the demands and expectations that women want . I wonder what they(women) bring to the table. Hopefully a list as long as what they expect.
Because at the end Matt asks women to comment “now tell me, what do you want from a. Relationship?” That’s why, he doesn’t say it until the last part of the video
My husband knew so much about plants, while I grew up in the desert and didn't have an interest in such things. He encouraged me to take a 10 week Master Gardener course, and my outlook changed completely. We now have the nicest yard in the neighborhood that we work together on weekends. He loves to build things, so while sitting under the maple trees, we'll brain storm structures that would compliment our landscape. Once finished, he gets praise for it everytime we are out there using it. That encourages him to build even more complicated things. He also likes to eat - and I have learned to cook many different cuisines so it's never boring. We are simple people. A great day, relaxing is a picnic in our beautiful yard, eating delicious food. It takes us away from the problems of the world.
This is exactly what men should do to women. Or maybe I should speak for myself. These are the things I want from my man. If men want these things, why aren't they giving it?
I clearly know what I want and I'm bold enough to talk about it. It just amazes me how men want these things, can't say it but don't do all these things to their women. You want to be treated right, treat others right. It's really that simple.
affection, reassurance, gentle pushing or encouragement and agree with below, mostly not dwelling on other women, or the kiss of death, comparing me to them
I love nicknames and endearments but I love when my man uses my real name too. Complimenting me when I set atmosphere for our time to be intimate is lovely.
Remember ladies do this only for men that deserve it, not just cause hes attractive does he automatically gets a pass And dont be affraid to move on when you know hes not the man you need in your life.
I want RESPECT for my contribution, my values, how I take care of myself and my capabilities. Don't act like my life is second to yours. Know that I was a whole woman before I met you.
Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...
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This is really eye opening, thank you
😊Hi Lee
Let us be the last ones who are not
1.Wants you to be happy
2.Interest in his interest
3.Initiate sex
4.Wants to be praised and acknowledged
5.Encourage him to adventure
6.Confidence in him
7. Respect
If anything, I would move respect to number one. I think everything you say to a man or do for a man has to be filtered through the lens of respect. Respect = Love for men, in general. I think most men would rather be respected than loved (as we think of love) if they had to choose.
@@chelsabrinkman4076 well, i always think that any youtuber guru list always starts from the least to the most important one. Like, they save the best for the last. So, I think in this list, respect is the most important one.
Not really
@@chelsabrinkman4076 I honestly don't give a crap if my wife respects me. Respect is a silly thing we tell each other is important
@@chainyrabbit That is SO WRONG. IT IS SO SO SO IMPORTANT! HE BETTER RESPECT ME! IT IS NOT SILLY AT ALL!
Watching my parents (married 76 years! Passed 1 month apart, both 97) I came to believe that a couple will fall in and out of love a number of times in a long relationship. Stick with it: They ended up with the most protective, adoring relationship I've had the honor of viewing.
I believe this 100%. ppl change and if you remember to love each other in the good and bad as life takes you down different paths, you can make it. But you have to make an effort and learn from one another. This is also based on observing some great relationships over the years and others that failed.
@@rosejacklyn Personally, I wish I'd been wiser when I was young. I wish I'd known God when I was young, too! They probably go together. ;) Still, I'm so blessed to have been in the bleachers during important parts of my dear parents' love/life.
Bev, what an honor that you were able to witness that! That is wonderful!
@@MsBee-oz7vd Amen, Ms. Bee..And thank you! I was so lucky to spend almost every evening for 2 1/2 years with them at the end. We got to say everything. And they were wonderful parents! I wasn't so great (Divorced mom), but these great parents of mine helped me with my own kids.
@@BeverlyM52 There is nothing wrong with you…
You are great. I am sure your mother and father would agree.
Divorced doesn’t mean defeated.
There is hope
There is Love and it’s beautiful the second time around as if it was the only. I believe it for you♥️
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Sending love to everyone working on their relationships ❤️
Respect is one of the most important one of all if you do not have that for one another than you have not much love.
It's. THANK You...NEXT...TY...NEXT...I SO GRATEFUL FOR MY EX...NEVER 2 MAKE THAT STUPID MISTAKE...EVER... AGAIN...SO...TY...NEXT...TY ..NEXT...💗🗝️💓💯🎶💫🙏 AGAIN...TY...NEXT💫💯🎶💗♂️🗝️
Am trying 😂
Most women I know, including me, always get passionate about their man's interest, but it is rarely reciprocated.
Hello paragon of beauty how’s life treating you today? I hope you’re in a perfect health and enjoying your day? To be honest.” You’re beautiful 😍 I wish I could know you more...
Hi Sally, I am in the same boat. So frustrating. I hope things improve for you. Hugs
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Thank you so much!!! It's nice to see that mem actually appreciate the lil things!!
I agree. You just don’t get the reciprocation you see from our end.
I'd like for him to accept and acknowledge when I tell him that he has hurt my feelings instead of getting angry and trying to make it my fault.
I really want to be with someone I love and I'm looking for someone that can take care of my child. I lost my wife.
@@Davecasteelmay her soul rest in peace
Matt!! She wasn't thanking you for paying for dinner...she was thanking you for giving her your time and attention. Really that's what most of us want. Also on the appreciation comment, I truly think the most lost words in a relationship are " I'm sorry"... I think many people remember to thank each other for taking time out, but the "I'm sorry" gets lost when someone has been let down. I don't expect for anyone to be perfect, but at least acknowledge that you've let someone down. If you do that...then you get the chance to make it right. If you don't....and it's been more than a few times...then that chance gets lost. Would you agree?
Yes I do!
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Yeah, it wasn't about the money but it was about his willingness to take her out for a dinner.
Quality time.
Spot on!
I'm not a relationship advisor, but I just wanna tell everyone out there, let it go with the flow, don't try to adjust or create any situation to make him/her love you. Because love can't be created but you can only feel it.
Righhhhttt, let it go w/ the flow while keeping these ideas in the back of ur head
That is terrible advice. Stick to your day job 😂
Love is actions, not feelings.
Very well said
True rhat
Incorrect. Love is an action. Thinking it is only a feeling....will have you divorced real fast.
I’m one of those “strong” women. I’ve been a single mom for 20 years, put myself through college twice. I work long hours. What do I secretly want in a relationship? Old fashioned manners; to be treated as special & delicate. To have a man offer to help me carry something heavy, hold my door, my chair. I get told my men that they respect me because of my strength, but I don’t want to have to be strong all the time.
I know the feeling ma
I JUST WANT TO BE TREATED LIKE A LADY!!! ROMANCE...A TRUE GENTLE MAN...
Same for me ladies but no one seems to want me.
@@chrisbrand5728 hold the line. He's out there looking for you. 😉
@@c.duesler7255 I hope it's not a she! I am a she and only go one way!!
What I want from a man is for him to take the lead sometimes, make plans, see them through.. Having to call all the shots becomes stressful and feels lonely and like I'm managing him as well as the rest of my life. A man who is forward-thinking and holds his own is very attractive.
Yes yes yes
you wanted feminism, so women can lead now.
@@jarvisjackson4833 I personally never wanted feminism. It's so boring.
Have you tried asking him to make some choice or decision and then even if he doesn't, just leave it alone? And don't try to correct it if it isn't done the way you would do it. Too often we unconsciously undermine them by trying to micromanage him after we ask him to do it, which makes him pull back because he thinks "I can't do it right anyhow! Let her go ahead and do it her way! What's the use in my even trying!!" Even if it's something important like a faucet leaking or something needs fixing---try asking sweetly, then LEAVE HIM ALONE! Men absolutely HATE being told what to do or how to do it!! :D
@@jarvisjackson4833 unrelated. You're answering to someone just saying "a leading man is attractive".
Men and women think on different levels and have different needs. I think the number one most important thing is communication with your partner. My husband and I have been married over 30 years, rarely fight and we know each others needs and are there for each other no matter what. To build a strong relationship takes a lot of patience, understanding and love.
Hii can u plz help me out? I have many times hurt my bf (emotionally), it wasn't my intention to make him sad but I always mess up and did smthg without fully thinking about the outcome.....i don't want to make him sad, I want to change myself....can u plz give me some tips
@@devenderkumar427 what exactly did you do?
1. Tell her you love her ... When it's not connected to physical intimacy.
2. Tell her she's beautiful... when her hair is a mess, when she has an acne outbreak, and when she least expects it.
3. Honor her through opening doors, making sure she's seated first, helping her bring in the groceries, and just letting her know that your her teammate.
4. Be honest with her. In the little things, and the big things. Never EVER lie, or twist the truth. Be open about YOUR ideas, because she DOES want to know them.
5. Have fun with her. In group settings and alone time. Be willing to try new things together. Laugh until your gut aches, and your eyes get teary.
6. Do something out of the ordinary sometimes. Surprise her and keep her guessing about you.
7. Learn to read her moods, and act accordingly. Sometimes she'll want hot and passionate. Other times, she'll want gentle and sweet. Give her the space to feel down sometimes. You don't need to fix it, but just knowing your are there for her, and aren't being critical goes a long way.
8. Communicate! Talk about the mundane things, and the big dreams.
I'm very blessed to have a man who does all of these things. And he keeps me coming back for more, as I hope I do the same for him.
Love your videos and your seminars, Mat. I have a strong relationship, but I'm always reminded of things I can do better, or of things I've let slide, and gotten comfortable in.
LOATHE autocorrect. 😉
Love this. Thank you for sharing.
Your last 3 words really hit home for me; gotten comfortable in. I surprised my hubby a few times when he tells me "love you"... I reply lightly: "why?" then laugh. It's fresh, surprising and shakes it up a bit. After 30+ yrs, let me tell you girls, you better learn how to keep things fresh and alive. Thank you Matt!
Love this!
Men need to give more attention to their women. They need to listen and remember what she likes/ dislikes/needs/craves. Being thoughtful and chivalrous. More romance....the kind that sweeps you off your feet.
You have so much wisdom and strength. Everything you said in your post, nailed in on the head, what needs to be done in a relationship.
I want a man to follow through and keep his word. When that doesn’t happen, it’s a wretched feeling of disappointment. I’ve learned disappointment is the worst feeling of all.
If your man is on his way out, there’s only one thing you can say to pull him back for good. *4WhatHeWants. Com*
so fkn agree being dissapointed is like i can't explain its a
undescribable feeling.
Anna Sauls Grieving for the loss of family member is the worst feeling on this planet You are lucky
janet y I know all all about grieving for the loss of family and loved ones. I have lost both parents, my sister only a month ago on Easter Sunday and my ex committed suicide. I thank God for my Faith in knowing I will be reunited with them in Heaven. This, however, is a post re: romantic relationships. Thanks for the comment.
janet y btw, I'm only 46. Sorry for your pain.
I love my man.
He’s kind, gives me compliments is very smart. Makes me happy no matter what. He cooks and cleans, doesn’t text or looks at other women. He’s faithful and very handsome.
Oh guess what, he doesn’t exist.
Adelina V. You made me laugh out loud so hard!!! 👍🤣
Mo V I‘m glad I could make you laugh. 😌😊
Adelina V. Wow I have a bf and he's perfect
To take initiative
Allow me to depend on him without worry
The list is almost the same for women if you change just a few words and take it to a higher level of abstraction
1. She wants you to be happy
2 she wants you to take interest in her interests
3. She wants you to initiate connection (through conversation, not just through sex - do the former and you'll have more of the latter than you ever dreamed)
4. She wants to be praised and acknowledged (especially for things OTHER then her looks/body)
5. She wants you to encourage her to have a life and community outside of her relationship with you (and the kids)
6. She wants your confidence in her
7. She has a deep desire for your respect
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Men often kill #6 and #7 by mansplaining and assuming she can't figure out anything mechanical.
Men are often afraid of impairing their masculinity if they do #2
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Wow
Yes to all of them!!!
@@RoddyPipersCorneas Dude, did you even understand what she even wrote even to the tiniest extent? No one expects you to like or take part in 'girly' hobbies. She just wants you to be accepting of her having a life outside of you and your children. Not only accepting, but encouraging as well. You seem like that bitter so called pro male activist whose only contribution to men's rights is complaining about feminists on youtube channels with a misplaced sense of self righteousness.
I think constant criticism is demeaning but men usually do that because they want to help/fix whatever is wrong rather than be buttholes. Rest assured, there are some guys who genuinely are butt holes and get off to criticizing and belittling you. But many men just want to help and feel useful, especially with something they’re familiar with.
As a man, I agree with this list whole-heartedly.
You have a good opinion sir
Lol, thank you for reaffirming!
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I'd like a verbal expression of appreciation for being a good mother to the children. It takes a lot of time and energy to invest in raising his children, so I'd love to hear, "Babe, I love what you do for our kids!"
When I dress up for Dinner or for a Night out, I would like my boyfriend to tell me that I look great more often because I only dress up for him.
Kim Katharina there's a quick remedy. Next time put your 'staying at home clothes' we all know what they are... that old hoodie with holes... but oh no comfy...
If he says anything just say 'oh I didn't think u paid attention to that, that's no problem I'll dress up for u next time.'
He'll never forget to compliment u again 😂
That is so pathetic. Sometimes I can’t believe I’m a woman because I can’t relate to most of y’all at all lol your comment got over 40 likes. Meanwhile I couldn’t care less about “compliments” and approval/validation, I focus on important things.
Kim Katharina *ALSO* if you “only dressed up for him” you would dress up for him while you’re home together, not going out. Makes no sense.
Kallen xo more like why are you so bothered by my opinion??
For sure!
do a video about jealousy in a relationship pleaaaaaaaaaaaaase. everything u give advise on i always have done, and people wonder why and how i have a very succssesful relationship, and i still love to listen to u. u're amaaazing
yes and trust issues in a relationship!!
I want him to keep the communication constant and consistent. Simple compliments or appreciation in every little thing I do
Thanks for your advice, Mat! I watched your videos for a couple years as I was feeling perpetually single and wanting to “get out there” and start dating. I now have an amazing boyfriend of 4 months, and rewatching this video has helped me realize that I have implemented these qualities! My boyfriend has verbally praised me for them, too. Thank you!
"Happy spouse
Happy house "
If my man isn't happy im not happy either
That's my saying too! 😀 Both people need to be happy. There should not be a hierarchy
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I have been with my husband for 19 years (dated 10, married 9). I have to say I agree with these points.
I also tell him Thank You when we are finished eating at a restaurant. Yes our money is combined and we both helped pay for that meal, but its him taking the time to take me out and spending that time together that I'm thankful for.
My late boyfriend always said thank you when I cooked a meal for us. And we told each other thank you if one of us picked up the check for a meal out.
I never cook for a man. Men are the providers. They feel great by providing and I feel great by being spoiled. I always say thank you for the meal even if I picked up the check.
My boyfriend always says thank you after every dinner. I love him so much
@@EarlyBirdCraft why sounds like you just want him to do all the work tbh
@@adampetrowski Too many spoiled little girls out there. They want us to pay the bills and cook and clean. Then they say " Why am I single?" LOL
I give my boyfriend so much respect personally and the fact that he's a respectable person at his job too. I always acknowledge his hard work and his love for me. I tell him how handsome he is, how hard working he is and how he'll be an amazing dad to our future kids. He knows I'm all for him❤
Start writing your pre-nup.
Respect number one. Sensitivity. Spending time with me. Appreciation. Lots of Affection. Being proud of me. His actions match his words.
Wow that's good
Sometime you need to remind people you trust.
I've watched many different dating advice videos & I love yours the best - because I feel like they're coming from a very sincere good place - keeping chivalry alive - yet also being realistic of modern day dating. Keep up the positive messages
I loooove it when I am standing next to him for a selfie and he put one of his hand gently around my waist. I feel soooo protected and safe for some reason :) and be a gentleman meaning hold the door open for me, walk in front when we go shopping because I am a small person and always feel like people will walk into me haha
1. He wants you to be happy. Your happiness is his effectiveness in the relationship.
2. He wants you to take interest in his interests.
3. He wants you to initiate the sex.
4. He wants to be praised or acknowledged.
5. Encourage him to adventure.
6. He wants your confidence in him.
7. Deep desire for respect.
Thanks 😊
Wow ! Great advises been giving me a huge booster since I’m in long distance relationship texted a great army guy in Kabul ,Afghanistan. He always checking on me how he feels about me as I for him . Time have always very limited ,though we managed encouraging each of us , I’m a deaf woman in my 70’s he’s 45 yrs old . The numbers don’t mean anything to us , our hearts entwines ...He have a very high regards towards me as I am to him , he tells me how grateful that I’m supporting him emotions and financially when he’s so very stressed out I write him a story to enlighten him that’s the way to ease his stressful moments .... Adding to send him pictures of me and my smiles indeed his heart melted, I wanted him to come home soon . As you have instructed , I’ll do to him he needs a lot of rub downs . Thank you Matthew Boggs so much and keep up a great work !
How are you doing 😊👋👋😊
I really want to be with someone I love and I'm looking for someone that can take care of my child. I lost my wife.
You know, I’m proud of myself for searching something like this!! I’m finding that in life sometimes if you go first, and do the things for ppl you wish were done for you
1. You realize how much effort it takes and have sympathy for those who have enough in their cup to even try
2. You realize how happy it makes ppl, and that maybe they had no idea how to love you but you just gave them one !
Thank you for this. I hear so many of my girlfriends complaining about what THEY should be getting from men, and never about what basic emotional support men appreciate from women. You guys aren’t robots; it’s time for us to recognize you have basic emotional needs, too!
even in this post, some women are quick to respond with what they want instead of just listening and letting the man have the floor.
He stares at me,in a train like no one else is present!!,he apologizes, he likes it when I ask for some help.He's always behind me cuddling me when am either cooking or washing the dishes...
The girl with a golden dream Wow, you're a lucky girl! ❤
The girl with a golden dream omg my bf is always there to make me happy no matter what he's amazing but... Too many cuddles ....JK no way cuddles are the best
I count myself lucky and I try to be the best I can,we are best friends we share everything and help each other.Many cuddles and forehead kisses...
The girl with a golden dream that's just ADORABLE l want that too!
Sorry to point this out but... unless the cuddles lead to intimacy - as in he's got the hots for you in bed, & on a frequent/regular basis ~ forehead kisses is a sign of a mere friendship, could be close friend - respectful type of "friend love".
Lip kisses, or at least on the cheeks sometimes, with the hugs or cuddles, that's the intimate "in love" type.
BTW, in my house, my husband does the cooking... 'cause I'm not a good cook and tend to burn things up. Lol 😊
"Be happy damn it!" Haha
MFreedom lol!
MFreedom 😂😂
MFreedom....you know how to be a man...why I should I be the one to carry all the worry and weight. I can do this with no man...get the point.
Omg that was funny!!!
We always praying together and he always mention and include the names of my family in our prayer together
Basically in every relationship just be yourself and love means already all these things
If I can catch the attention of a man with 0 makeup on my face and dressed in sweats and a T-shirt I feel like it's mission accomplished. That's what makes me happy, that a guy loves me without having to cause me to work too hard to attract him. I mean presenting a false image cuts away from my Skyrim or Monster Hunter time!
Not only are you speaking in a calming, soothing tone but this really gave me some insight on some things I’ve been thinking about. Thank you SO much!!! ♥️
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Hey Matt on the "combined bank account" note, could u please make a video about the money issue?? Like who should pay for things in the house when is a woman required to contribute and when do u let him take the lead. This issue is always in the grey zone please make a video about it. It would be great :)
Ingy Bahaa that would be a good video
Nunnha B because things aren’t so black and white. Women usually take on more of the housework and taking care of the kids...
This can go both ways in a relationship. I have known some men and women who don't appreciate and take for granted what they have with someone until it is lost. It's difficult to build/maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't appreciate what you bring to the relationship and vise versa.
I finally met a guy that tells me how amazing I am and a video like this makes me realize it's because I am naturally doing what he needs me to do. I think it's just seems natural because he is definitely a good man so I want to show my appreciation and keep encouraging his positive behavior. When you care for someone you should want to nurture them to be and feel their best.
When a man says “That’s my girl” as an unexpected comment, this melts my heart.
What simple phrases can I say to my man that gives him chills like his words do to me?
I am proud of you!
Men love that, especially when you back it with a reason.
You handled that really well. I am am so proud!
I am so proud of how you … ❤
Last week I ran my first 5k without stopping and all the time I could hear the voice in my head saying that I can do it. Forwago, thank you so much for everything!!
My husband and I have been married 44 yr and our relationship could use a reboot. Thanks for these insights which I will try! 👏👍
I love to be asked for help with tasks, even little things, where my knowledge and intelligence is needed. It shows me that he acknowledges me and what I’m capable of.
Honestly dude, your voice is a comfort. Thank you for the advice.
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Dennis Prager said it best. “Men want to be admired and women want to be adored.”
I have no interest in adoration. I can get that cheaply for the wrong reasons. I want someone who admires me and whom I can admire. If we wind up madly in love and discover we both adore each other, it's a nice bonus.
Well said
I do majority of these and I’m still taken for granted. I don’t think he’s that into me anymore.
I still believe there’s a good men out there. Old fashioned, sincere , gentlemen , romantic and has a sense of humor and oh btw a truly good hearted man ;)
Wow thank you for this. There are actually three things that are important to me. 1 I want to feel safe. If I'm struggling with something, in order for me to be vulnerable, I need to be able to go to him without feeling judged or criticized or for it to become a weapon to use against me at a later date. 2 I want to feel adored. Like he sees me and he wants to understand me and he accepts who I am without needing to change me. 3 I need him to have staying power. When things get tough that we're willing to do together what it takes to keep things alive. Which often equates to taking responsibility for his thoughts words and actions and for his own life experiences.
Mathew, I don't know if you gonna read this comment, but I just would like to thank you. Thank you so much for your teachings and advices. I've watched a lot of coaches here on youtube, but I can tell you that you stand out for the way you highlight the topics and approach the subjects wisely, in an extremely intelligent and deep way. You are such a great communicator. Thank you and wish you success.
Thank you, Mathew, for putting together this video for girls like me, for us to be more aware of what our partner really wants. Those points you mentioned I totally agree with!
Cheers for this, I've been looking for "dating tips for women by men" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you heard people talk about - HootDating.xyz ? Ive heard some incredible things about it and my neighbour got great results with it.
This made me feel really good, because I realize that I do these things consistently. My boyfriend and I are both very happy. Love begets love. I will be sure to consciously keep these in mind.
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Hello Melissa
My mother explicitly taught me six of those seven things. She used different words and anecdotes, but she knew how to make her man happy. These are all old fashioned and traditional things that women used to all know--but the feminists told us that it was wrong to "ask a man to help you" or "show a man respect". I remember my mom telling me many times--if your guy is into cars and likes to work in the garage, then you go sit in the garage with him in your cutest outfit, and act interested in his cars. Learn to like cars with him, and he will love you all the more. My mom always said if you put your man on a pedestal, he will put you on a higher pedestal.
OMGOD, I am tired just reading this. The man has to want a relationshp, it is that simple really.
You are right, mother is full of wisdom
Hello Pamela
So basically go all out pretending without actually having any interest in what he does... That's extremely unhealthy and insiduous. It's not lile guys are advised to do the same for women, in fact, they're advised to "play the field" and f as many chicks as possible without strings attached.
Your mom was lucky to be with a man who appreciated her but most men are not like that. Best be careful who you put on a pedestal...
What’s up with bashing feminism … everyone who is ignorant shouldn’t put that word in their mouth. Feminism is and was about women rights and freedoms - to stand against abuse and discrimination. Making a mockery out of it is dangerous. Ugh. Annoying
I really want flowers, I did not know how badly I really wanted to get some as I have never gotten them before. It is really meaningful to me, it is a little thing that takes effort and shows that I am still being pursued.
I’ve been praising & complimenting him since the beginning of our relationship and it turned out that he is all perfect and does everything perfectly and keeps nagging me all the time about my imperfections. Men should only be praised when they really deserve to be praised!
I believe that most of these are common both ways...
I'm a Guy, and I agree I think its all a matter of common sense, common courtesy, and empathy, all of which should by-lateral
Exactly! I completely agree.
I would like the guy I’m seeing to be more open to meaningful conversations rather than very broad type of conversations. We are just getting to know each other but I’d like him to be more expressive.
But yeah, relationship between me and my guy is sometimes tough even due to this problem… But what makes everything better is sex. The sex experience I have during this month with a unique and natural product Spanish Fly drops is HUGE! My wife is eventually satisfied with me after a long sexless year!
ohh. my boyfriend actually broke up with me a week ago bc he said how he cannot stand a long-distance relationship. at least i can try those drops you write about with the next victim!
None of this has worked in my long term relationship w/ a narcissist. I'm just really realizing through this video how great I am as a partner.
I just love your videos!! They are sooo helpful, really... I'm 43 and I'm starting to build a relationship with a guy I really like. We are going slow but with the constance and we are on the same page. And your videos just teach me what mistakes I've committed in the past and how to avoid them, and put the real, conscious effort into this man and our relationship.
I'm learning so much with you!! And the crazy thing is that the most of things you say are so obvious, but we simply don't pay the attention to them, or just don't think and we make things automatically.
Thank you Mat🙏🏼🤍🥰
I am from Taiwan. Very much like your sharing help me Understand more about man’s thinking.
Communication is key!!! :) It's hard when you both have communication issues... or trust issues. If there's an issue, talk about what you both want!!!! Be happy together 😊
I am looking for that old-time type of love. When couples were together say like World War II generation they knew how to love each other and I would like to find something like that
Rebecca Nolan ❤❤I pray that you find that 🙏🏾
Rebecca Nolan how romantic :)
That sounds like a Hollywood WW2 movie plot, but not reality.
Those were more traditional so I would work on femininity and etiquette and traditional house/wife/mother skills since that will attract guys to want to get married/ have kids. Cheers
I had this when I was... and then I broke up with him for a stupid reason. I know he'd never have left me. He is dating a girl in a wheelchair now.
Just respect to all differences and similarities instead of pretending and playing with each other .
compliments, honesty, for him to actually care
Oh man when he said I looked gorgeous in the dress, I was blown away. I dressed up only for him😏
Man here. This guy speaks truth.
Happy wife
Happy life
🤗😂
Poi son I always say this to my boyfriend 😂
Ain't that the damn truth
you know... There should also be some youtube link that says "7 things a woman don't say". And on that list there should probably be: "What you don't hear complains about = a compliment". Wich means, if you hear her complaining about the dishwasher, the meal. And that's it for that day, but you didn't hear her complain about: how you hugged her, how you stood up for her, how you fixed the machine afterwards, etc. That's that there isn't something to complain about (and she probably forgets to compliment you, cause you probably forget to compliment her too on the tasks she does for you. You both think that it's "the normal life").
Also there are types of woman. And to be honest... the perfectionists are the ones who are often misinterpreted. Because actually, they are high emotional. Try to figure out what type of wife you have, AND PUT TIME IN THAT THING! In stand of blackmailing her all over the place like: internet, café's, etc.
If you are sarcastic about this "happy wife, happy life" kind off thing? Then you just don't know your wife well, I supose...
No wife, happy man!
pvaz lol 🤣
Man, you are so right. I have been married for 4 months now. I have observed all these things working out.
I cannot agree more with these desires especially respect!!! This the number 1 need of a man and women who takes care of this need they make a man stick to them for the life! Bless you for educating us women, you are doing a great job!!
You're my favorite coach so far!!!
Great video I don't know why anyone would put a thumbs down.
Well something that I like that I don't ask for Is foreplay. I know men like it when you take control sometimes, But for most women we take a bit longer to get in the mood. It would To be nice For him to initiate Soft foreplay, Like rubbing my shoulders my back, Then of course going in for some other things I like before getting down to it!Lol Spending at least 10 minutes rubbing me down, and getting me riled up would be awesome! Yeah definitely initiating foreplay!👍👍👍
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Yep.. that'd be handy LOL Maybe one day you tie him down and do things to him that arouse but you hang off with the gratification. (While you're doing this it's quite erotic in itself) Gratification comes when you untie him and come together for a cataclysmic climax!! 😛💞
I would like my man to love me when I least deserve it!
Dania Bamofleh when I have done something bed to my bf he still tries to show that he loves me but I pull away ... When it gets to the point where you stress or he finds it hard to show he loves u then u need a break ... Maybe a day or two
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Hi Matt, my name is Toni M.,and I just came across your videos , this video is great, it really opened by eyes, to the little things that my partner does for me. I appreciate him so much, and everything that he does for me, I see the love in his eyes, and I don’t ever want to take for granted everything he does for me. Your videos have opened my eyes. I am now as subscriber to your channel. Thanks again, for the great advice.
I had an arranged marriage to a men his whole life was about me myself and I and a motorcycle and hot temper and from day one I showed him respect patience compassion understandings space for him to grow emotionally and I built his confidence. made him into a better men even though he was fifteen years older, instead of relying on men to give us all these things we should take time understand men first it's going to be thirty years and raised five wonderful human beings. Appreciation and respect is key.
I'd like it if he'd say that I look beautiful today more often. It's rare that I get that compliment from him.
Amanda Mizelle do you tell him that he’s beautiful? Do you compliment him?
La la la all the time.. I'll say damn honey, you look good or something like that.. Sometimes I just let my actions speak for me.
Amanda Mizelle maybe that’s not his love language.
La la la lol true
Amanda Mizelle Yes I 2nd that motion.. Definitely lead him to tell me I'm beautiful way more often!!!
Things that I want but never ask for is respect and presence.
I want his respect as well. ANd his pride. I have a job that requires a lot of education and pays little. But it's who I am and it fulfills me greatly. I need a man to respect that I might not ever get rich, but I'm hella good at what I do! Be proud of me!
Love what you say and I have the same case as you.
You must be a teacher.
Yes!!! Well Said
Well said
Wow, so so true👍I showed this to my wife and she listened and then came up to my lap and we talked about😊 really good and happy for your expertise!
Hearing your voice each day strengthens me
The gratitude for today Mat is seeing and living love I've never thought about love in this way before when our hearts connect and we are able to have intimacy of our emotions in our relationships softness in our conversations In being authentic I find that is really sexy and natural how we all connect with each other the love I'm noticing today so beautiful have a beautiful day today and week ahead 😊
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Wow that's nice
Hello dear
I’m so excited to apply these to my relationship. After 2 years together you often forget these little things that matter. I’m writing these down and I can’t wait to make sure I do all of them every single day. Thank you for the reminder!
2 years is still a new relationship but it's good to do these whenever you feel it needs it
I think this is a wonderful list especially for someone who isn’t quite sure how to approach these sometimes awkward moments or those of us who have simply not realized after time or stressful periods of life that these things are a big deal (and simple to implement, if we are forgetting or needing a little push/change). Rebuilding connection is possible. I have never shared my “love language” mostly because I just didn’t even know but I think this is the thing that changes it up for us and I’d recommend for anyone who doesn’t already know or hasn’t reflected WITH their partner! After taking a quick quiz together (on an app so he can take it without you giving him his answers 😝), we were both laughing and finding comfort that we always knew deep down what each other’s love languages were but just didn’t know that we could be directing some unmatched energy elsewhere. Now that the hard part is out of the way, we can begin to work on fulfilling that love language a little more everyday together. Not only does it give us something to work toward after 8 years but it’s also something that allows us to get to know our constantly evolving partner and our changing needs/wants/fantasies together. If it’s not working after that kind of intimate discussion and commitment to respect each other’s feelings both emotional, physical, and sexual, then maybe it isn’t a great match.
So true.
A MAN NEEDS TO FEEL NEEDED AND WANTED.
My mom isn't that into my dads rock obsession, but thankfully I am so my dad and I can bond over our shared love of rock music from the 60's and 70's.
It means a lot to me if my partner lets me know that we matter and that they are willing to step up and watch out for me as I would watch out for her. Its shows they care if they challenged one to suspend their own dogma. Life can be crazy and hard at times, but to understand that we will make it through the pain together and be stronger for it it. Together a family can make it through hellfire.
This is an advice video for women in relationships. Yet, the top comments are all about what women want their boyfriends to do.
We live in the age of entitlement.
Im scrolling through looking at all the demands and expectations that women want . I wonder what they(women) bring to the table. Hopefully a list as long as what they expect.
I thought the same thing reading these comments! Lol
Because at the end Matt asks women to comment “now tell me, what do you want from a. Relationship?” That’s why, he doesn’t say it until the last part of the video
To feel have a feeling of safety and security just by his presence.
My husband knew so much about plants, while I grew up in the desert and didn't have an interest in such things. He encouraged me to take a 10 week Master Gardener course, and my outlook changed completely. We now have the nicest yard in the neighborhood that we work together on weekends. He loves to build things, so while sitting under the maple trees, we'll brain storm structures that would compliment our landscape. Once finished, he gets praise for it everytime we are out there using it. That encourages him to build even more complicated things. He also likes to eat - and I have learned to cook many different cuisines so it's never boring. We are simple people. A great day, relaxing is a picnic in our beautiful yard, eating delicious food. It takes us away from the problems of the world.
I love that you notice her appreciating you. 🖤🙏🖤
Be his mom , be his girlfriend, be his wife, be his buddy, be his boss, be his wild cat ... got it ...... 💕
This is exactly what men should do to women. Or maybe I should speak for myself. These are the things I want from my man. If men want these things, why aren't they giving it?
probably don't know you want it. Communication is key it seems
Cassandra Okotie if you want these things, why are you giving it??
exactly!!!!! same comment I did. we also want the man to get excited to in our plans although they might not like it
I clearly know what I want and I'm bold enough to talk about it. It just amazes me how men want these things, can't say it but don't do all these things to their women. You want to be treated right, treat others right. It's really that simple.
Just ain't found a real man yet
affection, reassurance, gentle pushing or encouragement and agree with below, mostly not dwelling on other women, or the kiss of death, comparing me to them
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I love nicknames and endearments but I love when my man uses my real name too.
Complimenting me when I set atmosphere for our time to be intimate is lovely.
unbreakable loyalty and respect
Remember ladies do this only for men that deserve it, not just cause hes attractive does he automatically gets a pass
And dont be affraid to move on when you know hes not the man you need in your life.
I want RESPECT for my contribution, my values, how I take care of myself and my capabilities. Don't act like my life is second to yours. Know that I was a whole woman before I met you.
This was so very helpful, Matt. Thanks!
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Respect honesty faithfulness someone that will stand by you and support you and everything that you make choices in in life