Iyanla Vanzant On Changing Lives, Mending Her Relationship With Oprah + More

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @danielledefreitas2021
    @danielledefreitas2021 6 лет назад +509

    I love this woman. She is the type of woman you want as your grandma. Tell you the damn truth in love. Some people don't know how to do it and some don't know how to receive it.

    • @DanielleWashington1080
      @DanielleWashington1080 6 лет назад +6

      Danielle DeFreitas Absolutely! My auntie in my head.

    • @EmpathPOV
      @EmpathPOV 6 лет назад +3

      Danielle Washington I'm blessed with a mother in law like her. Tell it like it is and never chooses sides.

    • @karisay347
      @karisay347 6 лет назад +1

      Amen! That grandma or auntie that you take serious because you KNOW she has your back! 🙌🏾

    • @businessasusual4805
      @businessasusual4805 5 лет назад +1

      Danielle DeFreitas I love that you said some can’t receive it

  • @Kaithelightworker
    @Kaithelightworker 6 лет назад +2002

    “Rejection is God’s protection.” 🔥🔥🔥

  • @goldentouchhaircosmetics5994
    @goldentouchhaircosmetics5994 6 лет назад +1544

    Iyanla has helped me self-reflect and become a better person by just watching her help others. She’s amazing❤️✨

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 6 лет назад +17

      Andy B Likewise. I have done my work and found my healing; with the help of her show.

    • @ericnava5019
      @ericnava5019 6 лет назад +8

      Andy B same!!

    • @tai4short
      @tai4short 6 лет назад +17

      ME TOO... I've learned so much about myself & family dynamic. Her styles of teaching really resignated with my personal LIFE. I am TRULY a more understanding person because of her.

    • @accountabilityiskey
      @accountabilityiskey 6 лет назад +9

      I enjoyed seeing her outside of her work. I like her, she has a sense of humor with an inspiring and determined story to share. I must admit, when she first launched her show, I called myself accessing who she was solely based off of her delivery(antics) while coaching others. To be fair, I'm cautious when it comes to therapists (on tv), life coaches (on tv) and mediums (on tv). They seem so forced and too dramatic with their revelations. But I gladly stand corrected. After reading the few comments here and a pool of others that speak so highly of her and how she has transformed their lives, while echoing the exact same thing I believe I'll make time for Ms. Iyanla to fix my life.

    • @Vwoods27
      @Vwoods27 6 лет назад +3

      Andy B ME TOO! I pray for her!

  • @brittanysnow2683
    @brittanysnow2683 6 лет назад +508

    Iyanla is the perfect example of living your purpose.

  • @vanessahakeem1328
    @vanessahakeem1328 6 лет назад +876

    This is the interview that should have a million views...

    • @frcrbdareal9975
      @frcrbdareal9975 6 лет назад +13

      vanessa hakeem but you know...people rather talking about A.Banks/Cardi thing....

    • @branbranshenanigans1693
      @branbranshenanigans1693 6 лет назад +6

      They don’t know any better ...😔

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 6 лет назад +4

      Absoutely sis!!!

    • @Pistolwhipperz
      @Pistolwhipperz 5 лет назад

      Why?

    • @regalbeauty88
      @regalbeauty88 5 лет назад +3

      Powerful black woman talking. Alot of people don't want to hear or see this, but we here for it.

  • @imsooblessedyo
    @imsooblessedyo 6 лет назад +486

    Iyanla. A powerful black woman in our generation. She's very intelligent and very much aware. Nothing but respect for her as the work she does is not easy.

    • @kingplaya
      @kingplaya 6 лет назад +7

      Facts, but she should of spanked that girl who was stolen @ birth. Lil mama was past disrespectful...

    • @imsooblessedyo
      @imsooblessedyo 6 лет назад +4

      True. But she didn't have to when she started to act out Iyanla knew that her assignment was complete. It proved her theory; that she was broken and in denial, Iyanla knew what was going to happen the from the first encounter and when those untapped feelings surfaced Iyanla decided to intentionally leave that can of worms open for the young lady and her family to deal with.

    • @imsooblessedyo
      @imsooblessedyo 6 лет назад +5

      Nah the lady that kidnapped her and raised her should've been aborted. The little girl was broken and broken people are just broken, hurt and lost. She's innocent and caught between two idenitties, I would've probaly acted the same way.

    • @imsooblessedyo
      @imsooblessedyo 6 лет назад +2

      Totally agree.

    • @KinuGoddess777
      @KinuGoddess777 6 лет назад +3

      Jay Rob Yes indeed!! This phenomenal woman went against all odds (dysfunctional family, poor environment, hopelessness, etc.) and STEP outside her circumstances and became. Love it!!

  • @fredcollins7677
    @fredcollins7677 6 лет назад +518

    The way she speaks and her message makes you wanna listen to her 💯💯💯💯

    • @PettyLabelle
      @PettyLabelle 6 лет назад +3

      Fred the pothead right

    • @JackiesTeaTarot
      @JackiesTeaTarot 6 лет назад +4

      Yes, Makes you want to listen , understand and free yourself all at once !

    • @llw53one
      @llw53one 6 лет назад +5

      Fred the pothead I agree my grandmother is 89 years old and I LOVE talking to her and Iylana’s voice reminds me of that old auntie and her mature girlfriends voice when they would be in the living room and we were not allowed to be in the living room when grown folks were talking.

    • @PDUBBISTHEGREATEST
      @PDUBBISTHEGREATEST 6 лет назад +1

      Fred the pothead facts

    • @AyeshaGo
      @AyeshaGo 6 лет назад +3

      I felt cleansed by just listening

  • @TeaLeaf222
    @TeaLeaf222 6 лет назад +863

    Regardless of how people feel about the work she does...Im glad she's here, and Im glad she has made her life's work to truly try and help other people heal.
    I enjoy that she keeps it real about the dirt she's done in the past, and still makes you feel safe.
    Aunty looks cute rocking this Ankara fabric! :)

    • @kristinamartin7056
      @kristinamartin7056 6 лет назад +1

      EclecticFlavor. Amen!💖

    • @gblair7622
      @gblair7622 6 лет назад +1

      EclecticFlavor. How do they feel?

    • @TeaLeaf222
      @TeaLeaf222 6 лет назад +32

      +G Blair
      Many just dislike her. They dont like that she doesnt actually "fix" folx..but what they dont understand is...her role is simply to get people to see the issues within themselves...nothing can change or be done if people dont see the actual issue first.
      Ive seen people call her vile and really nasty names just because they dont like her show ...when all they gotta do is change the channel when it comes on.

    • @karisay347
      @karisay347 6 лет назад +1

      Yes so commendable!

    • @TeaLeaf222
      @TeaLeaf222 6 лет назад +2

      +Karisa y
      It really is!

  • @BlackkOnyxx
    @BlackkOnyxx 6 лет назад +300

    As an aspiring Social Worker, this woman is my idol, i want to write down everything she says... “i don’t take it on, i don’t wear it, and I’m not responsible for it. I listen with my heart and bring them back into alignment with who they really are.” ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @livlovsucceed3894
      @livlovsucceed3894 6 лет назад +2

      Yes. That's such a powerful lesson I'm implementing into my personal & professional life.

    • @nyeemaroberson7625
      @nyeemaroberson7625 5 лет назад +6

      I don’t think Ms. Iyanla would want you to look at her as an idol, but an inspiration! She does have classes for certification as an Spiritual Life Coach! Definitely check that out 🌻

    • @KingMyles22
      @KingMyles22 5 лет назад +1

      I am in the field and every meeting I go into it thinking the same thing maybe not so eloquently put. *Currently re-phrasing this thought process.

    • @theresasimpson8049
      @theresasimpson8049 4 года назад

      Just remember to never take anything personal and always see them as people first and their issue second and you can never go wrong:)

  • @afuaa276
    @afuaa276 6 лет назад +508

    Didn't know she was a criminal defense lawyer.. wow.. beautiful black woman. Never judge a book before reading it.

  • @Brownie8986
    @Brownie8986 6 лет назад +257

    *rejection is God's protection and that will give you redirection* ❤💖❤ YES!!! She *is* a teacher. I've heard her speak on a random evening downtown in Barnes & Noble a few years ago in union square and MAN I couldn't believe she was speaking about her life and testimony and lessons for *free*

    • @blaqdiva1282
      @blaqdiva1282 6 лет назад +2

      I WROTE THAT DOWN TOO

    • @HEAVYCHEVY409
      @HEAVYCHEVY409 6 лет назад +3

      yeah she was in their giving a sermon that line you said and God gives you breadcrumbs that leads you to the full slice OF BREAD!!! was nothing but the truth!

    • @Brownie8986
      @Brownie8986 6 лет назад

      jarvis thomas Yes there was. Their passion for knowledge is admirable and extraordinary indeed.

    • @lilchocolatetinkc6743
      @lilchocolatetinkc6743 6 лет назад

      blaqdiva1282 Wrote it down too lol, thought it was just me

  • @thelightseven
    @thelightseven 6 лет назад +448

    Because of Iyanla I started my journey on healing from my childhood. I remember the first time i picked up her book I was 13 years old, now in my 30's it applies even more.

    • @shoshannahupchurch8726
      @shoshannahupchurch8726 6 лет назад +4

      The Light7 omg me too!!! My exact experience!

    • @zeekali3727
      @zeekali3727 6 лет назад +12

      Which book of hers did you have? I’m interested in purchasing it NOW! Lol

    • @emramirez7846
      @emramirez7846 6 лет назад +2

      The Light7 which book?

    • @shoshannahupchurch8726
      @shoshannahupchurch8726 6 лет назад +3

      Isaiah Rivera for me it was in the meantime. But she has to have a book for pre teens and teens m. I think it was called don’t give it up

    • @viola7052
      @viola7052 6 лет назад +3

      I didn't know she wrote books, I need to read them!

  • @chrissyxtinabeauty3355
    @chrissyxtinabeauty3355 6 лет назад +285

    I wasn’t expecting this interview to be so pleasant! Wow... so relatable. I felt like she was my cool, smart Auntie who has lived life and is just dropping gems for a living now.

    • @stevenjames6766
      @stevenjames6766 6 лет назад

      ChrissyXtina Beauty ditto... well said Chrissy!

  • @josephsvennson5694
    @josephsvennson5694 6 лет назад +138

    She speaks in an easy to understand way. Straight to the point.

  • @ynazzra
    @ynazzra 6 лет назад +250

    "Rejection is God's protection and redirection,"
    I NEEDED to hear this today!

    • @girlinterrupted9792
      @girlinterrupted9792 6 лет назад +1

      ynazzra You and me both!😊

    • @maribrunnsteiner9621
      @maribrunnsteiner9621 4 года назад +1

      I believe this because God redirects me indeed!

    • @JasonGafar
      @JasonGafar 4 года назад +3

      My mom rejected me and I ended up being with my Aunty who is so, so, so much better as a person. Though it's incredibly painful to be rejected, neglected, abused, and abandoned by my own mother, in many respects I'm glad it allowed me to have my aunt as a mother. I would've never grown up to be the person I am had I not been in my aunt's care who is a very decent, kind, and ethical person, unlike my mom.

    • @jacquelinebrooks4491
      @jacquelinebrooks4491 4 года назад

      Jason Gafar Good for you for appreciating your aunt like this . God blessed you and always remember that . People go to foster homes and even get molested when their mother don’t want them .

  • @chrissyxtinabeauty3355
    @chrissyxtinabeauty3355 6 лет назад +690

    This comment is completely superficial but her hair is poppin’ . This is her look ❤️

    • @jessLaughBro
      @jessLaughBro 6 лет назад +17

      ChrissyXtina Beauty right! I was looking at it the whole interview lol I wish my hair would twist out like that

    • @lmoore3122
      @lmoore3122 6 лет назад +8

      Right. Chile I spent time googling who did her hair but I can't find out who

    • @nikiyasimpson8151
      @nikiyasimpson8151 6 лет назад +7

      I was about to post the exact same thing! What’s this called so I can ask my stylist

    • @brieforde8106
      @brieforde8106 6 лет назад +7

      I knooow. It looks so pretty.

    • @PrettyPreciousG
      @PrettyPreciousG 6 лет назад +5

      Yes! I LOVE it!

  • @thehoneydeev
    @thehoneydeev 6 лет назад +168

    “We’re not our problems, we choose to identify with it” Iyanla just fixed my life!😅

  • @anthonycharles8388
    @anthonycharles8388 6 лет назад +398

    Saw her name and immediately clicked

  • @silviaoino2648
    @silviaoino2648 6 лет назад +390

    Ooouuuuuuu she is wearing that Kitengee fabric. Our African traditional cloth. Beautiful!

    • @ocandro
      @ocandro 6 лет назад +4

      Silvia Oino thanks, I was really curious what it is, cause it's so beautiful!

    • @ellenk365
      @ellenk365 6 лет назад +2

      I’m curious about your surname “Oino” where is it from sis?

    • @ndufcat
      @ndufcat 6 лет назад +23

      Kitenge is what East Africans call it. Ankara, West Africans.

    • @ndufcat
      @ndufcat 6 лет назад +7

      When she mentioned Kitenge I looked at the name and although it is not spelled like anything from that area but pronouncing it sounded similar. I think her surname is actually Owino (o-wee-no) but she opted for Oino on social media. It is a Kenyan name from the Luo tribe. Her profile has a video on Kenya that made me think my assumption is probably correct.

    • @SelfMussing
      @SelfMussing 5 лет назад +2

      Yes she is definitely rocking our Ankara/Atampa/wax/ Pagne fabric outfit 👌( that’s is how we call it in West Africa). Proud to be African 😍

  • @dylleff
    @dylleff 6 лет назад +182

    You can tell this woman has lived life by how she gives advice for healing. The people who waste her time are crazy.

  • @pattysdaughter5639
    @pattysdaughter5639 6 лет назад +294

    Our book club started because of this woman in the late 90's, . This interview was needed on this platform!

  • @KingWelshy
    @KingWelshy 6 лет назад +3400

    God gives you breadcrumbs that leads you to the full slice OF BREAD!!!
    I came to class today Okuuuuurrr!

    • @dcdavycole
      @dcdavycole 6 лет назад +32

      Welshy King yaaaas I had to stop amen and clap to that 💪🏾💪🏾🙏🏽

    • @AyeshaGo
      @AyeshaGo 6 лет назад +23

      Welshy King right! when she said that, I felt it in my soul

    • @mrbyrd3000
      @mrbyrd3000 6 лет назад +17

      BARS!!!

    • @kaywya96
      @kaywya96 6 лет назад +4

      Davia's life Under construction she said bird crumbs

    • @HEAVYCHEVY409
      @HEAVYCHEVY409 6 лет назад +14

      Welshy that was tough, first thing i did was write it down and hung it up on my desk at work!

  • @DJDivaDee
    @DJDivaDee 6 лет назад +691

    Black women like her keep me going

    • @YasminYoruba
      @YasminYoruba 6 лет назад +3

      DJ Diva Dee 👊🏽💪🏽❤️

    • @brityardie6537
      @brityardie6537 6 лет назад +2

      You know that

    • @DJDivaDee
      @DJDivaDee 4 года назад

      @Bishop Oyedepo thanks, but I don’t believe in God anymore. Take care x

    • @f.k.a1010
      @f.k.a1010 3 года назад

      @prophet Dr kofi oduro You've literally copied and pasted this damn message on evert comment. Fvck off.

  • @Mauricemaurice94
    @Mauricemaurice94 6 лет назад +127

    She definitely helped me overcome depression and grief. Thank you, Iyanla.

  • @Rozelyn23
    @Rozelyn23 6 лет назад +153

    "I can't accommodate the system anymore..." Wow, I was just telling my mom that tonight. Enough is enough..

  • @fashionisticdiva
    @fashionisticdiva 6 лет назад +94

    I think Charlemagne has been very skeptical of Iyanla over the years but during this interview you can definitely see the respect he gained for her

    • @adamhoy6822
      @adamhoy6822 6 лет назад +7

      fashionisticdiva
      Same for me. But she from brooklyn (so am I) and alot of what she said was jewels. Especially, the part where she denounced the idea of letting another nigga problems bring her down too.

    • @fashionisticdiva
      @fashionisticdiva 6 лет назад +4

      adam hoy I’m from Brooklyn too! Lol I’ve loved her work for many years. I’m glad Charlemagne is starting to see how inspirational and wise she is

    • @jordancooke5980
      @jordancooke5980 6 лет назад

      Im from Brooklyn too!

  • @deetaylor
    @deetaylor 6 лет назад +293

    Chalamagne is the only one who could control this interview and keep it going. The other two have not continued to perfect their craft and it shows next to Charlemagne.

    • @10imhislady
      @10imhislady 6 лет назад +20

      lebron Taylor Charalamange always keep the ball rolling

    • @Bookib
      @Bookib 6 лет назад +27

      I noticed that in his Kanye interview. He’s defiantly a great interviewer

    • @deetaylor
      @deetaylor 6 лет назад +22

      Angel Brown of course, but he has really grown as a person and interviewer. It shows.

    • @PrettyPreciousG
      @PrettyPreciousG 6 лет назад +13

      I think he's rude the way he talks over and cuts off Angela Yee.
      I think Angela is a good journalist (idk if she studied or what). She asks good questions and she provides context when asking questions. You can tell she does her research for each guest.
      Envy could benefit from a simple Google search.
      CTG is OK, but rude and overpowers interviews.

    • @purposepassionandlovetv863
      @purposepassionandlovetv863 6 лет назад +19

      lebron Taylor Besides that, Envy and Angela are shallow. If it ain't goofy on the surface conversation they can't contribute. Charlemagne has the reputation of the trouble maker but he is also the most spiritually rooted.

  • @abramsonofsons
    @abramsonofsons 6 лет назад +92

    Her voice is so powerful man.She is so beautiful and inspirational.Thank yall for this interview

  • @BonitaaFuego
    @BonitaaFuego 6 лет назад +329

    Charlamagne: "Is it true you married the same man twice?"
    Iyanla: "Yes. I told you I've been crazy before." 😩😂😂😂😂 Lmfao

  • @stephenchristian3636
    @stephenchristian3636 6 лет назад +192

    Iyanla has helped me be a better man & I've done some soul searching. I'm a Sexual abuse/domestic violence survivor an man when I tell you her shows be right on point!!!

  • @KimBuhLee
    @KimBuhLee 6 лет назад +100

    I loved this interview. Rejection is Gods protection even when we fail to realize it. Their have been numerous instances in my life where I thought I wanted something so bad whether promotion at work, dating a guy, new material items and it just did not happen for it. I worked against God to fight and keep those things and I constantly got rejected. Now I look back at those situations and at the place I am now and I can’t help but thank God for allowing that rejection. It just makes so much sense. It’s like when you see the people at church get in the spirit I fully understand why they are just so thankful that God has saved them and place them in a wonderful place in life. And he’s constantly at work. So off topic but that quote really touched me this morning.

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 6 лет назад +4

      KimBuhLee One who hates rejection this gave me a new way to think of it.

    • @naturallysade6893
      @naturallysade6893 6 лет назад

      KimBuhLee Amen❤️

    • @IllMatic97
      @IllMatic97 6 лет назад

      Too much words

    • @edencrush2223
      @edencrush2223 6 лет назад +2

      I wish l knew this in my teens and being rejected from jobs....l will keep this

    • @Layde18
      @Layde18 6 лет назад +1

      I felt the same way. Even shed a few tears when she said it. She is full of gems!

  • @DEEPTHOUGHTSWITHMASTERMYKO
    @DEEPTHOUGHTSWITHMASTERMYKO 6 лет назад +326

    Everyone seeing this, Have a blessed day!!!

    • @ColourMEPinkk0
      @ColourMEPinkk0 6 лет назад +2

      DEEP THOUGHTS WITH MASTER MYKO you as well!!!

    • @PaintedHoundie
      @PaintedHoundie 6 лет назад +4

      Donr tell me what to do. Why don't YOU have a blessed day 😠

    • @luvnnitraII
      @luvnnitraII 6 лет назад +1

      DEEP THOUGHTS WITH MASTER MYKO you as well

    • @sweetlife8891
      @sweetlife8891 6 лет назад +2

      DEEP THOUGHTS WITH MASTER MYKO you as well ❤️

    • @korilori361
      @korilori361 6 лет назад +1

      You as well

  • @meekmeek8998
    @meekmeek8998 6 лет назад +72

    Her energy is so pure and beautiful!

    • @dancestar78
      @dancestar78 6 лет назад +3

      Kamika Tanner yess!!! It is! Your energy is beautiful to recognize hers!

    • @meekmeek8998
      @meekmeek8998 6 лет назад +1

      Thank you so much for that.

  • @KeyaRules
    @KeyaRules 6 лет назад +145

    We need more people like her. So refreshing.

  • @lucylou3475
    @lucylou3475 6 лет назад +120

    I have never watched an interview twice but I watched this one twice!! She's my auntie and don't even know it!! ❤

    • @Ayiralover
      @Ayiralover 6 лет назад +1

      Lucy Lou hell yeah 😂😂😂😂

    • @AnonymousinLouisiana
      @AnonymousinLouisiana 4 года назад

      If you haven't seen the interview with Bishop TDJakes, and you're a believer of course, then that's the one you should watch! It's not as "churchy" as you would think but I was crying half the video with the nuggets he was dropping...

  • @Onlybridgette
    @Onlybridgette 6 лет назад +348

    Shes my auntie but doesnt know it !☺❤

    • @harmoneeabraham9336
      @harmoneeabraham9336 6 лет назад +2

      Mine too. And she lives about 10 mins from me here in MD. I keep hoping I run into her one day.

    • @cham2611
      @cham2611 6 лет назад +2

      I said the same about my grandma

    • @socialbloggerfly8793
      @socialbloggerfly8793 6 лет назад

      hello cuz!!!!!

    • @musesofmaya150
      @musesofmaya150 6 лет назад

      Bridgette smith If she’s your auntie, that, means you’re my cousin. Hey Cous!!!! 🤣👋🏿

  • @GuyeBtv
    @GuyeBtv 6 лет назад +82

    That was just beautiful!!!!!!!! One of the most peaceful interviews I’ve ever watched ☺️ the energy was divine beloved 😂🙌🏿 bring her back again

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 6 лет назад +3

      Guye B TV I... know! I can listen to her all day. She’s so inspiring.

    • @GuyeBtv
      @GuyeBtv 6 лет назад +2

      Mom The Ebayer absolutely! Her voice is even peaceful. She needs a podcast or something. Iyanla fix my life isn’t enough 😂😂😂

  • @neverobey1477
    @neverobey1477 6 лет назад +895

    SALUTE EVERYBODY. THANK GOD FOR ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL DAY!

  • @j0mamathan
    @j0mamathan 6 лет назад +35

    she has such a high vibration. it emanates wherever she goes and it's beautiful

  • @janniebranch1857
    @janniebranch1857 6 лет назад +39

    I read her book "in the Valley" back in the 90's is changed my life! I have been following her for over 30 yrs. She drops nuggets and gems. We don't have to agree with everything or all her methods but overall she is dynamic

  • @-benjismoove3765
    @-benjismoove3765 6 лет назад +165

    21:00 when she talked about having an intimate relationship with God ... & not what she learned in the church. Bruh, that’s so real. I’ve Received more hate & have seen more hypocrisy in church than I have anywhere else. I’m a preachers kid & I went to church every time the doors opened. I love God, I pray daily but I do not agree with everything I seen in the church... heck, churches (not saying they’re bad, because there are a lot of good churches out there). I just learned to have my own relationship with God & learn to love like Jesus loved. I can go on but that hit home.

    • @juliemanso4589
      @juliemanso4589 6 лет назад +6

      - BenIsTooGreat I couldn’t agree with you more! I think Christianity is so fake and such hypocrisy but everyone is different! I know a lot of born again who have a very dark dark dark life !

    • @soleh8980
      @soleh8980 6 лет назад +2

      Agreed i love singing hymns i pray every day but church is not a place i visit unless it's for a special occasion

    • @livlovsucceed3894
      @livlovsucceed3894 6 лет назад +1

      Same here. I lost all faith in the church and in religion years ago but find myself closer to God than I've ever been. You're on the right path.

    • @stephenchristian3636
      @stephenchristian3636 6 лет назад

      Me an u both Ben I'm a Preachers Kid & I must admit some ppl in the church shouldn't judge anyone we all have our own cross to bear & a story.

    • @kpop3959
      @kpop3959 5 лет назад

      As a Muslim, it also resonated with me

  • @luvnnitraII
    @luvnnitraII 6 лет назад +106

    Got that clarification for MsYee! “My life is not broken!” Gathered their souls and got them together!!! Wise teacher. Praise Mama Vanzant!🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @kckrox6911
      @kckrox6911 6 лет назад +10

      luvnnitraII yessssss and she was still confused 😂😂😂

    • @dunteniafitts5959
      @dunteniafitts5959 6 лет назад +4

      🙌🏾

    • @jericalynn4000
      @jericalynn4000 6 лет назад +3

      KCK ROX crazy!!!! If you don’t understand what that means, you better worry about your own work. 🤣

    • @kenyafromcali
      @kenyafromcali 6 лет назад +1

      Yaya!!!

  • @AKDREEZY
    @AKDREEZY 6 лет назад +315

    Sometimes I Just wish Charlemagne was the only 1 doing the interview’s

    • @geniajohnson6428
      @geniajohnson6428 6 лет назад +14

      OG McFADDEN Ok,...He has such Knowledge/Wisdom...

    • @jacquettediggs4633
      @jacquettediggs4633 6 лет назад +30

      He does ask very good questions

    • @AKDREEZY
      @AKDREEZY 6 лет назад +33

      Genia Johnson Definitely He’s goofy at times but he actually is brilliant and smart

    • @AKDREEZY
      @AKDREEZY 6 лет назад +6

      Jacquette Diggs Indeed that guy is so wise

    • @DirishShaktidas
      @DirishShaktidas 6 лет назад +1

      Then he would have no one to bounce off of

  • @NicoleC007
    @NicoleC007 6 лет назад +131

    Come on Breakfast Club, she should’ve had a longer interview! I just love Iyanla!

    • @divineintervention8734
      @divineintervention8734 6 лет назад +8

      Nicole C. If it was someone ratchet then she would’ve been up there longer. Cardi B will be up there for a hour.

    • @BakedwithBaddie
      @BakedwithBaddie 6 лет назад +13

      Nicole C. I always think this but then again she could have had other priorities to take care of after who knows

    • @Sunshine-vn2rk
      @Sunshine-vn2rk 6 лет назад

      I agree

  • @thechynnad0ll
    @thechynnad0ll 6 лет назад +33

    This interview was just what I needed to hear, going through a low point in life in regards to figuring out my purpose. Her words truly motivated me to follow the signs God has been giving me!

  • @abramsonofsons
    @abramsonofsons 6 лет назад +149

    So powerful bro she gives me faith. Im trying to go to school raising two kids going to college it is hard but I will be successful

    • @abramsonofsons
      @abramsonofsons 6 лет назад

      Miss G'elle thank you queen

    • @SunniWrld
      @SunniWrld 6 лет назад +7

      Don’t you give up & keep the faith. You probably good now but it’s never too late to be great...😏

    • @abramsonofsons
      @abramsonofsons 6 лет назад

      Thank you

    • @zetch972
      @zetch972 6 лет назад +2

      God is able.

    • @youdontknowmyname8835
      @youdontknowmyname8835 6 лет назад +2

      You are successful!

  • @corneliuswhite5139
    @corneliuswhite5139 6 лет назад +138

    This interview brought Love to the comment section. 😊

  • @r.m.4260
    @r.m.4260 6 лет назад +157

    Oprah is the GOAT! To feel betrayed by Iyanla, invite her back for a public discussion, recognize her mindset at the time based on her upbringing, forgive and still give her your platform to prosper???? Unheard of!

    • @MrsPinkyThoughts
      @MrsPinkyThoughts 6 лет назад +3

      R. Mooring Real ppl are real.

    • @cierraragans
      @cierraragans 6 лет назад +10

      I was just thinking the same, Oprah is a living legend she puts Everybody on💯

    • @trinareese
      @trinareese 6 лет назад +1

      waiting for the conversation with Monique before I GOAT her.

    • @r.m.4260
      @r.m.4260 6 лет назад +4

      Let me get this straight....out of allll the conversations she's had with some of the most dignified figures in the world, you're basing her greatness off of the conversation that she might/might not have with...Monique? -_- lmao hahahahaa Monique probably has to have that conversation with tons of other people, not just oprah.

    • @donitaballard5928
      @donitaballard5928 6 лет назад +3

      I think that Oprah was a control freak. She saw the numbers that Iyanla was getting in ratings with her show, and now she was competition

  • @freddywayne
    @freddywayne 6 лет назад +40

    She dropped a bunch of gems. I now have respect for this woman. Great interview.

  • @ruenhonx
    @ruenhonx 6 лет назад +55

    I enjoyed this interview. Iyanla is real AF. I like that

  • @thomasdr08
    @thomasdr08 6 лет назад +54

    I have elders, I have a strong village, but my God my life has gotten so much better from the first moment I ever heard this Queen’s voice.
    To have Her voice as council is a privilege.

  • @rachealcollins3709
    @rachealcollins3709 6 лет назад +246

    When cthagod says “ mmmh” somebody dropping jewels

  • @kiam7904
    @kiam7904 6 лет назад +607

    NOT ON MY WATCH!!

  • @TempeSoldier123
    @TempeSoldier123 6 лет назад +26

    She has a gift of helping people. May Allah continue bless her journey.

  • @smoomook
    @smoomook 6 лет назад +14

    I love Ms. Vanzant and had since she came on the scene. She has always been brutally honest, a healer and can take you everywhere and anywhere in your spirit. I wish I was on her show. She made me think I could be a life coach but the world had other plans.

  • @charlesthon2262
    @charlesthon2262 6 лет назад +24

    I’m dealing with depression I needed this everybody have a blessed day and do what you love.

    • @msmessenjah9098
      @msmessenjah9098 6 лет назад +1

      charles thon
      Iyanla: where does Jesus fit in
      Jesus : John 14:6 King James Version (KJV)
      6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.
      This helped me
      Jesus: Matthew 11:28-30 King James Version (KJV)
      28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
      1 Peter 5:7 King James Version (KJV)
      7 Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.

    • @angelscry1527
      @angelscry1527 6 лет назад +3

      charles thon I pray comfort finds your heart, then your thoughts,so I'm strrrrrreching blessings to you.

    • @poohbabby
      @poohbabby 6 лет назад +1

      🙏🌹

  • @VonnieVonVonX2
    @VonnieVonVonX2 6 лет назад +252

    Her wisdom is unmatched

    • @Kipevolving
      @Kipevolving 6 лет назад +2

      SongwriterJT It is it is 😍😍😍😍

    • @EmpathPOV
      @EmpathPOV 6 лет назад +7

      That's what happens when your spiritual. You elevate your consciousness and this 3D reality isn't your reality anymore. You see life in a whole new way!

    • @ernestinemorrison2799
      @ernestinemorrison2799 6 лет назад

      Saw Denzel, who was originally called Dinzil like his father, in Iceman Cometh. The role he played was not originally done for a Black man and Denzel handled his business and the racist remarks like the man of excellence he is. Kudos to him.

    • @holyfuck444
      @holyfuck444 6 лет назад

      Awakening Soul I like the way you worded that.

  • @katlap3101
    @katlap3101 6 лет назад +32

    Love her, she got me through a lot 20 yrs ago, now 20 yrs later I feel her wisdom more, she just got positive energy

  • @nanayaa-ansah
    @nanayaa-ansah 6 лет назад +138

    You’re supposed to know how to pronounce the name beforeeeeee the guest arrives

    • @CHayes-xr4yi
      @CHayes-xr4yi 4 года назад +15

      Lazy journalism personified. Its embarrassing

    • @connie7192
      @connie7192 4 года назад

      Some names are just difficult hun. Don’t tell me you never found a name difficult to pronounce. It’s all good.

    • @JP-sg1xb
      @JP-sg1xb 4 года назад +3

      It's the breakfast club.

    • @S.P.E.A.R.
      @S.P.E.A.R. 4 года назад +2

      That was very unprofessional...If it was a European I believe they would have tried harder.

    • @Noclevername54
      @Noclevername54 3 года назад

      Well I'm glad they did mispronounce it cause now I'm educated on how to say her name

  • @itisfiya5729
    @itisfiya5729 6 лет назад +75

    She is such an intelligent and articulate woman!

    • @S.P.E.A.R.
      @S.P.E.A.R. 4 года назад +2

      Woy....Panama canal zone!

    • @S.P.E.A.R.
      @S.P.E.A.R. 4 года назад

      @Bishop Oyedepo May the Ahayah through Yashaya bless you.

  • @douglasjones4650
    @douglasjones4650 6 лет назад +29

    She has a hearty genuine laugh. You can see the sweet little girl she must have been as a child.

  • @jeff2theleft628
    @jeff2theleft628 6 лет назад +376

    I have a secret to tell everyone!!! GOD IS GREAT ALL THE TIME AND ALL THE TIME GOD IS GREAT!!!!

    • @msmessenjah9098
      @msmessenjah9098 6 лет назад +10

      Jeff2theLeft Amen and not the god that Iyanla serves, because Jesus is real even though she doesn’t know where Jesus fits in her life. Pray for this broken woman that claims not to be broken

    • @inthemixwithleahbpodcast
      @inthemixwithleahbpodcast 6 лет назад +2

      Jeff2theLeft YES HE IS!!!! 🙏🏾

    • @greenlight8819
      @greenlight8819 6 лет назад +1

      No secret!!

    • @Mdap93
      @Mdap93 6 лет назад

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @mshill2406
      @mshill2406 6 лет назад +2

      Ms Messenjah speak for yourself... Don't project your judgements on her. She helped me heal from depression. This kind of power only comes from God.

  • @kung-fukennyfamily
    @kung-fukennyfamily 6 лет назад +74

    *Iyanla Vanzant* is like everyone's cool Aunt😁.

  • @kevinmurphy4295
    @kevinmurphy4295 6 лет назад +12

    This has got to be the most soothing, pleasant, soulful interview the Breakfast Club has ever done. Thank you!

  • @karisay347
    @karisay347 6 лет назад +14

    She’s absolutely AMAZING and so peaceful! I just love her aura! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @maescreativespace444
    @maescreativespace444 6 лет назад +57

    When she said“ I don’t KNOW THIS BROOKLYN “ I FELT THAT 😭😭😭 real NYC feel this

    • @QaeQae4
      @QaeQae4 6 лет назад +2

      mae Wilson DEADASSSS ..

    • @ohd00bley
      @ohd00bley 6 лет назад +2

      ...unfortunately it has spread to all "urban" cities. I live on the other coast (SF Bay Area) and like NY metro area it looks like a shopping mall, everything's the same; we've been homogenized.

    • @gmasuga3788
      @gmasuga3788 6 лет назад

      Gentrification

  • @dondacurator
    @dondacurator 6 лет назад +121

    I can feel the spirit of the Great Maya Angelou through this Queen

    • @dunteniafitts5959
      @dunteniafitts5959 6 лет назад +5

      MFUNDO MPINGA it’s just a public view and of what happens when black women get in tune with their spirit ☺️

  • @TTG1973
    @TTG1973 6 лет назад +53

    I like the fact that she herself is an open book. She not saying she’s perfect, she just can relate because she came from a dark place too and overcame.

    • @Keesha_Hardy
      @Keesha_Hardy 6 лет назад

      TTG1973 Exactly, which is why I don't understand when people claim that she pretends to be perfect.
      It's like, she has _always_ talked about her flaws and the trials she experienced.

  • @kae4xoxoxo
    @kae4xoxoxo 6 лет назад +10

    One of the best breakfast club interviews! I love how all three of them are so interested in her life! Great interview! I love this lady!

  • @QueenP901.
    @QueenP901. 6 лет назад +117

    Y'all don't know how hard I was hoping this interview would happen. Glad she came on the show.

    • @QueenP901.
      @QueenP901. 6 лет назад +4

      Mike Carter explain? All I ever hear her do is give good loving advice what people choose to do with the advice she gives is up to them. What's fraudulent about her?

    • @MegaDede1212
      @MegaDede1212 6 лет назад +1

      Mike Carter she gives you SOME tools to use within a 48 hour period & you think that all of a sudden makes a fucked up mf'er do right?! 🤦‍♀️

    • @SimplyMAReeAHnuh
      @SimplyMAReeAHnuh 6 лет назад +4

      Me too Star! She has helped me fix so many demons in my life.

    •  6 лет назад

      Dridri1212 she can't give nobody anything because she is a fraudulent devil

    • @QueenP901.
      @QueenP901. 6 лет назад

      Three& Done same here. She's the truth!

  • @Marie-qt1fb
    @Marie-qt1fb 6 лет назад +188

    Shes dope Af she needs to talk to Kanye especially about the trauma of losing her

    • @mp4455
      @mp4455 6 лет назад +8

      She REALLY need to fix kanye sheesh lol

    • @lillulu79
      @lillulu79 6 лет назад +2

      Amen.

    • @kaylamonroe6652
      @kaylamonroe6652 6 лет назад +3

      Let's tell him to go to her on Twitter. I'm concerned for my brother.

    • @pocahontas4583
      @pocahontas4583 6 лет назад +7

      That would be really interesting

    • @kimmyd6832
      @kimmyd6832 5 лет назад +4

      About the trauma of losing his mom? Yes you are right.

  • @judithjackson1086
    @judithjackson1086 6 лет назад +180

    She needs to talk to Chris Brown...like for real for real...do it for the culture we need our young legend

    • @shonda79able
      @shonda79able 6 лет назад +18

      Judith Jackson he's not ready

    • @genesiskravitz8621
      @genesiskravitz8621 6 лет назад +6

      I would love to see that.

    • @melissajohnson1052
      @melissajohnson1052 6 лет назад +21

      He does, he's so broken but he's not ready. He would curse auntie Iyanla out 5 ways to Sunday

    • @davem2761
      @davem2761 6 лет назад

      He doesn´t represent the Black Culture, so hell no.

    • @dezerismith7529
      @dezerismith7529 6 лет назад

      He'd chew her head off, call her a bunch of bitchez and throw shit around.

  • @SuaveH1990
    @SuaveH1990 6 лет назад +37

    ‘We are not our problem’ 👏🏼

  • @Tobias_2024
    @Tobias_2024 6 лет назад +13

    "All you need is DESIRE, ABILITY & FAITH"

  • @kung-fukennyfamily
    @kung-fukennyfamily 6 лет назад +13

    *Iyanla* is the kind of people when the anxiety comes in just listen to her and it's just soothe ur soul makes you happy and put you in a good mood💛 , Love this lovely , insightful Woman.

  • @emeraldkaysgarden
    @emeraldkaysgarden 6 лет назад +54

    A lot of Gems and jewels dropped in this interview. Thank you Queen Iyanla.

  • @mjallen4031
    @mjallen4031 6 лет назад +330

    Great interview!!! Thank You BFC

    • @wangee6880
      @wangee6880 6 лет назад +2

      MJ Allen hello sweetheart u on ig

    • @janepatton8100
      @janepatton8100 6 лет назад +1

      MJ Allen yeah, it was a good interview. I agree that the worth and dignity of a soul is measured by what it delights in!
      That's why I love the Gospel, because it's the good news that sinners can delight in a Holy God. It's the good news that all of our deepest desires are satisfied in the ONE who sent His Son to bring us to Him.
      God is so valuable and so satisfying that the most loving thing he could do for us is to make Himself gloriously indispensable.
      Therefore, God's commitment to be glorified and our goal to be satisfied are not at odds but come to simultaneous consumation in the worship of His Son... who took upon Himself the wrath that God had towards us in our sinful disregard of Him.
      Jesus didn't die to turn the world into a paradise, he died so that we could stop seeking paradise in the world...
      Temporal things such as beauty, popularity, money, sex, racial identity, gender reassignment... can never truly satisfy. BECAUSE WE WERE MADE FOR SO MUCH MORE!
      We were made to gaze intently into the Eternal Beauty of a majestic King, Father, and God... meet Jesus the Christ.
      Life is hard, God is good, Glory is coming
      God Bless!

    • @tmoney0212
      @tmoney0212 6 лет назад

      MJ Allen damn u badder than a batch of bad apples ! Prolly sweeter than a bucket of candy canes!

  • @KyandraAmore
    @KyandraAmore 6 лет назад +19

    First breakfast club interview I watched & listen to for the full segment 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I actually wish it was long as some of the others!

  • @DayeLaviWorld
    @DayeLaviWorld 5 лет назад +4

    I love listening to Iyanla! She said she's a teacher, but she's also a healer.

  • @mslee7349
    @mslee7349 6 лет назад +79

    Oh my word!!!! Thank you BC for hosting our Ms Vanzant💛👑🇿🇦

  • @SafiyaLuckie
    @SafiyaLuckie 6 лет назад +236

    We need an episode of Iyanla fix my life with Kanye

    • @selenarichardson4964
      @selenarichardson4964 6 лет назад +19

      Safiya Luckie that episode needs to be at least 10 parts

    • @Infintekweyol
      @Infintekweyol 6 лет назад

      Safiya Luckie lol I see you girl
      Wa gwannnnnnnnn star !!

    • @fionayoba1516
      @fionayoba1516 6 лет назад +10

      Kris will never allow that, she holding her cup of tea tight asf

    • @skilindsavoy5123
      @skilindsavoy5123 6 лет назад

      NOW!!

    • @lianagerhardt
      @lianagerhardt 6 лет назад

      Safiya Luckie por México 🇲🇽 no

  • @josholiver4815
    @josholiver4815 6 лет назад +76

    Am I the only one who sees Gladys Knight ?

    • @stlyaace8722
      @stlyaace8722 6 лет назад +7

      josh oliver i also see denzel Washington's wife

    • @tereamusic
      @tereamusic 6 лет назад

      I see it!

    • @zeekali3727
      @zeekali3727 6 лет назад +1

      Wow! I say that every time I see her

  • @corrita23
    @corrita23 6 лет назад +17

    I adore this woman and her realness. Loved this interview just wish it were longer! And how in the world did I miss her being on tour?? UGH!!

  • @Jai_BestLife
    @Jai_BestLife 6 лет назад +28

    "Giving you excellence while you're in my presence." SPEAK, queen! SPEAK! 👑👑👑👑

  • @christophermichael5764
    @christophermichael5764 6 лет назад +34

    Iyanla is so wise! Scott Extra Soft really is the greatest!

  • @ellissmith23
    @ellissmith23 6 лет назад +538

    She needs Kanye on her show

    • @theafromath
      @theafromath 6 лет назад +12

      Thats a good idea 🤔

    • @vtara5394
      @vtara5394 6 лет назад +4

      Yes please get Kanye on her show !!!

    • @RobynB200
      @RobynB200 6 лет назад +8

      E 23 I was thinking the same thing but he has to come to her I don’t know if he would be able to do that

    • @LDN_KMT
      @LDN_KMT 6 лет назад +31

      kanye gonna be like '' how iyanla how!!! you ain't got the answer!!!''

    • @PUNSHDRUNKBOXING
      @PUNSHDRUNKBOXING 6 лет назад +2

      E 23 she need help her self her methods are horrible

  • @misterjones3651
    @misterjones3651 6 лет назад +81

    Mannnn she is a beautiful spirit...

  • @shellymoo2606
    @shellymoo2606 6 лет назад +22

    I like Iyanla...always have. She is not for everybody & that is okay. She is not a perfect human being & has never portrayed herself that way. And I'm sure she has to work on her personal struggles like everyone else.

  • @karma92sims14
    @karma92sims14 6 лет назад +108

    Yes that African an Cherokee blood is something dangerous that blood runs deep an our ancestors are our teachers

    • @sherryjellison
      @sherryjellison 5 лет назад

      So proud! Yes, my great grandmother was full Cherokee and very wize.

  • @nyeb3242
    @nyeb3242 6 лет назад +53

    We are not our problems...food for thought 💭

  • @katlap3101
    @katlap3101 6 лет назад +12

    Love her, used to read her books 20 yrs ago, she got me through a lot of stuff, I’ve been through a lot now and now I appreciate her more I feel
    Like now I am ready to hear her more, always felt her positive energy

  • @nextphazeproductions8825
    @nextphazeproductions8825 6 лет назад +68

    Envy was practicing her name in his head the during the whole interview 😂😂😂😂

  • @CapcitysownSDOT
    @CapcitysownSDOT 6 лет назад +45

    Shes dope..I would love a conversation with her.

  • @Lotusblessings816
    @Lotusblessings816 5 лет назад +3

    She is so beautiful and FULL I admire this woman and her perseverance but not only that, you can witness her healing through her words. Very self assured and centered.

  • @cccckxcckeo
    @cccckxcckeo 6 лет назад +81

    Iyanla, Kanye needs you. Please pay that man a visit

  • @MarvelousPlayer1
    @MarvelousPlayer1 6 лет назад +129

    Am I the only man here who thinks she’s an attractive older woman?

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 6 лет назад +20

      The Ricky Balan SHOW I’m not a man but she’s very beautiful.... inside out!

    • @MarvelousPlayer1
      @MarvelousPlayer1 6 лет назад +1

      Mom The Ebayer your channel is dope I see .. maybe u can give me some pointers on how to grow ...

    • @fourwalls6049
      @fourwalls6049 6 лет назад +3

      The Ricky Balan SHOW you just like that long throat

    • @MarvelousPlayer1
      @MarvelousPlayer1 6 лет назад

      Four Walls 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @yagirlllwavy
      @yagirlllwavy 6 лет назад

      The Ricky Balan SHOW you’re sick

  • @DWORLD-ve9bs
    @DWORLD-ve9bs 6 лет назад +18

    Is it me or does wisdom ever get old? Wisdom can come from out of the mouth of babes. Bless Iyanla 🙏😱 I am a man and I have read these books you authored: “Acts of Faith;” “In the Meantime;” “Yesterday I Cried;” and then I bought’ “One Day My Soul Just Opened Up.”
    I wondered what was healing my ex-wife and why I wasn’t healing. I thought I would discover the secrets to my rejuvenation. In stead what i discovered was a new reverence for women (not that my old respect was off),; the insight into life from the female perspective and more importantly: the errors we make in relationships of all sorts.
    Ironically, I never healed romantically, but I have the right spirit to know “my stuff.” It’s about awareness and taking responsibility for our stuff to move forward.
    Thank you for your wisdom! Thank you for your translations of humanity for laymen. Thank you for recognizing that we all have stuff and when we own and understand it, the healing can begin. Bless you Goddess! 😃😱🖤😍✅

  • @livlovsucceed3894
    @livlovsucceed3894 6 лет назад +30

    Iyanla.
    Pronounced:
    E-YUN-LAH.
    Y'all don't be too hard on Envy. He sincerely tried.

  • @luxelindz3881
    @luxelindz3881 5 лет назад +1

    Miss Vanzant is revolutionary and has contributed to my spiritual growth so so much. Thank you for bringing her.

  • @Luxey__X
    @Luxey__X 6 лет назад +46

    Iyanla has helped me in ways like no other .... ♥️♥️♥️

    • @dandrijackson1031
      @dandrijackson1031 6 лет назад

      MzKarma D like what

    • @MomTheEbayer101
      @MomTheEbayer101 6 лет назад +3

      MzKarma D Yes!

    • @Luxey__X
      @Luxey__X 6 лет назад +2

      Dandri Jackson really in several ways .. you may think you have an issue with “people” but Iyanla will take you back and make you realize your issue isn’t with people ... it’s with a specific person who did this to you or (for you) rather, back when you was five years old.... the moment you understand that your relationship with ppl from then on out would be much better! ( with proper understanding & forgiveness) Just 1 way & and example...

    • @robertstanley9633
      @robertstanley9633 6 лет назад +1

      Same! Keep up the good fight sis! 🙌🏽💕

    • @Luxey__X
      @Luxey__X 6 лет назад

      robert stanley you too xoxo