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I learned I a lot of words from you I couldn't even speak English but you made me to speak, understand and write I always appreciate Mam thank you so much to
Hi Jennifer. Just to say that after watching your video made me really inspired. I just want to say that I'm a 16 year old boy who has never sweared outloud!
I think it’s quite common and even natural to express our anger and frustration with strong words. However, my personal feeling is that profanity doesn’t need to be used in every single sentence. Some people overuse swear words. Wishing you all the best!
Ha ha. Taking it to "the next level" could have different implications. I certainly don't aspire to teach fluency in profanity. Glad you liked the message here, Mollie.
This topic has been covered by others, but I wanted to contribute my own lesson and my own thoughts on this matter. Thanks for letting me share the video.
I was in middle school. I used to say bad words all the time. I was in sixth grade. I swear bad words when I was outside at recess. Swearing bad words in front of my friends.
If the people around you swear a lot, then swearing seems normal. If you're in a circle where it's not done much, you'll soon adjust and realize swearing isn't necessary or appropriate in that circle. A lot depends on who you socialize with.
Thank you Jennifer for another usefully lesson. I am guilty of swearing ,🙄..it is hard to stay calm when some crap stuff is going around.. from now on I will try using your substitutes
So true. When the world is spinning around us quite fast and so-called crappy things appear on our path (which was perfectly clear just yesterday!), it's not easy to remain calm. Our first reaction might be to vent our frustration through words. I didn't mention that sometimes I just make up a bunch of words or sounds to release that tension. Then I hear what I sound like and it may be silly enough to make me laugh. :) I wish you a calm, peaceful day tomorrow!
Hi Jennifer! Do you know when was the last time I CUSSED SOMEONE OUT? Yesterday. I cussed my relatives out. They took my mother on a trip to the beach in new year's day. What happened? All of them went back home testing positive for Covid. My mother has been very sick, though she received the two doses of the vaccine. And yesterday she was admitted to hospital. Now she's recovering at home. This pandemic is very disturbing and the F-word is something sweet to describe what this desease has really been causing to our lives. Thank you for the class!
So sorry to hear about your mother and other relatives. I'm glad to hear she's already home. Yes, in such cases we can certainly vent our frustration with strong words. It's justified. Please take care. I hope you stay healthy, Thiago. I hope your mother can get a booster shot, though she'll have some natural immunity for a while. (Lesson to come on current COVID vocabulary.)
Sometime swear words can be useful. In fews days before, I wrote a mail to my Internet service provider with swear words because I was tired with their pathetic Internet service. The next day they came to my home fixed my slow, random disconnection Internet issues.
This video has me thinking about a certain website where we write movie reviews. In that website anything that comes close to a naughty word gets blanked out. ( I threw a **** for my dog to chase.. I require a **** to hold this cabinet together). The words that were blanked would have been blanked out on that website, despite being totally innocent - ball and screw. It was a bit annoying as it made us look like we were writing rude words and we weren't. A foot note: Abbreviations are commonly used for naughty phrases.
If a channel needs to sensor, I like the silence better than dubbing. It's so funny to hear an tough, angry character say, "Oh shoot!" in another voice. LOL
@@Englishwithjennifer I know what you mean. We couldn't imagine a gangster saying this to another gangster: 'Kindly go away, you annoying person!" In the UK, the airways stay family friendly until 9 pm and then anything goes. On the Internet there is no watershed time, so we just have to watch with caution. The particular website, you know the one I mean. should improve their word recognition program, though. We can't even say 'lesbian' on there. That's a bit crazy :>)
Hi. That's an interesting perspective. I think some people are very colorful in their use of profanity, and profuse swearing can demonstrate a certain flair in terms of creative expression. However, there are multiple intelligences. Knowing how to modify one's language depending on the situation and the audience demonstrates social awareness and the ability to empathize. If a person is limited to one communication style and a certain vocabulary set, the individual is not exploring the full range of the language. Thanks for commenting!
13:49 - Wow, I was never allowed to use most these terms growing up. I've just settled on saying "Great!" my whole life. Maybe the occasional, "Oh man!" I'll use terms like "stupid" or "junk" in more serious occasions, like a Pixar movie skipping theaters or something, because I'm done with this stupid skipping Pixar movies from theaters junk.
Many people find alternatives for everyday situations. For example, I wouldn't drop an f-bomb in a grocery store. If I dropped something, I might say, "Crap!" or "Oh geez!" We choose words that suit our personality. Our word choice also paints a picture of how others see us. Thanks for watching my video.
Do you know about the f - finger ? Is the middle finger . You can DROP A F - BOMB with it. How to drop a f - bomb with the middle finger : it looks like pointing but with the middle finger
How cool teacher you are driving 🥰😎 ...long time no see 😣 please come back to hallo teacher I will subcribe you truly and 2 months past a long time ago 🥺
Swearing is so unecessary and undignified. You can be far more brutal and cutting by utilizing eloquence more to get your point across in heated exchanges and even make people respect you more. The moment you drop the f word you become another a-hole.
Yes, the swear words often tumble out in surprise, anger, or pain. However, if you're going down the path of complaining or criticizing, there are eloquent alternatives. In any case, it's human to feel the desire to express yourself even at the worst moments. I'd like to think we're all capable of stringing together our thoughts without profanity.
@@Englishwithjennifer I totally agree with you. You can really tie people up with eloquence! It's far more powerful than profanity and commands authority even if they don't understand I find they will yield to you out of respect!! I often find it's the sound of words and their delivery that gets noticed. I love words and lyrics especially can be so powerful. Sometimes I don't understand what a song is about but the way the words are sung can really cut you deep. It's the science of semantics! Long live words. Long live eloquence!!
If you use cunning COMBINED with the swear words, you can actually win most arguments and be quite brutal. If you’re just using swear words without thinking very much, someone with a more advanced vocabulary could most likely outsmart you in a argument or some other sort of stressful situation.
The verb is associated with condemnation. It's a strong form of criticism. www.britannica.com/dictionary/damn In general, we usually teach children that four-letter words are bad and shouldn't be said in polite company. "Damn" is in that group.
@@Englishwithjennifer Thanks a lot. Interestingly, most of the videos are about how TO curse. And I feel I need just the opposite now. They are just too strong for my normal speech. Wasn't this way when I was a beginner
I understand that. Strong words aren't always needed. If I swear, it's usually when I'm driving. Ha ha. Words come out because of anger or fear. It doesn't always happen, but it can. In most situations, I don't curse. There are plenty of other ways to express our frustration, and there are healthier ways to deal with negative feelings. Swearing openly can escalate a situation because other people can feed off of our anger or our negativity can impact them. It can be toxic. I also think when people swear in nearly every sentence, they simply lack good vocabulary.
America is a strange country with your F-word, N-word, S-word, you almost gained an alfabet from it. I live in the Netherlands and we don't care about swear words. If you want to say it, you say it. The reason for this is quiet simple. hidden swear words are still swear words. When you say fudge or chips we still know what it means and the meaning weights heavier then the word. So when you talk about Gosh, God knows you ment him. So it is exactly the same and religious people are still angry about it.
Yes, we have our odd ways, but that's what makes different cultures interesting -- the lack of sameness and the opportunity to explore those differences. Often we use those censored versions in the presence of children. A lot depends on the individual and the family environment. What happens in one American household may not happen in another. Thanks for watching the video and sharing your thoughts. Regards!
Thanks Jennifer, I am really impressed by your amazing method of teaching English language and I have been following your videos. But I always thought that swearing is a huge part of English language which is always missed in English language classes and hypocrisy is the principle of british and European American culture. It was a shock for me when I learned a little English and visited England and USA because I was shocked what I learned from my English teachers some people made fun of my English because I learned and used only polite language. I remember my teacher had told me that the word "get" and "take" are the most common words in English but I found the opposite. The words "F" and "S" are the most common words in English that common people use them on daily basis. Thanks for being honest. I think in learning English language the swearing part should be an essential part of English language.
You're welcome. It's a talk that we have to have and be open about. I think sensitivity is key. There's a time and place where swearing is acceptable, but even then, you have to know how far you can push it. Some work cultures allow for SH-, F-, Hell, and the usual swear words. When I taught in schools, we never swore, even in the teachers' room. It just wasn't part of our work environment. But I know people in other offices and workplaces swear quite often. Still others never do. It also depends on the person. Believe it or not, I can get through a day, a week, even a month without swearing. It's a matter of habit. I mostly rely on the alternatives like "dang" and "freaking" and comments like, "What is your problem?" ... that last one is another thing I might say to another driver! LOL I really do think it's better to err on the side of being too polite than being too coarse.
We talk a little about our likes and dislikes as well as what we do in our free time in the Basic English videos. www.englishwithjennifer.com/students/yt-videos/
Continue to read. You can also write very short summaries in a Word doc. With the spell check on, your mistakes will be highlighted or auto-corrected. Take note of those words. Learn patterns. You may like www.spellingcity.com/phonics.html
Can you use either Google translate or guess from the image I showed? Fudge is a sweet (and yummy!) soft, and usually somewhat chewy treat. It's often has a chocolate taste. Some put nuts in it. I'm not sure how to translate it in any language. ;)
I loved the video! Ok, ok I confess I swear in English sometimes, but I prefer being sarcastic because I think it is a smarter alternative for cussing.
Ha ha. You sound like me. Swearing happens sometimes, not the hard core nasty stuff, but the SH- word tumbles out when another car almost hits me or if I drop a glass dish on the floor. I can be very sarcastic when I'm frustrated. LOL
Yes, that's true, but ideally we can maintain a degree of self-control and modify our language in the presence of those we should protect and/or respect.
I don't like hearing it either, even when it's not said in anger and just part of neutral conversation. But you'll hear it in different circles. I have to remind my daughter that overusing even a milder word like "freaking" can color your speech in a negative way. Like I said, English is a rich language. There are definitely alternatives to strong curses.
@@suprafluid3661 Hi. You ask a good question, and I think there could be others with similar doubts, so I'll offer some ideas to consider. What is natural and appropriate can change from context to context. In some work environments, the occasional use of F--- is fine. A good number of coworkers speak in a very relaxed manner and swearing is a part of their interaction. A school teacher at an elementary school, however, would likely get suspended for that language in the classroom. A young lady wouldn't likely want to hear a sales rep at a bridal boutique talk about a beautiful wedding gown with a string of curse words, even if those words were said as part of a compliment. A young man wouldn't make a great impression on his future in-laws by cursing during his first visit. In short, if you stay in the same social circle, you can rely on one speech style the whole time. But most people find themselves moving in and out of circles and contexts. You need to have the sensitivity to adjust your behavior, and that includes language. How you speak casually to your best friend isn't how you'd address a judge in a court of law or a police officer after s/he pulls you over for speeding. It's not so much that swearing is bad, but it can be inappropriate for certain situations. Just like we clean up and look nice for a date, a job interview, a wedding, or a funeral, we also "clean up" our language a bit to show respect for the situation where additional care is needed.
Wow, this is a great lesson! It's a whole science of swearing :D I knew about freaking, bud didn't know about fudge - isn't is kind of childish? My online dictionary doesn't even know about this substitution for the f-word.
Ha ha. Yes, "fudge" would sound silly, for example, coming from a big tough guy in an action movie. "Fudge!" is something I say to avoid swearing harshly in front of my kids. It's not really childish, but rather appropriate in front of small children. By the way, this is a classic scene from a well-known Christmas movie. Maybe you've seen it. ruclips.net/video/UwvEBhTYV5c/видео.html
I should say that I used to use the f-word a lot, but today I don't. Now I should learn not to use the sh-word it's like a addiction. Interestingly in my native language I don't use bad words. Thanks for this lesson. God bless you and your family!
Hi Wesley. Yeah, it's all about cultivating good habits. It's not awful to occasionally use the sh-word or even the f-word, in my opinion. But if someone is using these words in every sentence, it just turns the conversation sour for me. The words are supposed to have an impact, so if you don't overuse them, then they'll actually be more effective. ;) Take care.
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That would be another kind of channel. That reminds me that I need to get back to my yoga practice. I could use breathing exercises to stay grounded. :)
Simor is going through some major updates as I understand, so things are in transition. At this very moment, I can't access my classrooms. I hope that will change by tomorrow morning! But I'm looking forward to discovering the surprise that awaits me. :)
@@Englishwithjennifer I officially announce that I am back again on Simor. You won't get rid of me so easily. 😂 I just sent them a letter yesterday and I got a message from them 3 hours ago and I was in. All I hope is that I can get access to my Facebook account again as I did with Simor.
I'm not on Simor any more because there are now a bunch of adverts. It's a pity for your good work but I can follow you elsewhere, that's what matters.
Hmm. Well, I don't think profanity has a place in formal situations (wedding, funeral, etc.) out of respect. I also think most adults know it's not appropriate to swear in front of young children. To drop an f-bomb around a baby isn't something most would approve of. Harsh language contrasts with their sweet innocence. Certain people are expected to maintain a level of dignity befitting their position, like the queen of England or any world leader. While the rest of us aren't royalty or in a political office, we can still tap into the richness of the English language rather than lace our sentences with F-this and F-that. Of course, a stressful situation brings out colorful language in almost all of us, but I generally recommend that my viewers build their vocabulary and avoid language that could be offensive. Most are learning English for academic or professional purposes. Thanks for commenting!
I actually vary my speaking rate a bit in this video. I open at a moderate pace, but there are some faster segments, especially with my son. You can turn on the captions and read along. Then try turning them off and listening to short parts to see if you understand more. With my Oral Reading Fluency videos, you can choose the slower or faster reading. Little by little, you'll gain confidence hearing my faster speech. :)
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I learned I a lot of words from you I couldn't even speak English but you made me to speak, understand and write I always appreciate Mam thank you so much to
You're very welcome. Thanks for studying with me.
Hi Jennifer. Just to say that after watching your video made me really inspired. I just want to say that I'm a 16 year old boy who has never sweared outloud!
I think it’s quite common and even natural to express our anger and frustration with strong words. However, my personal feeling is that profanity doesn’t need to be used in every single sentence. Some people overuse swear words. Wishing you all the best!
Wise words, indeed. Take swearing to the next level with JenniferESL.
Ha ha. Taking it to "the next level" could have different implications. I certainly don't aspire to teach fluency in profanity. Glad you liked the message here, Mollie.
Perfect lesson, as always!
Thanks for watching, Kelvin.
Your lessons are useful and different, I've learned a lot from you. I am grateful
This topic has been covered by others, but I wanted to contribute my own lesson and my own thoughts on this matter. Thanks for letting me share the video.
Thanks for your efforts, you are an amazing teacher, have a Nice end of the year. Peace and love from morocco
Thank you for the kind comment and good wishes. I wish you the best best!
I was in middle school. I used to say bad words all the time. I was in sixth grade. I swear bad words when I was outside at recess. Swearing bad words in front of my friends.
If the people around you swear a lot, then swearing seems normal. If you're in a circle where it's not done much, you'll soon adjust and realize swearing isn't necessary or appropriate in that circle. A lot depends on who you socialize with.
Swearing is caring
Ha ha. Well, we do need to vent. If you're alone, then curse away if it makes you feel better. ;)
JenniferESL lol okay
Thank you Jennifer 😊
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How do you create your thumbnail in videos? Do you use a special app?
I use Camtasia Studio. :)
There are free online resources. How about Snappa?
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I have no idea about Snappa, but I find your thumbnails and videos editings to be quite interesting!
Good & useful ...
Glad you liked it!
I learned all the curse and swear words!
Idk but it makes me sound more like a native!
I just have 2 control myself! ^_^
Yes, moderation in all things is key. ;)
Thank you Jennifer for another usefully lesson. I am guilty of swearing ,🙄..it is hard to stay calm when some crap stuff is going around.. from now on I will try using your substitutes
So true. When the world is spinning around us quite fast and so-called crappy things appear on our path (which was perfectly clear just yesterday!), it's not easy to remain calm. Our first reaction might be to vent our frustration through words. I didn't mention that sometimes I just make up a bunch of words or sounds to release that tension. Then I hear what I sound like and it may be silly enough to make me laugh. :)
I wish you a calm, peaceful day tomorrow!
I was going to link the swear song as a joke but this was actually useful
Glad to hear that. Don't get me wrong. Of course, I swear, but not profusely and not to offend. It's mostly to vent in private.
Wow you’ve got 1M subs congrats
Thank you!
geez! how much information thanks a lot Jennifer
You're welcome!
Hi Jennifer!
Do you know when was the last time I CUSSED SOMEONE OUT?
Yesterday. I cussed my relatives out. They took my mother on a trip to the beach in new year's day. What happened? All of them went back home testing positive for Covid. My mother has been very sick, though she received the two doses of the vaccine. And yesterday she was admitted to hospital. Now she's recovering at home. This pandemic is very disturbing and the F-word is something sweet to describe what this desease has really been causing to our lives.
Thank you for the class!
So sorry to hear about your mother and other relatives. I'm glad to hear she's already home. Yes, in such cases we can certainly vent our frustration with strong words. It's justified. Please take care. I hope you stay healthy, Thiago. I hope your mother can get a booster shot, though she'll have some natural immunity for a while. (Lesson to come on current COVID vocabulary.)
That was really useful. Merry Christmas Jennifer! 😊💐
I'm glad it helped. Regards!
Sometime swear words can be useful. In fews days before, I wrote a mail to my Internet service provider with swear words because I was tired with their pathetic Internet service. The next day they came to my home fixed my slow, random disconnection Internet issues.
Ha ha. You have to judge the situation and use what you think will be effective for the context. I'm glad you got your Internet service fixed!
Such a cute daughter. Thanks for the euphemisms, Jennifer.
Thanks for watching!
This video has me thinking about a certain website where we write movie reviews. In that website anything that comes close to a naughty word gets blanked out. ( I threw a **** for my dog to chase.. I require a **** to hold this cabinet together). The words that were blanked would have been blanked out on that website, despite being totally innocent - ball and screw. It was a bit annoying as it made us look like we were writing rude words and we weren't.
A foot note: Abbreviations are commonly used for naughty phrases.
If a channel needs to sensor, I like the silence better than dubbing. It's so funny to hear an tough, angry character say, "Oh shoot!" in another voice. LOL
@@Englishwithjennifer I know what you mean. We couldn't imagine a gangster saying this to another gangster: 'Kindly go away, you annoying person!"
In the UK, the airways stay family friendly until 9 pm and then anything goes. On the Internet there is no watershed time, so we just have to watch with caution.
The particular website, you know the one I mean. should improve their word recognition program, though. We can't even say 'lesbian' on there. That's a bit crazy :>)
As usual you are amazing. Thanks a lot.
Thank you for watching, Mohamed.
Studies have shown that a strong grasp of profanity words is an indicator of higher intelligence. Logic should support this idea as well.
Hi. That's an interesting perspective. I think some people are very colorful in their use of profanity, and profuse swearing can demonstrate a certain flair in terms of creative expression. However, there are multiple intelligences. Knowing how to modify one's language depending on the situation and the audience demonstrates social awareness and the ability to empathize. If a person is limited to one communication style and a certain vocabulary set, the individual is not exploring the full range of the language. Thanks for commenting!
This was a really fun and informative video! My son and I really enjoyed it
I'm glad you and your teen could talk about this too. :)
13:49 - Wow, I was never allowed to use most these terms growing up.
I've just settled on saying "Great!" my whole life. Maybe the occasional, "Oh man!"
I'll use terms like "stupid" or "junk" in more serious occasions, like a Pixar movie skipping theaters or something, because I'm done with this stupid skipping Pixar movies from theaters junk.
Many people find alternatives for everyday situations. For example, I wouldn't drop an f-bomb in a grocery store. If I dropped something, I might say, "Crap!" or "Oh geez!" We choose words that suit our personality. Our word choice also paints a picture of how others see us. Thanks for watching my video.
An excellent video. Keep it up, my teacher. 👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you, Steve. Warm greetings from Massachusetts, USA!
you're so sweet teacher Jen. Happy to see your eng videos😊
Thanks for being here. :)
No More Saying Cuss Words Guys!
Oh this is going to be easy.
Hard? Easy? It depends. Sometimes it's rather hard to censor ourselves. But there are situations when it's worth showing restraint.
@@Englishwithjennifer Sorry I didn't remember commenting this lol
I was just making a star wars reference somehow I commented this
anyways nice video
Thank you so much Jennifer for this a great video
You're welcome.
Their are no bad words.
That's one way to look at it. :)
I try to use flipping instead of fudging hehe
Yes, "flipping" is a fairly common alternative. Ha ha.
Do you know about the
f - finger ? Is the middle finger . You can DROP A F - BOMB with it. How to drop a f - bomb with the middle finger : it looks like pointing but with the middle finger
It's good to ask about these things. Yes, a raised middle finger is basically saying F you, so it's very offensive.
Very informative!
Thank you. Regards!
انتي روعه 😙😙
Thank you for watching my new video, Ahmed.
Hi Jennifer how are you doing
Thanks for another year learning from You're amazing teacher
Have a nice night my dear teacher 😉
You're welcome. The year's not over yet, so we'll have a few more lessons. :)
@@Englishwithjennifer ok my dear teacher
For me this is great I learn more
You're amazing person thanks so much 😉
How cool teacher you are driving 🥰😎 ...long time no see 😣 please come back to hallo teacher I will subcribe you truly and 2 months past a long time ago 🥺
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Swearing is so unecessary and undignified. You can be far more brutal and cutting by utilizing eloquence more to get your point across in heated exchanges and even make people respect you more. The moment you drop the f word you become another a-hole.
Yes, the swear words often tumble out in surprise, anger, or pain. However, if you're going down the path of complaining or criticizing, there are eloquent alternatives. In any case, it's human to feel the desire to express yourself even at the worst moments. I'd like to think we're all capable of stringing together our thoughts without profanity.
@@Englishwithjennifer I totally agree with you. You can really tie people up with eloquence! It's far more powerful than profanity and commands authority even if they don't understand I find they will yield to you out of respect!! I often find it's the sound of words and their delivery that gets noticed. I love
words and lyrics especially can be so powerful. Sometimes I don't understand what a song is about but the way the words are sung can really cut you deep. It's the science of semantics! Long live words. Long live eloquence!!
If you use cunning COMBINED with the swear words, you can actually win most arguments and be quite brutal. If you’re just using swear words without thinking very much, someone with a more advanced vocabulary could most likely outsmart you in a argument or some other sort of stressful situation.
Thank you Jennifer,
You're welcome, Sena.
Why "damn" is such a bad thing to say? I see it it's something religious, but what does it mean emotionally?
The verb is associated with condemnation. It's a strong form of criticism.
www.britannica.com/dictionary/damn
In general, we usually teach children that four-letter words are bad and shouldn't be said in polite company. "Damn" is in that group.
@@Englishwithjennifer Thanks a lot. Interestingly, most of the videos are about how TO curse. And I feel I need just the opposite now. They are just too strong for my normal speech. Wasn't this way when I was a beginner
I understand that. Strong words aren't always needed. If I swear, it's usually when I'm driving. Ha ha. Words come out because of anger or fear. It doesn't always happen, but it can. In most situations, I don't curse. There are plenty of other ways to express our frustration, and there are healthier ways to deal with negative feelings. Swearing openly can escalate a situation because other people can feed off of our anger or our negativity can impact them. It can be toxic. I also think when people swear in nearly every sentence, they simply lack good vocabulary.
Thanks a lot
You're welcome.
America is a strange country with your F-word, N-word, S-word, you almost gained an alfabet from it. I live in the Netherlands and we don't care about swear words. If you want to say it, you say it. The reason for this is quiet simple. hidden swear words are still swear words. When you say fudge or chips we still know what it means and the meaning weights heavier then the word. So when you talk about Gosh, God knows you ment him. So it is exactly the same and religious people are still angry about it.
Yes, we have our odd ways, but that's what makes different cultures interesting -- the lack of sameness and the opportunity to explore those differences. Often we use those censored versions in the presence of children. A lot depends on the individual and the family environment. What happens in one American household may not happen in another. Thanks for watching the video and sharing your thoughts. Regards!
How is dang a bad word omg I didn't know that
It's not offensive, but it's an expression of anger, surprise, or frustration. It's not something you'd say in very polite company. It's informal.
@@Englishwithjennifer oh ok
Nice! Soooo nice! You avoid using taboo words! Cooool. Nice of you!
Thanks.
Thanks Jennifer, I am really impressed by your amazing method of teaching English language and I have been following your videos. But I always thought that swearing is a huge part of English language
which is always missed in English language classes and hypocrisy is the principle of british and European American culture. It was a shock for me when I learned a little English and visited England and USA because I was shocked what I learned from my English teachers some people made fun of my English because I learned and used only polite language. I remember my teacher had told me that the word "get" and "take" are the most common words in English but I found the opposite. The words "F" and "S" are the most common words in English that common people use them on daily basis.
Thanks for being honest. I think in learning English language the swearing part should be an essential part of English language.
You're welcome. It's a talk that we have to have and be open about. I think sensitivity is key. There's a time and place where swearing is acceptable, but even then, you have to know how far you can push it. Some work cultures allow for SH-, F-, Hell, and the usual swear words. When I taught in schools, we never swore, even in the teachers' room. It just wasn't part of our work environment. But I know people in other offices and workplaces swear quite often. Still others never do. It also depends on the person. Believe it or not, I can get through a day, a week, even a month without swearing. It's a matter of habit. I mostly rely on the alternatives like "dang" and "freaking" and comments like, "What is your problem?" ... that last one is another thing I might say to another driver! LOL I really do think it's better to err on the side of being too polite than being too coarse.
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Please make a video about,routine,hobbies and liking dislikings. I love to watch your videos
We talk a little about our likes and dislikes as well as what we do in our free time in the Basic English videos. www.englishwithjennifer.com/students/yt-videos/
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I'm glad you enjoyed it.
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Do you know what that guy say ?
Hello, my teacher. I read a lot, but i remember a little, especially spelling. Could you give me some advice? Thank you.
Continue to read. You can also write very short summaries in a Word doc. With the spell check on, your mistakes will be highlighted or auto-corrected. Take note of those words. Learn patterns. You may like www.spellingcity.com/phonics.html
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Good morning Jennifer
Hello. How are you today?
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Wait... Do you live in Canada ?
US
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what its the translation for fudge?
Can you use either Google translate or guess from the image I showed? Fudge is a sweet (and yummy!) soft, and usually somewhat chewy treat. It's often has a chocolate taste. Some put nuts in it. I'm not sure how to translate it in any language. ;)
I loved the video! Ok, ok I confess I swear in English sometimes, but I prefer being sarcastic because I think it is a smarter alternative for cussing.
Ha ha. You sound like me. Swearing happens sometimes, not the hard core nasty stuff, but the SH- word tumbles out when another car almost hits me or if I drop a glass dish on the floor. I can be very sarcastic when I'm frustrated. LOL
Cussing is what ppl do
Yes, that's true, but ideally we can maintain a degree of self-control and modify our language in the presence of those we should protect and/or respect.
Thank you for your efforts.I hate swearing
I don't like hearing it either, even when it's not said in anger and just part of neutral conversation. But you'll hear it in different circles. I have to remind my daughter that overusing even a milder word like "freaking" can color your speech in a negative way. Like I said, English is a rich language. There are definitely alternatives to strong curses.
@@EnglishwithjenniferI am sure you are so polite it is so clear and your family too. You are a greet example for us.
@@suprafluid3661 Hi. You ask a good question, and I think there could be others with similar doubts, so I'll offer some ideas to consider. What is natural and appropriate can change from context to context. In some work environments, the occasional use of F--- is fine. A good number of coworkers speak in a very relaxed manner and swearing is a part of their interaction. A school teacher at an elementary school, however, would likely get suspended for that language in the classroom. A young lady wouldn't likely want to hear a sales rep at a bridal boutique talk about a beautiful wedding gown with a string of curse words, even if those words were said as part of a compliment. A young man wouldn't make a great impression on his future in-laws by cursing during his first visit. In short, if you stay in the same social circle, you can rely on one speech style the whole time. But most people find themselves moving in and out of circles and contexts. You need to have the sensitivity to adjust your behavior, and that includes language. How you speak casually to your best friend isn't how you'd address a judge in a court of law or a police officer after s/he pulls you over for speeding. It's not so much that swearing is bad, but it can be inappropriate for certain situations. Just like we clean up and look nice for a date, a job interview, a wedding, or a funeral, we also "clean up" our language a bit to show respect for the situation where additional care is needed.
Morming Jennifer. Very interesing
Yes, it's a topic I'd thought about addressing in the past. I felt it was time. ;)
Wow, this is a great lesson! It's a whole science of swearing :D
I knew about freaking, bud didn't know about fudge - isn't is kind of childish? My online dictionary doesn't even know about this substitution for the f-word.
Ha ha. Yes, "fudge" would sound silly, for example, coming from a big tough guy in an action movie. "Fudge!" is something I say to avoid swearing harshly in front of my kids. It's not really childish, but rather appropriate in front of small children.
By the way, this is a classic scene from a well-known Christmas movie. Maybe you've seen it. ruclips.net/video/UwvEBhTYV5c/видео.html
@@Englishwithjennifer Ok, now I got it. Thank you for the explanation! And I haven't seen that movie, but I liked the scene :D
I should say that I used to use the f-word a lot, but today I don't. Now I should learn not to use the sh-word it's like a addiction. Interestingly in my native language I don't use bad words. Thanks for this lesson. God bless you and your family!
Hi Wesley. Yeah, it's all about cultivating good habits. It's not awful to occasionally use the sh-word or even the f-word, in my opinion. But if someone is using these words in every sentence, it just turns the conversation sour for me. The words are supposed to have an impact, so if you don't overuse them, then they'll actually be more effective. ;)
Take care.
Nice video. I don’t like saying foul language. U help me!
I'm glad I can offer alternatives to you.
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Well, you can follow me here and on other platforms: Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, and Simor.
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I love you ... very awesome
Thank you for being a good teacher
I love I like English, I like to learn
Thank you for the support. I'm glad you enjoy studying with me.
i've made up g-rated cusswords. they are pifflesnert, stinklepiff, plontzgraffle, flonkapoofle, nerklesnatz, zapfrackle and blamfire
That's great! Ha ha. :) I say "crap" and "dang" a lot.
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Thanks, Alexandr.
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What about teaching us ways to control or completely inhibit our anger? 😂
That would be another kind of channel. That reminds me that I need to get back to my yoga practice. I could use breathing exercises to stay grounded. :)
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That's right. Be sure to check Simor because there's a little surprise for you. 😂
Simor is going through some major updates as I understand, so things are in transition. At this very moment, I can't access my classrooms. I hope that will change by tomorrow morning! But I'm looking forward to discovering the surprise that awaits me. :)
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I officially announce that I am back again on Simor. You won't get rid of me so easily. 😂
I just sent them a letter yesterday and I got a message from them 3 hours ago and I was in. All I hope is that I can get access to my Facebook account again as I did with Simor.
I'm not on Simor any more because there are now a bunch of adverts. It's a pity for your good work but I can follow you elsewhere, that's what matters.
I honestly don’t see the big deal on what words we use, after all, they’re literally just sounds you’re making with your vocal cords! 😂
Hmm. Well, I don't think profanity has a place in formal situations (wedding, funeral, etc.) out of respect. I also think most adults know it's not appropriate to swear in front of young children. To drop an f-bomb around a baby isn't something most would approve of. Harsh language contrasts with their sweet innocence. Certain people are expected to maintain a level of dignity befitting their position, like the queen of England or any world leader. While the rest of us aren't royalty or in a political office, we can still tap into the richness of the English language rather than lace our sentences with F-this and F-that. Of course, a stressful situation brings out colorful language in almost all of us, but I generally recommend that my viewers build their vocabulary and avoid language that could be offensive. Most are learning English for academic or professional purposes. Thanks for commenting!
i swear that you are a high class educated civilized lovely woman :)
Thank you for that kind compliment. And thank you for illustrating the other meaning of "swear"! :)
darn! that guy has russian accent!
"Darn" would express disappointment or frustration. If you want to express surprise, you might say "dang" or "oh my God" or "gosh."
JenniferESL holy moly! That guy has Russian accent!
I live in Vietnam and hell pronounce like "heo" which means pig so i say " What the pig"
That's funny!
My dad lie to me...
About what?
About you live in Canada
I'm in the US.
Jennifer you are very fast nxt time you speak slowly please 🔜🔜🔜🔜🔜🔜🔜
I actually vary my speaking rate a bit in this video. I open at a moderate pace, but there are some faster segments, especially with my son. You can turn on the captions and read along. Then try turning them off and listening to short parts to see if you understand more. With my Oral Reading Fluency videos, you can choose the slower or faster reading. Little by little, you'll gain confidence hearing my faster speech. :)
I don't think she talk that fast
I don't suprise when i though you say the f*** .
I was wondering who would guess that I never actually swore. ;)
I'm the first
Yes, you are. :)
Thank you,Jennifer
You're welcome.