@@tgurl1488 Yeah, because you're not experiencing a genuine issue involving visas with someone you wholeheartedly love. Regardless of what this show presents there are people out there who greatly need this visa for the right reasons.
Anna, there’s nothing to discuss about this situation. If the man you’re marrying wants to keep your children a secret, you should not be with him. Simple.
I'm not that shocked, I've seen single mothers being outright idiotic when it comes to 'romance'...not all of them, obviously, but yeah, I've known another lady who wouldn't let go of her bf even after he said he wished her children are dead at one point, then he said, it's a joke, then he said, that her children are a burden to her and how she'd be more attractive without them...they're still together although he's said all those.
The kids should always come first. Her kids are beautiful. Since their father is not in the picture, she should have gotten a man who will be a good father figure to them instead of someone who is so ashamed of them.
The longer this goes on, the more I feel disgusted. Is it that important to have a man? There are billions of people in the world. There are even plenty of Turkish men who speak English if Turks are your thing. Besides the language barrier (brick wall?), this kids thing should have been a deal breaker immediately.
@@Lyonlionify Well damn, I didn't say she had to be with you, lol. In America a 40 year old divorcee with a few kids is pretty normal and people get married all the time.
@@Lyonlionify stay single then... be in love with youself. Moms need to do that or they end up lowering their standards.. a mother should NOT be with a man who don't want to value and love her children. A man should NOT pursue a woman if he has no intentions of taking the whole package
@@bayamonrican agree, and she has a beautiful home and life it seems. Her friends and family were nice, threw the shower. He said only the men get a bachelor party, he has been rude and judgemental since he first got there. I would like to see his home, and where he lived because he strutted in there first day, looking around her house, and the kid had to go get this strangers luggage that cant even communicate. uggh I dont get it, his beady eyes are so creepy to and he is 50 at least lol
J Holland I am sorry but you can’t play staring contest with each other. A relationship doesn’t work that way, specially when you have kids involved and teenagers. This relationship is a mess, maybe if the primitive can at least make basic sentences. Maybe there’s a slight chance. But I think your comments are way off!!!!
Okay so in Turkey it is a little bit taboo to marry a someone with children but only slightly. It’s definitely not something your family would disown you for and I’m pretty sure TLC is exaggerating it a lot.
It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
Slicklickz omfg that’s hilarious. You realized Turkey is a developed first world nation and women have equal rights? I’m currently in Turkey and it’s an amazing country. I don’t know what you are describing.
@@skylargulley5169 What?His parents are conservative and from the 1950s,you really think they want their property being passed down to illegitimate children not even blood related to them?Even many Christian sects here in the US won't baptize bastard spawn.It's always woman who deny getting pregnant and giving birth from some random guy may pose problems down the road.No guys I know wants anything to do with single mothers.Single mothers with Bastard spawn?Hell no.Single mother with multiple Bastards by multiple fathers?HELL NO.Mothers with children that don't even know who the father is?HELL NO!!!Whether you acknowledge it or not guys everywhere see them as whores.Do you have any children?
I judge her, sorry. I know she wants to be loved but to even consider "keeping your kids a secret" is ridiculous and def a red flag. What is she thinking.
There's a good reason he can't tell his parents.It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
Slicklickz Last time I checked he was 38 years old and he KNEW about her children (bastard is such terrible word by the way) . He still chose to be with her. If his religion is that important then he needs to leave her alone as this is not the right woman for him. Did you say "they are bastards born with no souls"? . What an awful thing to say about any child. Wow. Religion can be so messed up. People need to strat using their brains instead of blindly following religion and tradition that makes zero sense.
@@JP-qx2wb No I said to his older,conservative,Muslim parents "Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls".That's why he said he'd tell his parents when they were on their death bed,so he doesn't get disowned and lose his inheritance.
Slicklickz Then he needs to ask himself what is more important to him-tradition, not disappointing his parents or the woman he claims he loves (and her kids because they aren't going anywhere. Yes they are not on their best behavior but can you blame them in this situation?).
@@JP-qx2wb It appears he wants to marry Anna and stay in the US until his parents are about to die,the 2 older kids will probably be out on their own by then anyway.
The biggest problem is that he doesn't even know his own language.Not kidding, i'm a turkish person and i don't even understand what he's trying to say lmao
He doesn’t show the real Turkish culture. I watched some else videos of him and I can say “ He is really a bad Turkish”. We don’t try to dominate women.
Cem Şarlı gerçekten tamamen ırkçılık üzerine kurulu bir program bu adam da gerçekten aptallık yapıyor, kadınının annesi saçmasapan laflar ediyor,adam hala bu programda bi de kültür falan diyor. Şaka gibi.
She's a nice woman but the only connection she has to Murcel is bees. She needs to find some Nebraskan who keeps bees or would want to start. It's a cool activity, I'd do it.
Anna really needs to see what her kids thoughts are about Mursel without him. Now Mursel has been in the states for a few days. I don't understand the desperation from the cast members. Communication is number one in any relationship. We'll see what happens next episode. I just can't get on board with anyone this season. Once again the kids are smarter than their parents.
There's a good reason he can't tell his parents.It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
@@Slicklickz I don't know Islam law to well. Fact is Mursel knew she has 3 kids. So why does he want to marry a ''whore' like you call her. He knew exactly what HE was doing.
Prioritize your kids before everything, hiding from his family that you have children is a red flag. Move on with your life, there are a lot of great fishes in the ocean.
@@61akra12 you can marry your second wife only if your first wife allows you to. no one has 4 wives now. it was a limitation in the 7th century of arab peninsula. cuz men, at that time, had tens of wives. and islam brought a limit to it. What is recommended in islam is monogamy. im not fluent in english but i hope i got my point across and sorry for any mistakes
While watching this please keep in mind that Mursel is not representing any country or culture. He is just a human being that could survive with zero language. I think he was raised by wolfs lol.
I could never be with a man who was not comfortable with my kids. Major deal breaker! Come on lady the desperation has to stop at some point especially when kids are involved.
My mom married for the 3rd time to a Turkish guy from Istanbul that’s younger then me. He speaks and understands English pretty well and has Turkish friends in the city they live in. Good luck to this couple.
@@ivanad6199not everyone is desperate for your fucked up country lmao. search the antalya city mursel is from. its like a paradise full of tourists. people change countries for love. in europe we make fun of america. id never want a greencard or live in that place.
The ironic thing is, if the USA allowed them more than 90 days, more people would not rush to get married and then after spending more time together realise they aren’t compatible
She can't talk to this guy about anything!! He just smiles,laughs,and says yes yes ok ok. Crazy that this girl is putting herself,and more so her children through this!!!
This is sad to me because they look cute together and i might be wrong but I feel like they both have good hearts but there’s so many issues that make so hard to believe in them , the language barrier, the kids situations... so many deal breakers
Anna isn't happy. She always looks stressed and on the verge of crying. She's got so many doubts about him, and marrying him. Anna that is your gut telling you to END THIS JOKE OF A RELATIONSHIP!!!
You were kinda upset about wanting to keep your kids a secret from a guy's family. A guy you can't even communicate with. Seriously, is she colour blind? Does she not see this as major red flags
How hard up this lady is! What a bad example of a mother! If guys I even dated; me they knew about my children! ( how do u think your kids feel). U can't even communicate with Marcell!!
This lady is nothing like Danielle. She is really caring and affectionate she is also better looking mursel I am surr loves her you can tell they have a chemistry only problem is the language barrier.
@@lastzika8632 It's amazing how you & I can watch the same exact thing yet, we see completely different things. Only problem is the language barrier!? Where to begin... Religion, she drinks, her mother thinks it's 1930, he asked her to marry him before even meeting her children, he only came because she wouldn't leave her kids like he wanted. He's lying to his family and told her that if his family finds out, he will chose his family over her. She nor he children will respect Islam and the kids even joked to give him bacon before he even came. So yeah language barrier, lies, lack of respect and so much more. You say language barrier as if communication is not important. If anything it's the most important. 🤦
İyi değil kalbi temiz hiç değil biraz iyi izle çocuklara amerikaya yemeğe kültüre saygısızlık yapıyor çocukları dövmekten bahsediyor tipik Anadolu çomarı.
I don't understand what she see on him. I hope she start to live in reality. Not only saying my kid's comes first for him his family came first so open ur eye woman 😠😠😠
getting married to someone you can't COMMUNICATE ?? How do you decide that you love him if you guys can't even communicate all these time over the phone??!!! Marrying someone you can't communicate - as it is, communication is key and tough in any relationship - what more this one! 1000 times worse!
That women should have kicked that guy to the cover the minute she found out about his family not accepting her kids. Was she that thirty? I thought kids came first.
He never said he will keep them a secret forever neither he said they will never go turkey when the kids ask him. He said at least 3 years, could be he want to come to his family little by little about the her kids. I feel some people are judging him without even knowing his culture or his family . He said to them “ he don’t want to loose his family “ And if I was in his place I would feel the same I wouldn’t want to loose my family for a person I need to know more .
Sorry, Islamic Law states they can have 4 wives. He’s Muslim, no pork,liqueur, no sex before marriage. Ask him to pay your bride price and watch him run!
the thing about marrying someone with kids is like, your family wants you to marry someone equal like you so you might be happy. if the other person has kids and this side doesnt have any? well thats not what they want. in turkey family is highly involved most of the cases thats the deal nothing to do with muslim i know jews are same and many other cultures like greeks etc
Neither in turkish nor muslim culture marrying a woman with kids is forbidden or something not done, if that ,actually it's encouraged. Having said that, some families feel that it is like interracial marriage in america, we all know it is not accepted with open arms in some states or parts of those states in the USA.
Yeah, so just to clarify: Turkish and Muslims, in general, prefer their kids to marry people who don't have baggage but it is not frowned upon to the extent Mursel is making it to be! That is HIS issue really. And passing it to be a cultural thing on people who can't tell the difference is just easy.
There is an actor in my country who met a woman but they didn't speak each other languag at all.Despite of this they tried the best to communicate in a way.And now they have been married for a long time.Language barrier isn't a big deal if they really want.But in this case I can't see this man really makes big effort.Almost nothing. Anna is the only one who really tries.
Murcel is like a fourth child for Anna. Her 16 year old son is more mature than he is. He can't work, he can't drive, he can't socialize because he can't speak English.and he has the smallest shoulders I have ever seen on an adult!
Here kids are being traumatized. It's really scary, as a child, to see your parent, that is supposed to protect you, making stupid choices. The child has to become the adult. I know this firsthand. I lived my childhood in survival mode. I'm sure many people can relate.
“Our language barrier makes it really tough to have serious conversations” say that again but slower
Oh shit lol
LOL!! I was just thinking that... like, duh. How can you have a relationship when you can't converse with each other?? That's basic requirement
This show is gonna single handedly ruin the k1 visa process.
I'm ok with that 👍🏻
@@tgurl1488 Yeah, because you're not experiencing a genuine issue involving visas with someone you wholeheartedly love. Regardless of what this show presents there are people out there who greatly need this visa for the right reasons.
@@siateel6545 this is true as well
Me like what? What is k1 visa? Something that European immigrants stole my motherland??
T guRl you should get Botox, I hope your kids don’t look like you
Anna, there’s nothing to discuss about this situation. If the man you’re marrying wants to keep your children a secret, you should not be with him. Simple.
I'm not that shocked, I've seen single mothers being outright idiotic when it comes to 'romance'...not all of them, obviously, but yeah, I've known another lady who wouldn't let go of her bf even after he said he wished her children are dead at one point, then he said, it's a joke, then he said, that her children are a burden to her and how she'd be more attractive without them...they're still together although he's said all those.
The kids should always come first. Her kids are beautiful. Since their father is not in the picture, she should have gotten a man who will be a good father figure to them instead of someone who is so ashamed of them.
The longer this goes on, the more I feel disgusted. Is it that important to have a man? There are billions of people in the world. There are even plenty of Turkish men who speak English if Turks are your thing. Besides the language barrier (brick wall?), this kids thing should have been a deal breaker immediately.
Happy Heart a near 40s divorcee with 3 grown children finding a man ? Good luck
@@Lyonlionify Well damn, I didn't say she had to be with you, lol.
In America a 40 year old divorcee with a few kids is pretty normal and people get married all the time.
@@Lyonlionify stay single then... be in love with youself. Moms need to do that or they end up lowering their standards.. a mother should NOT be with a man who don't want to value and love her children. A man should NOT pursue a woman if he has no intentions of taking the whole package
@@bayamonrican agree, and she has a beautiful home and life it seems. Her friends and family were nice, threw the shower. He said only the men get a bachelor party, he has been rude and judgemental since he first got there. I would like to see his home, and where he lived because he strutted in there first day, looking around her house, and the kid had to go get this strangers luggage that cant even communicate. uggh I dont get it, his beady eyes are so creepy to and he is 50 at least lol
@@sopranosfan67smith58 I was amazed to see her friends! Certainly there is someone within or connected to her wide circle who is a better match!
The only cute thing about this couple is the beekeeping.
Justine Brown's Bookshelf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 exactly
I agree
Only thing they have in common and makes them both happy to be around each other.
J Holland I am sorry but you can’t play staring contest with each other.
A relationship doesn’t work that way, specially when you have kids involved and teenagers.
This relationship is a mess, maybe if the primitive can at least make basic sentences. Maybe there’s a slight chance.
But I think your comments are way off!!!!
Justine Brown's Bookshelf the only thing cute about the relationship is Mursal's epileptic dance moves in the car ride.
This is sad. He needs to learn English and she needs to find a meetup group of Turkish expats so he is not so culturally isolated.
There are too many deal breakers.
Miss Florence K he is a wimp.
She's in Nebraska. That's going to be a big requisite to fill.
That's his responsibility he thinks he can lie about her children
Did she honestly not anticipate problems having a guy from a different culture who speaks no English
No, because they both keep bees and that's a solid bedrock for any relationship.
The Saint 😂🤣
Okay so in Turkey it is a little bit taboo to marry a someone with children but only slightly. It’s definitely not something your family would disown you for and I’m pretty sure TLC is exaggerating it a lot.
It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
Slicklickz Or Mursel could have just left her alone... They are both being cruel to those kids.
Slicklickz omfg that’s hilarious. You realized Turkey is a developed first world nation and women have equal rights? I’m currently in Turkey and it’s an amazing country. I don’t know what you are describing.
@@skylargulley5169 What?His parents are conservative and from the 1950s,you really think they want their property being passed down to illegitimate children not even blood related to them?Even many Christian sects here in the US won't baptize bastard spawn.It's always woman who deny getting pregnant and giving birth from some random guy may pose problems down the road.No guys I know wants anything to do with single mothers.Single mothers with Bastard spawn?Hell no.Single mother with multiple Bastards by multiple fathers?HELL NO.Mothers with children that don't even know who the father is?HELL NO!!!Whether you acknowledge it or not guys everywhere see them as whores.Do you have any children?
Slicklickz You are a really fun person 🙄 and no I have no children and my boyfriend is Turkish.
It is not Turkish culture or Muslim culture. It is Mursel s culture! I am literally shocked how you decide to get merry without communication!!!
Kandırmayın insanları.Haberleri görüyorsunuz çoğu insan bunun için öldürülüyor.Hepsi değilse de yarısı böyle.
How can a Man be your confidante best friend and life partner if there is no depth to your foundation?
AND can’t speak same LANGUAGE!
The heart can lead you into interesting journeys
@@Vb-fy4sv yes but the language is not a problem he can learn English
Oh shut upp!!!
Start blaming without knowing a shit!
You sound like one of those people who loves to argue.
🤔🤔 ANNA, COME BACK TO EARTH. LALA LAND IS NOT A GOOD PLACE TO BE. LISTEN TO YOUR CHILDREN...THEY ARE VERRY SMART. 🙏🙏🙏
I judge her, sorry. I know she wants to be loved but to even consider "keeping your kids a secret" is ridiculous and def a red flag. What is she thinking.
There's a good reason he can't tell his parents.It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
Slicklickz
Last time I checked he was 38 years old and he KNEW about her children (bastard is such terrible word by the way) . He still chose to be with her. If his religion is that important then he needs to leave her alone as this is not the right woman for him.
Did you say "they are bastards born with no souls"? . What an awful thing to say about any child. Wow. Religion can be so messed up. People need to strat using their brains instead of blindly following religion and tradition that makes zero sense.
@@JP-qx2wb No I said to his older,conservative,Muslim parents "Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls".That's why he said he'd tell his parents when they were on their death bed,so he doesn't get disowned and lose his inheritance.
Slicklickz
Then he needs to ask himself what is more important to him-tradition, not disappointing his parents or the woman he claims he loves (and her kids because they aren't going anywhere. Yes they are not on their best behavior but can you blame them in this situation?).
@@JP-qx2wb It appears he wants to marry Anna and stay in the US until his parents are about to die,the 2 older kids will probably be out on their own by then anyway.
She’s a good friend. She made me realize just how important language is to express yourself and learning about someone.
Mursel is a Greek who imitates Turkish.
Absolutely
karsim rezil rusvvffa olduk bosver yunana sallamaya gerek yok ;(
Aynen sal abi. Olan ortada
beyler mursel abimizi gavur ellerde yalnız mı bırakıcaz yapmayın kurban olim ..tertemiz adam :)
No he’s not !! Greeks are a good looking nation!!!!!!!
She needs to learn his language and he needs to learn hers. And after that they can talk about marriage.
The biggest problem is that he doesn't even know his own language.Not kidding, i'm a turkish person and i don't even understand what he's trying to say lmao
He doesn’t show the real Turkish culture. I watched some else videos of him and I can say “ He is really a bad Turkish”. We don’t try to dominate women.
Cem Şarlı gerçekten tamamen ırkçılık üzerine kurulu bir program bu adam da gerçekten aptallık yapıyor, kadınının annesi saçmasapan laflar ediyor,adam hala bu programda bi de kültür falan diyor. Şaka gibi.
Türkiyedeki erkeklerin çoğu bu şekilde ki zaten. Türkiyede yaşıyorsun başka biyerde değil..
@@lordhightower6124 ne alaka
at least she has a friend that tells her this doesnt make sense. you cant marry someone you cant talk too
She's a nice woman but the only connection she has to Murcel is bees. She needs to find some Nebraskan who keeps bees or would want to start. It's a cool activity, I'd do it.
Anna really needs to see what her kids thoughts are about Mursel without him. Now Mursel has been in the states for a few days. I don't understand the desperation from the cast members. Communication is number one in any relationship. We'll see what happens next episode. I just can't get on board with anyone this season. Once again the kids are smarter than their parents.
At least her friend has some sense and is a good friend. She looked so happy to see her when she walked in.
I would never marry a man who rejects my children in any way. I can't understand her.
There's a good reason he can't tell his parents.It's not that she's a single parent or split up with the boys father.. It's the fact that all 3 of her children were born out of wedlock.They seem to avoid talking about the real reason.In Turkey,as Muslims,Anna is considered a Whore and all 3 of her children are Bastards that were born with no souls.They can't really be part of a family or inherit property.In some places the baby would have been killed at birth and she would have been stoned to death.Her last name is Campisi and their last name is Snow.Mursel could be banished from his family.The kids seem to be oblivious and Anna probably didn't explain it to them and takes no responsibility for her actions.She should stick up for Mursel and tell her kids he can't tell his family about then because they are Bastards and that it's her fault.Instead she blames him for her actions.Did they not watch Game of Thrones?
@@Slicklickz I don't know Islam law to well. Fact is Mursel knew she has 3 kids. So why does he want to marry a ''whore' like you call her. He knew exactly what HE was doing.
Slicklickz How many times are you going to spam this comment section with this bs?! Are you Mursel’s mom or something? Lol
@@garypageone4733 Just replying to people that don't understand the issue,and TLC isn't talking about it.
Why would a young girl want a man she can’t talk too? Nuts
gwen theRawVegan maybe she ain’t that young
She only wants attention show off look im with someone who barely knows loved me and or my child(ren)
One of biggest thing is communication.. when u can't even talk without a translator .. please..
Let him go back home is the best for both of you gal
I wish she would just leave this relationship. Those nice kids are a blessing not a curse.
Prioritize your kids before everything, hiding from his family that you have children is a red flag. Move on with your life, there are a lot of great fishes in the ocean.
Believe me not all people in Turkey think and act like Mürsel ... i am so shy because of this man...
No one:
Her friend: "This is a big deal. This is like..(huge pause)......Big"
like really like
I was hoping I wasn’t the only one who caught that 😂😂
Crazy show. The most unsuitable couples are picked for entertainment purposes.
This relationship reminds me of nicole and azan....all the red flags but she still ignore them all.
She's a beautiful woman and deserves better :/
No she is chubby and does not have self-esteem.
She's fat with baggage.
Turkısh people is very angry to this guy. İt's not a turkish culture. He acting like a crazy. He is not acting like a turkish. Just embarassing
Why are all these women so desperate it’s so embarrassing imagine being their children oh my I’d be cringed out
Marcel’s family should be thrilled that anyone will marry him. He is below basic and comes off very slow.
Tiffany F. I think it is more than language.
Tiffany F. Yes...…………..he's FAR from highly intelligent! Totally agree.
Anna makes me feel really good about my life.
How do you keep a secret when you’re on a tv show? 😅
Lol im a muslim and no its not bad to marry woman who already has a kids!
I think its a true blessing child(ren) or not
Exactly... I was shocked when she said that
sure it's not. they can become someone's second or third wife
@@61akra12 4 wifes to fuck hell yeah
@@61akra12 you can marry your second wife only if your first wife allows you to. no one has 4 wives now. it was a limitation in the 7th century of arab peninsula. cuz men, at that time, had tens of wives. and islam brought a limit to it. What is recommended in islam is monogamy. im not fluent in english but i hope i got my point across and sorry for any mistakes
why do they both look way older than 38, especially him!!!!! 😭😭
While watching this please keep in mind that Mursel is not representing any country or culture. He is just a human being that could survive with zero language. I think he was raised by wolfs lol.
ulan onur xxddddd
When I see these two...I think of one word.....DOi
I could never be with a man who was not comfortable with my kids. Major deal breaker! Come on lady the desperation has to stop at some point especially when kids are involved.
Yes I agree brushra my husband is Muslim and I'm a Christian with a daughter and there was no issue.
Imagine having to say that youre having a hard time having SERIOUS conversations with your FIANCE
Mursel looks like a tinder stalker😂
My mom married for the 3rd time to a Turkish guy from Istanbul that’s younger then me. He speaks and understands English pretty well and has Turkish friends in the city they live in. Good luck to this couple.
#greencard
@@ivanad6199not everyone is desperate for your fucked up country lmao. search the antalya city mursel is from. its like a paradise full of tourists. people change countries for love. in europe we make fun of america. id never want a greencard or live in that place.
The ironic thing is, if the USA allowed them more than 90 days, more people would not rush to get married and then after spending more time together realise they aren’t compatible
Jess Holden True. I think it should be a 6 month visa.
Yeah but then people would just say they are engaged all the time for vacations. Lol
She seems so sweet like that one favorite teacher. In terms of her love life- it’s ok to be alone rather than be in confusion :(.
this is desperation personified
She can't talk to this guy about anything!! He just smiles,laughs,and says yes yes ok ok. Crazy that this girl is putting herself,and more so her children through this!!!
This is sad to me because they look cute together and i might be wrong but I feel like they both have good hearts but there’s so many issues that make so hard to believe in them , the language barrier, the kids situations... so many deal breakers
Anna isn't happy. She always looks stressed and on the verge of crying. She's got so many doubts about him, and marrying him. Anna that is your gut telling you to END THIS JOKE OF A RELATIONSHIP!!!
That friend had really good advice for her
Your Man just wants green card not your soul
If ya have to use a phone as a communication tool with the person right next to you it's not gonna work!! Trainwreck
Her friend “this is a big deal..... like a BIG deal” ...... wow great advice
You were kinda upset about wanting to keep your kids a secret from a guy's family. A guy you can't even communicate with.
Seriously, is she colour blind? Does she not see this as major red flags
Anna needs an intervention. Please Viviana, go talk some sense into ya girl!
Don't tell me she can't find someone better omg
Anna is such a nice woman
How hard up this lady is! What a bad example of a mother! If guys I even dated; me they knew about my children! ( how do u think your kids feel). U can't even communicate with Marcell!!
Omg, her smile and mannerisms are JUST like Danielle!!! The lady who was with Mohammed. 😐
This lady is nothing like Danielle. She is really caring and affectionate she is also better looking mursel I am surr loves her you can tell they have a chemistry only problem is the language barrier.
@@lastzika8632 It's amazing how you & I can watch the same exact thing yet, we see completely different things. Only problem is the language barrier!? Where to begin... Religion, she drinks, her mother thinks it's 1930, he asked her to marry him before even meeting her children, he only came because she wouldn't leave her kids like he wanted. He's lying to his family and told her that if his family finds out, he will chose his family over her. She nor he children will respect Islam and the kids even joked to give him bacon before he even came. So yeah language barrier, lies, lack of respect and so much more. You say language barrier as if communication is not important. If anything it's the most important. 🤦
@@lastzika8632 they will be over soon. Lol
Mursel is sooo awkward🤣😫😳
The only thing they have in common is bees. Not enough to make a marriage especially because they can't even speak to each other.
I’m so confused how this woman honestly thinks she’s in love with someone that has absolutely no idea what is going on or what she’s trying to say.
Mürsel kadını seviyor. Evlenin. Yakışıyor mutlu olsunlar. Araya kimse girmesin. Mürsel. İyi insandır kalbî. Çok temizdir. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
İyi değil kalbi temiz hiç değil biraz iyi izle çocuklara amerikaya yemeğe kültüre saygısızlık yapıyor çocukları dövmekten bahsediyor tipik Anadolu çomarı.
If you ask the bees , they’ll tell you your not right for each other😄
Why would you want to be with someone who wants your kids to be a secret?
I don't understand what she see on him. I hope she start to live in reality. Not only saying my kid's comes first for him his family came first so open ur eye woman 😠😠😠
This is so uncomfortable to watch
Mursel is greek and his real name is mürseliko
getting married to someone you can't COMMUNICATE ?? How do you decide that you love him if you guys can't even communicate all these time over the phone??!!! Marrying someone you can't communicate - as it is, communication is key and tough in any relationship - what more this one! 1000 times worse!
I agree 100% with Anna friend...
Her friend says it all
Anna & Mursel = Children in the attic :)
That women should have kicked that guy to the cover the minute she found out about his family not accepting her kids. Was she that thirty? I thought kids came first.
Ask him to join English classes or else you join classes to learn his language !🤨🤨
How did he propose then? Or that is not a serious conversation?
I doubt if he could ask her to marry him unless it was with the app . Imagine being proposed to by an opp . Sorry I cant take this couple sincerely
He never said he will keep them a secret forever neither he said they will never go turkey when the kids ask him. He said at least 3 years,
could be he want to come to his family little by little about the her kids.
I feel some people are judging him without even knowing his culture or his family .
He said to them “ he don’t want to loose his family “
And if I was in his place I would feel the same I wouldn’t want to loose my family for a person I need to know more .
Annanın ilk gün gelen Misafire hazırladığı kahvaltıyı görünce dedim Mürsel sen bittin abi varya bizim kadınlarımız bir başka ya kim ne derse desin.
Anna, you have a good friend there. Please take her advice. Just sayin
RED FLAGS Anna!
What’s wrong with this woman/ doesn’t like your kids/ doesn’t speak the same language and doesn’t like you wierdo
Viviana u make tons of sense yes. We need more SMART PEOPLE LIKE U
Mursel he cant even speak Turkish lol
Sorry, Islamic Law states they can have 4 wives. He’s Muslim, no pork,liqueur, no sex before marriage. Ask him to pay your bride price and watch him run!
the thing about marrying someone with kids is like, your family wants you to marry someone equal like you so you might be happy. if the other person has kids and this side doesnt have any? well thats not what they want. in turkey family is highly involved most of the cases thats the deal nothing to do with muslim i know jews are same and many other cultures like greeks etc
Neither in turkish nor muslim culture marrying a woman with kids is forbidden or something not done, if that ,actually it's encouraged. Having said that, some families feel that it is like interracial marriage in america, we all know it is not accepted with open arms in some states or parts of those states in the USA.
She sounds exactly like nicole!!
Mursel is a chicken! Does that make him Chicken Mursal?
The man isn't ready to be a stepfather to those bastard kids. Why should he come rescue her from the poor decisions she make in her past
never be ashamed of your children. children are way more important than men
I wonder if her “friend” was able to keep the necklace the show asked her to wear
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If Mursel was a man of wealth, you know It'd be so much different so much...
Yeah, so just to clarify: Turkish and Muslims, in general, prefer their kids to marry people who don't have baggage but it is not frowned upon to the extent Mursel is making it to be! That is HIS issue really. And passing it to be a cultural thing on people who can't tell the difference is just easy.
Exactly
There is an actor in my country who met a woman but they didn't speak each other languag at all.Despite of this they tried the best to communicate in a way.And now they have been married for a long time.Language barrier isn't a big deal if they really want.But in this case I can't see this man really makes big effort.Almost nothing. Anna is the only one who really tries.
Murcel is like a fourth child for Anna. Her 16 year old son is more mature than he is. He can't work, he can't drive, he can't socialize because he can't speak English.and he has the smallest shoulders I have ever seen on an adult!
I DONT KN OW HOW SHE HAS TH E PATIENCE, i WOULD NOT GO PASS THE FIRST DATE
Why from the start mursel never told Anna about this issue before they go so far....it's so sad for the kids...
He did. She knows and continued with the relationship anyway😕
Here kids are being traumatized. It's really scary, as a child, to see your parent, that is supposed to protect you, making stupid choices. The child has to become the adult. I know this firsthand. I lived my childhood in survival mode. I'm sure many people can relate.