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THANKS. I notice you repeatedly comment on workplace romances. In Wisconsin, USA, dating a fellow employee is prohibited. One or the other would have to be transferred or terminated. It isn't LAW, but necessary business practice to prevent lawsuits when the relationship sours and accusations - nearly ALWAYS by women - are made in retaliation.
@Steve A Profanity is not necessary. I am self-employed, so it isn't an issue for me, personally. However, I could not allow fraternizing among employees if I should hire some again. I cannot afford lawsuits my insurance will not cover. Sexual harassment lawsuits and even criminal charges are no joke! Even getting closer than 2 ft facing a person without consent is criminal disorderly conduct and/or harassment here. An unwelcome kiss on the cheek can get one 18 months in jail and 15 years on the sex offender registry.
The girl in college has done all of that to me but at the end of the day she rejected me. And this is her behavior she does to many guys. I don't know what she tries to find among the guys but to me I once thought she wants to know how guys look at her beauty....maybe am wrong!!!
As a man who has been involved in quite a few long term relationships, the last point is a dead give away to run. If she is hot and cold she is emotionally unstable and it might take you some time to figure that out after you have been totally invested into the relationship. If they are slightly unstable in the beginning, they are trying to hide how unstable she really is, so RUN while you can.
Yeah, but the crazy ones are usually the hottest. But if you hit it, you may be sorry! Too late if you form a pair-bond with her, and it can be painful later.
So... let me get this straight... A woman who is interested in you never directly says so, behaves like a manipulative stalker, and follows you around, studying you, and pretending first to be your friend, which seems genuine until you tell her you enjoy having her as a friend. Then, since she concludes she has been unsuccessful in making you fall over yourself when she believes she has shown you the proper amount of sexy to gain this reaction, she rejects your offer of friendship because she never really wanted to be your friend. She was only faking interests and acting friendly. And we haven't even gotten to the part where she begins to attempt to mold you into what she ideally wants you to be while completely ignoring your identity and what is important to you (if it doesn't involve or include her).
She wants a guy who is somewhat respectable who earns a sufficient income to father her children and support her and her children for the rest of their lives. Looks and Love is not a factor in this equation.
Key thoughts: They want to be friends because they need you for something other than a relationship. This happens if you are a competent man. This is the friendzone. She will continue to do this to keep you at the ready. The disarming phase is fake. She is only doing this to be able to manipulate you and your feelings. Once a relationship is established, she will do a 180 and then belittle you for having interests other than her happiness and well being. The attack phase will never actually happen. You will still need to do the work and validate yourself to you. She really only brings maybe 3 holes to the game. Spending time with you is too keep her from feeling lonely and letting you spend your resources on her while she is in the process of finding a man she actually has desire for. You won't really know for sure : This is the key part of this entire video. It's all a game to her. Whatever she has to do to get the most benefit out of you. She just needs a pop off the old validation pipe. This is a woman's true nature. The simple answer to all this is adopt a dog.
So, you just don't really LIKE "women" at all, is that what you're saying? Just so you know, there's a word for that. MISOGYNY. And it's kind of a shitty attitude to hold.
A man and a woman being friends is a fallacy, in this day of age were either getting physical or move on, you're a schmuck if you give a woman free attention.
Well said. I had a buddy hit on a girl he liked. She said she didnt want it to ruin their friendship. He epically responded, how about we ruin our friendship all over your face! Guy made legendary status.
All a man needs to do is concentrate on working on himSELF. Hit the gym. Get a career rather than a mere job. Develop and follow through with a solid financial plan to save for retirement (even if only $10/wk is all you can afford to sock away). Most of all, establish interests other than women...perhaps hobbies, intellectual pursuits, recreational pursuits, spiritual endeavors, etc. Just develop YOU completely independent of women and they will come to you without you trying. And for God's sake, DON'T be a simp. Good luck gentlemen!
I can't think of a guy who wouldn't want a woman to come straight out the gate with a direct , honest and open approach. There'd be a lot less game playing if women just put their feelings , other than when they're pissed off , on the line. Guys want that !
Except when he's not attracted to her. There's nothing worse than trying to shake a woman that wants you but you don't want her. Why do you think women complain about men like that so much? Trust me, I've had woman, that I didn't want, be straight up with me and it was not as appealing as it sounds. You feel trapped. Especially when the woman won't take "no" for an answer.
I have been doing that and this person responds to it ....... then a while later goes back to acting like a Narcissistic person. I told her i was going to block her number and briefly she played nice then not anymore
I did exactly the same to a coworker , she’s extremely rude to me now. She used to be nice . I just don’t even say hello if we cross etc . Just completely ignoring her
Everytime a woman seduces me subtly, I take my time seducing them and then I find they aren't interested in dating. They just wanted validation from me for a quick pick me up.
Sexualize the interaction right from the beginning, make them feel they are talking to a man and there is no space to play with a "boy". They will respect that, might scare most but you should get some to be aroused so you can close on a date there.
My ex told me FLAT OUT that she wasn't attracted to me but since we were neighbors and we both ended up single we just started hanging out doing stuff together for like a whole year before she POUNCED on me. I asked her what about the whole not being attracted to me thing? She said "I lied."
They do that. Thing is it probably wasn't so much to you she lied but to herself. They change their minds alot so much so she forgot the last thing she wanted after she got it.
I will give ALL of you young men out there reading this my best advice: the mind "thought process" of a woman or girl is like that of both a "CAT" and also a "SNAKE". Study the characteristics of both. Learn them very well. If you can master the mind of both of these animals then you will understand how the mind of a female thinks and you will out wit her and never fall for her seduction tactics, traps, lies, deceitfulness, cunning and most of all, her MANIPULATIONS. Be very careful young man who you give your heart to because if you give it to the wrong woman, she will rip it to shreds and she will hand it back to you wounded and you will become bitter, angry, disheartened, disappointed and jaded...and in the worse case scenario, revengeful. A woman's beauty is only SKIN DEEP. You're very very lucky if you can find a woman who has a heart ONLY for you...for a lifetime. She's rarer than gold. Read proverbs 31
Indeed! The only thing I would add is to master yourself through God's word. Do not be controlled by lust or your own ego, therefore you will not be trapped because your heart will be directed to, and shielded by, higher things. Also, a good woman will pick up on that and God willing you will have a good starting point!
You may count that as a blessing.. Many women are very difficult to live with. Not all but many. The reality is the woman likes it when the man approaches her. MAY BE you only need to work on your own life. Just be friendly. If they say they are not interested. So what, you are not interested in every woman either. It is just meeting your match. Until then EnJOY Your own life.
Iv been rejected by women that actually turned out did like me. They were overly shy when i would ask them out and id find myself still being single only for their friends to come apologizing to me trying to convince me to try again rather then move on to the next person. People need to stop being so fearful of the very things they want. Of course nobody wants to feel rejected but if your giving off the signs to attract me to you and then you back out despite actually still liking me, while you protected your own feelings you just potentially hurt someone else for your own sake after drawing that vary person to you. Honestly, rejection does suck. So its nice that women do give signals and iv known about them but like me, too many men have been left on a cliff after putting ourselves out there after reading those signals. Im in a relationship now but it still happens too often to other men.
I had a younger, real smoke show of a woman showing interest in me at work. The problem with that is if you get it wrong you're up on sexual harassment charges.
@@catrashoo These days asking someone from work out on a date can and has gotten people in hot water. Some women are psycho and some men are stalkers. A person totally uninvolved can get you in trouble.
@@rickbailey189 True, bro... Girls can't even distinguish between a true lover and a player. Many times I have kept myself from approaching women out of the fear of being misunderstood.
It seems the term has evolved a lot since I was in the game. 50 years ago "seduce" meant ripping your clothes off and having sex until morning. Not simply trying to woo someone.
@@lloydkline1518 Its same now . But it ends with question "How much do you earn ?" If she is not satisfied , she will ditch you and move on. Maybe if you paid for the drink /food she may sleep with you, most likely not
So hard to make a move in the current society. The ‘Me Too’ movement and judging actions long ago in the past by today’s standards are very daunting. I’m not sure, even if I perceive everything you mentioned in this vlog, that I’d be willing to make the first move.
Well if she's a purple haired SJW and purposely make them selves look UGLY.....forgetaboutit....go for a conservative woman ...they actually LOOK like women....act like women....and won't be so judging.....
Sounds more like a build up to a relationship proposal than seduction. From my experience, the seductress usually says, "I'm going home, are you coming?"
Hi. I just stumbled on this and I wasn’t expecting to like it, but DAMN! Spot on! One thing,- none of these actions are inherently negative- quite the opposite- unless the PERSON DOING THEM is Bad. These are instinctual behaviors than can be exploited or enhanced depending on the person. Use your powers for good and not evil!
Gaawd, the amount of girls i missed out on in my twenties who were interested, but I was crap at reading signals. " Didn't you realise she was in to you?" was a fairly familiar refrain from friends.....DOH !
you will be very surprised when GOD rolls the video of your life in front of the angels and shows you ALL of the opportunities or signals you missed from women who were interested in you BUT you were either too busy to notice them or else they were just too shy to come right out and show you they were interested. Don't feel bad for yourself there guy, it is going to happen to a lot of us guys.
@@rickbailey189 When God rolls the vid of my life in front of me I have a very strong feeling that missing out on girls will be the least of my concerns.
If they actually said that to someone, is probably not true, most women just want to add more simps to their friendzones and tell their friends they are interested, you live and you learn, if she was actually interested you would not miss it.
Yeah, When they use another guy to try and make me jealous, (as this has happened at least 3 times in my younger days) that really turns me off!!! And there is nothing she can do to reverse that thing that has turned me OFF!!! Because that shows she is manipulative and does not care about someone else's feelings as long as she gets what she wants!!! BIG TURN OFF!!!!
This was good advice I think CC is pretty accurate. I recently think I've witnessed this behavior from my now current GF. Who is way to dam beautiful for me to think she would be interested but I reciprocated when I found out she's interested. Rediculous good looking woman and we are so much alike.
I have literally never had a woman do ANY of this, and I have not had a bad go of it over the years. However, it was impossible for me to turn away from a gorgeous woman with one of the sexiest accents I have ever heard telling me about all the things women have never done for me.
I have never been seduced by any woman and at my age they tend to think of me as a sugar daddy rather than a potential lover with that being said most women won't give me the time of day. I work outside most of the time so the chances of meeting a hot sexy lady is slim and none and those I meet at their workplace leave very little room for flirting as the places they work have policies in place regarding interaction with customers. Most of the time I end up in the friendzone or thought of as a dirty old man. So my advice to ladies is stop acting coy and be more direct when you think a man appeals to you because some of us may have something that needs to be done and have no time to waste on mindgames.
I am SO VERY GLAD that I missed all the "signals" from all the girls over all the years until I found the One who I wanted to be my best friend, my lover, my sweet-heart, my partner, my wife; over all the miles and all the years, over all the decades, and on into age, I am so grateful that I found her.
A smile doesn't say much. Not at all really. The girl is probably just friendly if she smiles at you. I smiled at lots of girls I had absolutely zero romantic or sexual interest in.
I do so hope you can experience the attention of a woman. I was with one for 43 years until that awful day life left her. I have since been close to three ladies, not to last with two, so sad,but still meeting one. Hopes for more than intimacy.
The more of the BS the women cast and you miss, the better off you are. If you llike a woman and would like to know her better YOU lead the way. Her way is messy and you will not come out feeling very good about the whole thing.
orrrrrr, they could do what one chic did with me... just flat out told me she wanted to date me. simple and clear. and it was the most dynamic dating experience of my life so far, in every way. So, cut all the junk, ladies... just walk up and ask the guy. save us all a lot of time and headache.
To be realistic, no one whether man or woman wants to be rejected. Therefore the flirting and seduction game will go on because it serves the purpose of indirectly finding out whether someone is interested in the person who is doing the flirting.
One of the very things that women do to men to try and seduce them is dropping lots of compliments, and that's OK, she is trying to be nice, if a guy tries that, he's being creepy, wtf?
@@1gunsalute101 you know what buddy, I am probably old enough to be your father I have lived and loved lots and am just stating a fact regarding modern waamen, so if you don't like it,tough, suck it up !
All I know as an old guy, it never used to be so complicated. Listening to this video, one can only surmise that today's women spend much too much time comparing notes with other women on line. They do what they do, then try to find some way to rationalize it. In my day, men did not like complications, drama or indirect signaling.
Very informative and I wish I saw this in my 20s and in my early years I found the extremes significant ,one moment she's carry on like your the one ,next day she's treating you like she's just been assaulted in a bad way ,then she's in love again ,I'm thinking I cant handle this and distanced myself from the ladies for a peaceful existence.
Come on, every man knows if a woman is interested or not. The game is pretending we don't know what they're doing so we don't make them think we think they're a skank. Yeah, women love to think they're smarter than men, that's all part of the game.
Well it took about two minutes into this to realize no women ever wanted to seduce me. No woman ever wanted to be my friend or spend more time with me. It was always a struggle to get them to give me the time of day. Anyway, Joyanima you are lovely and very charming and I love your accent.
Henry you are being pathetic It is a numbers game - just like getting a job in your 30s - the more you have some contact with the better accept you may be rejected 100 times and learn something from every rejection eg the way you look ( hairstyle etc) the way you dress the way you walk (!) the way you talk be confident the worst thing that can happen is rejection in public; so what! spend time where you might meet girls which is not in your bedroom on the internet volunteer to help in a charity shop one day a week get a part time job and put all the money to self improvement eg study at night school something you like.
Women need to stop being subtle as guys aren't the same as women so won't notice the subtle advances. The other thing is that guys will tend to just assume she wants to be friends and will leave it at that because if we get it wrong then we can also make terrible mistakes and so will avoid doing so. Being let down is I'm afraid an inevitably of life that we need to learn to accept. However, we shouldn't avoid letting someone know we are interested in them. If they don't feel the same way then it's ok, not everyone is going to want to be with us or even be in any kind if relationship at all. The only way you will ever know is to ask. Don't expect them to say yes and that it could be a no. Also, if it is a no, don't define yourself as not good enough as there may be many reasons why the person says no and none of them may be related to you in any way whatsoever.
Women today are terrified of rejection. No cap when most see u. They decide they gonna sleep with you. Up to you to pick it up. And game on. So technically they make the first. Just unsaid
I'm usually pretty astute and sharp on a lot of things but not the subtle hints/signals of women, lol. I'm clueless on that. It's gotten to where I misread them so bad and so often I made a fool of myself so I play everything down, even if they are direct and clear.
It is important to remember that you can seduce any man without taking anything off, without touching him. Super valuable video, you have very interesting angles to things, and you look GORGEOUS! Thanks
Poor woman, she might as well have spilled the secrets of the illuminati. The sisterhood won't be pleased with this flagrant violation of their non-disclosure rules.
The disarming stage... a friend of my had 2 dates with a chick. she did the 'manipulative' way of the interest. when she was at home she texted him that they have many things in common and blocked HIM!! Anna, what the hell she did. thats disgusting!!
@ʝơყąŋıɱą The disarming stage... a friend of my had 2 dates with a chick. she did the 'manipulative' way of the interest. when she was at home she texted him that they have many things in common and blocked HIM!! Anna, what the hell she did. thats disgusting!!
That is strange behaviour! Maybe she had some unresolved issues relating to an ex boyfriend or something similar. You never know what other people are going through to make them behave the way they do.
You do know that if a woman likes a man, then she will skip all of those steps and jump right to it. There are guys and women who sleep together on the first date; thus, all of those steps are for women who dont know if they really want you or not. You know those type of women who go "hot and cold" ... or the yes today and no tomorrow types.
I agree to an extent on most of these topics, but there's to much grey area. Most women lash out when things don't go their way. A man delivery could be amazing and still get the same irrational outbursts, not to mention the amount of grudge they will continue to hold. Women lost their way a little; just my opinion.
lol I completely didn't realize a woman at the store was making an opportunity to flirt this weekend, as usual, until long after leaving. Until next time, I guess! Also, in retrospect, what she did was super clever, and if I'd been a bit more aware, in stead of trying to send a photo of the bad pun on the merchandise to my sister, I might not have missed the nuance in her behavior.
A lot of guys think women don't approach. I've found they throw out signals and approach all the time! The key is learning to recognize the cues because men don't pick up on social cues nearly as well women do!
If your a man getting love bombed, watch out because its the first sign of a female covert narcissist. She can turn into a crazy person and want to destroy you in family court. She can too because the laws favor her. Just never marry - tell her the risk is too high and divorce benefits only her.
@@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything Of course it is you idjit. Fear is the result of danger. If you can't see that all men are in danger with very real "family" laws skewed against men lobbied for by man haters, you are a fool.
often times just knowing for sure someone is crushing on you makes you crush hard for them back. Like they were never bad, but perhaps you had your eye on someone else and didn't really consider the other person until you realized they like you.
So here we come to the crux of the issue of dating. Instead of being straight forward with men, women would rather manipulate men into thinking they are someone they aren't to try to get them to like them. Then when it works and you start dating them you find out that not only are they not the person they pretended to be, but also that they never had any real interest in anything she pretended to be interested in. So let me get this straight... the female dating strategy is; be fake as fuck till he agrees to date/marry you. (Whatever your goal is) Then and only then can you take the mask off and show him your true self. Real winning strategy ladies... keep it up I think it's working. The sharp decline in divorce rates is proof of that... oh wait nvm. Well on the plus side I think we figured out why most relationships don't last. And all it took was for one woman to be honest about the games they play. Although this may not have been the intended outcome of this video, it has been truly enlightening. Thank you
I know, right? This is childish, junior high stuff that kids used to put out in their school newspaper. This is equivalent to an adult who reads the horoscope section everyday in their local daily newspaper and then takes it serious.
No one can agree with you as much as me. You hit it right on the head. Everything you said, my sentiments exactly. People wonder why the divorce rate is so high. Well, there you go. It was not the intent of her video but she pretty much displayed the thought process of modern "women".
Couldn't agree more, pretty recently got hurt a lot, but also matured a lot as a result, by a woman playing all the games with me. I was too naive at the younger times in my life, but boy was she a learning experience. You summed it up with a pretty little bow. Now she gets nothing, except her miserable co-dependent abusive relationship with the person that really cares about her, enough to beat his property when it steps out of line.
The thing about myself, from my point of view, is that I don't show any interest when I'm not in the mood. As a consequence, that makes me a hard-to-get individual during those periods, but I can also be engaging and flirty while not actually feeling any attraction towards the other party when I'm in a good mood and just looking to make them blush from shyness- it's cute when they react like that.
The minds of women regarding men are incredibly frustrating. Almost all of them seem to think, on some level, that men are intellectually inferior, or at the very least, oblivious to subtleties. And how do they seduce? Subtly, and in a way that some women do when they just wanna be friends 🤦♂️ It can't be both, ladies. Either we're morons, or geniuses. Pick a lane and behave accordingly.
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I’ve had some really push themselves into the move’s. However I let them down easy by letting them know I’m happily married. But they are in great class of runners. That’s make’s feel better. And I’m still in love after 46 years of marriage.
They used to just walk up to me, and say" do you want some of this" it was easy enough. I had one, I didn't even think she liked me because she was always being a smart-ass towards me. One day she came up to me at work, grab me by the head and started licking my ear, and asked me if I've ever had a tongue bath.... I almost passed out, because she was married and her husband worked at the same place we did, and I was like what the f!!!!! That just came out of nowhere and I was really shocked. I just told her that's one thing I would never do is run around with a married woman. For real, that one just came out of nowhere.
Some girls believe it or not are not always subtle, there was an older woman a while ago when I was in my 30's who started with putting metal screw on the middle of my desk. At first I didn't know who it was and she never admitted it.
Met my wife when she was 23. I was 34. She was beautiful! We both fell in love at first sight. A month after we met we stayed together. That was almost 38 years ago. True love exists! She's the most sacrificial person I've ever met and best dedicated mother to our 8 children. Lately I've been hit on by very young women. My wife just laughs!
That last one with the "hot and cold" treatment I'm not so sure about.... been hearing enough (from other videos, etc.) that mixed signals like that usually mean they're NOT interested. My own experience seems to confirm that, with me looking and feeling foolish at the end of the day 🤷♂️. "Almost sure" she/they had a possible liking for me...only to then be "flopped".
Just to add that for me personally "subtlety" works on me like a charm 😅.. so I'm not speaking against it in general. But gotta be careful about not mistaking for lack of interest, especially if there's ALSO willingness to manipulate/play games even - or especially - when there's no actual interest.
The girl I like looks like you and the more I find out about her the more I am attracted to her. But we work together and I don't want things to get uncomfortable and ive been single for 10 yrs but everyone else can see theres a fire between us...
Dating is like the lottery; You'll never win if you never try. If you think you have a chance, give it a shot. You have nothing to lose. If you're convinced you're going to fail, don't even bother.
This is how it SHOULD BE: two people meet(usually him/her) straight up: 1)This is what I'm seeking-da da da(outlined) 2)Can you do it? 3)NO marriage UNLESS it IS a PRE-NUPTIAL agreement WITHOUT loopholes signed by BOTH parties in front of legal marriage attorneys and notarized with the county court. 4)Witnesses: parents or guardians and siblings 5)NO 50%/50% IF the marriage ends. It is only whatever DIRECT finances each partner applies to the marriage. I.E. If he buys the home with HIS $$ alone NOT hers and pays the mortgage payments on time, HE gets the house NOT her. 6)If there is a divorce, whoever is the most responsible and financially sound partner gets the kids 7)Most importantly, by law in that state, BOTH have to attend a couples course in marriage in addition to sufficient marriage counseling PRIOR to an agreement, including a compatibility test to see if BOTH agree on many different levels. Yeah, it should be this tough to get married in America. ENOUGH of this frivolous divorce in America. Put an end to this game. Get the "gold glitter" out of woman's eyes and no more "slam bam thank you ma'am and off I go to the next gal I can screw." Enough of this horse-s- - -. You want to marry mister or ma'am? Then you WILL act like mature adults and NOT say, "what can I get from you, sucker?" Bury that in the ground or else toss it into the ocean. If all this sounds too harsh, then stay with your hairy 4 legged friend(s). It's a nice alternative.
@@elliotloranger437 It is NOT a great speech. I'm trying to save traditional marriage in America. Most importantly, for the sake of the children. I'm attempting to offer a solution.
@@rickbailey189 wth? Someone compliments your ideas and that is how you respond? If you really are trying to save "traditional marriage," I hope you are doing more than making comments on RUclips videos. If you believe the strongly, go out and do something about it.
@@elliotloranger437 Thank You so very much IF it sounded like a speech. My apologies to you if I sounded harsh. No malice intended. Fortunately, You Tube is allowing me to offer a probable solution to the very high divorce rate in America which I see marriage in America as a dying institution. Marriage IS a serious COMMITMENT not to be taken lightly as some may think. Thank You if you read it entirely.
When a woman tells me she just wants to be friends. I sit back and may say thank you as I as trying to think of how to say the same in a nice way ( in a sweet voice of course). Or I have said "I wasn't in the mood anyway" depending on how things went. Oh I was a long haired bar tender back in the mid 70's.
At least now I know no woman want me. Plus if she's around you all the time at work, hmmm, sounds like a sexual harrassment case against you at work, you will loose everything, she gets off free. Rule one, never get involved with someone from work.
So, say a year and half into a relationship, one day a man finds out that she doesn’t really like golf, or anything else he’s really interested in. He doesn’t truly know her at all. The relationship is sabotaged before it even gets started. Doesn’t seem like a winning strategy for either party.
She stands close to you She positions her body in a way that allows you to see certain things. She entises you and then pulls away. Then you pluck up the courage to ask her out and she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
Damd, shot down on the first sign -- I've never had a lady wanted to be a friend, acquaintance through other friends (that I would hang out with), but never a friend with me, awe well -- that's life 😁
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You have a spam / scam account that hopefully you can get removed. I reported it.
THANKS. I notice you repeatedly comment on workplace romances. In Wisconsin, USA, dating a fellow employee is prohibited. One or the other would have to be transferred or terminated. It isn't LAW, but necessary business practice to prevent lawsuits when the relationship sours and accusations - nearly ALWAYS by women - are made in retaliation.
Thank you! I've been trying to get these removed last few evenings. Thanks for reporting though, it helps a lot :)
@Steve A Profanity is not necessary. I am self-employed, so it isn't an issue for me, personally. However, I could not allow fraternizing among employees if I should hire some again. I cannot afford lawsuits my insurance will not cover. Sexual harassment lawsuits and even criminal charges are no joke! Even getting closer than 2 ft facing a person without consent is criminal disorderly conduct and/or harassment here. An unwelcome kiss on the cheek can get one 18 months in jail and 15 years on the sex offender registry.
The girl in college has done all of that to me but at the end of the day she rejected me. And this is her behavior she does to many guys. I don't know what she tries to find among the guys but to me I once thought she wants to know how guys look at her beauty....maybe am wrong!!!
As a man who has been involved in quite a few long term relationships, the last point is a dead give away to run. If she is hot and cold she is emotionally unstable and it might take you some time to figure that out after you have been totally invested into the relationship. If they are slightly unstable in the beginning, they are trying to hide how unstable she really is, so RUN while you can.
This. Never go for the unstable ones. Better for ones mental and physical health
Yeah, but the crazy ones are usually the hottest. But if you hit it, you may be sorry! Too late if you form a pair-bond with her, and it can be painful later.
So... let me get this straight... A woman who is interested in you never directly says so, behaves like a manipulative stalker, and follows you around, studying you, and pretending first to be your friend, which seems genuine until you tell her you enjoy having her as a friend. Then, since she concludes she has been unsuccessful in making you fall over yourself when she believes she has shown you the proper amount of sexy to gain this reaction, she rejects your offer of friendship because she never really wanted to be your friend. She was only faking interests and acting friendly. And we haven't even gotten to the part where she begins to attempt to mold you into what she ideally wants you to be while completely ignoring your identity and what is important to you (if it doesn't involve or include her).
walk away from their childish games
Sweet Narcissist lol
'Bout covers it yeah.
Hit the nail on the head there I'd say
Some bruised men in this thread.
Maybe I'm cynical but when a woman suddenly takes a positive interest in me, I wonder what it is she really wants from me.
Your money
It's that big bulge in your trousers. The one where the back hip pocket is.
She want a sperm donor she want a piece of meat
@@septimus64 IT'S ALWAYS ABOUT THE MONEY!!!!!!!!!
She wants a guy who is somewhat respectable who earns a sufficient income to father her children and support her and her children for the rest of their lives. Looks and Love is not a factor in this equation.
Key thoughts: They want to be friends because they need you for something other than a relationship. This happens if you are a competent man. This is the friendzone. She will continue to do this to keep you at the ready. The disarming phase is fake. She is only doing this to be able to manipulate you and your feelings. Once a relationship is established, she will do a 180 and then belittle you for having interests other than her happiness and well being. The attack phase will never actually happen. You will still need to do the work and validate yourself to you. She really only brings maybe 3 holes to the game. Spending time with you is too keep her from feeling lonely and letting you spend your resources on her while she is in the process of finding a man she actually has desire for. You won't really know for sure : This is the key part of this entire video. It's all a game to her. Whatever she has to do to get the most benefit out of you. She just needs a pop off the old validation pipe. This is a woman's true nature. The simple answer to all this is adopt a dog.
Adopt a dog that's good
So, you just don't really LIKE "women" at all, is that what you're saying?
Just so you know, there's a word for that.
MISOGYNY.
And it's kind of a shitty attitude to hold.
A man and a woman being friends is a fallacy, in this day of age were either getting physical or move on, you're a schmuck if you give a woman free attention.
"She really only brings maybe 3 holes to the game" 🤣 your incel is showing
Well said. I had a buddy hit on a girl he liked. She said she didnt want it to ruin their friendship. He epically responded, how about we ruin our friendship all over your face! Guy made legendary status.
All a man needs to do is concentrate on working on himSELF. Hit the gym. Get a career rather than a mere job. Develop and follow through with a solid financial plan to save for retirement (even if only $10/wk is all you can afford to sock away). Most of all, establish interests other than women...perhaps hobbies, intellectual pursuits, recreational pursuits, spiritual endeavors, etc. Just develop YOU completely independent of women and they will come to you without you trying. And for God's sake, DON'T be a simp. Good luck gentlemen!
Do not save the money for her. Do it for you!
I can't think of a guy who wouldn't want a woman to come straight out the gate with a direct , honest and open approach. There'd be a lot less game playing if women just put their feelings , other than when they're pissed off , on the line. Guys want that !
Except when he's not attracted to her. There's nothing worse than trying to shake a woman that wants you but you don't want her. Why do you think women complain about men like that so much? Trust me, I've had woman, that I didn't want, be straight up with me and it was not as appealing as it sounds. You feel trapped. Especially when the woman won't take "no" for an answer.
@@no-bozos absolutely
@@no-bozos good for you never had that happen to me tho XD
Agreed
@@d4rkdream592 - You haven't missed anything. Trust me.
I’m A Straight Forward type of Guy.I’ve Got No Time For mind games, I Like Saying how I feel right away and cutting through the BS.
I have been doing that and this person responds to it ....... then a while later goes back to acting like a Narcissistic person. I told her i was going to block her number and briefly she played nice then not anymore
Absolutely 👍
@@russellmiller6023 Narcissist -you got away easy
I did exactly the same to a coworker , she’s extremely rude to me now. She used to be nice . I just don’t even say hello if we cross etc . Just completely ignoring her
Everytime a woman seduces me subtly, I take my time seducing them and then I find they aren't interested in dating. They just wanted validation from me for a quick pick me up.
Yep. "Just checking. Thanks. Good bye."
Sexualize the interaction right from the beginning, make them feel they are talking to a man and there is no space to play with a "boy". They will respect that, might scare most but you should get some to be aroused so you can close on a date there.
Haha so true
If a coworker is trying to seduce you, run. You are just 1 disagreement away from being me too'ed.
Dont you mean in HR for trumped up bogus claims....
The old saying goes, "Don't shit where you eat."
RUN RUN RUN
Most likely they are not fit enough to chase you!
If you ignore them it sometimes just makes them try harder.
Woman coworkers ❤️ stud service/ one night stands:: lust/ love ❤️ drug
It's a breath of fresh air, to see that you're a humble person and have a good vibe.
My ex told me FLAT OUT that she wasn't attracted to me but since we were neighbors and we both ended up single we just started hanging out doing stuff together for like a whole year before she POUNCED on me.
I asked her what about the whole not being attracted to me thing?
She said "I lied."
Key words: "I lied".
Not a surprise really.
I don’t know why I heard this in the terminator voice
Imagine that!
@@spadesofpaintstudios1719 SAME
They do that. Thing is it probably wasn't so much to you she lied but to herself. They change their minds alot so much so she forgot the last thing she wanted after she got it.
I will give ALL of you young men out there reading this my best advice: the mind "thought process" of a woman or girl is like that of both a "CAT" and also a "SNAKE". Study the characteristics of both. Learn them very well. If you can master the mind of both of these animals then you will understand how the mind of a female thinks and you will out wit her and never fall for her seduction tactics, traps, lies, deceitfulness, cunning and most of all, her MANIPULATIONS. Be very careful young man who you give your heart to because if you give it to the wrong woman, she will rip it to shreds and she will hand it back to you wounded and you will become bitter, angry, disheartened, disappointed and jaded...and in the worse case scenario, revengeful. A woman's beauty is only SKIN DEEP. You're very very lucky if you can find a woman who has a heart ONLY for you...for a lifetime. She's rarer than gold. Read proverbs 31
X2!
Indeed! The only thing I would add is to master yourself through God's word. Do not be controlled by lust or your own ego, therefore you will not be trapped because your heart will be directed to, and shielded by, higher things. Also, a good woman will pick up on that and God willing you will have a good starting point!
Well... At least now I am pretty sure that no one ever tried to seduce me.
You might have missed the subtle signs!
@@Joyanima Your video is literally "she will make it obvious and treat you different there are no subtle signs".
LOL
@@Joyanima I don't think theres alot to miss when they show outright disgust, i want to blow my fucking brains out, thanks RUclips.
You may count that as a blessing.. Many women are very difficult to live with. Not all but many. The reality is the woman likes it when the man approaches her. MAY BE you only need to work on your own life. Just be friendly. If they say they are not interested. So what, you are not interested in every woman either. It is just meeting your match. Until then EnJOY Your own life.
I might feel lucky if woman tries to get to know me better because I am so unlucky in love..x
Iv been rejected by women that actually turned out did like me. They were overly shy when i would ask them out and id find myself still being single only for their friends to come apologizing to me trying to convince me to try again rather then move on to the next person. People need to stop being so fearful of the very things they want. Of course nobody wants to feel rejected but if your giving off the signs to attract me to you and then you back out despite actually still liking me, while you protected your own feelings you just potentially hurt someone else for your own sake after drawing that vary person to you. Honestly, rejection does suck. So its nice that women do give signals and iv known about them but like me, too many men have been left on a cliff after putting ourselves out there after reading those signals. Im in a relationship now but it still happens too often to other men.
Rejection is the feeling we up to accept
I had a younger, real smoke show of a woman showing interest in me at work. The problem with that is if you get it wrong you're up on sexual harassment charges.
Dodged a bullet, bruh !! Respect.
Inviting a girl out for a dinner or a coffee can't be qualified as a sexual harassment.
@@catrashoo These days asking someone from work out on a date can and has gotten people in hot water.
Some women are psycho and some men are stalkers.
A person totally uninvolved can get you in trouble.
Man, it was great in the olden days when humans understood each other through emotions. Nowadays, it's hard to find out Who's interested in whom!
That's what technology has done to us all. It has DE-humanized us all. And it has also de-sensitized us. We are all being "programmed."
@@rickbailey189 True, bro...
Girls can't even distinguish between a true lover and a player. Many times I have kept myself from approaching women out of the fear of being misunderstood.
It seems the term has evolved a lot since I was in the game. 50 years ago "seduce" meant ripping your clothes off and having sex until morning. Not simply trying to woo someone.
then what was sex ?
50 years ago; seducing woman means getting her at the bar & getting her drunk:: touching her hair ;; letting you touching her body
@@lloydkline1518
Its same now . But it ends with question "How much do you earn ?" If she is not satisfied , she will ditch you and move on.
Maybe if you paid for the drink /food she may sleep with you, most likely not
Uh no. Seduce, 50 yrs ago, STILL meant "attempting to convince..."
@@johnnichols3132 Lol...
I guess it must be timeless. Regardless of interpretation it's always a good thing!
"She's studying you... she's not being creepy, she's trying to be nice so that you know that she also likes you", yeah but if a guy does it.... 6:46
Exactly. The double standard is astounding with these creatures. Just ignore them at all cost and don't give them ANY attention whatsoever.
@@nonexistenceisbliss9528 just depends on the girl
Red flag after red flag behavior.
So hard to make a move in the current society. The ‘Me Too’ movement and judging actions long ago in the past by today’s standards are very daunting. I’m not sure, even if I perceive everything you mentioned in this vlog, that I’d be willing to make the first move.
Well if she's a purple haired SJW and purposely make them selves look UGLY.....forgetaboutit....go for a conservative woman ...they actually LOOK like women....act like women....and won't be so judging.....
@@jinisteffani8035 Solid advice. 👍
I think you're overstating the difficulty. You can "make a move," just be respectful, don't act entitled, and be able to take no for an answer.
@@theprousteffect9717 Or just put them into paroxysms of anxiety & rage by ignoring them.
Very good observation. Young women today, are completely different creature than the young women from the 70s and 80s.... And not in a good way.
Sounds more like a build up to a relationship proposal than seduction. From my experience, the seductress usually says, "I'm going home, are you coming?"
Duuuuuude. Love that. I want some.
Hi. I just stumbled on this and I wasn’t expecting to like it, but DAMN! Spot on!
One thing,- none of these actions are inherently negative- quite the opposite- unless the PERSON DOING THEM is Bad.
These are instinctual behaviors than can be exploited or enhanced depending on the person.
Use your powers for good and not evil!
Wish I had heard this 33 years ago.
Tell me about it.. 🐸
it's never late tho
On a positive note ...seems like you just fell in her trap and now you cant escape ...
@@ving3573 I wouldn't say it was a trap, I just failed to see the signs there was interest.
You're not related to Jason by chance?
Gaawd, the amount of girls i missed out on in my twenties who were interested, but I was crap at reading signals. " Didn't you realise she was in to you?" was a fairly familiar refrain from friends.....DOH !
me too happens to all of us - but the most obvious ones I did not fancy
you will be very surprised when GOD rolls the video of your life in front of the angels and shows you ALL of the opportunities or signals you missed from women who were interested in you BUT you were either too busy to notice them or else they were just too shy to come right out and show you they were interested.
Don't feel bad for yourself there guy, it is going to happen to a lot of us guys.
@@rickbailey189 When God rolls the vid of my life in front of me I have a very strong feeling that missing out on girls will be the least of my concerns.
@@spanishpeaches2930 I guess they're gonna be "small potatoes" trivial compared to the bigger issues you've faced in life.
If they actually said that to someone, is probably not true, most women just want to add more simps to their friendzones and tell their friends they are interested, you live and you learn, if she was actually interested you would not miss it.
Yeah, When they use another guy to try and make me jealous, (as this has happened at least 3 times in my younger days) that really turns me off!!! And there is nothing she can do to reverse that thing that has turned me OFF!!! Because that shows she is manipulative and does not care about someone else's feelings as long as she gets what she wants!!! BIG TURN OFF!!!!
This was good advice I think CC is pretty accurate. I recently think I've witnessed this behavior from my now current GF. Who is way to dam beautiful for me to think she would be interested but I reciprocated when I found out she's interested. Rediculous good looking woman and we are so much alike.
I have learned that you simply don't date coworkers.
Never mix work and pleasure I tried it once no good
Yep. I married a colleague and will never do it again. 🤢
I have literally never had a woman do ANY of this, and I have not had a bad go of it over the years.
However, it was impossible for me to turn away from a gorgeous woman with one of the sexiest accents I have ever heard telling me about all the things women have never done for me.
Same. And if she always totally ignored me then started to want to hang around me I'd be pretty suspicious of whats actually going on.
She may be trying to see if a guy you know nothing about gets jealous and makes a move.
Cheers for the tips, I'm absolutely useless when it comes at reading the signs... I'm always driving down the opposite way down one way roads 🤣
I have never been seduced by any woman and at my age they tend to think of me as a sugar daddy rather than a potential lover with that being said most women won't give me the time of day. I work outside most of the time so the chances of meeting a hot sexy lady is slim and none and those I meet at their workplace leave very little room for flirting as the places they work have policies in place regarding interaction with customers. Most of the time I end up in the friendzone or thought of as a dirty old man. So my advice to ladies is stop acting coy and be more direct when you think a man appeals to you because some of us may have something that needs to be done and have no time to waste on mindgames.
I am SO VERY GLAD that I missed all the "signals" from all the girls over all the years until I found the One who I wanted to be my best friend, my lover, my sweet-heart, my partner, my wife; over all the miles and all the years, over all the decades, and on into age, I am so grateful that I found her.
these are good to know, but need to be followed up with ways to get out the situation without having to call the cops
It's in their eyes when they smile at you. Just the sight of you makes them happy. You can usually count on first impressions.
A smile doesn't say much. Not at all really. The girl is probably just friendly if she smiles at you. I smiled at lots of girls I had absolutely zero romantic or sexual interest in.
Delusions from the friendzone
@@claudevinyard4477 I guess it's never happened to you. You and I have different personal experiences.
@@JonBandMiley It's not just the smile. It's the delight.
@@JohnWilliams-channel You mean if I'd get my hormones all altered if a random girl smiles at me, not since high school, you live and you learn.
The problem for me, is that I've never been on a date. I've also never had a woman act this way towards me.
I do so hope you can experience the attention of a woman. I was with one for 43 years until that awful day life left her. I have since been close to three ladies, not to last with two, so sad,but still meeting one. Hopes for more than intimacy.
Lucky you
The hype is definitely better than the problems they bring. You are not missing out my man. It's a blessing in disguise
You have also never been divorce raped either!!!
Great info, a lot of us men including me has missed opportunities because of the small things we did not look for
The more of the BS the women cast and you miss, the better off you are. If you llike a woman and would like to know her better YOU lead the way. Her way is messy and you will not come out feeling very good about the whole thing.
orrrrrr, they could do what one chic did with me... just flat out told me she wanted to date me. simple and clear. and it was the most dynamic dating experience of my life so far, in every way.
So, cut all the junk, ladies... just walk up and ask the guy. save us all a lot of time and headache.
1000% right there.
I'm giving all my neices (and any daughters I may produce) that advice when they come of age.
Indeed
To be realistic, no one whether man or woman wants to be rejected. Therefore the flirting and seduction game will go on because it serves the purpose of indirectly finding out whether someone is interested in the person who is doing the flirting.
One of the very things that women do to men to try and seduce them is dropping lots of compliments, and that's OK, she is trying to be nice, if a guy tries that, he's being creepy, wtf?
Overcomplimenting is a thing, if you've never had someone you're not attracted to do it to you, then you might not know...
@@1gunsalute101 you know what buddy, I am probably old enough to be your father I have lived and loved lots and am just stating a fact regarding modern waamen, so if you don't like it,tough, suck it up !
i know, right? Cute if your handsom, creepy if you're not
All I know as an old guy, it never used to be so complicated. Listening to this video, one can only surmise that today's women spend much too much time comparing notes with other women on line. They do what they do, then try to find some way to rationalize it. In my day, men did not like complications, drama or indirect signaling.
We still don't
+1 for sneezyfido. Please: no drama, no BS, no head fakes. Straight talk is much appreciated.
Very informative and I wish I saw this in my 20s and in my early years I found the extremes significant ,one moment she's carry on like your the one ,next day she's treating you like she's just been assaulted in a bad way ,then she's in love again ,I'm thinking I cant handle this and distanced myself from the ladies for a peaceful existence.
Come on, every man knows if a woman is interested or not. The game is pretending we don't know what they're doing so we don't make them think we think they're a skank. Yeah, women love to think they're smarter than men, that's all part of the game.
Well it took about two minutes into this to realize no women ever wanted to seduce me. No woman ever wanted to be my friend or spend more time with me. It was always a struggle to get them to give me the time of day. Anyway, Joyanima you are lovely and very charming and I love your accent.
Henry you are being pathetic
It is a numbers game - just like getting a job in your 30s - the more you have some contact with the better
accept you may be rejected 100 times and learn something from every rejection
eg the way you look ( hairstyle etc) the way you dress the way you walk (!) the way you talk
be confident the worst thing that can happen is rejection in public; so what!
spend time where you might meet girls which is not in your bedroom on the internet
volunteer to help in a charity shop one day a week
get a part time job and put all the money to self improvement eg study at night school something you like.
They used to treat me this way, too. As I've gotten older, however, they all seem very interested in me. Go figure.
I wish I had this info back in my younger days.... Oh, the opportunities I have let slip through my fingers because of my ignorance!
I've never experienced this in my entire life. Women just walk around waiting for men to come for them, or nothing happens.🤷
This
Women need to stop being subtle as guys aren't the same as women so won't notice the subtle advances.
The other thing is that guys will tend to just assume she wants to be friends and will leave it at that because if we get it wrong then we can also make terrible mistakes and so will avoid doing so.
Being let down is I'm afraid an inevitably of life that we need to learn to accept.
However, we shouldn't avoid letting someone know we are interested in them.
If they don't feel the same way then it's ok, not everyone is going to want to be with us or even be in any kind if relationship at all.
The only way you will ever know is to ask.
Don't expect them to say yes and that it could be a no.
Also, if it is a no, don't define yourself as not good enough as there may be many reasons why the person says no and none of them may be related to you in any way whatsoever.
Brilliant advice!
it is a tightrope to decipher subtle clues, but then again it would seem that they want plausible denial just in case.
And thes days , mistakes can be very costly
Women today are terrified of rejection. No cap when most see u. They decide they gonna sleep with you. Up to you to pick it up. And game on. So technically they make the first. Just unsaid
I'm usually pretty astute and sharp on a lot of things but not the subtle hints/signals of women, lol. I'm clueless on that.
It's gotten to where I misread them so bad and so often I made a fool of myself so I play everything down, even if they are direct and clear.
It is important to remember that you can seduce any man without taking anything off, without touching him.
Super valuable video, you have very interesting angles to things, and you look GORGEOUS!
Thanks
Thank you for your kind comment!
Super simp to the rescue.
"Im not sure if she is trying to seduce me"
The line that put most rapists away for a year....yes. a year.
This explains a lot. I've always wondered why every woman I meet does all of these things.
Glad I'm married to a good woman and have been for nearly 17 years.
Good on you both, nice to hear some happier stories. All the very best for the next 17 mate!
Divorce is only 3 years away.... Plan accordingly.
Nice posts, thanks for sharing & God bless!
Hmmm...interesting...thank you Anna😍 Good to know this. I did noticed it , it had happened to me before but toxic people always managed to ruin it...
Sorry to hear about the toxicity Oliver! Hopefully it's not something you have to deal with again in future!
@@JoyanimaThanks Anna, I appreciate your support🙂
I'm impressed Joyanima, by the way you talk and describe everything so clearly. Thanks for the insight on how a girl seduces a guy.
Poor woman, she might as well have spilled the secrets of the illuminati. The sisterhood won't be pleased with this flagrant violation of their non-disclosure rules.
As has been said you ladies are wonderful for doing this for us guys. We all truly need this
Glad to know I have never missed any signs.
The disarming stage... a friend of my had 2 dates with a chick.
she did the 'manipulative' way of the interest. when she was at home she texted him
that they have many things in common and blocked HIM!!
Anna, what the hell she did. thats disgusting!!
@ʝơყąŋıɱą The disarming stage... a friend of my had 2 dates with a chick.
she did the 'manipulative' way of the interest. when she was at home she texted him
that they have many things in common and blocked HIM!!
Anna, what the hell she did. thats disgusting!!
That is strange behaviour! Maybe she had some unresolved issues relating to an ex boyfriend or something similar. You never know what other people are going through to make them behave the way they do.
This is spot on!!!!! I have experienced this wholeheartedly. I am getting it. Women can be a bit crafty. But i love it!!!!!
You do know that if a woman likes a man, then she will skip all of those steps and jump right to it. There are guys and women who sleep together on the first date; thus, all of those steps are for women who dont know if they really want you or not.
You know those type of women who go "hot and cold" ... or the yes today and no tomorrow types.
Do'em today and let them rest tomorrow, simple. :D
Just started seeing a woman and she remembers everything I tell her. She recalls what I tell her all the time, another seductive skill
This is uplifting ! Thank you Anna
You are so welcome!
Great job... great information!! Thank you.
Or: How to be part of her 3-digit body count.
Black pill, but mostly true.
The common thread in this is there is a woman coming around to try to get your attention so this has nothing to do with me.
That's all ?
still not enough .
But today Anna looks great, 10% better than before 👍
I came for the title as usual, but daaaamn, her hair looks amazing hahaha.
Anna certainly gets our attention - she is kind of flirty which would bring warmth inside
I agree to an extent on most of these topics, but there's to much grey area. Most women lash out when things don't go their way. A man delivery could be amazing and still get the same irrational outbursts, not to mention the amount of grudge they will continue to hold. Women lost their way a little; just my opinion.
After hearing all this, I think I'll go have a beer. I have a headache.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
lol I completely didn't realize a woman at the store was making an opportunity to flirt this weekend, as usual, until long after leaving. Until next time, I guess! Also, in retrospect, what she did was super clever, and if I'd been a bit more aware, in stead of trying to send a photo of the bad pun on the merchandise to my sister, I might not have missed the nuance in her behavior.
Oh no it's so easy to miss the moment!
@@Joyanima I'm so bad about it. It's always some time later and I'm kicking myself lol
You missed nothing. If she wanted you and is not a manipulative nutcase she would have just said so.
The relevant line in this video was ”women and their mind games”. That’s it.
A lot of guys think women don't approach. I've found they throw out signals and approach all the time! The key is learning to recognize the cues because men don't pick up on social cues nearly as well women do!
If your a man getting love bombed, watch out because its the first sign of a female covert narcissist. She can turn into a crazy person and want to destroy you in family court. She can too because the laws favor her. Just never marry - tell her the risk is too high and divorce benefits only her.
so its fear that preventing you to bond
@@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything Of course it is you idjit. Fear is the result of danger. If you can't see that all men are in danger with very real "family" laws skewed against men lobbied for by man haters, you are a fool.
often times just knowing for sure someone is crushing on you makes you crush hard for them back. Like they were never bad, but perhaps you had your eye on someone else and didn't really consider the other person until you realized they like you.
So here we come to the crux of the issue of dating. Instead of being straight forward with men, women would rather manipulate men into thinking they are someone they aren't to try to get them to like them. Then when it works and you start dating them you find out that not only are they not the person they pretended to be, but also that they never had any real interest in anything she pretended to be interested in. So let me get this straight... the female dating strategy is; be fake as fuck till he agrees to date/marry you. (Whatever your goal is) Then and only then can you take the mask off and show him your true self. Real winning strategy ladies... keep it up I think it's working. The sharp decline in divorce rates is proof of that... oh wait nvm. Well on the plus side I think we figured out why most relationships don't last. And all it took was for one woman to be honest about the games they play. Although this may not have been the intended outcome of this video, it has been truly enlightening. Thank you
I know, right? This is childish, junior high stuff that kids used to put out in their school newspaper. This is equivalent to an adult who reads the horoscope section everyday in their local daily newspaper and then takes it serious.
No one can agree with you as much as me. You hit it right on the head. Everything you said, my sentiments exactly. People wonder why the divorce rate is so high. Well, there you go. It was not the intent of her video but she pretty much displayed the thought process of modern "women".
Couldn't agree more, pretty recently got hurt a lot, but also matured a lot as a result, by a woman playing all the games with me. I was too naive at the younger times in my life, but boy was she a learning experience. You summed it up with a pretty little bow. Now she gets nothing, except her miserable co-dependent abusive relationship with the person that really cares about her, enough to beat his property when it steps out of line.
Very very helpful for the not so experienced as others his age. Thank you.
And as soon as you react to one of those signs you get hit with a sexual harassment complaint .
The thing about myself, from my point of view, is that I don't show any interest when I'm not in the mood. As a consequence, that makes me a hard-to-get individual during those periods, but I can also be engaging and flirty while not actually feeling any attraction towards the other party when I'm in a good mood and just looking to make them blush from shyness- it's cute when they react like that.
The minds of women regarding men are incredibly frustrating.
Almost all of them seem to think, on some level, that men are intellectually inferior, or at the very least, oblivious to subtleties. And how do they seduce? Subtly, and in a way that some women do when they just wanna be friends 🤦♂️
It can't be both, ladies. Either we're morons, or geniuses. Pick a lane and behave accordingly.
Your advice makes the mistake of applying logic to females.
Their hormones effect their actions just like men’s hormones effect our logical thinking.
Ours is more pre dic table
@@leojanuszewski1019 You used the terms logic and females in a sentences (as I just have), and neither belong in the same sentence.
@@kurtfrancis4621 😁
@@kurtfrancis4621 Did you guys not get the memo? Using logic is literally white supremacy.
Whenever I have that problem, I usually refer back to my fish finder on my GPS
Anna-Your hair looks great!
Oh thank you!
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@@RorydriftmansxrsilviaWilkinson Give it up
I like the doo too
any another vids this morning for cuzzy rory this morning for monday 10th off October 2022.
Thanks for the advice! Your voice and eye contact have been very seductive. :) Love this channel...
I’ve had some really push themselves into the move’s. However I let them down easy by letting them know I’m happily married. But they are in great class of runners. That’s make’s feel better. And I’m still in love after 46 years of marriage.
They used to just walk up to me, and say" do you want some of this" it was easy enough. I had one, I didn't even think she liked me because she was always being a smart-ass towards me. One day she came up to me at work, grab me by the head and started licking my ear, and asked me if I've ever had a tongue bath.... I almost passed out, because she was married and her husband worked at the same place we did, and I was like what the f!!!!! That just came out of nowhere and I was really shocked. I just told her that's one thing I would never do is run around with a married woman. For real, that one just came out of nowhere.
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Some girls believe it or not are not always subtle, there was an older woman a while ago when I was in my 30's who started with putting metal screw on the middle of my desk. At first I didn't know who it was and she never admitted it.
Met my wife when she was 23. I was 34. She was beautiful! We both fell in love at first sight. A month after we met we stayed together. That was almost 38 years ago. True love exists! She's the most sacrificial person I've ever met and best dedicated mother to our 8 children. Lately I've been hit on by very young women. My wife just laughs!
yeah right.
@@peterchessell28 LOL Dont be jelly. Theres gold for you as-well at the end of the rainbow!
I really really really hope for your sake that this is true!
I love your channel. Very encouraging and upliftimg
Girls, forget subtlety, go for it!!!
Never gonna happen
Wow. So true. You are great and not like the others with your analysis and advice thanks 🙏
More often than not, they’re not so subtle.
Your accent is one of the factors I subscribed to your channel.
I really didnt reconize these things when I was student at Uni, missed many things
Phew, thank goodness I don't have this problem. Great video, thanks!
That last one with the "hot and cold" treatment I'm not so sure about.... been hearing enough (from other videos, etc.) that mixed signals like that usually mean they're NOT interested. My own experience seems to confirm that, with me looking and feeling foolish at the end of the day 🤷♂️. "Almost sure" she/they had a possible liking for me...only to then be "flopped".
Just to add that for me personally "subtlety" works on me like a charm 😅.. so I'm not speaking against it in general. But gotta be careful about not mistaking for lack of interest, especially if there's ALSO willingness to manipulate/play games even - or especially - when there's no actual interest.
Agree about the hot and cold
Or they have borderline personality disorder.
If a woman ever tried playing the hot / cold game with me I walked.
She will always say, "Do you think I'm pretty?" That's unmistakable.
The girl I like looks like you and the more I find out about her the more I am attracted to her. But we work together and I don't want things to get uncomfortable and ive been single for 10 yrs but everyone else can see theres a fire between us...
Aw it is so difficult if you work together. My advice is to take it slow and see where the relationship goes
@@Joyanima that's basically what I'm doing...but havent dated anyone for so long idk where to really start anyway...
Go for it
Dating is like the lottery; You'll never win if you never try. If you think you have a chance, give it a shot. You have nothing to lose. If you're convinced you're going to fail, don't even bother.
What to look out for? I would think look forward to!!!
This is how it SHOULD BE: two people meet(usually him/her) straight up: 1)This is what I'm seeking-da da da(outlined) 2)Can you do it? 3)NO marriage UNLESS it IS a PRE-NUPTIAL agreement WITHOUT loopholes signed by BOTH parties in front of legal marriage attorneys and notarized with the county court. 4)Witnesses: parents or guardians and siblings 5)NO 50%/50% IF the marriage ends. It is only whatever DIRECT finances each partner applies to the marriage. I.E. If he buys the home with HIS $$ alone NOT hers and pays the mortgage payments on time, HE gets the house NOT her. 6)If there is a divorce, whoever is the most responsible and financially sound partner gets the kids 7)Most importantly, by law in that state, BOTH have to attend a couples course in marriage in addition to sufficient marriage counseling PRIOR to an agreement, including a compatibility test to see if BOTH agree on many different levels. Yeah, it should be this tough to get married in America. ENOUGH of this frivolous divorce in America. Put an end to this game. Get the "gold glitter" out of woman's eyes and no more "slam bam thank you ma'am and off I go to the next gal I can screw." Enough of this horse-s- - -. You want to marry mister or ma'am? Then you WILL act like mature adults and NOT say, "what can I get from you, sucker?"
Bury that in the ground or else toss it into the ocean. If all this sounds too harsh, then stay with your hairy 4 legged friend(s).
It's a nice alternative.
👏👏👏👏👏 Great speech
@@elliotloranger437 It is NOT a great speech. I'm trying to save traditional marriage in America. Most importantly, for the sake of the children. I'm attempting to offer a solution.
@@rickbailey189 wth? Someone compliments your ideas and that is how you respond? If you really are trying to save "traditional marriage," I hope you are doing more than making comments on RUclips videos. If you believe the strongly, go out and do something about it.
@@elliotloranger437 Thank You so very much IF it sounded like a speech. My apologies to you if I sounded harsh. No malice intended. Fortunately, You Tube is allowing me to offer a probable solution to the very high divorce rate in America which I see marriage in America as a dying institution. Marriage IS a serious COMMITMENT not to be taken lightly as some may think. Thank You if you read it entirely.
So the moral of the story is to always have a hairy four legged friend just in case you fail in getting a two legged partner.
When a woman tells me she just wants to be friends. I sit back and may say thank you as I as trying to think of how to say the same in a nice way ( in a sweet voice of
course). Or I have said "I wasn't in the mood anyway" depending on how things went. Oh I was a long haired bar tender back in the mid 70's.
"women are shy and easily embarrassed."
ah yes, because men can't be these, so we should be expected to do it.
This sounds interesting and entertainig too! I shall watch some more cuz I'm still learning.
At least now I know no woman want me. Plus if she's around you all the time at work, hmmm, sounds like a sexual harrassment case against you at work, you will loose everything, she gets off free. Rule one, never get involved with someone from work.
So, say a year and half into a relationship, one day a man finds out that she doesn’t really like golf, or anything else he’s really interested in.
He doesn’t truly know her at all.
The relationship is sabotaged before it even gets started. Doesn’t seem like a winning strategy for either party.
She stands close to you
She positions her body in a way that allows you to see certain things.
She entises you and then pulls away.
Then you pluck up the courage to ask her out and she tells you that she has a boyfriend.
you nailed it, better leave women alone.
Damd, shot down on the first sign -- I've never had a lady wanted to be a friend, acquaintance through other friends (that I would hang out with), but never a friend with me, awe well -- that's life 😁