Asking my wife if she likes me after an argument

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  • @jessiejeanne9717
    @jessiejeanne9717 Год назад +1679

    At least you are TALKING to each other and she's communicating at a nice volume. How refreshing!

    • @PeytonMcCall-zs7bj
      @PeytonMcCall-zs7bj Год назад +3

      1.1K likes and no comments? Let me fix that.

    • @riakendall8610
      @riakendall8610 Год назад +2

      Exactly this!
      Communication and respect are key.

    • @kidflash-kn2bn
      @kidflash-kn2bn Год назад +2

      Maybe because they're on camera

    • @thatlldopig911
      @thatlldopig911 11 месяцев назад

      I literally always aim to be this wife/mother but I'm not... I am!! Until I'm not lol 😂

  • @meganlynn83
    @meganlynn83 Год назад +915

    This is wildly healthy. She's even being kind in her explanation! Y'all are adorable!

  • @_PJW_
    @_PJW_ Год назад +456

    Pay attention to what she's saying, boy!

  • @cecilycook5592
    @cecilycook5592 Год назад +190

    My husband and i do this all the time 😂❤. Communication and understanding is key. Its ok to be upset and not particularly like someone momentarily. But that doesnt effect how much you love that person, you are just processing emotions. Beautiful ❤

  • @wendyg.7360
    @wendyg.7360 Год назад +4

    i adore her patience. i can tell she doesn’t let anger control her reactions.

  • @bboynever
    @bboynever Год назад +678

    this is healthy right here

    • @cestlezooicimw
      @cestlezooicimw Год назад +1

      Imagine if he said he didn't like her anymore lol, how is that healthy to tell your loved one something like that

    • @Isiauwuehrifi
      @Isiauwuehrifi Год назад +34

      @@cestlezooicimw she still loves him. That’s long term, and it doesn’t change with one or two fights. But when you fight someone, you don’t like them in that moment. You love your parents, but when they ground you you don’t like them, but you don’t stop loving them.

    • @cestlezooicimw
      @cestlezooicimw Год назад

      @@Isiauwuehrifi I'd be a damn bitch if I told my mom I don't like her, are you freakin insane, and of course she's not gonna say she doesn't love him in general, that's nothing praiseworthy

    • @cestlezooicimw
      @cestlezooicimw Год назад +5

      @@Isiauwuehrifi now tell me, how may people do you guess would be screaming at him if he said he didn't like her, saying that she should leave

    • @bboynever
      @bboynever Год назад +13

      @@cestlezooicimw he's done something wrong clearly. but the girl is addressing it clearly and calmly . This is the healthy bit !

  • @YaYa-zm3wu
    @YaYa-zm3wu Год назад +86

    Honesty and open communication is healthy…

  • @hannatitley8272
    @hannatitley8272 Год назад +3

    She's so beautiful

  • @lisajones8797
    @lisajones8797 Год назад +83

    They are so great together. He’s asking a good question and she’s being completely honest…..❤

  • @kylealexander7024
    @kylealexander7024 Год назад +13

    This is healthy af. Good communication

  • @JenWren4
    @JenWren4 Год назад +10

    She is so totally honest. But respectful and kind enough to say, I love you, so our foundation is solid, but I'd like to break a couple of windows. 😂 You guys keep this up and you'll make it thru anything.

  • @adellerivers
    @adellerivers Год назад +9

    She is the cutest person EVER

  • @AyeYoTay
    @AyeYoTay Год назад +7

    I just find it hard to believe they actually argue..

  • @gr0wnup5
    @gr0wnup5 Год назад +32

    That's a honest answer 😅

  • @msutkowski504
    @msutkowski504 Год назад +7

    As my family lies to say… “I have to love you but j don’t have to like you.” Definitely one of those moments 😅😂

  • @Kitkat_bar
    @Kitkat_bar Год назад +2

    Before the end of the video I was genuinely gonna comment “I LOVE you but I don’t LIKE you rn” and then she said it 😂 but yeah ik that feeling my bf is the love of my life but oh lordy some times I just don’t want him to talk to me 😂that’s just how relationships are as long as it’s not toxic or abusive and you come back together after cooling off and can talk and be mature then you’re able to get through it

  • @lilyakers3525
    @lilyakers3525 Год назад +3

    I was like woooahhh where's the bump!? Til I noticed comments from 6 months ago 🤣

  • @eShawnny
    @eShawnny Год назад +1

    I like that she thinks before she speaks. She’s very careful with her words. I admire that.

  • @farehasajjad4256
    @farehasajjad4256 Год назад +5

    She is so simple !!!❤

  • @thewrongmissy7653
    @thewrongmissy7653 Год назад +8

    Honestly in a marriage is everything ❤

  • @BoraAria
    @BoraAria Год назад

    I love that! “I love you. But I don’t like you right now” that so assuring and makes feelings very clear 😮

  • @user-yy9wf6iy5h
    @user-yy9wf6iy5h Год назад +8

    I have said these exact same things before. Honesty. Just wish they would listen with their hearts, and quit doing those things that upset us if they love us so much. We don't like feeling this way!

    • @Stopcommentingthesamecomments
      @Stopcommentingthesamecomments Год назад

      Lol what a joke u r truly I'm sure u do everything right in the relationship oo no u cant accept blame that's why ur relationships fail

    • @Butterbee1186
      @Butterbee1186 Год назад +1

      I’ve heard Matt and Abby say the same things they might be copying

  • @illmaticone
    @illmaticone Год назад +6

    the way she semiles as as she says no is awesome 😂

  • @carrieann9949
    @carrieann9949 Год назад +27

    Fix it and learn. You will also feel this way about your children.

    • @meganlynn83
      @meganlynn83 Год назад +6

      FACTS!!!
      Anyone who says otherwise is a liar! 🤣

  • @shruggs5279
    @shruggs5279 Год назад

    The honesty is perfect.

  • @laursresindesignco4948
    @laursresindesignco4948 Год назад +1

    So happy to see you guys aren't the perfect couple everyone likes to portray themselves as. Mal is awesome!! Your smile is the best

  • @Itz_gowri
    @Itz_gowri Год назад +2

    Goshh i love you guys❤

  • @leahmaguire9921
    @leahmaguire9921 Год назад

    she even adorable when she's frustrated

  • @karanfield4229
    @karanfield4229 Год назад

    He needs to be loved. He spoils her.

  • @Octobris
    @Octobris Год назад

    It shocked me how good that was. Kudos, honestly.

  • @ericaa4720
    @ericaa4720 Год назад +1

    She is honest. Sometimes in relationships you don't always like that person at that moment but it doesn't mean that you don't love them. That's why a lot of relationships because the moment you have to do a little work and communicate, some couples don't want to put the work in. I think this is where marriages fail.

  • @blessedabundance6266
    @blessedabundance6266 Год назад

    Listen to her my friend, same action over & over... gets Hard to forgive.
    With that said, by you asking.. great step !
    And her honest and respectful response is Solid.
    You two are Adorable Together- truly a Great example to our youth and young families to see.
    Ty for sharing your journey its a beautiful partnership!!!
    With all that said, Cam is TRULY a LOVING and SUPPORTIVE PARTNER, I guess every now and then he needs to be Ornery 😂

  • @JaegerBeastTribble
    @JaegerBeastTribble Год назад +1

    She makes me smile!

  • @jitter_bug16
    @jitter_bug16 Год назад +1

    Awe fights always suck... Love your attitude though such a cute couple

  • @nosheenjones9785
    @nosheenjones9785 Год назад

    Love your relationship ❤ I can’t even look at my husband after an argument 😂😂

  • @jasimenmetcalf1870
    @jasimenmetcalf1870 Год назад +1

    Omg she’s too adorable even upset

  • @gjhoward
    @gjhoward Год назад +3

    Been there. On both sides of this situation

  • @cherylkirby9119
    @cherylkirby9119 Год назад

    You guys got this down, always keep communication open and honest and it's okay not to like someone for a few.... 👍😉😊

  • @carlaawilliams2390
    @carlaawilliams2390 Год назад +2

    This is sooooooo true.🤗🤭💯👍❤️

  • @smariel7
    @smariel7 Год назад

    Love love her honesty, still sweet but honest

  • @ellenstacy6028
    @ellenstacy6028 Год назад

    Good answer ,good answer !

  • @fournomore
    @fournomore Год назад +20

    Déjà vu of an exact conversation I’ve had recently with my husband 😅

  • @PhoenixFlowerEmma
    @PhoenixFlowerEmma Год назад +2

    That is so important knowing the distinction between love and like and KNOWING they are 2 seperate emotions.
    I always love my mother.
    And she always loves her children.
    But we dont always like eachother.
    We dont always want to be in the same space. And thats healthy af.
    But acknowledging those feelings respecting boundaries and realising that some days some weeks some months even some really bad horrible years you may not like someone but youll still love them and care for them is the best thing you can do because when its family when its someone youve commited to youve vow that in sickness in health in good times and bad for richer and poorer etc that means if your poor sick and in a bad place that person has vowed that they will still love you and bring you back to the rich healthy and good times or be with you til the bad ones end. That there will be years that are honeymoon and wonderful and years that are the worst. That maybe youll want to get a divorce but you wont because you vowed to be this persons cheerleader the one who always has their back and raises them up. So many people think just because they dont like their partner or havent in a while that its over. No. Its a phase. Stick it out become even closer because of it.

    • @Stopcommentingthesamecomments
      @Stopcommentingthesamecomments Год назад

      Are u 12 years old if ur agrueing with ur mom that much ur 12 years old or unhealthy af as u would say

  • @bethukhumalodlamini7828
    @bethukhumalodlamini7828 Год назад

    She is so sincere and that is reallycute😊

  • @ryanawilson8549
    @ryanawilson8549 Год назад +1

    Communication. Thank you.

  • @floraflip
    @floraflip Год назад +2

    I want this kind of love 😩

  • @cinza766
    @cinza766 Год назад

    It’s entirely possible to “love “someone but not “like “them or the way they acted at that time❤️I think you’re lucky she’s still smiling❤. L love you two.. Being honest is always the BEST🤗🩷🩵❤️🩶💛💙🤎💚💜🧡🖤💚🧡💜🤎💙💛🤗

  • @Khurr
    @Khurr Год назад

    These are best times…gonna make the clown come out and u r guaranteed to pee ur pants 😅😂🤣

  • @alanamacneill88
    @alanamacneill88 Год назад +1

    The right answer

  • @donniezawadski2047
    @donniezawadski2047 Год назад +2

    I feel the same way, all day pushing

  • @treed5953
    @treed5953 Год назад +1

    this might call for the fancy bread

  • @martinroycroft
    @martinroycroft Год назад +26

    Bet bro didn't find the mute button tho

  • @user-fg5dd7pj1p
    @user-fg5dd7pj1p Год назад +1

    This video was posted on my friends b-day

  • @rajncajn37
    @rajncajn37 Год назад

    Dem roots doe

  • @michaelscott8768
    @michaelscott8768 Год назад

    *Couples Arguement
    *Later to test to see if they are still made
    “Babe is the oven still in the kitchen when you were last there?”

  • @ronaldhancock2470
    @ronaldhancock2470 Год назад

    Ask her that question now since you have a new beautiful baby girl.

  • @maddiecleeland7466
    @maddiecleeland7466 6 месяцев назад

    I have that shirt !!!

  • @ranns2805
    @ranns2805 Год назад +1

    You are not supposed to poke your spouses buttons! My husband never does that! I think he has done it, but he swears I just misunderstood! I don’t know, I have been married almost 32 years, and oh, well, tomorrow is another day!

  • @Pizza42069
    @Pizza42069 Год назад

    If I was him, I would leave the house right now at least for a little while and I’m talking a couple hours if not a day or two. However, that is just me I can see in this particular situation because they are communicating in a healthy manner, even after an argument with open honest communication without extra emotional bullshit, I respect that I applaud that this appears to be a very healthy marriage from all the videos I have ever seen. But me, I have a personal pick up. I guess you could call, if I know somebody doesn’t like me, I don’t wanna be around that person, I don’t wanna be around people that don’t like me, so I would rather be alone, or with somebody else that does like me. And I’m talking just a friend playing call of duty or something whatever. But that’s me that may not be everybody.

    • @HostileAtHeart
      @HostileAtHeart Год назад

      Don't be so parasocial

    • @PrimeEpoch
      @PrimeEpoch Год назад +2

      If I understand right, that kind of attitude seems kinda unhealthy bro. I hope things work out for you though, things will get easier as long as you keep working on yourself.

  • @faukerconsulting835
    @faukerconsulting835 Год назад

    ☝🏻At least YOU realized YOU messed up🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @YagerNation
    @YagerNation Год назад

    What is winter conference?! I think I know but I don’t know

  • @novemberoscar98
    @novemberoscar98 Год назад +2

    Moral of the story is... have every conversation recorded and everything will be fine.

  • @SamsMediocreGames
    @SamsMediocreGames Год назад

    This is good as adults but please never say this to your kids. It can cause a lot of mental health trouble and make children feel like their parents closeness is conditional.

  • @jeffreykennemore5086
    @jeffreykennemore5086 Год назад +1

    Mal, sweetheart, Mal, Angel 😇 💖 💓 💕, Mal, baby girl, Mal, precious 💖 beautiful 💖 darling 💖 Mal, the cutest 💖 💕 💛, Mal, drop dead gorgeous. 💛💖💖💓😇💗✨️🌟

  • @beteeho
    @beteeho Год назад

    You can tell by his voice he's smiling. How can you look at that face and say you don't like him?

  • @Hoppy_kid44
    @Hoppy_kid44 Год назад

    I relate

  • @charlenesims6492
    @charlenesims6492 Год назад

    😄😄❤❤❤

  • @doyoungbunnysmile2832
    @doyoungbunnysmile2832 Год назад

    😂😂

  • @darrenpollard1799
    @darrenpollard1799 Год назад

    I've been there

  • @jaymehra6166
    @jaymehra6166 Год назад

    Haha 😄😄😂

  • @jacob2845
    @jacob2845 Год назад +1

    Let's go to bed then...

  • @TimothySparks-mt2fg
    @TimothySparks-mt2fg Год назад

    She's so sincere. It's just too cute. You stop pushing Mal's buttons! I don't like that!

  • @chrisbailey5540
    @chrisbailey5540 Год назад

    Poking her special button I thought that was a good thing

  • @heiroot
    @heiroot Год назад

    Shes probably annoyed that youre always laughing at her

  • @Stopcommentingthesamecomments
    @Stopcommentingthesamecomments Год назад

    Lol yall got stop hitting the record button on everything this is private

  • @erwinbenally8027
    @erwinbenally8027 Год назад

    Yeah theyre married. I love my wife but sometimes.......i loathe the day i met her

  • @Lonnieboy4
    @Lonnieboy4 Год назад

    Hilarious 😂