How We Deal With Haters & Racist Comments | Podcast Ep 002
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- Опубликовано: 31 май 2024
- The internet has been a blessing for us, but it also comes with a sizeable amount of hate. In This episode we discuss how we deal with the massive amounts of hate and racists comments.
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You two do not deserve ANY hate. Especially from basement dwelling keyboard junkies. Your reactions have been a joy and enlightening watch for all. Thank You. 🇨🇦🇨🇦
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Lex,,,,during Mony Mony,,,,,classic. 💥💥💥👍🤪
Go,Canada!! ❤❤ As a Canadian, who lives up north ,where black people are still a rarity, I always wonder what a black person might be thinking in the Tim Hortons line...they often have this look,like, why are people staring?! I wish I could tell them that most of the people are simply looking for an opportunity to be helpful, because they are trying to prove that they are Not racist. Enjoy the love and welcome to Canada!❤
@@808bear2 why WOULD you choose to point that out? Just to be hateful? Men and women are different....big revelation...
@@808bear2 I see Brad following the lyrics and looking for the meaning and overall what the song is trying to say, and sometimes over thinking and Lex reacts more to the feel of a song. I could be wrong. I enjoy watching them dive into music and being real about it. It has been a pleasure and I wish them the best.🇨🇦🇨🇦
How could anybody hate either one of you. I am a 61 yr old white guy and watching you both and now with Jack, gives me hope for this country’s future. I wish you were my neighbors.
Same ..I'm white , 62 from the UK and I take as I find ..good person 👍
Bad 👎no matter what colour
Hell yes!
Yep, 60 year old white man here. Love you guys!
I think u guys are great keep up the good work👍🏼
Me too, much faith in these two real people.
Just keep in mind, for every "hater" there is 10,000 reasonable people that enjoy what you do. And, I think Lex's freckles are adorable!!
Right 👍 embrace it
Yes they are adorable :D
yes, lol. I am native American, get treated the same way.
I'm an ol' southern white boy...I love this channel and with the blood of Christ, bless you all. All love here
Amen, brother!
What is there to hate? You both seem like genuinely nice people. I think some folks hate on others because they feel inadequate in themselves, sad.
Blows my mind. They're both such good people.
I think it's like he said at the start, it's just people who are either having bad days, or are just flat out piece of shit people who have to spew their bullshit everywhere to make themselves feel better.
Stupid people in this world
I was about to say the same thing. Makes no sense at all. Two of the nicest, most charming, genuine people on the internet.
Those reactors are just ignorant and living in there own bubble, thinking everyone should think like them.
@@Pietervandebuurt Do you need a hug?
I literally just clicked on this and I'm already pissed to see that you two have to deal with any kind of hate. Y'all are so sweet and have been a blast to watch the last couple of years. I'm honoured that I have been able to watch the two of you grow and blossom not only as content creators but as individuals. Much love to y'all.
I like that comment a lot! 😎 Brad and Lex are some genuinely good people.
Awww thank you and everyone that liked it! 🫶
Shocks me that you have haters. You both seem so kind and freindly
I was just about to write that tbh.
They have never done anything to deserve any hate.
Brad and Lex, you guys are an amazing team. Your partnership will be legendary one day. You’re already on your way! 🥂
Thank you for the kind comment ❤️🙏🏽😩
Who could hate y’all? Y’all are adorable! So is your kiddo!
Thank you ❤️🥹
Ignorance is heartbreaking. Imagine how it feels to be a hater! Horrible life. Detached compassion. Fight hate with love.
Here's how I see it: think of the hater as a dog barking at you behind a fence when you walk down the street. We don't worry about the dog barking, or take it personally.
I love watching you two discover the music I loved when I was a teenager, seeing your wonder and how you grow in your understanding of other culture and art forms.
I LOVE that analogy! I will use this in my own life😊
Lex is precious ❤ I think the two of you are down to earth and very likable people. I would love to have you as neighbors ❤❤❤❤
Brad, I applaud your kindness. Some folks are having a bad day. Some people get their rocks off insulting others.
You guys have been entertaining me and charming me for about 2 years now. Don't let trolls screw with your head.
The only reason anyone would hate you is because you are real. The world is full of phonies and wannabes. Just keep being yourself, that's what we love about you!
It's tough being in the public eye. Don't let those comments affect you. You are both terrific.
Hate takes to much energy to sustain and ends up destroying the person who spreads it. Stay true to yourself and stay on the path of empathy.
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I do a lot of my work in prisons and I've said to prisoners that I'm to lazy to walk around with a stornch attitude it's easier to just walk by and say kia ora hello cuzzie how are you and get on with your day
I'm an old white guy but I love you guys discovering our music.
I just wish that sentiment was reciprocal.
After hearing all this, just keep being yourselves, don't judge, because you haven't thus far, keep on trucking! Keep on being free people and taking care of yourselves and Jack. Love how you both smash assumptions and just be you. EVPOSURE opens all minds!
Who could dislike y'all? Its crazy! I adore both you. Sending much love and care.
How could anybody hate you guy's?!?!
That's a million dollar question!
Just try and remember, if you let a hater get under your skin, they win. Never let them win.
So happy to see the outpouring of love and support in the comments. Nothing but positive vibes from here. There are always going to be haters (and hatred). But I hope you both know that the overwhelming majority of people are decent and caring and love what you do.
Anonymity tends to unleash the mean in some folks. So they say things from their keyboard they wouldn't dare to say to your face. You both come across as lovely, kind, insightful, genuine, and incredibly understanding people. Thanks for sharing your light with the rest of us.
"Maybe they have a bad life." Yes, that is one of many explanations. And then blame others for their own situation, not themselves. But even people who are actually fine can be hateful.
Nice to have you back. Miss Your reactions. Greetings from Germany
Just know haters will hate! they are miserable in their daily lives and they try to make it bad for everyone else! I love y'all and your true fans will never hate! God Bless you both!
Exactly! Just think if the ppl that have hate could turn it into love ❤️.. how our country or the whole world would be so much better!
Hi Guys... How could anyone with any humanity in them hate you guys..?. Brad, you are intelligent, good natured and open minded... Lex is one of the cutest girls I've ever seen and now we know she has freckles... Lmao...😂 I was raised in the 60's and 70's when musicians had REAL TALENT...! You guys are on the right track... KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK...!!
Haters are sad people that need to deflect their anger etc onto someone else. You guys have such dignity and class ❤
As a white person...it's great to see you 2 again..hope the baby is doing well...I've had a horrible life and would never treat another human being like garbage..that's beyond a bad day...that's a state of mind...I personally like the opposing views Brad and Lex bring to the table..shows not everybody has the same opinion...stay positive
People can be the absolute worst!! I love you guys.
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Its 10,000 to 1 People who love you guys compared to those haters. Just ignore them!
I'm a 59 year old white man and I love this channel!! Part of me wants to apologize for these racist comments but it would be like me apologizing for any other human making stupid comments. Y'all are a very nice couple you're interesting and have chosen a very solid repertoire of music to work with over the years and I love it. Hater types will do what they do and I will do what I do that feels right to me.. that is enjoying your content. And I thank you for all you do. God bless you and your young family and I'll pray for many more years of success!! BTW LEX rules❤️
The vast majority of people watching you, love you. Forget the couple of nuts
You two are great , what are people hating? The racism is rampid in this country. This 69yo white lady loves you two you listen to the music and give honest feedback.
Remember for every hater there is much more people that really like and are behind you. Don't let haters get under your skin. Just try to ignore them and leave them with their hate. Sending lots of love from here. ❤
You two are a beautiful, sweet couple with more compassion, love and intelligence than any of those poor excuses for people.
They are clearly jealous of a handsome young couple who have more than they will ever have.
having haters means you are doing well in life, congratulations for that!
I would have to say I miss the two of you with your reactions. There is a good chemistry here and the different honest takes of the music was fun to see. My daughter had my grandson Rocco just a few weeks before your Jack.....fun times, for me as a grandpa and you as parents. When you put yourself out in the public you will get the small percentage of 'weirdo's' that you just need to be able to ignore. The high percentage of the folks do appreciate what you do here. Keep it up, I'll be watching. =)
Awww congrats on your grand baby!!!
Brad & lex, the 2 of you have brought nothing but joy, education, and laughter to our lives. I missed the reaction. Music is one of the arts that brings us together. Thank you for making the world a better place to live. Love ya!
U guys rock... Dont let no one bring u down...!!
agreed,
Individuals that spread hate do so out of ignorance & self loathing, they should try treating others the way they want to be treated! ✌️❤️
You two have stolen my heart, you are an adorable couple and I hate to hear that anyone sends you guys hate 😢❤
You two are a beautiful young couple with who have been graced with healthy a child, your whole lives are ahead of you, just imagine.
Oh dear, there be trolls.😢 I would be too thin-skinned to deal with them.😢 You are brave. Peace to all!🧸
How could anyone say hateful things to two of the sweetest people on the internet. I know you're fine folks in person also. Unfortunately there's hateful folks in this world that are so miserable with their own sorry lives they have to attack good people. In the old words of wisdom, "misery craves company". You two just keep on being who you are!!!!
This is the thing I feel, as a creator here as well on RUclips, that other content creators aren't honest about - but the two of you *are* being honest here, which is refreshing. But I think many other Creators are just talking about how they aren't affected by the negative commenters or they say stuff like "Just don't read the comments," but sometimes those same types of people are angrily posting on Twitter or elsewhere about a hater's comment.
I agree with Brad discussing the idea that a hater is having a bad day/life on the other side of that screen, but I have a hard time jumping to the healing step where you can then dismiss that hateful comment...my first thought becomes "Well if they're having a bad day they shouldn't take that out on me. I didn't actually do anything to them so why come hate on me for a really poor reason?"
I hope to evolve myself to get to that step of healing like Brad! Great job, guys!
Haters will hate. Ignore them, they are not worth your time. The two of you are a class act. I thoroughly enjoy watching your program.
I miss you’re music reactions, you were part of the small reaction community that always made my days better when I would come home from a hard day’s work.
Lex could be doing voice over work, book readings and such.
Love you 3❤❤❤
Aww thanks 😂 i have never thought about that. Just mukbang, I’ve always wanted to do a mukbang
Hmm, I was thinking ring tones or such for phones to start.🙂
I’m an old white Australian man and I think you two are bloody awesome!! ❤
I just cannot believe that you would have any "haters" because you are such a lovely couple.
There are haters out there. I have observer they tend to be stressed will end up with high blood pressure and heart attacks. They kill themselves. You two strike me as genuine good people and I appreciate what you 've done.
Brad &Lex. My wife and I love your reaction videos. We say ignore the haters and racists, they are 'un-evolved' unspiritual people. They have sad, miserable lives. You guys are great and a lovely young couple. Plenty people like you and respect you as human beings. Keep that thought and you'll not get down! 😎👍
I've known you guy's since early 2022; never heard any negative comments towards all the couch gang/ Brad after dark baddies. You're amazing, full of love and happiness. I'm pretty sure you two have been an inspiration to other RUclipsr reactors. Everyone has hater's weather it be here, work, school, ect... One thing the hater's can never take away from you guy's and that's your positive energy you give to us. Just wanna say thx for making some of my evenings great . Sending love to you three 💯❤️❤️
Awwww love you Alegria ❤️🥹
@@BradAndLex ❤️💯
Oh guys you really are the TRUTH! In spite of racist remarks, and haters doing what they live to do. Let me tell you, I know about having bad “ years “ in 08 my youngest was 7-1/2 months pregnant when struck by a drunk driver at 7am! It put her in a coma and my grandson had to be taken out of her and flown to Salt Lake City. He lived for 7 days, and after his organs all began to fail, we decided to unplug him. To live for as long as he wanted, on his terms. He was only supposed to live for seconds after being unplugged. But I held that lil boy for almost 2 hours while he fought. Then he passed in my arms. My youngest, survived what was determined by 5 brain docs to be medically and scientifically impossible to survive. She is now married with a 7 year old daughter. Then in 2017 we lost our oldest, Tiffeny. She was 32.
Why are people hating on you two? Wtf! You are my favorite reactors. And I wish your family tons of happiness and love.
Put them all on your "pay no mind list." They don't deserve to occupy one second of your time or thoughts so don't give them the satisfaction of thinking they're getting to you and know that the overwhelming majority of us love you guys!
You two deserve no hate. Never heard a racist comment out of your mouths, never heard hate, all the best for your relaunch!
First let me say I am an old white man. You two seem like a kind, caring, and loving couple. I enjoy your videos.
You guys are so loveable so the haters don't matter. Go where the love is.
I love you two ... have watched all of you're reactions ... simple, just ignore the haters, the lovers are far more in numbers ... they're just sad people!
Ignore the hatets. Just listen to the positive comments only.
How could your content create haters? Thankful for you two
Take it as a grain of salt, no matter who U are in life, some people will like U and some won’t. The both of U are made to be. Don’t let nobody take your PEACE✝️🙏❤️✌️
You guys are too awesome to have to deal with that crap..
I can’t even begin to comprehend how you two could even have one hater, let alone plural. Just keep being yourselves and ignore the haters.
Haters are people who have no life of their own and just take it out on others. That's how sorry their lives are. You two are awesome and haters don't even deserve a reaction, seriously.
Ruth here. Hi guys you both are awesome. Know that when you dealing with stupid ,, mentally disturbed people you can’t take it seriously or personal. You have to hav think skin You guys do an excellent job. And we all love all of you. Including little Jack
Thank you Ruth ❤
Such a positive message. I wish I was more like Brad and Lex.
Awww ❤️❤️🥹🫶
The internet has no filters, it allows folk with issues to express themselves. Don't take it personal....they don't know you or what you're going through, and you don't know them or what they're going through. There's nothing for either you to waste energy over. Compare the love with the hate messages, and put it in perspective. I love y'all from Ireland ❤
Stuff the trolls, stuff the hater's, they are the losers, as Brad, and Lex are awesome
#WeAreCouchGang ❤️👊
Sometimes people just need to be heard and to have some control. You two are perfectly on target. I love to watch you both. Love you !!!
Brad & Lex,
Stay honest and true to your inner selves. Here's a thought, fly high Free Bird! Best of luck from Fabulous Las Vegas Nevada.🎉
The internet is a great thing....but it brings out the worst in people.
Glad to see you two. I've enjoyed watching your music reactions over the last couple years. Hope you're doing well ❤️🇨🇦
Way better with the two of you. Way better for everyone, even if it doesn't keep them constantly comfortable and coddled.
When they go to your dm, they are hiding from the repercussions from the rest. Freaking trolls for the most part, you guys are great people. Keep doing you❤❤❤❤
just remember the old saying "Hurt people hurt people" y'all. YOU guys are a lot of fun and a great combo. Love how Lex seems to fall right into what you're listening to and it just starts coming out of her and then Brad is a bit more measured and lets the music build and soak in a bit first. Do your best to keep your heads up and don't allow the few negative comments cancel out all of the positive ones. as far a racist people, they're stupid anyway. I'm from the south and many people talk about how the South is so racist but nothing could be further from the truth. practically every family I know has mixed relatives of all races. you better not talk about a certain group of people b/c you might be talking about someone's aunt, uncle or parent! Racism still exists I guess but I think it's in small groups within really large populations b/c we don't see much of it down here.
So know this, you've got a couple fans in me and my wife down here in the South that love y'all lots!!!
Right from the jump, Brad is modeling how to put the effort into empathizing with other humans. The effort is the key here. Thank you!
Thank you for this channel. Yes I'm old and my race is human. Both of you make me enjoy the music of my youth a little more, and I enjoy watching you both discover this music.
You guy’s always have such positive energy it’s crazy that you get any hate.
I used to confront people when I saw people hating on a reactor in comments but I finally realized that is probably exactly what they want.
Love you guy’s and your channel’s 😊❤
The one that said Lex should find a rope made me cry. I can’t imagine how it feels to receive that kind of hate. I hope that you realize it’s not about you it’s completely about the stupid ass that made the comment.
😢 Yes I was so upset hearing what someone said about that and I'm so proud of Lex saying if your not that type of person why did you quickly say that. It just hurts so much to hear someone would say that..
Yeah, there are some real idiots out there. We keep coming back for a reason. We love watching you both! Please keep the content coming.
Haters gonna hate. I'm glad know you can rise above it. Jealousy and ignorance is usually at the bottom of it. Love you two!
The problem with haters is that they usually hate themselves. You two are the bomb!!!! Hang in there and keep doing whatcha do !!
It's very difficult for me to believe how anyone could hate you guys. You both are so great to watch. If more people could be like you two, what a great world it would be. Wish you both the best always.
She died from bilateral, pulmonary, embolisms. 2 blood clots hit her lungs killing her instantly. So YA I know all about bad years. But racism, and hate, still baffles me. You guys put out love, and strength. That’s why I love you guys. Along with a lot of help, I knew the only way out of my pain was to forgive the man that hurt my youngest daughter. And when I did… I felt free. So these haters. And racists, they aren’t free. They are slaves to their own hate and anger. You two never stop sending out live and light. Cuz I’m here for it. Just to prove hate does NOT have to win!!💙💙🫶🫶😇😇🙏🙏
Yall are blessings too me since i was in a car accident earlier last year. I had hospital stays for 6 weeks...yall are just positive energy! Keep it up!!!
Aw man! I hope you’re doing a lot better man ❤
@BradAndLex thanks doing alot better,I'm back in my home,but will always watch yall!
Do NOT give haters any of your energy. Brad I love your take on it.
I used to dislike Brad. But now I like Brad. Always loved Lex.
Why would someone comment negative? You guys are awesome. Do wish, as an elder goth, you would react to more darker stuff, Skinny Puppy, Bauhaus, Specimen, Skeletal Family, more Siouxie and the banshees, etc
Some people are just not comfortable with others being upbeat and positive. It’s easy to attack a person you don’t personally know. There is so many different styles of music. Not all of it is going to hit people the same. We are all different and we need to respect the differences. Please don’t let the haters change you!
It is so sad there are people like that in this world. I am heading for 70 years old, white guy, and when I was a young man I thought all this would be in the past - How wrong I was on that account. I have no advice except just keep being who you are - kind, loving people ... those who matter will continue to support you and the rest - well, frankly most of them are just losers who, if they were not being racist a-holes, would find some other group to blame for all their failures. Love, old white guy from Canada!
You seriously get this sh*t? You are such light! We love you!
Hi guys! I don't think that having a bad day is enough to pour out your despise. My experience is that it mostly is a self esteem thing. People with low self esteem have two options. Either boast about themselves or put others down. I have never experienced those kind of comments from a person with healthy self esteem. Ever. Take care.
Ps. Brad you are a good man. Ds.
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There are so many people out there with issues, be it mental health or just having a bad life, and take it out on whoever is convenient. I don’t see how anyone could say stuff like that to you guys because you seem so sweet and kind.
47 yr old white guy from central Alabama here! Love you guys, ive been listening to yall since you had like 30k suscribers.....im SO sorry that you guys have had to deal with peoples mental instability.
All these people are really just revealing what lives inside of them, it spews out all into their life on everyone and is destroying them and their life. Just let people like that drive on by and get away from you! Love you guys!!!
How can anyone hate you two? You seem like authentic, kind and wonderful people. Keep on keeping on!
LOL!!!!! Actually it was so worth hearing that message. So freaking funny. You are both solid, a great couple and compliment each other very well.
Thanks so much!! 😅🫶
Cannot imagine anyone hating you guys. Wow! Kind of puts the world in perspective. If people hate you, they can hate anyone. You are always so positive. All love!
I'm an old southern white dude and i think you guys are great. Pay no attention to haters, they really hate themselves and see something in you they envy so they resent you.
If I’m having a bad day, I watch y’all to vibe off y’all’s good nature. Hope y’all get all the greatness y’all deserve.