Mam garar ladka padha likha ho or dikhne me bhi thik ho family bhi thik ho me bhi padhi likhi hu job karti hu par muje vo ladka khas pasand nahi aya par meri family ko aya he to me kese mana karu ?? Meri family muje hi bol rahi ki achha to h kya burai he par muje nahi karni please solution do na mam
As per new report only 45 percent couples is married in India rest are unmarried so guys don’t demotivate itself because we have unlimited opportunities to explore.
Ek bar kha ladki height mai km hai... Ar ek ne kha ki ladki km beautiful hai... How iam face this rejection 😢😢iam 5'1" Wheaton colour girl.and very high in education.
Aap ke andar sari hai qualification hai aapko ghabrane ki bilkul jarurat nahin aapko bahut hi achcha ladka milega Jo aapke sath suitable baith ga best of luck
Meri height 5'3 ai ...slim smart...weatish...highly educated....they knew everything about me despite that they came ate and then said NO the next day...moreoer they are nothing infront of us ....
Hlo mam ... Please Mera problem solve krdo mujhe ledka dekhkr gya he aur ha boldiya jbki me shadi nhi krna chahti study krna chahti hu ... Mere papa nhiye mere chacha ke saamne me inkar nhi kr parhi hu mam please help me prso uski maa bhanhi dekhni arhi he meku mujhe ye shadi ngi krni he mam please give me solution 😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Shadi bhi ek problem hai , Karo tab bhi , na Karo tab bhi ,,mam mujhe post marriage ko soch ke man nhi krta shadi ko ,, lagta hai kuchh samay bad married life achhi nhi lgti hogi ,, job me rahkar social service karna achha Option hoga Kya ya shadi jaruri hai ?? Abhi apne target pe lgi hu , Mere family members kbhi shadi ki bat nhi krte but ek ladka 3 sal se purpose Kar rha hai ,, meri hi cast ka hai well settled hai ,, uski family bht rishte lati hai but vo jab bhi kabhi bat hoti hai to direct bolta hai ,, mujhe tumse hi shadi karni hai chahe jab Karo ,, Vo achha insan to lgta hai but mujhe koi attachment hota hi nhi ,, Mai kaise mna karu ki use hurt na ho ,, Kai bar Mai mna bhi Kar chuki hu to msg band KR deta hai ,fir kbhi bat ho chahe jitna time beet Jaye to fir se vo direct bol deta hai ki tumse hi shadi karunga ,,, bht confused hu Kya karu
@@gulshanara1499 Mam Mana Kar Diya Maine , jab Tak gvt job me final selection nhi ho jata ,shadi ke bare me soch Tak nhi sakti Mai aur kisi ko is wait karana thik nhi hai , in future pta nhi Kya ho ,,
@@alien_heathens5119Same....now they don't even ask for my opinion.... mujhe shaadi hi nahi karni....jab ye bola to kehte hai shadi nahi karogi to kya karogi ??
Isme apki galti nhi he. Shayad wo ye soch rahe ho ki aap jyada padhi likhi he to unke beta inferiority complex feel krega isiliye mana krte he kyunki koi b purush apne se jyada pdhi likhi aur jyada kamai krti ladki ko tolerate nhi kar pate. Unka ego hurt hota he so aap apne jese study kiye hue ladke ko pasand kijie
Mam meri bhi problem solve kardo. Actually jab mein paida hui thi tab hi mere mamu ne kaha tha k wo meri shadi apne bete se karayeg. Ab mein december ko 15 ki ho jaungi mere nani ne kaha hai k wo mere abbu se mangni ki baat karegi aur agle mahine ko meri mangni karaegi mein shadi nahi karna chahti kyunke mujhe shadi se todhi si problem hai mujhe nahi karni hai shadi lekin wo mere mamu ka beta hai mere mamu ne mere parents keliye bohot kuch kiya hai usne hamare bure waqt mein hamara sath diya hai mein shadi nahi karna chahti lekin phir bhi ye log mujhe majbur kar rahe hai mein agar manah kar doon to abbu ko bhi bura lagega aur mere mamu bhi mujhse naraz go sakte hai per mein kya karoon mein shadi keliye tayaar nahi hoon mein shadi keliye mana karna chahti hoon lekin mein kisi ka dil nahi dukhana chahti. Mam please mujhe koi tareeqa batao mein andhar hi andhar ro rahi hun mujhe samajh nahi aaraha hai k mein kya karun mein kuch karna chahti hoon kuch banna chahti hoon apne pero pe kadha ho a chahti hun apne abu keliye kuch karna chahti hun mei itni jaldi shadi nahi karna chahti even ke mei use apna bhai bhi manti hun leki jab bhi mein ye kehti hun to sab mujhe kehte hai k gunah hai aise mat kaho...mam please koi idea do mujhe 25 se pehle shadi nahi karni please agar aap abhi online hai to mujhe reply do. Mujhe kisi ke support ki zarurat hai lekin .ein apne takleef kisi ko naho batati bas sirf yun hi comments mein likh deti hun aise sab mazak uthate hai lekin jab yun hi comments mein likh deti hun aur log aachiacchi batein karke madad karte hai to dil ko sukoon milta hai... please mam meri jelp karo please.....
Pahle aap yah Karen ki jo aapke sabse Kareeb Ho u aur agar vah kahane se inkar kar use aap apne dil ki sari baten kah Den aur unse bole ke yah message aapke Abbu Tak pahuncha den
@@gulshanara1499 thanks mam mein apne besties se kahungi I wish k wo abbu se baat karle lekin agar unhone nahi kiya to mein khud baat karungi apne abbu se kyunke mere abbu bhi chahte hai k mein padh loon aur ek kamyab doctor ban jaun. Thank you so much. Love you❤❤❤❤❤
@@umme6960 di agar aap padhna chahti hai aur apki family apka sath nahi deti to aap apni padhai per sara dhyan de har chiz se apna dil hata de is se apke number acche aayenge jis se aapke parents khush honge aur wo apko padhane ka sochenge. Hamare khandan mein ek ladki ko photo kinchna bhi allow nahi hai, mobile padhai, aur baqi sab to bohot dur ķi baat hai lekin mein jab paida hui to mere abbu ne tab se socha hai k wo mujhe doctor baenge ammi ne bataya tha k tumhari dadi tumhare paidaish se khush nahi thi use ladka chahiye tha kyunke mere paidaish se 2 saal pehle mere bhai foth hue the lekin phir abbu ne pure khandan ke samne ye keh kar dadi ko chup karay k ye sirf meri beti nahi mera badha beta bhi hai. Kab mein 6 saal ki thi tab mujhe el school mein admission delayi gayi aur mein ne sirf 6 month mein top kiya jiski wajah se mujhe 1 saal tak fee bhi free hua....
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Mam garar ladka padha likha ho or dikhne me bhi thik ho family bhi thik ho me bhi padhi likhi hu job karti hu par muje vo ladka khas pasand nahi aya par meri family ko aya he to me kese mana karu ?? Meri family muje hi bol rahi ki achha to h kya burai he par muje nahi karni please solution do na mam
Same situation is mine now
As per new report only 45 percent couples is married in India rest are unmarried so guys don’t demotivate itself because we have unlimited opportunities to explore.
good work auntie gii
Politely reason dene ke bad bhi parents khudke point of view se palatvar krte hai 😢
ahahahha
Ek bar kha ladki height mai km hai... Ar ek ne kha ki ladki km beautiful hai... How iam face this rejection 😢😢iam 5'1" Wheaton colour girl.and very high in education.
Aap ke andar sari hai qualification hai aapko ghabrane ki bilkul jarurat nahin aapko bahut hi achcha ladka milega Jo aapke sath suitable baith ga best of luck
Same here bcoz of height prblm....now feeling very low....😢padhna likhna kuch nhi dikhta height k aage logo ko😢
Meri height 5'3 ai ...slim smart...weatish...highly educated....they knew everything about me despite that they came ate and then said NO the next day...moreoer they are nothing infront of us ....
What if the only reason remain to reject is their looks?
You deserve better
Meko to choti h bolkr reject Kar Diya 😅😅😅
Priti Aisa aap kitni chhoti he
@@gulshanara1499 19 year mam
@@pritysharma1311 Mai hu na 😅
Sach bolna hi sahi hota hai
Hlo mam ... Please Mera problem solve krdo mujhe ledka dekhkr gya he aur ha boldiya jbki me shadi nhi krna chahti study krna chahti hu ... Mere papa nhiye mere chacha ke saamne me inkar nhi kr parhi hu mam please help me prso uski maa bhanhi dekhni arhi he meku mujhe ye shadi ngi krni he mam please give me solution 😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hiee tumhra shaadi hua ya nahi?
@@SuparnaDas-k3y nhi hua he
Shadi bhi ek problem hai , Karo tab bhi , na Karo tab bhi ,,mam mujhe post marriage ko soch ke man nhi krta shadi ko ,, lagta hai kuchh samay bad married life achhi nhi lgti hogi ,, job me rahkar social service karna achha Option hoga Kya ya shadi jaruri hai ?? Abhi apne target pe lgi hu , Mere family members kbhi shadi ki bat nhi krte but ek ladka 3 sal se purpose Kar rha hai ,, meri hi cast ka hai well settled hai ,, uski family bht rishte lati hai but vo jab bhi kabhi bat hoti hai to direct bolta hai ,, mujhe tumse hi shadi karni hai chahe jab Karo ,, Vo achha insan to lgta hai but mujhe koi attachment hota hi nhi ,, Mai kaise mna karu ki use hurt na ho ,, Kai bar Mai mna bhi Kar chuki hu to msg band KR deta hai ,fir kbhi bat ho chahe jitna time beet Jaye to fir se vo direct bol deta hai ki tumse hi shadi karunga ,,, bht confused hu Kya karu
Agar vah achcha ladka hai aur Nek Insaan hai aur aap se sacchi Mohabbat Karta hai to aapko shaadi karne mein kya aitraaz he
Aur agar aap usse shaadi nahin karna chahti kya aap usko pasand nahin Karti to saaf saaf ka dijiye ke main aapse shaadi nahin kar sakti
Kyon ke kisi ko ummid per rakhna bahut hi galat baat hai
Jab koi ladka 3 sal se aapka rate kar raha hai to mujhe nahin lagta ki vah ladka aap Ko Dhokha de raha hai
@@gulshanara1499 Mam Mana Kar Diya Maine , jab Tak gvt job me final selection nhi ho jata ,shadi ke bare me soch Tak nhi sakti Mai aur kisi ko is wait karana thik nhi hai , in future pta nhi Kya ho ,,
Jis din hum dekhne gye ldka.. wo boht sare log le aye... muje pressure me haan krni pdi.. but ab Mera dil nhi man rha kya kru... Shagun b dal chuka he
Aapko Jo pasand hai unhi se sadi kriye
Mana kar do
Jbrdsti ki shadi se kaise inkar kre
Just say no to your parents
@@blueb3rryIce didn't Work for me !
yes...
Parents daante h bhut ki tumko har jgha mna hi krni hoti h
@@alien_heathens5119Same....now they don't even ask for my opinion.... mujhe shaadi hi nahi karni....jab ye bola to kehte hai shadi nahi karogi to kya karogi ??
Right mam👍
Ladka umar mein bada ho to kya karen?
Ladka ladki se age mein thoda bada hona chahie lekin agar 10 12 saal ka distance hai to aage problem ho sakti hai
Mam apki har bhut beautiful h
Sister koi zyda parhi lekhi ko reject kar dety hao
Isme apki galti nhi he. Shayad wo ye soch rahe ho ki aap jyada padhi likhi he to unke beta inferiority complex feel krega isiliye mana krte he kyunki koi b purush apne se jyada pdhi likhi aur jyada kamai krti ladki ko tolerate nhi kar pate. Unka ego hurt hota he so aap apne jese study kiye hue ladke ko pasand kijie
Mjy kaha height km ai
Girl is well educated a got descent job and she is preety well but her highet is 5 .5 and i am 6.1 now im so confused how to reject proposal
Why do you want to reject her?
👍absultly mam
Kundali v ek reason ho sakta hai
Religion ki waja se parents nahi man rhy...
Bas Ek sawal hai mam
Kia Jodi bhagwan bana kr bejte hai..
Nahi - its pseudoscience - nonsense
Bhagwan koi jodi nhi banate hai.... Sab insaan hi karta hai....
Everything happens according to the Decree of ALLAH. I advise you to read the Qur'aan
Haa dear
Nonsense
Mam meri bhi problem solve kardo. Actually jab mein paida hui thi tab hi mere mamu ne kaha tha k wo meri shadi apne bete se karayeg. Ab mein december ko 15 ki ho jaungi mere nani ne kaha hai k wo mere abbu se mangni ki baat karegi aur agle mahine ko meri mangni karaegi mein shadi nahi karna chahti kyunke mujhe shadi se todhi si problem hai mujhe nahi karni hai shadi lekin wo mere mamu ka beta hai mere mamu ne mere parents keliye bohot kuch kiya hai usne hamare bure waqt mein hamara sath diya hai mein shadi nahi karna chahti lekin phir bhi ye log mujhe majbur kar rahe hai mein agar manah kar doon to abbu ko bhi bura lagega aur mere mamu bhi mujhse naraz go sakte hai per mein kya karoon mein shadi keliye tayaar nahi hoon mein shadi keliye mana karna chahti hoon lekin mein kisi ka dil nahi dukhana chahti. Mam please mujhe koi tareeqa batao mein andhar hi andhar ro rahi hun mujhe samajh nahi aaraha hai k mein kya karun mein kuch karna chahti hoon kuch banna chahti hoon apne pero pe kadha ho a chahti hun apne abu keliye kuch karna chahti hun mei itni jaldi shadi nahi karna chahti even ke mei use apna bhai bhi manti hun leki jab bhi mein ye kehti hun to sab mujhe kehte hai k gunah hai aise mat kaho...mam please koi idea do mujhe 25 se pehle shadi nahi karni please agar aap abhi online hai to mujhe reply do. Mujhe kisi ke support ki zarurat hai lekin .ein apne takleef kisi ko naho batati bas sirf yun hi comments mein likh deti hun aise sab mazak uthate hai lekin jab yun hi comments mein likh deti hun aur log aachiacchi batein karke madad karte hai to dil ko sukoon milta hai... please mam meri jelp karo please.....
Pahle aap yah Karen ki jo aapke sabse Kareeb Ho u aur agar vah kahane se inkar kar use aap apne dil ki sari baten kah Den aur unse bole ke yah message aapke Abbu Tak pahuncha den
Aur agar tab bhi Kam nahin Banta to aap mauka dekh kar Apne Abbu se sari baat bata de vah aapke parents Hain jarur aapki baat ko samjhenge
Same problem 😶mujhe b aisa hi hai,mein b padna chahthi hoon,but mere parents support nai karre ☹️☹️
@@gulshanara1499 thanks mam mein apne besties se kahungi I wish k wo abbu se baat karle lekin agar unhone nahi kiya to mein khud baat karungi apne abbu se kyunke mere abbu bhi chahte hai k mein padh loon aur ek kamyab doctor ban jaun. Thank you so much. Love you❤❤❤❤❤
@@umme6960 di agar aap padhna chahti hai aur apki family apka sath nahi deti to aap apni padhai per sara dhyan de har chiz se apna dil hata de is se apke number acche aayenge jis se aapke parents khush honge aur wo apko padhane ka sochenge. Hamare khandan mein ek ladki ko photo kinchna bhi allow nahi hai, mobile padhai, aur baqi sab to bohot dur ķi baat hai lekin mein jab paida hui to mere abbu ne tab se socha hai k wo mujhe doctor baenge ammi ne bataya tha k tumhari dadi tumhare paidaish se khush nahi thi use ladka chahiye tha kyunke mere paidaish se 2 saal pehle mere bhai foth hue the lekin phir abbu ne pure khandan ke samne ye keh kar dadi ko chup karay k ye sirf meri beti nahi mera badha beta bhi hai. Kab mein 6 saal ki thi tab mujhe el school mein admission delayi gayi aur mein ne sirf 6 month mein top kiya jiski wajah se mujhe 1 saal tak fee bhi free hua....