Sister just take your stand…..independent bno or kisi se mt dbo…..be strong sis…..mere parents bhi bht pressure kar rhe the but mene stand liya or ab mai independent hu
Already tired, i clearly told my parents that I don't want to get married am not ready nd i want to focus on my carrier, but there reaction was like ladko ho kr to rhi ho job or kya carrier, shadi k bad sab ready ho jate adat ho jati hai ye koi baat ni hoti tumhari Umar ho gyi ( am 28), nd fir roj k torture, kahi bahar friends k sath chale jao to 10 bar call baate sunna ki yahi chahiye tumhe aaiyashi krni raat me ghumna tabhi shadi ni kr rhi ho
@@bhanushreeshakya761 sch bta rhi hu sis apne experience se kisi ki mt suno chahe kuch bhi ho jaye…be strong…bs apne career pr dhyan do or jo krna chahte ho wo bn kr dikhao unko unka muh apne ap bnd ho jayega….trust me 😊
@@ashuvijay7031 waise mahol se nikalne ki kosis kijiye Aur hamare hath me to kuch nahi hai Kitna bhi kuch kar lo duniya ke liye to parents hi hamesa sahi rahenge aur bacche galat Aap khyal rakhiye ❤
@@priyakumari6073 Nikal Gaya tha unke mahol se...apni job lagwa kar..par jaise hi job laga...bada bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod gaya sabko rulaake or uski love marriage bhi bigad gayi....main uske gam me bimaar pad gaya buri tarah q ki usse mera deep attachment tha...par Puri family hi toxic nikal gayi or ab family ke toxic hone se shadi bhi nahi ho paa rahi meri
भारत एक महान देश है, लेकिन जिस समाज में हम रहते हैं उसकी मानसिकता एकदम दोयम दर्जे की निचली मानसिकता है, 99.9 लोगों के नजर में सिर्फ शादी, बीवी बच्चे करना ही जीवन का एकमात्र उद्देश्य है और बाकी लोगों को भी वे वही सलाह देते हैं, क्योंकि वो भी खुद ही इसी तरह का जीवन जीते आए हैं तो दूसरों को कुछ नया थोड़ी सिखाएंगे, और यही सिस्टम चलता रह जाता है। लेकिन इसके लिए जीवन में कुछ अलग करने की इच्छा रखने वालों को घर परिवार,मां बाप, समाज और रिश्तेदारों के खिलाफ तो जाना ही पड़ेगा वरना एक कुंवारे को ये लोग जीने नहीं देंगे कभी।
Badal na hoga samaj ko bhi or logo ki soch ko bhi. Bacho ki shi Umar av shadi ki nahi gools pure krne ki honi chahiye success full hone ki honi chahiye
Sabse jyada pressure ldkiyon par hota h har roj pareshan kiya jaata h aur jo ladkiyan independent ni hoti h wo to khud k liye decision apne according le ni hi ni skti qki lad kar agar ghar me reh bhi loge to kuch father aise hote hain ki ghar me sukun se rehne hi ni dete
Fact is this sometimes independent ladkiya bhi kuch nhi kar pati toxic parents ke samne Jo bas mentally torture krte hai physically kuch nhi karenge khud girne marne ka natak karenge ki hum toh bht ache hain aisee logo ke samne kya kroge aap gold cage mein rehti hai aisi ladkiyon highly toxic parents
@@kritikasingh8659toxic parents ka to puchho mat unke aapas ke jhagdo ne meri puri jawani barbaad kar di ..age 33...gharwalo ki vajah se shadi ki age hi nikal Rahi h meri to or Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod gaya...Puri family toxic h meri..😑😑😑 meri shadi hi atak gayi or ab depression tanaav
Yha jin do logo ki shadi hai wo khush ho na ho shadi se wo metter nhi krta sare ristedar or pdosi khush hone chahiye. Parents ko b bas free hone tk he mtlb rehta hai jyadatar ko.
Bhaiya forced marriage toh waise bhi ek bohot BADA crime hota hai agar Aapke parents bhi aapko iske liye force Kar rahe Hain toh aap unke khilaaf bhi police mein complaint Kar sakte Hain ya fir lady commission ke pass Jake madad maang sakte Hain phir chahe Aapke upar domestic violence , emotional torcher , blackmailing , suicide threats Jo bhi Kiya ja Raha ho Aap khud ke maa baap ke upar bhi complaint Kar sakte Hain agar aapko forced Kiya ja Raha hai marriage ke liye toh aur Haan sabse zaroori BAAT ye ki jahan tak mujhe Lagta hai bohot logon ko shayad se ye BAAT na pata ho lekin agar aapki Shaadi forcefully ho bhi Jaye toh bhi Shaadi ho Jane ke 90 Dino ke andar andar Aapke pass us zabardasti ki Shaadi ki void karwane Ka poora chance hota hai annulment of marriage act ke zariye jisme agar aapko kaise bhi ya toh force Karke ya fraud Karke Shaadi karwayi gayi ho toh court us Shaadi ko void Kar degi bas aapko court tak Jane ki zaroorat hai aur aap us Shaadi se bahar Nikal payenge phir Aapke maa baap bhi Aapka Kuch Nahi bigaad sakte lekin main ye bolata hoon ki aap Shaadi ki void karwane tak ki naubat hi mat aane do agar aapko torcher Karke Shaadi karwayi ja rahi hai blackmail ke zariye toh ya toh legal tarike se help maango lady commission ya mahila aayog ke pass Jake ya phir mauka dekhte hi Shaadi hone se pehle Ghar se bhaag jao taki aapki Zindagi barbaad hone se Bach Jaye Aur Haan ek BAAT aur annulment of marriage koi divorce Nahi balki ye ek aisa act hota hai agar Kisi bhi ek insaan ki Shaadi zabardasti ya phir Dono ki karwayi gayi ho toh Woh Bina divorce ke hi void ho jayegi
Sir apne jo bat kahi bilkul right he aaj kal maa baap apne jmane ke najriye se dekhtey he bt bete ki life me kya chal rha he un se unhe matlb nhi bs shadi krle bachhe paida kr ke de de
Parents hamesha sahi nahi hote unke intentions unke hisab se sahi hote hai ....kbhi bahut selfish hote hai parents ...bacche ka life bcche ki wish gyi bhaad main ...har kisi ko maa baap hone ka Haa nhi hona chaiye
I can totally relate to this topic. But my parents don't understand even after making them understand. They think that i am involved with anyone else whenever i say no to marriage (a guy)
Sir my relatives are forcing my parents for my marriage but i have just completed class 12 and I am preparing for neet exam. They tells my parents that others girls who is younger than me have already got married n they even have children n girls should not be given higher education as they are going to do the household chores. They are pressuring my parents as well as me. But my brother encourages me to follow my dream
Main sirf 19 saal ki hu aur shadi k liye bahut pressure kr rhe hai. Bahut mana k dekh liya bina meri marzi k rista fix kr diye. I am not happy with their decision. Man krta hai ki main kuch kr khud ko
Same yaar me to 18 ki hu 😢😢 but me nhi Maan rhi ghr vale gali de rah h toucer kr rah h but me apne sapno ke liye jinaa chaha rhi hu kunki life ham jeena h aag ghr valo ko nhi ager ghr vale pyaar krt h to nhi krng but khude ki ijjat ko royge to kuch nhi ho skta
Me 21 ki hu mera abhi 2 nd year chal raha he . Mere parents shadi ke liye force karrahe he ladke ki government job he. Ek vakt ke liye me apne dreams ke liye give up karne kaa soch rahi thi 🥺🥺 Thank you for your advice, meri baat samjhne vala yaha koi nahi hai Lekin ab mujhe thoda easy feel ho raha he . Thank you 🙏
Thankyou sir...mai bhot depression me hu....m job lgna chahti hu pahle or meri family mujhe shadi k liye dbaw de ri h...m bhot bar smjha chuki unko bt vo mujhse bat tk ni krte ...😭😭 Mere exam h ssc k or upr se mujhe itni tension de rhe h ...koi mujhse bat b ni krta ..bt aj apki bat sunke hosla mila mujhe 🙏 thankyou bhaiya 😭🙏
@@AnubhavJain hnji bhaiya ...mera exam h 21 October ko mere pass sirf dhai month h...or family me sb nraj se h bt mujhe job lgna h ..mai khud self employe bhi hu ...bt apki wjy se aj bhot hosla mila..mai abhi video dekhne se pahle tension me thi bt ab mind set ho gya thanks bhaiya 🙏😭
Same situation mai mere ghr m bilkul akeli pd gyi hu family ka pressure b h koi b single member mujse baat ni krta muje hr wqt ghutn hoti h kayi baar suicide krne ka mn m khyaal aaya lekin bs isliye jinda hu ki kuch Krna h is smaaj k liye sch btaau bahan jindagi narak bn gyi h meri
Sala kise ke bap se darne ka nahi... respect sabki krne ka lekin darne ka nahi.....apne goal ko apne aap me feel krne ka....padosi se rishtedar se kisi ke bap se darne ka nahi .....🙏
I'm financially weak right now that's my reason of not getting marriage i want to settle myself first financially I don't my decision or thinking is right or wrong but i won't accept an ordinary life like others. I accepted being unmarried for lifetime but not acceptable adjusted life for me and one whom i married.
प्रणाम सर 🙏। मेरी मां को जल्द ही बड़ा ऑपरेशन करने के लिए डॉक्टर ने बोला है, जिससे मेरी मां मेरे लिए लड़की पसंद की है अगले साल शादी के लिए ताकि घर संभालने वाला कोई रहे। लेकिन मैं अपनी पढ़ाई को लेकर बहुत व्यस्त हु और सोचा था की अभी 5 साल से पहले शादी के बारे में नहीं सोचूंगा। अब आप बताएं क्या क्यूं? वैसे 1 साल पहले मेरा प्रेम संबंध एक लड़की से असफल रहा। जिससे मेरा मन में वैराग्य हो गया शादी को लेकर, अब सिर्फ अपने को आगे बढ़ाने में ध्यान देता हूं।🙏
#ignore everything. guy's.. Sono sabki ....Lekin Kro Apne Dil ki Becoz zindagii Apka hai...... Zeet aapki hai future apki hai.............. *********Everything is possible..... when you work on law of attraction........... 🌎✍️I believe in the universe and signals.... I love Energy..... I love signal...... I attract ,,,what I burning desire.... If you agree 👍💯😀🙏😂
My parents are also forcing me to get married. I told them I dont want to cuz im not mentally prepared but they dont listen and start emotional blackmail. They are doing everything without asking me and im feeling depressed every single day. I know if I marry on their request i will not be happy and this will also be a problem for my partner. But they don't care. I dont want any issues between family but I think there will be.
Mere parents bhi mujhe force kar rahe hai shaadi ke liye....i told them mujhe nahi karni, am not prepare phir bhi yehi kehte hai ki aaj nhi toh kal karni hi padegi naa upar se ladka jo pasand kia hai wo bhi mere se 15 saal bada hai....m crying while writing this comment
Guilty feel nahi hota... Anxiety hoti hai aur overthinking hota hai.. jisey jo important kaam hota hai jese career/study usme lack of attention and efforts hota hai...
भैया मै अभी शादी नहीं करना चाहती mughe अभी पढाई करनी है समाज में मै अपना खुद का स्टेटस बनाना चाहती हू मेरी उम्र अभी 23 वा ईयर चल रहा पढाई करनी चाहती हू लोग कहते है मेरी उमर निकल जा रहीं बहुत टैंशन है अब तो मेरा किताब कॉपी पेन chune का मन नही कर रहा
UPSC krna cahti Hoon but family jbrtasti shadi krwana chate hai I'm 22 years old isliye phle bank po niklaungi then UPSC ki preparation krungi kuch bhi hojaye 🤞
Meri toh 19 hai abhi 20 years b nehi hui life kharap karne chale hai, shadi shadi karne bethe hai maabaap....life main kuch karna hai or hamari pasand se he karna hai naa ki unka jo kabi ish ladko ko dhang se jante b nehi ashe insan k sath kaise shadi karle...yeh famliy wale hamare pi6e kyu pade rahte hai yr
Bhaiya Indian Society me agar Parents na chahte hon ki shadi karwaye bacche ka fir v humare Relatives shadi ke riste layenge har dusre din aur parents ho hi force karte rahenge Aise relatives ke against kya kare ??
Meri jabrdsti engagement krwa Di sir....or mujhe majboori mein us ldke se baat krni padti hai....main us ldke ko bol bhii chuki hu k mujhe Shaadi nhi krni ...main happy nhi hu is Shaadi se..lakin wo ldka smjhane lgg jata hai k agar hmne engagement Tod Di to bhot badnaami hogi..isliye parents ki izat k liye krni pdegi😭😭...lakin main Khush nhi hu....hmaari financial condition bhi Shi nhi hai ....yeh bhi bdi majboori hai...mujhe kya krna Chahiye...
I'm 22 and my parents are pressurising me to such an extent the I couldn't have imagined... I'm just asking for some time... Just 1-2 years more...bt they are ignoring me like I don't exist...
Same condition I really getting depressed 😔💔 yrr hum ldkiyon ko tym tk ni dete right tym ane p kr lenge n ky dikkt hn m to next year tk ka wait krne ko bolri is saal ruk jao next year dekhna bt unko nhi sun na h kuch
@@lilly1224 Are you in love with someone?? If yes so plz don't say yes to your parents for marriage bcz main v yhi face kr ri hu thoda selfish bn jao tumhe pta m milne gyi jis se sadi krne ko bolre hain to maine observe kra us admi ko ki kesa puche us ko question kyu krni h sadi bt iam lucky uski age 28 h or m just 21 v nhi hu means August m honge 21 meko so ye h fr usko pucha tum drink krte ho to he says yes bt only sadi party m so meko fr mna krne ka moka mil gya maine hn nhi kri us bnde ko or ghr aa k bola wo drink krta 😀or sch bolu thoda sa jhooth v bol Dena 😁 tum bch jaoge m to avi nikli ni problm se BT hn m kho ni skti apne love ko or m fight krungi all the best for u
Same muje bi nhi krna h.. But humesa ldka hi dekte rhte h... Mujse to puchte bi nhi h krne ki icha hai ya nhi. Bs ldka dudne m lge rhte h.. Isi reason se mujhe grwalo se nafrat hone lgi h ab. 😞itna pressure hai ki sir tk dukne lgta h mera.
@@pritymaurya7646 koshish poori Krna love k liye fight Krna bt I mt case 🥺 maine ki yrr lekin ghrwalo k against nhi ja payi finally hum alg ho gye abb wo apne raste m apne meri to engagement v fix ho gyi ab jo hoga mummy papa bura v nhi chahte to bolte hainn
Mere saath bhi asa h... Phle mera career usske bd shadi krnii h ... Mjhe love marrige krni h... Bo mjhpe roj preesute dete h.. Ki shadhi kr lo.. Ladka accha milega... Or pta nii kbhi tumhara career bnega bhi nii .... Mjhe hmsamha demotivate krte h... Ki kuch nii kr paogee... Mne usse sab kuch saaf kha ki.. M iss rishte m kbhi khush nii rh paogii... Mne phle ek br parents k liye sab chod diya tha.... M bhut dhukhi rhne lgi thii.. Mjhe to mera upr s trust khtm ho gya tha
Sir ,my parents are not listening to me at all... their only focus is on my Marriage...what can I do? They pressurize me that we are your parents, it's our duty and decision that whom you should marry. After marriage we won't take any decisions of your life.. what the hell...sab khatam karne k baad i will take decisions for my life.. I mean it's my life, don't I have any freedom to take decisions. Also I am not ready for marriage.
Tell them clearly that you will not marry at any cost . If they are not listening then stop convincing them clearly and take decisions of your life by yourself.
I moved out for same reason as my intution guided me and I feel right in all the senses . Regardless of what is the reason u need to feel excited for such a big thing in your life . or else what’s the point .
सिर्फ घरवाले नाही बाहरके rishtedaar भी प्रेशर क्रिएट कर रहे है, दादी लोगो में फैला रही है next year this Diwali, all don't care about my job, careet, education, qualification what they cared for is what they get out of me, some people tried proving me mentally sick, if in case required I will have to take some serious action if any expert here, definitely guide.
Awesome sir... Ye situation present time meri bhi h family pressure saadii k liye but apk thoughts ek clear way dikh gya so tell him her.. Thanks for ur this video.... 🙏😘😇
Mera dost pahle bahut khus rhta h jab se shadi huyi h bechara ab bahut dukhi rhta h 😄😄😄😄 usko bhi bahut samjha kar shadi k liye mnaye the ab dukhi h to koi puchhne wala nhi h plzz kisi ki Mt sunu shadi it's very personal choice
sirf iska ek hi ilaaj hai sudh jo apko aisa kahe bas gariyana suru kar do chahe wo kitna bhi khas kyon na ho? apki life bahut achi ho jaegi? maine ye use krke dekha hai mujhe bahut achee parinam mile hain>>>
Thank you so much for this video. My parents were forcing me to get married from last one month after I sent them this video they agreed to give me the time I asked for.
Shadi wala chapter mera to jina hraam kr diya h 2022 upsc ka last chance h 18 yrs se medicine pr hu Aksr helth down rahta h Me bdi hu,bhai chhote h Mmy bimaar rahti h,ghr sambhalne wala koi nhi h Bhai mere ko blame krta h Ki Jb tk teri shadi nhi hoti tb tk me nhi krunga Isme mmy pis rhi Ek ek din jindagi jina mere liye chunauti h Ladka hoti to asaan hota Mere smaaj me 99/- Aaj v shadi k baad ladkon ko ek full life kapackage rani kaho ya naukaraani mil jati h Jo uska chay nasta bed cloth chord Family sabko smbhalti h Fir v Jo sauraal wale khen whi krna h 😭😭😭 Kaleja ro deta h bhaiya Ek to aisa health condition Upar se koi samjh nhi pata Mmy chup rahti h But Papa mmy ko kuchh nhi smjhte Me pdhaayi k liye v ghr se ladke aur bhag kr gyi thi,suru se ab tk Lodhi road Delhi sai hospital nhi hota to servive nhi kr payi hoti delhi m Kvi kisi se kuchh nhi kahti Kyi baar man hua aapse bolun But ishwar ko to saare exams mere se hi lene h Me apni life ka sirf ek jhalak dikhla skti hu Puri tarah se smjhana impossible h msg pr Money problem Family problem Health problem Aur jane. . . . . .kya kya Bhaiya,Jo chijen kisi k liye halwa hoti h.whi kisi ko uske liye ishwar se minnaten krni padti h. Lockdown me is baar ghr pr fas gyi Jina mushkil ho gya h. Mere last chance v aagye Is corona maharaaj k chakkar me.😊😊😊💪 Aapke shabd bdi sukun dete h. Charan sparsh bhaiya🙏🙏🙏
Beta, tumhari age kya hai? Kya bimari hai ki long time se medicine par ho? Delhi me acchhe dr. Hai unse kyu nhi treatment karti. Pahle tumhara health jaruri hai. Health nhi sahi hoga to kuchh nhi kar sakti. Delhi me kisake sath rahti ho
Baby beta, apni bimari batao, mai tumko best Dr. Batata hu, आश्चर्य है की मै 1000 km दूर से अपनी किडनी का इलाज कराने के लिए 2016 से दिल्ली जाता हु, वहां के treatment से बहुत ठीक हु, लेकिन तुम वही रह कर अपना ट्रीटमेंट नही कराती, long time से बीमार हो, इसका मतलब तुम खुद अपना ख्याल नही रखती, बीमारी बताओ, एक बार का डॉक्टर का fee मै दे दूंगा, Indraprastha Apollo hospitals Sarita bihar ke dr. Ki maximum fee 1800 hai, max hospital vaishali ki maximum fee 1200 hai, scart heart hospital ke dr. Seth ki 3000 hai, usi hospital ke dr. Anil saxena ki 1500 hai, Yadi tum gurugram se hogi to medanta ke dr. Lalitha sekhar se dikhao. Unki bhi 1600 hai
Same problem Mai ek ladki hu mai bhi shaadi nhi karna chahti but mere Parents'meri shaadi jabardasti karwa rhe h sab log milkar bahut jyada had se jyada taucher kar rhe h Mai unko hajar bar mna kar diya maine But vo nhi samjh rhe h Man kar rha suside kar lu 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
i ruined my entire life due to this. i used to be a school topper but i got so scared that i took too many things, courses, jobs, etc. All this hampered my mental health & results. Now i lost everything. I have to start everything from scratch.
Bhut baar kaha hai parents ko mera shaadi ka planning ka 3 yrs ke baad karungi phir ve nhi maan rahe hain.. unka bas ek hi dialogue hai kya ukhad dun ke main lyf par.. mera sibling ve mera support nhi krte hain bolte hai Ghar par sunne se acha hain karlo shaadi warna baad par char baccho ke baap se shaadi karna hoga aur mein jisse pyr karti thi woh ve time mangta hai uske pass himat nhi hai mere parents se baat karne ke liye maine usko chod dia mera lyf ka 3 yrs ke piche baar baad kar dia uske pyr ke wazar se ache ache job ko reject kia dusre city nhi gye job karne.... Waise ve mujhe shaadi par phle se hi barosha nhi tha ... But jisse be pyr karti hoon woh unka kch na kch problem nikl jata hain.... Kisse ka ve himmat nhi haii family se baat kre
Thank u sir bhut logo ke ghro m ye hi hota h bt I m lucky my parents didn't force me vo is bt ke liye mre sth h khte h JB tumhe krna h TB krna and m sbhi ke liye pray krti hu ki sbke sth accha ho
@@bhawnaagrawal652 mere Parents meri baat mante hai, jo kehta hu ager wo kr skte hai to pura krte bhi hai....per janti ho mai chata hu ki wo ekdem strict rhe, ek Parents hone ke naate jo unhe Krna chaiye wo kre naa ki mere kehne per chle
@@Ak...21 enjoy kro bhut logo Ko ye SB Naseeb nhi ki unke mummy Papa unko smjhe or unki bt mane ap unki feelings ka respect kre or unse vhi expect kre jo vo kr ske
Ladki agr family ko bolegi to ulta marege log maa bap ladki ko kaid rakhte h wahhh re ma bap ek ladki se puchh bhi nhi jata h ki sadi karogi tum nhi bhai nhi bhagwan mujhe agle janam me ladki mat Banna please 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same problem hai meri 15 din k ander ander krne ki bol rhe hai jb bacche boj hi lgte hai to kyu peda krte hai ye to pele se pta hona chahiye na ki bacche peda karenge to khrch hoga to krte hi nhi peda kr liye bachhe ab unki jindagi barbad kr rkhi hai😭😭😭
Mujhe to nahi karna chaahe jitna force kare😊😊😊kyunki mujhe nahi lagta shaadi ke bina life bekaar hai mammi yahi kahti hai ki khana khud banaana ye koi baat hui😢😢😢aur ek faayda ye bhi hai jab koi family hi nahi rahegi to na baccho ki tension aur na koi rishtedaar shaadi me bulaayega mujhe to vaishe bhi jaane ka man nahi hota hai bhaad me jaaye ma vuavaar me dene ki jaroorat kyunki jab bacche hi nahi rahenge to unki na shaadi karwana padega na doosro ko vyavaar me dena padega bahut faayde hai aise.
Sir. Hmaare smaaj may ek bahut badi buraayi hay.Please awareness failayiye. Log matrimonial site pe connect kar lete hain.Boys girls relationship trust may aa jaate hay like we are marrying. Even families bhi involved hoti hay dono side ki. Sab khucch theek hota hay & then suddenly ek family mna kar deti for lame reasons like financial status when they get other good option. They simply block & move on Jo personally Maine experience kiya hay.I mean ki ye feelings say khilwaad hay & wastage of 6 months to 1year. I want ki aisa koi campaign chlaya jaaye like MeTwo ki tarah . Like koi dubara aisa karey toh digital jmaane may unnko & unnki family ko expose kiya jaaye with there commitments & declarations. So that future may koi aisa glat kaam Na karey & wo family bhi kissi or ko pareshaan Na karey.
What if suffering annoyance in home , pressure to get marry What is the way to avoid marriage Also , belonging from small town No best career opportunities here And parents aren't letting me to go cities 🙏🏻plz helpe me out sir plzz
Work on education and skills to a point where you are assured of finding a job even of parents don't allow. Strictly refuse for marriage as of now. Starting a business can also be an option.
@@AnubhavJain I'm doing sir But just now they have invited relatives to talk about the boy they selected 😖😖 Plz tell me something sir I hope u r with me
Sir .. I live in a small village .. I've recently completed my 12th with science... I want to secure my future nd become independent but I'm in immense pressure of marriage.. my father have always been abusive to my mom and us nd a wife beater too.... My mom was supportive for studies but now she is supporting my father for my marriage... What should i do.. i have no job nd money for further studies...
Sir. Yaha bhi yahi situation hai prasure hai covid ke karan ex cancels ho gaye badi tension hai agar zyada deley hua toh badi dikkat ho sakti hai aur aur bina job ke shaadi karna sabse bada curse hai
I am 22, and i am in a path of my dreams. I guess after 2 or 3 years later I'll make my dreams comes true but now parents are disturbing me always marriage,marriage what the hall is marriage. I am their daughter not a dog that whatever they want I'll do. No no never i have my dreams very big dream i have to achieve that. My mind always thing about my goals and here my parents. It's 100% true if I'll get married I'll never be happy nor husband. Than why all wants to destroy my life. Just why, hall man.... I am so angry...... I want to beat something very badly right now .
@@true-bl9159 mjhe darr lgta h shadi se.... Mein kaafi time se depression face kr ri hu.... Isly mene socha shadi k through bahar nikl jaungi depression se ... Abb exams aa rhe h.... Mene apne career se upar khud ko bhi ni rakha.... Shadi kese kr lu... Darr lgta h ..😭
Sir me abhi 23 year ki hu but mere ghar wale mujhe shadi k liye pressure dal rhe hai me apna gaol gain krna chahti hu mujhe 2 saal aur shadi nhi krni hai sir m ne apni maa se boli h ki mujhe shadi nhi krni pr bhi nhi maan rhe hai bolte hai umra badh jayegi to ladke nhi milenge 😢😢😢me financially independent hona chahti hu aur apna gaol pura krna chahti hu sir m exam ki bhi taiyari start kr di h
Gharwale acche hote hai per hamko apne liye ladna hi chahiye...jiddi hoker Rona chahiye chikhke jor jor se..aise situation me jab muze gussa aata hai me rokar apne baat babati hu to vo emotional ho jate hai parents...mere papa bhi emotional person hai..bas love se hone chahiye shadi yahi mere dil iccha hai...Har har mahadev 🙏🙏🙏
Mujhe ghr se bhr jane nhi dete na kisi se bt krne dete agr mere ghr meri koi friend bhi aaye to unko gussse se dekhte 😭😭😭😭😭😭shadi ni kr rhi to bht bhala bura bolte mt kr Shadi marja kahi jakar ya kisi ke saath bhag ja samaj ko bhandare khila denge ye sb bolte unki bt manti hu to achhi nhi manu to randi bolte 😭😭😭😭😭
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
Sir meri age 24 h mein jab bolti hu ki muje kuchh kar na h aage to kahate h ki budhe hone ke baad karegi sab bataya h meine ki mujhe kya karna h fir bhi kuchh kuchh na kuchh bol ke torcher kar rahe h
Shadi hone ke bad AZad nhai rahte hai , dar lagane lagata hai, aPani apani khusi se jyada dusre ki khusi ke liye kaam karne padate hai, Understanding problem rahti hai , koi pyar nahi karta bs matalab nikalne ke liye or rough language ko shan karna padta hai. Partner ke sath understanding bi nahi mil pati hai, Indian society mein ase hi ristey rakh lete hai, behaviour bi nhai check kar pate hain. shaadi hone per ladke ko apne sabhi vassol todne padte hain. patani Kasi bi ho chalega agar understanding hi nhai hai or hame apane vasool todne pade ya Dil per pathar rakhana pade to jindgi badi boj ho jati hai dil wali khusi ke liye ham tarsh jate hain .😢😢😢 Agar ham kisi janwar ko markar kus nhai hai to ho sakta hai apko Kasai ka kaam karna pade.
@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
@@ashuvijay7031 Bhai job hai to shadi kar le support milega maa baap Ko bi tere ko bi , Paisa ho to sab chalega , doctor se baat kar koi kamzori hai to . Jab bacha haga to usko padhana , Ghar ke kam bin paise ke nhai hote , Ghar ke function ye sab manage ho jata hai to bro. No tension shadhi achi chalegi apko koi bi galat nhai bolega .har koi apko support karega . Bimari ka ilaj shadhi ke sath ho sakta hain per shadi na hona problem ho sakta hai . Life mein sab cheez ki limit hoti hai .
@@ashuvijay7031 yoga kar thanda Raha comedy dekh dur se parvat bhut bade lagate hain per jab parvat per hote to duniya choti lagati hain life struggle achi sikh deta Hain koi depression nhai vo to ham khud bna lete hain.
@@AnubhavJain hyy sir 18 saal se upper hone ke baad hum apne maa baap se alag nhi ho sakta. Because I want to study . I have a private job . Toh kya mein alg rh skti hoo
Extreme pressure every day every morning evening yhi shadi ka drama i m unemployed preparing fr govt teaching jobs my age,30 but marraige pressure ki wajah se preparing bhi nhi ho pa rhi idhar fully fed man krta bhag jau kahi ,bhut jada sucidal thoughts ate bs kisi tarah khud ko rok rhe apne sath kch bhi galat krne se pehle😢😢😢
Bhaiya ek video ispe bhi banaye ki domestic violence ke khilaaf kaise aawaaz uthayi Jaye agar Aapke khud ke Ghar wale hi Aisi harkate Kare aur kis Tarah se warning Di jaye
Sir ghar vale nhi maan rahe aaisa ho skta hai ki FIR karva kar khud ko family se duur kar sake. Sb bhut paresaan kar rahe mai akela rah luga mujhe family se duur rahna hai but ghar se gya to ye sb police me complane karke dhune isse aacha hai mai he FIR karke alg ho jaau
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I'm 27 and still I choose to focus on my happiness, goals, dreams, and success. To be continued...
Same 🥲
@@tweety989 great ✌️
Same..
bhai same hi nam h , kya rha parent ne pel diya ya bch gya
@Aditi Kumari Keep it up 🧘
As a girl jb ye baate directly bolo to bs gaaliya sunne ko milti h torture jhelna padta h
Bilkul shi kha mere sath b yhi ho rha jbrdsti rista b finl krdia ab ldke wale pressure dal rhe ki nxt mnth shdi kro
Sister just take your stand…..independent bno or kisi se mt dbo…..be strong sis…..mere parents bhi bht pressure kar rhe the but mene stand liya or ab mai independent hu
Already tired, i clearly told my parents that I don't want to get married am not ready nd i want to focus on my carrier, but there reaction was like ladko ho kr to rhi ho job or kya carrier, shadi k bad sab ready ho jate adat ho jati hai ye koi baat ni hoti tumhari Umar ho gyi ( am 28), nd fir roj k torture, kahi bahar friends k sath chale jao to 10 bar call baate sunna ki yahi chahiye tumhe aaiyashi krni raat me ghumna tabhi shadi ni kr rhi ho
@@bhanushreeshakya761 exactly sis
@@bhanushreeshakya761 sch bta rhi hu sis apne experience se kisi ki mt suno chahe kuch bhi ho jaye…be strong…bs apne career pr dhyan do or jo krna chahte ho wo bn kr dikhao unko unka muh apne ap bnd ho jayega….trust me 😊
Parents to koi b bure ni hote but samajhne vale bht km hote hain so..Having a supportive parents is a huge blessing 😓
Agreed
Par bure parents bhi hote hai 😓
@@priyakumari6073 aapke bhi h kya bure parents ? Mere parents ne mujhe barbaad kar diya khatam kar diya aapas me bhayankar lad jhagad ke
@@ashuvijay7031 waise mahol se nikalne ki kosis kijiye
Aur hamare hath me to kuch nahi hai
Kitna bhi kuch kar lo duniya ke liye to parents hi hamesa sahi rahenge aur bacche galat
Aap khyal rakhiye ❤
@@priyakumari6073 Nikal Gaya tha unke mahol se...apni job lagwa kar..par jaise hi job laga...bada bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod gaya sabko rulaake or uski love marriage bhi bigad gayi....main uske gam me bimaar pad gaya buri tarah q ki usse mera deep attachment tha...par Puri family hi toxic nikal gayi or ab family ke toxic hone se shadi bhi nahi ho paa rahi meri
भारत एक महान देश है, लेकिन जिस समाज में हम रहते हैं उसकी मानसिकता एकदम दोयम दर्जे की निचली मानसिकता है, 99.9 लोगों के नजर में सिर्फ शादी, बीवी बच्चे करना ही जीवन का एकमात्र उद्देश्य है और बाकी लोगों को भी वे वही सलाह देते हैं, क्योंकि वो भी खुद ही इसी तरह का जीवन जीते आए हैं तो दूसरों को कुछ नया थोड़ी सिखाएंगे, और यही सिस्टम चलता रह जाता है। लेकिन इसके लिए जीवन में कुछ अलग करने की इच्छा रखने वालों को घर परिवार,मां बाप, समाज और रिश्तेदारों के खिलाफ तो जाना ही पड़ेगा वरना एक कुंवारे को ये लोग जीने नहीं देंगे कभी।
Ji bilkul. Koyi agar adhyatma ki or jana chahta ho, Fir uske liye shadi bachche insb ka koi mtlb nahi.
Ryt bro
Badal na hoga samaj ko bhi or logo ki soch ko bhi. Bacho ki shi Umar av shadi ki nahi gools pure krne ki honi chahiye success full hone ki honi chahiye
Right
Bilkul sahi kaha bhai. Ye bacche paida karke mar jaate hai. Na kuch sapne na kuch bada karne ki ichha. Sirf shadi bacche aur ye isko life bolenge.
Especially relatives and neighbors making much pressure than parents
Ryt yar unko zyada dikkat hoti hai
Right
Sahi kaha
Right mere relative ne meri life hell ker diya mujhe suicide kerne ka maan hai
@@fizuli801 gali de do ek bar bas
Sabse jyada pressure ldkiyon par hota h har roj pareshan kiya jaata h aur jo ladkiyan independent ni hoti h wo to khud k liye decision apne according le ni hi ni skti qki lad kar agar ghar me reh bhi loge to kuch father aise hote hain ki ghar me sukun se rehne hi ni dete
Same problem
Fact is this sometimes independent ladkiya bhi kuch nhi kar pati toxic parents ke samne Jo bas mentally torture krte hai physically kuch nhi karenge khud girne marne ka natak karenge ki hum toh bht ache hain aisee logo ke samne kya kroge aap gold cage mein rehti hai aisi ladkiyon highly toxic parents
@@kritikasingh8659toxic parents ka to puchho mat unke aapas ke jhagdo ne meri puri jawani barbaad kar di ..age 33...gharwalo ki vajah se shadi ki age hi nikal Rahi h meri to or Bhai love marriage karke Ghar chhod gaya...Puri family toxic h meri..😑😑😑 meri shadi hi atak gayi or ab depression tanaav
Same
True..I hate my father
Sir aapki bate sun k ek alag sa confidence aa jata hai ...lagta hai ab me bina dare ji sakati hu life
Yha jin do logo ki shadi hai wo khush ho na ho shadi se wo metter nhi krta sare ristedar or pdosi khush hone chahiye. Parents ko b bas free hone tk he mtlb rehta hai jyadatar ko.
Kbhi 2 lgta ham bacche h ya unki hatho ki kathputli
Bilkul 100% sach kaha
Bhaiya forced marriage toh waise bhi ek bohot BADA crime hota hai agar Aapke parents bhi aapko iske liye force Kar rahe Hain toh aap unke khilaaf bhi police mein complaint Kar sakte Hain ya fir lady commission ke pass Jake madad maang sakte Hain phir chahe Aapke upar domestic violence , emotional torcher , blackmailing , suicide threats Jo bhi Kiya ja Raha ho
Aap khud ke maa baap ke upar bhi complaint Kar sakte Hain agar aapko forced Kiya ja Raha hai marriage ke liye toh aur Haan sabse zaroori BAAT ye ki jahan tak mujhe Lagta hai bohot logon ko shayad se ye BAAT na pata ho lekin agar aapki Shaadi forcefully ho bhi Jaye toh bhi Shaadi ho Jane ke 90 Dino ke andar andar Aapke pass us zabardasti ki Shaadi ki void karwane Ka poora chance hota hai annulment of marriage act ke zariye jisme agar aapko kaise bhi ya toh force Karke ya fraud Karke Shaadi karwayi gayi ho toh court us Shaadi ko void Kar degi bas aapko court tak Jane ki zaroorat hai aur aap us Shaadi se bahar Nikal payenge phir Aapke maa baap bhi Aapka Kuch Nahi bigaad sakte lekin main ye bolata hoon ki aap Shaadi ki void karwane tak ki naubat hi mat aane do agar aapko torcher Karke Shaadi karwayi ja rahi hai blackmail ke zariye toh ya toh legal tarike se help maango lady commission ya mahila aayog ke pass Jake ya phir mauka dekhte hi Shaadi hone se pehle Ghar se bhaag jao taki aapki Zindagi barbaad hone se Bach Jaye
Aur Haan ek BAAT aur annulment of marriage koi divorce Nahi balki ye ek aisa act hota hai agar Kisi bhi ek insaan ki Shaadi zabardasti ya phir Dono ki karwayi gayi ho toh Woh Bina divorce ke hi void ho jayegi
Nice
Thnks
Lekin bhag kr v kaha jaenge
Na to ristedaro ke pass ar ager boy friend v nhi h to ❤❤❤
Sir apne jo bat kahi bilkul right he aaj kal maa baap apne jmane ke najriye se dekhtey he bt bete ki life me kya chal rha he un se unhe matlb nhi bs shadi krle bachhe paida kr ke de de
Correct✅
Mujhe to torcher krte rhte h
Ryt yr
Sahi kaha bhai mere sath bhi aesa ho raha hai meri saadi fix ho gayi he me kya karu kaha jau kisase help mangu bahot Darr lag raha hai
Bhai same situation me fsa hua hu 😢
I know parents are always right but whenever I think of marriage I see only a dark future and nothing else why? I don't want to get married...
Same here
Parents are not always right.
What you think is totally valid.
Parents hamesha sahi nahi hote unke intentions unke hisab se sahi hote hai ....kbhi bahut selfish hote hai parents ...bacche ka life bcche ki wish gyi bhaad main ...har kisi ko maa baap hone ka Haa nhi hona chaiye
@@nanditadas8115 what do you think about your life
I can totally relate to this topic. But my parents don't understand even after making them understand. They think that i am involved with anyone else whenever i say no to marriage (a guy)
Same situation
Same 😢kyaa kree yrrrr🙁bahut preshan hu
Same here
And I seek escape as a solution 😢
Same ...aur woh bolte teri thodi sunni hai....meri b jabrdsti shaadi krwa rahe ..😢😢😢😢
Sir my relatives are forcing my parents for my marriage but i have just completed class 12 and I am preparing for neet exam. They tells my parents that others girls who is younger than me have already got married n they even have children n girls should not be given higher education as they are going to do the household chores. They are pressuring my parents as well as me. But my brother encourages me to follow my dream
Same situation but no one supporting me
Same,situation and 2 month baad meri shaadi hone vali he 😢 but I am not complete for marriage 😢sir
@@priyavaishnavpriyavaishnav6035kya hua sis aapke parents mane
@@priyavaishnavpriyavaishnav6035apki shadi ho gyi kya ?
@@priyavaishnavpriyavaishnav6035 kesi life chal ri hai aapki ?
Main sirf 19 saal ki hu aur shadi k liye bahut pressure kr rhe hai. Bahut mana k dekh liya bina meri marzi k rista fix kr diye. I am not happy with their decision. Man krta hai ki main kuch kr khud ko
Mere sath bhi aisa hi ho raha hai man karta hai main mar jau
😭😭😭 aapki shadi ho gyi kya
Tum to Educated ho phir v 😢
Same yaar me to 18 ki hu 😢😢 but me nhi Maan rhi ghr vale gali de rah h toucer kr rah h but me apne sapno ke liye jinaa chaha rhi hu kunki life ham jeena h aag ghr valo ko nhi ager ghr vale pyaar krt h to nhi krng but khude ki ijjat ko royge to kuch nhi ho skta
@@monikaroyal9790mere sare sapne tut the hai koi aisa nhi hai jise Mai apna dukh batau mai apne ghar me hi phir phut kr akele ro rhi hu
Bilkul mere life se related topic me baat kiye bhaiya main bhi bahut jada tnsn me thi but aapki baat sunkar kafi himmat mili mujhe thanks a lot.🙏
Mera bhi 😭😭
Now Time is same condition
Hehe sachi shaadi barbaadi h
Right 👍
Tera to lafada chal raha he
Itna aasan thodi hota hai 😅 immature ka tag laga ke halke baste m daal dete h father. Having a supportive parents is a huge blessing
Mera man bhi nahi karta hai Sadi karane ka
Me 21 ki hu mera abhi 2 nd year chal raha he .
Mere parents shadi ke liye force karrahe he ladke ki government job he.
Ek vakt ke liye me apne dreams ke liye give up karne kaa soch rahi thi 🥺🥺
Thank you for your advice, meri baat samjhne vala yaha koi nahi hai
Lekin ab mujhe thoda easy feel ho raha he .
Thank you 🙏
Mt kro shaadi bss
Mana krdo
Thankyou sir...mai bhot depression me hu....m job lgna chahti hu pahle or meri family mujhe shadi k liye dbaw de ri h...m bhot bar smjha chuki unko bt vo mujhse bat tk ni krte ...😭😭 Mere exam h ssc k or upr se mujhe itni tension de rhe h ...koi mujhse bat b ni krta ..bt aj apki bat sunke hosla mila mujhe 🙏 thankyou bhaiya 😭🙏
Haunsla khona mat
@@AnubhavJain hnji bhaiya ...mera exam h 21 October ko mere pass sirf dhai month h...or family me sb nraj se h bt mujhe job lgna h ..mai khud self employe bhi hu ...bt apki wjy se aj bhot hosla mila..mai abhi video dekhne se pahle tension me thi bt ab mind set ho gya thanks bhaiya 🙏😭
@@ektaekku7975 gali de do ek bar bas sab log sudhar jayenge aur tevar hamesha bagawati hone chahiye
Same situation mai mere ghr m bilkul akeli pd gyi hu family ka pressure b h koi b single member mujse baat ni krta muje hr wqt ghutn hoti h kayi baar suicide krne ka mn m khyaal aaya lekin bs isliye jinda hu ki kuch Krna h is smaaj k liye sch btaau bahan jindagi narak bn gyi h meri
@@satya514 same here sis m 24 ki hu meri b life natal VN gyi h m neet aspirant hu but mene ghar chhodne ka soch lia h
Sala kise ke bap se darne ka nahi... respect sabki krne ka lekin darne ka nahi.....apne goal ko apne aap me feel krne ka....padosi se rishtedar se kisi ke bap se darne ka nahi .....🙏
😂😂true
Ek dam sy itne himath aa gayi naa y pdh k....🙏 😅😅
😂😂😂
Ha yaar
Haan bilkul sahi kaha aapne.
i am happy.
i don't know which happiness my parents think that i need🙄
I'm financially weak right now that's my reason of not getting marriage i want to settle myself first financially I don't my decision or thinking is right or wrong but i won't accept an ordinary life like others. I accepted being unmarried for lifetime but not acceptable adjusted life for me and one whom i married.
Hi😊
Basically it was my question... Thanks to someone who asked this
I love this topic, I can relate.
Same 🤦♀️
Same
प्रणाम सर 🙏।
मेरी मां को जल्द ही बड़ा ऑपरेशन करने के लिए डॉक्टर ने बोला है, जिससे मेरी मां मेरे लिए लड़की पसंद की है अगले साल शादी के लिए ताकि घर संभालने वाला कोई रहे। लेकिन मैं अपनी पढ़ाई को लेकर बहुत व्यस्त हु और सोचा था की अभी 5 साल से पहले शादी के बारे में नहीं सोचूंगा। अब आप बताएं क्या क्यूं?
वैसे 1 साल पहले मेरा प्रेम संबंध एक लड़की से असफल रहा। जिससे मेरा मन में वैराग्य हो गया शादी को लेकर, अब सिर्फ अपने को आगे बढ़ाने में ध्यान देता हूं।🙏
Hello sir can i talk to u
Keh kr dekh lia ..koi frak ni padhta kisi ko ..thanks to Indian rules 🙏🙏
Ab to ho gaye hogy shadi aapki bhai 😂khush to ho
😢😢
@@mujeemkhan9655😢 mere bi kar rahey h ghr vle sadi m nhi krna chthi hu
Anubhav Sir apki advice bahot achhi lagti he..... Aap explain bahot achhe se karte he..... 🍁🤍
#ignore everything. guy's..
Sono sabki ....Lekin Kro Apne Dil ki
Becoz zindagii Apka hai...... Zeet aapki hai future apki hai..............
*********Everything is possible..... when you work on law of attraction...........
🌎✍️I believe in the universe and signals.... I love Energy..... I love signal...... I attract ,,,what I burning desire....
If you agree 👍💯😀🙏😂
My parents are also forcing me to get married. I told them I dont want to cuz im not mentally prepared but they dont listen and start emotional blackmail. They are doing everything without asking me and im feeling depressed every single day. I know if I marry on their request i will not be happy and this will also be a problem for my partner. But they don't care. I dont want any issues between family but I think there will be.
Ye to sach hai sir ki khud ki feelings ko sunne samjhne wala koi bhi nhi hota hai is dunia hai
Sir last lines bahut acchi boli aapne. Zero tolerance to mental pressure and verbal abuse
Mere parents bhi mujhe force kar rahe hai shaadi ke liye....i told them mujhe nahi karni, am not prepare phir bhi yehi kehte hai ki aaj nhi toh kal karni hi padegi naa upar se ladka jo pasand kia hai wo bhi mere se 15 saal bada hai....m crying while writing this comment
Same yrrr😢 same situation ....nhi smjhte parents 🥺ky kreee
Me apki conditions bohot ache se samjh sakti hu...
Meri v lyf bilkul same h yrr i m just 20 years🥺🥺
Mri life se related h.....thank you sir yeh topic k upr video banane k liye....lots of love frm Tripura❤❤
Mai bhi shadi nahi karna chahta hu.
Topic s very nice... V can solve many problems by ur speech ... Thanku sir
Guilty feel nahi hota... Anxiety hoti hai aur overthinking hota hai.. jisey jo important kaam hota hai jese career/study usme lack of attention and efforts hota hai...
Mujhe sadi nhi krni abhi mujhe IAS officer bnna h please Allah meri wish puri kr dijiye.
Inshallah
Agar ias na bne
Thank you for addressing this issue .... really this one 🙏
भैया मै अभी शादी नहीं करना चाहती mughe अभी पढाई करनी है
समाज में मै अपना खुद का स्टेटस बनाना चाहती हू
मेरी उम्र अभी 23 वा ईयर चल रहा पढाई करनी चाहती हू लोग कहते है मेरी उमर निकल जा रहीं
बहुत टैंशन है अब तो मेरा किताब कॉपी पेन chune का मन नही कर रहा
Yhi mera bhi hal h sister 😢 aap ne kya kiya
@@MahakGiri-f2wmujhe bhi bhoat pressure derhe hai ghrwale😢
UPSC krna cahti Hoon but family jbrtasti shadi krwana chate hai I'm 22 years old isliye phle bank po niklaungi then UPSC ki preparation krungi kuch bhi hojaye 🤞
Same here I'm also preparing for bank po
But my main goal is to get top MBA college
All the best didi be strong 💪. Aap khoob mehnat karna aur upsc Crack karke ek bohot acha career banana.
Madem ji, sherni ki trah ldiye per kisi ka sikaar mt kr lena😄 good luck for your Preparation👍👍
Meri toh 19 hai abhi 20 years b nehi hui life kharap karne chale hai, shadi shadi karne bethe hai maabaap....life main kuch karna hai or hamari pasand se he karna hai naa ki unka jo kabi ish ladko ko dhang se jante b nehi ashe insan k sath kaise shadi karle...yeh famliy wale hamare pi6e kyu pade rahte hai yr
@@shibanimeher6278 job lelo or durr bhgjaoo
Bhaiya Indian Society me agar Parents na chahte hon ki shadi karwaye bacche ka fir v humare Relatives shadi ke riste layenge har dusre din aur parents ho hi force karte rahenge
Aise relatives ke against kya kare ??
Ignore karo.. aur kar bhi kya sakte ho..
@@abhinavgoswami9422 gali dedo maa bahen ki bas
Mere bhi esa hi chal rha he relative ko ignore krti hu lekin ghr wale relative logo ki bato me aate he😭😭😭 or me shadi nahi Krna chahhti h😭
@@seemabunker4676 😭😭😭😭same meri trh muje mnn krta main mrr jayu
@Jago Bharat Jago 🇮🇳 job he meri govt
Meri jabrdsti engagement krwa Di sir....or mujhe majboori mein us ldke se baat krni padti hai....main us ldke ko bol bhii chuki hu k mujhe Shaadi nhi krni ...main happy nhi hu is Shaadi se..lakin wo ldka smjhane lgg jata hai k agar hmne engagement Tod Di to bhot badnaami hogi..isliye parents ki izat k liye krni pdegi😭😭...lakin main Khush nhi hu....hmaari financial condition bhi Shi nhi hai ....yeh bhi bdi majboori hai...mujhe kya krna Chahiye...
Can i talk to u
I'm 22 and my parents are pressurising me to such an extent the I couldn't have imagined...
I'm just asking for some time...
Just 1-2 years more...bt they are ignoring me like I don't exist...
Same condition I really getting depressed 😔💔 yrr hum ldkiyon ko tym tk ni dete right tym ane p kr lenge n ky dikkt hn m to next year tk ka wait krne ko bolri is saal ruk jao next year dekhna bt unko nhi sun na h kuch
Hey I am in same situation and same age.. can you tell me how you overcame it.. really need help right now
@@lilly1224 Are you in love with someone?? If yes so plz don't say yes to your parents for marriage bcz main v yhi face kr ri hu thoda selfish bn jao tumhe pta m milne gyi jis se sadi krne ko bolre hain to maine observe kra us admi ko ki kesa puche us ko question kyu krni h sadi bt iam lucky uski age 28 h or m just 21 v nhi hu means August m honge 21 meko so ye h fr usko pucha tum drink krte ho to he says yes bt only sadi party m so meko fr mna krne ka moka mil gya maine hn nhi kri us bnde ko or ghr aa k bola wo drink krta 😀or sch bolu thoda sa jhooth v bol Dena 😁 tum bch jaoge m to avi nikli ni problm se BT hn m kho ni skti apne love ko or m fight krungi all the best for u
Same muje bi nhi krna h.. But humesa ldka hi dekte rhte h... Mujse to puchte bi nhi h krne ki icha hai ya nhi. Bs ldka dudne m lge rhte h.. Isi reason se mujhe grwalo se nafrat hone lgi h ab. 😞itna pressure hai ki sir tk dukne lgta h mera.
@@pritymaurya7646 koshish poori Krna love k liye fight Krna bt I mt case 🥺 maine ki yrr lekin ghrwalo k against nhi ja payi finally hum alg ho gye abb wo apne raste m apne meri to engagement v fix ho gyi ab jo hoga mummy papa bura v nhi chahte to bolte hainn
Muje v sadi nhi krni parents force kr ke Krwa rhe h...... Aur mai kisi aur se pyar krti hu 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Apne parents se bat kriye shayd Maan jaye
Same sister
To kya hua
@@cgvloggerbharti nhi n man rhe h
Same 🥺
Mere saath bhi asa h... Phle mera career usske bd shadi krnii h ... Mjhe love marrige krni h... Bo mjhpe roj preesute dete h.. Ki shadhi kr lo.. Ladka accha milega... Or pta nii kbhi tumhara career bnega bhi nii .... Mjhe hmsamha demotivate krte h... Ki kuch nii kr paogee... Mne usse sab kuch saaf kha ki.. M iss rishte m kbhi khush nii rh paogii... Mne phle ek br parents k liye sab chod diya tha.... M bhut dhukhi rhne lgi thii.. Mjhe to mera upr s trust khtm ho gya tha
I am 26 I'm focus on only study My parents is best in the world..they not pressurized anything..
Kitne sal aur apko time mila hai
Fir kya carrier banao
U r Soo lucky
Lucky
Achha hai ham 20 ke hi aur Zindagi maa ne nrak bna di hai sadi sadi bol ke
Sir ,my parents are not listening to me at all... their only focus is on my Marriage...what can I do? They pressurize me that we are your parents, it's our duty and decision that whom you should marry. After marriage we won't take any decisions of your life.. what the hell...sab khatam karne k baad i will take decisions for my life.. I mean it's my life, don't I have any freedom to take decisions. Also I am not ready for marriage.
Tell them clearly that you will not marry at any cost . If they are not listening then stop convincing them clearly and take decisions of your life by yourself.
It's your life, your decision, no one can pressurize you, study become independent and make your own decision
@@AnubhavJain Also lockdown has increased this type of violence, creates many disturbances in family.
I'm also suffering frm dis typ of situtn,
But under pressure,it's nt posbl at any cost💪💪💪
Dnt lose ur himmat in anyyyyy situation.
Jhan chah wha raah.
What you did then?
Thanks for addressing this issue. Things seem so tough i think I have to move out of their house
I moved out for same reason as my intution guided me and I feel right in all the senses . Regardless of what is the reason u need to feel excited for such a big thing in your life . or else what’s the point .
Thank you so much sir apke iss video se mann ka bojh halka ho gaya...
Thoda time to apne par dena hi chahiye...
सिर्फ घरवाले नाही बाहरके rishtedaar भी प्रेशर क्रिएट कर रहे है, दादी लोगो में फैला रही है next year this Diwali, all don't care about my job, careet, education, qualification what they cared for is what they get out of me, some people tried proving me mentally sick, if in case required I will have to take some serious action if any expert here, definitely guide.
I wish everyone's parents could understand this. My family is putting a lot of pressure on me to get married but I have no interest in it.😢
Unko bolo ratan tata ne shadi nahi ki aaj wo kitne bade aadmi he dekho Aisa bolo😂😂
Superb Sir...tq U....God bless U..unmatched channel in U tube..
Awesome sir...
Ye situation present time meri bhi h family pressure saadii k liye but apk thoughts ek clear way dikh gya so tell him her..
Thanks for ur this video.... 🙏😘😇
Aapki age kya he ...meri 21 he or abhi se force krne lge he muze
I facing same problem
@@AMPatil-yb3qz mag jhal ky aata lagn??
👍👍👍you are very supportive person❤️❤️yrrr
Mera dost pahle bahut khus rhta h jab se shadi huyi h bechara ab bahut dukhi rhta h 😄😄😄😄 usko bhi bahut samjha kar shadi k liye mnaye the ab dukhi h to koi puchhne wala nhi h plzz kisi ki Mt sunu shadi it's very personal choice
sirf iska ek hi ilaaj hai sudh jo apko aisa kahe bas gariyana suru kar do chahe wo kitna bhi khas kyon na ho? apki life bahut achi ho jaegi? maine ye use krke dekha hai mujhe bahut achee parinam mile hain>>>
hihi
Hum sir abhi bache hai abhi hum shadi ke baare main ni sochte par chlo lag gya pta par sir aap great ho❤❤
Great sir . You are such a great person. Biggest salute to uu
Thank you I am facing same Problem. Now I got my answer. Great.
Me too
Thank you so much for this video. My parents were forcing me to get married from last one month after I sent them this video they agreed to give me the time I asked for.
Btw what's your age?
Shadi wala chapter mera to jina hraam kr diya h
2022 upsc ka last chance h
18 yrs se medicine pr hu
Aksr helth down rahta h
Me bdi hu,bhai chhote h
Mmy bimaar rahti h,ghr sambhalne wala koi nhi h
Bhai mere ko blame krta h
Ki
Jb tk teri shadi nhi hoti tb tk me nhi krunga
Isme mmy pis rhi
Ek ek din jindagi jina mere liye chunauti h
Ladka hoti to asaan hota
Mere smaaj me 99/-
Aaj v shadi k baad ladkon ko ek full life kapackage rani kaho ya naukaraani mil jati h
Jo uska chay nasta bed cloth chord
Family sabko smbhalti h
Fir v Jo sauraal wale khen whi krna h
😭😭😭
Kaleja ro deta h bhaiya
Ek to aisa health condition
Upar se koi samjh nhi pata
Mmy chup rahti h
But
Papa mmy ko kuchh nhi smjhte
Me pdhaayi k liye v ghr se ladke aur bhag kr gyi thi,suru se ab tk
Lodhi road Delhi sai hospital nhi hota to servive nhi kr payi hoti delhi m
Kvi kisi se kuchh nhi kahti
Kyi baar man hua aapse bolun
But ishwar ko to saare exams mere se hi lene h
Me apni life ka sirf ek jhalak dikhla skti hu
Puri tarah se smjhana impossible h msg pr
Money problem
Family problem
Health problem
Aur jane. . . . . .kya kya
Bhaiya,Jo chijen kisi k liye halwa hoti h.whi kisi ko uske liye ishwar se minnaten krni padti h.
Lockdown me is baar ghr pr fas gyi
Jina mushkil ho gya h.
Mere last chance v aagye
Is corona maharaaj k chakkar me.😊😊😊💪
Aapke shabd bdi sukun dete h.
Charan sparsh bhaiya🙏🙏🙏
Beta, tumhari age kya hai? Kya bimari hai ki long time se medicine par ho? Delhi me acchhe dr. Hai unse kyu nhi treatment karti. Pahle tumhara health jaruri hai. Health nhi sahi hoga to kuchh nhi kar sakti. Delhi me kisake sath rahti ho
@@priyankarai7227 thanks beta
Sabse phle health , because health is wealth apni health theek karo phle uske baad ek ek karke problems solve karo.
Baby beta, apni bimari batao, mai tumko best Dr. Batata hu, आश्चर्य है की मै 1000 km दूर से अपनी किडनी का इलाज कराने के लिए 2016 से दिल्ली जाता हु, वहां के treatment से बहुत ठीक हु, लेकिन तुम वही रह कर अपना ट्रीटमेंट नही कराती, long time से बीमार हो, इसका मतलब तुम खुद अपना ख्याल नही रखती, बीमारी बताओ, एक बार का डॉक्टर का fee मै दे दूंगा,
Indraprastha Apollo hospitals Sarita bihar ke dr. Ki maximum fee 1800 hai, max hospital vaishali ki maximum fee 1200 hai, scart heart hospital ke dr. Seth ki 3000 hai, usi hospital ke dr. Anil saxena ki 1500 hai,
Yadi tum gurugram se hogi to medanta ke dr. Lalitha sekhar se dikhao. Unki bhi 1600 hai
Same problem
Mai ek ladki hu mai bhi shaadi nhi karna chahti but mere Parents'meri shaadi jabardasti karwa rhe h sab log milkar bahut jyada had se jyada taucher kar rhe h
Mai unko hajar bar mna kar diya maine
But vo nhi samjh rhe h
Man kar rha suside kar lu
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same situation
Same situation😢😔
Same
Ram Ram ji ❤❤
@SunilKumar-pe1pp Ram Ram 🙏🏻
i ruined my entire life due to this.
i used to be a school topper but i got so scared that i took too many things, courses, jobs, etc. All this hampered my mental health & results.
Now i lost everything. I have to start everything from scratch.
Hi😮
You are a great mentor.
Bhut baar kaha hai parents ko mera shaadi ka planning ka 3 yrs ke baad karungi phir ve nhi maan rahe hain.. unka bas ek hi dialogue hai kya ukhad dun ke main lyf par.. mera sibling ve mera support nhi krte hain bolte hai Ghar par sunne se acha hain karlo shaadi warna baad par char baccho ke baap se shaadi karna hoga aur mein jisse pyr karti thi woh ve time mangta hai uske pass himat nhi hai mere parents se baat karne ke liye maine usko chod dia mera lyf ka 3 yrs ke piche baar baad kar dia uske pyr ke wazar se ache ache job ko reject kia dusre city nhi gye job karne....
Waise ve mujhe shaadi par phle se hi barosha nhi tha ... But jisse be pyr karti hoon woh unka kch na kch problem nikl jata hain.... Kisse ka ve himmat nhi haii family se baat kre
Thank u sir bhut logo ke ghro m ye hi hota h bt I m lucky my parents didn't force me vo is bt ke liye mre sth h khte h JB tumhe krna h TB krna and m sbhi ke liye pray krti hu ki sbke sth accha ho
Like your comment because my Parents have same mindset......muje kha ki jb chaho tb hi marrige hoga, kaas iss comment box me hum jaise log jyada hote
@@Ak...21 accha LGA ki kisi ke parents mre parents ki trh bhi sochte h nhi to comments m SB presn h shadi ki wjh se hope so unke parents bhi smjhe
@@bhawnaagrawal652 mere Parents meri baat mante hai, jo kehta hu ager wo kr skte hai to pura krte bhi hai....per janti ho mai chata hu ki wo ekdem strict rhe, ek Parents hone ke naate jo unhe Krna chaiye wo kre naa ki mere kehne per chle
@@Ak...21 enjoy kro bhut logo Ko ye SB Naseeb nhi ki unke mummy Papa unko smjhe or unki bt mane ap unki feelings ka respect kre or unse vhi expect kre jo vo kr ske
@@bhawnaagrawal652 😄 kr hi ra hu enjoy, kbi kbi to lgta ki apna rajyog chal ra
Ladki agr family ko bolegi to ulta marege log maa bap ladki ko kaid rakhte h wahhh re ma bap ek ladki se puchh bhi nhi jata h ki sadi karogi tum nhi bhai nhi bhagwan mujhe agle janam me ladki mat Banna please 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Shi sister
Me bhi ladki hu sister janam ladki ka ho ya ladke ka independent dono honge to parents shayad Kam pressure banayenge ya ignore karenge...
Mere parents se mujhse bina puche meri shaadi fix krdi or mujhse jabardasti shadi krwa rhe h me dipression me chala jaunga 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Same problem hai meri 15 din k ander ander krne ki bol rhe hai jb bacche boj hi lgte hai to kyu peda krte hai ye to pele se pta hona chahiye na ki bacche peda karenge to khrch hoga to krte hi nhi peda kr liye bachhe ab unki jindagi barbad kr rkhi hai😭😭😭
Can i talk to u
Sahi kaha bilkul sahi kaha bhai @@abchannel1576
Sahi kaha mere sath bhi yahi ho raha hai me kya karu me bahot dipression me hu kya karu 😰😭😭😭😭😭 bahot Darr hor gabhrahat ho rahi hai
@@ShaktisinhZala-j9n 😂😂😂isme dar kis bat ka
Yaar jindagi jhand hai mai😔😔 career banana chahti hu aur mere ghar wale sadi karwana chahte hai😑😑😔😔thodo achha lga mujhe aap ki bat sun ke 🙏🏻
Same prblm yrr kya kre mere shaat hr do din bad ka yhi drama h aakhir ma bap ko kese smjhaye 😔😔
@@shamanoor1488 kya kar sakte hai ab kosis karo samjhao 🙏🏻🙏🏻 tumhare mummy papa samjh jaye 🙏🏻
😢😢
Mene yuhi preshan hoker youtube pr search kar liya or mujhe aapka video mil gaya
Mujhe to nahi karna chaahe jitna force kare😊😊😊kyunki mujhe nahi lagta shaadi ke bina life bekaar hai mammi yahi kahti hai ki khana khud banaana ye koi baat hui😢😢😢aur ek faayda ye bhi hai jab koi family hi nahi rahegi to na baccho ki tension aur na koi rishtedaar shaadi me bulaayega mujhe to vaishe bhi jaane ka man nahi hota hai bhaad me jaaye ma vuavaar me dene ki jaroorat kyunki jab bacche hi nahi rahenge to unki na shaadi karwana padega na doosro ko vyavaar me dena padega bahut faayde hai aise.
Sir.
Hmaare smaaj may ek bahut badi buraayi hay.Please awareness failayiye.
Log matrimonial site pe connect kar lete hain.Boys girls relationship trust may aa jaate hay like we are marrying.
Even families bhi involved hoti hay dono side ki.
Sab khucch theek hota hay & then suddenly ek family mna kar deti for lame reasons like financial status when they get other good option.
They simply block & move on Jo personally Maine experience kiya hay.I mean ki ye feelings say khilwaad hay & wastage of 6 months to 1year.
I want ki aisa koi campaign chlaya jaaye like MeTwo ki tarah .
Like koi dubara aisa karey toh digital jmaane may unnko & unnki family ko expose kiya jaaye with there commitments & declarations.
So that future may koi aisa glat kaam Na karey & wo family bhi kissi or ko pareshaan Na karey.
Firvi family nhi mante na sir 💔💔😢 bht force karte h .... Kash apki tarah sabki parents samajhte yeh baat ko 😔
Wahi to sis bol to dete hai sab but bahut mushkil hota hai .. Parents nhi samjhte yrrr . 😰😰
Ha yrr bilkul shi parents nhi samjhte
My life reality this topic and thanks sir es topic pe baat karne aur apni salah dene ke liye
Meri bhi lagi padi he.... Roj roj naye rishte or roj roj fir patients. Se naye waad vivaad.... mukadma chal raha jese ghar me😢😢
Right to freedom
Shaadi kya hoti hain jab tak yeh baat achhey se samajh na lo, tab tak Shaadi mat karo. Maturity is very important before getting married.
What if suffering annoyance in home , pressure to get marry
What is the way to avoid marriage
Also , belonging from small town
No best career opportunities here
And parents aren't letting me to go cities 🙏🏻plz helpe me out sir plzz
Work on education and skills to a point where you are assured of finding a job even of parents don't allow. Strictly refuse for marriage as of now. Starting a business can also be an option.
@@AnubhavJain I'm doing sir
But just now they have invited relatives to talk about the boy they selected 😖😖
Plz tell me something sir
I hope u r with me
@@VJ-qr9pe same condition
@@shikha9957 try buisness, public speaking..😔
Sir .. I live in a small village .. I've recently completed my 12th with science... I want to secure my future nd become independent but I'm in immense pressure of marriage.. my father have always been abusive to my mom and us nd a wife beater too.... My mom was supportive for studies but now she is supporting my father for my marriage... What should i do.. i have no job nd money for further studies...
TQ sir for speech main reletives pressure hota hai parents k upper
Family ko bhi smjhna chahiye ki bachhe kya chahte h kya nhi unka dream kya h Target kya h y sabhi Janna chayn😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Ghar wale shadi ki bat krte h to jaan gale me aa jati h ...abhi se tension ☹️
Shaadishuda Deepak😂
Sir. Yaha bhi yahi situation hai prasure hai covid ke karan ex cancels ho gaye badi tension hai agar zyada deley hua toh badi dikkat ho sakti hai aur aur bina job ke shaadi karna sabse bada curse hai
Sahi kha
I am 22, and i am in a path of my dreams. I guess after 2 or 3 years later I'll make my dreams comes true but now parents are disturbing me always marriage,marriage what the hall is marriage. I am their daughter not a dog that whatever they want I'll do. No no never i have my dreams very big dream i have to achieve that. My mind always thing about my goals and here my parents.
It's 100% true if I'll get married I'll never be happy nor husband. Than why all wants to destroy my life. Just why, hall man.... I am so angry...... I want to beat something very badly right now .
I am also 22... Mjhse galti ho gayi...😭
@@sakshi4723 kya glti ho gai?
@@true-bl9159 mene jaldbazi me shadi k liye thoda interest dikhaya aur mummy ne rishta he bhej diya 😭
@@sakshi4723 koi nahi husband sahi ho to sadi me bhi problem nahi h aap bat kr sakte ho apne husband se ki aapko kuchh aage krna h kr ke
@@true-bl9159 mjhe darr lgta h shadi se.... Mein kaafi time se depression face kr ri hu.... Isly mene socha shadi k through bahar nikl jaungi depression se ... Abb exams aa rhe h.... Mene apne career se upar khud ko bhi ni rakha.... Shadi kese kr lu... Darr lgta h ..😭
Sir me abhi 23 year ki hu but mere ghar wale mujhe shadi k liye pressure dal rhe hai me apna gaol gain krna chahti hu mujhe 2 saal aur shadi nhi krni hai sir m ne apni maa se boli h ki mujhe shadi nhi krni pr bhi nhi maan rhe hai bolte hai umra badh jayegi to ladke nhi milenge 😢😢😢me financially independent hona chahti hu aur apna gaol pura krna chahti hu sir m exam ki bhi taiyari start kr di h
Hi😊
Hi😊😅
Sir mujhe bhi dhamkiya milti h 😀
Iss stage par aa kr pta chla k ghrwale asie bhi hote hai😔😔
😢😢
Never accepted 🥺🥺
Gharwale acche hote hai per hamko apne liye ladna hi chahiye...jiddi hoker Rona chahiye chikhke jor jor se..aise situation me jab muze gussa aata hai me rokar apne baat babati hu to vo emotional ho jate hai parents...mere papa bhi emotional person hai..bas love se hone chahiye shadi yahi mere dil iccha hai...Har har mahadev 🙏🙏🙏
@@tejaswinijadhav5608 you are absolutely right 💯
Me to apne mom dad ko bolti ki mujhe Shadi nhi mujhe aage badna he to bolte nhi karegi to marja 😭😭😭😭😭
Mujhe ghr se bhr jane nhi dete na kisi se bt krne dete agr mere ghr meri koi friend bhi aaye to unko gussse se dekhte 😭😭😭😭😭😭shadi ni kr rhi to bht bhala bura bolte mt kr Shadi marja kahi jakar ya kisi ke saath bhag ja samaj ko bhandare khila denge ye sb bolte unki bt manti hu to achhi nhi manu to randi bolte 😭😭😭😭😭
💯 આવી જ પરિસ્થિતિ થાય છે, એના કરતા જન્મ નો આપે એ સારું જેલ ના કેદી જેવું જીવન કરતા તો.
I have read lot of your answers on quora, happy to see you here😊
Thank you :)
@@AnubhavJain@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
Sir meri life me bhi aesa hi ho rha and thanks sir itne acche motivat kiye aap thanks sir 🙏
Sir meri age 24 h mein jab bolti hu ki muje kuchh kar na h aage to kahate h ki budhe hone ke baad karegi sab bataya h meine ki mujhe kya karna h fir bhi kuchh kuchh na kuchh bol ke torcher kar rahe h
Hi😊😅
Shadi hone ke bad
AZad nhai rahte hai , dar lagane lagata hai, aPani apani khusi se jyada dusre ki khusi ke liye kaam karne padate hai, Understanding problem rahti hai , koi pyar nahi karta bs matalab nikalne ke liye or rough language ko shan karna padta hai. Partner ke sath understanding bi nahi mil pati hai, Indian society mein ase hi ristey rakh lete hai, behaviour bi nhai check kar pate hain. shaadi hone per ladke ko apne sabhi vassol todne padte hain. patani Kasi bi ho chalega agar understanding hi nhai hai or hame apane vasool todne pade ya Dil per pathar rakhana pade to jindgi badi boj ho jati hai dil wali khusi ke liye ham tarsh jate hain .😢😢😢 Agar ham kisi janwar ko markar kus nhai hai to ho sakta hai apko Kasai ka kaam karna pade.
@AnubhavJain sir maa baap ke 15 saal ke continue jhagde gf ke chhodkar jaane job exam me fail hone se bhai ke love marriage karke Ghar chhod jaane se..time par shadi nahi hone se main buri tarah depression me aa gaya mentally bhut weak ho gaya...abhi age 33 ho gayi... depression tetn ka patient ban gaya ! Job h par mentally fit nahi hu to pahle shadi Karu ya pahle khud ko 2-3 sal mentally strong banaun q ki chhoti se chhoti baat ko main mind se nikal hi nahi paata...koi bhi jimmedari ya koi bhi negative baat mujhe khush hone se rok deti h meri health bigad jaati h main kha pee nahi paata so nahi paata...mind se negative vichaar nikalta hi nahi fir neend depression ki goliyan Leni padti h ! Shadi ke baad to bhut jimmedari tanaav dukh aate h to pahle strong Banu ya pahle shadi Karu...or jaisi meri family h uske hisaab se to shadi ke liye ladki dhundna bhi mere liye tetn depression ka reason ban gaya h ! Main kya karu ? Ak taraf age jyada ho gayi dusri taraf mentally fit nahi hu...mujhe shadi se pahle apne man or Shareer ko patthar banana h lekin shadi ki last age is Target me baadha ban Rahi h
@@ashuvijay7031 Bhai job hai to shadi kar le support milega maa baap Ko bi tere ko bi , Paisa ho to sab chalega , doctor se baat kar koi kamzori hai to . Jab bacha haga to usko padhana , Ghar ke kam bin paise ke nhai hote , Ghar ke function
ye sab manage ho jata hai to bro. No tension shadhi achi chalegi apko koi bi galat nhai bolega .har koi apko support karega . Bimari ka ilaj shadhi ke sath ho sakta hain per shadi na hona problem ho sakta hai . Life mein sab cheez ki limit hoti hai .
@@ashuvijay7031 yoga kar thanda Raha comedy dekh dur se parvat bhut bade lagate hain per jab parvat per hote to duniya choti lagati hain life struggle achi sikh deta Hain koi depression nhai vo to ham khud bna lete hain.
Are bhaiya ye problem ladko ke sath nhi hoti ladkiyo ke sath hoti hai bechari wo log pareshan hoti hai unke liye videos banao please
Bahut jyada helpfull video sir ji
Thank you so much ❣️🙏🙏
God bless you bhai :)
@@AnubhavJain hyy sir 18 saal se upper hone ke baad hum apne maa baap se alag nhi ho sakta. Because I want to study . I have a private job . Toh kya mein alg rh skti hoo
Please reply sir
Sir mere sath yhi ho rha mujhe abhi padhna hai par parents shadi ke liye force kar rahe hai or dhamki bhi dete hai 🥺😓
हमें तो केवल भगवान का भक्ति करनी है....और कुछ नई 🙏
❤️hare Krishna
Same here yar
😍 bilkul
Mai bhi shadi nahi karna chahta adhyatm ki or chana chahta hu
@@fashionandbeautywithpriyan1341 hare krishna...❤️
Extreme pressure every day every morning evening yhi shadi ka drama i m unemployed preparing fr govt teaching jobs my age,30 but marraige pressure ki wajah se preparing bhi nhi ho pa rhi idhar fully fed man krta bhag jau kahi ,bhut jada sucidal thoughts ate bs kisi tarah khud ko rok rhe apne sath kch bhi galat krne se pehle😢😢😢
Thank you sir itna ache se samjhane k lie... ase parents ko one short samjhaege toh wo zarur manjaege
Thanks again sir
May God rewards you
शादी करना है बुड्ढे होके थोड़ी करेंगे... लेकिन डर है.. इंसान मेरे जैसे है ही नहीं...
Cottect
Mujhe bhi bhot darr lagta hai shaadi se😑😔
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Bhaiya ek video ispe bhi banaye ki domestic violence ke khilaaf kaise aawaaz uthayi Jaye agar Aapke khud ke Ghar wale hi Aisi harkate Kare aur kis Tarah se warning Di jaye
Sir ghar vale nhi maan rahe aaisa ho skta hai ki FIR karva kar khud ko family se duur kar sake. Sb bhut paresaan kar rahe mai akela rah luga mujhe family se duur rahna hai but ghar se gya to ye sb police me complane karke dhune isse aacha hai mai he FIR karke alg ho jaau