हज़ारों लोगों से बात करके मुझे LOVE MARRIAGE के बारे में ये कड़वे सच पता चले | प्यार और शादी |
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- Опубликовано: 18 май 2022
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Love हो या Arrange पार्टनर समझदार होना चाहिए तभी रिश्ते दूर तक चलता है
पर Arrange marriage में पता कैसे चले कि सामने वाला कैसा हैं?
@@pallavigupta2934parents yhi cheez nhi samjte
Right 100%
Ryt
Marriage mein sabse jayada paisa kaam ata hai agar apke pass paisa hai toh sab set hai
love marriage with family support
is the best feeling in the world❤❤
My family supported me blindly while they know what will be the repercussions and this is karma what I'm going through I didn't obey my parents during that time i didn't hear them out.
Yess lekin family ka support nahi milta haii 🥺
Ager Dono sadi krna chahye or bich m cast aa jatti h or ghr vle cast ki vjh se mna kr date h sadi ko to kya krna chahiye
@@babygoldy1450 Hnji Jiske sath hm khush h uske sath ghr vle khush ni h
@@babygoldy1450 kalpnik bate nhi aisa sirf lucky logo k nashib hota h.
मेरी मां बचपन मे खत्म हूं गई थी और कुछ समय बाद पापा ने भी साथ छोड़ दिया ।मेरी परवरिश मेरे दादा जी ने की ओर 21 की age मे मुझे एक लड़की से प्यार हुआ और आज चार साल बाद दादा जी के आशीर्वाद से हम दोनो शादी कर रहे है। मुझे क्या चाहिए ये मेरे दादा जी बहुत अच्छे से जानते है और दादा जी ने मेरी बचपन से हर एक ख्वाशिस पूरी करी है। दादा जी मेरे लिए मेरे परमपिता परमेश्वर हैं 🙏🙏🙏🙏
नसीब लगता है मेरे भाई
मेरे भाई तेरे को भगवान हर मनोकामना पुर्ण
Apka name Ashish Mishra hai kya
Caste problem नहीं हुयी??? बड़े बुजुर्ग तो और ज्यादा मानते हैं उच नीच.
Mai 13 saal apne relation ko di hu aur hmdono ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hain but humare sath problem ye hai ki humdono me se koi independent nhi hain😔😭 mere boyfrnd ka job hi nahi ho raha bahut bad luck hain hum dono😔😭plz pray for us🙏🙏 unka job ho jaay jaldi sa aur humlog happily married kar le plz pray for me🙏🙏
Jis insan k pass job nhi h usko sadi nhi krni chahiye kya kr lo sadi kismat m hogi to bad m job mil jaegi mujhe 8 sal bad mili job
Same problem yrr meri bhi hai 🥺but mujhe believe hai wo bahut hardworking person hai aur loyal bhi ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Bura mat manna ...tumhara kesa pyar hai 13 saal tak baat hi ki kya bas
Aapne goal pr bhi focus Kiya hota ...1 baar fail hote 2 baar 3 baar last me job mil hi jati ....
13 saal aise hi kaat diye tum bevkuf ho apna future nahi dikhaai diya
@@JaatJaat-ps4es parents kvi ready nhi honge bina job k kon apne bacche ka shadi krwaynge.??
@@riyajangid7614 aap apne jagah pr bilkul sahi ho but hum sirf baat nhi Kiye, ye upsc hai behan achhe achhe ki wat lg jati hum kya chiz h...
Beshak maut aa jaye lekin kisi pe dil n aaye ☹️❤️
I totally agree 💯👍
Bilkul
Right 💔😭
Agree with you
@@neemanegi-08 😞
किसी ने ठीक ही कहा है कि बात अगर इज्जत पर आ जाए तो मोहब्बत को भी छोड़ देना चाहिए...
@@jyotiupadhyay5516 मान लीजिए कि आप किसी को चाहती हैं, और भगवान ना करे कि आगे चलकर आपको ये लगे कि वो इंसान आपकी कदर ही नहीं करता है, बात बात पर केवल आपको ही गलत करार देता है, तो ऐसे में क्या ये आपकी गलती होगी कि आप उस इंसान को पहले समझ नहीं पाए? कभी कभी धोखा भी तो हो जाता है किसी को समझने में... क्या इस वजह से आप सारी जिंदगी घुट घुटकर काटेंगे???
@Piyush Somani: Agreed... Self Respect is everything!!
True ..self respect is First
Ye sirf bolne ki bate hai, aisa Krna bahot kathin hai
Sahi baat hai Maine yahi kia
Love marriage with family support is the best feeling in the world
कौन कहता है कि मोहबत बर्बाद कर देती है निभाने वाला मिल ही जाये तो दुनिया याद करती है
Yeah.. Ekdm sach..
इंसान अच्छा हो तो लव मैरिज भी चलती इंसान अच्छा ना हो तो अरेंज भी नहीं चलती
App ka toh pura sentence hi glt hai
सही लाइन ये है " इंसान अच्छा हो तो अरेंज मैरिज भी चलती है अगर इंसान ही अच्छा ना हो तो लव मैरिज कर के भी लोग रोते है "
@@Muskanchaturvedi921 I think he is right...kyuki hamari society yahi sochti ki love marriage hamesha fail hi hote hain
@@stutysuman8188 kisko app right bol rhe ho " mujhe ya jispe mai comment ki use ????
Galt hai insaan ki kismat hoti hai achhe insaan ziyaada barbad hotey hai
@~Radhey Mohan motivational ~ yaa
जब बात आत्मसम्मान पर आएगी तब जान से प्यारी चीज भी छोड़ दी जाएगी ....
Nhi😂😂😂 meri pyri chij pass h mere roz usse jalil hoti hu m... Ksm se....
😂😂😂😂@@payalrani3697
Galat
धन्यवाद बाबा जी आपने मेरे मम्मी पापा को मेरी लव मैरिज के लिए तैयार किया आपका एहसान में कभी नहीं भूल पाऊंगी आपकी वजह से ही मेरा वैवाहिक जीवन अच्छा चल रहा है बाबा जी को कोटि कोटि प्रणाम🎉🎉
कोई भी हो चाहे arrange marriage ही क्यों ना हो, दूध से धुले हुए कोई नही है जी 😂😂😂
Sahi baat 😅😅
I completely agree with this point that every person should get married only after becoming independent.👍👍
Dixit ji , absolutely right
I am with you girl
Exactly
@@happybirthday9652 apko bishwas nhi hoga mere ex ne kaha tha mujhse shadi krni h to 30 lakh se jda dowry lenge mere papa tumre de pynge kya ...tumra ghr chota h .....tumri padhai bhi khs nhi h
Agar aj k time pr na to smart phone use hota, na he log WhatsApp,FB,ye sb use krte or na he love marriage ho pata, jiske wjh se aaj 90% log arrange marriage krte.
Sabse zaruri hai izzat... Self respect.. Jaha izzat na ho waha kabhi shadi na karna.....
Mene apke comment kai jgh dekhe
Bilkul sahi baat h
Bilkl shai par mai wo insan hu...jaha 1 rista me jamin se v niche girkar minate mangakr v rista chalna chaha par nho cah paya....bhag gaya bhahoda....parents ka nam dekar
True
sahi kha apne yehi masla.mre.sath ho rha he kya aap sister help krogi meri mujhe kuch smjh nahi aarha ky karu condition asi ho gayi
If wealth gone nothing gone ,if health gone something gone, but if character gone everything gone
U r exactly right sir.... Specially for girls bina financially independent bne shadi mat krna..... Q ki kal agar pati ne chhor diya to bhik mangne ya galat kam krne ki naubat na aye...
इंसान अच्छा होना चाहिए जो कि समय के साथ पता चलता है शादी से पहले सब अच्छे बने रहते है। समस्या ये है कि बाद में छोड़ने का विकल्प आम नही है नही तो जीवन और खुशहाल हो जाये भारत मे।
आपका पांचवा प्वाइंट बहुत अच्छा लगा ।
और जरूरी है पहले आर्थिक आत्मनिर्भरता।
विनती है लड़कियों और लड़कों से बिना आर्थिक रूप से मजबूत हुए शादी मत करना।
जब प्यार गहराई से होता है तो सालों बाद प्यार ख़त्म नहीं होता है बल्क़ि बहुत ज़्यादा गहरा और एडिक्टसन जैसा हो जाता है।
जिनको प्यार करके शादी करनी होती है वो इंतज़ार करते हैं, साथ देते हैं।
Sahi h
Mujhe pareshani bahut hai
@@amitdaga5952 konshi paresani h
@@savitavishwakarma3777 koi kaam nhi bnta h life partner chahiye
ज़ब ग़रीबी...
दरवाज़े से दस्तक देती है ना बच्चो..
Tb ❤️प्यार खिड़की से, निकल लेता है 👍
.. बाबा ईमान हाश्मी 🙏
दिमाग आ जाता है शादी बाद लड़की और लड़कों में हकीकत दिखने लगती है... फिजिकल अट्रैक्शन और शारीरिक सुंदरता के कारण शादी कर लेते हैं और फिर पछतावा करते हैं।
Tum sahi bol raho jo hota h vo dikhayi kuch deta h
Sb ek jase ni hote ....nibhaane waale b h is duniya me...
Sahi kaha 😭😭😭😭
Very true
Shadi hi mat karo phir😂😂 ARRANGE MARRIAGE ME PUJA KARTE HAI KYA LADKA LADKI EK DUSRE KA
jab kismat khrb hoti h na tbb kya love or kya arrange
Wah kya bt kah di aapne
@@studytime4032 hai na shhi baat
@@ektashrivatava9697 hai jiski kismat hi kharab h usko mil k v kho jata h
Sadi ek juwa ki trh h chahe lv ho ya arrenge
@@rohitrawani5952 bhut achhi baat boli apne jisme girls jo jda suffer krna pdta hai
कभी तानों में कटेगी, कभी तारीफों में,
ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटेगी.....
पाने को कुछ नहीं,
ले जाने को कुछ नहीं,
फिर भी क्यों चिंता करते हो इससे सिर्फ खूबसूरती घटेगी ये जिंदगी हैं यारों पल पल घटे
बार बार रफू करता रहता हूं जिंदगी की जेब,
कम्बख्त फिर भी निकल जाते हैं खुशियों के कुछ लम्हें...
में सारा झगड़ा ही ख्वाहिशों का हैं...
ना तो किसी को गम चाहिए, ना ही किसी को कम चाहिए.।
Kya baat khi h aapne❤❤
Gajab
Sbse buri hai love marriage meri hui hai aab roo rahi hu kbi kisi PE trst nai krna chahiye agr koi bolta hai ki mai maar jau ga apke bina nai reh skta bo bs kehne k liye hota hai ki nai reh skte shadi baad bo apko nai sambale ga
Love marriage sbse bdi glti hai😢😢😢😢😢
Tujhe kisne bola muh maarne ko 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Very Nice my dear brother, I agree with your all points in this videos...here you help the people to take themselves decision on surface level, neither on illusion or intense emotions..🙏
Yes sir understanding nd maturity is most important in marriage
Biggest fraud in the world is relationships 😂😂😂
Sir mujhe pehle laga ki aap love marriage critic ho.....main aapki baat se ekdam sehmat hu. Aisa badhiya content har jagah nahi milta...bahut acha laga mujhe
Love marriage with faimly support is the best feelings in world
Allah ka shukr hai meri love 😘 marriage hui thi 2018 mein aur abhi bhi hm dono bht achhe se rehte hain maasha Allah mere husband bht achhe Hain 😊 Allah hamare rishte ki hifazat kare aameen.
Han to phir aameen
Aameen
Bus aise hi always khushi khusi rahiye....we all pray for u nd all these love stories
God bless both of u❤❤
@@kanganajeswani2808 thanks for your precious wishes 😊
Thanks 😊 a lot sir ji.... you are great 👍 👏 and God bless uhhh sir ji always you happy ,healthy, stronge and aise hi hume aage v suggest 😊 😀 krte rhiye...
Thank you so much sir 😊For better guide to girls. I totally agree with your each points.
Totally agree with you sir whatever points you have said. Thank you so much for giving amazing tips.
*जो भी इस वक्त मेरा कमेंट पढ़ रहा/ रही है हम सब एक दूसरे से अनजान है पर फिर भी मैं भगवान से प्रार्थना 🙏करती हूं कि अभी आपकी लाइफ में कोई भी टेंशन चल रही है तो वह दूर हो जाए" आप हमेशा खुश रहे"🤗🤗😍😍🥰😘😘😘😘😘😘*
Meri to zindagi hi barbaad ho gayi bht bada dhokha mila h mujhe jise mai zindagi bhar nhi bhula sakti😭😭😭
I wish the same for you ❤️❤️
Thanks you very much
@Shipra Saxena pyar me dhokha sister😭😭😭😭
@Shipra Saxena mil jata h aise insaan ko easly tabhi to wo chhor jaate hn hme rota bilakhta hua hm rote hn gidgidaate hn fir v fark nhi padta h us insaan ko
I strongly claim all positive energy's and advice from this beautiful video for my beautiful life...
Thank you universe💋 thank you destiny💋 thank you guru Ji💋 thank you brother💋
Very Helpful , Thank you so much!!!❣
I read a quote once and i think it fits perfectly
"You don't just marry a person you marry a family"
That line was used in the novel “Two States" by Chetan Bhagat.
@@babygoldy1450 bikl shi
Arey bap re pure family se sadi hogi toh khrcha kaise chlega
True but how many ppl follow this. Haven't seen who like the family of the spouse. Still many girls try to compromise but many girls cross their limits upto extreme to insult and torture both the spouse n his family members. Don't know whats rt?
Actually that used to be true but that's changing now a days... since couples are living in metros for the jobs... nuclear families... the interaction with family is becoming less and less...
अनुभव जी आज आपकी एक गलतफहमी दूर कर देता हूं।
अधिकतर जिन लोगों को गुस्सा ज्यादा आता है वे लोग ज्यादा ईमानदार और दिल से साफ होते हैं। वरना अधिकतर बेईमान लोग अपने मुंह पर छल कपट वाली हंसी रखते हैं और दूसरे के कहने पर किसी तीसरे को नीचा दिखाते हैं कुछ चंद रुपयों और अपने कुछ फायदे के लिए।
Bilkul shi
I think i agree with u
Akdam sahi Kha bhai
Bilkul sahi kha aapne
Right
amazing content...very useful fr all youngsters...
Bhaiya mera bhi he seen n tha 8 sal se relationship me the ..bt ab uski shadi ho gyi h ...ha starting me thoda .muze bhi pain hua bt ab me move on kr liya h .apne kam pe focus h nd abhi aisi ladki mere life me he ki ..o muze har chiz me samj kr leti hee.....isliye life me jo hota h hone do kuch hona bhi jaruri h tbhi insan. Badal jata h nd kisi ke jane se koi n rukta h wakt ke sath sab badal jata ..bcoz experience bhi utne mil jate h ...❤️ab me khush hu apne life me ..
Bakkt akk aisa" हथियार " hai Jo gahra se gahra kuchh jakham bhar deta hai.🙇♀️.....
Very true 👍
Understanding is very much required in marriage & both should have tolerance to each other. Because No one is 100% perfect in life because we are human beings..
Thanks for your vdo for young generations those who are thinking now a days money is everything in life. But it is true for some % age. Other things are also required in life to be happy in life.
I don't think people could be 100% happy in life.. some shortfall surely will be there in life..
With warm regards.
Kolkata..😊🙏
Right.....frist priority is always career....✨✨
Ok I am your waiting
Thank you sir you explain all points is very deep and beautifully it's help all youth thank you god bless you
Well explained bhaiya... Bilkul sahi point aapne cover kiye hai
This types of videos should be viral, because nowadays mostly we can see child marriage influencer in our country.Entire life is infront of them but they want to do marriage and put a full stop in their life. Sir ,your lines are absolutely correct,I agree with you.
In our relationship literally she didn’t compromise in a single situation i always tried to lasting our relationship
Agar Insan Achcha ho to love marriage chalta hai Nahin to arrange marriage bhi nahin chalta😘😘🙏🇮🇳❤
Experience tells everything 👍 thanks bro
India me parents hi bachcho ko le dubte hain. Isliye ek waqt k baad relatives se doori bna leni chahiye. Aur ye tabhi ho sakta h jab aap sirf apne career and stability par focus karein.
Correct
Yes
Agreed, mere case me bhi aisa hi hai. Mai aur mere husband self dependent hai aur hame kisi ke support ki zarurat nahi. Alag rehte hai aur achhe se jite hai.
@@rims1104 yes
No nonsense
Sadi hi nhi karni chahiye 😢. Batchelor life is best single raho khus raho 🥲
Sahi boli par 50 saal bad marna bhi Hoga nahi to kaise jiyoge Akele ho jaoge sab dhost apna life me busy ho jayega
Sahi hai
All points are damn true which i have seen a lot of people are suffering from this situation, but touch wood🤞🏻🧿 i have complete my 8 years with my partner and this year we are getting marriage 🥰... nd i'm blessed to have him in my life... 🥰❤️ I just wish to god that everyone should have the loyal one in their live.. 🙏🏼🤞🏻
Mine was also a love marriage. I can say people don’t even understand love. It can turn into exploitative marriage. I am luckily divorced now. So don’t trust anyone who says they love you esp for girls.
Aapne bhi to kisi pr trust kiya na....Ab aap kisi or ko kitna bhi samjha lo....Wo nhi manege....Thokar lgne pr hi insaan samajhta hai...
@@anujdimple yes but no one shared their experience with me so I was not aware that such thing can also happen
@@khushbooraval5519 log jaanbhujakr share nhi krte h...Taki same mistakes sabhi kre....Aisa nhi h ki jwan hoti ldkiyo ko maa ya baap samajhte nhi hai...Ki follow celibacy.....Lekin group m sabhi ke affair ho rhe hote h to..... Pressure ki wjh se kafi ldkiya fas jati hai...Kisi ki frnd apne bf ke frnd se seting krwa deti hai...
@@khushbooraval5519 aap aware nhi the kuki aapne childhood se sharukh khan ki movies dekhi thi......Is bollywood ne jitna naash hmare smaj ka kiya h sayad hi kisi or ne kiya hoga
Apka baccha bhi h kya? Or parents apke support me the ki nhi
Love marriage ka sabse bda drawback h parents man to jate he... But hmesha unsatisfied rhte he........ Support nhi krte
Aager aapki life mai koi problem h to aap mere ko bolo mai eek professional relationship advisor hu mai aapki help karu gey
@@muskanjatin7215 mam ek ladki pasand h but usko Puri tarah se kaise samjhu milna jhulna nhi hota h
Aur usko philophobia h
@@bhupendrarana7717 to tum usko visvas dialoo
doesn't matter in long term
To mat kare support 🧐🧐 tum parents ke dum pe jee rahe ho kya. Khud se kuch kar lo koi bhagwan nahi hai iss duniya me
Aadami khud se bhi jindgi jee sakta hai
Thank you for this valuable knowledge sir
It is NOT necessary that LOVE marriage is the best thing in the world. There are arranged marriages too which have been perfect for both but it is a taboo that people are biased about categories of marriages.
Wonderful insight Sir🙏
Seriously sir yh bht valuable point h jo apne share kie h life saving points h ❤️🙏 independent hona bht zaruri h
@@happybirthday9652 🤗🙏
Sir apka video bohut acha tha..owr energy vi high tha..bohut acha laga
Very good advice Sir everyone need to understand that one's life is important first👍🏼
Thanks u so much ..sir ji..this guidess is the need of the hour..very well said.😊👌👏
Very knowledgeable vedio sir..Thank You Sir...
Thank you so much sir💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
Very important self dependent
Very good sir thank you❤🌹🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thnq uh so mich sir for giving us this genuine knowledge 🙌🙌
Focus on yr goal not others becoz yr goal give everything What u want..🔥
बस सब करो लेकिन प्यार मत करो करो तो अपनी बिरादरी में प्यार करो ताकी कुछ प्रॉब्लम हो तो सॉल्व जल्दी हो जाये 👍👍👍
Jaruri nhi h k biradri m hi pyarr hoga pyar to kisi s bhi ho sakta h aap esa kese bol sakte h inshaan pyar biradri dekhker kerta h kya
@@user-mc9rh8io6z cast m shadi krna muje nhi lgta sahi...... Baki mann hai apne vichar hain sbke..
Pyar kbi soch smj ke ni hota agr soch smj ke pyr hota h to pyr swarth ha
one should spend atleast 1.5 to 2 years together, I agree.
Bahut badhiya aur vyavharik hai aap ki baat... thanks for sharing this message..
God bless you bhai :)
Thank you sir. Valuable advice. Keep inspiring. Keep giving advice.
Love marriage ho ya arrange marriage dono ka smjhdar hona jaruri hai aajkal log love marriage karke bhi apne partner ko dhokha dete hai aur arrange marriage me bhi yahi hota hai , isliye love ho ya arrange marriage insaan ko pahnchan kar shaadi karo
Literally a best counselor ❤❤🙌🏻God bless u sir❤️🙏
Bhaai aise topics love marriage pe laatey rahiye...it really helps.. aise koi nahi bataata jaise aap bataate ho...
@@Sunilku703 sabko ja kr puchte raho ,khi koi ha bol de ,waise kehna kya chahte ho
Yes u r right compromise need by both partners not only by one.nd need to be fully dedicated bto his family.
Every thought perfect 👍
Sir aapne bhut he shi baat bole h q ki bina parents k support k saadi nhi karni chahiye love marrige to aur nhi q ki usme dhokhe k alawa kuch aur mil v nhi sakta aaj kl ki larki ho ya larka apne parents ko dhokha dene m koi kasar nhi chorte h
Mne love or arrange dono marriage dkhi h.. kai pe love successful h kai pe arrange or kai kai dono Me he bht jda gnde jhgde hte dkhe h...it's all about understanding sacrifice commitment n adjustments n nobody wants to engage themselves with all these things ..this is d truth of today's world nothing else
It means my love is perfect for me... your all things positively in between us ...now I am going to marry with my love he is perfectly positively match with your points... thanks for this video ... please pray for us 🙏♥️
Bilkul sahi bol rahe he.aapn Thank you
Thank u very much for this video
Now a days relationship are very fragile. People got confused love with other feelings like excitement or something. It's hard to find true love and accept one the way it is.
I am 25 years old and proud to be unmarried and single . I want discover life more and more focused on carrier
Absolutely right
Hazaro logo se baat krke lakho logo ki jindagi safe krne wali baat khi aapne sir..... Thanks for your valuable knowledge 🙏🙏😊
God bless you :)
Such kha Anup. Thanks anubhav bhaiya💯❤
Thank you bhaiya keep it up God bless you ❤❤❤
Sir App bahut acha guide krte ho
Thank you sir for making this video ☺️
True sir I'm agree with your first point kuyki I faced same thing seriously sir totally relate with my relationship life nd thnkuh now I understand everything
Thanks for this video sir ji both kuvj clear kar Diya apne
Relationship succeeded when both has fear of losing each other, Once fear gone love vanish and Relationship becomes toxic and ends,
Please don't play with innocent heart just for fun love people use things...❤❤
U are true motivator sir... Salute u... Always wins my heart through ur words🥰❤❤
Sahi kaha . Anubhav bhaiya is the best
When will people understand that nothing comes before your self-esteem.
Thank you sir for this informative video. I can't tell my personal life but i can say yeh video mujhe marr. se pehle dekhni chahiye thi. 😌 but any how.
Is risk ko lene se accha hai ki aapke parents aapke liye jo bhi decision lete hain vo hamesha best hi hota hai..... atleast is condition mein family support to hota hi hai......l love my parents and their respect and l would always prefer to obey them😊🙏👨👩👧
Such a meaningful video sir 👍👍
Sir how can I share my story with you ??? I also want some guidance from you sir.
Very nice information
Love you sir
Thanks u🙏💕 sir for suggestion
Understanding+ Maturity = ANUBHAV
Love marriage mei b muh khol ke dowry maangi jati hai.....aur shakal body dekh ke lust hota hai bas kuch din kaa... Ye kaunsa pyar hua.... Sahi baat h..
I hate these types of people 😖😖😖
Jb dhej hi mang lia to love ksa
Hnji sir bilkul shi jankari di hai app ne parents jo krte hai achha hi krte apne bchon k liye
0:50 sahi baat 5:10 Love marriage ki baat 6:35 financial independent ❤❤