The Whole TRUTH about Barr Adachukwu Cukelu Okafor & her 10 year old maid..(Igbo Women let's talk)

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024

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  • @colleenhyatt8039
    @colleenhyatt8039 6 месяцев назад +315

    The greater question is this: How come a ten year old is employed as child giver when she's a child herself?
    How is this kind of child labor allowed?

    • @zeea6507
      @zeea6507 6 месяцев назад +18

      in the UK will be in deep trouble. But Nigeria anything goes and so sad.

    • @wendyrennie8452
      @wendyrennie8452 6 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you, my thoughts exactly, well asked my dear.

    • @jayharper2959
      @jayharper2959 6 месяцев назад +10

      It's time to stop normalising child labour

    • @susan8576
      @susan8576 6 месяцев назад +2

      Impunity

    • @aishaibrahimabbas5867
      @aishaibrahimabbas5867 6 месяцев назад

      Thank you.

  • @bumbumbamers
    @bumbumbamers 6 месяцев назад +144

    1st, I don't believe the maid did what Ada said. She claimed this to draw on people's emotions, especially mothers.
    2nd, who send a 10 yr old to bath an 8yr old there is no difference in their maturity.
    Being a lawyer, she should know better than to break child labour law.
    Even if the girl is guilty, that was not punishment. That was cruelty of the highest order.

  • @marthanjie7991
    @marthanjie7991 6 месяцев назад +35

    Neze , I am not a Nigerian , but my friend introduced me to me to Nigerian movies. I do notice a pattern of how women in general slap around their maids or helpers in these movies. Makes me wanner think it’s normal to the culture.I also read a lot of comments , and I am sorry to say it’s the same people that are watching these movies that are feeling bad because it’s reality.Tell the Nigerian movie committee to rearrange them selves with the maltreatment. It is not fun to watch at all. They must lead by example. If I was not mature enough, not knowing the culture, I would think that it is normal to treat another human being as such in Nigerian.i am praying for everyone. Justice must be served!!!

    • @adeshileadequateabigail4403
      @adeshileadequateabigail4403 6 месяцев назад +2

      I love this comment. But In Nigeria, it is a pattern and there is almost NOTHING that can be done about it. Being beaten, slapped and physically abused is almost normal in so many homes. Beating is part of the ways we raise our kids here so it is really going to be very very difficult to change that mindset and culture.
      Some of us just try to do it in a way that will seemingly not cause harm
      As for helps, they are seen as slaves, only few people treat their helps well.
      I just hope people will learn to be kind to others that will go a long way.

    • @catchabbie
      @catchabbie 5 месяцев назад +1

      Helps are not seen as slaves abeg..Helps are Helps. And even seen as part of the family at times.. Helps are only seen as slaves to people who see themselves are slavemasters.

    • @catchabbie
      @catchabbie 5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm an igbo nigerian young woman fyi. I grew up in a home with helps who went to the same school as I did..graduated and all.. they were still disciplined like I and my siblings were when we also grew up. Growing up to helps at home I even thought they were my parents direct siblings but one of the first helps we had was from akwa ibom state and she was one of my favourites, her name was aunty Rebecca. When the last help we had graduated and left, I had already grown up to be 9 years old and since I could take care of my younger ones in the absence of my parents, there was no need for helps anymore.

  • @estelalicea591
    @estelalicea591 6 месяцев назад +96

    My heart really aches for that child 😢
    I pray that God heals her physically, mentally and spiritually and May her future shine bright in Jesus name 🙏🏽

  • @amaarbecky8583
    @amaarbecky8583 6 месяцев назад +63

    My own was pepper in my eyes at any slightest provocation. My parents gave me out at age 6 to stay with my elder brother ( my mother's first born) with a promise to send me to school. Unknown to my parents I was reduced to a slave girl under my brother's roof until heaven came through for me. I don't like to remember my growing up

    • @geradinfombah2570
      @geradinfombah2570 6 месяцев назад +9

      Thank God that he saw u through. Plz flip the page for other kids and show them love and God will bless you

    • @lizzybens
      @lizzybens 6 месяцев назад +5

      Oh no sorry 😭😭😭 for the traumatic situation you went through as a child, I pray the Good Lord removes the painful and ugly scars in the way he alone knows best

    • @jeniferjohnson3448
      @jeniferjohnson3448 6 месяцев назад +5

      So sorry you had to go through that ordeal….. I pray you gain healing ❤️‍🩹; pls note, it is NOT your fault on how you were treated.
      It’s a shame adults are not aware that kids are kids and they are naive, they need correction with love not violence.

    • @boseosisami7263
      @boseosisami7263 6 месяцев назад +2

      It is well with you sis

    • @Jennifer-Ihuoma
      @Jennifer-Ihuoma 6 месяцев назад +3

      Hugs dear. Thank God for coming through for you. Shame the spirit behind that maltreatment by being kind to children.

  • @Summer-py3vv
    @Summer-py3vv 6 месяцев назад +166

    For goodness sakes... asking a child to bathe another child is gross child-abuse!
    Back in the day as a 6 year old living with my uncle [mum's younger brother] his wife was so mean she would beat me black and blue...one day my uncle came home from a trip unexpectedly and met me with bruises all over, right there and then he took me back to my parents and told his wife that he's afraid if she would abuse me his own niece in that manner then no woman's child will be safe in her care. He never again permitted her to have any help in the house which includes her own relatives till date!😢

  • @victoria4779
    @victoria4779 6 месяцев назад +82

    No justice for her, let her face the consequences of falling to correct with love. This is unacceptable.

  • @JesuisFlay
    @JesuisFlay 6 месяцев назад +190

    Why am I shaking and crying. This is inhumane. She is a child, are we even sure she did this to the baby. Lord how is this happening. She needs to be in jail. Lock her up now. This is not how you protect your child. This is wicked but why is a 10 year old bathing an 8 year old. Why can’t her son bathe himself. Just ask the child to leave. My mom had some of her helps
    Leave before. What is this? This is insanity

    • @FriendaofGod
      @FriendaofGod 6 месяцев назад

      Or even provide sex education. She's probably been touched the wrong way herself

    • @EnubeeStyle
      @EnubeeStyle 6 месяцев назад +19

      This is wicked. Underage household employment ought to be banned.

    • @chesswellnesszone
      @chesswellnesszone 6 месяцев назад +18

      No she needs to be treated the same way she treated the 10year old. An eye for an eye. Period!

    • @Mimi-wf7mb
      @Mimi-wf7mb 6 месяцев назад +5

      As a child, the girl child was just curious and trying to explore the boys parts. Even if she hurt him I am sure it wasn't intentional😢

    • @Mimi-wf7mb
      @Mimi-wf7mb 6 месяцев назад +4

      How!? is child labour allowed in Nigeria?

  • @iyabobello6041
    @iyabobello6041 6 месяцев назад +49

    Thanks for this story. This woman is such an evil person. Please Neze can you petition this minister regarding that 10 year old that was raped by that actor?

  • @ej7465
    @ej7465 6 месяцев назад +79

    How can you be a mother and abuse a child… it means that she isn’t a mother but a birthing person.

    • @user-ks8by9oo3f
      @user-ks8by9oo3f 6 месяцев назад +9

      A mother would not use à 10 yro ,i dont care if its Nigeria

    • @ZoeyBrendan
      @ZoeyBrendan 6 месяцев назад +5

      This one don pass abuse 😢😢😢😢

    • @user-ks8by9oo3f
      @user-ks8by9oo3f 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@ZoeyBrendan she is not OK at all, that is highly demonic

    • @tangaz5819
      @tangaz5819 6 месяцев назад +6

      Why do some people think being a mother makes a human being a saint- like creature automatically? Just like everyone assumes being a mother makes one more empathetic and deserving of lighter sentences when they commit crimes. Stop it!

  • @Mystayingplace1053
    @Mystayingplace1053 6 месяцев назад +37

    This woman is a beast! She should be given life imprisonment. This is unacceptable! She's wicked and she should be investigated how she has treated that girl prior to now.

    • @dorothyngowari
      @dorothyngowari 6 месяцев назад +4

      D thinking of sharp iron inside her body is unimaginable to me,how do these thgs cross people's mind???

    • @dapofam5549
      @dapofam5549 5 месяцев назад

      Horrible act. Jail time 4sure, but not deserving of eternal punishment.

  • @queendalinepcnwankwo6152
    @queendalinepcnwankwo6152 6 месяцев назад +79

    I was a victim of this abuse too when I was living with Aunty then and I was only 11 years old. I was thinking as a child when I made little mistakes she would pounce on me and beat me up and when her 7-year-old daughter would make mistakes she would talk to her calmly and say “This child that's how they behave” as if am an animal 😂 Just because I’m not her child wickedness.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 6 месяцев назад +7

      I’m sorry you experienced this.

    • @coconoir6181
      @coconoir6181 6 месяцев назад +3

      I’m sorry this happened to you. ❤❤❤

    • @joanlynch5040
      @joanlynch5040 6 месяцев назад

      Praying in church and speaking in tongue does not mean they are good people or religious. They are the worst

    • @queendalinepcnwankwo6152
      @queendalinepcnwankwo6152 6 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you, I see it as a life experience. We thank God for today.

    • @fortunelibbohole3616
      @fortunelibbohole3616 6 месяцев назад +3

      Sorry sweetheart, hope you have healed and not traumatised

  • @mercyfellah725
    @mercyfellah725 6 месяцев назад +71

    This is..I lack the appropriate word to use on this lady. What is the difference between a 10 year old and an 8 year old. How does she even expect a 10 year old to be able to bath an 8 year old. She has to face the full ruff of the law. This is beyond anger. This is pure evil.

    • @namastebawoni1356
      @namastebawoni1356 6 месяцев назад +3

      This was the message I was looking for. How can a child look after a child? 10 years old house help.

    • @wisdomkey5584
      @wisdomkey5584 6 месяцев назад +3

      Honestly, l am so emotional with this. This child labor should stop in Nigeria. 8 years old should be bathing himself, too. Spoil kids

    • @DorothyJ-qh8om
      @DorothyJ-qh8om 6 месяцев назад

      I thought she said eight months🤔

    • @Triplecharmfanpage574
      @Triplecharmfanpage574 6 месяцев назад

      She should be jailed for life.

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp 6 месяцев назад

      The gov't isn't doing anything about child labor.

  • @zeea6507
    @zeea6507 6 месяцев назад +42

    Why will a sensible person employ a 10 years old as help? Why is a 10 years old bathing a 8 years old? we say Nigeria leadership is bad but even some of the people are vile and crazy. The story is sad and distressing.

    • @ZoeyBrendan
      @ZoeyBrendan 6 месяцев назад

      God bless you...10 year old is just meant to hold things for her ,run errands and wash plates ..

    • @zeea6507
      @zeea6507 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@ZoeyBrendan even that it is child abuse, in UK minimum age for employment is 16. 10 years old should still be under parent's care. poverty is causing all this rubbish.

  • @chiomaabuba8737
    @chiomaabuba8737 6 месяцев назад +45

    This right here, is a demon in case you're wondering what one looks like. May God heal that poor, innocent child 🙏 😢. Our society is totally broken 💔 😢.

  • @zobanwa
    @zobanwa 6 месяцев назад +26

    Can humans be dis wicked? I was shaking and trying to hold myself together while listening to the horrific story.
    The punishment is far, far, unproportionate to the said crime.
    It's absolutely unbelievable!!!
    This is gross wickedness.

    • @lindaesmerada
      @lindaesmerada 6 месяцев назад

      My dear I'm also trying to be strong whiles listening to this story. 😭😭😭 Jesus Christ.

  • @lungilemotubatse8491
    @lungilemotubatse8491 6 месяцев назад +19

    We need a go fund me for this girl.Raise as much money so that this girl gets counselling and a decent education education

  • @lindaesmerada
    @lindaesmerada 6 месяцев назад +16

    MAMA NEZE, PLEASE GIVE US A FOLLOW UP VIDEO ON HOW THE GIRL IS DOING. THIS IS WHAT WILL GIVE US HEALING. COS I'VE BEEN MADE SICK BY THIS STORY.
    WE WISH HER A SPEEDY RECOVERY.

  • @shakurabdullganiw7804
    @shakurabdullganiw7804 6 месяцев назад +34

    Thank you Neze,I hope the child get justice because I don't trust Nigerian judgement.

  • @dienejd8664
    @dienejd8664 6 месяцев назад +20

    Gosh, even the devil himself wil bow out for this woman.
    Wicked is even weak to describe this woman

    • @nubianqueen09
      @nubianqueen09 6 месяцев назад +3

      For real…she ain’t human 😤

    • @esthermercer7275
      @esthermercer7275 6 месяцев назад +2

      Truly…this woman is simply EVIL

  • @Sapphire37.
    @Sapphire37. 6 месяцев назад +69

    She is only ten; she was bathing your son and probably washed his privates the best way she knew how, without bad intentions. If there was any other situation where he stripped the child to touch him, that would be a clear case of a bad act. Also, children may lie or may have the wrong perceptions or reports about happenings. Based on what other things made one incident so bad to warrant such terrible punishment? And if even she was wrong, did she consider that she, being a child, may have those bad ideas, probably because she was exposed to adult acts either through viewing or because she herself was made to perform or put through such acts and so needed redirection or proper training to help her refrain from bad behaviour? She is 10, and behaviours are not established at that age, so a little punishment, advice, and regular supervision/ending of her service with them would have been all she needed. Not treated like some dangerous individual. Oh💔.... So this woman is angry that this girl touched her child at his private place, yet felt it was ok to retaliate by doing same to the offender with a hot knife?; crazy!... double standards, and wickedness at its height! Zero empathy. And the fact that she is a lawyer makes her actions even more shocking.

    • @lindaesmerada
      @lindaesmerada 6 месяцев назад +3

      Jesus. I feel the pain too. Ooh God

    • @estherosadebe1163
      @estherosadebe1163 6 месяцев назад

      She's a danger to the society. Thank you@Sapphire37. I'm scared of alot of our Nigeria women. This is heartbreaking! A hot knife in her private part. Oh my world! I grew up on Nigeria but now demons are claiming to be wives and Moms

    • @LONDONESQUE.
      @LONDONESQUE. 6 месяцев назад +4

      I agree with everything completely! It’s either she was bathing him how she felt she was supposed to (by the way if he’s 8 can he not bath himself yet?) or she really did intentionally abuse him. Even so, the reaction was disproportionate. I understand feeling like you want to harm someone you thought hurt your child, but this was overkill. She should have investigated more and not cause this much damage to a 10 year old.. just heartless

    • @giovannabrown396
      @giovannabrown396 6 месяцев назад +1

      If she was in the UK they would strike her off and she would never be able to practice as a lawyer.

    • @favoriteisaacz5098
      @favoriteisaacz5098 6 месяцев назад

      The chrisland girl, was also ten ..d one dat was practicing missionary sex style when they went for excursion, she was riding d boy

  • @gloriaboateng9423
    @gloriaboateng9423 6 месяцев назад +42

    Please Barrister Neze, is it legal for an underage to be employed or engaged as a help? What kind of assistance can a 10 year old offer to you or your children and she herself needs being nurtured? What is this world turning into?
    You forgot that you are a woman, a mother and a lawyer who knows what how it feels to conceive and the pains involved in labour and delivery of a child. Where did you train and what was the offence of this little girl?

    • @amaarbecky8583
      @amaarbecky8583 6 месяцев назад +1

      It is a punishable offense under Unisef child labour act. I don't know about Nigeria's constitution o .What most people does especially here in Abuja, is to send such under age to school, some go as far as register them with the same school as their kids hence making it difficult for unisef to clamp down on them. In the morning, driver takes every body to school and back. This is why you can hardly hear about child labor in Abuja talk less of child abuse.

    • @Bas_tet
      @Bas_tet 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@amaarbecky8583 It is against the child rights act

    • @WiniPounds
      @WiniPounds 6 месяцев назад

      A ten year old can't force someone to pay her a salary. That's why a vareister will prefer that age group. A grown up will request for his salary when the time comes.

  • @julieleke211
    @julieleke211 6 месяцев назад +10

    Chaii, my body is shaking as I watch you narrate this. God !

  • @melodybestman3951
    @melodybestman3951 6 месяцев назад +32

    This is wickedness beyond sad😢

  • @tabithaotumu9696
    @tabithaotumu9696 6 месяцев назад +29

    Hmmm
    A child remains a child and should not made responsible for another child without close supervision.
    That girl likely is a victim of molestation herself.
    Besides, in my opinion,an eight year old child should be able to bathe himself or herself.
    It's well

  • @aniket7332
    @aniket7332 6 месяцев назад +13

    People are evil, have never heard this amount of maltreatment in my life😢😢😢

  • @chio940
    @chio940 6 месяцев назад +28

    This one pass Jezebel...
    Why not send her back? Eh

    • @zeea6507
      @zeea6507 6 месяцев назад +2

      Even the devil not this evil o and apparently a child of God.

  • @starlightworld1407
    @starlightworld1407 6 месяцев назад +2

    She doesn't deserve to be a lawyer let alone a Barrister. The Nigerian Bar association should strip her off that title and collect her practise license. For a lawyer to break law to that extent is questionable and even brag about it that she will go free despite her evil act. She should go to jail period.

  • @niyoleo
    @niyoleo 6 месяцев назад +6

    She needs to be locked up! It’s a shame she’s a lawyer and dismissed the popular saying in law that one is innocent until proven guilty and not by hearsay.
    How can a 10 year old be employed as a house help and be told to bathe an 8 year old?? That itself is crazy and absurd. That’s just a mere 2 year difference, old enough to be even in the same school. A 10 year old can’t bathe himself? Even if the 10 year old has a disability that disables him from being able to bathe himself, his parents should bathe him not any 10 year old child esp not one of the opposite sex.

  • @joanedwards9460
    @joanedwards9460 6 месяцев назад +7

    She is a cruel beast to human, oh God I can't believe this is what humans are doing to each other😢😢😢

  • @lilianchimuanya6220
    @lilianchimuanya6220 6 месяцев назад +21

    The child happiness did not just start this overnight, sadly she might have been a victim of Abuse
    Who didn’t realise the consequences of her actions to the young boy.
    In all we do correcting with Love still wins😢

  • @kemilolafadeyi5483
    @kemilolafadeyi5483 6 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you Barrister Nezze , for being the voice for this voiceless and keep fighting for justice . Sarcastic smile ! You have been called for a just and purpose . Keep walking on your life purpose madam . You are much needed in time such as this . Keep opening the eyes and making a difference in this world . 😊😊😊

  • @mabelmodika7356
    @mabelmodika7356 6 месяцев назад +6

    Justice should not be tempered by mercy because if the ten year old had to bath an eight year old, there's no way she will not mistakenly touch his private parts. And more to that,their age difference is just two years,how does she expect her to bath him. She is wicked and should rotten in jail.

  • @tokuomielucas7727
    @tokuomielucas7727 6 месяцев назад +10

    Pls she should not be given bail and she must face the consequences and Ada is very wicked and justice should never temper mercy on Ada and does it mean that her 10 years old boy can’t bath himself and what can of mother is Ada. First of all the Nigerian Bar Association should take her license away from her or banned her forever. The evil men do live with them.

  • @giftyamoah5720
    @giftyamoah5720 6 месяцев назад +22

    Even if she is a spoiled child you don’t go that far by destroying her life. Protecting your child doesn’t mean to inflict such treatment to. Yes you need to protect your child but this is a NO! NO!

    • @Guzmies
      @Guzmies 6 месяцев назад +3

      her story na lies sef i am sure..u asked 10yrs old to bath 8yrs

    • @FriendaofGod
      @FriendaofGod 6 месяцев назад

      And she's also a child. Probably got molested by others as well. Bless her heart

    • @lindaesmerada
      @lindaesmerada 6 месяцев назад

      You are right.

  • @gloriaboateng9423
    @gloriaboateng9423 6 месяцев назад +14

    She needs to face the law and punished accordingly. But for a 10year old? For goodness sake, a 10 year old is still growing and cannot even properly bath herself. The last time it was another wicked mother who also engaged a 10 year old and assaulted her (I think the People's President or the Brekete court aired it).

  • @boseosisami7263
    @boseosisami7263 6 месяцев назад +4

    That child 😢😢😢😢 i hope she overcome this😢😢😢
    So sad!!!!

  • @renaugbabe4201
    @renaugbabe4201 6 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you Nezville for being honest in bringing out the evil against house help by a lot of Igbo women.
    Why take a ten year old as a house help in the first place? This Ada is pure evil and should face the wrath of the law.

  • @yvettewilliams5967
    @yvettewilliams5967 6 месяцев назад +6

    She needs to face the full wrath. No, she acted as a demon! Such callousness. What was done to her child required other admonishment including family, lawyers etc. She wanted CHEAP HELP. Hired a 10 year old? So this child was not in school. ABUSE ON THE HIGHEST LEVEL! You have said it all. Such BRUTALITY!!!😊

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 6 месяцев назад +1

      That was an error with the smiling face. I’m so sorry!

  • @yetundeadio9073
    @yetundeadio9073 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am Yoruba and this happens with Yoruba women as well

  • @Bellelove4live
    @Bellelove4live 6 месяцев назад +20

    This is wickedness, this girl is still a child just like her son… she should get life imprisonment and be financially responsible for the girl

  • @annieajibola4246
    @annieajibola4246 6 месяцев назад +3

    Please Neze, could you update us on the outcome of this issue, when it goes to court, because Nigeria is very corrupt, I hope the woman will not bribe her way out of it. She must be severely punished for this wicked act. Thank you Neze, God bless you🙏🏽

  • @ansoucamara9462
    @ansoucamara9462 6 месяцев назад +5

    Mrs.Ada does not deserve to be free from this crime. Her actions are inhuman so she must face the penalty of what she had done to this 10 Years old girl. Nobody should take the law into his/her own hands. She must feed justice.

  • @SereneSelf-careHub
    @SereneSelf-careHub 6 месяцев назад +4

    I love you Neze, but I couldn't watch the whole video. This sent killer chills down my spine. My imaginations ran wide and it's horrible 😭

  • @milanyaaaa3383
    @milanyaaaa3383 6 месяцев назад +2

    "Do unto others what you want them to do unto you" words to live by in this crazy messed up world

  • @chiomanancy803
    @chiomanancy803 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is pure Cruelty!
    Some human are so wicked!
    May God have mercy and heal the little child. May she not go scout free on this. She gat to face the wroth of the law!

  • @ireneakpadie3516
    @ireneakpadie3516 6 месяцев назад +3

    Mrs Ada MUST FACE THE FULL RIGORS OF THE LAW. That's an act of wickedness to the highest level

  • @vivianndomadu7130
    @vivianndomadu7130 6 месяцев назад +7

    Did she consider that her own child might have lied just to get the maid in trouble? I say this because i experienced it as a child living with my own elder sister as a 10 year old and helping take care of her kids that were just a few years younger than i was. The kids lied a lot and told tales just to get me in trouble and i was punished for things i did not even think about. hardly dress up in shorts and sleevless tops because of marks left on my body from those experiences.

  • @nkjv12
    @nkjv12 6 месяцев назад +21

    Why is a 10 year old looking after an eight year old in the first place. By now most people in Nigeria should know that only parents should bath their children please stop delegating this duty to just anyone from anywhere to avoid stories like this. A lot of people in Nigeria are psychopaths with power because I don't understand how you can do that to an underage girl. Instead of trying to speak to the girl because it is obvious the girl may have been groomed .

  • @itohanroli6676
    @itohanroli6676 6 месяцев назад +14

    Thank you Barrister Neze, i experience this while growing up. All the Igbo's in the compound always maltreat their maids (as they call them) whether male or female. But this particular episode is heartbreaking. I pray God provide for all parents to adequately take care of their children instead of giving them out as maids.

    • @aishaahmed4553
      @aishaahmed4553 6 месяцев назад +2

      Why not focus on the issue and leave out tribes? This behavior is not peculiar to any tribe, not sure why some Nigerians always talk about tribe all the time.

    • @rachelberi
      @rachelberi 6 месяцев назад +2

      Sorry if you went through that

    • @antnam4406
      @antnam4406 5 месяцев назад

      @@aishaahmed4553 no we will focus on the tribe. The video focused on the tribe. This has happened too many times with the same tribe. It will be irresponsible to ignore the tribe.

    • @aishaahmed4553
      @aishaahmed4553 5 месяцев назад

      @@antnam4406 suit yourself

  • @noratackey-otoo1678
    @noratackey-otoo1678 6 месяцев назад +18

    This is extremely horrible. I pray Happiness heals and gets well. But Barrister Neze I would politely ask that you don’t post photos of Happiness’s bruised body on any other platform. Please don’t add to circulating it. Thank you for creating awareness on this.

    • @joyousjoy2433
      @joyousjoy2433 6 месяцев назад

      As if the money she is earning in Canada is not enough for her. Don't use someone else's videos to make money by asking people to follow you on other platforms.

    • @Wakadugbe
      @Wakadugbe 6 месяцев назад +3

      ​@@joyousjoy2433Joyousjoy you apparently have no joy. How is the money she is making in Canada a problem to you? Did she stop you from going to Canada or force you to follow her on other platforms. Please rid yourself of hate, it is sipping through.

    • @graciaagbara7842
      @graciaagbara7842 6 месяцев назад

      Joy, u definitely no get joy o,haba!

    • @mercythomas-6481
      @mercythomas-6481 6 месяцев назад

      Joy you got no heart,or did Neze snatch your husband, this hate don't have part two, please you can be a better Joy

  • @beatricenabwire6862
    @beatricenabwire6862 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is a very horrifying story 😭😭😭😭GOD Have Mercy , May GOD heal the young girl 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @rachelberi
    @rachelberi 6 месяцев назад +3

    Anger has never been the solution to any challenge we face.
    Each time u encountered anything disturbing plz take a deep breath n Walk away until ur tempared is down

  • @themaryblu
    @themaryblu 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is so heartbreaking 😢 Neze I don’t even know what to say.

  • @cassmaie
    @cassmaie 6 месяцев назад +1

    People that have children should not be wicked or cruel to another child because they do not know what will happen to their own children in the future o

  • @BBrock1951
    @BBrock1951 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m in tears, dizzy, and nauseated just hearing about what happened to this little girl. Ada is evil beyond measure and should be punished to the fullest extent of the law!!

  • @judithodinaka4028
    @judithodinaka4028 6 месяцев назад +4

    Neze you are just a kind and amazing story. thank you for intervening for that child

  • @AD-oc4gc
    @AD-oc4gc 6 месяцев назад +3

    My pain is women who are supposed to be mothers,loving,tender and kind are the ones who are worse than you can imagine. Some women are worse of the devil. The trauma on the girl is heartbreaking and a lifetime. It's only girl that can heal her

  • @regalokehie2671
    @regalokehie2671 6 месяцев назад +6

    Am a parent but u see this lady, she's a witch. How could she do this to a 10yr old. In the first place, why would she take in a 10yr old as a help and ask her to bath her 8yr old. 10 and 8 no be d same thing? Ha, abeg make she go face her punishment abeg😢

  • @anthonynoyiagbon5787
    @anthonynoyiagbon5787 6 месяцев назад +16

    The lady went overboard. Did you call her a barrister? Usual of most Nigerian lawyers; it feels good to abuse the law. She is the root cause of all the incidences. She demonstrated irresponsibility to the maid and her domestic concerns. She violated the maid by taking advantage of her poor backgrounds and she got a repercussion of that. It is really unfortunate that her child became a victim of her negligence. The husband failed to perform his duty as a man. His non outright rebuke and timely intervention led the wife on.

    • @mercythomas-6481
      @mercythomas-6481 6 месяцев назад

      She is supposed to be a voice for this little girl but no she has allowed herself to be used as as the devil incarnate

  • @user-vn5fw7gl6o
    @user-vn5fw7gl6o 6 месяцев назад +1

    What a painful and sad story that you shared Barrister Neze. May God grant the child justice. Wickedness at its highest. Watching from SA. 😭

  • @gospelworshipsongs1695
    @gospelworshipsongs1695 6 месяцев назад +2

    I really Love the way our beautiful Neze analyses the whole story each time she post a video. Much Love from Italy girl ❤️❤️❤️ you are the Best😍

  • @roheysagnia1839
    @roheysagnia1839 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is why I love to watch your tv because you speak sense and I love that may god continue to bless this channel 🙏

  • @comfortop9204
    @comfortop9204 6 месяцев назад +2

    Isn't it time there is a ban for taking underage children as helps.
    What kind of work will a 10 year old do in the house.
    This is insane.
    She is a lawyer, she knew what she was doing.
    She took out this abuse over a period of days. So it was premeditated actions.

  • @toksy1400
    @toksy1400 6 месяцев назад +1

    Too bad, the lady lawyer should be in jail 😢

  • @oluwapelumihelen4916
    @oluwapelumihelen4916 6 месяцев назад +1

    Chai,when i saw the headline from ur post,my heart bled😥😥💔news like this breaks my heart 😭😭💔we hardly saw news like this back in d days,at least as of 20 yrs ago,even if it were,it wasnt of this magnitude,na wa oo,pls lets all strive to bring bk a safe,and sane environment for d sake of our mental health pls😥😥

  • @VeritaIyamu
    @VeritaIyamu 6 месяцев назад +40

    Those women supporting Ada are also as evil as Mrs Ada, that kind of wickedness is not discipline at all she could have disciplined the child without that level of wickedness. This type of behavior is so common among Igbo women nawa o Asking a 10 year old to bath an 8 year old boy , so her 8 year old can not bath for himself? Other people children are not human? Just because she is poor?.

    • @ngoziubani9886
      @ngoziubani9886 6 месяцев назад +3

      She could have sent the girl back . That woman is a cannibal

    • @doubratukoroa2634
      @doubratukoroa2634 6 месяцев назад +2

      Am telling you..if it's their own would they be happy..I just pray her reproductive organs are not damaged completely 😢

    • @omofelixz9378
      @omofelixz9378 6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you. You are so on point! Evil will definitely support wickedness.

    • @UntangledMind_CPM
      @UntangledMind_CPM 6 месяцев назад +3

      Any woman supporting Ada is equally evil!!! Ada will end up in jail... Her loving loving on social media has come to an end. Oloriburuku somebody!

  • @blossomdeejohn7699
    @blossomdeejohn7699 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is dis heartening. I could not even listen to all the things you described she did. This is not fair, Ada should be punished. She knows the law and decided to still do this evil.

  • @namendalancome5947
    @namendalancome5947 6 месяцев назад +2

    I haven't gotten into the story but can I just say. You are glowing Neze❤

  • @GiftyJatuNeville
    @GiftyJatuNeville 6 месяцев назад +7

    There's no justication for what Ada did that child.

  • @heather5479
    @heather5479 6 месяцев назад +7

    Are there any laws against child labor in Nigeria ?why was a child of ten years old employed as a house help rather than being in school.Honestly I believe Nigeria failed that child and the many other that are employed at that age instead of being in School.Concerning that lady she should feel the full weight of the Law what she did was inhumane and as a mother herself she should have dealt with the situation differently,to go to that extent to inflict so much pain on that child speaks a lot about her.

  • @AgelessLight
    @AgelessLight 6 месяцев назад +5

    Don't torture and brutalized someone child this way. This is pure wickedness and evil.

  • @namendalancome5947
    @namendalancome5947 6 месяцев назад +2

    Oh my God 😢. This story 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 my soul left my body.

  • @SereneSelf-careHub
    @SereneSelf-careHub 6 месяцев назад +1

    I left a thumbs up though 😭. Still crying 😭

  • @Imet18
    @Imet18 6 месяцев назад +2

    I have never commented on any of your videos, but I cannot leave this case. Please inform us on any help we can render with this case. I live in th UK, is there a go fund me or a way to make donations to the young girl's rehabilitation, counselling and future welfare? Thank you! Lastly no mercy for the perpetrator! We demand justice and a lenghty prison sentence!!

  • @rubyjeanharper-niles9855
    @rubyjeanharper-niles9855 6 месяцев назад +2

    Barrister Neze may I ask what is the legal age of employment in Nigeria? How can a young woman, a mother of 4 and a Barrister by profession employ a 10 year old to take care of her kid who is 8???
    Please help me understand. I am a64 years old female originally from the Caribbean now living in the USA.... Thanks for bringing this to the light. ❤❤

  • @okonmbese2328
    @okonmbese2328 6 месяцев назад +7

    she should face the full wrath of the law
    as a Lawyer she ought to know bettee not to employ a 10 year old

  • @elizabetholufunmilayo1751
    @elizabetholufunmilayo1751 6 месяцев назад +2

    I was unable to close my mouth. This is more than serious.
    Please let the Federal Ministry of Women Affairs also Wade into the case of the 10year old that was molested at Asaba Nollywood film Location.

  • @gladysmartyn4482
    @gladysmartyn4482 6 месяцев назад +7

    What I'm I hearing 😢
    This world!!!!

  • @emilyegerue73
    @emilyegerue73 6 месяцев назад +1

    Nezee.. oh no "Amina... I hail you for having the heart to even be able to look at such gory videos. As you say the story I can imagine all the actions on my own body... And I cannot sleep now... This is 2.18am😭😭😭😭

  • @setogarnett9448
    @setogarnett9448 6 месяцев назад +5

    Ada should face justice. She's evil 😈

  • @amemalabo3598
    @amemalabo3598 6 месяцев назад

    You are totally right, we Africans always complaining but never do anything

  • @sharleenjj8548
    @sharleenjj8548 6 месяцев назад +3

    I really doubt that 10 year old did anything crazy to her son ...I think ada is using that to cover up her evil deed

  • @godspromisesamuel5886
    @godspromisesamuel5886 6 месяцев назад +1

    Father GOD Have Mercy Upon That Young Girl 🙏. JESUS CHRIST 🙏.. .

  • @rachelberi
    @rachelberi 6 месяцев назад +5

    This is horrible
    Why didn't she sent her away or better still correct her with love😢

  • @priscillaakyeah2403
    @priscillaakyeah2403 6 месяцев назад +1

    Out of anger and wage we may do the unthinkable but this is certainly a premeditated act. From beating and burning the child with iron and go to the extreme of doing such an evil is just unforgivable. She must face JUSTICE.
    Why will you allow a 10yr old girl bath an 8yr old boy? How was she able to leave with the gilt of multreating a child, indeed the heart of men is truly wicked.
    Let us all try and control ourselves when anger sets in. Stay blessed Neze❤

  • @nnekairoegbu2360
    @nnekairoegbu2360 6 месяцев назад +3

    That woman is the worst, how can someone do that to another human being let alone a defenceless child. TUFIAKWA!!!! I don't believe that little girl did anything wrong. She is just a wicked soul.

  • @VeryVicky
    @VeryVicky 6 месяцев назад +3

    No excuses for this level of wickedness. Pure cruelty!!! Tufiakwa!

  • @lisawilliams8183
    @lisawilliams8183 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you for dealing with these vital and necessary issues.. this is rampant in Africa.

  • @Michelletalker
    @Michelletalker 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel so sorry for that 10-year old. Who knows if she had also been a victim of sexual abuse? For a child to fondle with another child's privates is very unusual! I can almost swear that someone had done it to her in the past. May God heal her physically, psychologically and emotionally.

  • @susannastrose2791
    @susannastrose2791 6 месяцев назад +2

    She went over board insanely horrific and in humane

  • @doctorrees4473
    @doctorrees4473 6 месяцев назад +2

    A whole barrister who knows the law about employing underage child to work for her. That is child abuse, then tortured the girl in that manner, God have mercy on us, this is the most inhumane way to treat somebodys child

  • @nevesfakeh6943
    @nevesfakeh6943 6 месяцев назад +8

    No mercy on Ada. She's evil.

  • @anthoniaehikwe128
    @anthoniaehikwe128 5 месяцев назад

    Nne oma, thanks much for the good works that you're doing on our society o. May the good Lord reward you 🙏 ✨️ 🙌 😊 ❤❤❤❤

  • @ezeamadelightchika8622
    @ezeamadelightchika8622 6 месяцев назад

    Barrister Neze thanks for the update, Ada must be jailed , the law must have its cause the level of cruelty is alarming i can't imagine a mother doing this to a child. She must pay for the damages done to that child . I rest my case.

  • @Ruthie4j
    @Ruthie4j 6 месяцев назад

    You've said it all bar. Neze,if the mate is not good enough especially as a child return them. Ada should face the full root of the law, how could a mother be this evil to another person's child.

  • @ladyhelengee
    @ladyhelengee 6 месяцев назад +1

    A Barrister, a mother who is spouse to do the right thing and have sympathy has done the unthinkable.

  • @flourishandboom247
    @flourishandboom247 6 месяцев назад

    Please we need a follow up on this story... I'm pissed off right now. This wicked woman must pay for this.

  • @Labenzez
    @Labenzez 6 месяцев назад +3

    Awful and horrific!. I would’ve loved for her to try this in America. #1 charges for violating child labor laws followed by multiple other charges which should be attempted m…r. Also her children should be taken away from her or she should not be allowed to be with minors without supervision.