My Wife or My Girlfriend Dr. Phil You Decide

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  • Опубликовано: 10 июл 2024
  • Melvin says he is torn between his wife of eight years, Rachel, and his girlfriend of two years, Chantelle, and he wants Dr. Phil to help him decide whom he should choose. Tension builds when the women meet face to face for the first time. Will Dr. Phil help Melvin with his choice -- or will someone else make the decision for him? (2213022RR)
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Комментарии • 259

  • @heavenleeangeltalk8471
    @heavenleeangeltalk8471 21 день назад +205

    Believe this, Your soulmate will NOT be found in someone else's husband!!!!

    • @sonyasanders9108
      @sonyasanders9108 21 день назад +7

      Truth. God does not give you someone's spouse.

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 21 день назад +6

      Exactly!

    • @sandralittle2138
      @sandralittle2138 21 день назад +1

      So right!

    • @meghanwilliams4295
      @meghanwilliams4295 21 день назад +2

      And your marriage won't be successful if your husband wants to be in someone else's arms.

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 21 день назад +1

      @@meghanwilliams4295 exactly!

  • @colleenandrews3720
    @colleenandrews3720 21 день назад +97

    Wife should walk away and never look back.

  • @trijntjejacoba
    @trijntjejacoba 21 день назад +52

    I never understand why two women fight for a man who proves to be unfaithful.
    What a disgrace

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 21 день назад +4

      I completely agree with you it is absolutely baffling to me.

    • @KellyThutwa
      @KellyThutwa 20 дней назад +4

      I agree with you, this is WHAT THEY CALL DESPERATION in both of the women!

  • @StrawberryJam806
    @StrawberryJam806 21 день назад +283

    Imagine fighting over this dude lmao

  • @nessae354
    @nessae354 21 день назад +101

    Chantal and Melvin are perfect for each other. Theyre both foul and selfish. Let them be together and sit back and wait for him to cheat on her too and her to cheat on him with another married man. Chantal doesn't get any sympathy. She chose this.

  • @marilynoliver5965
    @marilynoliver5965 21 день назад +83

    Women why???? Why such low self-esteem to allow this waiting for him to decide.

    • @Ninnjette-
      @Ninnjette- 20 дней назад +5

      Thank you!! Why do women fight over garbage?

    • @jennypham3998
      @jennypham3998 13 дней назад

      ​@@Ninnjette-😂

  • @teamcougars
    @teamcougars 21 день назад +48

    A player like this dude isn’t worth the energy 😢

  • @suemcdermott2947
    @suemcdermott2947 21 день назад +81

    You dont meet a husband on a christian dating site, he just finds kind needy women he can use.

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 21 день назад +66

    He wants shantell pls leave him honey

  • @Annsunshine30
    @Annsunshine30 20 дней назад +10

    He called himself loyal and faithful......................

  • @LisaFerguson-lw8il
    @LisaFerguson-lw8il 20 дней назад +32

    I began dating a divorced man. He was so caring and fun to be with. It was by pure accident that I discovered he was still married. I dug deeply and found that he was not just married, he had 3 children, and was living with his wife & family when he wasn't in another city, where I lived. I called his wife, apologising to her for the time I spent with him. She & I became and remain good friends. As a woman, I'm never going to steal a man.

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss 21 день назад +41

    That man is a child

  • @christinebrument6851
    @christinebrument6851 20 дней назад +11

    Hes cheating and yet she's still sleeping with him.. wheres your self respect.?

  • @user-bo1bw7jw4o
    @user-bo1bw7jw4o 21 день назад +35

    Ugh, never chase a man! The second a dude is interested in someone else, you bounce! I had a guy that tried that on me once, he dumped me for my friend and then tried to come back, I laughed in his face. I could never be attracted to him again.

  • @fabiwilliams4644
    @fabiwilliams4644 20 дней назад +16

    I don't know why women consistently blame the other woman. He's to blame not her. At least have the dignity to proudly walk away & take back your power

  • @patimastbrook5278
    @patimastbrook5278 21 день назад +10

    Let her have him … he doesn’t deserve you

  • @JeanetteSullivan1
    @JeanetteSullivan1 20 дней назад +4

    Does Rachel even consider that he could be bringing STDs home to her?? That is GROSS!! What woman would ever want a man like that. He's disgusting!

  • @calgal5752
    @calgal5752 21 день назад +8

    Why would anybody want this dude???

  • @8213apice
    @8213apice 20 дней назад +6

    How can you let go of a man that’s committed to another woman? He wasn’t yours anyways.

  • @wrenh5046
    @wrenh5046 20 дней назад +9

    Why do I feel like he still wouldn’t marry Chantal even if him and his wife were divorced 💀

  • @truleekemp5768
    @truleekemp5768 21 день назад +39

    I feel so bad for her smh i hope she finds the strength to move on from him and find better because she deserves better

  • @dianewaynewood4477
    @dianewaynewood4477 20 дней назад +5

    You married him after knowing him for six weeks? Lady, you have issues that you need to deal with before you make any decisions about being in a relationship.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 20 дней назад +3

    Melvin only cares about Melvin.

  • @rolondabrown1233
    @rolondabrown1233 19 дней назад +4

    The wife ain’t playing with a full deck

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 21 день назад +16

    Wooow the way he ran over to his homewrecker when he got his feelings hurt. 🐮

  • @IkaneishaJenkins
    @IkaneishaJenkins 21 день назад +13

    whew, he isn't attractive, wealthy or emotionally intelligent, what are these ladies fighting over?? Not saying wealth matters but sheesh, this guy isn't WORTH it lol

  • @Jackmcars12
    @Jackmcars12 21 день назад +16

    Narcissist

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit 21 день назад

      He also has schizophrenia, is a convicted felon. Probably some other serious mental health stuff going on.

  • @Melissa-xz8ss
    @Melissa-xz8ss 21 день назад +19

    "Sometimes you have to make up your mind,
    Say yes to one and let the other one ride"

    • @alanaadams7440
      @alanaadams7440 21 день назад +2

      Did you ever have to make up your mind

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 21 день назад

      @@alanaadams7440we have all had to make decisions. I made a decision to leave my cheating husband.

  • @mollyscot1563
    @mollyscot1563 21 день назад +110

    I love that the wife is blaming the gf not her husband. Wake up.

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 21 день назад +11

      I was just going to say that Melvin needs to leave Chantel alone. I hate when wives have misplaced anger. I had a husband who cheated on me and I didn’t blame the other woman. My ex broke his vows to me, she didn’t.

    • @michmor6221
      @michmor6221 21 день назад +5

      ​@grammar4341 My thoughts exactly, agree 1000%

    • @emmacollins4858
      @emmacollins4858 21 день назад +6

      They’re both to blame. He has a wife and she knows he has a wife. Both of their morals are in the gutter.

    • @swimfast724
      @swimfast724 21 день назад +3

      They're both at fault. Not equal he's worse but she has responsibility in this too

    • @alannatodd7183
      @alannatodd7183 21 день назад +4

      I was also cheated on by my first husband. Why a person who is unhappy in their marriage chooses to cheat as a solution is beyond me. Yes I take partial blame, but the fact that he didn't make an effort to let me know how he felt about the marriage and wasn't man enough to say it wasn't working before he cheated was a huge sign the marriage wasn't worth saving. I also have no respect for the other person who chooses to step in when a marriage isn't totally dissolved. Fun fact, his relationship may have lasted a year or so, but I'm going on 20 years with my second husband and he is still alone.

  • @kathconserv
    @kathconserv 21 день назад +7

    This stupid frown on Melvin’s face is annoying.

  • @catapillargirl2021
    @catapillargirl2021 20 дней назад +2

    Life is just way too short for any of this drama!

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 21 день назад +9

    Correct. Why doesn’t she make the decision.

  • @AkitaLover1013
    @AkitaLover1013 21 день назад +14

    This guy wanted an excuse to cheat and he took it! If it wasn't her it would have been someone else! He was looking to cheat!

  • @Patricia-pq4jq
    @Patricia-pq4jq 21 день назад +10

    Melvin needs to go

  • @ScoobyHashSnacks420
    @ScoobyHashSnacks420 21 день назад +5

    If he’ll do it with you, he’ll do it to you.

  • @Nahugodia
    @Nahugodia 21 день назад +6

    The answer is in his behaviour. Move on

  • @pauladouglas9891
    @pauladouglas9891 20 дней назад +4

    I wonder what happened in their marriage that they separated in the first place. Oh, just found he is on drugs too.

  • @fannyfroeschl
    @fannyfroeschl 20 дней назад +4

    Fighting? Get some dignity for heaven's sake!
    Over him? WTF?

  • @browneyes2100
    @browneyes2100 21 день назад +5

    Well he has a type.
    Needy & not self loving.

  • @maryhirsch7170
    @maryhirsch7170 21 день назад +44

    Once a cheater, always a cheater!

  • @shirleyscott8879
    @shirleyscott8879 20 дней назад +1

    If I were either of these women, I would be gone

  • @eilenekellogg-ki2br
    @eilenekellogg-ki2br 21 день назад +6

    Co dependment.

  • @danniifan3115
    @danniifan3115 18 дней назад +3

    From one bald bloke to another cracked me up!

  • @mrssunnyface
    @mrssunnyface 21 день назад +8

    If he cheats he’s a loser. I would of left him in 2 seconds

  • @nellabrown6190
    @nellabrown6190 21 день назад +3

    Melvin has a very odd affect. He's frighting.

  • @Little_Toy_Soldier
    @Little_Toy_Soldier 21 день назад +10

    Didn't she mention in the very beginning that he was playing both of them, and yet here she is solely blaming the girlfriend for his responsibility of being a husband? make it make sense.

  • @nancymorris995
    @nancymorris995 20 дней назад +1

    The whole Pick me!! Pick me!! thing is beyond my comprehension.

  • @taychanel
    @taychanel 20 дней назад +1

    Let him go.

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 14 дней назад

    This man is not stopping anything

  • @ArkansasSquaw
    @ArkansasSquaw 21 день назад +4

    Girl, you deserve better than this....

  • @MyRandomThoughts305
    @MyRandomThoughts305 20 дней назад +2

    Wife needs to be mad at her husband... not the other woman. He made vows not the other woman.

  • @Jkaye13
    @Jkaye13 20 дней назад +1

    'If my wife doesn't want to continue our relationship, l want her to tell me..'. So what you want is to play both women at the same time.. what a louse! They both need to drop you!!

  • @trashpanda3837
    @trashpanda3837 21 день назад +15

    What a self absorbed drama queen. He's too bad of an actor to believe he's the main character.

  • @pdig2963
    @pdig2963 21 день назад +6

    And that's what we're fighting over 🤢

  • @da---536
    @da---536 20 дней назад +3

    who does he go to when he is broke? wife

  • @sandimccracken2781
    @sandimccracken2781 21 день назад +7

    If he has anything to do with that BIG MAMA, he’ll never be faithful to anyone.

  • @user-lk6oc2vj6m
    @user-lk6oc2vj6m 20 дней назад +2

    Remember, if Melvin can have an affair, then anyone can

  • @user-sd1sz1lb2e
    @user-sd1sz1lb2e 21 день назад +5

    Say bye bye.

  • @melaniewantsabeer243
    @melaniewantsabeer243 20 дней назад +1

    Where is the disgust for the husband? Pick me girl is upset he's a Dawg and yet she still made herself a fool

  • @contactam1753
    @contactam1753 20 дней назад +1

    The face of the wife when she heard he say yes! I think she would want let him miserable.. better they seperate they re nit good for each other

  • @rhondawilliams8155
    @rhondawilliams8155 21 день назад +5

    Are these grownups or kids?

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 20 дней назад +1

    Ugh! I betchu he would go nuts if wifey had a boyfriend. I would see too, if I were her.

  • @carmelstainsby57
    @carmelstainsby57 21 день назад +6

    Did i just come across the twilight zone😅😅😅😅😅

  • @alonteprince826
    @alonteprince826 19 дней назад

    SELF LOVE IS THE BEST LOVE GOTTA LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

  • @thecongenital3035
    @thecongenital3035 20 дней назад

    Doormats but wont leave and wont tell him to leave her alone.

  • @gina-mj6wu
    @gina-mj6wu 20 дней назад +1

    Divorce is the key🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭

  • @jackiehendricks4941
    @jackiehendricks4941 20 дней назад +3

    He's such a drama queen, lol.

  • @whitneyrenepaige4321
    @whitneyrenepaige4321 15 дней назад

    Chantal and Melvin deserve each other.

  • @suepost9026
    @suepost9026 21 день назад +6

    I don feel sorry for her at all. She is such a fool. Look at all he's done, yet she kept going back with him. Why would she want him. He has issues, but man, so does she.

  • @loriwood8468
    @loriwood8468 20 дней назад +1

    RUN! It NEVER works out once you find out someone is cheating. I speak from experience.

  • @juliehofer1940
    @juliehofer1940 21 день назад +7

    This is ridiculous

  • @ree305
    @ree305 21 день назад +12

    Wow 😮..when the prize is a "Jack in the box"🙃

  • @sueturner5541
    @sueturner5541 21 день назад +2

    He wants his cake and eat it x

  • @user-po1ln6jr4l
    @user-po1ln6jr4l 21 день назад +5

    I am gay and I found my husband on a Christian dating site.

    • @terriconnelly931
      @terriconnelly931 21 день назад +2

      Sounds right

    • @vandafielden6552
      @vandafielden6552 21 день назад +1

      @user-polln6jr41
      Of course there are genuine Christians, he was NOT one look at all the really IMPORTANT things he omitted to tell his wife, such as his Criminal Past, Drug Use his Diagnosis etc etc.
      Real Christian's would never lie like that.

    • @user-po1ln6jr4l
      @user-po1ln6jr4l 21 день назад

      @@vandafielden6552 I come from a Christian family and you know what what's the most religious ones are the biggest cons. The atheist ones in my family are the normal ones and the Christians the ones that go to church all the time are the thieves . The Apple doesn't fall far from the tree

    • @JS-ps6cb
      @JS-ps6cb 21 день назад

      Says the man who makes a statement that "Religion is the root of all evil"?!?!?! Interesting comment that you make on this video that you found your husband on a Christian dating website but I see you make a comment on another video saying that religion is the root of all evil, okay 🙄

  • @jac3271
    @jac3271 21 день назад +4

    They bandy around the term “love” but it appears neither know what real love is! It’s some kind of perverse obsession. The wife should leave immediately.

  • @LAStars-sratS
    @LAStars-sratS 21 день назад +9

    He just wants tail and the women lack self esteem.

  • @alc4ever24
    @alc4ever24 21 день назад +4

    Awe. I feel very bad for rachel. She can do so much better. She's a nice looking lady and deserves respect. Just a thought; my granny told me NEVER to call a man when youre dating. You always wait for them to contact you. It worked on my now husband. A woman asking a man to marry her is doomed for failure.

  • @kristin5322
    @kristin5322 21 день назад +2

    The wifes face when he took the help, it was like she was mad he was leaving to get help. Very telling.

  • @narcdetester2102
    @narcdetester2102 20 дней назад

    What a creep, are these ladies mad?

  • @torrimills1915
    @torrimills1915 20 дней назад +2

    Ol Melvin ain't worth it honey😂😂

  • @casechow
    @casechow 20 дней назад +2

    ...is this a parody?? You have got to be kidding me.

  • @GoldenBuddah1972
    @GoldenBuddah1972 21 день назад +3

    DO NOT FIGHT OVER THIS LOSER. HE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU. I’m sorry, honey. PLEASE move on! You deserve better! And it’s appalling that he faults you! Run like your hair is on fire!

  • @tessiebernstein1648
    @tessiebernstein1648 21 день назад +11

    Dr.Phil 🤠 the wife deserves what she is treated 🤡 I am married 47yrs and I told my husband if he doesn't love me anymore HE IS CERTAINLY FREE to go where he is happy 🥰

    • @grammar4341
      @grammar4341 21 день назад +3

      My husband and I had both been cheated on in our previous marriages. This is the second marriage for both of us. We promised each other that if we found someone else that we couldn’t do without, we would get a divorce rather than cheat. That was over 27 years ago. We remain faithful to each other.

    • @cancandoit
      @cancandoit 21 день назад

      No. She doesn't deserve this, but she doesn't realize that she deserves better.

  • @yulisacastro9535
    @yulisacastro9535 21 день назад +3

    He's cheating on her with George Lopez

  • @cherylhaugen1897
    @cherylhaugen1897 20 дней назад

    This man is still a child! What he needs is a “mother” figure!

  • @hannahrachelxo2281
    @hannahrachelxo2281 21 день назад +2

    I wonder where they are now

  • @hilberryable
    @hilberryable 20 дней назад +2

    Lady, make your own decision and leave him. Stupid if you don't so don't complain.

  • @kazzakoala
    @kazzakoala 21 день назад +2

    Walk away and hold your head high. You deserve to be the only one. It’s not his decision. It’s your decision. He’s blaming her for him having an affair. If your marriage is rocky and you leave the home for any reason, you go to a relatives house. Go to a friends house. It’s no excuse to be a cheating dog. That’s on you when you do that.

  • @user-qv2hq4df4p
    @user-qv2hq4df4p 20 дней назад +1

    Lady move on

  • @ivylinrolle8020
    @ivylinrolle8020 21 день назад +4

    This evil 😈 is like a ship without a sail ⛵️

  • @meghanwilliams4295
    @meghanwilliams4295 21 день назад +1

    Because NO.

  • @80bbygrl
    @80bbygrl 21 день назад +6

    Come on ladies. Seriously. THIS guy? 🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @gm-wv2yt
    @gm-wv2yt 18 дней назад

    Phil always says he doesn’t judge people - watch this tape and tell me he isn’t judging this guy lol

  • @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or
    @RebeccaEdwards-pt4or 19 дней назад

    Just wow...why question!??

  • @darladexter5443
    @darladexter5443 14 дней назад

    Weak !! All 3 of them 😫

  • @theirishcailin333
    @theirishcailin333 17 дней назад

    Im only 1 minute in and seriously, what is wrong with some women. Have they no self respect because he certainly has none for them!!

  • @keba171
    @keba171 20 дней назад +2

    Woman come on we can do better than this .....😢this is embarrassing

  • @KB-nl9vu
    @KB-nl9vu 17 дней назад

    What a joke this Melvin is!!! 🤣🤣

  • @andreajones886
    @andreajones886 21 день назад +5

    lmao,sounds like the reason that some other people that I know be tying the knot so damn quickly,smmfh!😑😑😑😑😑

  • @user-se1ev7my6f
    @user-se1ev7my6f 20 дней назад +1

    WHY Does Melvin need to make a decision??? Why Don’t YOU!!! You deserve what you get if you don’t find s semblance of a freaking Backbone! Wake Up!