Exactly my son-in-law 👹 does this continually to my daughter & her 5 young children. I'm a elderly military 🎖️ widow having to support them totally 💔 because her husband is a freeloader & refuses to work.
@@777Pattie ~ Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you have to live with that. Your daughter and your 5 grandbabies are blessed to have you. I pray there's a way to give SIL the boot. You're the homeowner - can you evict him? I know it's easier said than done. But maybe you can. It's a million times worse to see your daughter go through that. I have an adult daughter too. God be with you.✝️ Thank you for your service.🇺🇸
God sent us into their lives to be a light in their darkness unfortunately they abused and mistreated the Gift and after a point there is no return. That is when God turns on them.
For that very reason: that they come out of their wickedness. Jesus Christ wants ppl to repent, and narcs are at a unique need for repentance because of their inability to introspect.
God sent us into their lives to break the generational curse they are caught up in; pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth. In my experience these are the traits that unfortunately do get passed on from generation to generation until one day one black sheep (the scapegoat) is sent into their lives to end the cycle🤔
I’ll never forget in my 37 years of nursing a woman who was dying of cancer who was afraid to be alone. I was on night shift at the time and she stayed on her call light every minute tormenting the staff . One night she called me and the side on the duty screaming hysterically staring at the wall shouting “Can’t you see the flames? I’m hot burning up (no fever mind you) when she said hold my hand come walk with me through the flames I realized what was up and said no I’m not going that direction. I also took care of two of her sisters who were sweet as pie and she had cheated them out of their inheritance. I’ve seen many people die and some so peacefully but that case was totally different.
Very late ..I have never heard any news narcissists being accountable for their behaviors..Our societ has been an enabler of the narcissists for so long
@@lilac624 This is because the devil controls this world right now. Look at the worldly life that we are all submersed into. It is all evil. Social media, governments, kingdoms in other parts of the world are corrupt, TV, movies, celebrities, are all evil and narcissistic. Keep your eye on GOD and GOD will keep HIS eye on you. HE will guide your path if it be HIS will. One day our SAVIOR will return to renew this Earth if GOD wills it. Amen.
Witnessed this journey: 30 year marriage with covert Narc Wife and I was ignorant of all the usual symptoms. Just after I’d finally left, Doctors found stage 5 cancer and I became her Hospice care. Little communication, just a sad, lost look. Died in front of me with a look of terror frozen on her face. My grief was that memory, along with “what could have been”. My best gift from God since has been my surrender to him and making myself better. Lotsa scars, lotsa faith. Thank you God. Thank you Christmas.❤
I have no desire for revenge. I only want to keep my blessings. Despite everything I endured in this relationship it has helped my faith grow. As long as I am right with God I know my life is in the best care and keeping 💛
@MelissaLuvsHens yes, definitely it helped build up my faith and it helped me to forgive myself. I only desire to move forward and make my life better with each passing day.
I agree. I just want my child, but I don't want mom back.. it's going to happen too because she has ruined her life and is an alcoholic we know addiction and narcissism go hand in hand. You cannot reason with them even when they are rock bottom
Narcissists do reap what they sow. Mine died this year. After ending up on the streets for a couple of years because of his reckless lifestyle, he was taken in by a kind woman who offered him shelter and became his girlfriend. A few months later, being the ungrateful bastard that he was, he was already trying to hoover me while still being with her. But it didn't last long. Not even a year after, he died. It's ironic that he often wished death upon others and used to say, 'RIP No one will remember you.' The truth is, he's the one that died alone, estranged from his family. And he wasn't even old, he was 40.
That sounds like it’d be a common fate for narcs-they have everything, yet squander it all, and end up alone with nothing, as they deserve. 😂 Narcs will tell you (if they’re honest) that they always feel like the other shoe’s gonna drop, because their actions lead to their discard by anyone who’s not hopelessly codependent.
Something similar to me- my father in law wound up homeless living in his car. Hadn’t kept in touch with family. A woman offered him a room to rent in her house and became his girlfriend. He won the million dollar lottery, bought her a house, made her his beneficiary, and upon his death didn’t leave his four children and six grandchildren one dollar.
What I love is that Jesus is called the Prince of Peace. Last night, the narcissist attacked me. Normally, I would be in an emotional mess right now. Last night, I did something different during the sleepless moments afterwards. During the time when I would normally be ruminating about all that was said and trying to get myself back on my feet, I walked the floor praising Jesus the Prince of Peace. I thanked Him for His peace in my house. It took a little while, but I was able to go to sleep, sleep well, and woke up with a note of victory in my spirit. This holiday, Christmas, commemorates the birth of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. Let us get our revenge by inviting the peace of Christ into our lives and be untouchable to the demonic spirits of chaos, anxiety, and turmoil in the narcissist.
Exactly, I did the same thing. The love of Christ and the help of the Holy Spirit takes me to the whole another level. Love, peace, joy from the inside out... Thanks Hashem for his strengh. We can always count on Him. 🥰🥰🥰
I really needed this today. I woke up crying because it seems I live in constant pain and he’s out there living his best life. Thank you and Merry Christmas
God commands we pray for them that their Souls will wise up and stop the abuse and lies. We don't have to allow more abuse or trust them. God still loves them and they are given time to repent and also turn away from needing to be above others. This life is a school....we all have lessons to learn. I had to learn to Trust God first in all things and not to trust what people say or demand from us. Liars trust other liars. Don't be like them or around them.
I agree ... I know a man who was a philanderer ... had narcissistic tendencies ... destroyed his family to pursue his 'passions' ... died miserable, depressed, and lonely and with a lot of unresolved guilt ... he was my father ... God gave him chance after chance after chance and then said: that's it ... your time is up ... he died in a foreign land far far far away from his loved ones and surrounded by people who probably didn't care about him ... he lived large but died teeny weeny ... a word to the wise: take note and take cover ... God's justice is sometimes sudden and often poetic and when He takes aim, He does not miss ...
The LORD gives them chance after chance to repent so when judgment comes there are ZERO excuses. A entire lifetime wasted being evil. My family sounds similar to yours, Danish. God bless you in Jesus name.
An entire lifetime wasted being evil. Yup, well said. I take consolation that Judgment Day will come as sure as tomorrow and nobody can lie to God. Some of them do prosper and get their way until their last breath. But this life is short compared to Eternity, which they will spend with those just like them.
@maze95……I know, right?! I have been wondering the same. Sure, being alone has been a great ‘teacher’, but seriously…..it would be nice if there were some people who were trustworthy enough to be a truly good friend……just simply be adult and kind……no hidden motives that come out, after they think they’ve gained your trust!
@gracebe235 and no covert narcisists who give you in the beginning the believe they are empaths too and after few weeks they do something or say something were your gut instinctively knows. Another one...
I agree with all the points mentioned, and wanted to add that for those who own ample material wealth till their death, and even have people surrounding them who love them, not one single narcissist will EVER be able to experience FEELING wealthy or loved, and THAT is their punishment in life. Too much is never enough for them because they’re dead inside, so it doesn’t matter how much you give them-they’ll always be EMPTY. Never envy a narcissist because they don’t feel rich or lucky, even if they are. And for those who might be struggling with various things or have very modest material means, if you possess love within you, and have talents, interests, passions, etc., and are able to appreciate EVERYTHING you have, YOU are the wealthy one-YOU are the lucky one, and that’s why they’re jealous of you. People who actually FEEL fortunate for their blessings firstly see them as such, and don’t go around life having contempt for others. They’re high-vibrational, have an attitude of gratitude, and likely want to share & spread their wealth to others who have less-that is the natural order for those who aren’t disregulated.
It is hard to appreciate what you have when your narcissist parent has taken a lot of stuff from you . I mean physically and emotionally. I probably am still healing, but when your other parent enables the nar, you kind of feel like you are barely surviving.
I think that many people forget that death is the great equalizer. Rich or poor, good or bad, we all must face our own mortality and judgment. If God says "vengence is mine", we can trust that he will take his rightious vengence when it is due. And so we don't have to concern ourselves with the fates of the unjust. And I don't mean that they will or won't suffer with any certiantly. But that their fates are beyond our understanding, and as such, there is no need for us to spend any time or energy focusing on such people. We can accept the gift of peace instead. All things in this world, good or bad, come to an end. We are living and experiencing the finite right now. And I think that it can be very comforting to know that this isn't forever.
Yes I believe what you say. The narc in my life has delusional spiritual belief system, he declines any need for guilt, declines the notion of right and wrong…….clearly it is to self delude as he commits wrong and leads others to sin with encouragement and a humble devil smile.
I listen to you very attentively because every word you say is true. You have helped me understand narcissism better. I thought I was the only one enduring this turmoil but realized there are so many people out there dealing with narcissistic people. Thank you for all the incredible content. God bless🙏
I don’t want anyone to struggle but I know God is judge. God knows all, and if you need to be humbled it will happen one way or another. I don’t want to be around when the Narc falls on his face. In God I trust. Amen
Yes, God is the Sovereign Judge over all the earth. I have Learned not to seek my own vengeance. His way is far superior to mine. And God wants all the glory ; otherwise we would try to take the credit. “ Justice is mine; I will repay, saith the LORD.”
I am so grateful for your videos Danish. You are such a blessing. I've had the worst Christmas Day ever with the narcissist in my life. He sabotaged the whole day for no reason and projected all his bad behaviour onto me. It's been sheer hell. I'm so done with him, I'm determined to find my own place next year. 😢
@adventuresofkatekat Thank you so much for your lovely message. It's been a day from hell, but I'll focus on looking for a new home. I hope you've had a lovely Christmas day. 🎄🎁🎅
I feel you, I had the exact thing happen to me except I have my own place and dropped my father immediately after he started his abuse, it back fired on him instantly and I am glad he is out of my life forever, an evil man
Dr. Bashir, you have really been a blessing to me. You legitimize what I went through with my ex-husband. Everything you described and talked about in this video is absolutely true.
Ah, narcs weren't neglected, abandoned and abused. Those who actually were, they have empathy and not money grubbing monsters with a God complex. The narcs I know got whatever they wanted since a kid, and never told "no". Danish, you were neglected, abandoned and abused. You turned out with a heart of gold. Narcs were never told no as a kid, and given whatever they wanted.
I would say materially yes, they got everything, but on emotional level I would say it was different. Because they were never punished and were never given healthy boundaries, they became emotionally desolate because real life never works that way. For example, my former partner told me that his parents never punished him but when he repeatedly behaved badly, they took him and placed him in front of the foster home and said they would leave him there... this is not healthy punishment but rather something that can trigger the great amount of inner anxiety. Maybe Danish ment this kind of neglect.
I agree with you.....his Mother and Father never held him responsible for anything......and he still accepts no responsibility for any of his actions.....after so much pain and suffering !! So sad for his innocent great family !!
I remember a lady before her death to covid would say i see a lot of insects crawling over my body. And she would starting acting like she is cleaning her hands. This is a person that leaved a lavish life with given so much respect , but treated some of her siblings (the poor ones) horrible. Happy holidays
My first Cristmas alone without my drunk narcessistic famely. It hurts so much but I stay in peace now .i was always afraid to go ,they use violence too when they are drunk.
If your experience is anything like mine, the pain you feel is likely based on YOUR IDEA of what your family SHOULD have been, and all the time and relationships squandered by those terrible family members of yours. Trust me, it is much better to BE alone than to WISH you were. Your biggest challenge now will be to learn how to not be attracted to others who are similar to your family because we all gravitate towards what's familiar. We must learn to be attracted to better people. Onward and upward, my friend!
It takes time but gets easier every time , trust me the first one is rough, the second one less so. I’m on three and muuuuuch happier than stuck in some dystopian nightmare, putting up fronts and waiting for drama. I’m freeeeeee!!!!
My first year with no contact from narcissistic family and feel your loneliness. Stay strong. We will meet good hearted friendly people but must follow our intuition or red flags of those who can take advantage. May your path forward be well lit with kind souls in 2025. ❤
My father in law is the symbol of narcissist. He looks down on poor people, horribly treats his wife giving her silent treatment. Wants to control everything including my son's names. Threw such a fucking tantrum when we didnt consult him for baming ceremony. He verbally abused my husband in front of me on the day of his wife's death for fuck's sake. Another thing about narcissist is they dont understand shades of grey. Things are either the best or the worst . His collapse happened when his wife passed on and ironically he had to deal with the silent treatment. Narcissist will treat people like crap but dare u disrespect them, they will eat u alive.
What he said here is all true. God is Justice. No unrepented sin will remain unpunished, no matter how big or small is it. Ive seen it all. So anyone suffering right now. Rest and be at peace. Focus on your healing, leave everything in God’s hands. You’ll see someday all is well. Healing will be hard but endure with God and itll be easier. Heal well. Be happy in life with God on your side. Merry Christmas 💐
So true Danish. God is a God of Justice and Judgement. Thank God he has set me free from 34 years suffering. Compliment of the season. Jesus is indeed faithful. We must cleave to Him. God bless
Thank you Danish Bashir. True, toxic narcissistic people will never experience peace in their life and during death because they never choose to offer that peace to anyone else, when they were alive. 🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
We may want to get justice for a narcissist, but God knows better what kind of decision to take, sometimes Him not giving a visible justice is the hardest condemnation possible because the narc wont have a chance to see their wrongdoing and repent while they r still alive.
Wow! Talk about karma. It’s so true- my narc ex husband of many decades is now with a young narcissist woman who is worse than he is! Draining him for diamonds, clothes, trips. And he’ll stay with her, because he lost his entire family in the process.
GOD is Great! "Do unto others, as you'd have done unto you." All evil narcissists will get back everything that they did to others if it be GOD'S will. Amen.
Yeah, I have been telling myself that they were the catalyst conveying the message that I need to take care of myself. But i keep going back to the thought that CHANGE and REALIZATION should come from within. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT CHANGE. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT REALIZE.
Yes i have been told that my mother in law did this to my husband. He was only 16 i think at the time. Shes an absolute monster. She told all her children she only had them to look after her in old age.
I tried to escape from them my whole life and even moved to a new town but now they have followed me 😢 so very frustrating and depressing. I'm a born again Christian and I do believe God will punish them in His due time.
I am also a Christian. I was abused by my father in law and sister in law. My father in law has died and his daughter is doing it now. Last night she laid into me again. This time, instead of trying to figure everything out I just walked the floor praising the Prince of Peace. I called the peace of Christ into my home and worshiped God who promised to never leave me or forsake me. I was able to sleep and the peace of Christ has guarded my heart today. I can even pray for my sister in law because my struggle is not against her. It is against the evil spirits of lying, chaos, and abuse that she is listening to. Jesus is my Shepherd, my Rock, my Strong Tower, my Deliverer, my Peace, my Salvation, my Healer, and my Friend who sticks closer than a brother.
@naowright9308 Yes, Jesus will help us get away for good. I hope and pray you are planning to have a safe place to hide from her and it would be best to report her behavior to the police and file a restraining order. Sometimes that is what it has to come to. There is criminals out there that have demonic spirits in them no doubt. They need help and some need jail time so they stop hurting others. God Bless You!
@loveoftruth9531 Thank you. She has not done anything that she could be arrested for. Besides, my husband would be furious if I filed a restraining order. She is his second mother because she usurped her mother's position in the family. It is the standard sticky situation where it's all for one and one for all. But that does not negate Jesus.
Thank You Jesus for Justice + Vindication. 🔥🔥🔥 They ran away from me and taking Accountability. But, they can’t run from God 😊😁😁✨🔥🔥🔥 Merry Christmas, y’all.
The student becomes the master. Although I can see in your case you are the master of your universe. Of course the Almighty is the master of us or not our earthly father . I am grateful, regardless of any trespasses that have been put upon me or I have subjected myself to knowingly .. I can now say I understand I am not a saviour.. Just a conduit ..😊 Thank you for your teachings as well as your perseverance .. I heard some people say they haven't any need for inspiration.. I don't believe them, I feel we all need inspiration/love ..🌟🌎🌟🌍🌟🌏🌟
Over the years, I gradually saw the karma come back and bite my narcissistic mother in the butt. God showed me that He saw EVERYTHING SINGLE THING she did to me - and He designed the exit strategy to finally get away from the mom-ster and go NO CONTACT. I shifted to higher frequencies and now it's my time to fulfill His purpose and experience the blessings.
I was just thinking about it this morning that when God will give justice to me because of these narcissists in my life. Here is the answer from the Lord through your video. I take this as God's assurance for me.
Thanks for this powerful and insightful video. I am thankful that you were able to escape from your father's abuse and recover. I think God had a plan and purpose for your pain. I believe that you are living proof of how good and light overcomes darkness and evil. I believe that the narcissists eternity will be darkness and separation from God and Love. Unfortunately, I believe their eternity will be one of immense pain. Thank you Danish for helping us all to heal bit by bit. ❤🩹 May God bless you abundantly.🙏📿
Sometimes the person they left you for is their downfall. Noting seems to move or work out in their favor. Cause the empath or God chosen came with Favours, Light , .Grace. Mercy. We came with a table full of goodies but greed for flesh , money, validation, superior, ect have them has nothing but struggles, hardships and curses for what they did.
My sister recently passed away from cancer,when I went to visit her, she was talking to my mom who passed away in 1985 and she was talking to my brother and sister who passed away and she looked happy to see them
This is powerful, Danish. It really is. These things are something we can expect to see. Especially when we leave and go no contact. They don't have us to take it out on. They disintegrate. Hopefully, in a short time. My hope, wish, and prayer for every one of us is to: •successfully go no contact; •heal in body, mind, & spirit; and •have the life God intended for us to have without that narc. Wishing everyone a healthy, safe, happy 2025!🌟☺️
narcissists will be punished by having around only others narcissist. they will be getting the same treatment they are currently giving others. We will be free because we don' t believe anyone have right to treat people like they do. They believe they have this right so they are admitting others this kind of power over themselves.
I thought no one can understand my feelings until i found your channel.. I doubt if i went crazy on my thoughts but got a clearity from ur channel.u save my mental health
Ya,Danish ,my narssistic husband met with horrible accidents.but he is not ready to accept that he suffered because of his cold treatment he was giving us.
True.....but I regret it took tooo much time for me and his children to recognize what was actually happening to all of us at the hands of a very sick person who portrayed himself as a winner of everything but is actually in the end the big loser !!!
Best comments ever👍I can relate to all 5 points. My narcissist mother now has my 3 narcissist sibling giving her the same treatment as she has been giving me (60). They exploited her financially to the bones and are (all 3) now facing their elderly age (58-62) in financial (and mental) poverty. What did I do different? I worked for my living🤔
I experienced the same. My mother triangulated a relative against me, so that she could gain money that I found out I was supposed to inherit. It worked out okay, because now that relative.... is in charge of taking care of her, and all those funds are going to her memory care. And as for myself, after 5 decades of financial abuse, she basically triangulated me out of any further financial responsibiity for her anymore. It backfired on her. Badly. She's been hoovering me for the past year, but I can't help her anymore. She drained me so badly. I am saving all my resources to take care of my kids.... ya know.... like SHE didn't do. LOL! Find good people. Love them. Work hard, and do good things. And the narcs will take care of themselves. (or not!)
Mine got his from the Lord. Had massive stroke. Laid on kitchen floor for 4 hours. In a nursing home. Karma is a bitch, and God works in mysterious wYs.
Are you sure they really don’t feel guilty after all? Narcissists are masters at wearing a mask and they can until their last breath. It must be suffocating to live a life of such lies. Life is brutal and honest.
I'm 6 months out of a very abusive covert narcissistic marriage, first Christmas alone, and my ex step son came across the state to spend it with me, because he is seeing that I wasn't the problem, and he has been manipulated to believe I was the worst person on the planet. My ex wife is sleeping in the bed she made, and I hate the fact that, it makes me happy she is being abandoned by almost everyone she's tried to turn on me.
Absolutely, I was their wife, the mother, the caregiver when he FAKED having cancer, I am the home owner. OMG, and when I had a real heart attack from his stress, he never once even came to the ER at the hospital,. You are soooo Correct. Thank you, BLESSINGS 🙌 🙏
My distant relatives got what my family went through after 30 years. Almost mirror image. Difference is we still show them empathy now but they were missing and hiding from our lives.
Yes I see a lot of these weird responses and paranoia in my coworker. I am asking God to release me from this stressful life. Thanks for your guidance.❤
Thank you for this message on Christmas Day, Danish! So very healing! The narc's actions that destroy others while protecting themselves in every way is galling and disgusting! To survive, I left the country to find my life 4 years ago and just recently found a small group of friends I can trust. And God shows us the path if we are listening and aware. Courage is automatic as you move away from the madness of those who care nothing for you! And alas, I am at peace with my life. I had ur videos and ur brilliant words to help sustain me, Danish! U truly are a reflection of the lessons of Jesus as he lived on earth. He made the ultimate sacrifice of crucifixion and death, so we could live to understand our purpose and live in peace. In the name of Jesus Christ, the Anointed One, i thank you from the bottom of my heart.for ur magnanimity, genius and compassion for those of us who have suffered by the hand of the demon.. The blessings and the power of Jesus are within you to help us, Danish. Let us celebrate Christmas and give thanks all of our days. ❤
Have a happy New Year everyone! ❤ I get the paranoia thing. If I said NO to my sister, she'd assume that I was just trying to hurt her. Then I'd get a strong of txts and phone calls from family and friends, all of them berating me and telling me how wrong I was, I should stop being selfish, my sister is so upset, etcetera etcetera, not once letting me tell my side or even answer the many questions they'd shout at me. Weeks, sometimes months later, the topic would come up after my sister 'forgot' she'd convinced the entire family I'd let her down and the truth slipped out. Did they ever apologise to me? No. Did she ever apologise to me? Or course not. Instead I'd be berated and told some variation of 'Oh you know what she's like, just let it go, stop going on about it, you're always moaning about something..' Rinse and repeat. Then when I finally went no contact, she couldn't understand why - but still thought sending family members (that she'd systematically distanced me from) to check up on me was a good idea. They weren't there to check up on me or even hear me out, they were just waiting for certain verbal cues to jump on so they could berate me some more. The one question families like mine hate is; "If you know what they're like, why do you keep believing their bull $hit?" They can't handle such logic! They also dislike being given a firm: "How is it my fault that this person is too embarrassed to tell the truth? It's not my responsibility to act as their moral compass every time they're told NO."
Merry Narc free Christmas ❤ spent the day worshiping Jesus, playing with my newborn baby, eating homemade pot pie and helping my 2 year old son assemble hot wheels tracks. God is good.
My father hated me with a passion no matter what i did the way he acted towards me the verbal abuse, stealing my things he did so much foul things. All narcisisst have a among many demonic entities and they have a spirit of fear that is connected to paranoia they are very tragic and sad.
Mine died a horrible cancer death. He went from being an ordained minister to a family sexual predator, porn addict and alcoholic - looking to self-,treat his miserable soul.
I hate myself for being maternal. As selfish as this sounds, everything is a transaction. Everyone of us need to believe this. I didn't want any transaction with that bad person. So, I chose the better alternative, which was being maternal, as I didn't want my marriage to end.
Yes ❤! When the time comes those wicked people have to answer to our Lord God and Savior Yeshua, for their WICKED behavior. SO FEAR ONLY GOD. Have faith in God. He will take care of it. AMEN 🙏
Danish, May God bless you more and more! And please continue to bless those who need the wisdom, education, and support that comes through your work. My family is sociopathic, and those who might be less on the scale, well, they do not practice honest self help or introspection. The practice of devious manipulation and pathological lying is rampant. No, I won't judge their hearts. But, thankful for the help of God, I do not participate anymore in reacting to the insane fakery.
I witnessed my covert husband's end of life as I gave him hospice st home. The last 3 years of his life he was very unhappy and depressed. He said to me as he aged, "I used to be good looking.". Accepting the aging of his body was horrible for him. He had clearly retreated from me as I aged, but when he realized he too was aging he became jealous or incredulous that looked more youthful than he did. He was called the " iron man" by his golf partners, then he suffered a back operation that didn't go well and left him in horrible pain, he fell and had another back operation which increased his pain, he needed a walking chair he had to depend on me eventually for basic hygiene and I became "a bitch" in his mind. He raged terribly and the bully revealed itself. Finally 10 brain tumors were discovered and as he lost his speech and cognition he became isolated and died one month after diagnosis. I saw pure evil in his uncomfortable in peaceful death. He refused any spiritual relief.
I believe for those who try to hide that anything is wrong are being mentally tormented. Thats why a lot of them develop addictions bc they are trying to escape whats going on in their heads
My brothers wife is Narcissist. She said her kids were investment! My father thought he was going to turn all my family against me and leave me with nothing .. so.. then I would have only him .. he has been trying for 6 years to get me to go back around him and get me under his control .. but I will not!
I watched a video of Sanjeev Malik and he said the same thing that evil people see god of death (image changes as per their belief but they see a horrendous being) while people whose awareness is high they are asked by angels and others while their life reviews are being shown to them what they could have done different and sent to the next life to improve it.These evil people face the worst imaginable punishments by god of death(we call Yamraj in INDIA) and when their souls are purified by dangerous punishments like getting boiled in oil etc ,they get life of lower species as they were not worthy of living as a human being again.
It needs a very bold and strong personality, to be able to get rid of a narcissistic person. You were in a close relationship with him, can well understand how bad it must have been for you.
“There is no peace for the wicked.”
“There is no future for the wicked.”
GOOD NEWWSSS..
NO ONE MOURNS THE WICKED!!!🎉😂
@vajee5 the only thing left for him to do is grow a tail because he already got the horns
I've noticed the narcissists want their victims to struggle & have absolutely nothing without them.
Yes, they do and they go out of their way to take anything left from you.
@@sickofcrap8992 @yabuzagardens366 My parents exactly.
Exactly my son-in-law 👹 does this continually to my daughter & her 5 young children. I'm a elderly military 🎖️ widow having to support them totally 💔 because her husband is a freeloader & refuses to work.
I feel for you. May God bless you. My Heavenly God is blessing me. So you can have the same.
@@777Pattie ~ Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry you have to live with that.
Your daughter and your 5 grandbabies are blessed to have you.
I pray there's a way to give SIL the boot. You're the homeowner - can you evict him? I know it's easier said than done. But maybe you can.
It's a million times worse to see your daughter go through that. I have an adult daughter too.
God be with you.✝️
Thank you for your service.🇺🇸
Their life is their punishment. Why we were trying to be their saviours is the question
Attraction. People pleasers, idolatry of man. Narcissism, idolatry of self. Both torment each other until they put God in His rightful place.
God sent us into their lives to be a light in their darkness unfortunately they abused and mistreated the Gift and after a point there is no return. That is when God turns on them.
@ actually ex did tell me that he was surprised and taken by how happy and peaceful i was
For that very reason: that they come out of their wickedness.
Jesus Christ wants ppl to repent, and narcs are at a unique need for repentance because of their inability to introspect.
God sent us into their lives to break the generational curse they are caught up in; pride, greed, wrath, envy, lust, gluttony, and sloth. In my experience these are the traits that unfortunately do get passed on from generation to generation until one day one black sheep (the scapegoat) is sent into their lives to end the cycle🤔
I’ll never forget in my 37 years of nursing a woman who was dying of cancer who was afraid to be alone. I was on night shift at the time and she stayed on her call light every minute tormenting the staff . One night she called me and the side on the duty screaming hysterically staring at the wall shouting “Can’t you see the flames? I’m hot burning up (no fever mind you) when she said hold my hand come walk with me through the flames I realized what was up and said no I’m not going that direction. I also took care of two of her sisters who were sweet as pie and she had cheated them out of their inheritance. I’ve seen many people die and some so peacefully but that case was totally different.
What a story! 😮😬 Glad you didn't touch her that time. Demons latch onto ppls spirit.
"Vengeance is mine" thus says the Lord God
In Gods time....justice will be done.
Very late ..I have never heard any news narcissists being accountable for their behaviors..Our societ has been an enabler of the narcissists for so long
@@lilac624 This is because the devil controls this world right now. Look at the worldly life that we are all submersed into. It is all evil. Social media, governments, kingdoms in other parts of the world are corrupt, TV, movies, celebrities, are all evil and narcissistic. Keep your eye on GOD and GOD will keep HIS eye on you. HE will guide your path if it be HIS will. One day our SAVIOR will return to renew this Earth if GOD wills it. Amen.
Witnessed this journey: 30 year marriage with covert Narc Wife and I was ignorant of all the usual symptoms. Just after I’d finally left, Doctors found stage 5 cancer and I became her Hospice care. Little communication, just a sad, lost look. Died in front of me with a look of terror frozen on her face. My grief was that memory, along with “what could have been”. My best gift from God since has been my surrender to him and making myself better. Lotsa scars, lotsa faith. Thank you God. Thank you Christmas.❤
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God bless your healing and thriving
God Bless you Roger. I pray you will find love and healing. Best heartfelt wishes on your journey.
Wtf dude...
Through all your suffering God led you to Him. May He continue to bless you and keep you safe.
I have no desire for revenge. I only want to keep my blessings. Despite everything I endured in this relationship it has helped my faith grow. As long as I am right with God I know my life is in the best care and keeping 💛
Amen! You got it! Bravo! 🌟
I *think* that's the test of our salvation. Did this bad experience make us closer to GOD?
@MelissaLuvsHens yes, definitely it helped build up my faith and it helped me to forgive myself. I only desire to move forward and make my life better with each passing day.
I agree. I just want my child, but I don't want mom back.. it's going to happen too because she has ruined her life and is an alcoholic we know addiction and narcissism go hand in hand. You cannot reason with them even when they are rock bottom
@jakstorm3180 sorry hope all goes well for you
Narcissists do reap what they sow. Mine died this year. After ending up on the streets for a couple of years because of his reckless lifestyle, he was taken in by a kind woman who offered him shelter and became his girlfriend. A few months later, being the ungrateful bastard that he was, he was already trying to hoover me while still being with her. But it didn't last long. Not even a year after, he died. It's ironic that he often wished death upon others and used to say, 'RIP No one will remember you.' The truth is, he's the one that died alone, estranged from his family. And he wasn't even old, he was 40.
That sounds like it’d be a common fate for narcs-they have everything, yet squander it all, and end up alone with nothing, as they deserve. 😂
Narcs will tell you (if they’re honest) that they always feel like the other shoe’s gonna drop, because their actions lead to their discard by anyone who’s not hopelessly codependent.
Sad❤
Something similar to me- my father in law wound up homeless living in his car. Hadn’t kept in touch with family. A woman offered him a room to rent in her house and became his girlfriend. He won the million dollar lottery, bought her a house, made her his beneficiary, and upon his death didn’t leave his four children and six grandchildren one dollar.
@@vajee5his death was his karma for turning his back in his family to take care of someone else
@@specialk8927 And one of my ex husband’s lovers died of cancer. Only in her thirties.
What I love is that Jesus is called the Prince of Peace. Last night, the narcissist attacked me. Normally, I would be in an emotional mess right now. Last night, I did something different during the sleepless moments afterwards. During the time when I would normally be ruminating about all that was said and trying to get myself back on my feet, I walked the floor praising Jesus the Prince of Peace. I thanked Him for His peace in my house. It took a little while, but I was able to go to sleep, sleep well, and woke up with a note of victory in my spirit. This holiday, Christmas, commemorates the birth of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. Let us get our revenge by inviting the peace of Christ into our lives and be untouchable to the demonic spirits of chaos, anxiety, and turmoil in the narcissist.
This is soooo good!!! I van relate to this experience so much. Thank you Lord
Beautiful comment tear in my eye
Amén,Amén,Amen
Exactly, I did the same thing. The love of Christ and the help of the Holy Spirit takes me to the whole another level. Love, peace, joy from the inside out... Thanks Hashem for his strengh. We can always count on Him. 🥰🥰🥰
Fantastic 👏
I really needed this today. I woke up crying because it seems I live in constant pain and he’s out there living his best life. Thank you and Merry Christmas
Blessings to you today
And in 2025. You will heal! ❤️🩹
He's not living a good life, they are never satisfied.
I am not sure if your pain is emotional or physical, but I wish you peace and love today, tomorrow, and for the rest of your days. ❤
Im in the samw dituation today😢
@Totbatot6774 🤗🫂 Sending virtual hugs to you
I'm so sorry you lost your childhood, but wow, you have emerged into a pheonix. ❤❤
And leading the world.
God commands we pray for them that their Souls will wise up and stop the abuse and lies. We don't have to allow more abuse or trust them. God still loves them and they are given time to repent and also turn away from needing to be above others. This life is a school....we all have lessons to learn. I had to learn to Trust God first in all things and not to trust what people say or demand from us. Liars trust other liars. Don't be like them or around them.
Exactly
They NEVER repent!
I don’t pray for them anymore
@Yvonne_isastrongone🎯👏🏾
Profoundness 🙏🏽✨💯
They are servants of their father the devil, and the Bible says not to pray for the wicked.
I agree ... I know a man who was a philanderer ... had narcissistic tendencies ... destroyed his family to pursue his 'passions' ... died miserable, depressed, and lonely and with a lot of unresolved guilt ... he was my father ... God gave him chance after chance after chance and then said: that's it ... your time is up ... he died in a foreign land far far far away from his loved ones and surrounded by people who probably didn't care about him ... he lived large but died teeny weeny ... a word to the wise: take note and take cover ... God's justice is sometimes sudden and often poetic and when He takes aim, He does not miss ...
This would be my ex husband to a T
So true, just loved your last two lines. 👏👏
Hallelujah ❤❤🙏
The LORD gives them chance after chance to repent so when judgment comes there are ZERO excuses. A entire lifetime wasted being evil. My family sounds similar to yours, Danish. God bless you in Jesus name.
An entire lifetime wasted being evil. Yup, well said. I take consolation that Judgment Day will come as sure as tomorrow and nobody can lie to God. Some of them do prosper and get their way until their last breath. But this life is short compared to Eternity, which they will spend with those just like them.
Absolutely!
How to attract other empaths? Please make a video about this. I am sick of attracting narcicists. I am rather alone
@maze95……I know, right?! I have been wondering the same. Sure, being alone has been a great ‘teacher’, but seriously…..it would be nice if there were some people who were trustworthy enough to be a truly good friend……just simply be adult and kind……no hidden motives that come out, after they think they’ve gained your trust!
@gracebe235 and no covert narcisists who give you in the beginning the believe they are empaths too and after few weeks they do something or say something were your gut instinctively knows. Another one...
Exactly
Same am been In deep pain I asked myself why me ..been in relationship wih like five am tired.
Huge hugs 😊
I agree with all the points mentioned, and wanted to add that for those who own ample material wealth till their death, and even have people surrounding them who love them, not one single narcissist will EVER be able to experience FEELING wealthy or loved, and THAT is their punishment in life.
Too much is never enough for them because they’re dead inside, so it doesn’t matter how much you give them-they’ll always be EMPTY. Never envy a narcissist because they don’t feel rich or lucky, even if they are. And for those who might be struggling with various things or have very modest material means, if you possess love within you, and have talents, interests, passions, etc., and are able to appreciate EVERYTHING you have, YOU are the wealthy one-YOU are the lucky one, and that’s why they’re jealous of you.
People who actually FEEL fortunate for their blessings firstly see them as such, and don’t go around life having contempt for others. They’re high-vibrational, have an attitude of gratitude, and likely want to share & spread their wealth to others who have less-that is the natural order for those who aren’t disregulated.
Very well said.
It is hard to appreciate what you have when your narcissist parent has taken a lot of stuff from you . I mean physically and emotionally. I probably am still healing, but when your other parent enables the nar, you kind of feel like you are barely surviving.
I think that many people forget that death is the great equalizer. Rich or poor, good or bad, we all must face our own mortality and judgment. If God says "vengence is mine", we can trust that he will take his rightious vengence when it is due. And so we don't have to concern ourselves with the fates of the unjust. And I don't mean that they will or won't suffer with any certiantly. But that their fates are beyond our understanding, and as such, there is no need for us to spend any time or energy focusing on such people. We can accept the gift of peace instead.
All things in this world, good or bad, come to an end. We are living and experiencing the finite right now. And I think that it can be very comforting to know that this isn't forever.
Yes I believe what you say. The narc in my life has delusional spiritual belief system, he declines any need for guilt, declines the notion of right and wrong…….clearly it is to self delude as he commits wrong and leads others to sin with encouragement and a humble devil smile.
I listen to you very attentively because every word you say is true. You have helped me understand narcissism better. I thought I was the only one enduring this turmoil but realized there are so many people out there dealing with narcissistic people. Thank you for all the incredible content. God bless🙏
My father wad in a coma and my hateful brother was gloating to think that I could not say goodby.He woke from the coma and addressed me lovingly.
That sounds like a beautiful moment for you 💕.
❤
gloating. First i had. My narc sis always gloated that i fail my school exams.
Wow. I know exactly what you mean.
I haven't talked to my parents in years. My father had triple bypass surgery at 89...still no contact and no guilt.
I don’t want anyone to struggle but I know God is judge.
God knows all, and if you need to be humbled it will happen one way or another.
I don’t want to be around when the Narc falls on his face.
In God I trust.
Amen
Yes, God is the Sovereign Judge over all the earth. I have
Learned not to seek my own vengeance. His way is far superior to mine. And God wants all the glory ; otherwise we would try to take the credit.
“ Justice is mine; I will repay, saith the LORD.”
Yes I have seen God get vengence on many people that abused me.
Thank you sir Danish, In God s time justice will be served to this people.
I am so grateful for your videos Danish. You are such a blessing. I've had the worst Christmas Day ever with the narcissist in my life. He sabotaged the whole day for no reason and projected all his bad behaviour onto me. It's been sheer hell. I'm so done with him, I'm determined to find my own place next year. 😢
I’m so sorry to hear this, I wish you well and hopefully next year you will have the peaceful and fantastic Christmas you deserve 🎄✨
@adventuresofkatekat Thank you so much for your lovely message. It's been a day from hell, but I'll focus on looking for a new home. I hope you've had a lovely Christmas day. 🎄🎁🎅
I am so sorry. I will pray too that you are able to get your own place by this day next year. On the unsure days: Stay strong you can do it. 🎁🎁🎁
I feel you, I had the exact thing happen to me except I have my own place and dropped my father immediately after he started his abuse, it back fired on him instantly and I am glad he is out of my life forever, an evil man
Yep, for your sanity you must go 💯 percent no contact. All the best for the new year WITHOUT the narcissist being any part of it!
Dr. Bashir, you have really been a blessing to me. You legitimize what I went through with my ex-husband. Everything you described and talked about in this video is absolutely true.
Ah, narcs weren't neglected, abandoned and abused. Those who actually were, they have empathy and not money grubbing monsters with a God complex. The narcs I know got whatever they wanted since a kid, and never told "no". Danish, you were neglected, abandoned and abused. You turned out with a heart of gold. Narcs were never told no as a kid, and given whatever they wanted.
I would say materially yes, they got everything, but on emotional level I would say it was different. Because they were never punished and were never given healthy boundaries, they became emotionally desolate because real life never works that way. For example, my former partner told me that his parents never punished him but when he repeatedly behaved badly, they took him and placed him in front of the foster home and said they would leave him there... this is not healthy punishment but rather something that can trigger the great amount of inner anxiety. Maybe Danish ment this kind of neglect.
You're making a lot of sense
This is true
I agree with you.....his Mother and Father never held him responsible for anything......and he still accepts no responsibility for any of his actions.....after so much pain and suffering !! So sad for his innocent great family !!
Bingo!
That's the thing. They ALWAYS think karma won't catch up with them. Esp as they start to get older...the grip loosens.
They don’t believe in it at all exactly
I remember a lady before her death to covid would say i see a lot of insects crawling over my body. And she would starting acting like she is cleaning her hands. This is a person that leaved a lavish life with given so much respect , but treated some of her siblings (the poor ones) horrible. Happy holidays
My first Cristmas alone without my drunk narcessistic famely. It hurts so much but I stay in peace now .i was always afraid to go ,they use violence too when they are drunk.
Soldier on brave warrior
God WILL heal you
BLESSINGS IN 2025
If your experience is anything like mine, the pain you feel is likely based on YOUR IDEA of what your family SHOULD have been, and all the time and relationships squandered by those terrible family members of yours. Trust me, it is much better to BE alone than to WISH you were. Your biggest challenge now will be to learn how to not be attracted to others who are similar to your family because we all gravitate towards what's familiar. We must learn to be attracted to better people. Onward and upward, my friend!
It takes time but gets easier every time , trust me the first one is rough, the second one less so. I’m on three and muuuuuch happier than stuck in some dystopian nightmare, putting up fronts and waiting for drama. I’m freeeeeee!!!!
My first year with no contact from narcissistic family and feel your loneliness. Stay strong. We will meet good hearted friendly people but must follow our intuition or red flags of those who can take advantage.
May your path forward be well lit with kind souls in 2025. ❤
Thank you and happy newjear.
My father in law is the symbol of narcissist. He looks down on poor people, horribly treats his wife giving her silent treatment. Wants to control everything including my son's names. Threw such a fucking tantrum when we didnt consult him for baming ceremony. He verbally abused my husband in front of me on the day of his wife's death for fuck's sake. Another thing about narcissist is they dont understand shades of grey. Things are either the best or the worst . His collapse happened when his wife passed on and ironically he had to deal with the silent treatment. Narcissist will treat people like crap but dare u disrespect them, they will eat u alive.
What he said here is all true. God is Justice. No unrepented sin will remain unpunished, no matter how big or small is it. Ive seen it all. So anyone suffering right now. Rest and be at peace. Focus on your healing, leave everything in God’s hands. You’ll see someday all is well. Healing will be hard but endure with God and itll be easier. Heal well. Be happy in life with God on your side.
Merry Christmas 💐
Please 😢pray for me. Mental illness.
Am 59 but my parents raped me.
So true Danish. God is a God of Justice and Judgement. Thank God he has set me free from 34 years suffering.
Compliment of the season. Jesus is indeed faithful. We must cleave to Him. God bless
Thank you Danish Bashir. True, toxic narcissistic people will never experience peace in their life and during death because they never choose to offer that peace to anyone else, when they were alive. 🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
Thank you Danish for your love and light 🙏💚 I left yesterday… Vengeance is God’s… healing is mine …
So well said. God Bless you on your healing journey.❤
@ thank you 🙏
Have a pleasant Christmas day away from any narcs 🎄🎁🎅🏻🥛
13th Christmas 🎄 without family squabbles & nasty underhanded narc jabs.
Go no contact - get peace 🕊️ in return! ❤
Amen in Jesus Christ's name.
🙏🏻 😇 💞 🌟
Oh nice..It's better to be on one's own than getting surrounded with people causing us anxiety..
In God's time and in His Way. I experienced this.🙌
We may want to get justice for a narcissist, but God knows better what kind of decision to take, sometimes Him not giving a visible justice is the hardest condemnation possible because the narc wont have a chance to see their wrongdoing and repent while they r still alive.
Truth but he never repented in his life
Wow! Talk about karma. It’s so true- my narc ex husband of many decades is now with a young narcissist woman who is worse than he is! Draining him for diamonds, clothes, trips. And he’ll stay with her, because he lost his entire family in the process.
GOD is Great! "Do unto others, as you'd have done unto you." All evil narcissists will get back everything that they did to others if it be GOD'S will. Amen.
Yeah, I have been telling myself that they were the catalyst conveying the message that I need to take care of myself. But i keep going back to the thought that CHANGE and REALIZATION should come from within. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT CHANGE. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT REALIZE.
God loves us so much that he gave us free will to experience duality.
Yes i have been told that my mother in law did this to my husband. He was only 16 i think at the time. Shes an absolute monster. She told all her children she only had them to look after her in old age.
Such a selfish reason to have a child 😢
There is no peace for the wicked.
Thank you for sharing your strength wisdom & love.
I tried to escape from them my whole life and even moved to a new town but now they have followed me 😢 so very frustrating and depressing.
I'm a born again Christian and I do believe God will punish them in His due time.
Move further away again. It's cheaper to live in another country with less crime. God bless you
I am also a Christian. I was abused by my father in law and sister in law. My father in law has died and his daughter is doing it now. Last night she laid into me again. This time, instead of trying to figure everything out I just walked the floor praising the Prince of Peace. I called the peace of Christ into my home and worshiped God who promised to never leave me or forsake me. I was able to sleep and the peace of Christ has guarded my heart today. I can even pray for my sister in law because my struggle is not against her. It is against the evil spirits of lying, chaos, and abuse that she is listening to. Jesus is my Shepherd, my Rock, my Strong Tower, my Deliverer, my Peace, my Salvation, my Healer, and my Friend who sticks closer than a brother.
@naowright9308 Yes, Jesus will help us get away for good. I hope and pray you are planning to have a safe place to hide from her and it would be best to report her behavior to the police and file a restraining order. Sometimes that is what it has to come to. There is criminals out there that have demonic spirits in them no doubt. They need help and some need jail time so they stop hurting others. God Bless You!
@loveoftruth9531 Thank you. She has not done anything that she could be arrested for. Besides, my husband would be furious if I filed a restraining order. She is his second mother because she usurped her mother's position in the family. It is the standard sticky situation where it's all for one and one for all. But that does not negate Jesus.
Please be very careful. You may have to get a restraining order. When the narc feels betrayed, stalking is not out of the question for them
Thank You Jesus for Justice + Vindication. 🔥🔥🔥
They ran away from me and taking Accountability.
But, they can’t run from God 😊😁😁✨🔥🔥🔥
Merry Christmas, y’all.
The student becomes the master.
Although I can see in your case you are the master of your universe.
Of course the Almighty is the master of us or not our earthly father .
I am grateful, regardless of any trespasses that have been put upon me or I have subjected myself to knowingly ..
I can now say I understand I am not a saviour..
Just a conduit ..😊
Thank you for your teachings as well as your perseverance ..
I heard some people say they haven't any need for inspiration..
I don't believe them, I feel we all need inspiration/love ..🌟🌎🌟🌍🌟🌏🌟
Over the years, I gradually saw the karma come back and bite my narcissistic mother in the butt. God showed me that He saw EVERYTHING SINGLE THING she did to me - and He designed the exit strategy to finally get away from the mom-ster and go NO CONTACT. I shifted to higher frequencies and now it's my time to fulfill His purpose and experience the blessings.
I was just thinking about it this morning that when God will give justice to me because of these narcissists in my life. Here is the answer from the Lord through your video. I take this as God's assurance for me.
I totally agree with ur points n May Allah do punish such envious people who destroy n ruin others life.ameen
Thanks for this powerful and insightful video. I am thankful that you were able to escape from your father's abuse and recover. I think God had a plan and purpose for your pain. I believe that you are living proof of how good and light overcomes darkness and evil. I believe that the narcissists eternity will be darkness and separation from God and Love. Unfortunately, I believe their eternity will be one of immense pain. Thank you Danish for helping us all to heal bit by bit. ❤🩹 May God bless you abundantly.🙏📿
In "Bhagwat Gita", Lord Shree Krishna has assured the same .....And this is the ultimate truth .....🙏🏻
A narcissist get what's coming to them AND it doesn't result in my incarceration? That's a win-win. Thanks Danish!!🤣
So thankful I don't have to wear orange and they're being rid of 😂❤
😂😂😂😂😂
Sometimes the person they left you for is their downfall. Noting seems to move or work out in their favor. Cause the empath or God chosen came with Favours, Light , .Grace. Mercy. We came with a table full of goodies but greed for flesh , money, validation, superior, ect have them has nothing but struggles, hardships and curses for what they did.
My sister recently passed away from cancer,when I went to visit her, she was talking to my mom who passed away in 1985 and she was talking to my brother and sister who passed away and she looked happy to see them
I seek revenge on no one.
This is powerful, Danish. It really is.
These things are something we can expect to see. Especially when we leave and go no contact. They don't have us to take it out on. They disintegrate. Hopefully, in a short time.
My hope, wish, and prayer for every one of us is to: •successfully go no contact; •heal in body, mind, & spirit; and •have the life God intended for us to have without that narc.
Wishing everyone a healthy, safe, happy 2025!🌟☺️
narcissists will be punished by having around only others narcissist. they will be getting the same treatment they are currently giving others. We will be free because we don' t believe anyone have right to treat people like they do. They believe they have this right so they are admitting others this kind of power over themselves.
I thought no one can understand my feelings until i found your channel.. I doubt if i went crazy on my thoughts but got a clearity from ur channel.u save my mental health
Ya,Danish ,my narssistic husband met with horrible accidents.but he is not ready to accept that he suffered because of his cold treatment he was giving us.
In his time is the key statement. After your decades are past, your consolation prize is you get to say "I learned a lesson"! Oh joy....
True.....but I regret it took tooo much time for me and his children to recognize what was actually happening to all of us at the hands of a very sick person who portrayed himself as a winner of everything but is actually in the end the big loser !!!
Best comments ever👍I can relate to all 5 points. My narcissist mother now has my 3 narcissist sibling giving her the same treatment as she has been giving me (60). They exploited her financially to the bones and are (all 3) now facing their elderly age (58-62) in financial (and mental) poverty. What did I do different? I worked for my living🤔
I experienced the same. My mother triangulated a relative against me, so that she could gain money that I found out I was supposed to inherit. It worked out okay, because now that relative.... is in charge of taking care of her, and all those funds are going to her memory care. And as for myself, after 5 decades of financial abuse, she basically triangulated me out of any further financial responsibiity for her anymore. It backfired on her. Badly. She's been hoovering me for the past year, but I can't help her anymore. She drained me so badly. I am saving all my resources to take care of my kids.... ya know.... like SHE didn't do. LOL! Find good people. Love them. Work hard, and do good things. And the narcs will take care of themselves. (or not!)
Mine got his from the Lord. Had massive stroke. Laid on kitchen floor for 4 hours. In a nursing home. Karma is a bitch, and God works in mysterious wYs.
🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much Danish for being such a wonderful support . God bless you!
My ugly hearted narcissist dad passed at 93. I never saw him have to pay for his sociopath/ psychopath behavior.
Yup!!! I've seen that too. People doing HORRIBLE things their whole life and things go well until their last breath.
Are you sure they really don’t feel guilty after all? Narcissists are masters at wearing a mask and they can until their last breath. It must be suffocating to live a life of such lies. Life is brutal and honest.
You guys might think
those narcs you knew
never got served here
on Earth. Hell awaits!
I'm 6 months out of a very abusive covert narcissistic marriage, first Christmas alone, and my ex step son came across the state to spend it with me, because he is seeing that I wasn't the problem, and he has been manipulated to believe I was the worst person on the planet. My ex wife is sleeping in the bed she made, and I hate the fact that, it makes me happy she is being abandoned by almost everyone she's tried to turn on me.
Absolutely, I was their wife, the mother, the caregiver when he FAKED having cancer, I am the home owner. OMG, and when I had a real heart attack from his stress, he never once even came to the ER at the hospital,. You are soooo Correct. Thank you, BLESSINGS 🙌 🙏
My distant relatives got what my family went through after 30 years. Almost mirror image. Difference is we still show them empathy now but they were missing and hiding from our lives.
Yes I see a lot of these weird responses and paranoia in my coworker. I am asking God to release me from this stressful life. Thanks for your guidance.❤
Merry Christmas, Danish! Your work has been an IMMENSE blessing to a great many people.
When you live a life at the expense of others, it will definitely come back to you.
Thanks for your encouraging words, Danish !!!
Thank you for this message on Christmas Day, Danish! So very healing! The narc's actions that destroy others while protecting themselves in every way is galling and disgusting! To survive, I left the country to find my life 4 years ago and just recently found a small group of friends I can trust. And God shows us the path if we are listening and aware. Courage is automatic as you move away from the madness of those who care nothing for you! And alas, I am at peace with my life. I had ur videos and ur brilliant words to help sustain me, Danish! U truly are a reflection of the lessons of Jesus as he lived on earth. He made the ultimate sacrifice of crucifixion and death, so we could live to understand our purpose and live in peace. In the name of Jesus Christ, the Anointed One, i thank you from the bottom of my heart.for ur magnanimity, genius and compassion for those of us who have suffered by the hand of the demon.. The blessings and the power of Jesus are within you to help us, Danish. Let us celebrate Christmas and give thanks all of our days. ❤
Thank You I needed this today thank you!!🤗❤️
Have a happy New Year everyone! ❤
I get the paranoia thing. If I said NO to my sister, she'd assume that I was just trying to hurt her. Then I'd get a strong of txts and phone calls from family and friends, all of them berating me and telling me how wrong I was, I should stop being selfish, my sister is so upset, etcetera etcetera, not once letting me tell my side or even answer the many questions they'd shout at me. Weeks, sometimes months later, the topic would come up after my sister 'forgot' she'd convinced the entire family I'd let her down and the truth slipped out.
Did they ever apologise to me? No. Did she ever apologise to me? Or course not. Instead I'd be berated and told some variation of 'Oh you know what she's like, just let it go, stop going on about it, you're always moaning about something..' Rinse and repeat.
Then when I finally went no contact, she couldn't understand why - but still thought sending family members (that she'd systematically distanced me from) to check up on me was a good idea. They weren't there to check up on me or even hear me out, they were just waiting for certain verbal cues to jump on so they could berate me some more.
The one question families like mine hate is; "If you know what they're like, why do you keep believing their bull $hit?" They can't handle such logic! They also dislike being given a firm: "How is it my fault that this person is too embarrassed to tell the truth? It's not my responsibility to act as their moral compass every time they're told NO."
Danish I enjoy hearing about your past, it resonates deeply, thank you
Merry Narc free Christmas ❤ spent the day worshiping Jesus, playing with my newborn baby, eating homemade pot pie and helping my 2 year old son assemble hot wheels tracks. God is good.
Yes, merry narc free Christmas😅😅😅😅
My father hated me with a passion no matter what i did the way he acted towards me the verbal abuse, stealing my things he did so much foul things.
All narcisisst have a among many demonic entities and they have a spirit of fear that is connected to paranoia they are very tragic and sad.
I am very worried for my nars sister! I can only pray! God bless you for these insights.
Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
Narcissist never have peace.
Blessed Christmas to you, Danish!
Mine died a horrible cancer death. He went from being an ordained minister to a family sexual predator, porn addict and alcoholic - looking to self-,treat his miserable soul.
Very informative respected Sir!
I hate myself for being maternal. As selfish as this sounds, everything is a transaction. Everyone of us need to believe this. I didn't want any transaction with that bad person. So, I chose the better alternative, which was being maternal, as I didn't want my marriage to end.
Thank You so so much. 🙏
Merry Christmas Danish☺
God bless you my friend
Yes ❤! When the time comes those wicked people have to answer to our Lord God and Savior Yeshua, for their WICKED behavior. SO FEAR ONLY GOD. Have faith in God. He will take care of it. AMEN 🙏
I pray for my mother and ex husband I had a life of hell now thanks to the education u give us iam free learn to said no
Danish, May God bless you more and more! And please continue to bless those who need the wisdom, education, and support that comes through your work. My family is sociopathic, and those who might be less on the scale, well, they do not practice honest self help or introspection. The practice of devious manipulation and pathological lying is rampant. No, I won't judge their hearts. But, thankful for the help of God, I do not participate anymore in reacting to the insane fakery.
My son has become a Narcissist like his wife. He's a totally different person than he was before he met her. 😢
I understand. My mother in law is a narcissist, her daughter is exactly the same. Its terrifying.
Yes I have a son who married a hateful selfish greedy one. He’s nothing as he was kind and good before marrying her.
I witnessed my covert husband's end of life as I gave him hospice st home. The last 3 years of his life he was very unhappy and depressed. He said to me as he aged, "I used to be good looking.". Accepting the aging of his body was horrible for him. He had clearly retreated from me as I aged, but when he realized he too was aging he became jealous or incredulous that looked more youthful than he did. He was called the " iron man" by his golf partners, then he suffered a back operation that didn't go well and left him in horrible pain, he fell and had another back operation which increased his pain, he needed a walking chair he had to depend on me eventually for basic hygiene and I became "a bitch" in his mind. He raged terribly and the bully revealed itself. Finally 10 brain tumors were discovered and as he lost his speech and cognition he became isolated and died one month after diagnosis. I saw pure evil in his uncomfortable in peaceful death. He refused any spiritual relief.
I believe for those who try to hide that anything is wrong are being mentally tormented. Thats why a lot of them develop addictions bc they are trying to escape whats going on in their heads
Merry Christmas DANISH ❄️🙏☃️🧑🎄🎁🎄⛄🌨️🇺🇸
My brothers wife is Narcissist. She said her kids were investment!
My father thought he was going to turn all my family against me and leave me with nothing .. so.. then I would have only him .. he has been trying for 6 years to get me to go back around him and get me under his control .. but I will not!
Thank you, Danish. Your videos are great! I wish you a blessed Christmas and a wonderful new year!
I watched a video of Sanjeev Malik and he said the same thing that evil people see god of death (image changes as per their belief but they see a horrendous being) while people whose awareness is high they are asked by angels and others while their life reviews are being shown to them what they could have done different and sent to the next life to improve it.These evil people face the worst imaginable punishments by god of death(we call Yamraj in INDIA)
and when their souls are purified by dangerous punishments like getting boiled in oil etc ,they get life of lower species as they were not worthy of living as a human being again.
I had a narcissistic husband 😮😒 .. we are separated now.
He still tries his best to keep torturing me from far too ..mentally.
This is exactly what narcissists do. You are lucky and very strong to have got rid of him.
It needs a very bold and strong personality, to be able to get rid of a narcissistic person.
You were in a close relationship with him, can well understand how bad it must have been for you.