I really needed this today. I woke up crying because it seems I live in constant pain and he’s out there living his best life. Thank you and Merry Christmas
Narcissists do reap what they sow. Mine died this year. After ending up on the streets for a couple of years because of his reckless lifestyle, he was taken in by a kind woman who offered him shelter and became his girlfriend. A few months later, being the ungrateful bastard that he was, he was already trying to hoover me while still being with her. But it didn't last long. Not even a year after, he died. It's ironic that he often wished death upon others and used to say, 'RIP No one will remember you.' The truth is, he's the one that died alone, estranged from his family. And he wasn't even old, he was 40.
That sounds like it’d be a common fate for narcs-they have everything, yet squander it all, and end up alone with nothing, as they deserve. 😂 Narcs will tell you (if they’re honest) that they always feel like the other shoe’s gonna drop, because their actions lead to their discard by anyone who’s not hopelessly codependent.
God commands we pray for them that their Souls will wise up and stop the abuse and lies. We don't have to allow more abuse or trust them. God still loves them and they are given time to repent and also turn away from needing to be above others. This life is a school....we all have lessons to learn. I had to learn to Trust God first in all things and not to trust what people say or demand from us. Liars trust other liars. Don't be like them or around them.
I can never pray for them and forgive them; it lowers your resilience and you can somehow fall back into a cycle. It happened many times. Its wicked. Some how they know when you pray for them and you are considering them. It is just another trap. Of course we don't wish bad.
I listen to you very attentively because every word you say is true. You have helped me understand narcissism better. I thought I was the only one enduring this turmoil but realized there are so many people out there dealing with narcissistic people. Thank you for all the incredible content. God bless🙏
I am so grateful for your videos Danish. You are such a blessing. I've had the worst Christmas Day ever with the narcissist in my life. He sabotaged the whole day for no reason and projected all his bad behaviour onto me. It's been sheer hell. I'm so done with him, I'm determined to find my own place next year. 😢
@adventuresofkatekat Thank you so much for your lovely message. It's been a day from hell, but I'll focus on looking for a new home. I hope you've had a lovely Christmas day. 🎄🎁🎅
I agree with all the points mentioned, and wanted to add that for those who own ample material wealth till their death, and even have people surrounding them who love them, not one single narcissist will EVER be able to experience FEELING wealthy or loved, and THAT is their punishment in life. Too much is never enough for them, because they’re dead inside, so it doesn’t matter how much you give them-they’ll always be EMPTY. Never envy a narcissist because they don’t feel rich or lucky, even if they are. And if you may struggle with various things or have very modest material means, if you possess love within you, and have talents, interests, passions, etc., and are able to appreciate EVERYTHING you have, YOU are the wealthy one-YOU are the lucky one, and that’s why they’re jealous of you. People who actually FEEL fortunate for their blessings, firstly see them as such, and don’t go around life having contempt for others. They’re high-vibrational, have an attitude of gratitude, and likely want to share & spread their wealth to others who have less-that is the natural order for those who aren’t disregulated.
Witnessed this journey: 30 year marriage with covert Narc Wife and I was ignorant of all the usual symptoms. Just after I’d finally left, Doctors found stage 5 cancer and I became her Hospice care. Little communication, just a sad, lost look. Died in front of me with a look of terror frozen on her face. My grief was that memory, along with “what could have been”. My best gift from God since has been my surrender to him and making myself better. Lotsa scars, lotsa faith. Thank you God. Thank you Christmas.❤
Yes i have been told that my mother in law did this to my husband. He was only 16 i think at the time. Shes an absolute monster. She told all her children she only had them to look after her in old age.
I remember a lady before her death to covid would say i see a lot of insects crawling over my body. And she would starting acting like she is cleaning her hands. This is a person that leaved a lavish life with given so much respect , but treated some of her siblings (the poor ones) horrible. Happy holidays
What I love is that Jesus is called the Prince of Peace. Last night, the narcissist attacked me. Normally, I would be in an emotional mess right now. Last night, I did something different during the sleepless moments afterwards. During the time when I would normally be ruminating about all that was said and trying to get myself back on my feet, I walked the floor praising Jesus the Prince of Peace. I thanked Him for His peace in my house. It took a little while, but I was able to go to sleep, sleep well, and woke up with a note of victory in my spirit. This holiday, Christmas, commemorates the birth of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. Let us get our revenge by inviting the peace of Christ into our lives and be untouchable to the demonic spirits of chaos, anxiety, and turmoil in the narcissist.
My first Cristmas alone without my drunk narcessistic famely. It hurts so much but I stay in peace now .i was always afraid to go ,they use violence too when they are drunk.
If your experience is anything like mine, the pain you feel is likely based on YOUR IDEA of what your family SHOULD have been, and all the time and relationships squandered by those terrible family members of yours. Trust me, it is much better to BE alone than to WISH you were. Your biggest challenge now will be to learn how to not be attracted to others who are similar to your family because we all gravitate towards what's familiar. We must learn to be attracted to better people. Onward and upward, my friend!
It takes time but gets easier every time , trust me the first one is rough, the second one less so. I’m on three and muuuuuch happier than stuck in some dystopian nightmare, putting up fronts and waiting for drama. I’m freeeeeee!!!!
I agree ... I know a man who was a philanderer ... had narcissistic tendencies ... destroyed his family to pursue his 'passions' ... died miserable, depressed, and lonely and with a lot of unresolved guilt ... he was my father ... God gave him chance after chance after chance and then said: that's it ... your time is up ... he died in a foreign land far far far away from his loved ones and surrounded by people who probably didn't care about him ... he lived large but died teeny weeny ... a word to the wise: take note and take cover ... God's justice is sometimes sudden and often poetic and when He takes aim, He does not miss ...
Thanks for this powerful and insightful video. I am thankful that you were able to escape from your father's abuse and recover. I think God had a plan and purpose for your pain. I believe that you are living proof of how good and light overcomes darkness and evil. I believe that the narcissists eternity will be darkness and separation from God and Love. Unfortunately, I believe their eternity will be one of immense pain. Thank you Danish for helping us all to heal bit by bit. ❤🩹 May God bless you abundantly.🙏📿
I tried to escape from them my whole life and even moved to a new town but now they have followed me 😢 so very frustrating and depressing. I'm a born again Christian and I do believe God will punish them in His due time.
I am also a Christian. I was abused by my father in law and sister in law. My father in law has died and his daughter is doing it now. Last night she laid into me again. This time, instead of trying to figure everything out I just walked the floor praising the Prince of Peace. I called the peace of Christ into my home and worshiped God who promised to never leave me or forsake me. I was able to sleep and the peace of Christ has guarded my heart today. I can even pray for my sister in law because my struggle is not against her. It is against the evil spirits of lying, chaos, and abuse that she is listening to. Jesus is my Shepherd, my Rock, my Strong Tower, my Deliverer, my Peace, my Salvation, my Healer, and my Friend who sticks closer than a brother.
@naowright9308 Yes, Jesus will help us get away for good. I hope and pray you are planning to have a safe place to hide from her and it would be best to report her behavior to the police and file a restraining order. Sometimes that is what it has to come to. There is criminals out there that have demonic spirits in them no doubt. They need help and some need jail time so they stop hurting others. God Bless You!
@loveoftruth9531 Thank you. She has not done anything that she could be arrested for. Besides, my husband would be furious if I filed a restraining order. She is his second mother because she usurped her mother's position in the family. It is the standard sticky situation where it's all for one and one for all. But that does not negate Jesus.
We may want to get justice for a narcissist, but God knows better what kind of decision to take, sometimes Him not giving a visible justice is the hardest condemnation possible because the narc wont have a chance to see their wrongdoing and repent while they r still alive.
Mine got his from the Lord. Had massive stroke. Laid on kitchen floor for 4 hours. In a nursing home. Karma is a bitch, and God works in mysterious wYs.
Thank You Jesus for Justice + Vindication. 🔥🔥🔥 They ran away from me and taking Accountability. But, they can’t run from God 😊😁😁✨🔥🔥🔥 Merry Christmas, y’all.
I was just thinking about it this morning that when God will give justice to me because of these narcissists in my life. Here is the answer from the Lord through your video. I take this as God's assurance for me.
So true Danish. God is a God of Justice and Judgement. Thank God he has set me free from 34 years suffering. Compliment of the season. Jesus is indeed faithful. We must cleave to Him. God bless
Merry Narc free Christmas ❤ spent the day worshiping Jesus, playing with my newborn baby, eating homemade pot pie and helping my 2 year old son assemble hot wheels tracks. God is good.
Ya,Danish ,my narssistic husband met with horrible accidents.but he is not ready to accept that he suffered because of his cold treatment he was giving us.
I have no desire for revenge. I only want to keep my blessings. Despite everything I endured in this relationship it has helped my faith grow. As long as I am right with God I know my life is in the best care and keeping 💛
Yeah, I have been telling myself that they were the catalyst conveying the message that I need to take care of myself. But i keep going back to the thought that CHANGE and REALIZATION should come from within. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT CHANGE. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT REALIZE.
I hate myself for being maternal. As selfish as this sounds, everything is a transaction. Everyone of us need to believe this. I didn't want any transaction with that bad person. So, I chose the better alternative, which was being maternal, as I didn't want my marriage to end.
I AM A GOOD PERSON, I deserve best things. I will be adamant about preserving my identity. I won't accept what happened to me. :) Yeah, u all heard me right?!
The student becomes the master. Although I can see in your case you are the master of your universe. Of course the Almighty is the master of us or not our earthly father . I am grateful, regardless of any trespasses that have been put upon me or I have subjected myself to knowingly .. I can now say I understand I am not a saviour.. Just a conduit ..😊 Thank you for your teachings as well as your perseverance .. I heard some people say they haven't any need for inspiration.. I don't believe them, I feel we all need inspiration/love ..🌟🌎🌟🌍🌟🌏🌟
God is Just God will Not be mocked- He laughs at them- He is fair He loves them but Hes not stupid like the narc thinks we are- sometimes i think they justify their abuse because others do get back at them and they need a "pet" to kick- I need to learn about boundaries and remove myself/be ok with doing what i need to protect myself❤
I watched a video of Sanjeev Malik and he said the same thing that evil people see god of death (image changes as per their belief but they see a horrendous being) while people whose awareness is high they are asked by angels and others while their life reviews are being shown to them what they could have done different and sent to the next life to improve it.These evil people face the worst imaginable punishments by god of death(we call Yamraj in INDIA) and when their souls are purified by dangerous punishments like getting boiled in oil etc ,they get life of lower species as they were not worthy of living as a human being again.
Over the years, I gradually saw the karma come back and bite my narcissistic mother in the butt. God showed me that He saw EVERYTHING SINGLE THING she did to me - and He designed the exit strategy to finally get away from the mom-ster and go NO CONTACT. I shifted to higher frequencies and now it's my time to fulfill His purpose and experience the blessings.
My father kept seeing a white light coming to fetch him and he kept asking for his forth friend to come to carry him in the final funeral pyre he passed away in 2000, my mother kept having visions of my father calling her and come to fetch her, she passed away in 2018, my 3rd aunt kept seeing my mother calling her to go with her, she passed away last Sunday.
Thank you Danish Bashir. True, toxic narcissistic people will never experience peace in their life and during death because they never choose to offer that peace to anyone else, when they were alive. 🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
Danish, May God bless you more and more! And please continue to bless those who need the wisdom, education, and support that comes through your work. My family is sociopathic, and those who might be less on the scale, well, they do not practice honest self help or introspection. The practice of devious manipulation and pathological lying is rampant. No, I won't judge their hearts. But, thankful for the help of God, I do not participate anymore in reacting to the insane fakery.
My mother in laws also goes on & on about her dead mum being cross with her. That shes been cursed & horrid dreams shes going to be murdered & scared to go to sleep at night.
🙂Hi Danish. I agree with your points about the crazy narcissists. They're usually very wealthy & look down on anyone, including family, who don't agree with their 😈 evil ways. Thanks for another interesting & also educational video. Happy holidays & see you on the next one🎄🎁🥳🎉🎊, ✌🏻peace, Miss Janine🌴🧸🫶🪐✨️
The LORD gives them chance after chance to repent so when judgment comes there are ZERO excuses. A entire lifetime wasted being evil. My family sounds similar to yours, Danish. God bless you in Jesus name.
I think that many people forget that death is the great equalizer. Rich or poor, good or bad, we all must face our own mortality and judgment. If God says "vengence is mine", we can trust that he will take his rightious vengence when it is due. And so we don't have to concern ourselves with the fates of the unjust. And I don't mean that they will or won't suffer with any certiantly. But that their fates are beyond our understanding, and as such, there is no need for us to spend any time or energy focusing on such people. We can accept the gift of peace instead. All things in this world, good or bad, come to an end. We are living and experiencing the finite right now. And I think that it can be very comforting to know that this isn't forever.
God has removed my narcissistic mother and the coward across the screen My life has been saved by grace. Forever grateful for it. God is good. Needed to learn about this (NPD) he is dating openly and still emailing me …insane? 2025 looks normal and blessed. Thank you Jesus amen
If God punishes narcissists, it's clear proof that he exists. I am discarded by the vulnerable narcissist and is poor and helpless now. But I am an atheist. If the vulnerable narcissist is punished, I will believe God exists
Perhaps they can be change its just they CHOOSE not to get change time after time or perhaps the devil has made them blind. Whatever the reason we dont know since narcs r never honest to honestly answer a question ‘why do you hurt people time after time when u r fully aware what u r doing?’ God’s punishment is for all of us narcs and not to repent and change. He hopes they finally repent time after time. Because God never loses hope to save their souls.
@@yuu_miran I agree with you on that. It’s trusting in the Lord. And in His word, he says, Vengeance is mine says the Lord. Unless you have been around a true narcissist, the question this viewer posted is valid no matter what faith you are in. The hope is they do change, yet seldomly it happens. That’s why I am thankful for Danish and his knowledge on how to understand the narcissist and strategies on how to confront or ignore them.
narcissists will be punished by having around only others narcissist. they will be getting the same treatment they are currently giving others. We will be free because we don' t believe anyone have right to treat people like they do. They believe they have this right so they are admitting others this kind of power over themselves.
Danish question : I noticed another pattern and was curious if you picked up on this too. Some of these types of people speak in such a hard way, but will do my best to describe in text They are often a bit more soft spoken. Least at first, feminate voice sorta? It seems, their this very specific pattern, acrossed males and females both no less, that have this carry on in their voice No voice is wrong, but it is how they use it. Seems like it has the illusion of sweet but I feel unerved when I hear it, everytime. Say one wrong thing, feels they will attack ordeal None of these people knew each other, but yet, each person I ran acrossed with this specific speech pattern, was rather alarming and curious if you know what I mean or anyone here else had noticed this too? Could be I am over paranoid now. Course I never just act soon as I hear it, but I go, "Goodness, hope I am wrong." Gets to be hard to tell sometimes and worried I am being too jumpy Anyway, thank you to anyone who wanted to read this and curious if anyone else noticed this too
@Sadi-oh1jh Not all sweet voices have it though. Like there is actual good people too, but there is a specific carry on, does that make sense? There is like a hallmark way they do it. Because it actually creates anxiety. It is wild =/
My narc sister-in-law, a former male friend who was a narc, and to some extent my psychopathic father all have/had similar tone and delivery and expressions. I think it might be evoking an uncanny valley response in you because in your soul you’re recognizing it is off and fake.
@C12341 Yeah, it sounds like you might know the tone o_o Because it is a certain "type" of sweet tone. Not like example the good old lady down the street it is just. God wish there was a better way to convey, but sounds like I am not the only one. Two confirming. Everytime I hear it. I just stop dead in my tracks. Going, please not again, not them too. But no matter my inner thoughts, always let them proove themselves otherwise, but so far, has been right sadly Thank you for the responces!
Have a pleasant Christmas day away from any narcs 🎄🎁🎅🏻🥛
13th Christmas 🎄 without family squabbles & nasty underhanded narc jabs.
Go no contact - get peace 🕊️ in return! ❤
I really needed this today. I woke up crying because it seems I live in constant pain and he’s out there living his best life. Thank you and Merry Christmas
Blessings to you today
And in 2025. You will heal! ❤️🩹
He's not living a good life, they are never satisfied.
I am not sure if your pain is emotional or physical, but I wish you peace and love today, tomorrow, and for the rest of your days. ❤
Im in the samw dituation today😢
@Totbatot6774 🤗🫂 Sending virtual hugs to you
I've noticed the narcissists want their victims to struggle & have absolutely nothing without them.
Yes, they do and they go out of their way to take anything left from you.
@@sickofcrap8992 @yabuzagardens366 My parents exactly.
Narcissists do reap what they sow. Mine died this year. After ending up on the streets for a couple of years because of his reckless lifestyle, he was taken in by a kind woman who offered him shelter and became his girlfriend. A few months later, being the ungrateful bastard that he was, he was already trying to hoover me while still being with her. But it didn't last long. Not even a year after, he died. It's ironic that he often wished death upon others and used to say, 'RIP No one will remember you.' The truth is, he's the one that died alone, estranged from his family. And he wasn't even old, he was 40.
That sounds like it’d be a common fate for narcs-they have everything, yet squander it all, and end up alone with nothing, as they deserve. 😂
Narcs will tell you (if they’re honest) that they always feel like the other shoe’s gonna drop, because their actions lead to their discard by anyone who’s not hopelessly codependent.
Sad❤
God commands we pray for them that their Souls will wise up and stop the abuse and lies. We don't have to allow more abuse or trust them. God still loves them and they are given time to repent and also turn away from needing to be above others. This life is a school....we all have lessons to learn. I had to learn to Trust God first in all things and not to trust what people say or demand from us. Liars trust other liars. Don't be like them or around them.
Exactly
They NEVER repent!
I don’t pray for them anymore
Liars trust other liars... Soooo true.💯🎯 Also says a lot about the U. S., but that's another video.🤷🏾♀️
@@Yvonne_isastrongone🎯👏🏾
I can never pray for them and forgive them; it lowers your resilience and you can somehow fall back into a cycle. It happened many times. Its wicked. Some how they know when you pray for them and you are considering them. It is just another trap. Of course we don't wish bad.
I listen to you very attentively because every word you say is true. You have helped me understand narcissism better. I thought I was the only one enduring this turmoil but realized there are so many people out there dealing with narcissistic people. Thank you for all the incredible content. God bless🙏
My father wad in a coma and my hateful brother was gloating to think that I could not say goodby.He woke from the coma and addressed me lovingly.
I am so grateful for your videos Danish. You are such a blessing. I've had the worst Christmas Day ever with the narcissist in my life. He sabotaged the whole day for no reason and projected all his bad behaviour onto me. It's been sheer hell. I'm so done with him, I'm determined to find my own place next year. 😢
I’m so sorry to hear this, I wish you well and hopefully next year you will have the peaceful and fantastic Christmas you deserve 🎄✨
@adventuresofkatekat Thank you so much for your lovely message. It's been a day from hell, but I'll focus on looking for a new home. I hope you've had a lovely Christmas day. 🎄🎁🎅
A narcissist get what's coming to them AND it doesn't result in my incarceration? That's a win-win. Thanks Danish!!🤣
I agree with all the points mentioned, and wanted to add that for those who own ample material wealth till their death, and even have people surrounding them who love them, not one single narcissist will EVER be able to experience FEELING wealthy or loved, and THAT is their punishment in life.
Too much is never enough for them, because they’re dead inside, so it doesn’t matter how much you give them-they’ll always be EMPTY. Never envy a narcissist because they don’t feel rich or lucky, even if they are. And if you may struggle with various things or have very modest material means, if you possess love within you, and have talents, interests, passions, etc., and are able to appreciate EVERYTHING you have, YOU are the wealthy one-YOU are the lucky one, and that’s why they’re jealous of you.
People who actually FEEL fortunate for their blessings, firstly see them as such, and don’t go around life having contempt for others. They’re high-vibrational, have an attitude of gratitude, and likely want to share & spread their wealth to others who have less-that is the natural order for those who aren’t disregulated.
Very well said.
In Gods time....justice will be done.
How to attract other empaths? Please make a video about this. I am sick of attracting narcicists. I am rather alone
Witnessed this journey: 30 year marriage with covert Narc Wife and I was ignorant of all the usual symptoms. Just after I’d finally left, Doctors found stage 5 cancer and I became her Hospice care. Little communication, just a sad, lost look. Died in front of me with a look of terror frozen on her face. My grief was that memory, along with “what could have been”. My best gift from God since has been my surrender to him and making myself better. Lotsa scars, lotsa faith. Thank you God. Thank you Christmas.❤
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God bless your healing and thriving
God Bless you Roger. I pray you will find love and healing. Best heartfelt wishes on your journey.
Wtf dude...
Through all your suffering God led you to Him. May He continue to bless you and keep you safe.
Yes i have been told that my mother in law did this to my husband. He was only 16 i think at the time. Shes an absolute monster. She told all her children she only had them to look after her in old age.
Such a selfish reason to have a child 😢
I remember a lady before her death to covid would say i see a lot of insects crawling over my body. And she would starting acting like she is cleaning her hands. This is a person that leaved a lavish life with given so much respect , but treated some of her siblings (the poor ones) horrible. Happy holidays
Thank you for sharing your strength wisdom & love.
In God's time and in His Way. I experienced this.🙌
Thank you sir Danish, In God s time justice will be served to this people.
I totally agree with ur points n May Allah do punish such envious people who destroy n ruin others life.ameen
In his time is the key statement. After your decades are past, your consolation prize is you get to say "I learned a lesson"! Oh joy....
What I love is that Jesus is called the Prince of Peace. Last night, the narcissist attacked me. Normally, I would be in an emotional mess right now. Last night, I did something different during the sleepless moments afterwards. During the time when I would normally be ruminating about all that was said and trying to get myself back on my feet, I walked the floor praising Jesus the Prince of Peace. I thanked Him for His peace in my house. It took a little while, but I was able to go to sleep, sleep well, and woke up with a note of victory in my spirit. This holiday, Christmas, commemorates the birth of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. Let us get our revenge by inviting the peace of Christ into our lives and be untouchable to the demonic spirits of chaos, anxiety, and turmoil in the narcissist.
My first Cristmas alone without my drunk narcessistic famely. It hurts so much but I stay in peace now .i was always afraid to go ,they use violence too when they are drunk.
Soldier on brave warrior
God WILL heal you
BLESSINGS IN 2025
If your experience is anything like mine, the pain you feel is likely based on YOUR IDEA of what your family SHOULD have been, and all the time and relationships squandered by those terrible family members of yours. Trust me, it is much better to BE alone than to WISH you were. Your biggest challenge now will be to learn how to not be attracted to others who are similar to your family because we all gravitate towards what's familiar. We must learn to be attracted to better people. Onward and upward, my friend!
It takes time but gets easier every time , trust me the first one is rough, the second one less so. I’m on three and muuuuuch happier than stuck in some dystopian nightmare, putting up fronts and waiting for drama. I’m freeeeeee!!!!
Thank You so so much. 🙏
Thank you for being the bearer of good news!!! Needed to hear this, this Christmas evening. 🙏
Thanks for your encouraging words, Danish !!!
I agree ... I know a man who was a philanderer ... had narcissistic tendencies ... destroyed his family to pursue his 'passions' ... died miserable, depressed, and lonely and with a lot of unresolved guilt ... he was my father ... God gave him chance after chance after chance and then said: that's it ... your time is up ... he died in a foreign land far far far away from his loved ones and surrounded by people who probably didn't care about him ... he lived large but died teeny weeny ... a word to the wise: take note and take cover ... God's justice is sometimes sudden and often poetic and when He takes aim, He does not miss ...
Danish I enjoy hearing about your past, it resonates deeply, thank you
Thank You I needed this today thank you!!🤗❤️
🙏🙏🙏 Thank you so much Danish for being such a wonderful support . God bless you!
I want justice
More than that, I want to heal! ❤️🩹
Thank you Jesus
Thanks for this powerful and insightful video. I am thankful that you were able to escape from your father's abuse and recover. I think God had a plan and purpose for your pain. I believe that you are living proof of how good and light overcomes darkness and evil. I believe that the narcissists eternity will be darkness and separation from God and Love. Unfortunately, I believe their eternity will be one of immense pain. Thank you Danish for helping us all to heal bit by bit. ❤🩹 May God bless you abundantly.🙏📿
Merry Christmas DANISH ❄️🙏☃️🧑🎄🎁🎄⛄🌨️🇺🇸
I tried to escape from them my whole life and even moved to a new town but now they have followed me 😢 so very frustrating and depressing.
I'm a born again Christian and I do believe God will punish them in His due time.
Move further away again. It's cheaper to live in another country with less crime. God bless you
I am also a Christian. I was abused by my father in law and sister in law. My father in law has died and his daughter is doing it now. Last night she laid into me again. This time, instead of trying to figure everything out I just walked the floor praising the Prince of Peace. I called the peace of Christ into my home and worshiped God who promised to never leave me or forsake me. I was able to sleep and the peace of Christ has guarded my heart today. I can even pray for my sister in law because my struggle is not against her. It is against the evil spirits of lying, chaos, and abuse that she is listening to. Jesus is my Shepherd, my Rock, my Strong Tower, my Deliverer, my Peace, my Salvation, my Healer, and my Friend who sticks closer than a brother.
@naowright9308 Yes, Jesus will help us get away for good. I hope and pray you are planning to have a safe place to hide from her and it would be best to report her behavior to the police and file a restraining order. Sometimes that is what it has to come to. There is criminals out there that have demonic spirits in them no doubt. They need help and some need jail time so they stop hurting others. God Bless You!
@loveoftruth9531 Thank you. She has not done anything that she could be arrested for. Besides, my husband would be furious if I filed a restraining order. She is his second mother because she usurped her mother's position in the family. It is the standard sticky situation where it's all for one and one for all. But that does not negate Jesus.
We may want to get justice for a narcissist, but God knows better what kind of decision to take, sometimes Him not giving a visible justice is the hardest condemnation possible because the narc wont have a chance to see their wrongdoing and repent while they r still alive.
That's the thing. They ALWAYS think karma won't catch up with them. Esp as they start to get older...the grip loosens.
Very informative respected Sir!
Blessed Christmas to you, Danish!
Mine got his from the Lord. Had massive stroke. Laid on kitchen floor for 4 hours. In a nursing home. Karma is a bitch, and God works in mysterious wYs.
Thank You Jesus for Justice + Vindication. 🔥🔥🔥
They ran away from me and taking Accountability.
But, they can’t run from God 😊😁😁✨🔥🔥🔥
Merry Christmas, y’all.
Merry Christmas Danish☺
I was just thinking about it this morning that when God will give justice to me because of these narcissists in my life. Here is the answer from the Lord through your video. I take this as God's assurance for me.
Thank you🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤
So true Danish. God is a God of Justice and Judgement. Thank God he has set me free from 34 years suffering.
Compliment of the season. Jesus is indeed faithful. We must cleave to Him. God bless
Merry Narc free Christmas ❤ spent the day worshiping Jesus, playing with my newborn baby, eating homemade pot pie and helping my 2 year old son assemble hot wheels tracks. God is good.
Ya,Danish ,my narssistic husband met with horrible accidents.but he is not ready to accept that he suffered because of his cold treatment he was giving us.
I have no desire for revenge. I only want to keep my blessings. Despite everything I endured in this relationship it has helped my faith grow. As long as I am right with God I know my life is in the best care and keeping 💛
Yeah, I have been telling myself that they were the catalyst conveying the message that I need to take care of myself. But i keep going back to the thought that CHANGE and REALIZATION should come from within. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT CHANGE. Someone has to convince me that THEY WILL NOT REALIZE.
I hate myself for being maternal. As selfish as this sounds, everything is a transaction. Everyone of us need to believe this. I didn't want any transaction with that bad person. So, I chose the better alternative, which was being maternal, as I didn't want my marriage to end.
That’s right. Amen
Merry Christmas to you 2024! Thank you for your videos you’re the Best online…
I AM A GOOD PERSON, I deserve best things. I will be adamant about preserving my identity. I won't accept what happened to me. :) Yeah, u all heard me right?!
Thank you, Danish. Your videos are great! I wish you a blessed Christmas and a wonderful new year!
The student becomes the master.
Although I can see in your case you are the master of your universe.
Of course the Almighty is the master of us or not our earthly father .
I am grateful, regardless of any trespasses that have been put upon me or I have subjected myself to knowingly ..
I can now say I understand I am not a saviour..
Just a conduit ..😊
Thank you for your teachings as well as your perseverance ..
I heard some people say they haven't any need for inspiration..
I don't believe them, I feel we all need inspiration/love ..🌟🌎🌟🌍🌟🌏🌟
God is Just God will Not be mocked- He laughs at them- He is fair He loves them but Hes not stupid like the narc thinks we are- sometimes i think they justify their abuse because others do get back at them and they need a "pet" to kick- I need to learn about boundaries and remove myself/be ok with doing what i need to protect myself❤
May ALLAH PAK bless you forever, ameen somma ameen.
I watched a video of Sanjeev Malik and he said the same thing that evil people see god of death (image changes as per their belief but they see a horrendous being) while people whose awareness is high they are asked by angels and others while their life reviews are being shown to them what they could have done different and sent to the next life to improve it.These evil people face the worst imaginable punishments by god of death(we call Yamraj in INDIA)
and when their souls are purified by dangerous punishments like getting boiled in oil etc ,they get life of lower species as they were not worthy of living as a human being again.
❤ well said
Merry Christmas, Danish! Your work has been an IMMENSE blessing to a great many people.
Over the years, I gradually saw the karma come back and bite my narcissistic mother in the butt. God showed me that He saw EVERYTHING SINGLE THING she did to me - and He designed the exit strategy to finally get away from the mom-ster and go NO CONTACT. I shifted to higher frequencies and now it's my time to fulfill His purpose and experience the blessings.
My father kept seeing a white light coming to fetch him and he kept asking for his forth friend to come to carry him in the final funeral pyre he passed away in 2000, my mother kept having visions of my father calling her and come to fetch her, she passed away in 2018, my 3rd aunt kept seeing my mother calling her to go with her, she passed away last Sunday.
Thank you Danish Bashir. True, toxic narcissistic people will never experience peace in their life and during death because they never choose to offer that peace to anyone else, when they were alive. 🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
Christine Albright
SPOT ON🙏....
THANK YOU 🙏...
Happy Christmas Danish
Wow, so very true
I haven't talked to my parents in years. My father had triple bypass surgery at 89...still no contact and no guilt.
Danish, May God bless you more and more! And please continue to bless those who need the wisdom, education, and support that comes through your work. My family is sociopathic, and those who might be less on the scale, well, they do not practice honest self help or introspection. The practice of devious manipulation and pathological lying is rampant. No, I won't judge their hearts. But, thankful for the help of God, I do not participate anymore in reacting to the insane fakery.
Thank you Danish for your love and light 🙏💚 I left yesterday… Vengeance is God’s… healing is mine …
So well said. God Bless you on your healing journey.❤
@ thank you 🙏
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Peace to you.🌟
Thanks for sharing Danish. Be very well 🙏🏽✨💯🥰❤️
My mother in laws also goes on & on about her dead mum being cross with her. That shes been cursed & horrid dreams shes going to be murdered & scared to go to sleep at night.
Thank you so much Danish, happy Christmas to you too. 🎄🎉❤️
This is so true frfr
🙂Hi Danish. I agree with your points about the crazy narcissists. They're usually very wealthy & look down on anyone, including family, who don't agree with their 😈 evil ways. Thanks for another interesting & also educational video. Happy holidays & see you on the next one🎄🎁🥳🎉🎊, ✌🏻peace, Miss Janine🌴🧸🫶🪐✨️
The mention on the sun setting on him was actually terrifying...
Merry christmas!
thank you so much for this Danish
The LORD gives them chance after chance to repent so when judgment comes there are ZERO excuses. A entire lifetime wasted being evil. My family sounds similar to yours, Danish. God bless you in Jesus name.
Thank you for making this video
I think that many people forget that death is the great equalizer. Rich or poor, good or bad, we all must face our own mortality and judgment. If God says "vengence is mine", we can trust that he will take his rightious vengence when it is due. And so we don't have to concern ourselves with the fates of the unjust. And I don't mean that they will or won't suffer with any certiantly. But that their fates are beyond our understanding, and as such, there is no need for us to spend any time or energy focusing on such people. We can accept the gift of peace instead.
All things in this world, good or bad, come to an end. We are living and experiencing the finite right now. And I think that it can be very comforting to know that this isn't forever.
God has removed my narcissistic mother and the coward across the screen My life has been saved by grace. Forever grateful for it. God is good. Needed to learn about this (NPD) he is dating openly and still emailing me …insane? 2025 looks normal and blessed. Thank you Jesus amen
If God punishes narcissists, it's clear proof that he exists. I am discarded by the vulnerable narcissist and is poor and helpless now. But I am an atheist. If the vulnerable narcissist is punished, I will believe God exists
They take advantage of love and mercy.
Canada 🇨🇦 people.
Later when become rich they discard u like tissue paper
So true
The narc called me a cheater and childish and argued with me all day on Christmas, and I'm sick! It's been a great day!
God loves us so much that he gave us free will to experience duality.
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
Is it New age sorcery?
Bot sez wut
My son has become a Narcissist like his wife. He's a totally different person than he was before he met her. 😢
Psalm 37 - the whole chapter
Atheist here. Why does God, the universe, whatever punish a narcissist when a narcissist is incapable of change anyway? What purpose does it serve?
I’m a Christian. Praise be the name of God. I wonder the same thing.
Perhaps they can be change its just they CHOOSE not to get change time after time or perhaps the devil has made them blind. Whatever the reason we dont know since narcs r never honest to honestly answer a question ‘why do you hurt people time after time when u r fully aware what u r doing?’ God’s punishment is for all of us narcs and not to repent and change. He hopes they finally repent time after time. Because God never loses hope to save their souls.
@@yuu_miran I agree with you on that. It’s trusting in the Lord. And in His word, he says, Vengeance is mine says the Lord. Unless you have been around a true narcissist, the question this viewer posted is valid no matter what faith you are in. The hope is they do change, yet seldomly it happens. That’s why I am thankful for Danish and his knowledge on how to understand the narcissist and strategies on how to confront or ignore them.
The universe is a mirror, a boomerang.
I just decided... I want a boyfriend that was raised by a narcissist.. because the abuse makes them deep, sensitive and strong!!!
Please make sure he isn’t like my brother, the Golden Child. The generational curse is real.
Mine was... Another narcissist... The same as his mother... I just thought at the beginning, that he was an empath like me... How wrong was I 😢
You do NOT want to have to deal with that narcissistic family when you have kids!!
that's so wrong,no one should suffer like that to be deep ,humble or whatever! No one deserves that!
narcissists will be punished by having around only others narcissist. they will be getting the same treatment they are currently giving others. We will be free because we don' t believe anyone have right to treat people like they do. They believe they have this right so they are admitting others this kind of power over themselves.
Please God
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Danish question : I noticed another pattern and was curious if you picked up on this too.
Some of these types of people speak in such a hard way, but will do my best to describe in text
They are often a bit more soft spoken. Least at first, feminate voice sorta? It seems, their this very specific pattern, acrossed males and females both no less, that have this carry on in their voice
No voice is wrong, but it is how they use it. Seems like it has the illusion of sweet but I feel unerved when I hear it, everytime. Say one wrong thing, feels they will attack ordeal
None of these people knew each other, but yet, each person I ran acrossed with this specific speech pattern, was rather alarming and curious if you know what I mean or anyone here else had noticed this too?
Could be I am over paranoid now. Course I never just act soon as I hear it, but I go, "Goodness, hope I am wrong." Gets to be hard to tell sometimes and worried I am being too jumpy
Anyway, thank you to anyone who wanted to read this and curious if anyone else noticed this too
The women i know figuring narcs, have the sweetess voices and feminine manners. They perform that to better attract supplies i presume.
@Sadi-oh1jh Not all sweet voices have it though. Like there is actual good people too, but there is a specific carry on, does that make sense? There is like a hallmark way they do it. Because it actually creates anxiety. It is wild =/
My narc sister-in-law, a former male friend who was a narc, and to some extent my psychopathic father all have/had similar tone and delivery and expressions. I think it might be evoking an uncanny valley response in you because in your soul you’re recognizing it is off and fake.
@C12341 Yeah, it sounds like you might know the tone o_o Because it is a certain "type" of sweet tone. Not like example the good old lady down the street it is just. God wish there was a better way to convey, but sounds like I am not the only one. Two confirming. Everytime I hear it. I just stop dead in my tracks. Going, please not again, not them too. But no matter my inner thoughts, always let them proove themselves otherwise, but so far, has been right sadly
Thank you for the responces!
You are right, mine is like that. You'd think you talking to an angel.
I see it with my ex she rollin I. Dough rn bough it’s all illegal with a old friend that still living my old ways gave it to God long time ago
Interesting. What is their concept of God, Danish? 🙏
Hindi main bhe karein yeh episode
Being them is the karma